“Does it hurt?” is probably the funniest one to me.
Because I'm Asian and some people are kind of like, “Well, are you gay or are you just Asian?”
I don't like...does that have to be the one or the other?
I don't understand it.
When someone's like, “Well, have you ever had dick before?”,
and I'm like, “Well, I am the type of person that I'm gonna try everything until I say no.”
So I tried it and I didn't like it. They're like, “Oh, they obviously weren't good enough.”
What the fuck do you mean, “they didn't do it right”?
I don't like it. I tried it because I'm the type of person that's like,
“Okay, I'm gonna try everything out one time.”
And I didn't like it. I would literally clap my heels on top of my head, like, “Are you done?”
Or when your friends are drunk, they're like, “Oh, so what sexual positions are you?”
and I'm like, “Okay, really? Do you really need to know that?”
Then you just kind of talk about it.
But then it's just, like, I don't walk up to my straight friends, like “Oh, do you like it in the butt?”
The number one thing that annoys me is “That's gross.”
That's the number one thing that annoys me, especially when it comes to
girl-on-girl, or lesbian, or transgender. Like, that really bothers me.
Even though, you know, some people just are uneducated
and maybe a little ignorant to things.
It's just still very rude to say that somebody is gross or disgusting, just for being who they are.
One thing that kind of gets to me sometimes, even with my friend group, is just, like, casual misgendering.
Growing up, I had really long hair. It was literally down past my nipples at one point.
So I would get offended, when people called me a girl or just even jokingly, in a casual setting.
If people are like, “Are you the boy or the girl in the relationship?”
Something like that really offends me just because I'm like,
“No, regardless of the relationship, if it's two men, two women, or if I have long hair or short hair.
I'm still a man. It's how I identify myself as, there's no reason for any other term to be used.”
“Are you the girl in the relationship?” And I was like, “What does that define?”
I'm a man and a female, but as a queer, I mean, I guess it's always just that...
I don't even know that gung-ho question that everybody wants to know. It's like, “Are you a top or a bottom?”
But are you in a relationship as a straight man, as well?
So I mean it's a play on words that doesn't make sense.
They always associate gender identity with some kind of,
like we're aliens or something like that.
And I'm just like, “We're just as normal as everyone else.”
It doesn't make you a criminal for being who you are.
You know, there's nothing wrong with your orientation.
So, I mean I feel like you guys should just be who you are.
