Have you ever heard of the psychology of ignoring
someone you love?
It sounds pretty crazy, right?
I mean, if you were in a relationship with
a woman you loved, why in the world would
you ignore her?
Well, here’s why.
If you've been my subscriber for a while,
then you know that we're all about dating
psychology here.
And here's one fact that most people never
figure out: If you NEVER ignore your woman,
you'll lose her in the end.
I’ll give you an example.
Imagine three guys with girlfriends.
The first guy NEVER ignores his girl.
He spends ALL his free time with her.
Whenever she needs him, he drops EVERYTHING
he’s doing to be with her.
To him, she’s his PURPOSE in life.
Now, the second guy’s different.
He does nothing BUT ignore his woman.
He never spends enough time with her.
And when she needs him, he’s never around.
And that brings us to the third guy.
This guy strikes a BALANCE between obliging
his girlfriend and ignoring her.
Sometimes, he’s around her and he gives
her the best times of her life.
Other times, he can’t be bothered because
he’s handling more important things.
Now, which girlfriend do you think is the
happiest one?
Believe it or not, it’s the girlfriend of
the THIRD guy.
The one who strikes a balance between obliging
her and ignoring her.
Why?
That’s what we’ll be talking about in
today’s video.
First off, I’ll be explaining to you a secret
“trigger” in the female mind called the
Certainty Principle.
It’s the start and end of the psychology
of ignoring someone you love.
It’s something EVERY guy should know.
Especially if you want to lead a strong, happy
relationship with the woman of your dreams.
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Now let me tell you about the Certainty Principle.
It was discovered by Derek Rake, who is a
San Diego-based Attraction Coach.
He teaches about 17,000 students, to date,
how to lead relationships using Mind Control.
Derek Rake is also the founder of Shogun Method,
the world's first relationship advice system
based on Mind Control.
The Certainty Principle is one of Derek's
more important lessons.
Simply put, the more certain a woman is about
you, the less attracted she feels.
In other words: If you’re someone she can
quickly figure out, she won’t ever feel
in love with you.
Case in point?
Let’s talk about the three boyfriends we
talked about earlier.
The first guy NEVER ignored his girlfriend.
As a result, she figured him out quickly.
She knows he’s needy, clingy, and a doormat.
She feels he’s BENEATH her.
She’s certain of it.
Needless to say, she’ll get disgusted with
him after a while, and the relationship ends.
What about the second guy – the one who
ALWAYS ignored his girlfriend?
The Certainty Principle still applies.
The girl is CERTAIN he’s selfish and uncaring.
And so she’ll dump him faster than you can
say “idiot boyfriend.”
Now, the third guy?
He’s different.
His girlfriend is UNCERTAIN of him.
One moment he’s there, the next moment he
can’t be reached.
He’s a mystery she can’t figure out.
And as a result, her attraction towards him
GROWS.
As long as he stays unpredictable, she will
STAY attracted to him.
And yet when he suddenly becomes more predictable,
her attraction for him fades.
That’s the Certainty Principle.
And that gives rise to the psychology of ignoring
someone you love.
To strategically ignore your woman is a powerful
tool.
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Now, regardless of how you might feel about
it, the fact remains.
If you want to give your relationship its
best chance of success, then you MUST ignore
her.
Of course, you must be strategic about it.
You got to ignore her the RIGHT way.
And for that, I’d like to teach you a little
technique I like to call “Kiss and Make
Up.”
I’ll show you how it works in just a moment.
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Anyway, here’s how the “Kiss and Make
Up” technique works.
The idea is to put your woman on an emotional
rollercoaster.
That is, you put her on alternating cycles
of “emotional highs” and “emotional
lows.”
With special importance on the “emotional
lows.”
Here’s why: Too many guys are SCARED of
giving a woman emotional lows.
They’re worried that they might hurt or
offend her to the point that she loses interest
in them.
Which might be true – if you’re not STRATEGIC
about it.
After all, remember.
If you ONLY give women emotional highs – like
the first guy in our example – then they’ll
get disgusted with you fast.
You want to be like the third guy.
You want to give women emotional rollercoasters.
You want them to see you as mysterious and
hard to figure out.
That’s the secret of the “Kiss and Make
Up” technique.
Here’s an example.
First, you give her an emotional high.
For instance, you go on a great dinner date
one weekend – one where she has lots of
fun with you.
Then you give her an emotional low.
For instance, you plan ANOTHER dinner date
the following weekend.
And yet on the day, you cancel, telling her
you got something more important to do.
And you don’t elaborate.
That’s a big emotional low.
From being excited about going out to dinner,
she now faces the prospect of staying home
on a Saturday night.
She’ll be steaming mad.
And yet you’re not done.
Then you give her the big emotional high again.
Such as by showing up unannounced the following
morning at her apartment.
And you bring her favorite breakfast with
you.
What happens next?
She forgives you, and you Kiss and Make Up.
Mission accomplished.
Got the picture yet?
Or here’s another example.
Let’s say you’re a couple who argues frequently,
and you often let her win.
So first, you do that.
You let her win an argument.
That’s her emotional high.
And then, on your next argument, you just
turn your back and leave.
And you don’t contact her for two days,
or until she apologizes.
That’s her emotional low.
Once she apologizes, you come back and smother
her with affection.
That’s her emotional high.
I hope you got the technique by now.
The Kiss and Make Up technique can rekindle
even the deadest of relationships.
Now, you might be thinking: “But Fredo,
I don’t want to hurt my woman like that.”
Hey, fair enough.
No one likes the idea of hurting anybody,
even if it’s temporary emotional pain that
you’ll make up for later anyway.
So if that’s how you feel, I suggest you
take a slightly different strategy.
One that’s less dangerous than inflicting
emotional pain, but just as effective, if
not more so.
Instead of pain, you inflict emotional STRESS
on her – and relieve it later on.
And to do that, you can use a second technique:
One that’s called Fractionation.
It’s basically a way to talk to women that
slowly and steadily gets them HOOKED on you.
And by that, I mean totally emotionally ADDICTED
to you.
It also involves putting her on emotional
highs and lows.
And yet since you’re only using words, you’ll
be inflicting emotional stress instead of
pain.
In fact, if you're new here, I recommend you
try Fractionation first.
It's the most powerful technique that we learn
inside the Shogun Method community.
So let me invite you to a special Online Masterclass
on Mind Control.
It’s the best place to learn and master
Fractionation, simply because it’ll be given
to you by Derek Rake himself.
How do you join?
Just click on the link that you’ll see at
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Make sure you use your best e-mail address
when signing up, because that’s where Derek
will contact you.
So go ahead – make your relationship awesome.
Learn Fractionation now.
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