 
## WORSHIP AND HAPPY LIFE

by Mark Agustinus

Copyright 2016 Mark Agustinus

Smashwords Edition

DEDICATION

To my Brothers and Sisters.

## PREFACE

John 4 : 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the spirit and truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seek.

Book of Worship and Happy Life describes clearly that God's purpose to create human is in order they get happy life and always perform worship to God with independent and loving soul. Even though people were sin and destroyed all the beauty of gifts from God, but God wants people get back to him and still get happiness of the world and the hereafter. So God sent Jesus Christ to return everything damaged by human sin, so that unfolded a bridge toward lasting happiness. Books of Worship and Happy Life peels all about how are human able to get happiness, as God's people and as individuals. By having the right mindset, then the men will have peace in heart and mind. And the peace is an important factor for a happy life. Happy reading and hopefully you get the happiness that you desire and worship God with whole hearty.

## HAPPINESS

Why do you have to be happy?

Proverbs 11 : 23 The desire of righteous end only in good.

Interest everyone alive is to achieve a happy life. To achieve this purpose many ways are taken on. One of them is to meet their needs. The presumption everyone of happiness is different in the way they think. Some people think happiness can be achieved with the possessions. Some people think happiness can be achieved by fulfilling the expectations. Some people think happiness is obtained when a person is no longer suffering. People think if happiness can be achieved by doing good. There are many ways and paths to get happiness. But actually true happiness is only from our Lord. For God The Creator wanted His people to be happy, so He sent His dear Son, to be a role model, to be the only hope, in order to become the only destination of all those who trust in Him. For most people, and it still continues until now and this is most that become a grip of people, when happiness can be achieved only by the abundance of material. So they can buy anything, whether the need for a day, a feeling of security, social status and even honor. Therefore almost everybody uses almost all of his time to work. By working day and night they hope that someday they will be happy. Indeed, the material kept them from suffering, even if it is relative. They think most human beings suffer because they have basic needs. But in fact even prosperity of someone increased, a happy life assurance was not also achieved. And this is very ironic, because until they get old and die they never even feel what it's called happy. Therefore in the prosperous country many people went to a place far away, to a strange place to get or at least feel the happiness. But when they have returned to their home, life was back in the same way again. Instead of happiness obtained, but only disappointed. So what exactly happiness is? Why is happiness so longed for mankind? Why do so many people become disappointed can not find happiness?

What is it happiness?

Song of songs 3 : 3 Have you seen the one my heart loves ?

What is it happiness?

What is that sustain happiness?

What conditions must be met for a person to be happy?

Can anyone get happiness?

Where does a person get happiness?

How does someone get happy without suffering?

When will someone get happiness?

Why don't people believe to get happiness?

Do persons have to find happiness?

Why does someone only get a moment's happiness?

Is it possible for people in entire life get happiness?

Does a person's psychological influence happiness?

Can we transform a suffering into happiness?

Source of happiness

Psalm 9 : 2 I will be glad and rejoice in you.

In this life, man has many things to make him feel a happy life. There are some people who claim if the family is the source of happiness. There are statements if the career is everything in this world. Some claims if the source of happiness come from all possessed in this world. There is statement if happiness to come because he has someone closes to him. Some claim if the source of happiness is to go shopping. But many also state that the source of happiness is because of love God. Someone still needs something to support happy feelings that arise in his heart. And that's why when the source of their happiness is gone, and then they can no longer feel the happiness. One could despair when the entire family had died due to the disaster, and all his life turned into a misery. A man might decide to commit suicide when he was fired by his superiors. He could not bear the consequences because of it then he decided to end his life. A person could be mad when all his possessions destroyed by fire and then his entire life going into a painful nightmare. Life is a struggle; someone who stops fighting will be a lot to lose something valuable in life. Sadness can be turned into joy. The loss may turn out to be a blessing. Misfortune can be turned into good luck. Difficult things can turn out to be an easy thing. Failure can be turned into success. All depended to whether someone willing to fight and do the best that he can. This is why one can still be happy even if he gets fail, the loss of precious things, imperfect, flawed, sad, angry, resentful and almost desperate. There is always a second chance and there is always a next opportunity. Life is beautiful and everyone deserves a happy life. All the things that exist in this world are temporary, not permanent, and always changing. There are things that can be controlled and there can not. There are things that can be changed and some can not. And of course, this book can only teach you how to manage all the things that can be managed, modified and controlled by humans. But the book also reveals in detail how one can be happy in all conditions and situations.

Happiness is a gift

Proverbs 13 : 21 Prosperity is the reward of the righteous.

Happiness is a gift from God to mankind. Basically everyone actually already has that gift. Just that most of mankind do not realize if they are happy. So ironic because people are looking for happiness in fact they already have it, and when they pursued happiness according to their own versions, instead of got happiness but in fact they threw its happiness given by The Lord. To be able to feel the true happiness there is condition, people must be aware of who are they. And studying about genesis will help them to know who they were. Indeed, in a world that is so confusing these people can get lost in the stream of time. But when someone has discovered from where they came from and they realize who they are, then they will not be let down. And where did it come from origin of man? The answer is only one if human being is God's creation. Then when we see this fact, people understand that they are masterpieces of The Creator. A masterpiece of course gets extraordinary Privileges. And it's true; God has given all of the completeness of the human. Then why so many people still suffer even if they know about from where they come from. Because they can not or do not want to develop further their basic knowledge about the origin. Knowledge of the origin just the beginning and they stop to explore then they will never understand how to transform a suffering into happiness. So the key is knowledge, because knowledge can lead to someone take options. And the option is knowledge about happiness. And from there someone will get a lot of choices, whether they take the right to be happy or not. Put the words the world is too complex. Basically knowledge to be happy is very simple at the beginning of human civilization. Humans need only met basic needs, and they could be happy. But the world grew and became more complex and complicated. Psychological needs as a result of modernization, as revealed by Abraham Maslow there are desire to be loved, appreciated and to self-actualization. And it's a natural thing, when the world also becomes more complex and complicated and turns into a vicious circle. Without prejudice to the problems of mankind, then what used to be base of happiness also get into growth. As with any dose of medication for the disease more sophisticated and complex make small or old dose can not overcome it. Someone today is no longer enough just to fulfill basic needs and then be happy. They demand needs of secondary, tertiary and others. Even someone now has very difficult requirements fulfilled by his ability as human beings who have limitations. Therefore this book will explore further how to keep the human race can face this world in any way more wisely. By having complete knowledge, mankind will be able to reach happiness.

Mindset of human

Matthew 6 : 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

You might go through many things in the processed you looked for yourself. Maybe you walked through a deep ravine in this life. Perhaps you have fallen, got hurts and suffering. In fact, many people feel the wounds that can not be healed. You may feel that you can not be happy without changing around that support your happiness. You may think after you know who you are and qualify to be happy; and do it but you find yourself unhappy. Might be you've been followed the commands of God but you also did not be happy. Perhaps you were kind enough to share your riches but not be happy. Why did this can still happen? You should not do anything but you can feel happy. You may not distribute your wealth to poor people but you can be happy. There are no any restrictions here. No perfect condition so you can be happy. Happy is a person's mindset to response every event and act according their knowledge. Happy is a situation where you receive all possible conditions you get, whenever and anyway. Sometimes Happiness does not require anything to support. You can be happy in all of the environment and conditions. Someone who has achieved complete knowledge about happiness knew if to be happy someone no longer needs something to sustain such. Happy is not an emptiness, it is a mindset of person (you will get a separate session to learn more on this). To be happy someone does not need to do anything. It does not mean you do not need to working, and it does not mean you should be lazy. You do not need to struggle for happiness. For God has put happiness on the image of mankind. Someone who acts upon their image is a happy person.

The image of God

Genesis 1 : 27 So God created man in his own image.

Before mankind fell into sin, mankind had the image of God. Human got happiness from the beginning. Because there was nothing could damages the image, and mankind did everything according their image. But happiness vanished when temptation came that could not be rejected by that image. Because the image was still image of a child, innocent, it could only accept, did not have any knowledge. And therefore the image easily became damage. As replacement of the damaged image, human gets different image, the image is more powerful, but to get complete image human should be growing. Become an adult, human must go through rain and storm. Someone has to suffer first to get the mature image. Someone shall get wounds in order to become an adult. Without the wounds person will never grow up. Hence why a man can not be happy like in Eden, because the image of a child is only suitable and appropriate in Eden, where all human needs met effortless. But after the Garden of Eden was gone, man must fight for himself to survive. And image when they were in Eden can not be happy now on earth. Because there are no perfect conditions and atmosphere to support the image in order to be happy. So man has to change, and no longer dreaming about the first image. If someone still imagines all situations and conditions like in Eden to get happiness then that person will never be happy throughout their life. And the way the person can be happy on this earth, he should be an adult. That is why someone shall make himself first to be an adult to get happiness. You may be surprised to see why can an atheist be happy? But if you understand this you will be able to receive it. God unstinted to His people, even for someone who does not know Him, God also gives this gift. Because God created man so perfect, so they are able to get happiness through from themselves. So what is the purpose of Christ? Then what is the point for person need to know the origin of them?

The Broken Image

Genesis 3 :27 So the Lord God banished him from the Garden od Eden to work the ground from which he had been taken.

Many ways lead to happiness. And one way is becoming a mature person. Being an adult means to be wise. Humans struggle to pick up the damage image; one by one they set so the image is ideally suits to their desire image. But to achieve it, they must go through the struggles of heavy life. And of course, must go through the thorns of life, disappointments, sufferings and wounds. They must cope with thorns, remove disappointment and heal the wound alone. Perhaps many of them who fail to achieve the ideal form as the image they think. They may be mature and happy, but they still require support from certain circumstances to maintain the image. But when anything that contribute it collapse, the image brake to pieces along with the damage of their happiness. People of Israelites have proved that for thousands of years, and they realized if they could not rely on themselves to feel true happiness. That is why Jesus is the only hope of mankind to achieve happiness. For Jesus has given a way. Jesus offers us the TRUE image, the most perfect image that is becoming an adult without getting wounds. Jesus offers to you - the maturity that means - happiness without you having to suffer to get it. Why? That is, When Jesus is the only hope for your happiness; you totally do not need anything to support your image, the maturity - that is your happiness. Because Jesus was a winner and nothing can destroy it, even death knees under His feet. When all you have in this world fall apart, you will not lose anything, your image survived, because Jesus is your only hope. And the image entirely is yours, if you follow the instructions of Jesus.

The image of Jesus

Galatians 6 : 17 I bear on my body the marks of Jesus.

After you follow the Jesus' commands, the image of Him is clearer in yours, and your image resembles to the image of Jesus. When your image turns into the image of Jesus then you have a perfect image, you are a completely mature, and you are perfectly happy. Why do if we become like Christ, we have to suffer? Did not Jesus offer if we become mature or be happy, a person does not need to suffer and get hurt? The teachings of Jesus have complete knowledge of maturity concept. And if you have a grasp of overall His teachings, then you have a complete knowledge to become mature as a human being and faith. You are no longer need to find your own mature identity, because Jesus has offered you the most perfect concept. Because you do not need to search for knowledge about being mature, then you no longer need to go through the rain and storms of life, where there are a lot of suffering and wounds. The concept of hurting and suffering in an effort to reach a certain maturity and suffer for Christ is different. If you get hurt and suffer when in the process of looking for maturity, this is something that you do not expect. You do not want the consequences; you do not want suffering and wounds. But when you surrender completely to Him, then you already know the consequences of it, whether you will do or not depends on the willingness of each. You can be happy without have to suffer like Christ and you do not need to get hurt, but for some people sometimes such happiness is not enough. People, who declare if happiness is achieved without suffering for Christ is not enough, are people who mature in the faith. What was offered by Christ was abundant, so you may choose one of them without get hurt. You still become mature as a human being and get happiness, but it is not certain maturity of faith. Between mature as human being and mature of faith is slightly different. The difference is, when someone stops and satisfied with what they have received, without doing a thing like Christ. Someone who accepts Christ without doing what Christ did is called spiritual babies in book of Rick Warren's The Purpose Driven Live. So that does why accept Christ become most secure, perfect and there is no other way like it. The concept healing of the mind when we follow Christ can be interpreted as all process towards maturity of faith. Therefore a lot of people who previously rejected Christ and they got hurt in middle of searching process for their own identity then they can become amazing Christians, because they are instantly turn into mature human being and faith when they accept Christ and doing His commands.

Become an adult

1 Corinthians 13 : 11 When I became a man , I put childish ways behind us.

We will illustrate when people grow together with Christ and others are not, is like a crop of tomatoes. Imagine how good tomato is. Fruits contained nutrients and vitamins that were so rich. And of course such great fruit was loved by diseases and pests. Without protection of drugs then did not ever expect to get perfect tomato. We would see bad thing, the skin of tomato might have been eaten by disease or pests. The fruit might be a place to breed larvae of flies. Perhaps the fruit rotted because too much rain or damaged due to various reasons. If you since from the womb have been submitted to Jesus, and since childhood have been baptized, and for whole life was never far from His words, then be assured you will be like a tomato that would never wither, produce perfect fruits. And be a tool for the preparation of the passing of a generation that cared by Christ. And believe me there is no tomato happier unless it becomes a small tree grow mature and produce perfect fruits and useful for next generation. Christ offers to you a complete package to be like happy tomatoes. Maturity is something a bit more real than happiness. In the previous discussion may even be interpreted as parallel, and sometimes maturity supports happiness. What is their relationship? In early discussion is difficult to separate maturity with happiness, but it just to make you understand the whole picture of the topics we talked about. Very difficult to simplify the concept of that took a lifetime process with a few words. Wanting happiness without going through maturity is not a complete process. You can be happy without having to become an adult. Be adult is sometimes painful, hurt and takes sacrifice. But the image that you show off is the image that has not been filled fullness. Happiness is still raw, and to be mature needed trial and error process. Be salt and light for the world Jesus exclaimed. Christian beauty is an action to give light and fun to other people around you. And the beauty can only be transmitted when you try to grow up in faith. You may suffer in the process, but the suffering is not beyond your strength. Because of Jesus has taken the heaviest burden from you. The purpose of the process of becoming an adult is not depending on the result. But even if you only try, that is already getting praise from Christ. Christ is very gentle; therefore the load placed on you is light. The purpose of Jesus giving a light load on you is that you must grow and be mature, so you can achieve the highest level of the will of God that is to be similar with Christ. Nothing missing from inside of you beside your old man during the process, leading to maturity of faith, the fear within you to become adults is unfounded. You certainly are able to achieve it, and you can radiate His light in your life. Suffer here should not be give meaning so extreme, but suffers here is a path you must walk, which of course is not too heavy and not too slippery. Your trust is a key to the maturity of faith. And may be suffering here is, you just struggle to not be boring to read verses of gospel. Or you just take care of the week school. Or you just bored in training choir. Or you just bored to follow community prayer. Or you only fight to keep your cell group coaching is not disbanded. So Very easy is not it? So Jesus took your burden has purpose in order you want to develop yourselves and you will be able (sure because it is very easy) become mature on faith by being salt and light of the world. What is the suffering that so easily not arousing your interest?

Free man

1 Peter 2 : 16 Live as free men, but do not use your freedom as a cover -up for evil.

Everyone is a free man who is free to choose the way he wants to. In the Christian life, there is no intimidation term. Jesus only offered and tried to get the interest of mankind. Jesus struggled for everyone to imitate Him. Jesus did not just give orders, but His word is a living word. Jesus' death on the cross became a spectacle to many people in order you become a free man. And as a free man there is no requirement inflicted to His people. Jesus gave a lot of choices. And of course the choice has consequences. Possible consequence is that you lose what you love. And maybe you lose your close friends. Maybe you do not have a future earthly. Perhaps you should be ostracized. But all of that is your choice. There is no coercion, and one requisite a person becomes an adult is a freedom. In the Bible Jesus only recommended, because Jesus came not to condemn but to save you. It must be you really understand it, so you have no right to grumble in the church because boring sermon. You have no right to grumble because of many bans within the church. You are free as a human being and you are free as a Christian. But freedom has consequence; you are given the freedom to become an adult and not to be broken. You are given freedom as Christians to be able to develop until perfect. Misuse of freedom has eternal consequences. Freedom as a human being is worth nothing, for which it is intended only to satisfy himself. And usually man finally found himself in futility, disappointment and long-suffering. God gave freedom because God loves people. But God is also entitled to have a certain conditions if someone wants to get a great boon. Because basically God created man on earth with the sole purpose of that man knows the origin of. So if they realize who are they, and then they would go back to Him. God wanted to show His people if they are God's most precious, but the purpose of the Lord did not get a human response. Independence from God is actually a responsibility. Responsibility given for people is in order they become like God's expectations, which has a corresponding image of God's perfection. Peter Drucker is famous author of marketing and management stated that "no matter how low a person when he is responsible for what his responsibility then he is a leader." God loves His people, so God will bestow the best part for His people. For that liberty should be taken wisely so people will survive and gain gift. And one can be wise could only happen if the people understand who they are and what their responsibilities. Because someone has freedom without responsibility is useless. And everyone has a responsibility to himself, his loved ones and fellow. This part becomes the central focus of giving blessings of liberty to mankind. How great Christ our Lord, because He has power to do it all.

Differences between emptiness and happiness

2 Peter 3 : 16 Grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. To him be glory both now and forever. Amen.

Christ taught to all believers to be perfect, like The Father perfect. Of course this is difficult to do. And a lot of people because they want to be perfect as Christ's teaching, then isolated themselves. They wanted to be perfect with emptiness. Emptiness means disable or stress of feeling, and this can only be done if people restrict themselves in touch with the outside world. This is an expression of self-denial as human beings. What is this a God's will? Of course God wants everyone to be perfect; it is to be adult, both as Christian's mankind and Faith. And God's will that is mankind happy outside and inside, now and forever. Happiness of Christ's followers can only happen when they have mindset like Christ and do like Christ, spread kindness to everyone. Because you are perfect creation, have feelings, and for someone to be perfect as recommended by Christ is when he feel joy in his heart. Someone can be happy only happen if all the feelings alive and not be turned off or suppressed. Thus anyone only can be complete and perfect as a person when illuminated by the bible's light, because God loves everyone.

Christian's mindset

John 17 : 17 Your word is truth.

Maturity and happiness are closely related. Maturity is a form of human's mindset has been mature. And mature of mindset can be learned in the gospel. Through the example of Christ and His words in addressing something that is able to illuminate a person's heart. In the very complex world, someone that has an adult mindset can bring the happiness that looked for become closer. For mindset of Christians is an independent mindset. It is stable from the changes that occur in life. How does a Christian look at all the events, how a Christian should behave to face a variety of events. Mindset based on the Gospel has the power of timeless flow of time. Even if the world becomes modern, though the days turn out to be more complicated, still a mindset of Christians are able to adapt and demonstrate excellence. Why is the mindset based of the Gospel able to navigate the era? The answer is everything that is looked for all mankind is available in the Gospels. For the Gospel are the words of God. God is eternal and His words so good perfect. Until, the Gospel is perfect and eternal. The Gospel is good news, the truth and gift. Gospel describes how God's chosen people reacted and faced the most extreme challenges of the times. So we can learn how to behave and how to act on the guidance of the Holy Spirit in this life.

Accept the Gospel whole hearty

Ephesians 4 : 13 Until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ.

The gospel is God's amazing gift for mankind. Gospel is the answer to all the questions of humanity's most basic and most sought after. Because Gospel is the only truth, capable illuminate the hearts of all believers. By reading Gospel we are exposed directly to Word of the living God. The Word keep on bring life, comfort, and bring mankind to the best place. God with His love brings true understanding to deepest heart of mankind. Since the Gospel was received entirely in the heart, then from the moment there was a spiritual unity full of mystery. In order people who believe get the fullness of the blessing; the first step is to accept the truth of gospel with humility and repentance. Without making the gospel as the only light of God, then God can not give that incredible favors. Without trust, how does God dwell in the hearts of believers? Key to understanding of Gospel is God's Holy Spirit reside in the hearts of His people. And that is just the first step to enter in the unfolding mystery of God's favors that has been provided to anyone who believes. Gift is the Christ's perfect mindset of understanding for us to have. Only by having mindset of Christ we can be mature both as Christians and faith. Only by having the appropriate maturity Evangelical, a person has the maturity to be happy. Why go through it all? Because by having mindset like Christ is like build a building on stone, other than it is just build on sand that would shatter when hit by the storms of life. Only by having similarity with Christ, we are able to sail through life safely, mature and happy. What could be more beautiful than that on this earth? There are much other favors of God but are still hidden and available waiting, so we can find its.

Repentance

Matthew 4 : 17 Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near!

"Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near!" Jesus cried every He went to town. The core teaching of Jesus is every people need to repent and return to Him. The zero point of the entire process of becoming a true Christian is repentance. The belief of mankind has no meaning without the conversion of hearts. And this is form of humility as God required to us, in order we are ready to receive His gift. Repentance means we admit that we are weak creatures sinful. And this humility is what will bring us to the endless love of God. God only want to give His best favors for the people who want to admit sin. Like agricultural land should be loose first to be plant with seed. Likewise, our hard hearts melt before receive God's living word. Repentance means we put the past behind us, because we renounce our old sins and promise to no longer commit the same sin. Our hearts are renewed through baptism and our sins removed because we have conquered ourselves before God almighty. God is good because He gives us chance to improve ourselves and become the people as His pleases. He is really good because gives us chance to enjoy His incredible favors. Only with the submission, so our God open up and want to be met. God is good because would open the doors that should be closed because of our sins. God is so good because gives us a new life, together with His Son who took us on an endless victory. Repentance brings us to a wonderful future that is life with God and His goodness. Repentance leads us to where we long as noble creatures for the best place for us, because we love Him. He loved us first; because He was willing His beloved Son took us to His understanding, to salvation. He first humbled Himself to become a man in front of us and willing to be crucified like a criminal even without sin. That is why we must repent and humble ourselves to Him. Because Jesus has taught us how to behave, and how do we have an understanding and how do we shall have a mindset like Christ, so that we can be mature and finally we reap what we strive for, that is the happiness of the world and eternity with God in heaven forever. Repentance brings us to the real truth, and we are finally ready to become what He wills.

Prepare your heart

Luke 9 : 62 No one who put his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the Kingdom of God.

To become adults we need to go through many stages. We must prepare our hearts first. Such as before a long journey we have prepared everything so that we can anticipate all possibilities. Likewise become adults sometimes need readiness to be hurt, suffer, be insulted and be spat on. Being Christians today are not as heavy as in the past, but we are still humans will not be able to avoid feeling get hurt because of various things. Maybe we get hurt because we are difficult to find a mate, we love person who is not have same faith, we get difficulty to get a promotion, rejection, abandoned, by financial losses and so on. But if our hearts are ready then all that we will face will not surprise us, we know the consequences as Christians. Anticipation is important, perhaps we think if someone may not too long in the comfort zone (safe and comfortable zone). A person who wants to go forward sometimes have to leave the comfort zone and take the opportunities that may be at risk. With prepare the hearts and minds, and make preparations - for anticipation of the circumstances become unprofitable or does not meet expectations – so the failure or error can be minimized its impact on the real sector and psychologically. A person who already gets ready before all this happens is a person who has maturity on thought. So with any results obtained will not eliminate happiness in hearts. But if everything according to plan then there is bonus happiness will increase.

Consolation

Romans 15 : 5 May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you spirit of unity among yourselves as you follow Christ Jesus.

Are you sad?

Do you have unhealed emotional wounds?

Do you get tired of mind?

Do you feel desperate?

Do you feel anxious?

Are you so miserable?

Gospel offers to you how you can be entertained, calm, safe and peaceful. Gospel gives a lot of clues to how do you get up from a bad situation and turn it into an endless joy. You will understand how you have to overcome all the bitterness. Gospel will show you how you can become strong. Gospel offers many things until you are really entertained and you will feel how happy to be a disciple of Christ.

## REAL WORLD

Malachi 4 : 2 But for you who revere my name, the sun of righteousness will rise with healing in its wings.

You should be aware if live on earth is real life, not just a concept, a theory or a game. Human life is a life of struggle, full of temptations, full of challenges and full betting. For that you need all the ideas that can be applied in real life. Gospel offers to people who believe a fundamental answer, complete and proven can be applied in the real world, about how one should behave, act and speak. The entire process takes time which is not little, but as we get older, we more perfect to get understanding of gospel. In the real world humans are faced with a variety of things that demand action to solve them. No single human can be free from the touching effects with its surroundings, right against others and nature. In the real world someone can not prevent himself from the influence of good and bad of the environment. Escape from the environment to avoid unwanted effects of the environment is not only an unwise action, but also useless. Mankind was programmed by God to be able to continue to learn, right from disappointments, failures and successes. Ignoring an ability to be recovering or heal is a disservice. A person can rise from the ground, one can recover from the wound, and person can withstand any attack on him. And waste ability will make someone lose chance that might be achieved. A person's success comes not through the process of escape, ignoring on ability of self or fear. Someone get success if he is able and willing to use all the gift of their own to solve every problem facing. There is possibility to be a failure, but everyone who has fought with all its capabilities and capacity ... whatever the outcome is a WINNER.

Self-aware

2 Corinthians 12 : 10 I delight in weakness, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

A person will not be happy if he does not realize the reality of the world where he is living. Someone who more likes the world the way they want is a dreamer. Someone does not have power to regulate everything according to his will, even though he is a king. It requires the awareness of his reality and the environment. The acceptance of his limitations compared to the vastness of the world, the forces of nature and the ability of others to influence him, help the person to get happiness. As recommended by the gospel that we must surrender to The Almighty is a form of acceptance of one's limitations. By being aware of the limitations of himself to anything outside him, while also limit desire beyond his ability that limits his happiness. Nobody can be happy and at the same time dreaming. A happy person is one who really realistic; but a dreamer is one who can not accept the fact. There are no restrictions to have a dream, but failure of achievement of dream will going to influence someone to be happy. At least if someone has a dream he must also prepare to accept the reality of the unexpected results. So damage of impact of failure can be prevented. But in reality it is difficult for someone who has a big dream to have self-awareness when get fiasco. There is a lot of anger, quarrels and disputes because one can not accept defeat. There is a lot of resentment in the community because of their hope are gone. You may have a mountain, but sometimes you need to be aware when you are already at the peak of your abilities. The inability to determine when to stop will lead to disappointment. So many cases of disappointment and it all makes that person can not be happy.

About anxiousness

Luke 12 : 22 Do not worry about your life.

Gospel clearly suggests to do not worry about things beyond today. You do need planning in your life for five or ten years. And you may set up details of planning and additional planning for things that are outside of calculation. God's purpose in the Gospel about does not to worry in future is because of fear does not give an advantage right now or in future. Your worries will not make you richer, worry not add your project more quickly resolved. Just as God has a bid plan for mankind, so people need careful planning so that everything goes according to their desired. Careful planning with detail appropriate with circumstances would reduce possibility of failure. But one thing no matter how good your plan is, but one thing sure is God disposes. For that you have to realize if you need the Lord in order all of your plans succeed. At least if your plan is fail the Lord will bring comfort to you.

## MATURITY

1 Corinthians 14 : 20 Brothers, stop thinking like Children. In regard to evil be infants, but in your thinking be adult.

What is a maturity? Maturity is a stage in human beings who have been able to accept themselves, right the weaknesses and shortcomings and is able to use everything what belongs to reach goals. Maturity also means an understanding of self, environment and social interaction and overall understanding of it for the good of themselves and surroundings of them. Adult mindset is the mindset in which one knows his deficiency and excess. An adult admits if he has limitations. So with that he is aware of the limitations of achievement that be obtained. An adult may not be mistaken free. Often many adult people also experience a failure in their life. But the failure is received with high minded. An adult knows and understands one thing that he can make a fatal mistake. Perhaps he is temporary disappointed, angry and suffering. But an adult is able to recover quickly. He probably feels the same hurt to others but he is able to arrange them so that things painful do not long draw out. Because adults are aware that he has other obligations and responsibilities, so he should not be sad for too long and should not injure himself too deep. An adult is also has mental health, where he has the same emotions with others. The difference is that an adult person who is able to organize themselves, heart and mind more regularly. So things that disturb the mind, heart and feelings do not make its regularity disappear. But the harmony is able to reduce all things or interference from outside who tried to attack him. Maturity also means a step to achieve happiness. What are traits an adult?

Understanding about weakness and strength

Matthew 26 : 41 Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation. The spirit is willing, but the body is weak.

When Moses was called by God to bring the Israelites out from Egypt, he said to God that he was not eloquent. Moses accepted the task as a leader because he felt if he has ability to lead the Israelites out of Egypt. Moses would not be willing to accept the job if he felt unable to, he just said that he was not eloquent. Obviously here Moses understood about his strengths and weaknesses. And through a guarantee of the God, Moses followed God's call. Without knowing the capabilities and weaknesses of himself someone will always oscillate in doubt, and eventually it will be difficult to make a decision. Thus the ability to make decisions show someone understands the capabilities. The accuracy of knowledge about them makes confidence to do their duty. And with that a person has ability to complete a task or mission carried out him. In the story Samson also had physical strengths and weaknesses were obvious. He had a power that was equivalent to the power of a hundred people. Weakness was in his hair. But due he lacked on understanding of his weakness, make Samson had to cancel his marriage, which resulted in his suffering. Yet Samson did not learn from the mistakes, he said to Delilah the secret of his strength, so that he could be imprisoned by enemies and caused suffering to himself. For that someone must has much reflection to know what are the strengths and weaknesses of him, until he can do the task successfully and keep him apart from disappointment in the future

Accept defeat and victory as a natural part of life

Proverbs 27 : 19 As water reflects a face, so a man's heart reflects the man.

Esau told in the Old Testament lose eldest rights because of a trick of Jacob to their father Isaac. And Esau was furious at Jacob and wanted to kill him. But then in Genesis 33: 4 Esau went to Jacob, hugged and kissed him. Here, with the passage of time Esau Jacob got ability to forgive and be able to accept the fact when Jacob got the blessing of Isaac as the firstborn. And with this feeling Esau was avoided of disappointment if still angry against Jacob. Because Esau was willing to accept the circumstances, made his life better and happier than he had to kill Jacob, and showed through his life of sin. Accept defeat as well as accept victory as a natural part of life that makes a person free of regrets in the future. And free of regret make quality of life much better and they will not lose any happy feelings of the results obtained. In Other events (1 Samuel 18: 1-5) Jonathan showed his greatness by gave all the equipment of war to David and rose up David as his brother. By giving the whole device wars indicated when Saul's son Jonathan received if David was more powerful than him, and was entitled to lead the army. He did not even take exception if David replacing Saul as king, where Jonathan as a descendant of Saul have more right to get throne. With these feelings turned out Jonathan was happier, because he got a brother and a true friend. At the competition for the president in America, we saw the American people were adults. Mc Cain was able to show maturity and accepted his defeat from Barack Obama, and even willing to help Obama run administration. Here we could see what would happen if McCain chose not accept defeat, then surely the result would be tremendous damage. Because it would break up the American people to take sides, and ensured plenty clashes which might cause tremendous damage, and many people would suffer. But as McCain showed himself as a person willing to accept defeat, the people of America, too, could be happy, and ultimately they were more happy because the election was success, and avoided of conflicts and eventually everyone was pleased to brought an unforgettable wonderful memories of their lifetime. Accepting defeat does not mean anything disgrace, but as a sign as a person who begins to mature. Accepting defeat means as self-recognition and honesty about ability of self and others. The recognition of the greatness of others means, there is not arrogance. A person who has been able to accept defeat is actually a person who has desire to go forward. Because is with that he encourage harder to learn and improve themselves. Someone who is willing to accept defeat is a person who knows how to be happy.

Wise

Matthew 25 : 4 The wise, however, took oil in jars along with their lamps.

Perhaps you are directors, lawyers, officials, or leaders in various organizations. You certainly are a wise person so occupy respectable positions. A wise man indeed is a man who has the ability to make decisions based on priorities. Perhaps there are differences in priorities of each institution and the other, therefore a wise man in a particular organization may not be wise for other organizations. For example the mayor wanted to open a shopping center to increase the attractiveness of the town, and increased local income. But for that he must displace the cemetery or historic buildings. Surely he would gain protest from conservation organization and some citizens. On one hand he was a wise mayor because he wanted to improve the standard of living for many citizens. But on the other hand he was not considered prudent for people who have other priorities. There are no perfect conditions and situations for discreet. Sometimes a leader must sacrifice other small interests for the sake larger. On the other sense wise means the ability to see all the events from all points of view. Someone is able to meet equality of interest between one side and the other is a wise man. Solomon showed wisdom - known throughout the world - as he was able to solve the problem of the seizure of children between two women. With its wisdom, Solomon could be a famous, rich and illustrious king. Of course, according to the views of others, Solomon was a king who was very happy if we saw from this point of view. A man who careful allocated his money, whether invested in the stock market, saved or to other need has stability in his life. Because he was wise to manage finances then he was far from worry, anxiety and unnecessary anxiety. He did not worry when the economy become badly or the financial crisis sweeps the world. With his wisdom he has prepared it all, so he could enjoy the day with a happy feeling. Very interesting read story about the ten stupid and ten wise girls when they waited the arrival of the bride. What happened to the foolish virgins when they did not provide the oil as a savings, and while waiting for the bridegroom that did not come and they fell asleep, and finally when the bride came, they runs out of oil, and they have to bear the consequences, namely the bride did not let them enter to the party, Unlike the 10 who were wise, kept the lights always on, and they found happy with his master, enjoy the party as wanted.

Have ability to manage control

Judges 7 : 5 Separate those who lap the water with their tongues like a dog from those who kneel down to drink.

At the time of Saul returned from battle he heard when David was in the wilderness of En Gedi, with three thousand men he was looking for David (1 Samuel 24). But when he has not met David, he was resting in a cave, David came to Saul were asleep and cut off the edge of Saul's robe. David did not kill Saul, a person who tried to kill David, because David did not want to kill people who anointed by Lord. David did not want to make God not pleasing to Him. It was a demonstration of remarkable self-control. In the hardest moment David did not want to disappoint God. While he suffered because Saul wanted to kill him, while in the most difficult of his life he was able to control himself and did not take the very rare opportunity to escape from all the problems twisted him. Here it took a tremendous personal maturity and enormous loved to the Lord, so David was able to hold the sword within just a few inches from the head of Saul. And for this David never regretted have wasted a very rare opportunity he had. When Israelites surrounded the Midianites, Lord moved Gideon to shed the shackles of Midian on people of Israelites. Then God told Gideon to gather people - those who dare to dispel the Midianites. In a test, God told Gideon to bring people who had gathered to drink into the river. And God told Gideon to choose people who drank with their hands brought to mouth (Judges 7: 5-7). There is a difference between humans and dogs, where dogs drink water directly to the mouth, while humans have self-control and drink with his hand. Only three hundred men were chosen by God to defeat the Midianites. Self-control obviously has influenced on the life of mankind. In general, people who are able to control themselves, rarely get into trouble in their life. A person who is able to control himself usually is also able to easily see all events better, and is able to find a solution for all problems better. Then because they are able to solve the problem well, they are usually have a quieter life and away from the commotion. If they get married then household is away from contention. Thus people who are able to control themselves possess a better quality of life, and they generally have more chance to enjoy the beauty of life.

Being able to forgive yourself

Luke 5 : 20 When Jesus saw their faith , he said : Friend, your sins are forgiven.

Perhaps many cases why people found difficulty to feel happy life are because they are difficult to forgive themselves. Why is it so? In the case of divorce or an abandoned lover, people tend to blame themselves. And they felt had done bad things so divorce happened or they were left. They hated themselves and hardened hearts to punish themselves. They shut their heart door to all people; they did not feel good enough to start again from the beginning. They felt if they were the source of the problem, so they felt deserves to get punishment. So slowly their decision to convict themselves made all the doors were closed. When they realized he had been too hard on them, the situation was already quite late. They were more and more depressed and they did not feel the excitement again, they felt if could not be happy like everyone else. They did not know what to do. Another possibility they isolated themselves and may be suffered from mental illness, in which all the body healthy, but they felt pain in their body. There were case chronic abdominal pain, their body healthy but because of their mind made their body got sick. This incident happened a lot. After being questioned by a psychologist, discovered they felt that they were too hard on themselves, because they were hurt by their partners. The solution was simple; the persons should forgive their mistakes. They must first made peace with themselves. Maybe you have a bad habit; perhaps you have flaws, accept it as a part of you. Someone has its pluses and minuses. Do not get upset if you feel to do something less good, accept it and reform. Do not punish yourself because you feel doing something wrong deeds. You can still fix it and ask apologize, but do not punish yourself. If you has been able to forgive the mistakes of your own, when you can have peace with yourself, then you will feel the excitement and happy again. Everybody make mistakes, it is normal and common, but one has the ability to fix mistakes. So do not be too hard on yourself. Keep doing the best you can do. Then your life will be filled with joy and happiness.

## WHY SOMEONE CAN NOT BE HAPPY?

Does not want to change

Proverbs 11 : 29 And the fool will be servant to the wise.

The worst kind of human being is a person who does not want to improve themselves. A mistake if repeated again and again will harm you. It is easier to change yourself than to change the other person. People who do not want to transform themselves then they will lose a good opportunity. And people who are not willing to change will always be left behind and can only see other people get an opportunity that can not be achieved by them. Eventually it will make them become depressed. And finally they try to find a shortcut, which in future will further plunge them into the greater suffering. The world takes side to the people who have a passion and want to move forward, but will be the opponent for those who never want to change themselves better. For that required a burning passion and always motivate them selves continuously, and also always adapt to the changing times. People who do not want to adjust themselves with period progression will always lag behind the race to get opportunities. And finally get fail because there are no changes of them and will lead to unhappiness. Emotion that arises from the person who does not want to learn is explosive emotion without control, until become difficulty to navigate it in his life. Also people who lazy to learn will make distance from their Creator who loves him, so the unhappiness is complete.

Keep negative feelings

Psalm 107 : 10 Some sat in the darkness and the deepest gloom, prisoners suffering in iron chains.

Negative feeling is like poison. And if poison is continues dumped in a person, he will feel the impact. The negative feelings are anger, hatred, jealousy, revenge, ambiguous, anxious, fearful, powerless, hopeless, suspicious and much more. Many motivational books try to explain that feeling will hinder the progress of people who keep it. We have known bad result, such as hate, how many were killed because of this feeling, how many people who have divorced because of suspicion, and how many people fought effect of anger. We have learned and continue to hear but it seems that the feeling is eternal in human hearts, thousands of years, human beings live and generation changing, but in fact has not even humans are able to rid themselves of negative feelings that gripped their life. This is really record a hardness of heart of people, because only intelligent people of emotionally are able to let go of the negative feelings from themselves, so that they have a social and religious life pleasant. The reason why human beings prefer to keep negative feelings is mostly because they love it, so therefore that person is actually a person who does not want happiness. Because proven over thousands of years that the negative feelings it has greater destructive impact than a positive effect for people who keep it. Then it is absurd to anyone who still has it. How is the relation between the negative feelings with happiness? An angry person will not be able to feel happy at the same time. Likewise, people who in their hearts have a great burning hatred, they at the same time will be found if they feel as most unlucky, suffering and certainly not happy people. To be happy one must dare to take firm decision that is to leave negative feelings and does not want to look back. People who keep the negative feelings will be difficult to catch the hidden favors of God, because God wants everyone who believes open their hearts door to welcome the entire gift given by Him. Then the people who shut their heart door to hold any negative feelings will not be able to accommodate the gift of God given to them in their hearts.

Do not want to share

Proverbs 28 : 22 A stingy man is eager to get rich and is unaware that poverty awaits him.

It's a very big secret, but few are aware and informed. Many people prefer to enjoy their own happiness. They literally are not wrong, but if they want a little share of happiness, the happiness it will be more complete, and of course it will be the greater happiness. Why? For more can reveal this secret I want you to imagine a man like Scrooge McDuck (animation character) was so stingy and did not want to divide the money even for his nephew. The money that he kept in a bullet-proof shed, and the only thing he could do in the warehouse with the myriad of money was by swimming. Of course, since this was the animation of the legendary Disney world, portrayed Scrooge is a happy duck because he the only one who could be happy with swam in the warehouse full of money. But now we're in the real world, and nobody can be happy with swim in warehouse full of money, even if it was gold, because surely the whole body will be wounded and I can not imagine someone who swims in the warehouse full of money. Maybe I can imagine Bill Gates who swims in warehouse full of money. But if Bill Gates will be happy about it I highly doubt it. Suppose there was a very rich man but he did not have anybody near him, he did not have one person he loved, and he did not have a family. Looked like his life was very happy, he was a wealthy, famous and successful. But do we know if he was a lonely, bored and empty life. He may have everything, but when he was alone just enjoying everything that has been achieved, then he would say in his heart, "what is the meaning of all this," he saw everything worth and it does not mean anything for him. He wanted to share, but fear to be disappointed shadowed every moved of him. So he preferred the status quo that has been attached to his personal. And it was true he felt if he was a richest and the most unfortunate of the world. But see also servants of God whose eyes shone with happiness are very deep and sharp radiate to all people also feel his heartfelt desire to share the happiness and try to bring happiness around them. A lot of people very rich but they are willing to share for others for example Bill Gates, Warren Buffet etc. But do you see if they kept his money in the barn and swimming on it? The answer is no, but they used it to develop drug for malaria or polio. And they gave it free to poor. But we saw they're really the people were very happy, because they have to share happiness with others as the embodiment of love to God and their fellow.

Anger

Ephesians 4 : 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice.

Sad story happened to Moses who had to miss the opportunity to set foot in the Promised Land. Moses was due of enormous anger feelings toward Israelites has changed the order of the Lord, that should he did just said on the rock in order to gave water for Israelites, but because of his anger instead struck the rock, and finally God punished Moses not to go deliver the Israelites into the Promised Land. We may often watch news about fighting of some fanatic fans of a football club. Because only a trivial problem they do a mass brawl, ends of fight that makes some people injure or even killed. In the domestic life are frequent cases of domestic violence, so that husband and wife are supposed to love each other until death finally sues each other in court. And as a result of anger we already know so much. Ephesians 4:26-27 stated "Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold". Anger must be appeased so that we do not regret it later, because of the bad effects of anger is very terrible. We remembered rage violently in France a few years ago, hundreds of cars were destroyed and burned, and people were injured because of anger. And finally was happened bloody clash with security forces. What was gained from it all? Regret and material loss was not small. We should use the time to enjoy a day of hard work with loved ones but were replaced with horror scary few days. Do we want the whole day we spent with fear? Of course we who crave happiness will say no. And when we already know what we want then we must act, no more time to coddle feelings of anger, because temporary relief that we get as a result of wreak that feeling is not commensurate with the material and life losses. In fact we may lose what we yearn namely happiness.

Untruth

1 Peter 2 : 1 Therefore, rid yourselves of all malice and all deceit, hypocrisy, envy, and slander of every kind.

At some point an untruth fun for us. We can be free from punishment either the nearest person, society, law enforcement officials or other parties. But we must remember that lie like a cancer, if we allow it to live a moment in our life, it will spread or grow stronger. And consequently we will be hold firmly and we end up losing our soul. We knew Satan is the mother of all lies, and if we continue to lie all the time then one day the devil will grab our lives and we are going farther and farther away from God as the source of our happiness. Basically lie arises because of lack of confidence in us. In the association we sometimes hide a lot of our identity and replacing it with another identity, because we do not want to be insulted, ridiculed even abandoned near us. Finally, we chose to lie and then lie was growing and growing every day. Maybe we felt get advantage by lying at first but we always felt deep guilty within our hearts as expressions of conscience who wanted a full life with honesty. It may be falsehood arise due to fear as Cain who lied to God after killing his brother Abel. There was a man who would rather surrender to law enforcement officers after killing someone, because he felt the face of the person who was killed always haunted him throughout the day, so he had to live in fear and felt tremendous guilty. And of course, because many untruth cases related more to the conscience, so factor of unhappiness because of feelings of guilty that always follow an untruth. And a person who lies still can not hide his feelings of unhappiness.

To much love to the world

Luke 9 : 25 What good is it for a man to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit his very self?

A person who has become slave to the world has finally realized if he can not deceive himself and pretend happy. A person who serves to the world, someone who lives far from God will feel their lives mess up, far away from peace, no tranquility, all in vain. For that reason, many people who have repented aware of this and they get much better life than their life were far away from God. Of course there is very much different from live under the guidance of God and none. And there is different if we live under the regularity of the bible and which other is not. Average people who have converted to experience life under the guidance of the Spirit of God are a life full of peace and tranquility. There is no more useless in this life. They who are previously must think for a living just for the day, now under guidance of Christ live for eternal happiness. A plan for Christians and there is no a planning for people who living in cover of sin. For that people who live in the Christian guidance would fill the whole everyday life with passion of the prayer and praised to Him. And life for people who do not know God is a life for themselves, that actually they do not know what's next. Differences in quality of life between both are also so conspicuous. The one live in the Christian virtues, who does not know God lives in accordance with his faith namely they have to live and eat delicious today. People who do not know God because their life only for themselves, it is too shallow and meaningless. So the quality of happiness of theirs is worth to be questioned. But those who give up themselves before Christ seem on how their interaction between their fellow, social and community. How do they do everything that based on faith, so that what they get, earn and achieve are really a reflection of their love to God, as a result of their contemplation of life, and happiness that they get is also true happiness.

## FEATURES SPIRITUAL MATURITY

Love God with whole hearty

Mark 12 : 30 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.

Loving God with all your heart is the command of Christ that must be obeyed by mankind. When we have begun to grow and start to understand, then we investigate why Jesus commanded that. We should really understand the whole reason of Jesus and understand all aspects contained in the order. As a child who is afraid we do order it with fear of God's punishment if we ignore the law. But now we can think and analyze it, when we touch reason we accept it as something we have to do, we've put it together with the hope, desire and our ideals. The desire and the hope of all mankind is a happy life. When we realize that we will not be happy without love God with all our heart, then that is where we get evidence of how much we depended on Him. God is the source of happiness and joy, to know that we then approach and begin to feel the truth, and after that we get stronger root in His love, and finally none destabilize the union. We love God unconditionally, we love God willingly, and we love God because we can only be happy with Him. And since that time, when we love God with all our heart and all aspects unbreakable truth, then in that time we feel ourselves have become adults. And of course, because God is the source of all sources of happiness then we will certainly be filled with abundance. Love is a basic desire to give, and when we decide to love God with a sincere heart, so we begin to feel the needs to give ourselves to Him as a living sacrifice is to be salt and light. When we decide to love Him, we become willing to share the love in our ministry. When we decide to love Him we become willing at great pain to serve, to do something hard, and even to suffer. And this is the oldest secrets of the birth of mankind and then calls these things as love.

Love other

Mark 12 : 31 Love your neighbor as yourself.

The second law is that we must love human beings. True God has created man so complete, right with intelligence, the ability to learn and adapt, to make as a creature that was able to master the land, sea and sky. Then for what we should love our humans fellow? The reason we should love others are, because we are as social creature must help each other. It is hard for us to be able to live alone. Because if there is a great thing that must be built in groups or through the organization. We can not do it all by ourselves without sacrificing other things. Everything is easier for us to do at specialties then be combined in a group. And therefore to achieve big things are easier if we could help each other. So when we love other people, we can directly share our happiness with others and in one hand we can get help when we need it. In other words we have strengths and weaknesses, as well as others. If we build alliance with one another and cover the weaknesses of one to another, it will gain the synergy effects and the results are even greater. Share the happiness also has nature that is increasingly happy feeling of person. Serve also gives excitement to everyone involved. Because on the one hand we do service for the image of Christ, is the image of the ministry. As told from the beginning when we do everything according to our image, then we will be happy.

Love ourselves

Mark 12 : 31 Love your neighbor as yourself.

To be able to love God and our fellow we should be able to love ourselves first. What is the cause? There were some people who did not care about themselves and they lived in disorder and because irregular of their life, they got a disadvantage, damage to health to social life and their future. There were some people who for some reason they ruined themselves, such as abuse of drugs, did promiscuity, vandalism and fought. A person who was abusing drugs would be affected by the disease because of his endurance decline; even more people were infected with HIV / AIDS due to the change of needle among fellow drug users. People who were dependent on the drugs slowly would damage their body, and finally the whole career and future work would be a mess. People who did promiscuity also looked down on them, and did not appreciate their body so they could easily do a relationship that would be detrimental to them and his loved ones. Result of promiscuity could cause deadly disease either by viruses or bacteria. People who do not love themselves are far from happiness, because they actually tend to damage their body and mind. So before people can love God and fellow, they must make their body first as a holy temple. People who love themselves will see how beautiful of feeling to love. And with that they will develop their feelings to the level of better life and toward a level of grandeur and glory. The embodiment of self-love is self-care, improve performance, learn to improve of life, avoid from things that can damage the body, physical and mental health; health care, conscious about healthy living culture, maintain the balance of the ecosystem, keeping the environment of empowerment. We need to emphasize here that the desire of every persons' live are a happy life. Persons who love themselves will try as hard as possible to learn and do everything so that their life can be happy. However narcissistic persons but when they realize that only by following the instructions in Christ, the persons can be happy, then he will do everything to never commit the slightest mistake. Because for narcissists who had surrendered themselves to Christ, then they will take care of them to remain holy and always in perfect condition in God's eyes.

Orientation on Bible

2 Thessalonians 2 : 15 So then, brothers, stand firm and hold to the teachings we passed on to you, whether by word of mouth or by letter.

Gospel brings mankind to the authentic truth. The authentic truth puts man in right place in touch with the universe and God our creator. Through the Gospel we know that God has bestowed this universe to man to control, thus providing benefits in life. Beautiful universe was intentionally created by God only to human because God wanted mankind to admire, praise and glorify. Gospel is a collection of God's words in order mankind hold to Him and got a real life that brings them true happiness envisioned. So it is only through the gospel, mankind can be completely happy. Perhaps people feel happy even without the Gospel. But the happiness is not true happiness as creature created by God who is the cause of everything. Event though man can be happy without knowing the gospel, truly the happiness is only a false happiness, and will be gone if all the supporting the happiness broken. Perhaps the happiness of someone who does not know the gospel will disappear in the rain storms of life, in an accident, disaster or anything bad things that happen to them. But their happiness is just on artificial can not stand on test. And a happiness that earned from the gospel is independent happiness to surrounding nature, for someone who has been handed over entirely to the guidance of the gospel was only dependent on his Lord, so that when he lost all his possessions in this world, they can still rejoice in the Lord. Gospel is a collection of extraordinary words of God. In it contains guidance so that people can survive. In the century full with fallacy, someone without having the gospel in his heart as well as the small boat oscillated by the waves and did not know which way he would go. And the one who does not have the ultimate goal of his life will feel anxious and restless whole his life. Just as someone who experience tremendous confusion, because the human mind can not reach the depths of the universe and the law, and certainly will not be able to solve the mystery of eternal life in heaven. Nobody will find peace if he does not know the direction of his life. So that someone that is not having peaceful yet in his heart, he can not get happiness. For that reason, God wrote His words at stone in time of Moses, in order people have manual rule on life that led them, so that their life was not useless, but brought benefits for them, their fellow, the surrounding nature and God. Life is a long process, since a person conceived by his mother, born and eventually returned up to God. In this long process, mankind saw a lot of things, knew their capabilities, got interaction between people, got interaction with the surrounding nature, have relationship with God. Everything was blend into a wonderfully complex and complicated process. In the ideal circumstances the relationship was difficult built until someone became an adult. And what would happen if the negative things inside of human and outside of the system circle above intervene. Say, those are as human limitations, shortcomings, negative feelings, sufferings, temptations and trial. Those make the world become more complicated and dangerous. For that God in keeping the human race was not as playing a game.

He sent His prophets;

He sent His angels and the last,

He sent His only Son.

And all of the missions are summarized in a book calls the Bible.

Usefulness of the gospel is as candlesticks that illuminate the dark road. God wanted to preach to mankind if they faced something far exceeded above their powers, until God voluntarily expressed His desire to love through protection to the people He loved. So things beyond the capability of human beings can be neutralized. So mankind could go through the journey of life safely and securely to the final destination. The gospel is a perpetual reminder that reminds mankind to worship the God who created them. And finally relation between mankind and Gospel is so tightly until people found if life without the guidance of Gospel is a waste life. Suffering in this world does not become an extraordinary thing under the power of the Gospel. Someone whose whole life is in the guidance of the Gospel, find that his life is full of dynamics and excitement. And people feel the absence of the burden of life effect in their heart have rich knowledge of God. Then they find if everything in front of them has conquered by the power of God and everything become so easy. This proves if Gospel is not merely a guide book, but this book has a tremendous power. Gospel can cure a person, Gospel is able to drive out demons, Gospel can comfort someone, Gospel can warm frozen heart, Gospel can convert, Gospel can give fortune, Gospel can move a person, Gospel is able to spirit and the last Gospel can make everyone's life happy. Indeed Gospel is true words of the living God. Blessed are putting the gospel in the actual function and use the Bible lovingly.

## OBSTACLES TO GET HAPPINESS

Hurt

Job 5 : 2 Resentment kills a fool, and envy slays the simple.

Some people said if the world was rough and cruel. And this person throughout his life might get things less pleasant. So he got a lot of wounds in his heart. Maybe he got humiliation, betrayal and lack of luck. Finally it was accumulated and he has become very pessimistic, and looked at everything opaque. And of course, considering the number of wounds that he got, and made him difficult to obtain joy, Even if he got one or two times the fun, maybe he could smile for a while but because of many wounds in his heart, the fun was just a temporary shelter. And then he returned to the previous state, confined in his dark world. He suffered a lot, so difficult for him to say if he was happy, for him everything was gloom. It takes a long time to heal such wounds. And even if the wound healed, he still feels that the world was already tasteless for them. Almost certain if all people has been hurt by something causes. There are people can get up again and gain happiness. Some do not cure and even made life more miserable. You may also have experienced get emotional wounds that have not fully healed. But do not worries God will help you. We'll see Elijah, he felt that he wanted to die because of feeling life was hard, but God cheered him and instead gave a harder task. Job suffered so hard when he lost all his possessions, his family and even his health. He suffered terribly, both physically and in his heart, but he remained strong and got through trials with full obedience. And even he finally got more abundant happiness. The Disciples of Christ were hit very hard when saw the punishment of Jesus, extraordinary cruel and ultimately Jesus died on the cross. They cried, wailed and wounded, even they did not know where to go and what to do. But a few days later, their hearts full of joy, knowing Jesus was resurrected from the dead, and a new dawn was breaking their hearts. Even the emotional wounds they suffered previously lost without trace. God gives favors to everyone to be able to heal themselves from any emotional wounds. And with the passage of time everything seems more easily. Never ignore the ability of ourselves, and do not hold all the processes that occur. As our hands will heal by self with a little help, as well as our hearts are able to heal itself. So there is no reason for us that ever got hurt of our minds say "that the pain will never heal, and wound will be more wide opened". There is no reason for someone to say God never wants to help and heal the wound. And there is no reason for us to not be happy even if we have been hurt quite badly in mind or heart.

Guilt

Hebrews 10 : 17 Then he adds : Their sins and lawless acts I will remember no more.

In an event there was a killer who felt his life filled with the shadows of the people he killed. And it made guilt and remorse tremendous for him. Finally, because he did not withstand the heavy loads it all, then he turned himself and chose to enter prison. Sometimes guilt can be very dangerous for a person. There were events desperate suicides and escape from reality to be free of guilt. But at a certain moment the guilt is necessary for mental health of a person. Someone who does not have guilt after doing bad things may not have a healthy psychologically. Maybe a bad experience in the past hampered a person to feel this feeling. Guilt is good but should be within reasonable limits. An excess of guilt will make a lot of damage to him or to others. Guilt on the Christians is due to violations of the rules of God. And to prevent this feeling arises only doing everything in accordance with the Gospel. A person who was having an affair would lose confidence to himself. So he would be regret and feel of worthlessness. So that he would feel as if his partner did not forgive him again. Sometimes quarrel happened in a family which one did adultery, was caused guilt resulted in chronic fear and anxiety, so as to cover it, the person hardened his heart and over protection against him, caused quarrels and divorce. Someone who does not make mistakes will act fairly, but for the person who makes a mistake and he feels guilty will become irritable and surpass everything, so that the communication link was no longer running properly. But the relationship communication is established in the inner level burst due to something in the oppressed hearts. Therefore, if this has happened, it takes maturity of couple to open and mutual forgiveness; and promise not to worse the situation with the emotions that are usually high in a troubled relationship. The point is a love for one's willing to accept the mistakes of others and to forgive. A man, who makes a mistake and has guilt, should be given a perception that he is still accepted as before with a record he will improve and it will not do bad thing again. May be there are other factors as a trigger of the occurrence of the mistake, and once again if there is transparency then the problem will be solved as well. Likewise, another mistake that will potentially damage the relationship will be coped with way of mutual love, open and giving a second chance. A person with feeling of guilt requires forgiveness, both from a spouse, environment or God. With better guidance and communication then the guilt will not be bigger and cause significant problems. But if guilt is not dealt immediately, the effect will be very surprisingly. A person may experience depression and other diseases in the body. And of course, if the problem is not immediately get solutions that will interfere with a person's happiness.

Fear

Luke 12 : 29 And do not set your heart on what you will eat or drink; do not worry about it.

Fear will basically undermine our lives. At the time of the heart is filled with fear, we actually miss a lot of good things. Opportunities that are in front of us should go because of our fears. Existing success on the tip of the eye will be gone if we do not have courage to get it. Life is gripped by fear as not a healthy way of life. We will get used to fortify ourselves strictly for the sake secure feeling of us. With the bulkhead, we will not receive the gift of God has given to us. Just as a traveler who fear an accident along the way that it passes, then the rest of his life he will never go anywhere other than his environment. New spirit arising that can be felt by those who come to the new place, he can not feel it. As a result, his life is full of boredom and certainly far from feeling happy. Likewise, he does not get new things that will give him the color, excitement, a new spirit, a sense of beauty, things interesting, adventurous and a lot of other things. A frightened in his life will make him miss a lot of good things in this life. Shadows that frighten also get more intense grasped; as a result he will never be free of those feelings in his entire life. One way that can be detached from the feeling of fear is to face what they fear. Thus it takes courage for a better life.

## RELATION BETWEEN SIN AND HAPPINESS

History

Genesis 1 : 31 God saw all that he had made, and it was very good.

In the beginning Adam and Eve enjoyed all the beauty of heaven. There was no sadness, distress, suffering, or weeping. What they got a joy, fun and happiness. When they obeyed the word of God, the heavenly pleasures they got full. When they untouched by sin then there were just all beauty and happiness. However wonderful things in Eden could not forever they enjoyed. When they were tempted by the seduction of Satan incarnated into a snake, they fell into sin because it violated God's command. In the end Adam and Eve had to atone with the suffering in their life. They have to work hard to live. Not including they have to feel pain of aging and weak body. Perhaps they previously did not know what would happen if they disobeyed God. And finally they regretted and lamented their fate was bad. Of course, Adam and Eve were sad, crying, suffer and lamented their bad fate as result against God's command. But alas everything has happened. It is so heavy consequence of our sin. Really it is a suffering that shocking, if I can say this is a tragedy. If God will not listen to our prayers is a tragedy. When God hides himself ... that's the tragedy. The result of sin was the deprivation of their happiness; the price was very expensive due to them according against to God's commands. We imagine condition of antiquity that completely simple and the family grew their way of thinking is simple. They were Cain and Abel, among them there was no trick or deceit. Those young men were innocent. At the beginning of their life was perfect, of course they prospered, because they've been willing to set aside part of their efforts to be devoted to God. With their simple way of thinking, should this story ended with a happy ending. But in fact this story ended with a tragedy. Cain should have changed a bit the way sacrificed, not by killing Abel. But once again sin took control and his happiness gone. Cain finally expelled from the land, and then he became nomads and settled in the land of Nod. Sin has changed mankind since that time, violence by the descendants of Cain often happened, until punishment came to Lamech descendants of Cain. And sin was not diminishing but growing. Cain certainly would not be happy with this sentence. But even so there was no word of regret out of Cain. Once at Noah time, all descendants of Cain would be eliminated and only the descendants of Noah who were the descendants of Seth who saved by God, for still believing in Him. David loved Beersheba but it looked David faced very thick walls. Beersheba owned husband, and her husband was a soldier who was fighting to the battlefield. David committed adultery with Beersheba so conceived it. David then called Beersheba's husband return from the battlefield to cover up scandals. But unfortunate for David, the man did not want to go home. As a result, David made a conspiracy so that the soldiers fell to the ferocious enemy. And arrange finesse with his war commander, the soldier eventually died as expected David. But God did not remain silent, he sent the prophet Nathan to tell David punishment that must be borne. David was asked to choose several options and finally David chose the hand of God giving punishment. David had lost his son the results affair with Beersheba. And since that time David felt the wedge in relation to God. There was no love like before, and it obviously made him unhappy. David loved God and when He let God down, David felt his world collapsed. And he felt a tremendous loss; he lost half of his life. As if he felt his body died, and he lost a great deal. He was sorry but it was too late. God's punishment must be received, and he was willing to accept it, he lost the most beloved was his son. But most felt was that he lost his grip, because he loved God and God was angry with him. Judas Iscariot actually loved Jesus; it was shown by followed wherever He went. He experienced sadness, sorrow, pleasure and joy with Him. He listened to all the advice of Jesus and he never protested. Even though he loved money, but saw his odyssey with Jesus seen that was like the other disciple, Judas loved Jesus. Moreover, three-year experience various events together made it very tight bond. Really there was no intention of Judas to harm Jesus. He set out to follow Jesus because amazed at everything Jesus did. Judas also admired the miracles of Jesus. But true Judas also had a past that only God knew. Judas would not be so easy to betray Jesus just for a few pieces of gold. But it's certainly Judas experienced tremendous struggle, and saw the whole incident is difficult for us to say if it is a matter of money. For three years Judas with Jesus and no one story he was complaining of lack of money. Though he sometimes took the money collected for him, but to betray Jesus for the sake of a few pieces of money was indeed something that is difficult to accept. Maybe there was something that was not recorded in the Bible so that the real motive was not clear. But it was very clear that after he handed Jesus he returned the money to the person who paid him. After that many stories stated he would hang himself. Thus we see how he was very sorry and thus afflicted him. He must have such tremendous shock after he handed Jesus over to the priests. His heart had shattered by great sins he had done. Sin of betrayal that destroyed any building that has long been in his heart he built up with suffering with Jesus. He loved Jesus but he even betrayed. And that for him was something unforgivable. Even Judas by self could not forgive the act, and then he took the decision the only way to be free of the guilt that he should die. It was so powerful the influence of dark forces destroyed someone. So heavy was effect of the betrayal. And thus was so heavy the burden borne by someone because of the sense of sin.

What is a sin?

Romans 5 : 15 The many died by the trespass of the one man.

Sin is transgression of God's command by man. As told above, if Adam and Eve had violated God's command did not to eat the fruit of knowledge of good and bad. For the offense, God has commanded angels to expel Adam and Eve from the Garden of Eden. It was a result of tremendous weakness of mankind who did not want to obey God's command. We are in daily life also doing a lot of sin, and God actually continues to give never stops amnesty. Indeed He is a good God, wonderful God, loving God, and God who always leads us, God's perceptively and willing to understand our weaknesses. Whether this is actually a blessing from sin? Obviously is not, God wanted mankind to obey Him to be saved and this gift because of extraordinary goodness of God to us, and gift isn't caused by our sin. Sin also means breakup between God and man. Since Adam and Eve were expelled from Eden, seen the relationship of God and they were no longer in harmony. It seems there was no more communication going on, and consequently Adam and Eve had a growing sense there was no happiness. It's lucky we are because God has forgiven our sins through Jesus, so that we can know all the greatness of God. We are no longer experience the moments when the anger of God because of the sin of mankind, but now we live in love, forgiveness and protection. Instead we are far from sin, but we are given the opportunity to improve ourselves and come to Him.

Consequence of sin

Romans 6 : 23 For the wages of sin is death.

Consequence of sin is a death. But it is very clear we feel we have to struggle to get happiness. A lot of people declared if they were not happy, and of course this concerned. The first step to do Adam and Eve looked for food to keep them alive. In the Garden of Eden all the food had been provided with an abundant amount and never will run out any taken. But life on earth was very hard, Adam and Eve had to sweat to get food. Not certain of all the time they could eat well, sometimes they had to be patient and resisted hunger in their searching. Always there was no smooth road they experienced; even state they certainly suffered so much. After what they have found in heaven with abundance and suddenly they had to face the hardness of the world without any preparation. What happened to Adam and Eve continues today. Problems availability of food is still the world's newspaper headlines. World population is growing significantly but farmlands decrease. Then we read in newspapers, news mentioned poverty around the world, around tens millions or more. Really which was fantastic amount, if they daily struggled to not starve to death, that very concerned, is not a condition to being happy is sufficient food and clothing needs? It is the most basic, and a hungry person can not possibly say themselves happy. After being expelled from Eden Adam and Eve had to keep the body in order not to fall ill, because they were aware that their body was very weak. Beside they blinded about knowledge of the medicine. Even now problems of healthy increase either illnesses or the number of sufferers from year to year. In the days of the old covenant leprosy became the most feared diseases and avoidable. Even lepers were evacuated and isolated in a cave or a place away from the settlement. After a cure for leprosy found, now there is a new epidemic, and even today there is no medicine of diseases caused by the HIV virus or AIDS. Though now for a sick person healing techniques are very advanced, still very high mortality due to the disease, right to the disease due to heredity, infection or food. Who knows how many people die due to illness, how many thousands of people die every hour because of various diseases around the world? It's not astonishing numbers? Is the person who is sick can tell himself happy? But the ultimate result of sin is the breaking of the relationship of God and mankind. Before Jesus came into the world, the relationship between human beings and God has been lost altogether. God did communicate with Abraham and his descendants. But the permanent bridge was not built yet. And thus the fact of God and mankind laid an impassable generation gap mankind to come to His presence. Communication happened was God came to man because of His love. But mankind could not come to Him gave tribute. Indeed, there were several chosen persons that could come to Him, and even then only a few people who as exception. Seeing that, God's people who miss Him just could cry and lament the situation. They did not find a little of peace because they felt if God was really not forgive the sins of His people. But the state did not last like that forever. God wanted all mankind could come to God's presence to give praise and tribute. For that He needed the most powerful bridge to sustain the enormous project. And then under the direct supervision of the project by Him was worked redemption in large scale. And the project must be succeed and could not be thwarted by the master of the world. God knew He could not rely on a human being to do this project. And therefore He decided to get off Himself become main player of history of human salvation that was be greatest of all time. And then He was known as the Lord Jesus became the savior of mankind and made way for all mankind to be able to come to His presence.

Moral decrease

Proverbs 29 : 16 When the wicked thrive , so does sin.

After Adam and Eve were expelled from the Garden of Eden, the longer people become more moving away from God. And it came to pass moral decline. We note the story of Cain and Abel. Then many events that made God sad. Call it when God flooded the world with a flood at Noah's era. Where humans were more not respect God and moral tragedy happened spread and chronic, where humans laugh about God. It was a crime so bad. When human flesh and the desire to obey only their own since that time the world was at the zero point of moral decline, and only God saved Noah's family, while all of them perish hit by water coming crazy. But what was the madness of mankind stopped with the destruction of them? In fact that even though God had limited lineage that could continue to live in the shadow of His love, sin still continued to shadow mankind. Although God had sworn to Noah, that was not to punish mankind again. Sins of mankind remained; the longer also was crazier. Until the patience of God has run out, He took the decision to save them once again through A His Single Son that was our Lord Jesus Christ.

Punishment from God

Romans 8 : 3 God did by sending his own Son in the likeness of sinful man to be a sin offering and so he condemned sin in sinful man.

Condemnation in the case of Adam and Eve was expulsion to them from the Garden of Eden. This was a very severe punishment for them. The Penalty for Cain has killed Abel was the expulsion from place to work during that time. The penalty for David was the death of the David's son result of an affair with Beersheba, a descendant of David will perish by the sword and David's wives ravished by others. God actually really did not want to punish mankind, God proved just expel Adam, Eve and Cain. But sometimes human beings too far exceed the tolerance of God's allowing, so it's a case of David, God punished him very hard, because God has given David the people of Israel, Judah as its people, and gave several wives, all the wealth of its predecessor, the kingdom conquered by him but David killed Uriah to have Beersheba, it made God so angry. Even when God saw tremendous moral decline in the days of Noah and Sodom Gomorrah, God did not hesitate to destroy all its inhabitants. But after that God actually regretted for destroying mankind. This was also proved by the amnesty of Nineveh in Jonah era, where people of Nineveh would repent and perform as well as the Lord's command, and finally the city was in forgave. This is exactly what God wants, namely repentance than punishment. For God so loved mankind, and when mankind come to Him then it that time God showed His great love.

Repent

Matthew 4 : 17 Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near!

"Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near!" said Jesus every came to city. Someone must first confess to God for all his sins are forgiven. And this is as a sign of improving relations between man and God. Repent is an absolute if a person wants to be recognized as His people. For without repentance there would be no new life. And the people of God are the people who already have a new life. Repentance is like new wine and old Life is like a bag of old. If you store new wine in old bags, it will tear the new wine will be spilled. So that new wine must also get a new bag anyway. Likewise, in order to follow Christ we must discard the old life of sin and replace it with a new life in holiness. Repentance is the starting point of improving our relationship with God. Even possible at any time we can commit any sin. Then in order to keep improving our relationship with God repenting every day is not a burden. Repentance please interpreted as way to the forgiveness of God. So that conversion is not only done once when someone wants to be a follower of Christ. But it should be put repentance as a ritual that is repeated and repeated again, forming routine that continues to make better communication with God. We feel that the intimate relationship with God will sustain form of repentance as a ritual before duties in the morning. For perform the ritual of repentance every waking up is very good for growing faith then I encourage you all to do so. You do not think if atonement ritual takes hours, but you simply declare your mistakes and ask for forgiveness of the Father in heaven. So it only takes a few seconds before you get out of bed and doing other activities. Our goal of getting used to perform the ritual as it is because we love God, and God is the most important part of our lives. That we do not want our relationship with God be apart because we are lazy to communicate with Him. This is not an obligation but a form of love we have in Him, because we believe that without God we can not get true happiness. Repentance is also signs for us to step up carefully in every day activities. For by continuing to position us as good people of God, we will always carefully in step the foot. Not only this attitude will make us more prudent in making decisions, we become no haste in doing something. The essence of a good intention is repentance. Without it there would be no one who believes in us. For, we will tend to repeat our old mistakes. Are we ready to be good and to be holy? Note: A Pastor said: "one will be cleaned all sin and for believing in Christ and not because of repentance." That's true, but I want to state here when believing in Christ is the first step in the conversion process a person. So actually believe in Christ and repentance are the same.

New creation

2 Corinthians 5 : 17 Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation;

Everyone who has received the baptism is a new creation. Each new creation signifies a commitment to accept image of Jesus as our image in the future. By having the image of Jesus is the most perfect image, we have received a tremendous boon. For the image of Jesus is the image that dreamed by all who believe in Him. This is just a good beginning of a long journey that is our life. But none have a better start than the beginning of which is owned by the image of Jesus. And to reveal perfection image of Jesus takes many steps. We must obey God first and hold in life of this world. There are so many temptations and trials, but if we are faithful, the image continues to be our image forever. And none of this earth who is able to change it. For we belong to Christ, and of course Christ will take care of day and night, so that single enemy helpless against Him. Once we learn the laws of God and to do so in our life then we are ready to do all his commandments. Most important is that we must love God with all our heart, soul, and our will. And love our fellow as we love ourselves. It means we can no longer be arbitrarily we do everything as before. For we have become a new creation that increasingly today radiates the love of Christ into the world. If we are faithful in all things God commanded us that our love will radiate light like stars illuminating the face of this earth. And all the people around us will also rejoice with us because we have become slaves of love that can move the compassion, helpfulness and help people in need. The new creation is so beautiful that we'll always see the beauty in every step of ours. And make us even more fascinated by the beauty that attracts our desire to continue more and more beautify through many good deeds for others. We will never feel tired because our hearts are filled with love of God's holiness. Life seemed so very pleasant and we will continue to feel how the favors of God that never stops given to us by the extraordinary love. This new creation will bring us closer to an understanding of God's extraordinary goodness, that we will always be grateful because we have experienced the beauty of love, and after achieving independence our souls will feel this happiness that we seek. Perhaps this story can not be enjoyed by everyone, but it was not due to a worse fate. But for we still want our old creature, miss it and do not want to let go. The beauty of useless is in past, is sometimes very difficult to remove. When we go around through life seems we're liberated from all the rules and we can live as free as possible. And that's what we don't want to release. We are not willing to lose the old free life; we are not willing to lose a friend of our party. And really that feeling makes us suffer. It is our choice whether we still want to walk with the old image of us or let go altogether and live it is entirely new with a perfect new creation. At first it is like a bitter choice and it is not always easy to walk. It takes a struggle to get away from the charm of the old creation and entirely become a new creation. Time to side with you when you decide to live as a new creation and discard the old creation. But when you are not able to release your old creations you will feel shackled by time and you will not have any progress in your life, and your life completely failed in everything. You will get more suffer, and to end all that you have to let go your old creations and begin to live as a new creature. Obedience is the key to life as a new creation. As Jesus who loved by God because of his obedience to the Father in heaven. You do not need to be afraid of some things in the future, because this new creation is a very strong image, even able to beat death on the cross. Fully you are the image of the crucified Jesus on Mount skull to save the people who sinned. This image has been tested; even students who used these images could not be defeated by anything. In fact they were all willing be crucified like Jesus as His witnesses. So the power of image has been tested face the temptations of the devil, the face of insults, face stone throwing, face extraordinary punishment and ultimately face death on the cross. And if you decide to use this image throughout your life then you don't need to worry, you will be able to face all your problems with style. So allow you led by the Holy Spirit in order to fully be like Jesus in everything.

New beginning

2 Corinthians 5 : 17 The old has gone, the new has come.

It is happiness if our sins are forgiven. In front of us stretch a new opportunity, a second chance and a new beginning. We feel something very suffocating us when we see the road behind us sinful and now we can turn to a new beginning that we will pass in holiness. And that is time you will say "Goodbye useless life, I will not come back there and experience the nightmare again". When we have a new beginning in the spiritual life, at first everything seemed strange and heavy. In fact after living it we will feel a lot of fun and excitement. This life is not as bad as we imagined. Maybe we lost our old life, but we get substitute, have a prayer life. Maybe we lost party friends, but we get new friends interested in faith and deepen the spiritual life. Maybe we lost the old pleasure, but we acquire new favorite and amazing gift of our God.

A new hope (welcome new dawn)

Micah 7 : 7 But as for me, I watch in hope for the Lord, I wait for God my savior, my God will hear me.

At the time before Jesus came to this world, the people of Israel felt the futility of life. Because they felt the weight of a burnt sacrifice or compensation of sin was very heavy. And they felt unable to do all of repentance for their sins. Then they expected God to send the Messiah. One that was able to redeem their sins. So they could be freed from the burden of sin that was so heavy for their lives. They did not stop wait patiently, generation after generation, their expectations was a new hope. That was a hope about a Messiah who would come and liberate them all. Hundreds of years they waited with patience, even last for their perseverance awaiting the arrival of the Messiah, the Lord grant the wishes of people He loved. Finally He willingly sent His Son to earth to liberate all our sins. Since then, after 2000 years of waiting, they felt that their life was very meaningful to God. And since then they felt tremendous happiness. A happiness that was irreplaceable by anything else in this world by. Now they have the most precious treasure of the whole earth that was ever given upon the world by God, Jesus Christ the redeemer of mankind. Everyone finally came to Him and expressed their beliefs. It was from that moment their life were full of color, and also we feel now.

New life

Ephesians 4 : 24 And to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness.

New life has a very broad sense and very meaningful. What we've never had in a long life, now we have it. Namely peace, compassion, patience, devotion, humbles, and many other virtues. How do we get a sense of new life is depended on how do we walk on it. If we walk according to the Bible and the guidance of the Holy Spirit our life will grant abundant blessings. But if we deny the gospel and do whatever their heart, new life means nothing at all. New life for Christians is how life pleasing to God. That is a regular life with full of struggle and prayer. New life for a Christian is a life full of passion that held in the heart to glory God. So that new life for Christians is how life gets better and better. Improve the quality of friendship between the churches and improve interpersonal relationships that promote happiness among them. This new life is a life toward true happiness, and then everyone who craves happiness, do everything with whole hearty and excitement.

## MINDSET OF HEALTHY ADULT

Ecclesiastes 1 : 2 Meaningless ! Meaningless! Says the Teacher, Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless. What does man gain from all his labor at which he toils under the sun?

An adult has some advantages in being compared to an immature. One of them is the attitude towards acceptance. An adult successfully develop the ability to understand him, others and the environment. An adult has the freedom of expression in accordance with its responsibilities. An adult has a plan for the future. An adult is able to control his feelings, emotions and desires more regularly. An adult also is a realistic in looking at life because of the development of the ability of an assessment of deficiency and excess. An adult never stops learning. An adult understands one thing that whatever is obtained from this world is not eternal, and understand the power of God almighty ruler to the time and space. And more details of how the spiritual attitude of an adult is below:

An adult has opinion if he is impossible to get everything, winning and result like he want.

Ecclesiastes 2 : 22 What does a man get for all the toil and anxious striving with which he labor under the sun ?

Small children tended to want all his wishes fulfilled by his parents immediately and all. He did not want to diminish one bit what the demands. He has a gun that was crying and would not stop until he got what he wanted. He would continue to sulk until his parents gave what he asked. But a person who grows up in balance between the physical, psychological and soul will have order in his thinking. He will lose the properties in his babyhood, in many cases, according to Abraham Maslow many natures of children that missed was also a disadvantage. But he gets properties equivalent as replacement and even more favorable for their development. In view of a healthy adult, belonging is not an absolute. He will struggle to get what he wants, but on the other hand he is also aware of its limitations, so he will give up if he did not get what he wants. He will turn his attention to other targets that may be more likely to get for. He will have a better experience in assessing its ability to get what he wants. He become wise about what to do, even if he does speculation, he will take that into account carefully. He will continue to fight to get what he wants, but in the corridors as much as he could. More than of his ability he will pick back and select other priorities that they can get.

An adult does not want his desire mislead his way.

Ephesians 4 : 22 You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desire.

An adult saw a danger when he lived to follow impulsive and desires of his owned. Sometimes life should look at the reality and not just the fulfillment of a dream only. For many chasms awaited them if they were not prudent in their stride. The longer a life they knew that the temptation to live up to the desire became stronger, and it was something has to be avoided. A healthy adult will choose what is acceptable and can be obtained, while outside it was regarded as a trial. If an adult is able to resist the temptation, then he will find peace, if not then there is a danger, unbridled passion. The more a drowning in a sea of desire, it will be more difficult it will get out from his clutches. The more difficult it apart then he will be unhappy. Control is the key word to avoid the trap of insatiable desire. A person who has high self-control will be saved in his life journey. But a person who loses control then life will swallow him alive, and he will find himself mired in endless suffering. Many people underestimated when someone twisted desire that made his life a mess. And usually they were aware when everything was severe and difficult and too late to be handled. An adult will always be carefully in judge, and therefore they rarely get into trouble as a result, because of uncontrollable desire.

An adult has power to hold on, struggle and able to cope himself as result of defeat, failure and bitterness of life.

2 Timothy 2 : 1 You then, my son, be strong in the grace that is in Christ Jesus.

Everyone has the ability to survive. And this ability is formed as it grows. In a harmonious family's the ability grows optimally. But a person who grows up in a broken home will have the ability stunted, due to problems in his family. A person who is able to develop his skills will have a happier life. And for those who impeded his ability will get live as if very heavy and can not be covered by it. One who has immune to feeling depressed as a result of failure or who was not affected by the bitterness felt when happiness was not lost or reduced due to negative feelings. But for those who were not adults would feel if they were no longer able to be happy when they got the defeat, failure and bitterness of life.

## MINDSET OF ADULT ACCORDING TO CHRISTIAN

Isaiah : 32 : 17 The fruit of righteousness will be peace.

As Christians we must live according to the teachings of Christianity. Just by being good Christian disciples we can be happy. As the tomato plants are happy if it becomes the seed of tomato that grow into tomato plant lush and produce good fruits. Also Christians can only be happy if he becomes good Christians, faithful and obedient to the Christian doctrine that allows him to grow in faith and then culminates in the service of the people and to produce good fruits. We should not complain because of the teachings of Jesus are difficult, but we should be excited because a lot of good advices for the growth of our spiritual life and makes us become mature accordingly to mind and soul. Only through the maturity of mind and soul, Christians can understand how to turn something bad into good. How is to transform suffering into happiness. That requires our willingness to explore what are the mandate of Jesus to do. Just only by following Jesus' command so we can have an image of Jesus that in truth. And if we have worn the image then we will be perfect in real life and spiritual. By looking at all the facts about the teaching of Jesus, we get to know all the secrets of his teachings which bring us to salvation. A person who already saved is who has joy in his heart. But to be able to get complete happiness then we must understand all into His command. Christians' mindset in the face of the problems is a manifestation of Christian teachings that have been fused with thoughts and desires. A Christian is moved by the Holy Spirit that be given by Jesus when he is baptized. And by the movement of the Holy Spirit so many Christians have the power to perform a variety of services. The Holy Spirit gives dynamism, spirit, strength, hope, consolation, participation and more. In order for all tasks entrusted successful and increasingly glorified the name of God on earth. Teachings have given by Christ as a path that must be taken to form a person at the quality level of faith as it is wanted by God. This teaching becomes a light in the darkness of the world, keeping a person in order to remain on the policy line of God and not deviated from any rules. One who studied the teachings of Christ will understand the truth and the light that will lead to the true happiness. Only the real truth that can make a person is really happy physically and spiritually, for there is no doubt in his heart that can hinder happiness that he has fought. The dream of every Christian become like what is required of Christ, becoming obedient disciple of Christ and faithful to God's commands. God's commandments do not trammel the human race, but instead liberate everybody in order to achieve the highest level that can be achieved, which is to be like Jesus' expectations, i.e. to be perfect as the Father, which has been so well provide a variety of goodness and happiness mercy on His people though sometimes His people disappoint Him. Goodness without limits of God in humans is a gift that is unimaginable for mankind. All Christians realize that the calls for Christians are doing much goodness. And when all doing good as well as such an imitation of God that was already kind for His people, then there is nothing that is impossible that man be like the hope of Jesus, that is becoming a perfect human being inside and outside. Because his life is filled with divine favor through the guidance of the Holy Spirit who always never stops teach God's people to be people who have the unconditional kindness, as our heavenly Father that also provides all the goodness unconditionally, for God loves His people. He will not refuse because of the sins of mankind, even he bestows His Only Son so that all who believe in Him get true life and happiness as the people of His beloved. As someone who has studied the teachings of Christ are so full of meaning, and then of course Christian's people have many virtues. And the virtues are radiated through the mindset that is full of depictions of Christ's teachings that have been learned, grappled and become part of his life. While the mindset is how to deal with life in this world, in order to continue to emit the Christian faith that guided his life. A mindset that includes how a Christian must face:

Brave to hold suffering for Christ

Romans 8 : 17 If indeed we share in his sufferings in order that we may also share in his glory.

Matthew:10:16-32. As Christians of course we also know and understand the consequences to be Disciples of Christ. The world hated Jesus, it is also the same world will hate the students and we are all Christians. Because we are the people of Christ is not of this world, but bright children of God who have been baptized and sanctified by the Holy Spirit. We are not the same as people outside the Christian, because Christians are children of the light and is not part of this world. It takes courage to distance them from the darkness of this world. It takes fortitude to separate them from the behavior of this world's sin. It takes a readiness to suffer for the face of all those who will oppose all the teachings of Christ. Mindset of mature Christians are reflecting on Christ's words, which reject all the sins of this world. Bliss of the Christian is happiness when we do a lot of goodness in life because of our love for Christ. We do all these works is basically because of the love of Christ. The purpose of the Christian life is to love Christ until the end of time. Be suffering in life is no longer a thing that can reduce the happiness of Christians. It is precisely in the suffering of the name of Christ, is the peak of happiness to be had by Christians. We are happy can take up the cross of Christ. We are happy to follow the path of Christ. Suffering for Christians is part of the process to be happy because they follow the teachings of Christ.

Generate good fruits

Luke 6: 43 No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear a good fruit.

What was planted God is a good tree. Impossible tree that be planted God will produce bad fruits. Christians are trees planted by Christ himself. That is God by Himself who sow the seeds, then care for and after it come time God Himself will harvest. Thus Christians are a people who really special, sacred trees that will bear fruits of holiness in the ministry. Christians may not bear fruits that will lead to destruction. But Christians will produce eternal salvation and useful for the whole world. Christians are the light of this world in the dark ages. We saw war everywhere, murder, robbery and also abuse of drugs. Indeed the world is on the verge of dying because of sin does. Increasing age does not make the better world but increasingly perish. For that the role of Christians is becoming an oasis for everyone in this world who craves the good of the world. Christians are the true light in the world; because from their inner selves they radiate the love of Christ for the world. Becoming brighter and brighter and brighter, so that everyone sees the light of Jesus that emanates from every body of Christians. God loves the world, as well as an obligation for Christians where they all also have to act as the hand of God to love this world. Christian's mindset is to follow what God wants. That is a benefit to the world. A Christian is an heir of the kingdom of God and heirs of the owners of this world. So that the mindset of Christians is a mindset that maintain and care for the world, until like what God the Father want. Loving the world with surrender to the love of Christ, does not hide away from each other, does not escape from the responsibility for the noble tasks. So with the fruit of love Christians can cure a sick world and go to it destruction. By producing fruits of goodness, then Christians are happy people. And happiness that will not run out when distributed to the world. Even the fruit will be more abundant and bountiful. For goodness will spread kindness to others. And finally kindness will spread like mushrooms in rainy season. Generate goods fruits because therein lies the true Christian happiness.

Faithful in small mater

Luke 16 : 10 Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much.

We know that the competition in this world is so tight. How was not, to get a job people had to scramble among the thousands of people who had the same abilities and interests. It's a lot of jobs to be done, and the type of works is abundant, but the problem is, those jobs do not interest to people for just provided a little income. If you are a Christian who has small and insignificant role in society should not be discouraged. Keep work and active as good as possible. Christians believe in one thing that if we believe if we faithful in small mater then one day we'll get a big task. Christians mindset is very clear that keep doing the best they can do and do not stop hoping and praying that the Lord was merciful to their efforts. Everything is done by Christians is a tribute to God. So whether small or large it is still important to God. Therefore God also gives favor to the people through what they do and dedicate to Him. God loves Christians who also loves the Lord. Therefore, God does not stop intervene to help His people who He loves so much. And if everything is done by Christians dedicated to God, then God just need to bless to make that gift become great. This is a secret that is rarely known by most Christians. That is all of the works which be dedicated to God will be anointed by God and make it into a way for God to love mankind. So God will bless the work and someday it will become bigger and bigger, so that it becomes a blessing for all those who are nearby. And of course who is not happy to see what they done is anointed and blessed by God. Indeed all Christians are happy and will fold knees and worship to the God.

## THE WAY OF THE HAPPPINESS

Zephaniah 3 : 14 Sing , O Daughter of Zion, shout aloud, O Israel! Be glad and rejoice with all your heart, O Daughter of Jerusalem! The Lord has taken away your punishment.

Many little things that can make us feel happy feelings. For example, we can feel the happiness when we see the whole room of the house to be clean after a day's cleaning. We feel happy when we eat dishes that might not fancy but it fit the tongue. We can feel happiness when we meet old friends who have not met so long. We can feel happiness after we see the smile of someone who has we helped. Even just by listening to the song that we like, it already makes our hearts happy. Maybe happiness levels are different, and it depends on the trigger. If we get salary every month we feel standard happiness. If we get salary and bonus for our achievements, then happiness is increased. And if we get a career, rank or position advancement, then maybe we will cry when get it. Every person who plant will reap from what he planted. It is similarly with happiness. A person who has the discipline to do things right and try not to make mistakes by doing everything with maturity then he will feel happy all the time. We can feel a sense of happiness because we do not have a barrier anymore to be able to feel the happiness. The absence of the negative feelings that hatred, anger, regret, anxiety or fear in our hearts give us the ability to feel happiness arising. Maturity in us also adds to the factors we can obtain happiness. For an adult away from the problem that usually happens when we behave childishly. An adult does not have an enemy that can damage a happy mood. An adult has tranquility in his life, which is a requirement for someone to gain happiness. A mature person brings happiness into him. So that it is easier to obtain happiness, happiness is longer to be felt, happiness is deeper enjoyed. Someone who is not an adult is likely to damage everything around him until that happiness can not get close to him. Someone who is not an adult shortens the life of happiness or even destroys it completely. An adult has a lot of positive things in his life, and the positive thing is factor that is very useful in order happiness is closer to him. Likewise, an adult is a person who patiently waits; perhaps even in the process he also gain happiness. A person who is patient in waiting is rarely difficult to be disappointed or let down. In the end the person because of his patience obtains what has been waiting for, and indeed he will be the happiest people. An impatient possible during his lifetime never get what he is looking for, or he even ruins all the good things that bring happiness in his life. It is so importance of maturity for one's life in order to be happy. So accordance old image wearing, humans will be difficult to obtain happiness in his life. Because the old image or image childish lacks the atmosphere and conditions that can make him happy. A person who just wants to get, takes what he wanted without even trying will not survive wade current era. It must strive, he must be toil, he has to sweat to meet all his needs, and then above that he is entitled to get a feeling of happiness. And the happiness is minimum standard that can be perceived a man today. The Apostle Paul said "if a man will not work, he shall not eat". A person who does not eat certainly is not going to be happy. So an adult is one who understands his duty. After he fulfills basic duty, and then he can begin to feel a sense of happiness. For someone who very loves God will feel happy feeling of unlimited resources. We believe that the Holy Spirit is living in us. And the Holy Spirit can only be obtained after a baptism. After the Holy Spirit live in the human heart, the human image is replaced with a new image, the image of Jesus Christ. The Holy Spirit makes a person able to follow all the teachings of Christ and to apply them in their daily life. Without the guidance of the Holy Spirit in one's heart will not be able to feel the truth of the teachings of Christ. A person who in his life is filled with the Holy Spirit will have the character according to. So he is able to learn all the truth of Christ and gains true happiness. Prayer is a means to strengthen the bond between us, the Holy Spirit and Jesus Christ. So that a continuous praying all the time will always be like a plant, that is not a shortage of water and fertilizer. And the crop is free from all diseases and curses. He becomes a mighty in prayer life. And from there he will feel endless happiness.

A person who maintains his spiritual life will be very easy to get a feeling of happiness. See flowers bloom can evoke a happy feeling. Hear spiritual songs can make his heart blossom and bloom like flowers. Everything that is around even the trivial things can make him feel the vibrations of happiness. So faith and maturity are able to transform ordinary things around becomes more beautiful and meaningful. Someone who has a good spiritual life does not require such great triggers to be able to feel happiness. The heart of a believer will be very sensitive to small spark that generates happiness in his nerves vibrated. But his heart is very blunt with negative feelings, which he is not easily angered, not easily sad, and do not give up easily. And it all can be achieved only by people who are adults and at least they believe in Jesus Christ. God is the source of endless happiness. He radiated abundance blessing. And if He pleases to give, then what will be given is enormous and there is no endless. It is similarly if we rely on Him. Then it is no longer close happiness anymore, but the happiness is inherent in us. Recognizing ourselves loved by the Lord, our hearts filled with compassion. And everyone if in him there is love blooming, then all the views is beautiful. So if our hearts filled with love of God then we will never be let down. We can feel happiness when we wake up from mornings sleep. In every second, minutes, hours or even a whole day our hearts will be filled with happiness. And no one in this world who is able to destroy the happiness that comes from God's love. Only us those are capable to destroy the happiness itself. When we go away, God still never shut the door of happiness. But if we go away from God then we leave source of happiness. So the more we go from God then we are increasingly unhappy. But still we can come back at any time to Him, because God never closes it door to anyone who wants to approach. Someone who loves God will feel a great happiness all of the time, even though he was having a bad thing. Because he was grateful when got down, he felt if also carried the cross like Christ. It is a pride for Christians that can carry the cross like Christ. Therefore, one who loves Christ throughout his life was filled with great joy regardless of the circumstances of receipt. That's the biggest secret, why all the disciples of Jesus always rejoice, glad and be happy even when they died on the cross. Because there is nothing more beautiful, nothing more happy things in this world than get love of God. You do not need anything to be happy in this world and the only one you have to do, that is to love God and be loved by Him. If you already felt God's love in your heart, you will understand how wonderful the design of God in your life.

Struggle!!! Fight!!! Held the pass!!!

## KEY OF HAPPINESS WHEN YOU GET DOWN

Matthew 26 : 75 And he (Peter) went outside and wipe bitterly.

Perhaps you have learned the entire contents of the book, and then you remember of your bad fate. You are still not happy even though has understood the contents of this book, because you just got divorced by spouse or dumped by a lover. Your heart is so sore and can not be treated with anything. Maybe your project was rejected by your boss whereas for months you did homework for the project, you might have to sacrifice time for family, money was not little and the promise to friends. You really were very embarrassed that you felt at the time like the end. You might want to commit suicide due to various reasons that many kinds. And after reading this book you are not happy.

So what should you do?

Colossians 1 : 24 Now I rejoice in what was suffered for you, and I fill up in my flesh what is still lacking in regard to Christ's afflictions, for the sake of his body, which is the church.

You feel that you are really mature but considering what just happened, all the passion of your life is gone. You are not excited about living life again. You also get tips or advice from friends, or maybe all the books about happiness you have read but it seems that happiness can not be found. So what should you do? The illustration about how difficult and hard of a racer Moto GP did exercise. They risked their lives every time. They fell, got broken bones, injuries and even they also experienced a very serious accident, but what did you see? The riders were not sad, frightened or cried. They even looked very chirpy, they laughed. As if they have forgotten that their lives almost floated, they almost forgot that before they collided with a fellow rider. Try to imagine they had just escaped from death, but they were as if not affected. What's the secret? Beyond their high salaries, they really have a very big secret.

What is the secret?

Isaiah 54 : 2 Enlarge the place of your tent, stretch your tend curtains wide, do not hold back; lengthen your cords, strengthen your stakes. For you will spread out to the right and to the left.

They have a target to become world champion. They have great aspiration. They have very high dreams. So what has happened to them as if has no meaning. They have a counterbalance to the deteriorating situation. So when weight is weighed of the desire to become world champion is not comparable with the weight of disaster or accident that may befall them. Their dreams are great to cover up or make no meaning the pain of the accident, the horror of having to gamble with their life and their suffering during practice. Their big dreams as they make the body immune to the suffering, sadness and pain. Likewise, you have to have balance in life. You must have great ambitions, dreams and aspirations. At least it is greater than your love drama or romance. You have to have something big enough to offset the disappointment on something that you think is important, suppose your romance, career or financial. So anything that happened to you right disappointments because of a failed romance, the project is rejected, loss, disadvantage of property, loss of job etc. is looked small. You feel difficult when you fail in love; because you assume that is loved by the opposite sex was everything for you. And this is what makes you unhappy. For that you have to have something else, which is large enough so that the problems of romance, career, job, money, rank, etc. becomes meaningless compared your ideals, goals, your ambitions and your big dreams. If you have big dreams, great aspirations and great ambitions wounds caused by dumped lover or spouse becomes too trivial for you. So when you have a large target, then the project is rejected superiors would you consider it trivial too. Have a big dream, have ideals as sky high and have large enough of ambitions so that the suffering of your life is nothing compared with what is in your heart. If that is not enough, read again the story of the apostles in the Bible. The students knew that they would suffer, be imprisoned, would be tortured and killed; but look at them, they did not tremble, they rejoiced, they were rip-roaring and they were happy. They preached the gospel all over the world without fear, even they rejoiced like a child who just got gift candy.

Why is it able?

Matthew 13 : 44 The Kingdom of heaven is like treasure hidden in field.

For whole their heart filled with wishes, desires, ideals and dreams to be with Jesus in heaven. They knew that heaven was so great that the whole in the world became insignificant in their eyes. Their hearts were filled with big dreams of heaven, they wanted to govern together with Christ, and they wanted to serve the Lord in heaven. That was something tremendous in their eyes. What they had seen and heard about heaven far exceeds their desire for this world. That was the secret so that the students did not feel despair while incarcerated, tortured or killed. But they rejoiced, were joyful and it was obvious they were happy. God loves you so much that He sacrificed His only Son to redeem for your sins on the cross. Just hearing that alone you should be happy, for you already have access to heaven, for the redemption that you become heir riches of heaven. With the redemption make you gain immortality. It is an ironic, if you already believe in the redemption of Christ, but you are still sad because something trivial and because of daily problems. Know the value of redemption that you get? You should imagine you get a five star apartment is as high as a hundred floors, but your sorrow in this world is only worth losing tenement area of two bedrooms. Is this a rational? You are not happy to get five star apartment is as high as 100 floors entirely yours and you mourn the loss of a narrow house and slum? You are really must be pitied if you do not see what the apostles' of Christ perception so that they were willing to lose whatever they have in this world, including losing their lives. Get the way of viewing the apostles of Christ and imitate how do they think, then you will be immune to the suffering of this world, and whatever you get in this world only HAPPINESS and only HAPPINESS. Amen.

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