I was against the marriage
I can celebrate other's marriage but I didn't wanted to marry again
I was against it because I didn't wanted to face this big responsibility again
I have been into relationship where I didn't receive single flower
and he brought Sarowski's earings in our first meeting I found it weird
movie date- Kamya Punjabi, I love watching movies, romantic
no not at all, not possible,
if she looses I'll get it back that's what has been happening
Hi, I am Kamya Punjabi, and I am Shalabh Dang.
and we are doing Love Talkies with PINKVILLA
right after meeting for few days
I fell in love on first day itself
I took my time like not too much but yes
not like him, he fell in love on first day
approximately a month
for first few days we use to talk on phone, and chat
then when he came to Mumbai for his work
we thought of meeting each other
and I also made sure in 15 days I will make her fall in love
first is maturity and second is responsibility towards family
for me this is important
and as a parent also how responsible a person is
I find this attractive about him
and obviously the understanding with my work
like today is Saturday and I asked for Holiday
but our field and profession is such that we never know when we have to work
so the understanding he has it's her work it's okay
the support matter a lot to me and I have been watching this thing in him since beginning
the way he cares and understand and love ..\
for me it was when I first met her.
we hugged each other like normal friends
and later when I started talking, I realized she is very sensible
she means what she says
she is very ground to earth, she is very warm
people who know her very well, will say she is very warm hearted
and very giving nature I don't how many know her but
these are couple of things which I really love
we both were single parent so we realized that this will really gel
it was all a process to see the kids
giving time to them know us, we didn't say it first
we met bought them many gifts
spend time with them and when they were comfortable
then we told them about us and by that time they were quite comfortable with us
they were happy with this
when I met her it was 1, February 2019
I think very same day, I proposed her
I said because I was not looking for anything short term relationship
so I was very clear I want to marry her
and I proposed her she didn't say yes she didn't say no
I thought maybe she doesn't want any marriage now
so I thought I had to put in more efforts and I had targeted that I will make hr fall for me
so she was ready within 2-3 weeks
like I said from his head to toe his habits
the care the concern and his understanding
and responsibility and maturity towards kids those are the things
and yes I was against marriage
I celebrate others wedding but I didn't wanted to marry again
I against it that I never want to take this responsibility again
and the big thing was Delhi-Bombay
so I was not ready
and he made me understand about the kids
I said we have kids they both have different life
they have different school and friends
so he made me understand about it
I said Delhi- Bombay then he made me understand about it
I said I won't leave my work then he made me undersatnd about that too
so he has made me understand about each and every level \
and gave surerity with time I also saw
it's not a big deal if you want you can
then the things sort out
then I was relaxed and I was okay
so everything went well in our favour
His laptop, his phone
I think this two things because he is never without his phone
his work is like so yes phone
tiffin is okay whatelse watch can be yes and no
I think she won't leave her house without couple of things
glass of juice and
if Araa is awake she will say goodbye to her and give goodday kiss to her before leaving
I think this are two important things to her before she leaves
you forgot the most important
I will not leave my house without wearing a Tikka
Quality for me it's quality and she doesn't like it
okay I will say that thing will reach to you
if you sneeze or some light flue
after that he starts with his medicines his instructions
the whole day schedule
he is all about medicines then
this thing annoys me a lot sometimes
it's called over calling by the way
this is quality that I feel why did I say
same thing I was saying
whenever I am so bothered about her
when she is not happy or not well
so I take extra cautious care
so that can turn into debate sometimes
now tell one quality of me that you don't like
she is so adjusting nature
we work like this
I think he can cook but till date he haven't cook anything
because he is so organized , has knowledge and hyginic
I think he can cook well
kamya knows everything
and the most wonderful thing I like is the tea that she makes
and second is her mutton
if you eat that mutton you will get addicted to eat and you will specially come to eat that mutton
and she made a good Halwa too loved it
I said I don't know my mother in law said I will make you just stire it
when first time he came to meet me
so he gifted me a Saroswki's earnings
and said how can I come empty hand
so I left very weird
so you feel weird that someone bought and I took it
I have never been in such environment and don't have such habits
I have been into a relationship where I didn't receive a flower
and this man bought me Saroswkis's earnings in first meeting I felt weird
and he forced me to accept that
so next time when I met him so I gifted him airpod
that was my answer
so for me it was like he has given so now I will return it and finish it
and untill I didn't meet him I felt bad
for me it was a trouble that she didn't accept it
and I bought it so lovingly because I love those loops
so when I bought it I could imagine her wearing it
but she said no I was like come on I bought it with love from Delhi to Bombay
it took me a while to make her mind but then she agreed
and she accepted by giving me a airpod
we had so much fun in our wedding
our Pandit Ji was explaining each and every thing to us
when he was putting Sindhur on my forehead I said put it all
I can';t believe I was going to say the same thing
it was a big celebration and
normally girls cry after marriage but it was total opposite here
it was fun infact mom also said okay bye
so the moment was Sindhur
Pandit Ji said when Sindhur spreads don't wipe it, it's goodluck
so I told him to put lot and when he did it spread
so that moment was good
about Kamya she has many traditional values
so Mangalsutra, bangels, all these things value a lot to her
but when husband puts the Sindhur she wears it very religiously
so I said Sindhur is the moment for the wedding
I could see sparkle in her eyes
me
me
are you coming
both of us I think
she watches wedding album the most
he started making video of al the small moments
suppose if I am praying or, maybe playing with mosquitoes
he captures the moment and he keeps watching it
because I stay in Delhi and she stays in Mumbai
we hardly meet 8-10 days in a month
not till date
we both are very good at it
we both remember dates and days very well
I love watching movies- romantic
no, not at all
if she looses I will get her back, thats what has been happening
there are smaller things too
he handles me very well and also handles situation too
be anything
he will say relax things will work,
nothing like we have lost it
