We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns. 
National Competition on Worries! 
(Nice to meet you) 
He's always energetic. Entertainer Boom. 
Hello. Nice to meet you. 
I'm entertainer Boom. Nice to meet you. 
Boom. 
Why did you make a sound of a foghorn? 
To make everyone cheerful. 
DIA's Chaeyeon and Yebin. 
(Chaeyeon / DIA / Yebin) 
(Energy up!) 
This couple is 11 years apart in age. 
Lee Sagan and Ron, the newlyweds. 
(You look great together) 
When Sagan was in third grade, 
Ron was born. 
Winter break in third grade. 
To be exact. 
That's too exact. 
- Third grade. / - That's too exact. 
You two are so affectionate. 
They just got married 3 months ago. 
You don't have any concerns right now, right? 
We are having a great time, 
but he'll join the army soon. 
Congratulations. 
But he'll join the army soon. 
Congratulations. 
What's wrong with you? 
He's joining the army. 
They were holding hands behind the stage, too. 
They look good together. 
Do you always hold hands like that? 
Yes, we do. 
Since he's going off to the army, 
he ripped his pants so she can touch him. 
(Touching his knee) 
That part of the skin is very tender. 
(Lovely knee) 
Would you date someone who's 11 years apart? 
My brother is 13 years younger than I am. 
Imagine dating his friend. 
(Too weird) 
- He's currently 10 years old? / - Yes. 
You should be nice to his friends. 
You never know. 
As for me, I should be getting married soon. 
If we can work the windmill together 
the age gap wouldn't matter. 
She could be 10 years younger or older. 
Wouldn't that be okay? 
DIA members, do you feel uncomfortable 
because people see you a certain way 
that's different from your true self? 
I smile or laugh a lot on television. 
People think you're young and naive. 
That's what people think of me. 
So whenever I am laid back or talkative, 
some people are surprised by it. 
I don't normally act cute, 
but fans ask me to do it. 
That's tough. 
What is she really like? 
We sometimes find bugs in our home. 
We see cockroaches sometimes. 
Then we call for Yebin and she runs over. 
She grabs it with her bare hands. 
(Oh my!) 
If you smack it with your hand, it would burst. 
Then I throw it away and wash my hands. 
Like this? 
You're really laid back. 
I heard that you released a new song. 
We're back with a song titled "WOOWA." 
Please perform for us. 
Let's get it. 
("Woowa" by DIA) 
(Refreshing and cheerful) 
(Synchronized moves and addictive sound) 
Yo DJ, come to this party. 
(Woowa, woowa, woowa) 
That was nice. 
(How fun!) 
That was good. 
Yebin, I see a cockroach right here. 
(She slaps it with her bare hand) 
We have three concerns here today. 
Please show us the keywords. 
"Two-faced Husband." 
"I Want an Apology." 
"Hold Your Head Up High." 
This is titled, "Two-faced Husband." 
Hello. I'm a mother in my 40s with 
three sons who are 11, 9, and 2. 
My husband is very strict with the kids. 
But only to our eldest son. 
Not all three, 
but just to our eldest son. 
This is my husband. 
"Wait. Where's the remote? Where is it? 
Hey, No. 1. You took it, right?" 
"No, I didn't." 
I'm No. 2. "Here it is. 
I took it." 
"Oh, you did, my dear son? 
You wanted to watch TV? Good job." 
That must be upsetting. 
"What are you looking at, No. 1? 
Go clean your room!" 
(That's terrible) 
He dotes on our second son, 
but he is mean to our eldest. 
"Honey." 
Honey? 
(Oh, you're my wife?) 
I'm your wife who's 20 years older. 
Okay, honey. 
"Honey, couldn't you dote on No. 1, too?" 
"I can't help that No. 2 is cuter. 
Stop nagging at me. This is all because of 
our eldest son! 
No. 1. Come here. Come here!" 
My husband hurts our eldest son's feelings. 
What should I do about this? 
This is her concern. 
He's blatantly playing favorites. 
Just from hearing the concern, everyone's... 
(How frustrating) 
What do you think, Sagan? 
I... (Holding hands) 
Can't you stop holding each other's darn hands? 
"Darn" hands? 
- It's fine. / - Those hands. 
You can lock your hands. 
My brother is very young. 
Since my parents had him at an old age, 
they dote on him a lot. 
Even though I'm much older, it upsets me. 
Even with the age gap? 
Let's bring out the mom now. 
Please come on out. 
(Who's concerned about her husband?) 
(Kim Hyejin) 
(Welcome) 
Your husband treats your two sons differently? 
Yes. When he calls our eldest son, he yells, 
"Hey, hey, hey!" 
He doesn't even call out your son's name? 
To our second son, he says, "Yul" 
or calls him by his nickname, "Donman." 
He secretly gave money to Yul many times, too. 
Oh gee. 
Since when has he been like this? 
He must've doted on the eldest when he was born. 
He wasn't as sweet to our eldest as Yul, 
but he would change diapers and play with him. 
He also fed our son, too. 
But it got worse after Yul was born. 
As soon as your second son was born? 
Yes. 
Why does he say the reason is? 
Because our eldest takes after his flaws. 
Our son looks, act, and thinks just like my husband. 
Wouldn't that be a reason to love him more? 
No, my husband hates those aspects. 
I guess some people don't like that. 
My only son looks just like me. 
He just started middle school. 
A classmate came up to him and said, 
"You look like the guy from Hello Counselor." 
Really? Really? 
Yes. 
What did your son say? 
He said, "I see" and didn't tell her the truth. 
He has the same flaws as I do, 
so I feel like he's the mini version of me. 
Right. Right. 
I think my husband just hates our eldest son. 
That's ridiculous. That's ridiculous. 
Even objects... 
Our second child always carries the remote. 
When the remote is gone, he yells at the eldest. 
"Hey, go bring it back." 
Holding the remote means he's No. 1 in the family. 
The fact that the second one holds it 
means that he's up there. 
Right. 
What else is there? 
While they eat, 
they both spill food on the floor. 
But he yells, "You prick, why are you spilling food?" 
(How upsetting) 
Our second one walks around as he eats. 
But my husband doesn't yell at him. 
Even though they act the same way... 
Doesn't your husband spill food? 
- I'm sure he does. / - I do, too. 
(I yell at him) 
How are things between the two sons? 
When the eldest talks to his brother 
he screams and yells. 
Sometimes, he beats his brother. 
Boys run around a lot when they're young. 
When a child falls down, other parents would say, 
"Are you all right?" But my husband says, 
"I knew you'd fall. I knew it." 
That's why our son gets withdrawn. 
He doesn't cry even after he falls down. 
He's afraid of his father. 
That really happened? 
His face was scratched. I asked, "Are you okay?" 
He said, "Yes, I'm fine." 
- He was afraid of Dad? / - I was so upset. 
It was really upsetting. 
(I'm so heartbroken) 
You sent us this concern in 2014, right? 
- Yes, about 5 years ago. / - 5 years ago. 
You didn't think we'd last this long, right? 
Why did you send in your concern back then? 
Back then, it was really bad. Right now... 
It's worse? 
It's part of our lives now. 
You're used to it. 
They are growing up and will go through puberty. 
I was afraid that it might get worse. 
I'm glad you came here today. 
Let's ask why the husband does that. 
Let's talk to him now. 
I don't know what to call him. 
He's our guest though. 
He calls his own son, "Hey, prick." 
Then we should do the same. 
Could you do it for me, Dongyeob? 
(Hesitant) 
I need to survive. 
- Hello. / - Hello. 
You coward. 
Hello, you prick. 
(Who's the dad that treats his sons differently?) 
Let's talk. 
I'm sure our viewers don't understand either. 
Why do you treat them differently? 
To be honest, my eldest son has 
a lot of my traits that I hate the most. 
I just don't like that. 
If you don't like something, 
as his dad, you should try to fix or embrace it. 
It's too late to fix it now. 
Wait. 
- Are you giving up on your own son? / - Wait. 
You said that he has the same flaws as you have. 
What are those flaws? 
First of all, 
he never thinks about anything profoundly. 
He never thinks twice 
and does things selfishly. 
Then is your younger son profound 
and does he think a lot before doing things? 
- Then it would make sense. / - That's right. 
The most crucial... 
No, they're the same. 
The younger one is worse. 
- The younger one is worse? / - Yes. 
Then that's not the reason. 
Our eldest son doesn't express love. 
But the first word our second son said was... 
Most kids say, "Mommy" first. 
He said "Daddy" first. 
- That's it? / - That's the reason? 
No, that's not the reason... 
He's angry. 
At the time, I was doing some hard work. 
I was tired and our eldest was causing trouble. 
But our second son would greet me with love. 
He would yell, "Peek-a-boo" and run out. 
That became the source of my energy at the time. 
That is why I know it's wrong, 
but I end up treating them differently. 
When they eat and spill food, 
you yell at the eldest more? 
He is disgusting when he eats. 
Sometimes, he grunts like a pig. 
Like this. 
I tell him not to wolf down his food. 
But he won't change. 
He is very distracted when he eats. 
He's just like you, so did you spill a lot 
and grunt like a pig when you were a child? 
I don't remember. 
(Oh gee) 
When something goes missing 
you suspect your eldest son first. 
He stole coins when he was younger. 
To be honest, they both did. 
Shouldn't you yell at both then? 
To be honest, it's not easy. 
I can't scold the second one for some reason. 
He... 
This is just pure favoritism. 
Your husband explained his reasons. 
Do you understand them? 
No. 
- Not at all? / - No. 
What parts don't you understand? 
Our eldest was young at one point. 
Sure. He was 5 years old at one point. 
But even then, my husband scolded him a lot. 
Our eldest got yelled at often. 
One time, my husband trembled with anger 
and yelled at him. 
One time, my husband dragged him into the room. 
He was never beaten, 
but he gets intimidated often. 
Sure. 
Our eldest is a better student and an athlete. 
He deserves compliments more often. 
Your eldest? 
When Dad strokes his head to praise him, 
he flinches like this. 
He's afraid of his father. 
(Imagine how harsh his dad was) 
I may look like I'm mad at him, 
but in my heart, I'm proud of him. 
Your son is a good student and an athlete. 
Do you compliment him for that? 
I do. 
But not enough that he'd feel it. 
You praise him, but not enough that he'd feel it? 
Do you whisper to him? "Good job." 
He just runs away from me. 
When I'm about to praise him, 
he just leaves and goes to his mom. 
You said that you're proud of him now. 
In the past, did you have hatred towards him? 
Yes. 
Why? 
I have an older brother. 
He's the opposite of me. He was a good boy 
and I was a troublemaker. 
So my father would always yell, "Hey, you prick. 
You have a negative influence on your brother." 
I worked part-time since middle school 
and earned my own spending money. 
My brother always got money from our parents. 
Since our eldest son acts the same way I did, 
I couldn't help but feel hatred towards him. 
If you grew up not being doted on, 
shouldn't you embrace him more? 
It's not easy because I was never shown that love. 
I don't know how to show it. 
(At least try) 
How old was he when you two got married? 
- He was 25. / - 25 years old. 
- He was young. / - He got married young. 
It must've been quite hectic back then. 
Yes, then our eldest son was born soon after. 
We moved to Pohang after he turned one. 
So you weren't able to form a bond with 
your son when he was growing up. 
No, because I was busy making ends meet. 
How old were you then? Were you younger? 
I'm 4 years older. 
- I'm older. / - Oh, you're older? 
This is the special with couples 
of older women and younger men. 
(Laughing out loud) 
I think your husband was quite stressed back then. 
I understand, but it's just an excuse. 
My husband never held a steady job then. 
After just 6 months, he'd say, "I'm exhausted" 
and quit his job every 6 months. 
Since he was so young, 
instead of me relying on him, 
he relied more on me. 
I had to do everything from A to Z. 
It was like I was raising two sons. 
I think it's more important to talk to the kids. 
Let's talk to them now. 
Hello. 
Hello. I'm 11-year-old Lee Rae. 
Lee Rae? 
That's a beautiful name. 
Hello. I'm 9-year-old Lee Yul. 
Lee Yul. 
How cute. 
Do you have concerns because of your dad? 
No, never. 
(Is he intimidating his son?) 
Sir. 
We are here to get everything out today, right? 
Please tell Rae that he can be honest. 
Promise him that you won't get angry. 
(Okay, I promise) 
I think he just twisted Rae's hand a lot just now. 
(No) 
Does it upset you that he favors Yul? 
- Yes. / - Because he cares for Yul more? 
(How sad) 
When does it upset you the most? 
When he secretly gives money to Yul. 
That was most upsetting? 
Dad gave it to Yul secretly, 
so how did you know? 
Yul bragged about it to me. 
- Oh, he did? / - Yul bragged about it. 
(I'm sorry. I couldn't help it) 
Do you think Dad loves Yul more? 
Yes. 
Doesn't that upset you? 
Not really. 
(He's so mature already) 
What else upsets you? 
When do you feel like he likes Yul more? 
Yul teased me, so I hit him, 
but Dad yelled at me. 
Your brother teased you first? 
How do you feel then? 
I want to punch my brother. 
See? It moves down the hierarchy. 
What he gets from Dad goes to his brother. 
How did your brother tease you? 
He called me by a nickname Dad calls me. 
- What is it? / - Magirae. 
Magirae. 
- Magirae. / - That'a a cute nickname. 
(That's cute) 
That's too cute. 
Your last name is Mag. 
I'm older, but Yul keeps hitting my head. 
(This time, he's afraid) 
That's wrong. 
Then you should've told Dad. 
"I hit him because he teased him first." 
I did, but Dad told me 
to bear it, so I was frustrated. 
What about when you eat? 
Dad told me not to watch television, 
but he himself watches it. 
(That was Dad's fault) 
He is no help. 
Did you ever hold back tears because of Dad? 
Until now? 
Yes. 
One time, I banged my knee on my desk 
and I got hurt and there was a big mark. 
He asked if I was okay and I said yes. 
You were more afraid of him yelling at you? 
Yes. 
(He's more afraid of his dad than getting hurt) 
Yul, do you have any concerns about Dad? 
Yes. 
(He has concerns?) 
What is your concern? 
Dad beats my brother hard, 
but he goes easy on me. 
That's your concern? 
(That's a concern?) 
He feels uncomfortable about being favored. 
He feels bad for his older brother. 
Do you want Dad to hit you harder? 
Or do you want him to be lenient on both of you? 
I want him to be lenient on both of us. 
He's smart. 
You are so mature and nice. 
So why did you tease your brother 
and hit him in the head? 
I never did that. 
My younger brother did. 
- The youngest? / - Yes. 
- But he's only 2. / - He's 2. 
Wait a minute. Who's lying here? 
- Rae, what's going on? / - What's going on? 
Yul hits his brother. 
Yul isn't afraid of his older brother. 
Of course. He knows Dad's on his side. 
What do you want Dad to do then? 
(Is he okay with the special treatment?) 
I want him to love all three of us. 
Sure. You want him to love you all, right? 
You just heard him, right? 
He stabbed me in the back. 
He asked me to give money only to him 
and this is what he says now. 
(He's an extraordinary kid) 
(You said that?) 
(Yul's big picture) 
Once he reaches puberty, 
I'm afraid that their relationship will get worse. 
- That's your concern? / - Yes. 
Things are getting awkward between them. 
When Dad talks, he thinks Dad's going to yell, 
so he calls for me. 
Then I nag at Dad. 
When I tell my husband to stop it, 
I see Rae smile. 
Why? 
He thinks Dad is getting scolded by me. 
(Dad is being scolded) 
"You deserve it." Like that? 
He smiles thinking that Dad is being yelled at. 
Since she's older than I am, 
she's like a scary mother to me. 
She nags at me a lot 
and she belittles me in front of the kids. 
I want to talk to him, but he never listens. 
- He watches TV or... / - You can't communicate? 
We just... 
You're not connecting at all. 
We don't connect at all. 
After you yell at your husband, 
he doesn't take it out on the kids, does he? 
He does. To our eldest son. 
Since he doesn't want to listen to me, 
he yells at Rae, "Go clean your room!" 
Out of the blue? 
He's taking out his anger on the eldest son. 
I wasn't like that from the beginning. 
When I talked to her 
she said that I was lying or making excuses. 
I run a business where I have to be active. 
I have to go around to different businesses 
to give out business cards, 
but she said that I waste gas. She also said that 
since I don't have any customers, 
I should be home instead of wasting time outside. 
Wait a minute. Ma'am. 
I think he should be sitting up here instead. 
He's angry. 
He has a lot of anger pent up inside him. 
Rae. 
Have you seen your parents fight? 
Yes. 
What do you think when they fight? 
I feel bad. 
What? 
You feel bad? 
- You feel bad? / - Yes. 
Why? 
Because I feel like they fight because of me. 
That's what he thinks. 
(He felt guilty about his parents fighting) 
While married, 
when was the toughest for you? 
My mom was sick for about 4 months. 
No one was able to take care of our son 
and my husband wasn't around. 
So I had to take my mom and my son 
and take the bus with a suitcase. 
Just thinking about it... 
After about 4 months, my mom passed away. 
Oh my. 
But you see, 
when my mom passed away, 
my husband was so immature. 
My close friends came to our house 
to mourn for my mom. My husband said... 
They came to mourn for my mom, 
but he suggested that they go on a trip. 
(Was he in his right mind?) 
I thought if I said no, he wouldn't go. 
But he rented a car and went on that trip. 
(He went on a trip without his wife?) 
Then I was pregnant with Yul. 
Those same friends came over again. 
I was sensitive then because I was pregnant. 
We went to the beach together 
and he was putting sunscreen lotion on them. 
I didn't think much of it. 
I didn't think my wife would get upset. 
You put sunscreen lotion on them? 
Yes, on their back. 
(Boiling with anger just hearing about it) 
Let's say it was vice versa. How would you feel 
if your wife rubbed lotion on your friends? 
I wouldn't stay put. 
Right? You would punch them, right? 
Why couldn't you think of her point of view? 
What do you say, ma'am? 
What are you most worried about? 
I'm afraid that Rae and my husband won't talk 
and that Yul will continue to belittle Rae. 
I'm afraid that our youngest may do the same. 
After they get married, 
they may do the same things to their children. 
(Doing the same things to their children) 
Weren't there moments when you were proud of Rae? 
He was in a track-and-field competition last year. 
In third grade, he was the star athlete for Pohang 
and he didn't even practice much. 
But he came in second. 
He came in second out of the whole province? 
(A congratulatory high-five) 
(Stare) 
- Can you...? / - Give him a hug. 
Hold the mic with your right hand. 
Yes, put your arm around him. 
How nice is that? (So awkward) 
What else can you brag about him doing? 
He just started to learn Taekwondo, 
but he's already on the demonstration team. 
He recently came in first in a race. 
Did Dad cheer you on? 
- Yes. / - Oh, he did. 
How did you feel? 
- I was happy. / - You were happy? 
He was happy. 
Other kids had their siblings cheer for them, 
but I had my dad cheering for me. It was great. 
(Resolve the conflicts one by one) 
Rae. 
Yes? 
Do you think Dad loves you or not? 
I think he loves me. 
How do you know when he doesn't express it? 
He may not express it, but you know? 
Yes. 
That's human instinct. 
He is so mature. 
Aren't you shocked? He thinks you love him. 
Yes, I'm shocked. 
I'm touched, too. 
Do you love him? 
Of course. 
What kind of a son is he to you? 
Can you tell him how much you love him? 
(Tears are welling up) 
(His family members are touched, too) 
(I wasn't going to cry today...) 
You should've been a jerk to the end. 
(He can't stop crying...) 
Of course, he loves his son. 
(Today...) 
(His son gets to know how much Dad loves him) 
You have to express it for him to know. 
Tell him how much you love him. 
I love you. I love you very much. 
(They share each other's warmth) 
(They applaud Dad's courage) 
(Yul is smiling, too) 
Now that you've brought up the courage, 
apologize to Rae for the past. 
I'm sorry for 
suspecting you first. 
It was your brother who teased you first 
and I'm sorry I yelled at you. 
I will... 
(Rae's anger finally disappears) 
I'll apologize and tell you I love you more often. 
How nice. 
(We root for your bigger love) 
When you face problems, 
will you talk to your dad? 
Yes. 
Have you ever told him about your girlfriend? 
No. 
Are you going to tell him from now on? 
What? 
All right, kiddo. 
(You're already keeping secrets?) 
Please say a word to your husband. 
Thank you, honey. 
I won't nag at you anymore. 
For the past 11 years... 
We moved to Pohang penniless 
and you went through a lot and cried a lot. 
Let's be happy for the rest of our lives. 
I love you. 
Is it a concern or not? 
Is it a concern or not? 
It's a concern. 
It would be a problem 
if they stop communicating in the future. 
I think it's a concern. 
I think any families with siblings 
would have this concern. 
Just expressing your emotions can resolve it. 
They know even if you don't say it? False. 
They won't know unless you express it. 
If you think it's upsetting for the mother, 
please press the button. 
5, 4, 3, 2, 1. 
Please stop. 
"Two-faced Husband." Let's look at the result. 
Did they get over 100 votes? 
(How many was able to relate to this concern?) 
How many votes out of 200? 
145 votes. 
(They got 145 votes) 
"I Want an Apology." 
He wants an apology from someone. 
Hello. I'm a man in my 30s from Gwangju. 
I have a sister who's 6 years younger than I am. 
She really frustrates me. 
"What time is it, huh? 
Why are you an hour late?" 
- You said Gwangju. / - Not the right dialect. 
That's a Gyeongsang-do dialect. 
What's wrong with your dialect? 
Did he just move to Gwangju from Gyeongsang-do? 
Tell him how it's done. "What time is it, huh?" 
"What time is it, huh?" 
- What time? / - What? 
When they talk, 
they try to speak without an accent. 
(He's the king of wittiness) 
"What time is it, huh?" 
What's wrong with you? 
"What time is it, huh? 
Why are you an hour late?" 
"So what?" 
"We've all been waiting for you." 
"So what? Don't yell at me." 
My sister never admits her mistakes. 
(Why?) 
What's the age gap between them? 
"Yes, I was wrong to yell at you. 
But it's your fault for being late." 
"Must we apologize to each other? We're family." 
She never apologizes. 
Then our mom says, "Honey, it's your fault. 
Just apologize to your brother." 
"Why are you telling me what to do? 
Why must I apologize?" 
It's so awkward. 
What's wrong with his dialect? 
(He's not good with Jeolla-do dialects) 
(It's so hot in here) 
That's terrible. 
(You can do it!) 
Is it so hard to say, "I'm sorry"? 
I can't take it anymore. 
Please get my sister to apologize to me. 
This is his concern. 
This is related to the first concern. 
Dad never apologized to Rae either. 
Right. 
But it's more upsetting when they don't mean it. 
Some say it as a joke. 
"Sorry, sorry, Myanmar." 
- Park Sungkwang. / - Right. 
How does it go? 
Sorry not sorry. 
There's this, too. Bye, bye, Dubai. 
It's annoying to be apologized to that way. 
(It is funny) 
This is the older brother who's concerned 
because of his sister who never apologizes. 
Please come on out. 
(Who's concerned about his sister?) 
(Han Seongpil) 
I'm sorry that the chair is a bit uncomfortable. 
- I'm sorry. / - It's okay. 
I'm sorry I am so fat. 
I should've lost weight before coming here. 
I'm sorry that my head is so big. 
I'm sorry my facial features are close together. 
(Let's apologize before we start) 
So you want your sister to apologize, right? 
Yes. 
She never says she's sorry. 
When we hold a family meeting, 
she's late by 15 to 40 minutes. 
If she tells us in advance that she'll be late, 
we could start eating first. 
But she says, "What's wrong with being late? 
Must I say I'm sorry to my own family?" 
Do you live in different places? 
Yes. My sister comes home every weekend. 
I don't even want to look at her, 
but I feel bad she comes home late by bus, 
so I go to pick her up after work. 
- You pick her up. / - You do? 
To drive her home. 
But there is a camera in front of her house 
to catch cars stopping or parking illegally. 
So I tell her, "Come out by what time." 
Then she should be out there on time. 
I call her before I leave. 
But she's never out there on time. 
Then you could get a ticket. 
So I call her. "Where are you?" 
Where are you? 
This is the right way to say it, Dongyeob. 
(He's learning) 
Then I get angry. She hops in the car 
- and says, "Step on it." / - Step on it? 
It's slang. 
(It means "Let's go") 
I thought it meant something else. 
But she never apologizes. 
So your sister has never apologized? 
She did when we were young. 
Then she worked at a call center for 2 years. 
I think she might've been greatly stressed then. 
Her personality changed. 
I tried to understand her, 
thinking that she was too stressed then. 
But she quit that job years ago, 
but her personality never changed back. 
Maybe she's sorry, but can't express it. 
No, not at all. 
She has these looks. 
Oh, those looks? 
Your sister wouldn't do that? 
I wasn't even done asking the question. 
She has this look in her eyes that says, 
"I have no intention of apologizing." 
Does she do things she must apologize for often? 
Yes. 
I own a cell phone store. 
My sister worked with me for about 7 months. 
She was often late and she slacked off a lot. 
That's a professional term. "Slack-off." 
She had poor work manners. 
One time, she went to the restroom 
and didn't come back for an hour. 
Did she go to Seoul? 
I called her. "Where are you? Hurry back. 
I can't cover all the customers." 
Cover. 
Where was she? 
There's a clothing store upstairs. 
She was chatting with the owner. 
Some busy customers leave their phones with us. 
She said, "I'll give this back to the customer. 
Put away the documents while I'm away." 
I expected her to get moving, 
but she was just fiddling with her phone. 
So I called out her name a few times. 
She got angry and yelled, "What?" 
I was speechless. 
"I'm the one who should be angry. Why is she?" 
Does she do this to you only? 
Or with other family members, too? 
My parents got divorced, so my dad isn't with us. 
It's just me, my sister and our mom. 
I don't know how she is with Mom. 
Since my sister and I argue a lot over this, 
Mom gets stressed out a lot. 
- Sure. / - That must be tough. 
You're doing the worst thing you can do to Mom. 
The sister who never apologizes. Hello. 
(Who's the sister that never apologizes?) 
Hello. 
Your smile is nice. I think you'd apologize well. 
You look like a nice person. 
Your face says that you'd apologize a lot. 
- She has an apologetic face. / - Apologetic. 
Do you understand your brother's concern? 
Yes, I do, 
but I was going to write to Hello Counselor first. 
- For what? / - They have different stances. 
My brother and I get angry 
over different things. 
As for me, 
I am laid back and don't get hung up on things. 
As for my brother, he gets very sensitive 
over every little thing. 
Do you think he's obsessed with apologies? 
What do you think? 
He's very, very much obsessed. 
He badgers me until I say it. 
But if you're late to a family meeting, 
everyone would be affected by it, not just him. 
I think you should apologize for that, don't you? 
I am late whenever I'm meeting someone else. 
But in that case, I notify my mom or brother 
that I'll show up late after my other plans. 
Must I contact them again to say that I'll be late? 
- They're very different. / - Yes. 
He said that you used to work together. 
Was he being sensitive then, too? 
He woke me up because he had to leave. 
So I said, "Okay." 
I answered him and I was awake, 
so all he had to do was leave. 
But he kept calling my name until I answered again. 
Sugyeong. 
Sugyeong. 
What? 
That's what happened. 
He told us that you went to the bathroom 
and chatted for an hour. 
Couldn't you apologize to him then? 
I wasn't there just to have fun. 
But you left to go to the restroom. 
I thought I should become friends with people 
at other stores to exchange information 
and help with our business. 
That's why I was there. 
Then couldn't you have explained that 
to your brother? Explain why you went there? 
The store was there on the way back 
so I just stopped by to say hi. 
But store owner started to talk to me. 
That's why I was there for an hour. 
Do you apologize well 
to your friends then? 
I don't have any conflicts 
with anyone else. 
Even if there are conflicts, 
I resolve them by talking it out with them. 
She's saying that her brother is too sensitive. 
Since when did you like to hear, "I'm sorry"? 
(Why do I feel like I lost?) 
On Tuesdays... 
Excuse me, but can I get a glass of water? 
His eyes have gotten bigger. 
Let's meet their mother now. 
Let's talk to their mother first. 
It must've been very tough for you. 
Whose concern can you relate to more? 
To be honest, it's half and half. 
It's half and half? 
My son is a bit sensitive, 
but if Sugyeong just apologizes, 
the conflict would end in just 10 minutes. 
Right. 
But she doesn't, so they argue all night long. 
I'd be too lazy to fight all night. 
They argue all night long. 
I just want to plug my ears and die. 
Why don't you sit on the stage instead? 
- Oh my. / - It's been tough. 
Which of the two is more like you? 
I think it's half and half. 
(For peace) 
She loves half and half. 
I'm neutral. 
(It must be tough for you) 
Does she only have conflicts with her brother? 
My son is old-fashioned. 
How so? 
We went out to eat together. 
The waiter made a small mistake. 
My son couldn't stand it. 
He had to confront the waiter. 
They give us more food when we ask for refills. 
But the waiter threw the dish at us. 
Carelessly? 
The bowl clanked on the table 3 times. 
Clanking 3 times on the table would be... 
He just threw it. 
Yes, that would be upsetting. 
I paid my money to eat here, 
so why must I be treated that way? 
The bowl didn't clank 3 times. 
Just once. 
(I saw it) 
I see. 
Maybe the waiter didn't mean to do that. 
- It could've slipped. / - Right. 
(They'll argue all night again) 
Don't you think you're a bit old-fashioned? 
I have a certain standard in mind 
and if it doesn't add up, I must confront it. 
My friends joke about it. 
On the road, there are some cars 
with wheel caps with no holes. 
Yes, you're right. 
They say, "Hey, that's Seongpil." 
Because you're close-minded? 
Even your friends think so. 
After my main job, I work as a substitute driver. 
Wow, you work very hard. 
Some people belittle substitute drivers 
and cuss at us. 
I could overlook it, but I don't want to 
earn money by doing so. 
So do you tell them to get off? 
No, I get off. I'm a substitute driver. 
(Aha) 
(He's a substitute driver) 
Right. It's not his car. 
(Get another driver) 
He's not a cab driver. 
He doesn't need to hear it. He can just get off. 
I think that's the right thing to do. 
Some people are just so mean. 
(Is it terrible to be old-fashioned?) 
I think you may have so much pent up inside you 
that you don't apologize even when you should. 
Do you have a lot pent up inside you? 
Since I'm 6 years younger, 
I was scared of my brother when I was young. 
When I did something wrong, 
he'd say, "Are you crazy? Do you want to die?" 
That what he said to me, 
so I always apologized first. 
Since my mom knows about Seongpil's temper, 
she always told me to apologize to end it. 
He always had to be right. 
That's when it all started. 
You forced things on her? 
Yes, I admit that. 
Mom and my sister always told me about that 
and told me to fix it. 
So I did before I joined the army. 
How so? 
I don't get angry 
and yell at my sister anymore. 
"Sugyeong, come here so we can talk." 
You got rid of your temper? 
That's how I start our conversation. 
"You and Mom told me I should change 
so I did. 
Why don't you change, too?" 
She says, "You and I are different. 
Don't try to force your thoughts on me." 
Because of our differences, 
I guess we have deep-seated grudges. 
Do you think this started from your childhood? 
To be honest, Dad was 
very abusive when we were young. 
But he was never violent with her. 
My sister took advantage of that. 
When I was young, 
it was hip for couples to have matching dolls. 
She asked for mine, so I told her, 
"I can't. My girlfriend and I bought it together." 
So she went and told Dad on me. 
Dad came and said, 
"What is a boy doing with a doll?" 
Did he rip it open? 
Yes and he gave it to my sister. 
That happened quite often, 
so I started to hate her. 
You've had that grudge for years. 
That Dad treated you unfairly. 
Yes. 
(It was tough) 
I thought only Seongpil was hurt 
when we were young. 
But I realize now that I was hurt, too. 
Whenever Dad drank, he got violent. 
He was only violent with my brother. 
So Mom often went out 
just taking my brother. 
Then I was left home all alone. 
That must've been tough. 
Those wounds are still left in you. 
(A terrifying moment that she couldn't avoid) 
(Upset) 
(The sister has scars, too) 
I was in elementary school then. 
I didn't cry. 
I knew Mom would come back and 
I thought it'd be nice to have the house clean. 
So I cleaned the house while I waited. 
Now that I'm grown up, 
I feel bad for the old me. 
- Right. / - That's understandable. 
Regardless of whether the parents beat her or not, 
she was emotionally unstable. 
(She must've been so scared) 
Did you know about this, ma'am? 
I didn't know. 
But this is what breaks my heart the most. 
I cared about her, too, 
but since my son was the main victim, 
I only took him and left. 
Then one day, she told me in tears. 
"Why must I be the one to apologize? 
Why do you only care about Seongpil?" 
That broke my heart so much 
and we hugged and cried a lot. 
I will always feel bad about this. 
My son is my pillar 
and my daughter is my comfort. 
Your comfort? 
(You know how much Mom loves you, right?) 
(She needs them in her life) 
I was able to endure it because 
she comforted me. 
Of course I love them both. 
I love them both equally. 
Of course. 
As I listen to you talk, I'm heartbroken, 
but I'm also jealous. 
I don't have any pillar or comfort. 
Beef is your pillar and pork is your comfort. 
(Hey!) 
I blocked it. I did a good job, right? 
It's the other way around. Beef is her comfort. 
(I'm so lonely) 
(Her tears are gone) 
Did you know this is how your sister felt? 
I just found out today. 
Of course you didn't know. 
I was beaten all over, 
so I had to leave the house to run away. 
My sister greeted me with a smile. 
"I cleaned the house." 
I was young at the time, 
so I hated her when she did that. 
Of course. She was never beaten. 
I just found out today that's how she felt. 
(He feels bad) 
He feels bad. 
When parents fight, to kids, 
it is as scary as a war. 
But the bigger pain is to watch 
your own pillar and comfort fight. 
Mom is terrified and hurt 
when she watches you two fight. 
When they fight, they don't talk for a month. 
For a month? 
Since they do that, 
I'm afraid that they won't ever make amends. 
I am the youngest of 4 siblings. 
I thought I knew my siblings very well. 
We lived apart for too long. 
I thought I knew them based on the past 
and insisted on my opinion. 
We didn't acknowledge each other. 
What I regret the most is that 
we didn't get to show our mother 
that we got along before she passed away. 
You must remember that. 
I still regret it so much. 
(Think about what pain you're causing to Mom) 
Maybe you want your sister to apologize 
because you want your father to apologize. 
It was definitely his fault, 
but he never ever 
apologized to me. 
I do admit that it is why 
I am so obsessed about hearing the apology. 
But I'm worried that 
when she has conflicts at work 
or with her future husband, 
she won't be able to make amends. 
(We knew it was too easy) 
I want her to accept her faults and apologize. 
I'm just looking out for her. 
I worry the same thing. 
Right? Yes. 
(They face conflicts again) 
I thought the same thing and thought 
he shouldn't do that to his future wife. 
I think you're asking for an apology 
over very small things. 
That would be the other person exhausted. 
He meddles a lot in my life. 
He's very sensitive about whom I meet. 
Sometimes, I meet people out of the blue. 
If I didn't notify him in advance, 
he goes crazy. 
Sometimes, I'm unable to answer my phone. 
Then he calls until I answer it. 
If I don't answer, he calls 3, 4 times. 
What about when you're dating someone? 
If I start a relationship with someone, 
he asks, "Who is he 
and how far did you go with him?" 
How far? 
Hey! I'm sorry. 
(Why does he ask those questions?) 
That's too much for me to handle. 
Of course. 
Sure. 
Then if we become serious, 
he sets a curfew for me. 
A curfew? 
"You see him every day. 
How can you have so much to talk about? 
What's so great about it anyway?" 
Mom is laughing out loud. 
He told me that he doesn't understand 
and told me see my boyfriend every other day. 
(You can't control that) 
How can you set dates like that? 
How can you only date every other day? 
I have something to say about that. 
When my sister gets married, 
I will be the one to walk her down the aisle. 
I have to be her father. 
My sister has no stamina. 
After she comes home from her date, 
she dozes off the next day at work. 
Since she dozes off... 
Okay, that's enough. 
It's because they watch late-night movies. 
Sure. 
Mom would back me up on this. 
I said, "If you can handle it, 
you can date him every day of the year." 
So she said, "I'll see him every other day." 
She said it herself. 
Then one day, she went out 3 days in a row. 
- She advanced it. / - She did. 
I asked, "I thought it was every other day." 
She said, "I'm advancing it." 
Then she must not see him for the next 3 days. 
(Frustrating) 
But she did. 
He's really closed-minded. 
- No rest. / - He's closed-minded. 
- It's closed. / - Totally closed. 
Where's the door? 
After that, it became every other day again. 
I think this is more a concern for the sister. 
She advanced it, so she was supposed to rest. 
If you were his sister... 
I would hate it. 
Even if it were my dad, I'd hate it. 
Even if it was your dad? 
Do you meet your girlfriend every other day? 
(Oh gee) 
I don't have a girlfriend right now. 
If she can handle, it wouldn't matter. 
We don't work together anymore, so I don't care. 
I think 
you're trying too hard to be her father. 
If you were to talk to her as her older brother, 
it'd be a bit different. 
A nice brother to talk to. Or a friend. 
Is there something you want 
from your brother that will get you 
to admit your faults and apologize? 
I don't want him to speak harshly to me. 
If he speaks nicely to me 
I will apologize when it's my fault. 
I've tried that. 
(Here comes their conflict again) 
If that resolved things, I wouldn't be here today. 
You've tried talking nicely to her? 
We used to work together. 
She kept dozing off. 
Then she went on a date again that night. 
Then she dozed off again. 
We're on this again? All right. 
From your perspective, 
you may think your sister was at fault, 
but if you really care about your sister, 
you wouldn't get mad that she was out late. 
"Oh, she'll be late again. 
Let me drive around the block again." 
All you care about is what's right and wrong. 
Just as you were afraid of your father, 
your sister could be afraid of you. 
You still haven't let go of that grudge. 
You're still talking about what she did wrong. 
To her, that could feel like prison. 
(Both of you should try hard) 
Why don't you say a word to your sister? 
Sugyeong. 
I tell you how I feel. 
I want you to do the same to me. 
Then I would understand 
what is going through your mind. 
Then I'd know what you're thinking. 
I want you to tell me how you feel. 
Don't get mad 
and try to talk to him about how you feel. 
If you did something wrong, but can't remember, 
at the end of the month, say, 
"I'm sorry for everything I did this month." 
- Wrapping up the month? / - Yes. 
Call out his name as you smile. 
(Awkward) 
Seongpil. 
I don't really act cute to people. 
Smile for her, too. 
Smile for her, too. 
(Smile) 
You must be nice to each other. 
(Yes, smile and talk like that!) 
I'm sorry for being stubborn 
and I'm sorry for never apologizing to you. 
I'm sorry. 
Let's work hard together 
so that we can get along well. 
Okay. 
(We hope they become siblings) 
(Who are considerate to each other) 
Boom. Is it a concern or not? 
I hope you can open up to communicate. 
So I think it's a concern. 
I think they need more time. 
I want them to be closer to each other 
so I don't think it's a concern. 
I don't think it's a concern either. 
Ron. 
I have a sister who's 9 years younger. 
Since I always scold her, 
she doesn't talk to me much anymore. 
That's a great example. 
You should've told us earlier. 
Press the button if you can relate to his concern. 
(What does the audience think?) 
5, 4... 
3. 
2. 
1. 
Please stop. 
Please show us the result. 
The last digit. 
Did they get over 100 votes? 
(What's the result?) 
68 votes. 
(They got 68 votes) 
"Hold Your Head Up High." 
- Hello. / - That scared me. 
I'm a woman in my 20s from Daegu. 
My sister just turned 20 this year. 
It's another sister? 
"Sis, am I ugly?" 
"No, you're beautiful." 
The next day. "Sis, am I ugly?" 
How cute. 
"You're pretty. Be confident." 
The next day. "Sis, am I ugly?" 
My sister has no self-esteem. 
That's why... 
"Let's go downtown today." 
"No." 
"Let's go out and eat." 
"I said no." 
She is always cooped up at home. 
Even when she's outside, 
"I think that person is staring at me. 
Let's go." 
In restaurants. "Order for me. 
I can't do it." 
My sister is timid and lacks confidence. 
What should I do with her? 
Self-esteem. 
Boom, you have high self-esteem. 
I love myself very much. 
"Yes, I have a long face. But it's okay. 
That means I'll live a long life." 
I must bring myself up like this. 
Me too. So what if I have a big head? 
I have a lower chance of getting dementia. 
I think positively. 
Thinking positively is important. 
She's worried about her younger sister. 
Please come on out. 
(Who's concerned about her timid sister?) 
(Kang Yeonhui) 
- Welcome. / - Welcome. 
Why do you think your sister is so timid? 
She has a severe appearance complex. 
She thinks she is ugly. 
Not only does she diss herself, 
but she also asks me every day. 
She asks me how ugly she is. 
How ugly? 
"How ugly am I?" 
Please look at him when you talk to him. 
She asks you that every day? 
I'm not saying this because she's my sister, 
but sometimes, she looks like Suzy. 
The city next to Yongin? 
(Bam) 
Suzy next to Yongin. 
(I know that neighborhood) 
I can see that. 
She's pretty. 
- Sometimes. / - You're mean. 
It's fun to go out during vacations. 
But she stays home for 5-6 days straight. 
Why? 
Because she's ugly. 
She thinks it's meaningless to put makeup on. 
She feels like people stare at her. 
Why does she have such low self-esteem? 
One time, she had a date with a friend, 
so she was getting ready. 
She put makeup on and everything. 
Then she looked in the mirror and thought 
she was ugly and cancelled her plans. 
It's rare that we take pictures together, 
so I have more pictures with a friend I rarely see 
than with my sister. 
If I do get her to take pictures with me 
she either covers her face or turns around. 
There are no pictures of her whole face. 
(Here are her pictures!) 
- What? / - A picture of Iron Man. 
She covered her entire face. 
- It's entirely covered. / - Entirely. 
(Hide your face) 
I can't tell who she is at all. 
Was she ever fat? 
No. 
- That's not the reason. / - It's not. 
I was fat in middle school. 
How much did you weigh? 
I weighed 135 lbs in middle school. 
(Come on) 
- And went up to 143 lbs. / - Second grade. 
(Yeongja weighed that much in second grade) 
Then a girl who was walking by said, 
"Look at how big she is." 
That would get to you. 
I had a cardigan on to hide my body. 
After that, I walked around like this. 
My sister was very outgoing in grade school 
and she was the class president. 
Class president? 
She did belly dance since she was 6. 
Belly dance? 
That's an awesome sport. 
It's about the pelvic moves. 
Yes, she has the energy. 
She even performed on stage a lot back then. 
- Even at events. / - She was confident. 
Then when did she start to change? 
After she hit puberty, 
her personality began to change. 
Because of puberty. 
Did something happen in school with her friends? 
When my sister was born, 
she was born with redness on her forehead. 
In the middle? 
I guess her friends pointed that out. 
"Why is your forehead red?" Like that? 
That stressed her out a lot. 
Is it because of that? 
I know how that feels. 
It's not so bad now, 
but I had red cheeks when I was young. 
It was a complex for me. 
Then I went to college and met people 
who had redder cheeks than mine. 
They are Hwang Jungmin and Im Wonhee. 
(The Three Musketeers with red cheeks) 
They were your classmates. 
Her sister was so timid that 
she never looked our crew in the eyes. 
Let's talk to her now. Hello. 
(Who has such low self-esteem?) 
Louder. 
Be confident. It's okay. 
If you feel uncomfortable, should we zoom out? 
Your eyes are beautiful, too. 
Do you like the way you look on camera? 
I want to hide my face. 
Of course. 
It's okay. You were already on television. 
We're curious. You never leave your house 
and you can't look at people. 
So what made you come here today? 
I thought if I came here today 
I would be able to change. 
Good. Good job. 
But I don't see any redness on your forehead. 
I put makeup on to be on television. 
There's no reason to be so self-conscious. 
In order to get the viewers to understand, 
we have a picture of her without makeup. 
(Slight redness on her forehead) 
Oh, that much. 
Just a little. 
Oh my. Almost none. 
It's slightly red on the forehead. 
It's not too bad. 
We get that red when we are out in the cold. 
That happens to everyone. 
Suzy, it's okay... 
Oops, I'm sorry. 
(Ha!) 
I'm sorry. 
- That's not so bad. / - She liked it, right? 
Did your red forehead stress you out that much? 
It's a complex of mine. 
My friends asked me why my forehead is red. 
I just said I banged it somewhere. 
When I went to the teacher's office, 
they asked, "Did you sleep in class again?" 
Oh, the mark you get from sleeping like this? 
I lost my self-esteem because of that over and over. 
We were told that you stay home 5 days a week. 
Is it because of your appearance? 
I can't look at people in the eye. 
I'm afraid that they'll think I'm ugly. 
(Oh my) 
That's why... 
(You weren't like that when you were young) 
I had been doing belly dance since I was 6. 
After puberty, I gained weight 
and I was stressed out about that. 
I tried different types of diets, 
but I always went back to my original weight. 
You gained it back? 
I have no will to go on a diet anymore. 
You don't have the will to do it? 
What was your goal weight? 
Because you look perfect to me right now. 
Your goal weight. 
How much? 
She's not yelling at you. 
She's just speechless right now. 
Do you want to be a size 0? 
Yes. 
Size 0? 
(Her standard of beauty = Size 0?) 
(The world is at fault) 
What's important is 
not whether you're on a diet or not. 
We are curious to find out 
why you are so hung up on your appearance. 
My dream is to become a flight attendant. 
Oh, a flight attendant. 
How would you handle people looking at you? 
If you see someone looking at you, 
"Oh, a life vest." 
My sister never voices her opinion. 
If she makes an appointment and she needs 
to change it, she can't make the call. 
So she just goes? 
She asks me to call and change the date. 
She asks you to do it? 
When she's mistreated, she doesn't speak up. 
- She doesn't get angry? / - No. 
The man from Gwangju told us. 
When you ask for a refill and 
the waiter throws it on the table, 
would you just eat it? 
Yes. 
They can't see you when you call to change dates. 
They would only hear your voice. 
I don't know. 
(I feel bad for her) 
Her friend is here as well. 
What do you think? 
Does she not express or decide things well? 
One time, we went to see a movie. 
I told her that I was hungry, 
so we went to eat. 
Later, I found out that she had already eaten. 
She just ate again for her friend. 
I could've eaten by myself. 
I remember feeling bad that day. 
She is too considerate because she won't speak. 
What are you most worried about? 
She's just 20 years old. She just started college. 
Right. She needs to make new friends. 
People are making new friends, 
but she doesn't have one yet. 
She told me that she can't eat at school. 
Because she doesn't have any friends? 
(Oh no) 
(That's so heartbreaking) 
That's what I'm worried about. 
You still can't eat at school? 
No. 
- You don't eat anything? / - You starve? 
Yes, I just wait without eating. 
You don't talk to anyone at school? 
I just say hello, 
but I've never had a long conversation with anyone. 
I want to talk to them, 
but I think, "What if they don't like me?" 
You worry too much. 
I heard about this story on my radio program. 
There was a girl who couldn't speak up. 
Her boyfriend and she went on a trip on a bus. 
Her boyfriend went to the bathroom and 
she couldn't say he wasn't back yet. 
- Oh no. / - Oh no. 
So the bus just left. 
- She was too shy. / - She was too shy. 
So they broke up in the end. 
Would you be able to speak up if it were you? 
"My boyfriend isn't back from the restroom." 
Uh... 
- What is it? / - What is it? 
(Please ask them to wait) 
We have to go. 
My boyfriend isn't back yet. 
You can say that? 
Her man is important. 
She needs a boyfriend. 
Seungyeon is scared of men. 
Why? 
She's scared to talk to them. 
You've never had a meal with a boy? 
In middle school, I was in broadcasting club. 
Broadcasting club. 
One time, this boy and I ate together. 
I was worried about looking ugly to him 
so I couldn't even look up while we ate. 
(All she thinks about is her appearance) 
Let's talk about something else then. 
Let's not burden her by talking about appearance. 
Is there anything you want to brag about her? 
She's a great dancer. 
- She dances to K-POP. / - Really? 
When does she practice? 
At home. 
She's outgoing when she's at home. 
We want to see you dance. Would that be okay? 
(Taken aback) 
It's a challenge to yourself. 
You must break out of your shell today. 
She's good at dancing to "DDU-DU DDU-DU." 
(I want to hide) 
We are all on your side. It's okay. 
(She has been timid this whole time) 
(Will she be able to dance in front of everyone?) 
(Please be courageous) 
Here's the music. Leave your body to the music. 
She's so pretty. 
Drop the beat! 
She's doing it. 
She's good. 
Keep going. Keep going. (She's shocked) 
She's doing it. 
(Oh oh oh oh) 
She's good. 
Keep going. Keep going. 
(She's good!) 
You're good. You're beautiful. 
(She draws attention with her charm!) 
(Twisting her joints) 
(She's a star in this moment) 
She did it. 
You did everything we asked you to do. 
What did you think, Chaeyeon? 
- She's good. / - Right? 
The way she twisted her joints... 
You said that she dances at home, right? 
I've never sung or danced at home. 
It's more embarrassing around family. 
She hasn't talked to many men, 
so let's get her to practice. 
Everyone is married, but one. 
I'll think of her as my younger sister. 
We apologize for this. 
Try practicing talking to a guy. 
Don't hide your face. 
You two are eating right now. 
Seungyeon, you must've been hungry, right? 
Yes. 
What's your favorite food? 
Pizza. 
- Pizza? / - Yes. 
Then let's go eat pizza. 
Do you want iced americano, too? 
(Contemplating) 
Yes. 
You should say it if you don't want it. 
You should refuse if you don't like it. 
(Why do you think she hates it?) 
Do you think Boom is handsome? 
Yes, he is. 
She can lie well, too. 
(They're ganging up on Boom) 
Who's talking here? 
Who is it? Who's there in the cafe? 
(It's cheerful in the studio) 
I think you do everything. 
You can talk to boys, 
You eat and dance. 
What are you doing here? 
I think it's because your standard of beauty is... 
Too high. 
Do you think only people who look like Suzy 
are beautiful? 
Yes. 
Why do you think that is? 
Why do you think you're ugly 
and only people like Suzy are pretty? 
I was harassed several times 
because of my looks. 
In middle school, a girl told me, 
"If you get your eyes done, you'd be pretty. 
If you get a nose job, you'd be pretty." 
She kept saying that. 
So I thought, "Am I that ugly?" 
Even in high school, 
a boy kept staring at me 
and said, "Why are you so ugly?" 
- Maybe he liked you. / - He liked you. 
No, he didn't. We weren't friends. 
He either liked you 
or he was crazy. 
Why would he say that to a stranger? 
A teacher was teaching a class 
and we were talking about our future dreams. 
He pointed at me and said, 
"Even a girl like her wants to be 
a flight attendant." 
So I thought, "I must be really ugly." 
So I was stressed out. 
It must've been that boy's father. 
(A refreshing comment) 
What about your sister? Is she pretty? 
Can she go outside? 
(Nervous) 
She's pretty. 
Right? 
I don't understand your standard of beauty. 
I don't know what your standard of beauty is. 
Why are you hurting the sister's feelings? 
I just don't understand. 
Are you sure? 
(A big blow to the sister) 
I think she hasn't come out of her shell yet, 
but she'll get better with time. 
Yes, but I'm worried because 
she is majoring in police administration. 
- Police administration. / - Wow. 
She must become a police officer, 
but with this attitude... 
She has to go after a thief, but... 
"An ugly girl like me 
can't stand before that thief." 
Why not? 
"Because I'm ugly." 
Why did you get into that major? 
To become a flight attendant, 
I must do well on the interview, 
but I didn't have the courage to do it. 
My parents and teachers recommended it. 
You went into it because you couldn't say no? 
Would you be confident if you were pretty? 
With Suzy's body? 
Yes, of course. 
- If you look like Suzy? / - Yes. 
You think you could be the happiest person ever? 
Yes. 
That's scary. 
In the past, when brand name shoes were popular, 
people judged others by looking at 
other people's sneakers. 
You have your own high standards 
and I'm afraid you'll disregard everyone else. 
What's sad is that appearance isn't everything. 
For example, a person only cares about money. 
Whenever he meets people, he thinks, 
"Is he belittling me because I'm broke?" 
What would you think about 
a man like that? 
- Strange, right? / - Frustrating. 
Sure, it's ridiculous. 
There are so many precious values in the world. 
Ron, did you look at Sagan's appearance only? 
No, I looked at her inner beauty. 
- And her money? / - Yes. 
He cared about her money, too. 
You sound just like the old me. 
Until I graduated from high school, 
I didn't speak to any boys. 
I was in the broadcasting club, too. 
People say, "You're ugly. 
Did you get plastic surgery?' 
I get many comments like that. 
But I don't really care because 
my husband truly loves me. 
I want to do my job well 
and become a good person. 
You need to step out and reach for your goal. 
What do you think about that? 
I'm getting more courageous now. 
Are you hoping to meet someone 11 years younger? 
That's a huge goal. 
Be good to second graders. 
At first, I thought you were charming. 
But after talking to you, 
I realized that you only care about appearance 
and now you look less charming. 
Your appearance is perfect right now. 
Your thoughts need plastic surgery. 
(Another wise saying) 
(Everyone automatically applauds) 
(She's touched herself) 
She won the grand prize. 
Thank you. 
When you wake up tomorrow morning, 
don't ask your sister, "I'm ugly, aren't I?" 
Ask her, "How pretty am I?" 
Be confident. 
It's okay. 
You'll get used to it if you keep doing it. 
How pretty am I? 
(Glancing over) 
You shouldn't be freaked out like that. 
You shouldn't be freaked out. 
You have an important role here. 
You're very, very pretty. 
I want you to strut 
your talent and ability. 
Why don't you say a word to your sister? 
I won't focus too much on appearances. 
Yes. 
I will look for what I'm good at 
and courageously challenge myself. 
(Proud) 
Let's start with Boom. 
I don't think it's a concern. 
I want you to come out of your shell and make friends. 
I don't think it's a concern either. 
I think it's a concern because 
I'm afraid that she will regret it 
years later for missing important things 
while being hung up on looks. 
I don't think it's a concern. 
I don't think it's a concern either. 
If you can relate to the older sister, 
please press the button. 
(What does the audience think?) 
5, 4, 3, 2, 1. 
Please stop. 
How many votes did they get? 
"Hold Your Head Up High." 
Please show us the result. 
(Did they get over 100 votes?) 
(Yes) 
(They got 107 votes) 
"Two-faced Husband" won this week. 
This is a reward to cheer you up. 
Until the day we are all worry-free... 
Hello Counselor will continue to counsel you. 
Thank you. 
("Woowa" by DIA) 
