Hey everybody! It's Hari here. How are you
doing this week? This week I wanted to talk
to you about the three R's to transformational
change. Because often we engage in some sort
of new activity and we go to these changes
and the people around us can't understand
them. And sometimes, we get disheartened by
them. And I know I am engaged in a lot of
you and you come to me and say, well, you
want me to do this and I'm making these changes
and now I don't know what to do because I
feel like I should be drawing back to them.
Now the first stage happens usually when a
new idea is presented, or you're doing something
drastically different, you know, maybe you're,
let's say you're massively overweight and
you decide that you're gotta go run a marathon.
You might first be met with the first R which
is that of Ridicule. And people just think
"okay, they ridiculed a new idea; they you
know, and this doesn't come with just obviously
health and fitness; it comes to everything.
You know, when Einstein bought his ideas out,
or when Newton bought his ideas out or Galileo
or something like that. All these new ideas,
they first met with ridicule. And then, they
move on to the next stage which is that of
rejection and resistance. So, double R if
you like but rejection and resistance. People
start resisting the new idea. You know, you
can look around now with you know, changing
diets for example maybe all these different
diets that are coming out: paleo, vegan and
everything else and that first thing that
we've ridiculed and they're met with resistance
and rejection. And then, finally when you
get through that, they've become self-evident
reality. And they become real and the thing
that people tend to think "well, I never thought
it was any other way." That might be when
you're running a marathon and you know, five
years ago, let's say you are really overweight
and you decided you'd first got ridiculed
about in about doing it and then you got resistance
from your friends who will say "come on, come
out for a little drink. Come out for a little
a bit of cake. Come out for you know, you
don't need to get out in a Sunday morning
so hard."
You know you're getting all these resistance.
And then, finally, you know five years later,
they see you and you're super fit and you've
run about 15 marathons and they never even
remember what it was like before you started
in on a marathon because it has now become
reality.
So they are your 3 R's. The first one being
Ridiculed; the second one, a slash between
resistance and rejection; and the last stage
really being that, it becomes self-evident
reality.
That's all I'm going to share with you this
week because I think that sometimes when you're
transforming your life in some way, you meet
that first or second stage and you get disheartened,
and I don't want that to happen to you. So,
if you are transforming your life in some
positive way, then push on through that ridicule,
push on through that rejection and resistance
and then eventually it will become your reality.
And it will also become their reality.
So, forget the naysayers. If there's something
that you want and it's gonna be a positive
impact to you and hopefully the people around
you, keep pushing through.
That's all for this week. Bear that in mind
as you go into this next week. I love to hear
from you about how this has helped you and
any of the other videos as well. So please
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because I'm really keen to grow this and spread
these messages out to the wider community.
Until next time. Have a fantastic week and
I look forward to hearing from you soon. Take
care, buh-bye!
