what is up Light Fam welcome to another
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my name is David ever wish you knew how
to
detach from people places and things and
detach from outcome to any situation
well let's get into that right now let's
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how to detach and how to detach
from outcome remember if you are
attached to something then
you've made it a part of your identity
so the losing of that something feels
like you're
losing a part of yourself and then
guess what happens you know who steps in
the ego
right the ego is in charge of survival
more specifically in charge of the
survival of its perceived
identity so it throws you into fight or
flight
and the ego is going to pump you full of
adrenaline
and cortisol because you're
in a fight or flight you're in
this
survival mode because you feel like
you're losing a piece of your
identity and that actually puts you in a
state of
resistance which further energetically
repels you
from the desired outcome that you're so
attached to
so there's a really great saying
attached to nothing connected to
everything so when we step into
5d consciousness and we realign with our
true
eternal divine identity we self-identify
as whole and complete when we
self-identify
as whole and complete we are no longer
attaching our happiness to
a person or a person's reaction or how
they're reciprocating or not
reciprocating or a thing like a car
or a house or a situation like a job etc
so you see attachment is ego projecting
its
limited understanding of self onto
a person place or thing but
attachment to something is only half of
the story
the other half of the story is
attachment to outcome
so if you're attached to the outcome
you're letting again the ego get into
the driver's seat
and project its out of alignment
perception
of incompleteness onto the outcome
of "x" so that would be I'll only be happy
if so-and-so loves me
i'll only be happy if so-and-so acts
grateful for all the things i've done
for them and all my sacrifice
i'll only be happy if I get that dream
job I'll only be happy
if I get approved for that house so I
can show
all the haters how I'm living
all of this is a scarcity lack
mindset of incompleteness now
of course your higher self knows better
but you've allowed your ego to jump into
the director's chair and run the show
and this is a perfect point to make
clear
understand again it's your ego that
attaches to things
not your higher consciousness your
higher consciousness
understands its own wholeness it
understands
its own identity as absolute love
absolute completeness absolute happiness
absolute abundance so if you're
attaching to something you're stepping
out of your own "inner"standing of your
eternal divine identity
and you've now accepted a false identity
of this thing to which you're now
attached how to
detach you need to learn to be happy
right
where you are happiness is a choice
moreover happiness is an inside job
your happiness is your responsibility
and no one else's don't put that burden
on somebody else that is a
massive responsibility and burden for
someone else to be in charge of your
happiness
most people don't know how to make
themselves happy now they have to figure
out how to make you happy and themselves
that is a massive burden they will fail
and you will be
unhappy and to ask them to be
in charge of your happiness is
impractical it's inconsiderate and it's
narcissistic
so stop being codependent your happiness
is
your responsibility your greatest most
powerful version
is not going to be dependent upon
someone else
happiness is just an emotion that you
can turn
on by getting into the repetitive habit
of choosing to be happy you need to
cultivate the ability
to stop whatever you're doing the
the moment that you feel anxious meaning
you're thinking in the future
or the moment that you feel regret
you're thinking in the past
you need to develop kind of an internal
"emotions meter" right what's the outcome
what's going to happen
danger danger okay bring it back bring
it back cultivate some happiness
why did I say that why did I do that
danger danger
bring it back cultivate some happiness
so the ability to
stop and gauge where your emotions are
immediately before they get out of check
this is called
controlling your state you need to stop
what you're doing
go inside and feel the overwhelming
feelings of
happiness and joy and you say well how
can I how can i do that this happened
and that happened
hang on the way that you do that is
you feel gratitude for everything that
you have
right now and for what does fill you
with joy
maybe it's a loved one envision hugging
that loved one feel the overwhelming
feelings of joy and gratitude that that
loved one is in your life
maybe it's an amazing business that you
started that is your passion and it's
fulfilling and rewarding or maybe it's
your dream job or
a hobby or a talent or your athleticism
and your health
the point is gratitude and happiness
are a vibrational match so gratitude is
that gateway to
feeling those emotions of happiness
gratitude also centers the monkey mind
into the present moment and gets the
monkey mind out of the future or out of
the past
and remember all of your power is in the
present moment
now keep in mind you are the Source
everything else in your external reality
is just the infinite number of channels
available to the universe to bring your
perceived
self identity into your reality your
physical
experience so you are
drastically limiting how the universe
can bring the
physical equivalent of the
frequency that you're emitting
into your reality if you have to have it
this way you're basically telling the
universe I'm only going to be happy if
it's this person if this person loves me
that's the only way I'm going to be
happy well
what if the universe has someone 10
times better
you're blocking that meeting because
you're telling the universe it can only
be this way
so I'm only going to be happy
if I
get this dream job well what if the
universe has an even better job with a
bigger salary
and fun travel for you you're blocking
getting that job well I'm only going to
be happy if this one person reciprocates
for all of the sacrifice and generosity
what if the universe has another channel
where you do get the
reciprocation that you're looking for
for all of your sacrifice and love and
generosity
so you block the universe when you
fixate on a certain outcome or a
specific person
self identify as love itself and you
will not
limit the infinite number of channels
the universe has
to bring you love and you'll be less
attached to how the universe has to
bring you love from a specific person
this is how you detach from a specific
person
and you will not be identifying with the
outcome of specifically how the universe
has to bring you
love again this is how you detach from
outcome
same exact thing works for money
identify
as abundance itself and you will be
amazed at the number of channels the
universe uses to
bring in the physical equivalent of your
perceived self identity into your
physical reality
and because you are self-identifying
as abundance itself that means you're
not
self-identifying as the thing that
you're fixated on
or the outcome that you're fixated on
from a specific job or
an event and this is how you keep the
ego
out of the kool-aid now question of
the day can you see how your happiness
is
kind of like a castle built on sand
when you place that happiness on the
outcome
of some situation outside of yourself
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