fictions aren't always
meant to be true in the pages of the
book or in the frames of a movie
sometimes they extend themselves enough to bear a stark resemblance to our
life. They don't always just leave us
entertained but seldom they serve as the
filter through which we see this world.
show us our ignorance, our capabilities and
potentialities, our dark and evil side,
sometimes our most coveted desires or in
the case of Fight Club - an ideal self
that we all have inside of us. a self that
we all talk to, that makes us feel complete.
even if it's just in the imagination but
it does. Fight Club is one of my favorite
movies and like everyone else at the
very first sight of it I couldn't resist
myself from being completely devoured by
the idea of Tyler Durden
those ten rules of it we're on my tongue
and I still remember those only to the break
the first two rules now.
I think Tyler Durden has become a cultural
icon for those who lack the courage to live
their life the way they want to. 
He is a raft for the ones were lost
in the midst of see where every
unnecessary bullshit is trying to swallow
them one minute at a time. Tyler's
carefree attitude, hislet it go approach to
life, let the chips fall where they may
philosophy  - is all we want our life to be
but unlike Tyler, we are socially
constricted, emotionally weak and spiritually deprived
we can only flourish such utopian
personhood just in our imagination because
reality is so harsh that we need to
think twice to take a single step let
alone becoming aTyler Durden. In the age
of consumerism, brands, status quo - we not
just end up craving more and more for
material possessions but this material
end up possessing.
they become our definition instead of
we defining them. Instead of following our
curiosity and express our own desires we
have reduced ourselves to mere pawns
scarificing our life for some
megalomaniac persons. We are buried so deep in these illusions that getting rid of them is not
just an impossibility but if someone
ever gathers the courage to do so
we considered him crazy and that's why Tyler says that its not by self
improvement anymore but by the self destruction
that we are to liberate ourselves.
Its by complete annihilation of who you
are now that might help you to peek at
who you really are. As long as you keep
yourselves anchored to the expectations and
hopes you're doomed to perish. So losing
all hopes is the freedom and accept the
fact that you're not special. you don't
hold God's special attention. you are same as
every decaying micro organisms.
we are all born to be lost in
obscurity, what's the success of even Steve
Jobs in the in the face of oblivion? What’s seventy, eighty or even ninety years of finite life in the face of
infinity. Whether you realize this or not
but from the perspective of unity or
just even not 40 million years of the
universe, in a very real sense, we are
already as good as dead
so shake yourself up
we don't need to look to somebody else
to understand who we want to be. we know who
we want to be. it's up here. we see him every time,
talk to him, plan with him, dream with him
but when it comes to living we smother
him down, we tie him blindfolded in our
wishes. what we need is the courage to don
our true selves in this fake world and I
think Tyler lets us bridge these two
selves inside of us. He gives us the
courage to be who we want to be, to be
who we are. see we might not all suffer
from insomnia but we all do suffer from
the LIE that we are LIVING
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