just depends what you want out of life I
would personally suggest just finding a
role that fits with what makes you happy
I think because the word turbulent like
sounds bad people think it's bad but in
the myers-briggs you might spell this
myers-briggs so there's four different
parts introverted sensing feeling
prospecting assertive okay
like none of these are good and bad
right these are just some of your
natural tendencies right now okay
introverted essentially means that being
around people and interacting with them
a lot drains you so like if you were me
on this call right now at the end of it
you'd be exhausted right but I'm more
extroverted so when I finished these
calls I feel great I'm excited I'm like
ready to go do something and then I
don't know I just sit by the pool
whatever but this means like being
around people sucks up your energy right
sensing versus intuitive sensing is more
observant as as you said here it
basically means you're focused on what's
real what's concrete what can we see and
touch right now okay a good example of
this if you ever watch shark tank on the
old episodes you'd see mr. wonderful and
Mark Cuban would just scream at each
other all the time it was awesome it was
hilarious great TV you know Mark Cuban
versus mr. wonderful alright so they
would argue all the time and what you'd
see is mr. wonderful would be like it
doesn't make money he's like I want he's
like I wanted to make money your
business is worthless that's poopoo
because you're not making any money
right now Mark Cuban says oh you're such
an idiot
don't you see the vision don't you see
what it's capable of and I'll say all
you paid too much for that company it's
not doesn't generate any profit
he said yeah it doesn't matter how much
I paid because if it's successful the
upside is huge so mr. wonderful is an S
Mark Cuban is an N alright intuitive
that's person that's focused on the
future vision of what's possible
person's focused on what's real and
concrete right now
they both are worth hundreds of millions
or billions of dollars so either way is
fine feeling type
it just means you care more about how
other people feel
whereas thinking types don't necessarily
value other people's feelings they tend
to be a little bit more logical but
feeling type is okay too you can
definitely still be logical and learn to
be more logical as a feeling type it's
not a bad thing it makes you more
empathetic which will make you good at
solving problems for other people
understanding what they're going through
so you can help them solve problems
which is really critical as a data
saying just P P versus J so P basically
means that you're willing to adapt like
you'll just go with the flow you'll
change things you'll show up you'll
improvise whereas a J as someone who
wants to plan everything out this means
that you're probably who's someone who
just goes on vacation just gets up it's
like yeah I'll book a hotel when I get
there I'll figure out what we're doing
later whereas the J books the hotel's
six months in advance and every single
thing they're gonna do so this is cool
to like this is fine it just means
you're adaptable you probably want to be
on a team that has some JS on it the
serta versus turbulent there's no better
and worse but assertive tend to just
want to do one thing like they just want
to do one thing well they're really
confident in it you know they're really
happy they do their thing well they're
happy it's good that's great if that's
what you want to be that's that's
amazing like if you are happy doing the
same thing more or less over a long
period of time of course you can improve
at it and stuff like I'm not saying that
they're stagnant but they tend to stay
in their Lane more whereas a turbulent
tends to one underestimate their
confidence to be a perfectionist three
want to learn everything right so this
is the type of person they want to
understand everything they want to learn
everything they want to be able to do
everything and they hold themselves to a
really really high standard in all of it
and a lot of times they underestimate
their abilities because their standards
are so high that they assume that other
people think the same way when it's not
really true
so if you're a turbulent like me you're
just gonna constantly push to like try
to be perfect try to do new things try
to improve try to learn different areas
that are like totally unrelated that's
cool like find a role that suits your
personality right find a role that suits
your sign now you said your teen find a
role that suits your personality and
gives you that leeway to learn different
things like this is one reason the data
science was cool for me it's because I'm
like oh thank god I'm not just gonna be
writing code in front of the computer
all day that's so boring for me I was
like cool now I'm gonna write code still
but I'm gonna learn machine learning and
statistics and I'm gonna learn about the
beer industry and you know the
wholesalers and sales and marketing and
all these different departments and
finance and like all this crazy stuff
and I'm gonna work with twenty different
business units around the world so when
I found a role that was a good fit it
was because it fit my personality and
what I liked to do and then of course I
just moved into other other areas
different companies I moved up and I
wanted to really understand everything
and by being able to understand
everything at least pretty well it put
me in a good position to be in charge of
the entire department and make the whole
department successful don't think that
one's better than the other although I'm
biased admittedly just find a role that
suits you now if you really feel like
you'd rather be happier like this I mean
that's okay you can design a value
system around that and really practice
and reinforce and basically reward
yourself for believing this and not just
believing it but taking actions that are
consistent with an assertive if you want
to change your personality you can
alright this is just a reflection of
your beliefs and self-image some of its
genetic but you can also literally train
change your brain again you can change
your self-image what you believe what
you value and create systems to
reinforce those new values and shift
yourself you know towards being more
assertive or towards being more
extroverted I mean that's a classic one
you've seen a lot of people
that have trained themselves to go from
like introvert to extrovert and you can
do it like you just go through the
process it's not good or bad just
depends what you want out of life I
would personally suggest just finding a
role that fits with what makes you happy
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