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Are you ready for me?
Like you look like
you're caring more
about yourself.
Well I feel like
someone's looking at me,
but the gym is empty.
I'm always paranoid.
Who's looking at me?
Who's looking at me?
There's ghosts... but
they're in your head.
Do you guys wanna make a
triangle? With our legs?
Yeah.
She can't stretch very much.
I'm half Puerto Rican today.
But, we don't talk about
what's in between your legs
when you're a girl.
Because people don't ask you,
what's in between your legs?
Right? It's kinda awkard.
I've always felt really awkward
when the first question
that people ask when they find
out I'm a transgender is,
what's in between your legs?
Is that really what
people ask?
But do people really
ask that?
Yeah. All the time.
- Even at Asia.
- I'm like I just met you.
Seriously?!
Yeah. 'Cause they're like,
do you go all the way?
And all that stuff,
and I'm like...
That's a very inappropriate
question to ask.
I think so too. I
never used to think--
And I tell them that, too.
I said that's really--
What about for guys,
do they usually wait?
Or do most of them
ask up front too?
No for dating,
you let them know.
You let them know.
But it's the people
you meet randomly
at the coffee shop, or whatever,
someone that you just
met, a friend of a friend.
And all of a sudden, within
the first few questions,
that's one of the questions.
Wouldn't it be weird
if everybody asked you
within the first two questions
of getting to know you.
"Um, what does your
[bleep] look like?"
Or something like that.
It's a little bit of ignorance,
but sometimes people
just don't know.
But I think that the times are
starting to evolve and change,
where people realize that
having the bottom
surgery or not,
shouldn't define you--
as a person, exactly.
Or, you know, if
you're a trans-man,
it doesn't make you
any less of a man.
Right.
