Want to command a room?
Want to feel confident?
Want that girl to feel good when she's around you?
Well, talk is cheap, actions are everything.
And knowing how to use your own personal signals to use to your advantage is a priceless tool.
And today, I'm going to show you NINE body languages secrets EVERY man should know.
One: Be passionate and strong, when there's contact.
When you're interacting with someone, whether it be a handshake at a business meeting or
a hug with a girl that you want a date.
You want to make sure you are assertive and preside with intent.
This will make it seem as if you're you're
leading the interactive and put you at that
alpha position.
So don't give a half ass handshake, or a sideways hug.
Number two: When you're talking and you want to make an impact, use your hands.
Why do you think in my videos, they're always all over the place.
Psychologist call these things, trust indicators. And it has been shown, that hand gestures helps people
that are receiving the message understand it and remember it more clearly.
So if you want to be remembered, don't just deliver the message like a walking stick;
use your hands!
Number three: When you're in an awkward situation, and you need that instant boost of confidence,
get into your power pose.
Theres going to be in a lot of situations
in your life.
Trust me I've been through them, where you're
going to feel overwhelmed, you're going to
feel the underdog, you're going to feel almost awkward or shy.
Well if you need an instant boost of confidence, you wanna get into your power pose.
Which means, you're going to stand sternly, open up your upper body, square of your shoulders
and stick out your chest.
Animals do this before a fight, to seem bigger and more intimidating.
You're not going to fight, but its going to
send a message that youre just as important.
Number four: Is how to know when people are lying to you.
Unless they're professionally liars or really
good at lying, almost everyone will give you
tall tail signs that they aren't being completely honest.
For example, they might start blinking rapidly, because their brain is working overtime to
come up with a lie or you might see them scratch their nose or cover their mouth, because instinctively
they're doing this because it might bring
them shame.
Or another one you might see them clench their mouth a lot, this might be because they're holding
themselves back or gagging themselves knowing this is something that they might regret later on
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The fifth body language hack is to know the
people around you actually want you to be there.
So, say you're at school and you see a group of guys or girls that you want to hop into that group.
If you do, and they all turn towards you including heir feet.
Congratulations, you're pretty popular.
However, if they just swivel their torso to greet you and leave their feet planted, chances are they
probably don't want you there and you should keep moving.
The sixth body language hack is to appear smarter.
This is one gesgute that can communicates wisdom, convictions and trustworthyness all in one.
Don't believe me?
Try it out.
Next time you're in a situation you want to
appear smarter, start steepling.
All you have to do is steeple and non your
head in agreement, and you'll look like one of the
wisest guy in the room.
Number seven: Is to know if you've bored somebody or if they want to leave.
Whether or not you're on a date, or you're
hanging with friends, an easy way you can
tell if you've bored or if they just don't
want to be around you anymore,
is you'll notice a decrease in eye contact.
They'll also start to participate in certain displacement activity.
Such as, starting to look on their phone more
often or their watch, or just picking up bits
of miscellaneous things and playing with them instead of paying attention to the actual conversation
If this is the case, you want to cut it short
and get out.
You're boring them.
Number eight: NEVER give a weak handshake.
If there is one thing that instantly signals
submission, is giving somebody else a weak handshake.
It just makes you look weak.
That is a HORRIBLE first impression you want to make.
Whether it be a superior or someone you want to date.
You don't want to rip their arm out, as long
as its firm.
You fully grip their hand, you're go to go and you'll be seem more sternly and confident.
Finally, number nine: is knowing how to master
eye contact.
You see eye contact is super important.
However, starring, thats creepy.
If you don't know where to place your eyes
during a conversation with a female without
seeming creepy?
Try using what they call the facial triangle.
What this does is reduces the intensity of
the contact by shifting the focus between
both eyes and her mouth.
You will be seem as less creepy, because you're not dead starring into her eyes and also increase
trust and intimacy.
Which is what you want.
Alright boys, so thats it for this weeks video.
Those are nice body language secrets that
every guy should know.
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That's it for me today, see you next time!
