Charlie... Brown... Ahn?!
What is up guys, and welcome to another Titan's life!
I'm Felipe Marx and I am here with Augusto and Gabriel
And we will chat here today about self development
About what we have learned... they have this channel concerning this topic aswell
And self development, the name says it all. It is you doing for yourself, you grow
From inside out
And like we were talking, I want to hear your experiences too
For me was the realization when I tried to stop making and impact on the world
with my behaviour and attitude and started instead trying to impact my inside world
I inverted the thing, instead of from outside to the inside, I started working on the inside
And then you become much more present and aware that the more you become a better person
What comes from you will automatically be something good
Reflecting what you have inside. How was it for you this journey?
So, for me, this epiphany of self development, to pursue my best version
To start growing from within and let it come first was a consequence of being present
Because I was reading a fantasy book, fiction,
And the main character was very present and that made a click on me, like I finally opened my eyes
To the presence, to live in the moment
And after that, a couple days later I started realizing what I indeed enjoyed
is to feel, more and more intensely, each and every moment of my life
is to be able to absorb more, through presence, cause I had and still have this idea
That I enjoy more of my life the more intensely I live it
and my way of doing so is to be present the most Ican
because being present this feeling is more intense and I can sense it better
It's like there is no intensety while you are thinking, in your head, cause you are not living, you aren't there
when you are thinking you are actually traveling in another paradigm
It's like thinking is artifical and presence is the real
But it is, right? Cause the virtual afterall doesn't exist
And from this epiphany I had the second,
which was to realize that I becoming better from within
my presence grows, and this feeling, this ability so to say
To have more intensity concerning the things that go around me grows too
so alright, for sure, let's build this and improve
Let's get to know ourselves better, right?
My journey, when I really started to pursue my best self
Was a consequence of my interaction with women
I entered the world of game, pickup, because of some of my best buddies
They told me to join them, that it would better me as a human being and also my social skills in general
You will be able to express yourself better
So, studying game and the content it shares
You end up realizing that in reality what happens is a process
of general improvement. Ok, you will learn to talk better, find out the best line, best way to approach
And then you notice that the best way
Is the one where you are the most confident, where you are the most comfortable with yourself
so, the more you work your within, the more independent from the outside
the better will be your approaches
And then my mind started to blow, cause this was for everything, not just game, not just men-women interaction
If I improve as a human being, everything that comes from me will be improved
I will be able to reach my goals the moment I am ready
So you act instead of reacting to these situations, right?
You act from within instead of acting accordingly to what they throw at you from outside
And something really cool is that I realized that
give the fact that I am ready, I will reach my goals, doesn't matter where I am
I will be ready, I won't adapt to that situation, place
i will be ready, so doesn't matter the goal I set I will be able to conquer it
Yeah man... there is a lot in self awareness
for you to realize you are not that thought
that you are the one who is thinking that, that you are behind all that and can observe and see it all
The moment you realize that within you may be stable
and outside, not so much
It's something that if it comes from outside it is a reaction, and adaptation
Like when you approach and woman and you wait for her answer to be affected from it and
And not so much you bring what you want from within
Self awareness is something that sums up a lot of what we just talked about
and this is essential cause when you realize you are this voice behing
You have the power to change it. If I don't like the way I'm acting now
If I don't like the thought I just had
I don't need to be reactive to it, I can go there and touch it and change it
You have this power. You are in the backstage, you have the power to set your idea
And change that on purpose
That is indeed crazy
It is indeed crazy but very real, and only the human beings have this power
As an animal, and this is what made us have built everything we did
Amazing, amazing... So ending the video now my friend,
I hope it helped you to get this click too
To be aware of your thoughts and these emotions, what is up with this anxiety that is taking over you?
Why is it happening? To realize it is not necessary
If you don't want to
Thanks for the time, I thank the guys here
We are together, thanks... Peace
