According to the psychologist when we communicate
with someone, then in that communication our
verbal language contributes only 40%, whereas
our body language contributes 60%.
No one likes to hear the lie from others,
everyone wants to know the truth.
And although it may be easy to lie using verbal
language, but it's very difficult to lie using
body language.
Because most of the time body language is
controlled subconsciously.
That's why if you manage to learn the techniques
of how to read body language of someone, then
no one will be able to make you fool easily
by telling some lie to you.
Also you will be able to guess what your partner
is thinking or feeling before she says something
to you, this will help you to make your relationships
far more better.
So in today's video I will share with you
some very easy but effective body language
tips which if you wish, you can master just
by practicing for a few days.
So to know the complete process, watch this
video till the end.
Smart idea 1: Study the eyes
There is a saying that, "Eyes are the mirror
of the soul".
That's why whenever you start talking with
someone, to know what that person is thinking
or feeling, first you have to read that person's
eyes.
The things that you have to notice looking
at eyes,
1.
Eye contact: Notice if the person is maintaining
eye contact properly.
Or is that person looking at somewhere else?
If that person is looking at somewhere else,
this indicates that the person is not interested
in that conversation or he or she may be feeling
shy or uncomfortable, or may be that person
is lying to you.
Now which one among this three things, that
you have to determine by following that person's
other actions.
Which will become more clear to you as this
video will progress.
2.
Looking angle: If the person is looking downwards
while talking with you, then it indicates
he or she is feeling nervous or uncomfortable.
If that person is moving his eye balls again
and again to the right upper corner of his
eyes while talking, then it indicates that
the person is lying to you using his imagination.
Because to create something using our imagination
we use our right brain and when we put pressure
on our right brain, unconsciously we move
our eye balls to the upper right corner of
our eyes.
Similarly, If that person is moving his eye
balls again and again to the left upper corner
of his eyes while talking, then it indicates
that the person is telling you the truth using
memory.
Because to access something from our memory
we use our left brain and when we put pressure
on our left brain, unconsciously we move our
eye balls to the upper left corner of our
eyes.
3.
Pupil dilation: When we find something interesting
infront of our eyes, the cognitive function
of our brain increase which in result cause
pupil dilation.
This is why pupil dilation indicates that
the other person is interested in you or what
you are talking about.
Similarly the opposite of it indicates that
the other person is not interested.
4.
Blinking: If the other person is blinking
very quickly while talking then it may indicates
that the person is thinking about something
or worrying about something.
But along with blinking very quickly, if that
person also touches his mouth again and again
then that indicates that he is trying to lie
about something to you.
5.
Glancing: While talking if the person is glancing
at some particular thing then that may indicates
that the person is particularly interested
in that thing.
For example, while talking if someone is glancing
at the door again and again then it may indicates
that the person is willing to leave the room.
Smart idea 2: Study the face
Most of the time people used to conduct their
facial expressions consciously while talking,
so here you need to be extra careful.
Things you have to notice looking at the other
person's face,
1.
Smile: Our smile tells a lot about what's
going on in our mind.
The most important is to distinguish between
a fake smile and a real one.
When someone smile right from his heart, then
in that smile all the parts of his face get
involved, whereas a fake smile only involves
the lips.
A real smile indicates that the other person
is truly enjoying your company, whereas a
fake smile may indicates that the other person
is trying to hide his true emotion from you.
On the other hand a half smile expresses a
sarcastic feeling.
And if the length of the smile is less than
one second then it indicates the dissatisfaction
of the other person.
2.
Lips: While talking if the other person roll
in his lips inside then it may indicates disagreement
of the other person.
And if he rolls out his lips outside then
it may indicates hopelessness of the other
person.
And if someone is biting her lips while talking
then it may indicates that she is interested
in you in a special way.
Smart idea 3: Pay attention to proximity
Proximity means the average distance between
you and the other person.
Notice what is the average distance that the
other person is maintaining while talking
to you.
If there is enough space, please note if there
is enough space and still the other person
always stands or sits beside you maintaining
a distance less than one hand then it indicates
that the person likes you and wants to be
close with you.
If that distance is between one to two hand,
then it indicates that the other person wants
to be friend only, he or she has no interest
getting close with you.
And if that average distance is more than
two hand, then it may indicates that the other
person just wants to be known with you, he
or she is not even interested in making a
friendship with you.
I am telling again that this rule applies
only when there is enough space to sit or
stand, otherwise someone may think if a beautiful
lady sits beside him in metro then it may
indicates that the lady is interested in him.
No brother, there is no sit available that's
why she is sitting beside you.
Smart idea 4: See if the other person is mirroring
you
Notice if the person is copying your sitting
style, your hand movements or your facial
expressions unknowingly.
If you are sitting on a chair putting your
hands under the table, then put your hands
on the table and wait for a few seconds and
notice if the other person is also copying
you.
If the other person copy you in less than
3 seconds then it may indicates that the other
person is knowingly copying you, which is
very annoying.
But if the time gap is about 5-10 seconds
then may be the other person is copying you
unknowingly which is a very good sign for
you, because it indicates that the other person
is interested in what you are talking or he
or she is liking your behaviour.
So now if I sum up the whole video, to read
the other person's mind, the first thing that
you have to notice is his eyes.
Notice if he is maintaining proper eye contact
or not.
Notice his pupil and check if he is blinking
very fast.
Then notice his smile and position of his
lips.
Then notice the proximity and finally notice
if the other person is unknowingly copying
your body language.
A lot of things remained to share with you,
but as this video has already become so long,
and if I tell everything in just one day it
will be difficult to practice.
So, first practice this 4 smart ideas for
few days until you master it.
Then if you guys really like this video then
I will make a second part of this video to
share the remaining tricks with you.
So, if you also want to watch the second part
of this video very soon then please like and
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