For most of my life I wasn't very good with money
 
I made it and I spent it the money came in and out and since nearly eight out of ten Americans live paycheck to paycheck
I'm guessing that's something that you can relate to as well after four years of college
I left with a degree in mass communications and 97 thousand dollars in student loan debt. Then I bought a brand new car
I told you I wasn't very good with money. There was something holding me back from even looking at my personal finances
It had become a joke. I owe him some money
What kind of money I had dug myself into a hole so deep it didn't even seem possible
That I'd ever get out the crazy part all that debt wasn't stopping me from spending after I got the new car
I added a new TV
Computer and even a leather jacket to my running tab that leather jacket was pretty cool though soon after college, though
I came to the realization that I needed to make a change that I couldn't just pretend like I wasn't in massive trouble
It was one of the most challenging things that I've ever done in my entire life
But over the course of 4 years
I was able to pay off every single student loan even that car payment and that's what I want to talk about today
Money our problems with it and how minimalism has helped me
there's a basic formula to win at personal finance and
It's this. Spend less money
than you make
In practice though
It's not that easy money seems to completely slip through our fingers
no matter how much money we make our bank account seems to have a
Completely different agenda. One of the reasons that we're bad with money is because money is taboo
We can't even talk about it with coworkers with family members without people feeling judged or downright
Offended we can only improve if we start to have honest conversations
About money we need to remove our egos and actually try to learn. One of the best ways that I've found
To learn about personal finance is through books and I'll give three recommendations
Dave Ramsey's Total Money Makeover
Ramita Sadie's I will teach to be rich and Tony Robbins
Unshakable, all three of these books lay out great advice trusted advice that has worked and I think that you'll find a lot of value from them
Don't fall into the trap of lifestyle creep
Whenever we get a pay raise or we start to make a little bit more money
We land a really big project. The first thing that we want to do is
Upgrade our apartment buy a better car
Increase our lifestyle. So then that way we're in some way rewarding this win
But if we were instead
to be more mindful about our spending if we were to keep our lifestyle in check and not
Inflate it as our income rises. 5, 10 years down the road
we're gonna be able to live a lot more comfortably and we're gonna have so much more security than if we continue to increase our
Lifestyle every year, let's be honest. We buy a ton of shit and we convince ourselves in a lot of sneaky ways
Why we deserve it. I mean I like shopping
Is there anything so wrong with that not all advertising is bad but a lot of it is
Driven to make us feel as if we deserve the indulgence
you've worked so hard you deserve this handbag these sneakers or this watch and
The truth of the matter is that what you deserve is to be debt-free?
You deserve not living paycheck to paycheck
we face pressure from social media keeping up with the Joneses or the Kardashians is a very real thing and if we're not
Curating and mindful of our news feeds and our social media feeds it can be
Very tempting to want to keep up and have the things that everybody else have otherwise, we'll have the fear of missing out
But here's the thing rich people are rich because they make smart decisions
With their money, they don't go out and lease a brand new BMW
They don't rent an apartment that they can't afford and the last type of pressure that we face is pressure from ourselves
There's this thing called the myth of 'I don't have' and it's something that we tell ourselves
To convince us that we need to go out and buy that thing
So as a filmmaker, you might say I really want to make that film or that video
but I don't have this lens or I don't have this camera so I can't do it or
I can't go out for that run or that jog
I can't start my new workout routine because I don't have that pair of sneakers
but really the only thing that's doing is procrastinating us from getting started with our goals and our dreams and
It's convincing us that buying that extra thing is gonna solve everything which it won't you need to make sacrifices
when I graduated college
Within 3 months I decided to move home with my parents and I lived in my parents basement
Literally in the basement for two years. I didn't date much didn't spend much
I didn't go out much because I knew that I had to make some sacrifices
To get to a point when I could start to take risks
You have to be completely clear with why you're doing this in the first place. Why do you want to be debt-free?
Why do you want to have?
Financial freedom when we truly understand why we don't want to be living
paycheck to paycheck
Why we would want to be debt-free
Everything else comes a little bit
easier when
We think about having the security and safety being able to take care of our family and our friends if they run into trouble
It becomes more obvious
Why this is so important you're able then to take more risks to challenge yourself. Put your push yourself outside of your comfort zone
In ways that you otherwise wouldn't be able to I know for myself if I wasn't
debt-free, I
Wouldn't be where I am today. If I didn't take in that first step and realize that I had a problem
I wouldn't have had that domino effect that led me to where I am to be able to take
pretty ambitious and risky decisions to move across the country to
Leave my business and start a complete new one
these aren't easy decisions and when you have debt
It's gonna be that much more difficult and that less likely that you're gonna succeed
The strategy couldn't be more simple spend less money than you make but as you know
We face a lot of pressure to do the exact opposite
But if you can out maneuver these forces, if you can build a healthy relationship with money, and create positive habits that stick
You will be able to become
financially free
Thanks so much for watching. What strategies tips tools and books have helped you on your own
Personal finance journey what things have helped you to chip away and even get out of debt?
I'd love to hear about your success stories as well as a part of that conversation opening up the dialogue about money
I think we should be encouraging each other and
Really rewarding each other for making positive steps in our lives
try not to feel threatened or discouraged if other people have a great success story see it as
Potential in yourself if somebody is able to get out of debt. That means that you probably can too. Thank you guys for watching
