y'all thought the ace family did a great
job of gas lighting keemtar's
straight-up saw that in his eye here
hold my G fuel what is up everybody this
is Chris from the rewired soul where we
talk about the problem but focus on the
solution and if you're new to my channel
my channel is all about mental health
and what I like to do is pull different
topics from the YouTube community to try
to teach you how to improve your mental
and emotional well-being so if any of
that stuff make sure you subscribe and
bring that notification bell so yeah I
want to start off this video before I
jump into the topic of gas lighting to
kind of explain a little bit of
something I do to work on my mental
health so I wrote this book rewire your
anger and there's something that I
forgot to add in that book but I'll
share this story with you real quick so
I had a lot of anger issues that's one
of the reasons why I started when I
started writing that book because I had
a lot of anger issues and I know a lot
of other people do too so I wanted to
you know teach people how I overcame
those things so one of the biggest
issues I had when I first got sober and
started working on my mental health was
I just judged the everybody looked at
everybody and I was like right but in in
an effort to work on myself like what
good was that doing what was it doing
for me how was that benefiting me in any
way shape or form so full disclosure out
of light cream story love them don't
like them but but anyway so when I
started working on my mental health when
I started seeing these people who I
didn't like I was like how can I turn
that into something that benefits me how
can I take every single situation in my
life and use it to improve myself so
what I started to do was look at people
who I wasn't a fan of and say what can I
do to avoid being that person right so
for me getting sober it was seeing
people with more clean time than me who
were jerks or who were miserable or
whatever they were right I was like okay
what can I do to avoid that right so
that's something that I still to do to
this day
so when I see bigger youtubers when I
see people I can store whatever like
even though I might not like the guy
like
what can I learn from them right because
one of my biggest fears one of my
biggest fears on earth is being a
hypocrite like do you guys understand
how often we judge people for doing
something and we're doing it ourselves
it's something that I noticed when I was
doing some some writing exercises is to
kind of figure out the root of my
problems like I was judging people for
things that I was doing right for
example I was judging my parents for how
I was raised but when I got sober I was
being a bad parent to my son so I'm like
oh dang or when I was writing about my
friends oh my friends don't show up for
me but then I was looking at myself I'm
like I don't show up for them or oh this
person lied to me I'm like wait I lied
to a lot of people you see what I mean
so that really showed my own hypocrisy
so there's a lot of self-reflection we
can do when looking at other people so
Keemstar being a bigger youtuber as
well as a lot of other youtubers who I
talk about on this channel or who I
don't even talk about on this channel I
look at them and as I rise through the
ranks on YouTube I'm like okay what
could I do to avoid that so another good
example is when I noticed youtubers
burning out or having mental health
issues I'm analyzing these people and
saying okay how can I avoid that so a
way that you can use that in your own
life here's a great example aside from
life looking at people who are jerks or
any holes or whatever like look at
people in maybe your career path right
like say you're a new teacher let's say
you're a first-year teacher you see a
teacher who's been there for 20 years
and they're absolutely miserable right
look at that person maybe have a
conversation with them and say okay what
can I do so I'm not miserable in this
job does that make sense because a lot
of us want to you know rise up in a
position at work or whatever it is but
we see other people who are miserable at
the place where we want to be so analyze
that situation and then model your life
in a way that you avoid the pitfalls
that may be led them on that path does
that make sense
but you can also do this in a positive
way find people who are doing right and
then model your path after that all
right
so anyways anyways let's jump into this
okay so yeah those of you who don't know
what gas lighting is gaslighting is a
form of manipulation okay
it is actually something that originated
from a super old movie I forgot what the
name of it was
but is a technique used by manipulators
to make you question your own sanity
okay this is something that a lot of
people have dealt with in abusive
relationships and all of that so I'm
going to be using clips from my girl
Ashley Kyle she has a channel here on
YouTube she's an awesome woman go check
her channel out you want to get the full
tee on the situation go check out Ashlye
Kyle so I was just kind of on Twitter
last night while I was hanging out with
Tristan we were watching YouTube have
any of you watch that channel mr. Gigi
dude is hilarious right but we're
looking around on Twitter and I saw that
people were losing it over keemstar and
he was getting into it with the channel
t spill and basically what happened was
was keemstar compared Elka Costelll to
Eugenia Cooney so earlier today team
star tweeted this photo that had the
caption Eugenia Cooney 2019 now if you
are unaware of who this photo belongs to
it belongs to Erica Costell which is Jake
Paul's ex-girlfriend was the 2019
Eugenia Cooney because she had a picture
and you know she looked thin in it and
I've made videos on Eugenia Cooney and I
hope you know those of you who know my
channel like I allegedly want people to
get help I want people to you know learn
from others and maybe recognize that
they have a problem or whatever and you
know even though it's not confirmed and
I'm not here to diagnose anybody like it
looks like Eugenia Cooney is very ill
and maybe this is anorexia maybe this is
a health issue whatever it is but it's a
very scary situation here on YouTube
because this young woman you know isn't
doing so great right and keep Starr used
that as an opportunity to talk crap
about Erica Costello being thin so
basically people were losing it on
Twitter t spill jumped into it Jake Paul
jumped into it and yeah they were using
the word body shaming okay so what is
body shaming body shaming is using the
person's body to insult them pretty much
what it is right
calling someone too fat calling someone
too skinny it's
pretty simple easy concept to understand
so throughout this tea spill was
tweeting back at at keemstar and
everything he keeps um was sending out
other tweets and then he manages to
start picking on other people any guys
like it's no secret Kim stars a bully I
don't like using that word with adults
but that's what the dude is so anyways
he ends up body shaming another young
woman on Twitter now in his tweet he
also included a zoomed in photo of her
profile picture and she's gorgeous so I
don't get it
and obviously and very clearly body
shaming her and not only that but once
again he knew he was throwing her to the
wolves to his fans he knew this the girl
went on to a quote tweet keemstar by
saying did keemstar really just tweet my
picture body shaming me because I called
him trash for body shaming
but then T spill brings up a point she
says you know it's it's pretty pretty
messed up that this man being the the
father of a young daughter you know for
him to go around doing this right
and keemstar lost it so everybody has a
hot button and as a parent I definitely
understand that when people talk about
my parenting it it can hit me hard right
but that's another reason why I gotta
manage my anger you know the other day
when somebody made a video about me they
talked about my parenting and I was
surprised at how I handled that because
I didn't even bring it up in my response
but yeah I can definitely hit the thighs
with care star but you know they're
bringing up a good point
so as influencers as influencers like my
son is 10 he knows I have a YouTube
channel if if he watches my videos will
I feel proud of what he sees if he sees
videos about me how am I gonna talk to
him about them and explain them right so
basically what TSP was saying was that
it's not healthy for the father of a
young daughter to make this kind of
statement about Erica Costello you know
especially with you know young women
having a lot a lot of body image issues
right
and that's you know I'm trying not to
stereotype but it's something that I
know a lot of young women who watch my
channel struggle with I've seen a lot of
the comments and everything like that so
anyways keemstar jumps on twitter just
snapping tea spill and he says this
listen tea stop talking about my kid
stop tweeting about my kid my kid is not
online my kid is not an online
personality my kid is not a youtuber
stop talking about my kid you're over
there calling me a scumbag and a dirtbag
and all I'm complete trash because I
body shamed first of all I didn't body
shame anyone I didn't and if you're
assuming that based on what I tweet it
then I think the body shame er is you
and in fact if you have such a problem
with body shaming then why are you
ashamed of showing your own face your
own body you have an online series where
you don't even show your face so let's
stop the body shaming right now what do
you look like show the whole internet
right now who you are and what you look
like
come on where's your face upload a vlog
of you talking or are you ashamed
do you support body shape so what you
saw from his earlier tweets as well as
this video his Q star is gaslighting
okay so keemstar is basically he's
trying to make you feel bad he's trying
to take this this thing that he did the
body shaming aspect and he's saying no
no no no no I wasn't doing that but if
you think I was body shaming then you
have an issue MA keemstar gaslighting at
its finest right so think about an
abusive relationship and no I'm not
saying
keemstar is the same as a domestic
abuser so please don't think I'm saying
that but I'm just giving you an example
because gaslighting often happens in
abusive relationships if you even look
at the comments on my Austin McBroom
AIDS family video you'll see the
comments when I ask people if they've
been gasline live right where somebody
takes something like this they'll do
something to harm you and then make try
to make you feel bad for it right and
this is messed up okay but thankfully a
lot of people on Twitter see through
team Starr's tactics
doing this and and yeah what he was
doing was body shaming so basically what
I like my assumption is either he's
gaslighting us or we got to feel a
little bad for keemstar because he
doesn't understand the definition of
body shaming so what are those two
things on one of them he's gaslighting
the other one I just feel kind of sorry
for the guy but anyways remember how
earlier in this video I was telling you
one of my biggest fears is being a
hypocrite right so keemstar
claiming that he doesn't body shame
anybody what is my loyal rear I read
soldiers out there brought up a good
point and looking back a few months ago
when I made a video about keemstar you
know claiming to be an advocate for
mental health in some ways by defending
some people he took a shot of somebody
else talked about depression talked
about you know I'm often himself a thing
like that and then q-star came at me and
he was talking about this so anyways
here's another lesson for everybody out
there just remember use your prefrontal
cortex have some impulse control get
some logical decision-making regulate
your emotions because never forget never
forget the Internet is forever and with
all of the the t channels we have out
there with all of the the internet
investigators out there just remember
you can't get away with saying things
and then trying to act like you're not
that person because there are receipts
of these things you know what I mean so
again don't be a hypocrite
don't Gaslight people and try try try
your best to learn lessons from people
even if you don't like them alright
anyways that's all I got from this video
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