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created another series
called the body language vocabulary series so
this is the first episode
What I'm going to be doing is picking out 5
vocabulary words that I think are unique
or fun
or educational
well.. they're all going to be educational
but we're going to learn them
and I think it'll be kinda cool
It'll also help me
learn more vocabulary as we go on
and it's only five so
it shouldn't be too long they should be
pretty easy to learn these words
understand these words
should be fun, hopefully, maybe, maybe it won't be, I don't know
first word on the list is
jabbing
thrusting your finger at someone
is considered a very rude
gesture
it's also very aggressive
I SAID I DIDN'T DO IT
you little mother-----
so basically thrusting your finger at
someone is called jabbing like boxing
so you're jabbing your finger at people
that's the first word
it's going to be great isn't it
Next word is witch's brows or witch's brow
is when women have naturally
Low setting eyebrows and actually makes them seem
Mean or Evil
when actually it's just
they have low sitting eyebrows or
Setting whatever you want to call it
kinda makes them look sinister so that's witch's
eyebrows
make sure you stay away from those ladies
next word is regulating
regulating is controlling
the conversation
through body language
uh... you basically try to keep the flow
going with conversation so I guess
regulating in a way would be
regulators
music video playing*
Music video still playing*
When will it end?* Nobody knows*
you know if you went like this and cut
someone off
you're trying to
make it so you
you're allowed to talk now
or
you might say
something like well I think the plan
is going well I think the data we have
is good
I also think there is some reports we
need to work on
That's me indicating that someone else needs to participate
in answering that
sort of question but not really
an obvious question
but just doing a gesture
and trying to keep
conversation going regulating
conversation
filler sounds
filler sounds like Uhh, umm, like
words like that
are filler sounds
and if you're giving a presentation
the audience usually sees that as a lack of confidence
it's something that I've had to work on
so
don't be
upset if you use umm or uhh a lot, I do it all the time
and a unfortunately it becomes part of a
natural thing so it's very difficult
time to break out of it but
now that you know it's filler words or filler
sound
you can sort of work on it
and the last
out of the five vocab words for this video is called
baselining
baselining refers to normal gestures that
people make
baselining is very important to understand
because when you
baseline someone you learned about their
natural
body language gestures the things they do all the time, the ticks they have
and when they don't do those in certain
situations you know something is up
because you've developed a baseline on
that person
whats weird is your subconscious mind on
people who are naturally really good
and understands people by reading body language  cuz they are out there
they
developed baselines whether they want to
or not it just naturally happens and
when
someone starts acting
stressed that person feel stressed because
they develop baseline on that person in
the environment changes
and then that person feels the change
and they can pick up on that kind of body language very easily
so that is baselining
and those are the five vocabulary words
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but I'm gonna end it
stop rambling, peace!
