Hi guys so do you believe everything you read
or see on social media? Do you believe everything
you read in the paper or the news that you
see on the TV? Well, here's a shocking truth
for you. Not everything you read is true.
So when people are posting about their wonderful
lives and how easy they've got it, don't be
fooled into thinking that they're not working
hard or there aren't things going on behind
the scenes that you don't know about because
I've said this before and I'll say it again,
the perfect life only exists on social media.
People put out what they want you to see and
how they want to be perceived. They'll hold
back on things that maybe they struggle with,
they hold back on the difficulties and the
arguments and a lot of people will, like me,
hold back on the 18 hour days and the time
and the money and things. Like the sleepless
nights. Like last night, I had a real bad
night's sleep. I've got sunglasses on because
one. I can't see and two. I look really tired.
That's part of building a business, it's not
nice, but it's something that happens. A lot
of people will post things to make themselves
feel better. They post to get affirmation
from other people, to feel that everything
they're doing is right, because they're looking
for external validation. That's not something
that you need. So don't look for that when
you're posting on social media. Don't think
that you need 1000 followers and likes on
a post or a million followers because that
means nothing. Those people that do that and
have that big following, they're not necessarily
happy. They just portraying the life that
they want you to see. And that's true for
so many people. You just really don't know
what's going on behind closed doors. You just
don't know. I don't know if you can relate
to this? If you often feel that you're not
getting enough attention? Enough likes on
your posts? Well, people are always watching,
for one thing. And whether they're liking
or commenting on stuff or not, doesn't mean
anything, just because they'be not taken that,
pressed the like button doesn't mean that
actually haven't looked or they haven't taken
inspiration, or they don't care. It just means
that they've not pressed the button. So don't
worry about that. Don't worry about what you're
seeing on other people do on social media.
Oo hello. Just worry about yourself. Worry
about your life and how you feel. Other people's
opinions of you are their opinions of you
and are actually non of your business. Don't
look outside for that validation. Look for
it inside. Because that's when you really
start to connect with yourself and you learn
more and you grow. When you can truly accept
yourself for who you are and not need that
validation from outside that's when you can
truly be a better person and then serve better.
So that's the truth of social media, a lot
of it's fake. A lot of its bullshit. And you
don't need that in your life. So, like I say,
look here, that's where you want to look.
Look inside. Look in your heart. And know
in yourself what it is that you need for you.
So I've been Natalie Bailey, you've been wonderful,
have a great day and I'll see you soon. Bye.
