Can your paradigm change to negative due to
experiencing death in Family? It does. Paradigm
is not something that is set in stone. Paradigm
is the net sum, like I said all the energies
on this side versus all the energies on the
other side, frequencies or emotions. Whenever
change happens in this structure of existing
emotions, change happens in your paradigm
as well. I don't have a graphical way, better
way of explaining things, but then if this
is how it is and this is the common line,
you see this person is positive so the paradigm
is on the positive side. f the shift happens,
this side is increasing and the other side
is reducing, the person will become a negative
person. I don't know if this was clear for
everyone. Basically, if you have more negative
thoughts, and less positive thoughts then
you become negative.If you more positive thought
and less negative thoughts, you will become
positive. And, that will be your paradigm.
I was using my two hands to explain the paradigm.
If this is the paradigm, this the line..and
these are the emotions, intentions or thoughts
which elevate our vibration and here we have
thoughts which are reducing our vibration.
We have to take net sum of this (positive
thoughts), and we have to take net sum of
this (Negative thoughts). And based on that
we have to subtract from negative to positive,
and what remainder you get (Positive or negative).
if you have 40 on positive and 38 on negative,
you are positive. But if you have 40 on negative
and 38 on positive, you are negative. That
means you are in alignment with vibrations
that are reducing your vibrations. So, paradigm
is something that changes, and this net sum
40 or 38 what you are getting is a sum of
different emotions, experiences that you have.
Like Jessica mentioned or S'iPhone mentioned
that if something has happened in your life,
may be someone's death, that can change the
paradigm drastically. It changes for me. I
can talk from my example. When my mother passed
away. it was close to six years now. And my
life change completely after that. I was not
so inwardly focused even though I was religious
quite to the extreme. But things changed after
that. The way I started looking at life changed
completely. So, what I am trying to say, all
these experiences and circumstances around
you, people around you can have impact on
your paradigm. Sometime people do have negative
impact in your life and they help you get
more negative. I dont want to categorize negative
or positive. More such level of though which
reduces your vibration, you become that kind
of a person. You start being in alignment
with that kind of frequency. That is what
people mean when they say a person is as good
as the company he or she is in. Company in
the way that people you interact with, family,
relatives, friends, colleagues, whoever you
spend time with. You will still most likely
will be getting in alignment with how they
are. Unless you know how to exercise control.
Unless you know what your true nature is,
because when you know that, you will be able
to stop someone from negatively impacting
your life so that your vibration reduce. So
even if that person is still there, you will
not be getting impacted. We do develop that
kind of practice with our family members.
Sometimes we do develop such practices with
our kids, sometimes with our parents when
they get older...isn't it a saying that kids
and elderly are similar? You have to be a
little patient with them.You don't have to
analytical with them and when I am elderly
I am talking about really old people. That
is definition that can be seen differently
as well. So Paradigm changes, paradigm can
change based on how you are feeling. But Paradigm
change does not happen from second to second,
it takes time. It takes time for you, for
someone to get to a level where the the net
sum of everything changes. The more you stay
in a particular frequency, the better it is
for you to attract that thing. If your paradigm
also is changing, how would universe give
you something? If today you want a house,
but tomorrow you want a different house or
day after you want something else in it, or
you want a house but then you are actually
missing something else..may be you are looking
for a life partner, or a job, or something...so
what I am trying to say is when people talk
about using techniques of manifestations,
it is basically to help you get into alignment
with your paradigm. So that you send these
certain, specific vibration to the universe.
Because when you think about something based
on how that thought is, you are basically
changing your vibrations. that vibration go
out in the universe and that is why I said
nothing get wasted. Even though something
is not as per your paradigm, if it becomes
stronger, it becomes your paradigm. That is
why people talk about doing things repeatedly,
making a habit of doing something...like walking
the example i was giving you. Now it is ingrained
in your DNA, I would say you don't have to
think twice, you don't even have to think
about walking. Even if something happens,
I don't know if you are at that brain stage
where you consider you cannot walk or something,
but otherwise you would still walk. So that
is how universe can be, I won't say manipulated
because that is typically used in negative
context...I would say you can interact with
the universe. You can deliberately send intention
or vibration that you are trying to achieve
by working on it. Because mostly, if we are
not in alignment, we are getting things at
times, and at times we don't get things. But
when do we get things? We get things when
our emotions and vibrations are stronger.
And that is just one aspect of it we are not
looking at something which is outside law
of attraction which is karma as well. What
do you get, you are talking about all this
makes sense when we are talking about someone
who know, who is aware of physicality. How
would a six month old baby two year old baby,
two day old baby, how the things happen to
them? Good or bad, however you describe. Things
to do happen to them.We can't say they are
manifesting that based on their paradigm,
frequency or vibrations. No! There are some
other aspect of life as well, which is where
Law of Attraction become dependent on other
aspects...karma is one of them for sure. So
let me move forward from frequency or paradigm.
