hi it's Stephan here in this video I want
to share with you a body language trick
that will automatically and instantly
make you more attractive to women and
the whole thing is backed up by science
and frankly many years of noticing this
and practice if you want to be confident
around women and meet women and attract
women in your everyday life in a natural
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because there'll be more great videos
coming up so when it comes to body
language I understand it can be hard to
implement because very often you know
once the moment takes over we lose
awareness of our body language and also
you don't want to be too self-aware
because you end up just thinking of
yourself rather than who's in front of
you and yet it's great to get an
awareness of what actually is useful to
you in terms of attracting women what
body language actually works that gives
off that attractive vibe that you want
as a man so that's the first step and
then there's more steps but let's start
with a first step okay
so recently there was a study that
confirmed something that I already had
noticed and you're probably aware of as
well and it's a study whether we're
basically looking at what kind of body
language attracts people to dating
profiles but also in real life and this
was around expansive body language or
contractive body language and you
probably can imagine yes they turned up
with evidence that showed that expansive
body language that means you know
expanding your body and taking up more
space potentially is generally more
attractive than contracted body language
and you can see this as well on dating
profiles apparently there was a
percentage of I think 27 percent higher
response rate with the same people where
they put up profiles that had expansive
body language on them with the same
faces basically and
contractive and so there was a higher
percentage of responses for the
expansive ones but also in reality in
terms of dating situations and social
situations this turns out to be
something that you can notice very
easily if you are something that's
slightly obsessed with human behavior
like myself so this study just confirmed
something I already knew so it just
sounds a bit more you know believable
for you maybe if I'm just rather than me
just telling you but the difference is
basically on a date or on pictures on
tinder or wherever you people find you
or in social situations if you can
display expansive or more expansive body
language or at least avoid contractive
body language then you are going to
generally be more attractive to women
and you're going to be seen to be
socially more attractive and why is that
briefly why is that well your body
language tells other people how you
think of yourself okay and how you think
of yourself in other people's minds and
this is mostly a subconscious process
makes them make assumptions about how
your life has gone up to this point so
if you think of yourself as somebody
that has the space to take up space that
can feel free in their expressions that
can be lively with their body language
it gives people to understand that that
is what you have experienced so far in
your life predominantly and that gives
them to understand that you probably
somebody with social status that people
listen to and that people don't slap
down constantly does that make sense in
a very simple way that's probably the
easiest way I can explain this and
that's why body language matters so much
and that's why also it's the biggest
opportunity for anybody that may not
have had the best life ever if you learn
body language and I'm slightly crying it
because it's cold if you learn to
have expansive or confident body
language you can basically even in
people's minds erase a past that may not
have been so helpful in becoming truly
confident and feel that this expansive
body language is natural to you so it's
not easy but you can do it let me give
you three things that you can do okay
and I'm not saying be the one guy on the
tube that's manspreading and you know
you know basically pretending that
nobody else exists no in that context I
don't recommend it but on a date do one
thing let her observe you being
expansive with your body language so
that means when you're talking to the
waiter or the waitress show that you are
physically free okay that you are not
held back the other key thing is that
you want to eradicate contracted body
language and also insecure body language
because that will just ruin the the
effect obviously yeah so fiddly things
you know you know you might be tempted
to kind of sit on the data and sort of
lean in to hear her better or to not
make her feel intimidated or things like
that if you do that you're obviously is
creating a different you know you're
creating a sense of of non-b not being
attractive okay because what you want is
you want to free your chest you want to
have an open chest you want to have a
lot of this sort of position in the
picture and you want to have a open
stance and you want to have open body
language and this area should be exposed
not protected because if you expose it
it means you're not afraid and you are
used to not being afraid of people
certainly not of women and so that
creates subconsciously attraction so let
her observe you being expansive in your
body language secondly eradicate
the tales of of of insecurity in your
body language and third obviously be
expansive in your body language with her
and that means not leaning in but
sometimes leaning back and letting her
lean in taking up space with her
obviously in a in a way that doesn't go
in too fast too quickly that you are
invading her space constantly but feel
free to step into her space and then
step out of it again there's a bit of to
and fro in this right but be flexible
and expansive in your style and always
always feel free to move as long as that
move doesn't come from some sort of
nervous tic and you'll be on the way to
having more expansive body language okay
and that way you'll be more attractive
to women it's very simple now the hard
part of course is doing this in practice
because especially if you're shy or
quiet or introverted and your inner game
isn't quite there yet you might well
subconsciously contract because you
might well be slightly intimidated or
you might have tension in your body for
that I have a great program that I can
only recommend to you that you can get
on my website it's called the 57
ultimate confident confidence methods
and it's a program that basically every
week or every three days you can choose
that yourself you get another method
that will give you another Avenue or
another way into more confidence and
that could be through your body that
could also be through your voice that
could also be through your mind that
could be through the way you relate to
people so this is in my experience the
ultimate program that anybody can
undertake or get to step by step improve
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cackling and you know what when you have
confidence life gets easy dating gets
easy attracting women gets easy
so 57 ultimate confidence methods you
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the link below and that's it I wanted to
share with you what I had to say today
and I'm really curious what you think of
this video of this and if you have
questions or thoughts about the please
share them here in the comments section
and with expansive body language I see
you soon
