So the thing that you need to recognize in
asking this question about body language,
is often the most communication is through
our non-verbal behaviour.
So one of the things you wanna look for in
a potential partner or somebody to know whether
or not they are attracted to you is are they
open and expansive or do you find them sort
of constricted or closed off; because that
is really your first clue.
And then notice what they do with eye contact.
Are they somebody who is actively engaged,
listening, wanting to know more or they are
somebody who's sort of distracted and on their
Blackberry or iPhone and really seems like
they could care less.
You really got to notice these sort of non-verbal
cues, because they really give you a green
light about whether or not you should go forward
or whether or not you should really invest
your energy in somebody who really is available.
So recognize importantly that body language
is often as telling if not more telling than
somebody's verbal cues.
Because sometimes someone's just really trying
to be nice and they personally don't wanna
offend you or be rude and so they may say
something that's nice and pleasant.
But you need to notice whether or not their
words are consistant with their body language.
Because if they are not, I think you need
to recognize that their non-verbal cues are
also a very clear and explicit message.
