 
### Q & A on Christianity

By Sherry Hall

Copyright 2012 Sherry Hall

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Table of Contents

Preface

Who Am I

How Do I Talk To God

Am I Good Enough

What If I Fail

Why Is My Life So Hard

Can I Really Be Forgiven

Why Does God Let Bad Things Happen

How Do I Stay On The Path To God

How Do I Pray

How Do I Forgive Others

How Do I Know God Exists

How Do I Love My Enemies

How Do I Get "Born Again"

Why Does God Love Me

How Do I Know I'm Saved

What About My Friends

What Is My Purpose

I'm Scared To Change

What Is The Holy Trinity

Who Really Wrote The Bible

Who Should Be First In My Life

How Do I Teach Others When I Know So Little

Why Must I Confess My Sins

Does Satan Exist

How Do I Know When God Is Talking To Me

Is It Wrong To Get Angry

Are There Angels and Demons Around Us

There's No Hope For Me

Its Too Late For Me

What About Judging Others

Does It Matter Which Church I Attend

An Eye For An Eye

What Is The Purpose Of The Holy Spirit

What Will Eternity Be Like

Why Should I Pray For Others

Will My Pets Go To Heaven

Will My Unsaved Baby Go To Hell

Why Should I Do Both? Read The Bible And Attend Church

Is Divorce A Sin

Is Lying Really A Sin

What Does It Mean To Covet

Using God's Name In Vain

But I'm A Good Person

Hey Christians --- What Happened

Our Children

### Dedication

This book is dedicated to all the people in the world who are still searching for answers. God bless you all.

### Acknowledgements

I want to thank my son, Damien, for teaching me to use the laptop. Special thanks goes to my Aunt Foye, who did all the research, and my pastor, Doug Wodtka, who took the time to guide me through. I would also like to thank all of those who find this book helpful.

Preface

There are hundreds of questions people ask everyday concerning their place with God. I have put together some of the questions I had asked, and have been asked of me. The answers I have given are based on the answers given in the Holy Bible. I have taken the complex answers in the Bible and made them easier to understand.

I hope this book is helpful to you.

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Who Am I

Many times I have heard this question. In truth, I had asked myself this question over and over as I grew up. Sure, I knew my name, and that I was my parents child, but who was I deep down inside. Finally, after years of confusion and doubt, the answer became quite clear. The answer was easier than the question --- believe it or not.

So, who was I, and who am I now? A child of God. Yes, you read that right, and it is very simple. We are all children of God, and have been since the moment of our conception. Isaiah 44:2 says, "I am your creator. You were in my care even before you were born." Before we were born. Think of it. Amazing, isn't it? To know that God cared for us while we were still in our mother's womb.

The Holy Spirit also lets us know that we are God's children. In Romans 8:16, the Bible tells us, "The Spirit himself testifies with our spirit that we are God's children." If we listen to the Holy Spirit we will know that this is true. We are not just a race of people that God created. We are, and always will be His children, and we were created in His image. In Genesis 1:27 it says this: "So God created man in His own image, male and female He created them."

How wonderful to know that we were created by God in His own image. To know that we are His children. To know that He wanted us so much that He took the time to create us. We were created to be loved by --- and to love God. He wanted children who would love Him as much as He loves us.

Now, remember, He gave us free will to choose for ourselves. But, what good child would turn his/her back on such a loving father? None would!

So, if anyone asks you who you think you are \---answer truthfully. You are a child of God!

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How Do I Talk To God

Here is a question that has been answered over and over again with a simple response: Prayer. But, most people believe they don't know how to pray. They hear preachers in prayer using an English language that somehow does not seem like English. Or they hear prayers that have been written down and remembered. Not everyone can remember short or long prayers that have been written down.

God does not expect you to repeat memorized prayers. And He does not expect you to sound like a preacher. What God does expect is for you to speak to Him from your heart. Go to Him in private, and don't be afraid to tell Him how you feel. Read Matthew 6:6. He already knows what you want --- He is just waiting for you to come to Him and tell Him with your heart. He wants to hear from His children. He wants to be a part of your life. He wants you to share all the good and bad things of your life. He wants to comfort you.

When you talk to God, just open your mouth and let the truth of your heart spill out. But, please, be respectful at all times. Remember, this is your Heavenly Father you are speaking to. Disrespectful prayers will not be met with good results. Our Father loves us, but demands love and respect from us. And well He should. As you already read, He is our Creator, and He loves us. He deserves our love. And with love comes respect. So when you pray (talk) to Him, talk to Him with love, and the respect will automatically follow.

Now, even though your Father wants to hear about your worries, your fears, and your troubles, He also likes to hear about the good things that make you happy, i.e.; future plans, a new job, a new family member, etc. He wants to hear about your accomplishments. He is interested in every aspect of your life.

Also, when you find you need His help, don't pray to Him with doubt on your mind. Trust Him. Believe in Him. He may not answer the way you think He should. And sometimes His answer is no. Just remember, He loves you and He will always do what He knows is best for you --- even if you don't see it right away. He likes to be appreciated, so remember to thank Him every day for the things you have, i.e.; friends, family, a roof over your head, food in your stomach, a job, a car. You may not have everything I mentioned, but if you look hard enough, I'm sure you have something to be thankful for.

Keep praying to God --- He will help you see what you have. Just don't give up.

Read: 1John 5:14 and 1Peter 5:7

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Am I Good Enough

God created all of us. Our Father in Heaven purposefully created every person who exists, or did exist, on this earth. Not one single human can be thought of as a mistake. God does not make mistakes. So, therefore, yes, you are good enough, even if you make mistakes. God expects us to make mistakes, but He also expects us to learn from our mistakes so that we can avoid further sin. Purposeful sin will be met with chastisement, (a spiritual spanking, if you will). If you think you can sin over and over --- knowing you are doing wrong --- and then go to God for forgiveness; I'm sorry, but that's not the way it works. Remember the woman at the wall who was about to be stoned? Jesus protected her, and then He forgave her. But --- He told her to go and sin no more. Read John 8:10-11. Jesus did not want her to go back to her sinful ways.

We all make mistakes and have accidents. When we realize we have just sinned, we must immediately go to God for forgiveness --- in Jesus' name. We must go to Him with a true, repentive heart.

And there is no fooling God. A person may fool himself, or even others, such as friends and family members. But God sees the truth of our hearts. He knows if we are sincere, or if we are just playing a dangerous game. God looks into our hearts and sees everything, good and bad.

If you are confused and don't know where you stand in your relationship with God --- ask yourself these questions:

1). Do I love God?

2). Am I really sorry for my sins?

3). Do I fear God's punishment (hell)?

4). Do I want to feel God's love?

Be honest with yourself when answering. Only you can decide whether you want to be good or bad. But everyone is good enough to be loved by God. We were created to be loved by God, and in turn, to love God. It's up to each of us what we choose to do with that love. We can choose to accept it and obey God, and draw closer to Him. Or, we can turn our backs and do things our own way --- endangering our souls. But what a horrible way to live --- separated from God's love.

You decide.

Read: Jeremiah 31:3; Matthew 10:29-31; Romans 5:1

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What If I Fail

Failure is a scary word for most of us. No one wants to fail at anything they do. We have been brought up in a world where failure is not acceptable. Be it in school, our jobs, our families, etc. and etc. But no one can succeed in everything they attempt. If we could, we would be perfect. And we all know there is not one single person, on this earth, who is perfect. We all make mistakes --- that is a part of learning --- and we all fail at something.

God understands this. He expects us to make mistakes. Just as we expect our own children to make mistakes. We wouldn't give up on our children, would we? Of course not! And, our Father in Heaven will not give up on us. He will forgive us our sins (mistakes) over and over as long as we are truly sorry, and we try to learn from those mistakes.

There is only one way to fail. Now, listen closely. The only way to fail is to give up. It's that simple. If you give up, you endanger your soul. The Bible tells us to 'persevere'. In other words, 'to keep trying' no matter what. God tells us this because He doesn't want any of His children to quit. He loves us, and it saddens Him when we quit and walk away.

So, don't give up on your Christian life. Show God that you are not a quitter. Show yourself. If you think it's too late for you --- think again. God is patiently waiting for you to call His name. You still have time to get back on that proverbial horse and try again. This time:

Don't Give Up!

Read: Proverbs 28:14; Matthew 26:41; James 4:7.

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Why Is My Life So Hard

This is a very touchy area. Bear with me. Many people believe their lives are very hard --- unbearable even. Everyone has problems that make life hard to deal with. And most everyone believes theirs is the hardest. And if they believe it is, then it is for them. Whether the problem is lack of money; too much money; nightmares from your past; an abusive relationship; a drug or alcohol problem; an irritating boss; the lack of a job; or unruly children. No matter what you are dealing with, it does not have to be as hard as it feels. There's someone you can turn to, and it won't cost a thing. The ultimate counselor.

Take those problems straight to God. But, remember, don't ask Him to make your problems go away, or to solve them for you. Instead, ask Him to help you find the solution, and to help you through it. Ask Him for strength and courage. If you have given up hope that things will change for the better, ask Him for hope, as well. Our Father is always there for us. All we have to do is go to Him and ask for His help and guidance.

Asking God to solve our problems for us would be like a parent doing the child's homework. The child would never learn to do it for himself. If God solves all of our problems for us, how will we learn? It's okay to help a child with her homework, just as it's okay for God to help us solve our problems. God wants us to go to Him when something is too big for us to handle all alone. But, and this is important, He also wants us to be able to stand. He will guide us to the point of standing --- if we trust Him.

Another factor that makes our lives seem hard is Satan. He will do everything he can to cause us to stumble. To pull us away from God. He does not want us to rely on our Father. Satan will throw anything he can at every turn. Anything to yank us from our Father's arms. Whether it's losing a job, or losing a young family member. Satan wants our lives to be hard --- he wants us to panic, to blame God. And, sadly, some people do just that. Others expect God to solve their problems for them. Many people do not realize that it is Satan who is attacking them. Remember, God gave Satan dominion over the earth to test our faith in Him. Satan told God that he could lead God's children astray. Every time we blame God for our problems, we are allowing Satan to lead us away.

So, when bad things happen, remember; Satan is trying to pull you away from your Father in Heaven. Instead, go to God; ask Him to help you get through whatever your situation is. Ask Him for strength, or patience, or hope, and even faith. He will get you through it --- no matter how many times Satan attacks you.

So hold onto to God and trust Him. He is your Father, after all, and He loves you. Give Him a chance to help you.

Read: Isaiah 53:6; Matthew 11:28; John 3:17; John 16:33

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Can I Really Be Forgiven

Of course you can. No matter what you have done, you can be forgiven. Jesus tells us that we can be forgiven seventy-seven times seven times a day. Do the math. That is five hundred and thirty-nine times in one day. No one can sin that many times. Now, don't take this lightly. If a person goes out with the intention of sinning, believing he/she can be forgiven later on, that person is only fooling himself. To intentionally sin is the same as telling God you are not serious about your relationship with Him. And to sin on purpose brings punishment, not reward.

Remember in an earlier chapter I spoke of Jesus telling the woman at the wall to go and sin no more. That is His message to us to try to live without sin. So, we must try to live sin free, although there will be times when we will slip. As I said before, God expects us to slip. He knows we are not perfect. But, our Father does expect us to try. As long as we are trying, we are getting closer to Him.

There is one other stipulation (for want of a better word) to being forgiven. We must be able to forgive others for the hurts they have caused us. In the New Testament, Jesus tells us that if we forgive those who have sinned against us, Our Heavenly Father will also forgive us. Yet, if we don't forgive those who have sinned against us, neither will our Father forgive us. This message is given to us in the Lord's Prayer: 'forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us'.

Now, that is a pretty strong message, and right to the point. Don't you agree?

Read: 1 John 1:8-9; Colossians 1:12-14; Matthew 6:12

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Why Does God Let Bad Things Happen

God gave us a free will. The will to choose good or evil. Those who choose to do evil will eventually interfere in the life of a person who chose to be good. That's why bad things happen to good people. Because God also gave Satan reign over the earth. Satan uses that reign to test God's faithful ones. God does not let bad things happen --- He allows them to happen. He does this to test our faith in Him, or to wake us up to return to Him. Maybe the problem is that we are not obeying Him, as we should, so He allows Satan to interfere in our lives. Satan uses the opportunity to pit evil people against us to hurt us. Or, it could be that we are keeping company with the wrong people. People who believe in our Father, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit are the best people to hang around with. They can help you with your walk with God, and later, you can help others.

Sometimes, bad things happen to make us stronger. I, for one, have been through many nightmarish incidents that have brought me to the place I am now. Ten years ago, I would never have been able to write this book for you. Many of you have been through things that you would rather forget. But, we cannot forget what we have experienced in our lives. If we did, we could never grow, or help others. Instead, take these hurtful memories to God and ask Him for the strength to use your past experiences for good. Ask Him for the strength to stand up against your past or present problems.

Believe it or not, some people actually blame God when something happens to disrupt their happy existence. Remember --- Satan has full reign over the earth, and the right to attack and test us. God gave Satan reign over the earth to test our faith in Him. Will we listen to Satan? Or, will we hold onto the hand of our Heavenly Father? Satan wants us to fall or fail. If he can get us to blame our Father in Heaven, then he has succeeded in tearing us away from God. So, instead of blaming God, we should realize that Satan is the one who is causing our troubles, and we should remember to go to God in prayer. Go to God in prayer everyday whether you are facing a problem or not. The closer you draw to God the stronger your faith in Him will grow. Satan will still attack you, but he won't stand a chance, because he is weak in the sight of God. As long as we hold to God, and trust Him, He will see us through.

The word 'through' is a very important word. It means that we know we can't get around the problem, or over it \--- we have to go 'through' it with our Father's help. He will give us the strength, the courage, or the perseverance, if we just ask. We don't have to accept the bad things Satan throws our way. We have a loving Father to help us.

So, remember, whatever we survive, with God's help, makes us stronger. Stronger for ourselves, our families, our friends. But, most of all, it strengthens our relationship with God.

Read: Romans 6:23; Romans 3:14-18; Romans 5:8

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How Do I Stay On The Path To God

This is not as hard as some people may think. From the time we come into this world, we are faced with many obstacles, i.e.; crawling, walking, riding a bike, working at a job, or a relationship, to name only a few. All of these examples required a lot of determination from all of us.

It's the same with staying on God's Path. If you are determined enough you will not allow anything or anyone to lead you off of that path. But, you have to truly desire to walk on the path of righteousness. Sometimes that means you will have to choose between God and your friends. Because our friends can sometimes lead us off of that path if they are not grounded in their faith, or have no faith at all.

If you are truly determined to be a God-pleaser and not a people-pleaser, then you will find it easier than you think to stay on that path to God. And I know that sometimes we have to please people, like at a job or even in our own homes, to avoid conflict. At these times, we should call upon God, and pray for the Holy Spirit to guide us and comfort us, and to give us the wisdom to do the right thing.

By doing this we are staying in contact with God. And by doing the right thing we are being obedient to Him, and keeping the commandments. These actions keep us on the path to God.

Now, sometimes we slip up and step a little off the path. We get angry and say the wrong thing. We may even hurt someone with our words or actions. To get back on that path we need only to go to our Father in Heaven and ask for His forgiveness, and to seek His advice on what to do, or say, to rectify our mistake. We must listen for His answer. If it's something that is hard for us to do, ask Him to stand with us to help us through it. If the person you hurt does not accept your efforts, do not be angry or hurt. Just quietly walk away. You did the right thing, and God will be pleased with you. That has it's own reward.

Another thing you can do is to find a good church that preaches the Holy Bible, and one you can feel comfortable in. The church members can answer questions you may have, and help guide you on your walk with Jesus. Do not be afraid to ask your questions. Those people are your brothers and sisters in Christ. And remember, at one time, every single one of those people once walked in your shoes. If you are uncomfortable in a large church, then find a small church where the people are closer to one another. And give it a chance! Do not attend the services only a few times. Give the people time enough to get used to seeing you there. Remember, you are new to them, too. I repeat: Give it a chance. I guarantee you won't be sorry.

Reading the Bible will also help you to stay on the right path. The Bible teaches us God's commandments. His rules for us to live by. Don't worry --- these rules are very easy to live by. Jesus teaches us to love one another as He has loved us. That is the greatest commandment. If we love one another as much as Jesus loved, and loves, us, how could we even think about breaking any of the Ten Commandments? The answer is: we could not.

There are other rules we must follow in order to stay on The Path To God. Read the New Testament and see how many you can find.

Read: 1 Corinthians 15:33; Proverbs 13: 20-21; Proverbs 3:56; Exodus 20:3-17; John 13:34

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How Do I Pray

Praying is not as hard as it sounds. Nor is it as hard as others make it seem. You don't have to use the old language of "thee's and thou's". All you have to do is talk to God.

Here is what you do: find a quiet place where you can be alone with God. A place where you won't be interrupted. Start out simply by getting His attention. Speak His name! From there, all you have to do is tell God what is on your mind and heart.

If you are a newborn Christian, you might ask God to guide your footsteps on the path to righteousness. Ask Him to help you learn more about the Christian life. Ask Him to help you understand the Bible --- or to lead you to someone who does. If you are going through something hard in your life, maybe the passing of someone close, then ask Him to give you the strength to endure. To get through it. If something good is happening, perhaps the birth of a new family member, then thank Him. Give Him praise. You could also pray for the new life that was brought into the world.

Some people become impatient in their prayers. They ask God for some particular thing, and they want God to give it to them right now. I don't believe God responds well to this behavior. Just as we, as parents, do not respond well to that sort of behavior from our children. Be patient in your prayers. God knows your needs and wants. He will answer your prayer in His time, and only if He believes it is best for you. You must trust His judgment.

Now, not all of your prayers will be answered in the manner you want. Sometimes, he does give us a 'yes' answer. Other times, He will tell us 'no' or 'wait'. If you are not sure of His answer, keep praying! Do not give up. If you stop praying, you will never get His answer. Here is a list of things you may want to pray about:

1). Good health.

2). A happy family life --- if members are all Christians, this will help.

3). Good health for others.

4). A new job.

5). This one is very important: Pray for your enemies, that they may find God.

6). Patience.

Try to put yourself on a prayer regiment. Start easy, perhaps two times a day for starters, and move up as you begin to feel more comfortable. For morning: thank God for a brand new day, and ask Him to guide you through that day safely. For evening: perhaps before bed, thank Him for getting you through the day. Pray for other's guidance and protection, and ask Him to watch over you and your family while you sleep.

As you get used to prayer, you will be able to add your own concerns each time. You will progress in your prayers, and you will draw closer to God. KEEP PRAYING!

Read: Matthew 6:5-6; Psalm 95:6; 1Thessalonians 5:17-18

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How Do I Forgive Others

Forgiving someone can be a very difficult task for some. Oh, it's easy when it is someone we love. We care about that person, so it's easier to let go of the wrongs he/she has done to us. But, what of those whom we don't like or know? Someone, who somehow has made our lives harder? Are they any less important? Of course not! They are just as important as we are.

People make mistakes all of the time. Sometimes those mistakes affect us the wrong way. They hurt us. Sometimes they hurt us deep. Now, are we so petty that we cannot, or will not, forgive those people who mistakenly harmed us? I don't believe we are. I believe if we reach down deep within ourselves, we can find the strength to forgive them. And, if we can do that, then we can forgive those who hurt us on purpose.

Think about it. Anyone who hurts us on purpose is a person who is lost. Apart from God. We, as Christians, would never hurt anyone on purpose. We, of course, are not lost souls. So, if we are hurt by someone (a lost soul), we should forgive that person, and then go to our Father and pray for that person to be lead to God (found). This action shows God that we care about, and love, our fellow man just as Jesus instructed us to do. We are also showing ourselves to be obedient children of God.

By being obedient and forgiving those who have harmed us, our Heavenly Father will, in turn, forgive us the sins we have committed. God wants to forgive us, but we have to earn His forgiveness by showing mercy to those who have sinned against us. So, instead of thinking of them as our enemies, think of them as lost souls who need to be lead to God. And pray for them that they may become children of God.

Read: Ephesians 4:32; Luke 6:37; Matthew 18:21-22; Mark 11:25-26

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How Do I Know God Exists

How do we know that God exists? First of all, we don't know without faith. If you are trying to believe in God with your head, you will be very confused. Scientists have to see something in order to believe in it. They have to take things apart in order to believe. They only believe with their heads. We must not think with our heads when it comes to our Father. If we do, we ask too many questions, which leads to confusion. Questions are all right if they are the right questions. And no one has the answer to every question. Except God.

We must feel with our hearts and our spirits. If we feel with our hearts, we will know without a doubt that our Father is real. And if we allow our spirit to feel, it will tell us that God is real. Our spirit already knows that our Father exists. All we have to do is listen.

But, we must have faith. Faith comes without seeing. That means we believe even though we do not see. Feeling with our hearts will make our faith grow stronger. And in that faith we will know that God is, in fact, our Creator. We will finally understand that. Once our eyes are open to the existence of God, and we finally accept Him as our one true Father, many of our questions will be answered. With doubt out of the way, we will be open to the wonders of God and Christianity. Also, we will no longer wonder what life is all about. Why we are here.

With that knowledge, you will begin to feel the presence of God in your life. You will feel the love He has for you. There is no better feeling in this world than the love of our Father in Heaven. With that love comes even more faith, and the hunger to learn more about Him. Soon, your faith will be so strong that you will recognize your old ways of thinking were way off base.

Don't keep wondering. Take the plunge, and give it a shot. You won't be sorry!

Read: Psalm 19:1; Romans 1:20-21

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How Do I Love My Enemies

Loving our enemies is a very hard request for many of us. Maybe one of the hardest things we will ever attempt to do. People hurt people all of the time. Through words and/or actions. Sometimes, it is a family member, and sometimes it is someone we feel very close to. Most times, we already love these people. Then, there are those times when a complete stranger hurts us --- most times inadvertently, once in a while on purpose. How do we deal with these? Well, usually by getting even with them. By taking our pain and reflecting it back to the guilty party. The way our world is today, this seems perfectly normal.--- the right way to handle the situation. For example; drive by shootings; stabbings; etc.

But, once we become true Christians we no longer do things the way the world does. We learn what our Father in Heaven teaches us in the Bible, and we become obedient to Him. We begin to see things His way. We understand. Jesus tells us that an eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth, is not the correct way to handle the situation. We are told to turn the other cheek. How do we do that, you might ask. Well, with a lot of courage and prayer. Not necessarily in that order.

Our Heavenly Father created all of us. So, we are all brothers and sisters in a sense. We are all His children. He is our Spiritual Father. To see and hear us quarreling and fighting hurts Him deeply, and makes Him sad.

When we love our enemies, we look upon them as children of God, just as ourselves, and we pray for them. We pray that God will help them see their wrongs, and to help them find Him. We pray for God to touch their hearts. To set them free from a sinful nature. We should pray for our brothers and sisters to change their hurtful behavior. We should not pray for this merely because we want our hurting to stop. We pray for our brothers and sisters because we want God to win their souls. We must care for the souls of others, just as God cares for our souls. If we pray for the souls of others (our enemies), we are showing our Father that we care about them as much as we care about ourselves

Try not to think of your enemies as earthly people, in the flesh. Try to think of them as souls created by God who have wandered off, in this world, and got lost. We can do our part by praying for them --- by truly loving, and caring for, the lost soul within.

Read: Matthew 5:44; Matthew 5:38-45; Romans 12:14

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How Do I Get "Born Again"

Becoming "born again" is very simple, and complicated. Let me explain. The simple part is this: you accept Jesus as your Savior. You do this by accepting that He died for you. His blood was shed for you. He sacrificed His life for your sins. You accept it, and you ask Him to come into your life, and forgive the sins you have committed. Then you must be baptized. You do this by going to the pastor of your church, and discuss the baptism with him. If you do not have a church, seek one, or talk to someone who can help you find the right one for you. The pastor will baptize you with water, in the name of "The Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit." If the pastor baptizes you only in the name of Jesus, or only in the name of the Father, find another church. Jesus tells us we must be baptized in "The name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit". It must be all three. Like I said, that is the simple part. Now, for the complicated.

You can do all of this; take all of the necessary steps. But, it doesn't mean a thing unless you truly mean it. You must want Jesus with all your heart. To leave your old ways behind, and follow Him. It must mean something special to you personally. And you must be sure that this is what you want. If not, then you are wasting everyone's time, including your own.

Remember, you can fool the pastor, or your friends and family. You can even fool yourself. But, why would you want to fool anyone? You cannot, and will not fool God. Ever! He sees what is in your heart. He knows what is going on inside of you at all times. He knows your fears, your doubts, your happiness, and your sorrows. And He knows if you are sincere. There is no way you can fool Him.

So, when you make the decision to be born again, make sure your heart is sincere. Be sure it's what you want deep down inside. A step you are absolutely ready to take. If you are not sure you are ready, please talk to someone who can help you to make the right decision. Don't worry; you don't have to do it alone. God will place people in your path to help you. To answer your questions, and sometimes guide you through the rough spots. We all have those, don't we?

So, don't be afraid to take the step that will lead you to a personal relationship with Jesus. I guarantee \--- you will NOT regret it.

Read: 2Corinthians 5:17; John 3:5-6; Romans 6:23

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Why Does God Love Me

Why does any parent love his child? God loves you because you are His child. More than that, you are His creation. Just like all of us --- we are all His children. He created each and every one of us for a reason, for a purpose. Before He created us, He took the time to plan what we would look like; the color of our hair, the shape of our eyes, even how high or low our cheekbones would be. He took care in deciding what sex we would be. Male or female. He knew exactly what He wanted us to look like.

Some of us may look in the mirror and see what we consider to be ugly. Others may see someone who appears to be gorgeous. While still, some look and see someone who is pretty, or good-looking, or just passable.

But none of that matters to God. He is our Father, and He loves us no matter what we think we look like. To God, we are all beautiful. His love for us is unconditional.

Now, some people have trouble believing that God can love them because they see themselves as bad. Maybe some people are bad, and maybe some people just think they are bad. Well, good or bad, God still loves all of His children. How can one create someone and hate him? They cannot. Especially if one created that child intentionally. He loves us all. He loves us all. He may be displeased with some of us, but He will always love us. Don't let anyone tell you differently.

You may ask: If God loves us all unconditionally, then why would He send some of His children to hell? Good question! Here's the answer. If a person refuses to accept Jesus Christ as his Savior, and does not repent his sins, he will not enter into Heaven. If he cannot accept God's Son, who He sent for our salvation, how can he accept God? Jesus tells us we cannot get to God except through Him.

God loves us all, and He waits for us to come to Him through Jesus. If we don't take that step, then God will sadly send us to hell. Notice, I said sadly. Yes, it will hurt God to send any of His children to such a horrible and terrifying place.

If you have a child who constantly ignores you, and repeatedly disobeys you --- after awhile you have to take drastic measures to reach that child. Perhaps your child steals things. Maybe you have a policeman speak to your child. Scare tactics. God is the same way. He will allow bad things to happen on the chance that His children will wake up and make the choices that will bring them together. He wants His children to be close to Him. He wants to open the gates of Heaven and say, "Enter in, my child".

So please.... accept that God loves you.

Read: John 3:16; John 15:9-10; Galatians 5:22; 1John 4:8; 1John 4:19

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How Do I Know I'm Saved

When you go to Jesus and invite Him into your heart, you have taken the step to being saved. And you must repent your sins to Him in order to be forgiven. You must mean it. Once you have taken these steps, you are saved. Most people reach the point of knowing they can no longer live without Him. They finally turn over their lives to Him, and seek His guidance in every decision. Now, once you are saved, you are saved. You know this because not only does the Bible tell you this, but also you know that you know. You feel it deep inside. Don't let anyone try to confuse you.

I know that turning over your life to anyone is hard to do, sometimes even scary, so you have to believe that Jesus holds your best interest at heart. You must have faith. Remember when you were a child? You trusted your parents to take care of you. To take care of your needs. You must trust Jesus in the same way. Now, some of you may not have had good parents. So, don't use them as an example. Think of someone who you looked up to. Someone who was there for you. Maybe another family member, or a teacher. Someone you could talk to, or receive advice from. Even if that someone was there only for a little while. You trusted that person. Trust Jesus like you did that person, only deeper.

Now, listen carefully! Nothing can change the fact that you are saved. Except you. That's right.... I said, except you. If you decide, later on down the road, that you no longer believe, then you have sacrificed your salvation. Don't do that! Salvation leads to Heaven. Don't give that up. If you are making a lot of mistakes, don't worry. Making mistakes will not cost you your salvation. Just go to Jesus and ask for forgiveness. You will still be saved. Hold on to your salvation.

Read: 1John 5:12-13

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What About My Friends

Friends are always an important part of our lives. Having friends can be helpful, or just a lot of fun. Good friends are always there to the end. They are there during the good aspects of your life. Like when something good happens to you. They are there to help you celebrate. Good friends are also by your side in times of distress. When you need to talk it out. Or, when you just need a shoulder to cry on. These good friends stand by you through the good and bad.

But, what happens when you find out your friend does not believe in God? You can try to share your own beliefs with your friend. Maybe you can share enough information to plant a seed that will eventually lead to their salvation. Wouldn't that be wonderful for your friend to be lead to God?

On the other hand, what if your friend tries to convince you there really is no God? What do you do in that kind of situation? First, hold on to your faith. Do NOT let go of your belief in God. But, now this is important --- dDo NOT get into an argument with your friend. Arguing will only make things worse. Instead, let your friend know that you will not be swayed. That your faith in God is rock solid. Now, this long-time friend could suddenly become a person you don't know. It could happen. It has happened through the centuries. Friend against friend, family member against family member. Jesus tells us this will happen. So, if your friend suddenly ridicules you, or mocks your beliefs, then it is time to walk away. If your friend is true, he/she will not mock you. But, you may be faced with a decision. Who is most important to you --- your friend, or God. Hopefully, you will choose your Creator. I suppose it would depend on whom you choose to face eternity with. Eternity with your Father in Heaven will be full of peace. A deeper peace than you can imagine. Where do you think your friend, who does not believe in, or accept God, will spend eternity?

No one is saying it will be easy. It won't. It's never easy to walk away from a friend. Someone who has been there in good and bad times. Someone who came to you in times of happiness and sorrow. I know how hard it is. Recently, I had to make that choice.

But, remember --- now listen to this --- God will always be there for us, as well. No matter what our situation, He will be there for us, to pull us through for all of eternity. You may lose a friend here on earth, but God is the ultimate friend. He is forever. Choose wisely!

Read: 1Corinthians 15:33; 1Corinthians 6:9-10; Proverbs 6:9-10; 2Thessalonians 3:6

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What Is My Purpose

This question is actually the easiest and simplest to answer. Jesus tells us exactly what our purpose is. We are to love and serve one another. Whole-heartedly, without regret or reservation. It is a very simple and easy commandment to follow, but one that very few seem to be able to carry out.

If every single person on this earth loved and served each person they came in contact with, there would no longer be any homeless or hungry people. If we would just follow this very important commandment from our Lord and Savior, there would no longer be abandoned babies in the trash cans or alleys, and no more abortions, or murders, or rape victims, or any other horrible things that people do to each other. And, there would be no wars. This probably sounds like a fantasy, but, in truth, it doesn't have to be.

Jesus gave up His life for all of us. Because of love. Are we willing to do the same? Would you give up your life for a total stranger? What about for someone you don't like? It's easy to sacrifice ourselves for someone we love. For a family member, or a best friend. Almost anyone could do that. But do you realize that every single person in this entire world is your family? Well, they are. God created all of us, and that fact makes us family.

There is so much violence in this world that people have forgotten how to love each other. Jesus commanded us to love one another. He knew our world would become chaotic and cruel without that love. He knew the horrible and nightmarish things people would do to one another without that love. And, you know what? He was right. We have hurt people with our lies, rumors, and harsh words. We have placed people in the hospitals and graveyards with our hateful, violent acts. We have stood by and ignored God's people living on the streets, and turned our heads as they died from harsh weather and starvation.

We have disobeyed Jesus, and this is our outcome. Is this really the kind of world we want? Don't you think it would be better to follow Jesus' lead, and truly love each other in the same way He loved us? To sacrifice ourselves for others. There are a lot of ways to sacrifice ourselves. We could give someone shelter, or food, or clothes. We could give our time to someone when we are too tired. We could take time to give advice that could save a person who is depressed. The list goes on and on. Love all people, and you could make a miracle.

Maybe it's too late to change the world, but it's not too late to change our little part of it. Who knows what could happen.

Read: Ecclesiastes 12:13-14

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I'm Scared To Change

From the time we are born we make changes every day, don't we? Of course we do. If we didn't we would all still be little babies wrapped up in warm blankets. But, we're not! We grow physically and mentally. We learn how to change from crawling to walking. We change from our mother's bathing us to bathing ourselves. We change from spending our allowance to spending our paychecks. All of these changes, and many more, are natural in the course of our lives. True, some of these changes are hard. But, if we want badly enough to learn how to drive a car, then we will make the change from riding that faithful bicycle we loved, to driving the car that takes us farther and faster. You see, we are not entirely afraid of changes that give us what we want.

If you truly want God, and what He has to offer, then there is no reason to fear any changes. You will be guided by the Holy Spirit and taught how to live a Christian life. It will not be thrown in your lap, and it won't happen overnight. That would be like handing the car keys to someone who has never driven a car, and placing him or her on the Interstate. Can you imagine how overwhelming and terrifying that would be? It would be cruel and irresponsible. First, we would start easy --- roads that are hardly driven on --- and work our way to the Interstate.

That's how our Heavenly Father is with us. He starts us out easily. He would never place changes on us that we are not ready for. He wants to help you come to Him --- gently. He will not force you. He loves you, and He knows that rushing you could frighten you away. That is something He would never do. Could never do. He wants to gently draw you close, and make you feel safe, He wants all of His children to feel safe with Him.

So don't worry about the changes you will go through. You won't even notice them until later on down the line. The things you like now won't seem as important later. I'm talking about the things that are not good for you. It will all seem perfectly normal. It will feel right. So go ahead and let God make the proper changes that will draw you closer to Him. It will be all right!

I promise, you won't be a bit sorry.

Read: 2Corinthians 5:17

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What Is The Holy Trinity

The Holy Trinity consists of: The Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. Or: God the Father, God the Son, and God the Holy Spirit.

Let's start with the Father. He is the Creator of everything and everyone that exists. In Genesis it describes how God brought the earth into existence. The sky, the land, even the air. It goes on to tell about the creation of every living animal. And then, of course, we are told of the creation of man, and then woman. God created all out of love. All He wanted in return was love. Without Him, there would be nothing.

Now for the Son, who is Jesus Christ The Savior --- The Messiah! Jesus was sent from God to walk among the people. God wanted Jesus to teach us His laws. To also teach God's love for us. To give us a chance, and a way, to get into Heaven. It wasn't easy for Jesus. He was treated badly and called horrible names, but he continued out of love for us, and love for God. He kept teaching God's word no matter what people said or did. Do you realize that He knew He would be crucified for us, and yet He did not walk away from that. He could have, but He knew we would never have a chance to go to Heaven if He backed down. And He knew that walking away would displease His Heavenly Father. So, He sacrificed Himself for us. Now, that's a lot of love. Three days later, Jesus rose from the dead and ascended to Heaven to be with the Father.

This brings me to the Holy Spirit, who at that time, was sent to comfort us. And that's what Jesus called Him, (The Comforter). He comforts us, if we allow Him to, when our lives become unbearable. He is here for us when we don't know what to do in a bad situation. Listen closely, and you will recognize His voice. Some people call Him our conscience. Don't give the credit to anything but the Holy Spirit. It has also been said that some people don't have a conscience. This is an untruth. People who seem to have no conscience are people who refuse to hear the voice of the Holy Spirit. Listen to Him --- He will guide you through your life.

So, now you should understand what the Holy Trinity is, and what it means. Please, always remember --- all three exist for a very good reason: To love you; to save you; and to comfort and guide you. The Father, The Son, The Holy Spirit

Read: Matthew 28:16-20; John 10:30; 1John 5:7-8

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Who Really Wrote The Bible

Some people believe that man wrote the Bible. They believe it is man's way of controlling those who believe in it. It is true that man used parchment and quills --- their version of paper and --- pen --- to put the words down for generations to come. But the words did not come from the minds of men. Men did not come up with the words on their own. Just as I do not come up with these words on my own.

After Jesus was crucified, our Father sent to us the Holy Spirit. He is the one sent to comfort us, to guide us, to teach us. People who have been truly saved know this. People who have yet to be saved will know it when they accept Jesus as their Savior. The Holy Spirit is there to help us in our salvation. He tells us God's laws so that we can be closer to God. To be with Him in eternity.

The men whose hands wrote the Bible were lead by the Holy Spirit so that God's commandments and laws could be known to all who read it. They were drawn by the Holy Spirit to sit down and take the time to write every single word the Holy Spirit instructed them to write. It's possible that there were times when they wanted to do something else. Maybe spend extra time with their families. But, when you are a Christian, it is very hard to ignore the calling of the Holy Spirit. These men knew how important it was to God to put the words given them to paper. They knew it was very important for all of God's children. And so, they obeyed the voice of the Holy Spirit.

Think of it! If those men had not listened, and had not written the words given to them, where would we be now? What would the world be like without God's word? What chance would we have to make it into Heaven? I'm sure I don't need to answer that question for you.

Read: John 6:63; Hebrews 4:12; 2 Timothy 3:16

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Who Should Be First In My Life

In today's world, we are told that we are number one. We are taught to be selfish and self-centered. Only concerned with our own needs. Even in our own families. If our spouse doesn't give us what we want, we threaten divorce or we look to fulfill our desires elsewhere. If our parents don't give in to us, we threaten to run away, or we turn to our friends. We are willing to do almost anything to get what we want. Including, hurting those who really love us. Does this sound familiar? If so, then ask yourself this question: Is this way of life making you truly happy? Don't answer right away. Look deep inside yourself first. I'm guessing your answer will be no. If not, it should be.

The Bible tells us that we are here to love and serve God. That sounds pretty clear to me. If you think about it, it makes perfect sense. God should be first in our lives. After all, He is our Creator. He created us from love. Did you catch that? I said, ' from love '. And pure love is unselfish. If we place God before our spouses, our kids, our parents, our jobs, and ourselves, we can learn to be unselfish people. By serving God we learn to be unselfish. And when we are unselfish, we can teach others, in our lives, to be the same. If you and your spouse serve God, both of you will put each other's needs first. That will bring harmony to your marriage. If you continue this way, you will be teaching your children to serve God, and they will learn to be unselfish, as well. You will have contentment in your family.

Now, don't get me wrong. This does not mean that you will never have any problems. Problems are inevitable. But, now pay attention, you and the members of your family can draw together and pray for God's guidance. You've heard the saying: " Families who pray together, stay together ". It's not just a saying. It can be real if you want it to be. But you must put God first!

Unfortunately, sometimes one spouse refuses to give in to God. Please --- do not let this stop you. Stick close to God, and keep praying. Pray for your spouse, that he/she through your love will come to God. Trust Him with your marriage. Let Him guide you even when you're not sure of what He is doing. If you give up on Him, you give up on your family and yourself. By the way, prayer can work on your kids, as well. And don't forget other family members.

Please remember: If you're not putting God first, and serving Him, there's only one other direction to go. And you don't want to go there. If you're not serving God, you are serving Satan. There is no in between. So, in everything you say or do, put God first.

Read: Matthew 6:19-33

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How Do I Teach Others When I Know So Little

First of all, you don't need to know a lot about the Bible to share with others. If you are a born again Christian, then all you need to do is to share your experience. You know that the Holy Spirit tugged at your heart, and that you listened. You gave your heart to Jesus and accepted Him as your personal Savior. You were aware of how wonderful it felt deep inside.

All you have to do is tell someone else who is lost, perhaps a friend or a family member. Tell that person how it made you feel at the moment you accepted Jesus. It's possible that this person may not want to discuss it. That's okay. If you were able to share any part of your experience with that person, then you have planted a seed in their mind. That's all you need to do with an uncooperative listener. You have obeyed God by planting that seed. God will then lead that person to another who will also plant a seed. And another, and another, etc.

Now, if you talk to someone who wants to listen, that's great. What do you do if that person asks questions that you do not have the answers to? You seek to find the answers together. This will help both of you to grow in Christ. Most Bibles have a concordance in the back that can help you find what you are looking for. Or, you can ask your pastor. He will be more than happy to help you. At least, he should be. A good pastor is always willing to help the members of his church draw closer to God. And we draw closer to God by learning His word. The more you learn, the more you can help others to draw closer to God.

Read the Bible. Learn His word. Obey God by teaching others. It's easier than it sounds. Just teach what you know.

Read: Isaiah 40:9; John 5:39; Acts 1:8; Acts 18:9; 2Corinthians 5:20

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Why Must I Confess My Sins

When we confess our sins, what we are really doing is asking God the Father to forgive us of the sins we have committed. It wipes our slate clean. However, we must always confess from the heart. If we confess from our hearts, God will know that we are truly sorry. Has your child ever apologized for doing something that was really bad? Remember how you could tell if he/she really meant it? Or, if you don't have a child, maybe you remember yourself as a child and how your parent(s) knew when you were truly sorry for something, or when you were only saying the words. It's like that with God, except we cannot fool Him. He expects us to come to Him just as any child comes to his/her parents. With complete trust. With the belief that He will forgive us, and do what is best for us.

If we do not confess our sins, how can God forgive us? He cannot. Not unless we ask Him to. And we most certainly want Him to forgive us. Right? As I said earlier, when our sins are forgiven our slates are wiped clean. Our names, in the Book of Life, will be cleared of our sins, allowing us to enter into Heaven when our time on earth is over.

Each night, before you go to bed, ask your Father in Heaven to forgive you the sins you committed that day. Even if you are not sure of any sins. Sometimes, without realizing it, we sin. Make sure you have your soul covered before you go to sleep. Never go to sleep with sins on your head. You should pray before bed, anyway.... just remember to ask for forgiveness, as well. Now, from what I have explained, don't you think it would be wonderful to have your sins forgiven? If your answer is yes, then you are on the right track.

Read: Acts 17:30; James 5:16

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Does Satan Exist

Before we existed, there was Heaven. God ruled over Heaven, and all the angels. Lucifer (Satan) was the most beautiful angel in Heaven, and was favored by God. One day, so to speak, Lucifer decided he could overthrow God's kingdom. So, he took his followers and made the attempt. God became angry, feeling betrayed, and created hell where He sent Lucifer and his followers. All the evil angels became deformed and ugly. God made their outsides look as ugly as their insides (their hearts). They proved to be evil, and so were made to look evil. Lucifer cursed God for his punishment, vowing to get even with Him.

Can you guess when that first attempt took place? That's right. In the Garden of Eden. He caused God's first children to disobey. He tempted Adam and Eve to eat the forbidden fruit. He then caused Cain to kill his brother, Abel. He put jealousy in Cain's' heart. Satan works on all of us. With some, he succeeds. Others are too grounded in their relationship with our Heavenly Father. They recognize Satan's attacks. Satan will keep throwing difficulties our way in hopes that he can cause us to fall. And he will continue to try because of the enormous hate he has for God. Satan does not want you to go to Heaven.

Satan tempted even our Lord Jesus. He was sent into the wilderness to be tested. After going for forty days and nights without food, he was very hungry, as we would be, and Satan came to Him and told Him to change the stones to bread since He was the Son of God. Satan tempted Jesus two more times before the angels came and took care of Jesus' needs.

Many people choose to not believe that Satan exists. They think he was just made up. Others feel safer by not believing. Let me tell you something. Choosing to believe that Satan does not exist will not protect you from him. In fact, his greatest trick is convincing people that he is not real. If you believe he is not real, then he has managed to trick you. Think about it carefully.

Many times, Satan is mentioned in the Bible. If you are still having trouble digesting this information --- take a look around you. It's pretty obvious. Don't you think?

Read: Genesis 3:1-7 and 14-15; Job 1:6-12; Job 2:1-7; John 8:44; Ephesians 6:11-18; James 4:7

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How Do I Know When God Is Talking To Me

I'm sure you have heard it said: If you think you can hear God talking to you, then you must be crazy. Have you heard that before? Well, that is so far from the truth. Unfortunately, there are actual psychiatrists who have medicated patients who told them that they believed God was talking to them. The psychiatrist automatically believes the patient is hearing voices. This may be true in some cases, but certainly not all. If you think God is talking to you, but you're not sure, speak with a pastor or priest. He can help you determine the truth.

God spoke to me. It was not my idea to write this book. I normally write poems, stories, and music. When God talks to us it usually comes in the form of a strong thought or feeling. And it's always something good. If your thought or feeling is something bad, then it is NOT coming from God. At first, I thought " no way ". Me? Write a book on Christianity? I pushed the thought away and continued working on my other writings. But, when God wants you to do something, He will continue to place that thought in your head until you submit to Him. I did not believe I could carry out the task He set before me. I mean, who was I? I had never done anything important in my life. I was nothing more than a homemaker. But He did not leave me to tackle it on my own. He placed people in my path that have helped me along the way, and He has given me the words to write down. Without that help, this book would never have been started.

If you believe God is speaking to you, then listen and follow His guidance. If you are not sure that it is God, pray for His guidance and talk to a pastor. Tell him what the thought or feeling is that you believe is coming from God. Don't be afraid. God talks to pastors all the time. If you talk to a pastor who does not believe that God would talk to a regular person, like yourself, then seek out another pastor. Do not get angry, just thank him for his time and walk away. There are pastors out there who claim that God only talks to holy men. The Bible is full of regular people whom God chose to talk to. They were no better or worse than you and I. Just remember, God talks to whomever He chooses to talk to. If He's talking to you --- Listen!

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Is It Wrong To Get Angry

This is a tricky question with a simple answer. Every person in this world has been angry at one time or another. We get angry for a hundred different reasons. Is it wrong to get angry? No. Not for the right reasons. So, the question is: What are the right reasons? If someone purposefully hurts you or someone you love. If someone steals from you. If someone kidnaps a family member. You get the idea, don't you?

Now, listen closely. Although it may be all right to get angry, it is not --- I repeat --- it is not all right to seek revenge, or to get even. It is not all right to harbor hatred, or to hold a grudge. To do so is a sin, and you are lowering yourself to their level, as well. You don't want to be like the person who hurt you. Do you? And you don't want to sin. Am I correct?

So, what do you do in a situation like that? I'm sure you know by now. You pray. If you feel that you can't pray for the one who hurt you, then ask God for the strength to pray for him/her, and to be able to forgive. No one said it would be easy. In fact, sometimes it's hard to be a Christian. But, believe me, it's all worth it in the end.

Remember, God said, " Vengeance is mine ". Let God handle those who have hurt you. But, whatever you do, do not ask God to punish them. That's dangerous ground. By asking God to punish someone, you are showing God that you have a vengeful heart. That's not what He wants for you. He wants you to have a forgiving heart. An understanding heart. He wants you to pray for them, not against them.

Now, if someone inadvertently hurts you, it is not okay to be angry. People make mistakes. That's why they are called mistakes. Sometimes people say or do things without the intention of hurting another person. If we get angry without giving them the chance to explain, then we are guilty of sin. Not only are we angry, but also we have just hurt the one who meant no harm. We must be careful in how we handle situations in our lives. Do you remember a time when you hurt someone without meaning to? Maybe a family member, or a friend? Do you remember how hurt you felt when that person became angry with you? Even after you apologized? It didn't feel good, did it? That's why we should not get angry when people make mistakes.

For those of you who get angry many times during the day --- ask yourself if you are angry over something that really doesn't matter. Little things are not worth the effort. You're wasting your energy on problems that, most likely, are easy to solve. Just take a deep breath and allow yourself to turn your problems over to God. If you are having anger issues, then pray for your Father's guidance, and seek out the help of a pastor. But, you must be willing to accept the help. No one can help you if you are not willing to help yourself. You must take the first step by asking for that help. The second step is to accept it. So, pray to God, seek out a pastor.... from there everything else will fall into place.

Like I said, it's not easy sometimes. Especially if someone has deeply hurt you. That's why we need to pray to our Father, and ask for help to forgive others. To let go of the anger. Anger can fill you up and destroy you. There is no room for love in an angry heart. Keep praying for the release of that anger, no matter how many days, weeks, or months it takes. God will help you if you allow Him to. But, you have to be willing to let it go.

Think of this: anger is danger.

Believe it.

Read: Ephesians 4:26-27; James 1:19-20; Proverbs 19:11; Proverbs 15:1; Ecclesiastes 7:9; Colossians 3:8

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Are There Angels and Demons Around Us

The only way you can know for sure that there are angels and demons in this world is by checking your belief in the written word of the Bible. If you don't believe in the writings of our Father, then not I, or anyone else, will be able to convince you.

Let's cover the angels first. In the New Testament we are told that an angel appeared unto Zechariah and told him that his wife would bear a boy child, and that the child's name should be John. Now, his wife Elizabeth was unable to conceive. But God sent His angel to inform them that she would indeed be blessed with a child. And she was.

You remember Christmas, don't you? Of course you do. But, there's another story before that one. The angel that visited Mary --- Jesus' mother. She who had found favor with God because she was pure in heart. An angel was sent to her to tell her she would conceive a child by the Holy Spirit, and He would be called the Son of God.

Now we're back to Christmas. Did you notice that the first part of Christmas is Christ? I just thought I would point that out. Do you remember the Christmas story? An angel appeared to the shepherds and told them to go to Bethlehem where they would find the newborn Savior wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying in a manger.

As there were angels in times of past, so are there angels today. Why would it change? God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit all existed back then just as they exist now. So, why not accept the reality of angels.

Now for the scary part. Demons do exist. The New Testament is full of incidents of devils possessing people. I, of course, cannot write them all down. But here is a couple.

Jesus came into the country of the Gergesenes, an ancient city of Palestine southeast of the Sea of Galilee, where two, who were possessed with devils, met Him. They cried out to Jesus: " have you come to torment us before the time ". A distance off was a herd of swine (pigs). The devils said to Him, " If you cast us out, then send us into the herd ". So Jesus cast them out, and they went into the herd. Then the herd ran violently down a steep place into the sea and perished in the waters.

Then there was the man who could not speak. As Jesus and His disciples were leaving, a dumb man was brought to Jesus, who was possessed with a devil. When Jesus cast out the devil, the man was able to speak. And all the people marveled.

Just as angels still exist, so do demons. The angels watch over us, while demons do their best to destroy our lives, and our souls. Look around you --- look real close and you will see the effects they have on people in today's' world. Also, read your Bible. Learn for yourself about the angels and demons that existed long ago, and you will come to accept their existence now.

I believe the reason many people have trouble accepting the existence of angels and demons, is the lack of faith that has overcome our world. People find it easier to believe in magic than to believe in a Creator. Magic does exist, but God created all the things that are used for magical purposes. God, Satan, the angels and demons are more powerful than any energy from the life created on this earth. If you can believe in magic, then you must believe in the God who created this world. Including the angels and demons.

Read: Jude 1:6; Hebrews 13:2; Hebrews 12:22; Colossians 1:16; Matthew 4:11; 1 John 4:1; James 2:19; Revelations 12:7-9

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There's No Hope For Me

I used this title because the true statement I have heard is quite harsh. The real statement used is this: " I'm going to hell anyway ". This is such a sad statement. It's sad because the people who believe this are completely lost. They are without hope. Well, here is a ray of sunshine for all of you who believe that you are going to hell anyway.

You Don't Have To Go To Hell! That's right. You don't have to go to hell. Anyone who believes they are going to hell anyway has chosen that path for himself or herself. People choose to go to hell, just as they choose to go to Heaven. The choice is either God or Satan. As I have stated before, there is no middle. Here's a question I want you to ask yourself. Am I afraid of hell? If your answer is no, then you do not fully grasp the concept of hell. It will not be a place where you can party with all your friends, (which is what a few people have stated to me). It is a place where you will watch your friends being tortured by demons, while you are also being tortured. It is an evil place where you are forever separated from God. And you will feel that separation. You will, however, be allowed to view your loved ones who are in Heaven, but you will be unable to reach them. They, on the other hand, will not be able to see you because Heaven is a place of peace.... no worries. There will be no drugs or alcohol in hell, because these items give you happiness and pleasure. No form of pleasure is allowed in hell. Do you know what it's like to be really thirsty? So thirsty that your throat feels like you're swallowing sandpaper? Imagine that, and add a swollen tongue. That is something else you will experience in hell, with absolutely no relief. EVER! Only pain, sorrow, and fear are allowed in hell. Is this what you want?

If you are going to hell, it is because you have chosen that path for yourself. You have turned your back on the one person, (Jesus), who can guarantee your passage to Heaven. You have chosen the drugs, or the alcohol, or a life of crime, or even the wrong kind of friends who have dragged you down. You seem to believe that you cannot have fun if you give up those things that are bad for you physically and spiritually. Believe me, there are other ways to have fun. You don't have to mess up your head. You don't have to harm your body to have fun. Most important.... you don't have to put your soul at risk to have fun. Do yourself a favor. Clear your head for a while, and then ask yourself where you want your soul to spend eternity. Be fair about it. Give your soul a chance to go to the place of peace. Heaven.

I don't believe there is one single person who truly wants to spend eternity in such a horrific place as hell. I think some are just afraid they will fail God, so they give up trying. Where do you want to spend your eternity? In Heaven, or in hell? Be honest with yourself. The choice is yours!

Read: Proverbs 24:20; Proverbs 24:14; Jeremiah 29:11; Titus 1:1-2; Titus 3:7; Ezekiel 33:11; 2Peter 3:9

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Its Too Late For Me

Who told you that? Do you think it's too late for you because of all the sins you have committed? Or maybe you have lived your entire life without Jesus. Maybe you think you're too old. Let me tell you something. It does not matter how many sins you have committed, or what those sins have been. It doesn't even matter how many years you have spent in a sinful life. Even if you have broken every one of the Ten Commandments over and over again. Believe it or not, you are the only one who can decide if it's too late for you. This decision is made by your decision to accept, or deny Jesus Christ as your Savior. If you accept Him as your personal Savior, and you are honestly sorry for all of the sins you have committed, then it's not too late. Are you ready to change your life-style, to try to live without sin? You must truly want Jesus to be in charge of your life. As I said before, sometimes it's hard and we make mistakes. We are tempted, and we go through hard times. Jesus understands this. He went through a lot, too. He expects us to make mistakes. When you do make a mistake, don't give up. Just go to Jesus and ask for forgiveness and strength.

You make the decision. You may think your sins are too great, or too many, but that is your way of thinking \--- not Gods'. Only God can decide if you have sinned too much for salvation. It's not up to you. God forgives us our sins based on His opinion. And He is a very forgiving God. He will forgive us for every single sin we have ever committed. He wants us to come to Him for that forgiveness so that we can draw closer to Him. Jesus died for our sins, for your sins, no matter how big those sins are. Don't let His death be for nothing. He wants to forgive us. Do not look upon forgiveness in mans' point of view. We are not as forgiving as God is. But we should be. Man finds it hard to forgive one another. But, God is not like that. All you have to do is ask Jesus to be your Savior, and to forgive you of your sins. If you mean it, then He will forgive you of everything the second the words come out of your mouth. So, you see, it's never too late for you.

Read: Isaiah 1:18; Matthew 11:28-30; 1John 2:1; 1John 1:9; Acts 3:19; Romans 8:1

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What About Judging Others

There are two ways to judge a person. One way would be to point a finger at someone who is not living up to your standards, or Gods'. If you have a neighbor who is cheating on his/her spouse, and you say or even think, "Look at what he's doing. He's going straight to hell," you are judging that person in a way that puts you in danger. Are any of us sin free? How many sins have we committed? All of us sin, pretty much on a day-to-day basis. None of us are free of guilt. Did you know that we are sinning when we have a simple bad thought? Just remember this: In Gods' eyes, a sin is a sin. It doesn't matter how small or large the sin is. We are told, "Judge not, lest ye be judged". It's kind of like the saying, "If you live in a glass house, don't throw stones."

If we are so busy pointing our fingers at others who are sinning, where will we find the time to look at our own sin? If we don't look at our own sin, how can we ask forgiveness for that sin? If we really feel the need to judge someone, then we should turn our eyes upon ourselves.

The second way to judge someone is to make a decision on whether or not to walk away from a person. To remove yourself from their life. Sometimes this is a necessary action you have to take. Let's say you have a friend that, over the years, has repeatedly hurt you in some way. Maybe this friend was selfish and wanted everything his/her own way all the time. Or perhaps, would turn on you from time to time, and talk about you behind your back. Now, you know that these actions hurt you deeply. You begin having bad feelings and thoughts, causing a gap between you and God. So you have to make a decision. A judgment call. Do you keep this friendship that is tearing you apart, or do you walk away. You have to make a decision based on what's best for you, and your relationship with God. You are not judging this person; instead you are judging the situation. You are protecting yourself and your walk with God. You do not want to be in any relationship, or situation, that can interfere with your closeness to God.

So now you know the difference between judging a person for their sins, and judging a relationship that interferes with your holy walk with God. This doesn't mean you should run right out and get a divorce because you and your spouse are having problems. There's always counseling for family issues. The only allowance for divorce is adultery. But, that's a different subject altogether.

Read: Luke 6:37; Romans 2:1-3; Romans 14:12-13;James 4:11-12

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Does It Matter Which Church I Attend

There are dozens of churches with different denominations in the United States. There are the Catholics, Mormons, Baptists, Methodists, and so on. While all churches have their different set of rules, some have separate beliefs. Some churches choose only from the Bible those things that suit them. They take out the things they believe are not important. They don't teach all the necessary elements of the Bible. I don't want to point a finger at any particular church, or churches. This is something you will have to discover for yourself, through attendance.

I will tell you this: Read your Bible. The Holy Bible. By doing this, you will know which church to join. Start with the New Testament. Matthew is great for reading the teachings of Jesus. His words will help you to pick out the right church. You will want to attend a church that teaches you about God, and Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. If you are going to a church that does not preach on all three, then you are in the wrong church. If your church does not teach that Jesus is your personal Savior, then you are in the wrong church.

Jesus tells us that we cannot get to God but through Him. We have to accept the sacrifice (Jesus) God gave us. If we do not accept Jesus, then our sins cannot be forgiven. Jesus in the New Testament speaks these words. If we do not accept these words, then we are calling Jesus, who came from God, a liar. And, in a round-a-bout way, we would be calling God a liar. Not a good idea. I would not want to be guilty of calling our Creator a liar. Would you? If the church you are attending is teaching you that God is our Creator, and Jesus is our sacrificed Savior, and the Holy Spirit is our Comforter, then you are in a good church. Stay with it.

Also, if you are looking for a church that feels like a family, you might want to try a small church. Big churches are good and fine, but there's usually not a lot of closeness. A smaller church can give you that close family feeling. Small churches also have a lot of gatherings, such as; picnics, hayrides, Christmas parties, etc. I know, because I have attended a small church for six years now. I enjoy the time I spend there with my Christian family. The more time you spend with your church family, the closer you will feel to them, and the more you will learn about the Christian way of life. The more you learn, the closer you will find yourself to God.

Notice the word Christian. The first part of that word is Christ. Make sure the church you attend teaches the importance of Christ.

Read: John 10:9; John 14:6; Ephesians 4:4; 1Timothy 2:5

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An Eye For An Eye

People misuse this quote so often. Especially on television. They use it to justify getting even with someone who has hurt them, or someone they care about. I believe I have already made it clear that getting even is a big no-no. Our Father does not want us to behave in such a non-Christian manner. Jesus set the example for us. He was called names, severely beaten and whipped, and crucified. He did nothing to stop the torture He was forced to endure. He did not even allow His disciples to help Him. If He had struck out at those who harmed Him, He would have been less than perfect. His sacrifice would have meant nothing. We are to follow His example. We must not strike back at those who hurt us. I know it's not easy --- no one said it would be. But we must do our best.

An eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth. Keep reading! Jesus tells us that an eye for an eye is wrong thinking. He wants us to live by His words, " turn the other cheek ". Now, people know what, turn the other cheek, means. Simply put --- do not strike back --- in any circumstance. Knowing this, why then would anyone think that Jesus would contradict Himself? He would never tell us one thing, and then turn around and tell us just the opposite.

An eye for an eye --- like I said before, keep reading. Learn for yourself the true meaning of what Jesus is teaching. Never accept anything you are told without checking it in the Bible. This is important because, as I said before, sometimes we are mislead by those who do not fully read the scriptures written in the Bible. Now, some people will mislead you on purpose because, for whatever their reasons are, they do not want you to know Gods' truth. Then, there are those who think they know the Bible and want to show off, when they really have not studied it. Others will mislead you by mistake because they were misled. They did not check what they were told.

The lesson here is: Don't allow yourself to be misled. Open your Bible and read the words for yourself. Just keep reading.

Read: Proverbs 12:16; Proverbs 20:22; Ecclesiastes 12:13; Matthew 5:44; Romans 12:19; Hebrews 4:13

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What Is The Purpose Of The Holy Spirit

Jesus told His disciples that once He had left this world, He was sending one who would help us in our times of need. Jesus was speaking of the Holy Spirit. He called the Holy Spirit, "The Comforter." When we call upon the Holy Spirit in times of sadness, He comes to us and comforts our souls and hearts. He gives us peace of mind. And if we listen to Him, He will teach us right from wrong. Have you ever started to do something, and suddenly you felt that it was the wrong thing to do? That feeling you got was the Holy Spirit speaking to you. If we continue listening to Him, throughout our lifetime, He will always guide us down the right path.

There's another important purpose for the Holy Spirit. Have you ever asked God a question that was answered? You know, the answer just pops into your head. Well, that was the Holy Spirit who gave you your answer. Just as Jesus was sent to earth to tell us how God wants us to live, the Holy Spirit was sent to guide us and answer some of our questions. Sometimes, it seems that our questions are not being answered. And maybe some of them are not answered right away. But, the Holy Spirit, sooner or later, will always answer our questions. And possibly, God wants us to look for the answers ourselves before expecting an answer from the Holy Spirit. We must not be lazy. Nor should we be deaf. Spiritually deaf. We tend to not be still enough to listen. Pay attention now. When you ask your question(s), be still, alone in a room, and listen patiently for the Holy Spirit to respond.

Remember, the Holy Spirit was sent to help you. If you listen, He will guide you through your life, and comfort you through the hard times. But, if you forget He is there, you will be preventing Him from helping you in your time of need. You won't get to know Him --- to trust Him. That's very sad. So, give Him the chance to be there for you, to answer your questions, to comfort you.

Read: John 14:16-18; John 16:13-15; Matthew 28:19; Acts 1:8; 1John 5:7

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What Will Eternity Be Like

As everyone who believes in the Holy Bible knows, there are only two different eternities. Heaven or Hell? If we are wise, we will choose Heaven over Hell. So what are Heaven and Hell like? No one, here on this earth, knows for sure.

The Bible describes Heaven as streets of gold, pearly gates, mansions, etc. Some believe these are metaphorical descriptions. The streets of gold are paths of purity. Gold being the purest substance there is. The pearly gates being an entrance to Heaven that shimmers with the lustrous beauty of the finest pearls. And mansions, meaning a place of comfort. Or, maybe it's not a metaphor. Only those who are in Heaven know for sure. Anyone who goes to Heaven will see the face of God, and walk by His side. Even if that person is crippled in this life, he/she will have a full body in Heaven. That is part of your reward.

Then there is Hell. It is described as a fiery pit where the inhabitants are tortured by demons. There is no water in Hell, so they will experience severe thirst, beyond any thirst they have had while in their physical bodies. Their tongues will be swollen, cracked, and bleeding. There will be no relief. If a person is crippled in this life, he/she will be crippled in Hell. If we are guilty of such a crime as rape, we will suffer rape at the hands of the demons. Over and over for eternity. This is true for any physical sin --- rape, abuse, murder, etc. If we are selfish, and we indulge in sin, whether those sins cause harm to others or are desires of our own flesh, those sins will be used against us in Hell. The demons will turn those pleasurable sins into pains of torture. And they will enjoy every scream that comes out of your raw and bleeding throat.

Now, you may not realize, at this time, what it means to be apart from God. But in Hell, that lost feeling will be so strong and unbearable, because you will finally understand how important He is. You will never be able to reach Him, or to feel His love. That's the worst punishment. You may not think so, but your spirit will long for its Creator, and you will have denied it that love from God simply because you could not walk away from a sinful life. I hope you understand what I'm saying. No, I pray that you understand.

Like I said, no one knows for sure exactly what Heaven or Hell will be like. We do know that Heaven will be more than wonderful, and Hell will be more than terrifying. Forever! Which one do you really want to spend your eternity in? Will you choose Heaven or Hell? Where do you think your soul wants to be? If you answer, Heaven --- there's only one way. Walk away from your sin. Accept Jesus as your personal Savior, and mean it from your heart. He will guide you from there, and you will spend your eternity in the greatest place of all. With your Heavenly Father.

Read: John 14:2-4; 1John 5:11; Revelations 21:4-8; Revelations 21:15-21; Revelations 22:5-9

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Why Should I Pray For Others

When you look at other people, what do you see? Do you see people differently? Those you love --- like family. Those you care about --- your friends. Those you hate --- your enemies. First of all, you should never hate anyone. But most people do look at others in that way. You are not alone. This, however, is not the way we should look at people. Remember one thing: we are all created by God. God created each and every one of us with complete love. Each of us. No one is better than anyone else. Even though some of us are Christians, we are still sinners. We sin every day. Maybe not on purpose, but we still sin. It's in our nature, and we must fight it. Sometimes we hurt ourselves with our sin, and sometimes we hurt others. But we always seek forgiveness. Don't we? And how do we receive that forgiveness? Through prayer. It always helps if others pray for us. They pray for us to be able to lay our sins down --- to reject the bad habits we have, such as anger or impatience. People saying prayers for us help to make us stronger. Their prayer for us shows God that they care for others. If we pray only for ourselves, this shows God that we have a selfish heart. If we pray only for ourselves and those we love or care about, we are showing God that we still have a selfish heart. It doesn't take a lot to pray for yourself, or those you are close to. It's as simple as walking across a sturdy bridge. Easy and comfortable.

Step out of that comfort zone. It takes a good heart to pray for a stranger, or an enemy. Do you have a good, caring heart? Or, is your heart full of selfishness? Can you pray for people you have never met? Maybe for the people who run this country? Are you able to pray for those who have hurt you? What is your heart telling God?

It is very important that we pray for others. Prayer can make a difference. A difference for those you pray for \--- a difference in your own heart. When you pray in earnest for someone who has hurt you, God can change that persons' heart --- making him/her a better person. Praying for others also changes your heart --- making you a better person. Giving you a heart full of love. Isn't that better than having a selfish heart? Learn to pray for others. Show God that your heart is a heart of love. There's no room for selfishness in a heart filled with love.

Read: Matthew 5:44; Colossians 1:9; James 5:16; 1Timothy 2:1

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Will My Pets Go To Heaven

This is a very touchy question. I'll tell you why. Many people believe that only humans will make it to Heaven, while animals will just wink into non-existence. There is nothing, that I have found in the Bible, that says anything about animals going to Heaven, or not. My personal belief is that animals will most definitely go straight to Heaven when their time on earth is over. I will explain my beliefs on this subject.

First of all, God spent a great deal of time and thought in creating each animal. The many different fish in the sea, the multitude of birds in the sky, and the hundreds of different land animals. He literally filled the world with animals. He created them all with love. Just as He did us. And He placed them in the most beautiful place --- the Garden of Eden. Which, at that time, was the world. Why would He take the time to create such beautiful animals if they weren't important to Him? I don't think He would.

He showed how important they were when He created Adam. He told Adam to care for them. He told him to watch over them, and to name them. There are people who say that God created animals to be used as our food. God created the animals first. He then created man, and told that man to care for the animals. Man was to eat the fruits and nuts from the trees. Not to eat the animals, but to care for them.

Let's talk about Noah's Ark. God told Noah to take a male and female of every animal created, and put them on the ark. This was to protect every species. God wanted the animals He created to survive so they could multiply. They were very important to Him. He also instructed Noah to supply all of the animals with plenty of food, and separate food for his family. Noah and his family did not use the animals for food. Man began eating the animals for survival when their crops failed, and the fruit and nut trees were scarce. But whether man was meant to eat animals, or not, is not the issue here.

I don't believe God created the animals without love. I believe He has a lot of love and tenderness for every creature He took the time to create. And because of that love, I can't believe He would carelessly throw any of them into non-existence. He is a God of love, and all creatures great and small serve the will of God. I believe all animals go straight to Heaven.

Even the so-called bad animals. For one thing, there is no such thing as a bad animal. An animal attacks and kills for specific reasons: hunger, self-defense, sickness, fear, or because someone has taught them to. This does not make the animal bad. Maybe dangerous, but not bad. Some animals' attack because of trust issues caused by physical abuse, or abandonment. I believe it makes God sad when we mistreat the animals He so lovingly created. How would we feel if someone abused the children we brought into the world? It's pretty much the same thing. Animals are innocent, just as our children are innocent. Their brains do not exceed the intelligence of a three or four year old child. Abusing an animal is like abusing a small child. I believe that innocence, coupled with love is why God will take them into Heaven. God instructed Adam to care for the animals. I believe that message was for all of us.

Read: Genesis 1:24; Genesis 1:30; Isaiah 11:6-9; Isaiah 65:25; Romans 8:19-22

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Will My Unsaved Baby Go To Hell

I attended a church, many years ago, that taught us that our unsaved children, and babies that died in the womb, would automatically go to Hell upon death. Needless to say, I left that church immediately after a heated conversation with the preacher. I don't recommend arguing with a preacher. I should have quietly left the building. But I had had a miscarriage when I was younger, and his words upset me deeply. I could not, and would not, believe that my baby girl was in hell. How could anyone believe something so horrific --- much less, teach it? How could anyone make God seem so heartless?

The preacher believed that since we are all born into sin, then babies and young children were sinful because they were unable to ask Jesus to forgive them. Therefore, if they died early, they would die in sin and go to hell. He would have the parents form a circle with the children, and pray for their souls.

One important lesson God teaches us is that all of us must be accountable for our sins. We have to know right from wrong. Most importantly, we must be old enough to understand whom Jesus is in order to make a choice. We must understand what sin is. If we are too young to understand these things, how can we be held accountable? Would you spank a one-year-old child for hitting his five-year-old sister? Of course not. Why? Because he does not understand that it is wrong. Neither does God punish His children who do not understand the concept of right and wrong. This also pertains to His children who are mentally challenged. They are His special children.

Our God is not a cruel Father. He is love, pure and simple. He would never send a baby, a young child, or a special person to a place of torture. If He were to do something so horrible, He would be a God of cruelty. The Holy Bible tells us that He is the God of Love. God is love. If anyone ever tells you, or has already told you, that your unsaved baby or child will go to hell upon early death, remember that we have to be accountable for our sins. Also remember, our Father would never do anything so cruel. He is the God of Love. These babies and children will be welcomed into Heaven and the arms of angels.

Read: Jeremiah 1:5; Isaiah 44:2; Matthew 18:3-4; Matthew 19:13-14; Luke 18:15-16

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### Why Should I Do Both? Read The Bible And Attend Church

I know it sounds unimportant to do both, but believe me, it's more important than you think. In the Bible, God tells us we should read the Bible for ourselves, and to congregate with other Christians.

Reading the Bible helps us to get Gods' message firsthand. And by reading His word, it is more engrained in our minds. Just like when we were in school. The teacher instructed us to read the chapters. This was practiced in order for us to better remember what we had read. Now, I know that sometimes we don't fully understand parts of the Bible. This is normal for everyone. There is not one single person out there who understood every part of the Bible the first time they read it. It took me quite a few times, and I still had to ask my pastor to explain some of it. So don't feel badly if you are having problems. It's okay. Jesus started the first church so people could hear Gods' word. The Bible had not been written yet, so not many people were able to hear the words Jesus had passed down. Men traveled all over to spread the word. Today, we are blessed that the Holy Bible is so easy to obtain.

Going to church is a very helpful practice. When you go to church, what do you do? You listen to the pastor teach the word of God. He can teach you about the parts of the Bible you do not understand. The pastor went through schooling, just as a doctor or lawyer would, so that he could teach others. He is there to answer any questions you may have. If your pastor cannot answer your questions concerning the Bible, you need to seek out another pastor.

Another good reason for attending church is the other members. It is very important to mingle with other Christians. This helps to ensure that your Christian walk is not all alone. You are with others who have been Christians longer than you have, and are able to help you in your new walk with Jesus. Although these people have been Christians longer, they once were new Christians, too. They understand how you feel. These people will become your friends, and your family. You can't lose. Everyone wants new friends. What better friends than those who are on the same walk you are. These new friends will welcome you, and include you in all the activities they share. You could become a part of the choir, if singing is your forte. Or you could help with Vacation Bible School, if you like working with children. Every church has something you could become involved with. Smaller churches usually have more activities. My son helped out with the Halloween hayride. He dressed up in a scary costume and scared the kids as they rode by. It was a blast, and he had a lot of fun doing it. I sing in the choir, and sometimes sing specials. I get a little nervous sometimes, but my church family never makes me uncomfortable. We also have picnics, and Christmas and Easter get-togethers. It's a wonderful place to be, and I wouldn't trade it for the world.

As time goes by, you will love the company of your church family. You will understand more about Gods' word, and you will be able to help others to understand the Bible. You will find yourself welcoming new Christians into the family. It's a great feeling when you can be a part of helping others to understand what Gods' plan for us is. That is our true goal. To guide others to our Father. Read your Bible, and go to church. It's a wonderful experience that will last a lifetime.

Read: Psalm 119:105; Matthew 4:4; Romans 15:4; 1John 1:7; 2Timothy 3:16-17; Hebrews 10:24-25

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Is Divorce A Sin

Divorce is such a common practice these days that many people seem to feel there is nothing wrong with it. Some people have been divorced several times. There are many reasons why people divorce the spouse they vowed to love forever. Maybe after a few years went by they both changed and felt they had grown apart. Or, perhaps they felt they had married too young, and needed their freedom. Then there's the abusive spouse. Alcohol, drugs, or anger issues could cause the abuse. These are only a few reasons, but whatever the cause is, there is a solution other than divorce.

If you feel you have grown apart due to changes that have occurred, ask yourself this question: Do I still love my spouse? If you ever loved him/her, there will still be a bit of love left. Second question: Do I love my spouse more than myself? In order for love to ever work, it has to be unselfish. If your love is a selfish love, then marriage will never work out for you. So, who is the love for? You or your spouse?

Getting married too young is a major mistake. Yes, I'm sure you've heard that more times than you care to. If you're a teen, maybe you feel that belonging to that special someone will give you a sense of love and security. But, think of this. You are trading one set of complications for another. You now have the responsibility of another person's life. His/her happiness and survival will depend on you. And, this is very important, if you're not careful, you will be responsible for the new life you bring into this world. A small life that will depend on you for everything. Please, give yourself time to secure your own life --- school, maybe college, and a job --- before you take the giant step known as marriage.

If you have found yourself trapped in an abusive situation, and there is no light at the end of the tunnel, then it is probably best that you remove yourself from the situation. In my experience, the abuse rarely stops. I can't speak for God, but I don't believe He would want you to continue in a situation that could possibly lead to your death.

Jesus said that the only acceptable reason for divorce is if one or both spouses are being unfaithful. Marriage is meant to be forever. Not just in the biblical days. But for all time. Marriage is a gift from God, and we are not to enter into it lightly. We are not to enter into marriage for selfish reasons. We are not to enter into marriage before we are adult enough to handle the responsibilities. There are reasons why God put so much importance on marriage. One reason is the need children have for both a mother and a father in the home. In divorce, children are left emotionally scarred by the absence of one parent. Why would any parent be okay with putting this pain upon their child? In divorce, we are teaching our children that marriage is not sacred, as God meant it to be.

There are some words I want you to think about. Lust. Need. Possession. These basic feelings are, all too often, confused with love. Lust --- enjoying the physical pleasures you receive from one another. Need --- the idea of belonging to someone, to not be alone. Possession --- the need to have someone, to control them. These are dangerous reasons for marriage. They can only lead to divorce.

Marriage only works if both parties have a deep and true love for one another. When they can achieve enjoyment by making each other happy --- safe. Your spouse must mean more to you than yourself. This does not mean you should count yourself out. You are still important. You must never marry on the grounds that your partner makes you happy. Self-gratification cannot exist in any marriage. You must want to make your partner as happy as he/she makes you.

The Bible also tells us that we are to be equally yoked. What this means is that a Christian should marry a Christian. If both parties are Christians, the marriage will most likely last until one passes on. If a Christian marries a non-Christian, it puts a major strain on the relationship. The Christian could fall. Especially if he/she is a new Christian. The Christian should never put his/her salvation at risk.

Please, people, make sure your love for another is real and unselfish. Write a list of pros and con's: reasons to get married, reasons to not get married. Be honest, or it won't work. Don't jump into marriage --- give it time. Make sure it's the right step to take for both of you. Pray on it. Seek Gods' guidance. Make sure you marry the one God has intended for you. Remember: God intended for marriage to last. It's not a game.

Read: Matthew 19:4-6; Matthew 19:9; Mark 10:2-12;1 Corinthians 7:12-15

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Is Lying Really A Sin

Many people believe that lying doesn't really hurt anyone, unless the lie is directed personally, as in a rumor. How many times have you heard someone say, "What he doesn't know, won't hurt him "? But it does hurt that person when he finds out. It causes one to become mistrusting. Not only towards the one who told the lie, but also to others who have never lied to him. This world is full of mistrust because of people who believe that lying doesn't hurt.

People don't trust people because people lie when they make false promises. At one time, a person's word was as good as gold. What happened to that kind of honesty? A handshake means nothing in this current time. A promise should be a promise. God made promises to us, and He has, and will keep them all. We should be as honest as God is.

By the way, there is no such thing as a little white lie. A lie is a lie. I know we tend to color it, but if your wife asks you if she looks good in a particular outfit, and you tell her yes when you really think the outfit looks bad --- do you really believe she wants you to lie to her? No one likes being lied to. Find a gentle way to tell her the truth. Be honest! Wouldn't you prefer to be told the truth if the shoe were on the other foot? Little white lies can grow to become big black lies. Lies can grow like cancer, and spread just as viciously.

Withholding information. No, not just to the police. When you are telling someone something important, and you do not tell him or her everything, you are lying. If you leave out any of the important information, you are not telling the whole truth. In the eyes of God, that is the same as lying. I know it seems a bit strict, but you have to understand --- our Father is strict. Loving, but strict. That's because He wants what's best for us. Just as we want what is best for our children.

Speaking of strict. Exaggeration is also a form of lying. When we exaggerate, what are we doing? We are taking the truth and adding lies to our stories. We may think we are only adding color to the story, and maybe no one could possibly get hurt by it --- and maybe no one will --- but we are still lying in part, and it is still a sin. What's wrong with just telling it like it is? Maybe you think your story is boring. So what? I believe the truth is never boring. Especially to the person who experienced it. Have you ever seen one of those old cowboy movies where there is one old man who always tells the stories of his past? He exaggerates the facts, and everyone around him believes all his stories to be untrue. Even when he is telling the truth. Do you want people to feel that way about you? Telling the truth is always important.

The Bible tells us that liars will not see the Kingdom of Heaven. If a liar will not go to Heaven, that leaves only one other place. Is telling lies, of any kind, worth the endangerment of your soul? Truth or lies? Heaven or Hell? Which are the better choices? If you know someone who has trouble telling the truth, share this information with him or her.

Lying hurts everyone. Especially our children. Are we setting a bad example? Teaching them to sin against God? Where do we want their souls to end up? I can't imagine any parent would want their child to spend eternity in Hell, suffering at the hands of demons. Do what is right for yourself and your children. Set a good example. Make God proud of you.

Read: Proverbs 12:22; John 8:44; Ephesians 4:25; Colossians 3:9; Revelations 21:8

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What Does It Mean To Covet

Have you ever seen someone with something nicer than what you have? Maybe a coat, or a car, or perhaps a house --- and you thought, 'That's not fair, that should be mine'. I'm sure every one of us has had that feeling at least one time in our lives. Well, that is coveting. Don't get me wrong; it's okay to want what others have. The sin is in becoming jealous of other peoples' belongings. Being angry because someone has something nicer than you have, or want to have. To be so angry that you feel hatred towards that person. It doesn't have to be a lot of hate. Just a little will do to become a sin.

Some people get so angry they try to take what belongs to others. They steal, or even resort to killing someone simply because they want what is not theirs. Is this acceptable behavior? No. Not in the eyes of the law, and most importantly, not in the eyes of God. People work hard for what they have. They have struggled year after long year. And then, someone covets their house, car, money, etc. This leads to stealing, beatings, and killings. Instead of working for what they want, people who covet take from those who worked hard. Coveting is a sin, and it leads to other sins.

If you simply wish you had something that belongs to someone else, but had no ill feelings concerning them, this is not a sin. If you are coveting, stop! If you want something bad enough, do the right thing --- work for it. Legally. God doesn't want you to covet, but He also doesn't want you to do anything illegal to obtain what you want.

I repeat --- coveting leads to other sins. Don't get caught up in that emotion. It will take you down a dangerous road that can, and probably will, lead to the destruction of your life. Certainly to the destruction of your soul. I find it hard to believe anyone would want his or her life destroyed. Are you someone who has hurt others to get what you want? Answer this question: Has it made your life easier? Think about it before you answer. Did your actions take your freedom away? Do you look over your shoulder, wondering if someone might try to get even? If so, then your life has been ruined. And your soul is in equal danger.

Do you want your life to be different? Ask God to remove the jealous emotion from your heart, and your head, and replace it with happiness for others. Sometimes it's hard to be happy for those who are doing better than we are, but it's not as hard as you may think. With Gods' help, it becomes easier. It becomes possible. Every time you feel yourself getting jealous, stop. Go to God. Tell Him how you feel, and ask Him to remove those feelings. Walk away from the thing you are wanting. Don't continue to let that emotion rule you. I'll say it again. Coveting leads to other sins.

Read: Exodus 20:17; 1 Timothy 6:10; James 1:14-15; Deuteronomy 5:21; Acts 20:33-35

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Using God's Name In Vain

This is the third commandment. It should be an easy commandment to keep, but many people find it extremely hard. But why? The tongue is the hardest part of our body to control. One thing we are taught in the Bible is that the tongue is the most sinful part of the body. We hurt people with our tongues. We say hurtful things to those around us. We gossip about other people to our friends. We lie. We use foul language either because we think it makes us sound cool, or out of habit. All of these things are sinful, but we are talking about the use of our Father's name.

Why do we do it? Is habit a good reason? Is anger? I don't think so, and neither does God. Breaking a habit can be difficult, but as with all tasks, we have to put our best foot forward and succeed. What is the whole point of using God's name in vain? Does it make us tough? No. Does it make us smart? Not at all. Does it make us cool? Absolutely not. So, why do it? We most assuredly cannot be proud of ourselves when we utter, or shout out, that sinful word. Do we even think about how God feels when we misuse His name? We should. If more people would consider Gods' feelings, they would, most likely, stop letting that word roll off their tongues so easily. It's a sin, and we are teaching our children that it is okay. Grade school children are using our Father's name in vain because they hear their parents saying it in anger, or in shock. These little ones do not understand the severity of using that word. It's not okay!

Did you know that when you say, " OMG ", you are also using God's name in vain? What does the word ' vain ' mean? Devoid of worth or significance, without substantial foundation. Single word meanings are as follows: unproductive, useless, ineffective, irreverent, just to name a few.

What it comes down to is that God's name should always be spoken with reverence --- respect. We should never use His name so carelessly. He is our Creator. He created us with love, and we should speak His name with love. Do we understand the gravity of the word 'Creator'? We think our parents created us. They did, but only because God gave them the ability to do so. He created us, our parents, grandparents --- all the way down the line to Adam and Eve. If it weren't for God, none of us would have ever been born. He deserves our respect. Using His name in vain is highly disrespectful, and is offensive to those who love God, and wish not to hear it being said.

What bothers me is all the actors and actresses who use God's name in vain because it is part of the script. They are either saying it because of their paychecks, or simply because they do not believe in God. Unfortunately, they are still held accountable. God does not excuse the sin because it's part of someone's job. Nor does He excuse it because you don't believe in Him. Not believing in Him will not make Him go away. There is no good reason for using God's name in vain.

One thing I don't understand. The television stations will block out most cuss words, but they will allow the use of God's name in vain, to be heard. These words: G.D. and J.C. are the worst as far as cuss words go. Why are these words being accepted? We are teaching, not just our children, but also all who do not know the truth, that using God's name in vain is acceptable to the world. We cannot always choose what our children watch on television. In most families, both parents have to work to make ends meet. At one time, the FCC made sure there was no foul language allowed on television. Why did they stop? Because of ratings? Are they afraid no one will watch their programming unless cuss words are allowed? Is that what our world has come to? How sad!

All adults are responsible for what we allow our children to see and hear. God holds us all responsible. We are the teachers of all children. It's the third commandment, and He means it. So, what do you want to do? Clean up your language, or endanger your soul simply because you can't seem to tame your tongue.

Read: Exodus 20:7; Matthew 12:36; Leviticus 19:12

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But I'm A Good Person

Being a good person is a good trait. The Lord knows we need more good people in this world. People who care about others, and do what they can to help. Such as: giving to charities, stepping up to take care of children who have been abandoned, feeding the homeless, looking after lost or abandoned animals, volunteering to visit the elderly in nursing homes, etc. These are only a few examples of how people show kindness and goodness to others in need. It's a hard fact that if more people would be GOOD, this world would be a somewhat safer and happier place to live.

Although being good is very commendable, it is not enough to get us into Heaven. God is pleased with those who are good. But He wants more for you. He most definitely wants you to enter into Heaven when you leave this world. But you must become His child, and the only way to do that is by accepting Jesus as your Savior. Believe that Jesus took your sins upon Himself, and was sacrificed for you. He is your way into Heaven. God specifically sent Jesus to us for that reason.

Jesus said, "No one can come unto the Father except through me." This means we have to accept Jesus as our Savior. Otherwise, we can never meet our Father in Heaven. What a horrible loss that would be. Just think --- if we don't make it into Heaven, there's only one other place to go. Being good won't make a difference if we haven't accepted Jesus.

Too many people refuse to accept Jesus. My question to them is this: What is so horrible about accepting Jesus? There is nothing bad about it. Only good can come from it. And the feeling of peace that comes is irreplaceable. Once you have truly accepted Jesus as your Savior, you will know without a doubt, that you will be going to Heaven.

Remember this: We are all born into sin. It is in our nature to sin. We sin when we get angry, or jealous, when we get caught up in gossip, or when we tell --- what we call --- a little white lie. It is our human nature to sin. No matter how good you are, you are still a sinner and you will sin. Even if you don't mean to. Even as Christians, we still sin because it is in our human nature to do so. But, by accepting Jesus, our sins are forgiven when we go to Him in prayer and ask for forgiveness. It is very important to accept the One who endured a severe scourging (whipped), and laid down His life for you.

Here is something most people do not think about. Satan wants us to believe that being good is enough. The road to Hell is paved with good intentions. He is okay with you being good as long as you don't accept Jesus. He knows you will come to him when your life here is over, and his minions will torture you ten-fold for every good deed you performed. Believe me, that's exactly what Satan wants. He also knows the only way you can protect yourself from him is through Jesus. You are saved by God's grace; not by the good works you do. Jesus is God's grace. Don't let Satan fool you. Don't let him snatch you from your Father's hands.

When you accept Jesus, and the sacrifice He made for you, your sins will be forgiven. You will no longer live by your human nature alone. You will be working on a spiritual level, as well. If you are already a good person --- doing for others --- think how much more you will affect those people on a spiritual level. You can do more for others with Jesus backing you up. And you are guaranteed a place in Heaven. Give it some thought.

Read: John 14:6; Ephesians 2:8

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Hey Christians \--- What Happened

This is not directed at all Christians. It is directed at those Christians who are sitting back quietly, waiting for the Lord to take them to Heaven. And, to those Christians who behave as though they are better than non-Christians. We are not to be quiet, and we are certainly not better than anyone else. Did Jesus behave like that? No, He did not.

If you are a quiet Christian, my question to you is this: Why? Is it fear? Is it just that you don't know what to say? Whatever the reason, you must remember what Jesus said to His disciples (us). He told them to go out and make disciples of all men. Not just those we know and feel comfortable with. We must be brave and go forward. If we are ashamed to speak of Jesus, He will be ashamed of us. I don't want Jesus to be ashamed of me, or any other Christian out there. Do you?

It's sad, because we sit back quietly and let ungodly things happen. The filth on television, the removal of God in our schools, etc. These things are against God's wishes. We are His voice in this world. We must not be afraid to step up and teach others about Him. The more people who are brought to God, and the more Christians who speak up --- our world can become a God-fearing and loving country once again. How could anyone think that this would be bad? This is not an impossible goal. Not if we, as Christians, work towards that goal together. We must step away from our fear, and rally forth as Jesus instructed. If we want a God-fearing country --- and I can't understand how anyone wouldn't \--- it is up to the Christians to make it happen. Praying for others is great, but sometimes we must become a part of that prayer. Get up out of your comfort zone, and minister to others and pray with them.

Christians are no better than anyone else in this world. There is no such thing as "holier than thou." A true Christian understands this. He/she understands that we are all still sinners. By thinking we are better, we are committing the sin of pride. If we treat others as though we are better than they are, we are giving the loving Christian a bad reputation based on our actions. Non-Christians will, therefore, turn away from the possibility of a Christian life. Is that the message we want to convey? Is that the example Jesus gave? Do we want to be the cause of a non-Christian running away from God? We will face God someday, and He will want to know why we scared others away from Him due to our attitudes. What will we tell Him? There is no suitable excuse. It's our job and privilege to lead non-Christians to Jesus --- not away from Him.

We are not better than anyone else. But, we should be brave enough to stand up, and speak up for our Father in Heaven. He gives us the opportunity all the time. We need only to receive His strength through prayer, and move forward.

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Our Children

How many of you, truly and deeply, love your children? I'm sure all of you answered that question with a heart felt " yes ". Ok, good. Now, how many of you are teaching your children to sin? Are you living a sinful life? If you are, then you are teaching your children that sinning is all right. If you are leading your own soul towards Hell, that is your business. I pray that you are not. But, what you teach your children will determine where they lead their souls when they are old enough to be held accountable.

Parents are a child's first teachers. What you teach them, and how you teach them, will set the pattern that they will fashion their lives after. How important to you is your child's soul? Do you want your child's soul to suffer torture in Hell for eternity? I can't believe any parent would say yes to that question. If you want your child's soul to be safe from the torment of Hell, then you need to check yourself, and stop teaching your children to sin, by example.

Let's go through a small checklist of sins that not only place your soul in danger, but your child's, as well.

Adultery: People today seem to jump into marriage simply because they like each other --- a lot. But, that's not love. They fight a lot, and soon they are cheating on one another. Finally, they divorce. Within a few months, they are marrying someone else they like --- a lot. And so it goes. People commit adultery the second they kiss someone who is not their partner. But that's not the only way to commit adultery. If you are single, and you are sleeping around --- even with one partner --- you are committing adultery. You see your body belongs to God. That's why a pastor is the one to perform the marriage ceremony. He is a man of God. We not only promise each other, "till death do us part", but we enter into that agreement with God. Once we are married, under God, our bodies belong to one another. Unmarried, our bodies belong to God. When our children see us not being loyal to our spouses, they learn that loyalty has no meaning. And they have seen you sinning, and they think it's normal.

Hatred: Are you a hateful person? Do you get angry when you don't get your way? Do you do your best to get even with people who make you mad? Maybe you say bad things about people you don't like. Hatred is a very dangerous emotion. It eats into your spiritual body (soul), the way cancer eats into your physical body. But hatred doesn't destroy only you. It destroys those who are around you. Especially your children. Your children learn hate by watching you. Do you want your child to grow up hateful? Or, would it make you feel better knowing you taught your child how to love? I hope you make the right choice.

Disrespect: This is a very big subject, because disrespect leads to so many other sins. When you treat people badly --- especially for no reason --- you are being disrespectful. Maybe you're unhappy and you feel it's everyone's fault for how you feel. Maybe you were brought up in a home full of disrespect, and that's all you know. Maybe you feel others should respect you first. Does any of this sound familiar to you?

First of all, it's no one's fault that you're unhappy. You can take any situation at any given time, and depending on how you choose to deal with it will determine whether you are happy or not. Simply put, if you dwell on the problem and let it get you down, then you will be unhappy. Instead, look at the problem clearly, seek the solution through prayer, and put it into effect. Problem solved. Sometimes it takes longer to reach a solution. Don't let it get you down, and don't blame those who are innocent by-standers.

If you were brought up in a disrespectful household, let me ask you one question. Were you happy? If not, then you would want to raise your children in a better situation than what you grew up in. Don't you think? There's no peace in a disrespectful household. Everyone is either arguing or fighting. If you are a disrespectful parent, your children will follow in your footsteps. If you are a parent with a disrespectful child, then it is your duty to try to get through to your child why it is wrong to be disrespectful, and that such behavior will not be tolerated in your home. Too many teens believe their parents owe them. As parents, we must make our children realize that we do not owe them anything. Everything we have done for them, from the time of their birth, we have done because we chose to. Not because we had to. We did it out of love.

People, who are disrespectful to others, waiting for others to respect them first, will never find respect. Respect has to be earned by respecting others first. There is no other way. If you show respect to people of high position, because you want to gain something, that is not a true act of respect.

Foul language: Another form of disrespect. Especially when it's used around those who wish to not hear it. Some people believe that foul language sounds worse when it comes out of the mouths of women and children. But, in truth, it doesn't sound good coming from any person's mouth. It's trashy no matter who uses it. If you use that language around your children, they will pick it up. Some parents punish their children for that. They are hypocrites. To punish a child for copying the parents is wrong and highly unfair. Teach your children the proper way to speak, by example.

Please take into account that you are responsible for teaching your children right from wrong. God gives us children to raise up according to the teachings of the Bible. If we do not follow His plan, we have failed not only Him, but also our children and ourselves. No one, in their right mind and heart, would ever want to put their child's soul at risk. Our children are important to us. We want them to have the best in life --- to succeed on this earth. That's good. That is a good goal. While they are here. But what about their eternity? We should want them to succeed in the eyes of God. To succeed by making it into Heaven. To spend their eternity in a place of pure happiness.

Listen. Parents spend hours upon hours helping their children with their homework so their children will make good grades, go to college, land a good career, and raise their own families. They want the best for their children's future. And there is nothing wrong with that. But, these same parents, all parents, need to bring their children up in the studies of the Bible. Because their final future will be the place where they will spend their eternity. Now, we don't want our children to grow up untaught, and wind up living on the streets; scrounging for food, and sleeping under bridges. We don't want them living in such a hellish situation. Why, then, would we want them to spend their eternity in the real Hell?

Now, I know many people do not believe in God, or Heaven and Hell. But --- what if you're wrong? Satan does not want you to believe in God. Just remember one thing: God believes in you! If you continue to disbelieve, then Satan has won your soul. If you have taught your children your disbelief in the God who created them, you will be held responsible for the agony they will endure in Hell. Think about it. Remember, I told you that a child has to be accountable in order to be judged. Young children will go straight to Heaven the second they pass.

If you don't raise your children in the word of God, the only thing that will save them is if they seek out God for themselves. But, their teachings should start in the home, and in the church. Write this down and put it on your refrigerator:

When you teach your children to sin,

You are preparing their souls for Hell.

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### About the author:

Sherry Hall recently asked a friend. "Have you ever heard that song 'Amazing Grace?' That song pretty well describes me -- 'I once was lost and now am found'."

Growing up in Oklahoma and Kansas, Sherry had a challenging childhood being shuttled from one parent to the other and became the proverbial rebellious teenager. Fortunately she had been schooled in Christian beliefs and found her way back to God and His amazing grace. Reading the Bible all the way through and studying it over the years, led her to be able to answer the questions found in this book. Now as a mother and grandmother she is reaching out to those who may be searching for answers to life and to an understanding of the grace that God offers to each of us. "I believe God led me to write the "Q & A on Christianity" book because of all of my prayers and concerns over the many lost souls in this world. If this book can reach them it will mean more saved souls for God. And that is our assignment given to us by Jesus – to lead people to God."

Sherry also enjoys singing, and is invited quite often to sing solos at local churches. She has made several CDs of her singing for gifts to friends and relatives.

Sherry can be reached at <http://www.facebook.com/sherry.hall.9235>

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