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Tip # 5
TIp # 5 Friends.... is one of the tip
which...
make your self so ease
 
in one way you can say it will
increase the maturity level or you can say
you  might have heard
that to lower your expectations
now what sort of expectations are those???
what are the expectations we expect from others
friends i will tell you it's extended version
what we are not supposed to expect from others
friends... Do not expect "Yourself" from others
don't expect yourself from others
root of trouble starts from here only
that some where internally
we behave with some in good manner
or we do something for someone
some where deep down internally
we assume the reversal too
that tomorrow if i need this person will help me out
if we behave ethically to someone
& we do not receive it back in the same way
than its that basically
the main reason to get annoyed
we from the person infront of us
we do expect our self from that person
we forget that
we are dealing with a different mindset
not with a mirror that we will get our reflection
so friends.. the day
you will stop expecting your self from others
that i did something for someone
he/she did the same for me or not, remember that person is not YOU
this has to be understood very deeply
that to whom you are dealing with
that is some different person not YOU
& since that person is not YOU,  so you do not expect
that you will against your
that behavior
that act,
may be that love
the same behavior, act or love will be reciprocated
so as per my aftermaths
if you stop expecting  yourself
from others
that your will see, hear
feel this thing
that a lot of
complaints with other people
what happnes usually that
we deal with each other, we complaint each other
we just because expect
out self from the person infront of us
so the volume of complaint increases
& we usually find telling this to some third person
that i did that form him/her, &
what he/she did to me
so we need not to go transaction for this
you guys are mature enough
you may know very well , the sort of gossip
happens, or sort of expectations we do
 
to the day you will stop expecting yourself from the others, the complaints
on a very high level
with any person
even that person is your
blood relation
any sibling
any relative
any one, your friends, office colleagues,your seniors , juniors, business partners
any one
this is an universal principle
because we expect our selves from everyone
actually the expectation we connect with others
that is not for those physical materialistic things
we probable expect in the return, the exception is of...
that
the reflection of our one personality
the reflection of my behavior
beside the behavior may good or bad
so any how again we will not into that transaction
so today's tip is that
DO NOT EXPECT YOURSELF FROM OTHERS
before signing of i will summarize all the tips
shared so far
in this series we have gone through 5 tips
Ist tip, & yes before moving forward
the tips i will share
& if you have not seen those videos
you may find those in the playlist at the end
 
 
 
 
& there is not condition that these are the serialized tips
these tips are based only
as per my observations
 
i felt that i must share & implement before sharing
so i prepared those tips only
but there is no sequence
you may adopt any tip any time
there is no hard & fast rule as such with regards to the series
so to summarize & to see please click on the above link
