 
Hey! So?
 
What do you think?
Whoa!
You did all this for me?
You said you wanted
to do it tonight, so...
 
I did, yeah!
So you just wanted to
buy like a thousand flowers?
Yeah! How else do you
have floral sex
 
if you don’t have flowers?
- What’s floral sex?
- I thought you knew.
 
How would I know?
Because you said:
“I want to have floral sex”.
 
Oral sex.
I said I wanted to have
oral sex tonight.
- Oh, oral!
- Yeah.
 
Oral sex.
Oral sex!
That makes so much more...
You know, I’m hearing myself
say it now, oral sex.
That makes way more
sense than floral.
- It really does.
- Yeah.
I thought it was weird
that the florist
didn’t know what
I was talking about.
 
You asked the florist?
Not even asked,
I demanded! I said:
“I need flowers tonight
for floral sex!”
 
Really?
 
Oh my gosh!
 
This cost $400!
 
Oh my God, Julian!
I didn’t know
it was so expensive!
- It’s okay!
- I’m an idiot.
You’re so getting
floral / oral sex tonight!
 
Oh, right now?
 
Oh!
 
Oh, wow! Uh...
 
Okay!
Oral sex involves stimulating
a partner’s genitals
with the mouth,
lips and tongue.
Practiced on the penis,
it’s called fellatio.
On the vulva and clitoris,
it’s called cunnilingus.
The mouth and tongue
can be particularly precise
and provide pleasant sensations
to the person receiving oral sex. 
For the person giving oral sex,
pleasure can be derived
from observing or feeling
their partner’s reaction to it. 
Some find oral sex exciting,
while others don’t enjoy it
 
or are not comfortable with it.
It can change over time,
depending on the person...
 
Or not!
Contrary to what
porn may suggest,
oral sex is not practiced
by everyone.
Moreover, porn can give
the false impression
that cunnilingus is a more or less
important part of foreplay,
and fellatio
is often presented
as a sign of submission
to male desires. 
In reality, oral sex should be
respectful and egalitarian. 
And it can be done at any time
during a sexual interaction,
either as foreplay or
to lead directly to orgasm.
Oh! And remember that oral sex
involves a risk of STBBIs. 
Luckily, condoms provide
protection during fellatio 
and dental dams
do the same for cunnilingus. 
In short, oral sex can be
practiced in different ways,
at different times,
and both partners must want it.
In the end,
it’s a personal choice.
I think guys know
what cunnilingus is.
I don’t think they know
how to do it all the time, though.
Yes, cunnilingus!
Of course.
The act of performing
oral sex on a woman.
 
I’ve done it and...
 
Yeah!
 
I honestly have no idea
who would be more
comfortable with oral sex.
But I would assume
probably guys?
I do think girls have pleasure
from oral sex, but...
 
It is often perceived
that guys are more into
oral sex than girls.
 
They take it for granted.
If you have a girlfriend,
she’ll give you oral sex.
It’s always come
before full-on sex.
So yeah! 
I’d say it’s pretty important.
If it’s something that
either you or your partner
want to have and
consent to having,
then I don’t see
any problem with it.
It should be just another part
of your experience.
At first, I didn’t
want to do it.
I didn’t feel comfortable,
because I was scared
of the pressure
and the judgment.
To receive oral sex
can be kind of embarrassing.
Do I look normal?
Do I smell normal?
Do I taste normal?
I don’t know.
To have somebody
look right at it,
it’s so personal,
so intimate.
 
I wasn’t embarrassed,
and you should not have
to be embarrassed.
But of course, it depends
on the mood, and...
With your partner,
if you’re comfortable or not.
The girls receiving oral sex
have been...
very comfortable,
but also,
they don’t really
expect it.
Because from
what I’ve heard,
not a lot of guys
go for it.
 
I don’t think that oral sex
has to be part of
every sexual relationship.
However, if it’s something
you want to do,
 
go right ahead.
There’s nothing
wrong with it.
But there’s nothing wrong
with not doing it.
I think oral sex is enjoyable,
and if that’s what you like,
it should be a part
of your relationship.
But if you don’t enjoy
performing it or receiving it,
why go through
all the trouble?
I think it’s all about
learning about your body
and the other
person’s body.
 
Learning about...
Especially when you start,
you know...
When you don’t have
a lot of experience,
it’s hard to know
what’s good,
and what’s natural
and what’s not.
And as you come to
love yourself more
and love the other
person more,
it becomes a lot more natural,
less embarrassing.
