You said the transgenderism doesn't
exist, what do you mean by that? Well it
doesn't exist - again like we've going
back to what we talked about- when you
lift the umbrella and these are not
transgenders, they're drag queens.
They're transvestites with fetishes,
they are people with Autogynephilia,
they're people who have mental disorders. That's not transgenderism.
Those are behaviors that they've just
used a name to identify with their
behavior and they've all taken on the
same name identity as transgender but
they all have very different behaviors
and very different reasons for those
behaviors. Absolutely, so if if we were to
lift the transgender name off this and
begin to deal with each
individual, we'd have to deal with their
sexual indifferences and so forth, right?
The guy with autogynephilia who falls
in love with himself, for the guy who's
sexually aroused, the fetish, which are
concerns of the mind. Their mental concerns that need to be addressed.
They're psychiatric disorder disorders. But nobody wants to own up to the
fact that a transgender has a disorder
so it's much easier to camouflage their
disorders by using a term that sounds
very benign. I mean if we called
them autogynephiliac. Or you're the person of
the transvestite fetish. Or someone who's
been sexually abused. Yeah that's quite
accurate but it doesn't play well for
the PC crowd. So it's like the word
transgender just protects a whole host
of things that we actually are under an
obligation to investigate and try and
resolve for the sake of the people that
are in that category. If we had
compassion, we would actually identify
him and identify their disorders and
actually help them resolve them. Instead
we put a cone of silence over
them and give them a name transgender so
that we can't help them and that's just
the insanity of it.
The powerful narrative is that the
compassionate thing
to do is to affirm all of these things
with the protection of that word
transgender where is what you're doing
and you've seen this firsthand time and
again and it must be terribly
frustrating. What you're doing is causing
people to simply run down a pathway of
usually self-destruction. Yeah we're
actually creating behaviors that would
not have existed except for the fact
that we've affirmed them down this
pathway.
They've become obsessed, they've become
disturbed, they have dissociative
disorders and they're depressed and
that's why they attempt suicide because
nobody's helping resolve the disorders
they really have. So can you imagine
knowing deep down inside you're
struggling with something every day at
your home and you're having all
these difficulties and they're telling
you're fine, you don't have a
disorder but you know you really do but
you can't access therapy that's going to
help you resolve it so you can save your
life. So the end result is you commit
suicide. I attempted suicide. And that
must be also the promise of...if you have
this done to you, it will solve your
problems and they go through the process
and of course it doesn't solve the
problem.
Well it's poppycock because you know you
look at the UK Guardian which is not a
favorable group to write about
supporting transgender, what they do
support transgender behavior but they
came out and actually said in a headline
"Transgender changes are ineffective in
2004" They had a big study that was done
and said people after having
reassignment surgery are so stressed to
the point of suicide that it's
ineffective and so if we can get
together and actually look at the
studies that actually show how people
are totally distressed after going
through this reassignment surgery and
hormones are a powerful drug. That caused
people to think, feel and behave very
differently and actually begin to help
them. Wouldn't we be better off and we
would be resolving many of these suicide
issues and depressions and other things
that people have an appropriate
psychotherapy way instead of just
feeding
hormones and cutting body parts off. So
if we want to love people who are
experiencing gender dysphoria or who may
be manifesting behaviors which fit under
the transgender banner, one thing we will
not do is perpetuate the lie that
transgenderism is a thing or perpetuate
the lie that affirming the behaviors or
facilitating transition is going to help
them. Right, and and the only people that
can speak to this appropriately are the
people who come out the other side who
have regret and began the detransition
process and they reach out to me and
said I want to know what really was
going on with me and then they began, as
I said earlier, a hundred percent of
them can actually articulate what
happened to them and now they want to
deal with it later in life and then they
engage in psychotherapy where they
couldn't do it before or they were
discouraged from going into
psychotherapy to sort of uncover what
the disorder was. We find that the people
had very difficult childhood in many
cases and had horrible things happen
to them that really requires good sound
effective psychotherapy. That's proper to
do.
