- Hi!
My name is Lilly, AKA Super Woman
and this is my YouTube channel.
It has over 7.4 million
subscribers, of which 84%
are female, which means
that over 6 million
girls around the planet
regularly watch my videos.
And to be honest, I'm
super grateful and humbled
to say that because that's pretty awesome.
This holiday season I
decided to use that reach
and speak up against and
issue I'd love to see
go away, and that's girl on girl hate.
So I decided to ask for some
help from my girlfriends.
- Hi, I'm Shay Mitchell.
- Hi, I'm Colleen Ballinger.
- Hey guys, I'm Gabbie.
- Hi, I'm Natalie.
- My name is Andrea.
- Brittany Furlan, here.
- Hi, I'm Meg DeAngelis.
- Hey guys, Lindsey Stirling, here.
- It's LaurDIY
- Hi, I'm Grace Helbig.
- Hi, Hannah Hart.
- Hi, I'm Mamrie Hart.
- I'm Latoya Forever.
- Hi, I'm Kandee Johnson.
- My name is Mercades Danielle
- My name is Laina.
- My name is Rachel Ballinger.
- The sad reality is
that girl on girl hate
is such a big issue in
schools, at work, or online.
And it never made any
sense to me because as
women, we know how awesome
other women can be.
- I think women are strong,
beautiful, empowered goddesses.
- Women are influential.
- I think women are so much funnier than
a lot of people give us credit for.
- Simultaneously graceful and powerful.
- Beautiful, confident and fighters.
- Beautiful in their complexity.
- Um, the thing I love about women
is that they're completely equal to men.
- They can be so strong
and endure so much.
- Gorgeous. amazing, beautiful,
but most of all powerful.
- I think women are strong.
- Strong.
- Really strong.
- We strong out here, son.
- And more than anything, I believe women
are so capable of destroying
girl on girl hate.
I mean, after all, we
helped bring it life.
So, dear six million,
- Encourage one another and look at
other girls as sisters
instead of competition.
- No matter how different
we are, we've all
got the same stuff going on.
- We've all been there,
we all know what it feels
like to feel not popular
enough, not pretty enough,
just not good enough.
- And we can really relate to each other.
- And if you put other girls down to try
and make yourself feel better, I promise
you that will never work.
- I feel like girl on girl hate is fueled
a lot by jealousy.
When you are jealous of someone,
it actually, usually, means you want
something they have.
Which is kind of the same
exact thing of when you
admire someone.
- Yeah.
- So instead of being jealous of someone,
admire what they're doing.
- If we took that energy that girls
use to hate on people.
- If you spent the amount
of time that you're
tearing other women down,
building women up.
- And we turn it into love and support.
- We can do some really amazing stuff.
- Imaging what we could
accomplish in this world.
- I know it's hard , you
might not want to do it,
but try to be positive.
- I remember thinking
when I was younger that
hating on another girl
would somehow make me
better, but the reality
is that it just makes you
look like a worse person
and that's the truth of it.
- Please, stop calling each other sluts
and whores, and hoes.
- Or fat or too skinny.
- We're not each others enemies.
We are each others allies.
- I want women to celebrate
each others bodies
and each others minds.
- Try and talk about girl the way that you
would want to be talked about.
- If you're with a group
of friends and they are
doing a lot of, like,
girl on girl hate, it's
okay for you to just be kinda like,
"Guys, can we not today?"
or excuse yourself from
the conversation or
find something positive
to say about somebody.
- The power a complement
unlocks is amazing.
- You have the power to
make another girls day
and to make her feel beautiful
and wanted and accepted.
- Honestly, I don't know
who came up with this
idea that it's cool to hate on other girls
because it's not.
Ladies, it's time to change the game
and let it be known
that what's really cool
is complementing other women.
- One woman that I really
admire is Sophia Bush.
Not only is she a hard
working actress who has
been doing it for a
long time, but just her
outlook on life is
always really inspiring.
- I'd like to complement Colleen Evans.
I think that she really paved the way for
females to step outside
of just pretty, cute,
funny, and be actually funny.
She is a true comedienne to me.
- I'd like to complement Mamrie Hart.
Every time I'm around her she makes me
laugh till I cry and
she works really, really
hard for everything that she's achieved.
- I would like to send
complements and love
to Ilana Glazer and Abbi Jacobson.
I think they're really
pushing the boundaries
of comedy for women.
- I'd like to complement Amy
Schumer for being awesome.
I think she's reignited
the women are funny flame.
- I want to complement
Angelina Jolie for all the
tireless work she does for women.
- I'd like to complement Emma Watson for
fearlessly fighting for gender equality.
- I'd like to complement
Lindsey Stirling because
I think she is immensely
talented but she still
works as if it's her first day on the job
and it is so incredibly inspiring to see.
- I would like to
complement Kandee Johnson
because she just lights up a room.
- I'd like to complement Lilly Singh.
She inspires me and I'm excited.
Every success that she gets,
I am so excited for her also.
- I'm a huge, huge fan of all things
that Amy Poehler does.
She's so present and engaging and
interesting and genuinely curious
about girls and what they're doing.
- She is also someone
that has used her platform
to talk about the hard
and honest stuff around
being a working mother
or around insecurity.
- I'd like to complement Judy from
It's Judy's Life because she's a great
mother, she's a great wife, and
she's a great supporter.
- I would like to complement Miley Cyrus
because she promotes being who you are
despite what the world thinks.
- And now my friends and I would like to
challenge you to spread some girl love.
Post a tweet, Facebook
status, or Instagram post
using the hashtag girl love, complementing
or supporting another woman.
Together we can show the world how
lame girl on girl hate is and how awesome
it is to support one
another and build women up.
And sure, there might be
six million girls here,
but with your help this message can reach
millions more.
Simply click the links in the description
to share this video and every dollar
made from the views of this video will be
donated to the Malala
Fund, which helps girls
around the world go to school.
Which means the more views this video has,
the more money will donated toward
building women up.
And I know it's not always
easy to donate money,
even to causes you believe
in so much, especially
during this time of year,
so all you have to do
to help is share this video.
And then in exactly 30
days you can check my
Instagram to see how much money we raised
together and donated.
Girl on girl hate sucks.
So, let's stop it.
- We're all in this together so let's
help build each other up.
- One love.
- Super women.
- That is a wrap and...
- Zoots
(cheerful music).
