all
and office have a certain way the
talking in the way they talk is they
have more
the understanding and it's not what you
say by how you say it
and I'll once I am an attractive voice
isn't necessarily alpha boys you can't
really change your voice to a
a is a deeper voice a deeper voice is
assigned higher testosterone
and so women tend to find a Barry White
voice Syria it
James Earl Jones voice a little more
attractive on
and when you talk you should have a SME
to relax beach
out and I initially talking at a
comfortable speed that's not
a going faster than the conversation
should go
the talking passing can make thing some
interesting people just don't feel
really comfortable around you
it changes exactly how we interpret the
message
and so you need to understand how big a
difference it is when you talk too fast
in the same thing goes about when you
talk to you so very dark so
look for any can appear very stupid and
so you want to talk to
comfortable SPIE relax smears
a speed and ask you are kinda deep
deeper voice you don't wanna have a
the little lady Betty high-pitched voice
has high pitched voice is an estrogen
and so you want to avoid that a when he
talked
you can talk with a smile if you're
worried about having a threatening tone
and when you smiled Hannah
it's hard to explain but you can hear a
smile and
certain companies are known for having
the receptionist force a smile when they
pick up the phone because
it makes them sound different and so as
a non-threatening tone
your language should be decisive in what
I mean by decisive is
you need to start avoiding words like
maybe kinda sorta
do you want to go over here kinda do you
want to do this may be the only this
sorta
alright those will work in certain
situations I know you're gonna have to
use those words at some point I'm not
say no
boredom are merely saying when you're
saying you wanna go do some you look
over your day
I'm gonna go do this I might go do this
i maybe go do this kinda go do this
story go do this
they all have different fields but if
you say I'm going to do this use and
definitive yes and decisive
and that as a sign of an alpha male body language on
so you can I want to avoid that kind and
that undersize have tone you want to
make sure that you sound like a grown
man
a you know what you want cuz that's a
sign of confidence you want to avoid any
town nobody likes a needy person anyways
can I can we should we those are all
kind the
tones that you're not an independent
person a year you're needy you
you need to know what they walk before
you can make a decision
and see you guys need to make sure that
you guys are showing that you guys there
this
this part of it human being that include
your voice now means
your language at and should be more
decisive it  you should some more to
finish this out more like you know what
you want because that's what part in it
people do that two of the people there
as they just know when they walk
