What if I told you, you were
living your life in a trap,
a trap that you created and continue
to stay confined in day after
day, you are only confined by the world
around you that you believe to be true.
This is real, and it's true.
And once you understand what
I'm about to share with you,
your entire life will change.
Welcome back to my channel.
And if you're new here,
my name is Mary Kay,
and I'm a mindset coach manifesting expert
and founder of MK magic mindset.com.
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I would love to have you. Here's
what you need to understand.
There can be so much confusion about
limitations and blocks because when you're
living your life, when you're in it,
it can be so hard to see
the bigger picture and take
a step back and see it from
an outside perspective. It's so hard to
get that perspective when you're in it,
things you might not even realize could
be keeping you stuck living the same
day, same week, same year,
over and over and over again
on repeat like a vicious cycle.
And the reason that most people can't
escape this vicious cycle because they
don't change this one thing. Yes,
there is one thing I can do
right now to break this cycle and
change your life forever. I have so
much to share with you in this video,
but before we dive in,
be sure to give this video with
them and subscribe to my channel.
If you haven't already,
I take the confusion out of manifesting
and give you the tools you need to get
the results you want. So now that
you've done that let's get into it.
There's this famous experiment where a
scientist put a bunch of fleas inside of
a glass jar and they started to jump
out. He then took those same fleas,
put them back in the jar and put
a glass lid at the top of the jar.
So the fleas continue to jump like normal,
but now they were hitting
the glass ceiling and falling
back down to the bottom
of the jar.
This happened over and over again to
the point where the fleas became so
acclimated to hitting this glass ceiling,
they became conditioned to only to a
certain Heights that they didn't keep
hitting that ceiling. After awhile,
the scientist removed that glass lid
so that the fleas were free to jump and
escape like they did before.
But because they had been so deeply
conditioned to believe that there was a
glass lid still there, they still only
continue to jump to a certain height.
Even though freedom was
waiting right there for them,
they had full ability to escape and jump
out like they did at the beginning of
the experiment.
But because they had been placed with
that glass lid for a certain amount of
time, they were conditioned to
believe that they couldn't get out.
Freedom was waiting right there for them,
but their conditioning
stopped them from having it.
What if I told you that we as human
beings operate in that same way? Yes.
We may not be a flee,
but we can be conditioned to
believe in limits that don't exist.
And the thing you need to understand
is that your limits define your future.
You determine what's possible
based on your conditioning,
your subconscious programming,
every failure, every setback,
every time somebody said no, every
rejection, every disappointment,
all formed your lid to your glass
jar. Whether you realize it or not,
you were conditioned each time you didn't
get that amount of money you wanted
each time you didn't get that job.
You wanted each time you didn't get
something you want, or you were told no,
or you were told you weren't good enough,
or that you were this kind of person.
Every no, every negative
experience, all formed your limits.
And you operate from your limits,
whether you realize it or not,
every single person has glass
ceiling that they come up against.
But it's what you do when you're facing
that glass ceiling that determines your
future and determines what
your life is going to be like.
Are you going to allow these limits,
this conditioning to only
let you jump so high guy,
or are you going to take yourself out
of this trap that you've only created
based on your limits. It really is simple.
When you look at it
from the bigger picture,
your glass ceiling is only created by
your conditioning and your beliefs.
And these beliefs are things that you
think are true based on past failures and
experiences. But you have
the power to examine them,
these beliefs and decide what is
actually real and true for you.
You can decide that one setback,
isn't going to determine your
whole life or your future.
And you can decide that you are more
powerful than the fear of failure,
because the whole purpose of failure and
setbacks is to just show you a lesson.
It's teaching you, who you need to
become to have the things that you want.
It's not like there's some
kind of mystical force that
has puppet strings on you
and is making bad things happen to you.
That's living life from
victim circumstances rather
than being in co-creative
control over your life. You may not
have control over failures or setbacks,
but you have control over learning the
lesson [inaudible] and taking it to the
next level. You can let
failure and setbacks break you,
or you can let them go make you who you
need to become to have the things that
you want. Yeah.
You can decide to break through any
limitations because the limits don't
exist. When you operate from this
place, everything will change for you.
Limits only exist if
you believe they exist.
So what you believe
determines your reality.
Do you think that the most rich and
powerful and successful people believed in
limits?
Do you think they believe they can only
earn money from a certain job or having
to work from nine to five or having
to go to college to get this job?
Do you think that they never
failed and were never told no,
they experienced the same failures
and steps backs as everybody else,
but they decided not to be boxed in by it.
They decided not to create limits
based off of their experiences.
They decided not to buy into
or believe that limits exist.
They focused on potential
and possibility instead.
So I want you to try something right now,
choose one thing right now that
you intend to manifest and write
down what you think is stopping you, list
all the reasons why you can't have it.
Any thoughts or beliefs or logical,
why you think you can't
have that thing right now,
just pick one thing you want to manifest
and write down all the reasons why you
think it can't happen right now.
It's a very simple but powerful
diagnostic exercise to see where your
beliefs are at,
see where your limits are and see how
you can break through them and free
yourself from the trap that you've created
for yourself and write it all down.
When you think you've got it all on paper,
dig a little deeper because there are so
many deep layers to our beliefs and our
subconscious programming. It's like
an onion. You might get the top layer,
but then there's more. And there's more,
I just keep peeling and digging deeper
and seeing the true reasons why you
believe that you can't have this thing.
All of the thoughts and beliefs and other
people's opinions that reinforce why
you can't have that thing, get it
all out on paper. And here's the key.
Once you get it all down on paper,
all the thoughts, feelings, opinions,
everything. Once you get all of
those deep layers out on paper,
all the reasons why you think
you can't have something.
I want you to notice if
these are actual real limits.
And when I say real limits, I mean,
limits defined by the laws of
gravity or science or physics,
or if there are limits based on your
experiences and your conditioning nine
times out of 10,
these limits are really only based on
your experiences and your setbacks and
your conditioning.
And now that you understand that these
are the limits that you placed on
yourself, and you can change them at
any time, you have the power to escape.
The trap that you've created, just
like those fleas that were in the jar.
Once the glass ceiling was removed, you
can jump out. You can change your life.
But the thing is only you
have the power to do it.
Nobody else can do this for you.
So it's a decision you have
to make yourself and you
have to do the work to get
there. You have to free yourself.
And normally when you're manifesting,
everybody always tells you to
just write down the good stuff,
only focus on the good and the positive
stuff and the things you want to happen.
And while that's a good
focus, and I do agree,
you should focus on what you do
want, not what you don't want.
It's really important to do this work
and actually get clear on what your
beliefs are,
because you could write down that you
want to be a millionaire and you can write
that a million times and focus on it.
But if you have resistance around it
and you don't actually believe it's
possible for you, how are you going
to manifest that into your life?
Because you are in a box with limits
and until you remove these limits,
how can you let anything in the
law of attraction and manifesting?
Isn't some kind of magical
mystical fairy, dreamland.
This is the real way manifesting works.
You have to get clear on what you believe.
You have to get clear on your resistance
so that you're not just constantly
asking for things and hoping,
and wishing and praying and
thinking they might come true.
There's a lot of answers
in your resistance.
There's a lot of answers in
what you believe to be true.
And that is the most common manifesting
trap. And it will keep you stuck.
If you're working from the outside
in instead of the inside out face,
your fear and your limits head on so
that you can heal it and clear the
path to receive what you desire.
And here's one of the biggest takeaways
from this video that I want you to
understand.
Limits don't exist unless you
believe they do so play around
with that idea and see how much your
life starts to shift and change.
And the second you can condition
yourself to reach further,
just dream bigger, open yourself, up
to receive without fear and trust.
The desires that were placed in your
heart. Your entire life will change.
You hold the key to unlock your freedom,
and you have more power than you think.
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into subconscious programming
and learn techniques
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