so why have seafarers talked about a
boat like a woman there are certain
traits and energies that are in the
feminine just says there are traits and
energies that are in the masculine right
you guys know all that this is not new
to you so what are those energies the
feminine needs to move they're
changeable like the moon the moon goes
through all types of changes throughout
a given month new moon quarter moon half
moon full moon it's changeable and
that's what that feminine energy is it's
changeable but because everything does
change in life you know there's nothing
that stays the same everything ends all
things pass you can work all your life
to build something and in the end it
goes away doesn't it that's the feminine
it changes like the moon like the sea
and it changes because there's movement
one day it's stormy one day it's sunny
the next day it's sunny but cloudy it's
ever-changing and that's the feminine
energy if a boat is got feminine energy
the vote needs to be moving movement
right the dance of life how many men
like to dance
I mean not many
the masking doesn't like to dance the
masculine likes to be able to predict
and control and build and that's good
too it's not about what's good or bad
you want to control now you want to
build you want to know what you can rely
on that's a real masculine energy and
that's why the masculine sometimes gets
frustrated right with the feminine and
we have that within ourselves the
feminine energy within ourselves is
changeable the masculine wants to
establish predictability the masculine
wants to kind of nail it down but the
feminine cannot be nailed down the
feminine is changeable and you have to
love that
you really do have to love that so if
you want to live on the water you want
to have a sailboat or and really any
boat and you want to love that boat you
have to love not only your own feminine
change ability right because everybody
your mind changes one day you want this
next day you want that so the boat is
like a woman because the boat the boat
likes to move and flex and go and dance
the feminine is like the moon and the
masculine is kind of like the Sun you
know the Sun is predictable you know it
rises it shines steady all day long you
can set your watch on the Sun can't you
you can predict that Sun energy but the
moon waxes and wanes the changes one day
its stormy one day it's calm it's
changeable and that's the way nature is
that's the way the world is that's the
life force energy the masculine is also
really important because the masculine
is fixed and if you're not sure what I
mean about these energies just take a
look in the natural so in the spiritual
so as I look at the boat it's kind of
like looking at a woman the boat changes
the boat the boat doesn't like to stay
doesn't like to be dry doesn't like to
be fixed the amassed and loves that it's
like yeah now I got Jeff captured you
I've taken you out of your flow and now
I'm gonna fix you I'm gonna control you
that's what the masculine does the
feminine and that's what we do within
our own cells
isn't that true let me think about it if
all of us have masculine and feminine
energies if the feminist changeable it's
like our mind it changes one day feels
this the next day it feels that and we
don't like that we'd like to kind of
know what to expect so it's important to
love the feminine if you want to love
your boat you want to be able to love
the feminine and that's the feminine
within you
I'm looking at this and I'm seeing this
and it's making me just kind of think
about that and I just wanted to share
that with you so is it about the boat
and the boat is on the water and the
water changes that's very feminine the
land is solid and predictable that's
masculine we have both in us the
masculine has tried to control the
feminine we all do that within our own
selves though don't we
how many of you like the fact that you
change your mind one day you feel this
next that you feel that the masculine is
fixed and that's its strength isn't it
it's like an anchor but the feminine
flows so we need both right the Maskin
and the feminine both are good it says
in Genesis that God made them in His
image male and female so God is male and
God is female now most of us who are
coming from that Western religious
culture think of God more as a male
don't we but you know in the book of
Isaiah God has expressed as a female as
a mother who says like a mother hen I
want to gather you up and care for you
that's kind of alien to the masculine
mind and you know I was hesitant about
sharing some of this stuff so beyond the
masculine and the feminine what is the
source behind all that that leads us to
the question why are you doing what
you're doing and I know for me I can't
speak for you but for me love really is
my name and sometimes I want to
establish love by controlling and making
things good for those that I love my
family my children my wife and you guys
too those of you who actually who I
actually know obviously but the feminine
fluctuates and in order to love the
feminine you don't need to nail it down
because it's changeable it's on the
ocean nature is changeable the phases of
the Moon changes every single day
there's a change the Sun doesn't really
change does a predictable that's good
you need both the Sun by day the moon by
night you need both to create a world
yes the female needs the mail and the
mail needs the female but there's got to
be an awareness and I think that's what
sailing has been showing me that the
boat is like a woman except my
changeability let me change let me flow
let me dance 70 men like to dance dance
is not like a male thing it's a feminine
energy to dance to change to be variable
so I just want to share that and I love
my boat and those of you who go to look
for boats so many people say oh look for
this and look for that what's your
bottom line and what's your control
thing and that's it's fine to have
preferences and we're talking about that
I'm saying how come so many men when
they search for a year or two for their
boat after seeing dozens and dozens and
hundreds of boats they buy a boat that
they want they fall in love with it's
not that ways logical is it they fall in
love with the boat and that's what it's
like what a man falls in love with a
woman gonna buy a boat then you have to
love the feminine within you is it
exactly the way you like no of course
not
it changes and you have to honor that
and you have to be patient with that and
you have to love that actually you have
to love it and if you can't love the
changeability in your own self if you
can't love your own feminine side then
how are you gonna love a boat the boat
is never gonna be totally under your
control the boat kind of does some thing
like a woman I mean she just wants to
move she wants to go she wants to give
you what you need but you can't demand
you can't control and you have to be
there for her and you have to let her
just be but if you don't let your own
self be meaning if you don't let your
mind which is changeable if you hate
that about yourself then how are you
gonna like the energy of the feminine
which by its very nature is changeable
can you embrace the changeable that's
one of the things that this little
sailboat has been teaching me and I'm
not saying I've learned that lesson but
love is my aim and the abiam has taught
me a lot and it's interesting that even
the name yeah BM it's it really means
male and female and God is male and
female so it's divine masculine divine
feminine and you put the two together
hey what happens when the masculine and
the feminine come together in love well
produces life doesn't it absolute life
makes babies but it also can produce
other things in this earth realm I want
to apologize for complaining about my
female boat the mask inside of me is
inpatient and monster weapon in a shape
but doesn't really matter because the
feminine is the feminine it's gonna do
what it's going to do it's going to
change whether we like it or not whether
it's within you or about and I think
that's why above has been called female
