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Women of reddit, what are your honest opinions
on giving blowjobs?
How much do you actually enjoy giving them?
If I’m allowed to take control?
Then yes.
If the guy has his colossal werewolf hands
clasped around the back of my head, and thrusting
into me like I’m a grapefruit?
Then no.
it 100% depends on my mood.
like if I'm feeling it then I'm going hard,
slobbin, deep throating, having a great time.
If I'm not then it's just like ugh my mouth
is only so deep, can you cum already??
I like giving them now because my significant
other likes it- it also helps that I’ve
given enough of them to be confident that
I’m not doing a terrible job.
I was never too keen on giving them in new
relationships or during hook ups because I
was self conscious about my skills and I find
them extremely intimate —I would be more
comfortable having sex with a guy before I
would give him a blowjob.
I enjoy it, but it depends on the guy, and
my mood, and typically more as foreplay.Smaller
to average men are more enjoyable to have
in my mouth.
Also it may be because he was uncircumcised,
but my last boyfriend was much easier to get
off with oral.
My current boyfriend and other guys I've given
blow jobs to, needed a lot of suction, at
a steady rhythm, for quite some time which
is really difficult and becomes painful after
awhile.Given that and the fact that it makes
me mad horny, I enjoy starting with oral but
then I want to get fucked.
I generally like it, I think it depends on
the guy’s reaction and our communication
though.
If a dude starts ramming my head down on his
dick, no, I’m not having fun.
For partners that communicate and tell me
what they like and want and let me go for
it, yeah I’ll do it all the time....
I didn't like it at all at first, it was just
gross in my opinion.
The smell, the taste, how much work it is.
Then I got a new boyfriend!That's the point
were I realized why I didn't like it.
- Wash your dick guys.Now, I just love it.
His facial expressions when I hit the right
spot, the little moans that he tries to keep
in and his trembling legs.
Nothing hotter than that....
I used to be enthusiastic about giving them,
but I don't know what happened.
Now I can't go for very long without my neck
cramping and my jaw locking up.
It's so painful.
I'm just here taking notes.
I like it, especially the first part where
it's all soft and squishy and you can fit
the whole thing in your mouth and it's like
pleasantly soft bubble gum.
Then when you can feel it getting bigger and
firmer and finally pop! right out the mouth.Not
a big fan of the end bit where you really
have to buckle down and get results.
Unless he's moaning and oh god, if he's moaning
and encouraging you and you are TO-GE-THER
on this project, holy fuck that's magical.
My husband loves them obviously.
So I enjoy it too.
And it's something I got quite good at so
I take random pride in that too lol
Just a friendly reminder that these people
are not as attractive as you are imagining
them...
I'm generally not a fan.
It makes my eyes water and my nose run.
Sometimes it tastes kind of bad.
I generally start gagging and feel like I'm
going to throw up after a bit.
I'm most down to do it when I'm drunk, but
that's also when the fear of throwing up is
the worst.That said, I'll reciprocate, and
I'll even initiate blow jobs sometimes (especially
when drunk).
But the only thing I like about giving them
is the reaction from the guy.
It's like cooking.
Sometimes I really enjoy putting in the effort
and will go the extra mile.
Maybe spice things up with a lime or two.
But other days it's like fuck bro just do
it yourself, there's pizza in the freezer.
Get ready for the top commenters to have their
accounts infiltrated by a ton of lonely redditors
trynna catch a glimpse of these sloppy knob
slobbers
I don't enjoy them at all.
I do it because I know he likes it, and in
return for him going down on me.
I don't find it absolutely repulsive or anything,
but it isn't my cup of tea.
The older i've got the more i enjoy giving
head.The look on the mans face/eye contact
when blowing him, the trembling legs, i love
playing and teasing the cock with my tongue
and mouth, maybe running my tongue down the
shaft of the cock, maybe suck or two the balls,
running my tongue back towards the tip, a
little bite of the thigh just before i place
my whole mouth around his dick, use your tongue,
make sure you suck the tip of the head and
use your tongue and hearing him moan.
Remember to use your hand at the base of the
cock if you can't get the whole thing in.I
find great joy in giving head
I don't hate it, but it needs to be clean
and I hate the taste of jizz.
I love that shit.
It’s one of my favorite thing’s to do
honestly.
It makes him feel good and that turns me on
even more.
Plus, it’s just hot in my opinion.
We swallow in this house.
I enjoy pleasing my partner, I like having
that control over his pleasure.But the act
itself I seriously dislike.
I hate gagging, I hate having it in my mouth,
and I hate how much hard work it is - controlling
gag reflexes, tongue placement, use of lips,
pace and rhythm, the taste, the texture, the
messiness, trying to breathe, strain on the
jaw, and constantly reminding myself to watch
the teeth.Insert cliche SATC quote here: Honey,
they don’t call it a job for nothing.
Honestly I don't enjoy it at all.
I love how my husband reacts to it.
His pleasure turns me on but the act itself
isn’t something I’d seek out.
It's OK.
It's not my favorite thing (the gagging is
a bit shit) but I never minded it.
But it definitely is more fun when the guy
is able to do both - orgasm from a blowjob
and then get hard again afterwards for sex.Unfortunately
a lot of guys when they get older, it's one
or the other.
It's not so much fun if after the blowjob
that's the end of proceedings.Lotta 21 year
old guys reading this think it'll never happen
to them cos right now that thing bounces back
like a wobble toy, but son I got news for
you.....
As a gay man I've learned 2 things reading
these comments.1.)
Straight women like sucking dick more than
us gays usually give them credit for.
However, the main compliant seems to be tired
jaws.
A tip for this is to focus less on creating
tons of suction and more on using your tongue,
as it's both less tiring and tends to be what
most men like more anyway.2.)
Straight men need to get better at washing
their dicks to get more blowjobs.
I am a (somewhat) late bloomer lesbian, but
before I figured that out I gave one once,
I think it was a very bad time for both of
us.Sorry Andrew, wherever you are.
Don't like it!
But it's not because I think it's "gross"
or something.
I would love to be able to do that for my
boyfriend but my mouth is just entirely too
fucking small.
It hurts my jaw pretty bad after a literal
minute because I just can't comfortably fit
it in, which makes it twice as hard to keep
my teeth off of it.
He says he doesn't like it anyways, but that's
probably largely because of the incompatibility
between his dick size and my mouth size considering
I'm the only person he's ever done anything
with to form that opinion.
I think I'd like it a lot more if it didn't
hurt, though(and he'd probably like it more
too, I'd imagine).
I do however know that even if it did fit
I could never swallow, the texture of the
stuff is just so off to me and I have a thing
w certain textures making me vomit.
I don't enjoy giving them.
The first person I was sexually active with
would push my head down and tell me to go
down on him.
I was new to sex, had never done it before,
was really nervous I would mess it up, and
was just generally uncomfortable with it.
Feeling forced to perform was super stressful
for me.
I think that shaped my view on them and I
haven't been able to enjoy giving them since.
My husband understands and is ok with it,
thankfully!
Nope.
Don't like it.
I have an awful gag reflex.
Me heaving and choking while attempting it,
isn't attractive.
Luckily my husband doesn't mind, and doesn't
ask for one.
Haha
Editing.
Ok.
Not ask for one necessarily, he's just told
me he knows I'm not into it and it's not an
issue.
There are plenty of ways I can give him pleasure
that don't involve me sucking him like a lollypop.Editing
again.
This isn't something that I just randomly
decided.
We have actually talked about it and he genuinely
is ok with me not giving him head.
He isn't that enamored with oral anyway.
Ok?
So can I stop getting advice on how to give
head now?
I don't want to do it.
He doesn't like it.
😴
I don't really enjoy it at all, but my boyfriend
likes it so I'll scoot on down and give it
my best with a smile.
I'm not confident in my skills, for example
I can't do the deep throat thing that he really
likes, but I try.I also know I'm not gonna
get mine if I go down on him, because he doesn't
last very long after that, and I've never
managed to make him finish that way either.
But it's part of the give and take of a healthy
relationship - I get to have multiple orgasms
on the regular, I can forfeit mine every so
often to make him happy.
I don't mind doing it I'm just not sure if
I'm good at it.edit: Is there a better way
to reply to all who commented?
anyway, thanks everybody!
After reading your replies I guess I'm just
not confident in my abilities.
I never had a guy complaint or rush anything
but I kinda thought they were just being nice,
because honestly I don't trust the opinion"
guys are easy to please", everybody is different
and when I'm dealing with intimacy I rather
not generalize :)
Weirdly enough, when I’m not getting laid
blowjobs are what I fantasize about the most,
even though I’m a girl.
Nothing better than looking into his eyes
mid-deepthroat and seeing a guy who looks
like his soul is exiting his body.
I don't mind giving them.
I have a tongue ring and am really quite good
at them.
But husband refuses to go down on me, so I
don't see why I should anymore.
Pretty depressing......
I don't like doing it anymore since jizz tastes
like battery acid and dicks smell nasty sometimes...
also seeing cum kinda makes me want to gag
😂
Not a girl but one time I sucked my own dick,
to anyone wondering what it tastes like it’s
the same as any other bit of skin
I really only give blowjobs to someone I know
and trust.
Not a one night stand thing for me.
Mostly just because I don't like guys eating
me out unless I know them.
I'm a bit weird about that.That's not to say
I don't love giving blowjobs.
It's really fun for me.
I can honestly get off to them.
I like the feel of a cock in my mouth.
I like seeing his legs tremble and hearing
him moan.
If I'm really into it, I'll be taking as much
as I can and completely be going after it.
Not to mention the tasty finish.
Not that much but I do like it when I can
feel he's enjoying it and I hear him moan
As long as it's clean!
I like that it's a bit of a control trip,
nothing like bringing him to the point, then
easing back....and doing that again...and
again...and again...when you finally let them
blow, they'll not give you any trouble for
days, lol
RIP inboxes of all women commenting on this
thread
what i got from this thread: women are ok
with giving BJ's depending on the circumstances,
the "enjoyment" that comes from it is the
satisfaction of making your partner happy.i
imagine it's the same idea for giving cunnilingus
to a girl, not the most pleasant experience
but some men will like it because it makes
their partner happy.
Lot of my partners said I was really good
at them (some said best) but I do not like
giving them.
My mouth hurts and I have sensitive gagging
reflex.
So when I give you a blowjob it means that
I have a feelings for you.
Not really my thing.
I don't think I'm very good at it and also
have been discouraged from it with feedback
of "teeth!!!"
Instant blowjob mood killer lol
I like it....it makes him happy, it's good
exercise for facial muscles, and you get a
tasty protein injection as a reward.
There’s a quote from Sex and the City
“They don’t call it a job for nothing!”
It’s a lot of work.
And sometimes I am in the mood for them.
But my husband would rather me give him a
blowjob than have sex with me.
Having sex takes all of 10mins.
A blowjob can go on for 20mins, if I allowed
it.
After 8 mins straight, my neck hurts, my jaw,
my wrists.
I’m over it.
So then I tell him I can’t do this any more
and we “have to” have sex.I used to think
that he just didn’t like having sex with
me, but after being on Reddit and reading
a lot of the guys posts, I realize that my
blowjobs involve a lot of physical pressure,
squeezing, rolling, sucking hard.
So I get that it feels a lot better than just
a warm vagina.
I hate the way that as a woman you're freaking
expected to give them, even if you don't like
doing so
I really love giving blow jobs, but only when
the other person communicates that they’re
enjoying it.
Like if they’re silent with a neutral look
I don’t enjoy it.
I know some people aren’t talkers or make
no sounds when they do stuff like that, but
I’d like a little encouragement because
I really do love giving them.
I hated them for years, mostly due to my first
hetero relationship being an abusive one.
blowjobs were my 'punishment' for any potential
slight.
Often, they were punishment for dreams he
had where I cheated on him.
Blow jobs were coerced and sometimes forced,
not optional.
I was young, vulnerable, and stupid.
I got out of that one but had a really difficult
time performing in that department for years.My
husband heard my story and never pushed me.
Not once.
He would ask or suggest at times, but if I
said no he never got even the slightest bit
shitty about it.
Over time, we grew to where I don't connect
it with that history anymore.
I now love giving him head because I love
making him feel good.
It gives me a sense of power knowing that
I can make him feel that good, and it is all
up to me.
I am reclaiming that part of sex and it is
so empowering to give my husband a treat that
literally brings him to his knees.He still
never asks, because of my history, but he
is very happy these days.
Why the fuck you all asking these cringey
ass questions today?
Get a life dude
Wife doesn’t like giving them, hasn’t
in about 12 years.
I’m ok with that but jeez, I wish she would
just grab it and play with it once in a while.
I like giving her head but she doesn’t like
that either, so I’m “allowed” to about
twice a year if I ask really nicely.
She says she enjoys the feeling but just can’t
get her head around it mentally.
Massive cause of angst for me.
Sums up our sex life really.
Ugh.
