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Hello friends my name is Sahil Khanna,yiu are watching Intellectual Indies
Today we will talk about confidence..how will you judge a person is confident or not  by his body language?
And you can imitate or show fake body language to show that you are cofident
You are scared from inside but still you can show you are confident
So keep watching this video,we will talk about this today
Most of you know that 70% of our communication is non-verbal,i.e through body language
Like while I am talking I am moving my hand or whatever this is a part of my body language
I have a direct eye contact or anything..all these are part of body language
So the first tip here is Body Posture
Basically you have to expand your body..thats the logic
More compressing your body,more non-confident you look
Like I have folded my hand or put them in pocket, opened my hands..in short you have to show open body postures
Open as much as you can...one more thing is there with this open thing
Many of us has problem of round shoulders..now whats that?
All computer technology people sit in front of computer whole day due to which they bend
Due to which their shoulders bend inwards like you can see in the photo
Due to which your body takes less area
Again the same rule,you are not covering much area so not looking more confident
So what you have to do is make your area broad
There are many exercises for this you can see in youtube and your round shoulders can  improve
I will tell you hack..lets say you have round shoulders and you dont have time to do exercise but you have to show that you are confident in an interview
So what you have to do is take your shoulders backwards
Basically try to attach the back two bones
As you will join..your round shoulders will vanish and you will cover more area
Lets talk abou neck now,some people bend their neck while talking
So here they are showing I am submissive and I am scared
Some people move their neck upwards..here it shows arrogance
So you have to try to keep your neck parallel i.e. straight while talking
This tip must be told to you by everyone,eye contact is the most important tip
You have to look into the eyes..now it doesnt mean that keep watching them constant like this
You dont move your eyes..here comes the 80-20 rule
It says 80% you have to look into the eyes and 20% you can look around
If there is smile in your face then thats the best thing, it shows you dont have any tension and you are confident
But try not to show teeth..if you smile like that then the opposite person will think you are fake
How can someone show his teeth 24 hours?
So try to keep a happy face..try in front of mirror
Here one more thing is body movement..you have to basically walk in slow motion
Now am not saying like cockrage..basically you dont have to run...said by body language experts
But acc to me if you walk slow,then your life becomes slow
And those who move fast get achievements faster in life
These are psychological game
If you see someone entering slowly either in college, ramp walk..confidence is shown but those who enter fast..no cinfidence is shown
So if you are going for interview and walk fast..then be slow and show them that you can walk slow as well
No problem..so I am repeating all the points
Not all,repeating the most important that keep open postures
Cover as much area as you can..
This is the most important tip..so with these tips you can judge whether a person is confident or not
If you are talking with someone then you can check his level of confidence
If you are an interviewer you can tell what his body language is saying
And you can check body language of interviewer if he is confident enough to take your interview
If he will ask some cross question? I will tell one more thing..there are some strange body movements like movement of legs,pressing of hands like this
Move pen or anything processing continuously..that means his confidence is gone
So friends these were the tips which can help you in judging level of confidence of a person
You can apply this in your life so that the other person think you are very confident
I know that you are confident but it must be shown as well
So follow these tips and your life will change..so bye good night shabba khair khuda hafiz
