Hi friends I am Niharika and welcome back
to a new lesson. Today we are gonna look at
five body language tricks that would make
anyone instantly like you. Now definitely,
It's important that people should like us.
It kind of boosts up our confidence. So most
of the people that I meet are very much in
love with themselves, very much interested
in themselves. So how do we capture and hold
their attention towards our conversation or
towards us without saying a word. Well, its
a wonderful body that would help to capture
and hold their attention. So we are gonna
look at these ways to win friends and to influence
people.
The first trick that I have for you is, The
flooding smile. Please do me a favour, please
smile. Definitely It's very important to smile.
Now of course this doesn't mean that you keep
grinning all day long, keep grinning that
would not help. That would not impress people
either, because they would think that you
do this for everyone. So not that impressive,
what you need to do is the moment you greet
people, give a very positive warm responsive
smile. So the smile should flood over your
face and that would stipulate good feelings.
It would give a very positive feeling to the
opposite person and will show that you are
really happy and your'e feeling very glad
to meet this person. So do smile, because
it works.
The second trick that I have for you is, Sticky
eyes. So what are sticky eyes? Well, eyes
are the most important part of our body and
here what I mean is don't break eye contact.
Now when you are talking to someone pretend
that you are completely glued to the conversation.
Like your eyes are completely glued to the
conversation that you're having with the opposite
person. So this brings a little bit of confidence
in the opposite person, that Oh yes he's listening
to him, to me and he is very interested in
what I am saying, so this would make him or
her to like you instantly. Now even when the
conversation ends, do not just look away.
What you need to do is reluctantly or slowly
look away from that person that you are talking
to, so which means that don't break your eye
contact instantly.
The third trick that I have for you is the,
Big baby pivot. Now here what I mean is people
are very concious that how a person would
react to them, so when you meet someone make
sure that you turn completely, turn your body,
keep your head straight and your torso sell
straight, when you are meeting someone. You
don't have to just look back and say hello
to him, that's not right. So give a completely
undivided attention like you would do it for
a baby. If a baby crawls up to you and you
know is trying to seek attention, of course
with open arms and with a straight body, you
are gonna give him that undivided attention.
So that's what even every adult likes. He
will be highly impressed, if you do that,
complete attention is what everybody loves.
The forth trick that I have for you is, Limit
the fidget. So here what I mean is, if you
want to appear credible, do not move much,
when you are having a conversation with someone,
not professional and definitely not appreciated
by anybody, so do not move much. Also stop
fidgeting with your hands, like stop wiggling
or even stop scratching like many people have
a habit of scratching, while they are talking
or you know scratching in this manner, doesn't
look good at all. So please stop that, also
even if you are really tempted to look at
your phone to see what emails have you received
or what messages have you received. Stop multitasking,
please give or please be attentive to the
conversation that your'e having, this would
impress the opposite person.
The fifth and the last trick that I have for
you is, Use your hands. Hands the most important
part of a body, do use them. Well, do not
cross your hands, crossing your hands or your
arms shows disinterest or boredom. Are you
really bored of a conversation? Well, yes
then you can cross your hands, just kidding
but do use your hands, when you are talking
to someone. In fact I read it somewhere that
when you use your hands, while you are talking.
It helps active speech production, which means
it helps you to take those words out, you
know your mind is set that you have to use
these words or use this vocabulary. So it's
the hands that help you to take it out of
your mouth, so do use it. Do not stand straight
or do not cross your hands, while you are
talking to someone.
So this brings me to the end of this session.
Do use these tips, because our body language
definitely speaks out better. People will
like you, if you end up using these tricks,
if you end up using all your body gestures
in a wonderful manner and of course, do subscribe
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for you. Till then you take care...
