Hello, I am Kumar Bahl.
Most of us have experienced moments of success
in our lives regardless of their importance
and relevance at the time.
We can all remember a time when we jumped
with joy, clapped, and celebrated something.
A feeling of elation, fulfillment, or achievement.
But why these moments of success are so few
and far in between and probably never for
a few.
Let me share some insights that might help
you change all this and achieve success.
So, please keep on watching.
You see, success is much closer to reach than
you think.
Anything is possible in this world, but it
all depends on who you are, how badly you
want it, how quickly you learn from your mistakes
and how cleverly you plan and execute your
next approach.
As many of you may have noticed success does
not come just because you wish for it.
But why is it than some of us seem to get
it very easily? and for many it remains a
distant dream.
In my humble opinion, there are three types
of people in the world.
A, B, and C
Type A: are the ones “who touch anything,
and it turns into gold.”
Well, contrary to popular belief, they are
far from being lucky or fortunate.
Instead, they are very alert and observant;
they see an obstacle or an opportunity far
before anyone else.
They quickly understand the situation.
They rely on their past experiences including
their mistakes and failures.
They adjust their plans according to the situation
at hand, they are not afraid to take risks,
they retry with a new approach and Boom, they
are successful every time.
Type B: are the ones who are not as cunning,
nor do they think as quick, but they do acknowledge
and accept their shortcomings.
They quickly learn an important fact that
they cannot do it alone, so they look around
and find the right people, they ask for their
guidance and help and follow the given advice.
Then, they narrow the gap and achieve success
to the best of their abilities.
Lastly, Type C: on the other hand, are the
people who are neither naturally gifted, nor
do they ask for any guidance or help and for
that matter they do not listen to anyone else.
In fact, they think they know it all and they
can do it all by themselves.
The result in each case is obvious but they
go around and blame everything under the sun
but themselves.
Worst yet, for example, these are the people
who will tell their doctors or mechanics how
to do their jobs but refuse to follow the
expert advice from these professionals.
Think of a friend or a family member who tries
their best all their lives without much to
show in the end.
Then there are those who do not even try out
of fear of failure or lack confidence.
They fail not because of lack of effort, in
fact, they work harder than most, but because
they refuse to accept defeat and failure,
they refuse to adapt and make necessary changes
needed for success.
Their ego, their narcissism or some other
superstition or belief system prevent them
from seeking help and correct their obvious
mistakes.
They fail like everyone else, but they also
fail to learn from their mistakes, hence they
double their efforts and try the same approach
again and with extra vigor and fail again.
Speaking of failing, it is not bad to fail;
failing is part of life.
The road to any successful destination runs
through many stops of failure.
To fail is an especially important lesson
in life.
But It is vitally important to learn from
those mistakes quickly, adjust accordingly,
and try a different approach.
Albert Einstein, the Genius once said, “The
definition of insanity is doing the same thing
over and over again but expecting different
results.”
You see, proper preparation is required before
you head off to any journey, success is no
different.
I would highly recommend, before you embark
upon achieving any success, first do a self-evaluation
of your own personal type.
If you are Type B, learn from Type A, if you
are Type C, it is not that bad, you can change
it all.
Just listen to Albert Einstein’s words.
And if you are already type A, God Speed.
And one last thing.
Not every battle in life needs to be fought
head on, in some cases losing in fact could
be winning in the end.
Think about it.
I thank you for listening, and please do not
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for more tips for a Healthy Mind.
Good Luck for a successful Journey ahead.
