so does he came back with yet another
video about ksi and deji PewDiePie thinks it
does you should get off the internet and
keemstar made as PewDiePie would say and
oopsy what is up everybody this is Chris
from the rewired so where we talk about
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to talk about the newest edgy video and
my thoughts on it so just quick TL DR
for those of you who don't know Dougie
and ksi they've been going back and
forth for months now months and months
and months and something that we've all
learned is to keep your private stuff
off of YouTube especially when you have
millions of millions of followers you
know the last thing was ksi responded to
veggies as you said he was done with it
and like a week two weeks passed and all
of a sudden Benji came out with this new
video and in this video it is it is an
absolute mess alright so anyways let's
talk about keemstar first so keemstar on
john alert he covered this and he ended
up taking his video down and i think for
the first time ever like that I've
apologized for something he was saying
about mental health but I had to get
this video out I wanted to talk more
about the video that I uploaded
yesterday that I privatized now the
reason why I did that is because well I
got a lot of negative feedback from you
guys a lot of you guys were upset about
I would say a good 30 maybe even 40
percent of you were mad at me for
yesterday's video and a lot of you
thought that I
making fun of mental health which I was
not I was making fun of the people that
use mental health as a shield to deflect
blame you know we see it all the time
here on YouTube I was in a dark place I
was in a dark place we see mental health
being used as a way to get out of blame
and that's what's that that was my joke
I literally said hey you guys throw the
rules of the internet if you suffer from
mental health then you're not
responsible for anything you do I don't
think it's my fault and I'm not sorry
for the joke but I am sorry for the
basis of the joke I messed up yesterday
so yeah he did he just kept repeating it
over and over and over about blaming
mental health blaming me blaming mental
health so a few things from that
situation when it comes to mental health
OHS of you who are new to my channel
decreases stigma so first off the way
Deji said it I don't think it was in the
way that keemstar took it right
keemstar took it as Deji saying like you
know he's doing what he's doing because
of his mental health the way I perceived
it is that desi was really upset and
saying this whole situation is affecting
his mental health as it would affect
anybody it's like just to explain like
Kim stark took his video down and made a
brand new video because the reaction he
got from his first video affected teen
stars mental health you see what I mean
like sins affect our mental health on a
daily basis maybe you're late to work
maybe you got a crappy text message or
an email or whatever it is all sorts of
things affect our mental health so I
don't think Deji was trying to use that
as an excuse in the way keemstar was
saying it now for like the rest of us
like this is something we need to talk
about like what I try to teach people
and when I try to explain for my my own
situations and my mental health
struggles is like I don't want to use my
mental health as an excuse but I do like
to give it as an explanation for certain
things like for example I've been
diagnosed with a generalized anxiety
disorder when my anxiety is really going
I get
like just snappy and kind of crabby and
things like that and I've made videos
about this one in the past but I
communicate that with my beautiful
girlfriend Tristan or my son or what I'm
gonna say listen like just so you know
if I feel a little like irritable it's
not you I just have stuff going on in my
head you know what I mean and I'm not
using it as an excuse I'm using it as an
excellent explanation so although I
disagree with keemstar 90% of the time
when it comes to mental health subjects
like I will tell you this right now if
you are using your mental health as an
excuse to be a dick like uh-uh you need
to cut that out like like that in my
opinion perpetuates the stigma like
that's why people don't want to
empathize with people struggling with
mental health issues because like oh I
just have a mental illness like one of
the reasons I started this channel
originally and started talking about
mental health so much discussed I was so
tired of reading articles of like hey I
have a mental illness you just got to
deal with it like that is such a crappy
way to do these things you know what I
mean like we need to take responsibility
and ownership for our mental health we
need to work on it like having mental
health issues does not give an excuse to
run around being a dick to people all
right
so anyways like I just wanted to clarify
my thoughts on that situation with
keemstar
and what he was saying but overall with
like keemstar like although that's kind
of his intention I think what he's
saying like don't use like mental health
as an excuse like keemstar is just not
good when it comes to talking about
mental health videos about that in the
past alright so next pewdiepie in his
new video he covered the dougie and ksi
story just briefly he said he's done
talking about it
and everything but he also said that
dezzy should get off YouTube for a while
despite Daisy's flaws I do like him in a
way he's he has a lot here you have some
likeable qualities okay I hate to see
him like this
I think this has clearly gone too far
Deji please take a break you'll be fine
it's time to take a break from YouTube
this is
it's not a good idea i 1000% agree i
1000% agree riley like hey it's one of
the reasons i had to take a break a
couple months ago like I couldn't stop
myself right I couldn't manage my
emotions things were going on and I had
to step away from YouTube for a little
bit but when I look at Deji
what I look at dougie I see something
that so many of us deal with and it's
it's this lack of acceptance it's trying
to fight against the stream of life
right like he wants so bad
like he craves so bad for his brother
for ksi to just admit that he was wrong
he was at fault and everything was his
fault like that's what dead you want
right but when we hold on to that anger
when we hold on to that resentment and
we expect that from another person we
are creating our own misery right and
that's what I see right like obviously I
don't know Deji but when I see him like
keep flaring up and making these videos
going back and talking about it I could
feel the frustration that he has and he
wants to tell his side of the story and
explain things cuz he feels wrong he
feels hurt he he explained this in his
video too he said my perception how I
feel and here's the thing here's what we
all need to understand Mike just because
we perceive it doesn't necessarily mean
it's the reality for example when I'm in
a really bad mood of having a terrible
mood again if somebody comes with words
like hey Chris how you doing like my
mind be like what you just say to me
right like just because I perceive it as
then being a jerk to me doesn't mean
that's the reality of it and I think
that's an issue that a lot of us have is
that we try to justify how we feel there
comes a certain point there comes a
certain point where we have to pause we
have to step back and say okay all my
emotions is my emotional response like
justified for what happened you know
what I mean or is there a different
angle this is why I highly recommend you
talk to other people like you talk to
your support group because like there's
been instances where I'm like a boss
email me or somebody like message me
and like I interpret it in an insane way
like I can get a messed up mental filter
you know what I mean I have to show it
to somebody else and say hey did you
take this message of this email in the
same way I did and sometimes like a
photo failure was like no like what are
you talking about acting crazy right now
you know what I mean don't get me wrong
like desi has been hurt in this
situation but like one of the lessons I
want to talk about it's like letting go
like letting go like how much time how
much time do we waste how much time do
we let something rent space in our head
that is over and done with from years
ago like we're sitting in 2019 right now
and we're witnessing Deji you know
holding onto a resentment for something
that happened in 2016 and it is just
festering inside of him you know like we
have to work on forgiveness we have to
work on letting go like when I try to
teach people something that I learned is
we often think and this is mainly due to
our pride and ego we think that
forgiveness is letting the other person
off the hook but what I've learned is
forgiveness is letting ourselves off the
hook right like I was dragging around so
many resentments towards people like
people who screwed with me when I was
like younger in middle school in high
school
ex-girlfriends from like five ten years
ago all these things right all these
things were renting space in my head and
finally when I just forgave them in my
mind and let go of that anger like ah it
felt so much better okay because here's
the thing people might initially hurt us
but then us holding on to that grudge we
perpetuate our own misery our own
suffering it is our choice whether or
not we are going to let go and move
forward all right now I understand
that's a little bit more difficult with
family members and things like that and
there's a a whole nother video that
could be made about boundaries and all
that kind of good stuff
but I hope as you're watching this desi
ksi thing that keeps going back and
forth like you're looking at your own
life
saying like oh my god I wonder like when
I watched edgy like having a breakdown
on camera like I'm sitting I'm like do I
still act like that in my life like what
do I need to do to not do these things
how do I let go how do I forgive how do
I not be so impulsive and so emotional
you know what I mean like we have to be
learning lessons from these things that
we're watching go down here on the
YouTube platform alright but let me know
down in the comments below like do you
have a hard time you know letting go of
things or if you want to talk about you
know the previous subject like do you
ever use your mental health as an excuse
to be a dick to people do you take
responsibility
do you take ownership let's have a
conversation down below alright anyways
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