Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.
Today, we’re showing 10 of those fun keep-you-guessing
signs that shy girls use to show they like
you
And because we don’t want you to mistake
disinterest for shyness like a lot of guys
do,
We’re also showing 1 commonly misinterpreted
sign that may mean a girl doesn’t like you,
instead of just being shy.
So.... here are the 10 signs a shy girl likes
you + 1 unreliable sign that should never
be depended on.
10.She Lurks
One of the first things a shy girl might do
to make you wonder if she’s into you
...is maintain a steady, play-it-safe presence
near the perimeter.
Where a more outgoing girl might make it easy
by coming right up to you and saying hi,
shy girls tend to stay at an ambiguous, incredibly
neutral distance that’s not too close, not
too far...
...And doesn’t do much to help you know
that she’s actually interested.
9.She Eavesdrops
Another interesting tactic used by shy girls
to get a guy’s attention,
is to go all in on eavesdropping on your conversation.
Where a more well-adjusted girl might acknowledge
overhearing something funny or interesting,
a shy girl might just smile or quietly laugh
to herself.
8. She’s Got a
Dominant Digital Persona
Otherwise known as keyboard flirting:
When a girl tends to talk a lot online or
by text,
but not as much face-to-face, she probably
likes you...
...but can only relax enough to flirt when
she’s behind a screen.
Truth be told,
A strong digital persona that’s inconsistent
with her quiet demeanor is textbook social
anxiety
...And a classic sign that you’ve got the
attention of a shy girl.
7. You Cool Down Her Social Circle
Have you ever had a group of girls go a little
quiet as soon as you came around?
If that sounds like you:
you might be in highschool,
...but you might also be dealing with a shy
girl who was just talking about you with her
friends.
6. Inconsistent Verbal and Body Language
One of the defining, signature traits of shy
girls,
Is body language that doesn’t always match
up to what they’re saying.
In fact, her body language might be so at
odds with the words coming out of her mouth,
That you’re not sure you can get a read
on her at all.
So if it seems like she sounds interested,
but her body is saying she’s uncomfortable
That might be because she doesn’t want to
commit to flirtatious body language that guys
look for.
5. Low PDA
Another characteristic of shy girls that makes
guys wonder if they really like them,
is that shy girls don’t really do public
displays of affection (or PDA) all that well.
Because most guys tend to need some degree
of physical touch to know when a girl likes
her,
Shy girls who don’t engage physically, can
be especially confusing to flirt with.
4. Muted Flirting
When you put it all together,
Shy girls just don’t flirt like the rest.
Which means that a lot of the time:
You’re probably going to be dealing with
some muted flirting.
So what’s that mean exactly?
Well, muted flirting, is actually a lot like
normal flirting,
except where normal flirting tends to actually
make it pretty obvious a girl likes you,
Muted flirting has a 50/50 chance of going
the way a shy girl sees is it her head
...and a 50/50 chance of leaving guys wondering
what’s wrong with her.
Truth be told
It’s hard to nail down exactly what it is.
But if it seems like a girl wants to flirt,
but also kinda doesn’t...
...It’s probably because she’s shy and
flirting doesn’t come that naturally.
Just a quick break to remind you that at the
end of this video,
We’re going to show one misleading sign
that guys often think is just a girl being
shy...when it’s actually not.
So to make sure you don’t mistake a girl
who just doesn’t like you, for a shy girl...
Stay tuned til the end of this video.
Now let’s finish with the last 3 on our
list.
3. She Gets Wing-Girled
Because a shy girl won’t always come out
and do it herself,
Her friends might have to come with the assist
and gauge your interest for her.
So if it seems like you’ve all of a sudden
got a girl’s friends testing the waters,
that’s one of the most common signs that
Little Miss Shy Girl’s got a crush on you.
2. Indirect Opportunities to Hang out
Because shy girls don’t always want to put
themselves out there, if they want to hang
out
...They might go about making it happen in
some less-than-obvious ways.
Maybe she asks you to help her with something,
maybe she offers to help you, or maybe
...She just tries to end up where you’ll
be without making it clear she wants to see
you.
However she does it, if she suggests doing
stuff, but doesn’t ever just want to hang
out
That’s shy-girl flirting 101.
1. She Always Breaks Eye Contact First
Where a confident, extroverted girl will acknowledge
your gaze with authority,
A shy girl tends to worry more about making
things weird when she makes eye contact.
Because she’s got to look, but gets embarrassed
when she gets caught
A girl who’s shy will almost always break
eye contact before you do.
I know what you’re thinking:
There must be a lot of shy girls out there.
While it’s true that shy girls are all over
the place,
You don’t want to make the mistake of confusing
shyness,
With normal disinterest.
So how do we avoid the confusion?
Unfortunately, it’s still bound to happen
from time to time but there is one thing that
should make it pretty clear a girl isn’t
just being shy:
And that’s a complete avoidance of eye contact.
Where even a shy girl might look up, if a
girl has no interest in you, or any other
guy in that moment.
She’s probably not going to really acknowledge
anybody.
Those are the 10 signs a shy girl likes you
and the #1 thing that doesn’t mean what
you think.
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