This  is black and yellow guys.
I'm markel, Im Vy and we're back
with another one (LAUGHING), you ain't gonna add on ?
NO (Laughing)
Ok guys, so what are we doing today
Today we are Vloging guys,
We are going to a place called Mayfield lavendar Farm (Surrey England)
You‘re going to see in a second
but it's basically just a place where
they harvest flowers and there's
long rows of
lavender and it just looks
beautiful, it looks nice it looks serene
and um yeah me and Vy said eff it let's
go spend the day there let's um
get some fresh air yeah but guys stay
tuned man
me and Vy want to talk to you guys today
as well about abundancy
and scarcity mindsets
so let's get it going
Alright guys so me and Vy is here,
we're chilling in the fields as you can
see, look how beautiful that is guys,
that is lovely.
It's a massive field as well
Literally i feel like we're just in our
zen right now like we're just
we're just chilling we're just in our
our zone you know i'm trying to say hey
babe
but how are you feeling babe do you like
it here?
yeah i love it,  i love lavender, i
love um how big it is, i love the colors
everything
it's beautiful and at the moment as well
i think we went at the end of the season
so um usually it's even more vibrant
than this.
It's more colorful
yeah and this is only half the farm that
we're showing you
um because they harvested the first, the
top half. Whoa!
That’s a bee!
You know it's because of your top
your top's colorful as hell
No its the lavender babe
He's seeing you as like a
flower, he's like rah what's this new flower
here in the field
It’s cos am sweet.
Sure um but yeah guys
the bees are terrorizing Vy right now
guys
Alright guys, yeah um so today
we're in this serene atmosphere and i
feel like we need a serene
topic
so guys we all know 2020
is a write-off, like everyone knows that
everyone knows that
this year has been a mad year. There's
wildfire, there's everything
Coronavirus there's everything that you could imagine right
so it's natural to say ‘you know what
forget this year’ i'm gonna restart next year
Do new year resolution all that jazz there right
but i think we still have the rest of
the year 
to make something of it like don't write
off this year just yet, 
yeah you know what i mean
and guys you know you have to also
try to realize that
sometimes the most beautiful structures,
the most beautiful things are created
out of destruction,
you know, when people are renovating
their house guys, do they
just build on top of what they have? or
usually, don't the builders come in and
they rip down old walls rip out old
lighting and rip down old brick and build it new
you know what i'm trying to say guys so,
you know in life we all go through these
times when things ain't looking right everything is
looking on a downward slope but then guys the
way you got to see it is is that now
we can only go up from here. I've lost my
job, a relative has passed away you know what
i'm trying to say guys
um i'm grinding for my dream it's not
working out, the year has messed it up
but guys onwards and upwards
and that's why you know i really want to
stress abundancy versus scarcity mindset guys
So what is scarcity and abundancy mindset
So scarcity mindset is when
you are always in competition with
someone else, right you always believe
that
um in this well of wealth or in this
well of success
there's only a limited amount and so
for you to be able to succeed it means
that you have to quickly go and grab it
because if you don't grab it someone
else will grab it yeah
D’you know what i mean. So you're always in competition with someone else
You’re always trying to find ways to better
yourself
compared to other people right
and what we're trying to say is have an abundancy mindset
what is abundancy mindset? You break it down bubba
so abundancy mindset guys is an
individual that understands
that there is enough to go around for
everybody. Let me give you an example guys
Me and Vy we're a youtube couple right
are we the only youtube couple?
no we understand that that many
thousands of youtube couples can be
successful and have good channels
Whereas like Vy said, if i
had a scarcity, the complete opposite
we will be always currently battling
other channels
to try and get over on them do you know
what i'm trying to say
yeah and that's not the case you know.
So guys you know just just make sure you
do keep that abundancy mindset,
especially in 2020 where
resources are low people are losing
their jobs you know,
don't let the situation you find yourself in
change you
don't let the situation you
find yourself
in you know bring out a character in you
that won't be um (beneficial)
 That yeah that won't be beneficial
to your growth, you know what i'm trying
to say guys um
and not only that like i think it's good
to have competition but have competition
within yourself yeah
always try to better yourself,
yeah always try to say okay
well i am at this state of mind, at this
moment in time,
financially i'm here um and my personal
like mental growth is here at the moment,
in one month's time, two months time, six
months time, a year's time
where do i want to go? what is my
financial status?
then what is my mindset status then,
how can i improve it, then work towards
that you know i mean always
better yourself rather than looking
around you and seeing
oh who's doing what. What's my
competition? who's my competition?
no it should be within yourself
and that's all it is but guys
you know just keep safe guys
keep grinding hard times are gonna come
things might get harder but you know
what guys
sometimes things need to be destroyed in
order to be rebuilt better
you know what i'm trying to say guys, um you know if you live in a two-bedroom flat
guys you know
that ain't gonna become Buckingham
palace by keeping a two-bedroom flat
sometimes you have to knock down that
whole goddamn structure and build it
back up brick by bloodclart brick
understand that you get me guys
we love you here at Black and Yellow
guys we appreciate all your support
me and Vy  is going to start walking
around again, enjoy this atmosphere as you can see
Just the most of it before the rain comes
Yeah it's meant to be raining
today guys so we got up early and we
said yeah man we need to experience this,
You get me, but yeah man let's go
yo yo yo me and Vy just taking a little
stroll
guys you know what yeah the camera ain't
even doing this setup justice you know
i'm not even gonna lie the camera just
has the thing looking all gloom and doom
You know what i'm trying to say
but it's so beautiful here
No it’s mad beautiful guys, it’s mad beautiful, seriously
You know like
look at that
anyway back down to earth
yeah guys as you can see
the size difference with me and Vy bare  technical issues init
it's hard to vlog as well
yeah it is,  it is, that's why right now i'm just trying to
keep my arm extended
it's crazy but guys sometimes you just
need to take a little walk you just need
to get a little fresh air
You get me, sometimes we're stuck in the
room, we're just stuck on our phones
we're stuck on our computers and i do
understand it, we're in the digital age,
the age of information, 
but you know guys sometimes we really
just need to enjoy the roses, you know what am trying to say
we really need to enjoy the tulips
you know  what i'm trying to say
Just enjoy life man you know,
but how are you feeling baby, would you
come back here though babe?
yeah 100% recommend it here um i think it's
better when it's a sunny day,
just so you can sit around a bit more
because they have a cafe as well,
yeah um and they do like lavender shortbread
lovely cakes and stuff
Babe we're gonna have to go there you know
We might go there and check it out
yeah um but i'm just enjoying being
outside
so much that i don't even want to go
i don't even want to go home as well to be honest with you
but nah it's nice, it's nice, it's like
it's a shame that is i'm gonna rain
today because we could have actually
just made it all day thing because look as you guys
can see with the clouds in my background
guys like you can tell man that's ready
to unleash a mad ting on the field, you get me
Yeah but i find like if it
is a sunny day though it will be quite
packed here
because it's so seasonal this area i
think it seems like from
june till august um that the lavender
really blooms
(Okay)  that you can go here and actually see it um
so during this time i think it gets so
busy if it was
a sunny day like today's cloudy and
there's still quite a few people
as you can see like there's a few people
dotted around the field guys i don't
know if you can see but yeah no you're
right babe, you're right, you're right ,but
anyway guys like i said we're gonna go
check this cafe out
we're gonna see what little treats we
have
yeah, yep baby don't blame me if i get on bad in there you know
buying up all type of cake (why u going to get on bad?) 
Buying up all kind of cakes and all kind of madness in there, you get me
I don't mind
but um guys, stay tuned, stay tuned, stay tuned
Alright guys, so we've got lavender
scones
And we also got these shortbread as well
It Lavender flavoured as well
Lavender shortbread flavoured
biscuits so they should be nice
lavender lemonade
Go on babes, show the cupcake (you know what guys i'm
so sorry the bees around here are just
crazy) Lavender cupcake
the bees around here. Yeah
and just Lavender tea
so we're just gonna try them and let you
know how it is, yh
Yh man but hopefully it’s um
it's half decent let's try this and see
how's the lemonade babe?
the lemonade is alright you know, try some
the lemonade's actually half decent
it tastes very rich though
yeah it's very, very rich
i like my tea
this lavender tea is good though (Oh is that nice?) It’s very, very calming
yeah
oh yeah because lavender is meant
to be like calming and
like relaxing, like a good vibe like
I think some people put it under their
pillow to help them sleep
Oh is it? (Yeah)
you know what actually, some, some year
some years ago i had a lady that gifted
me this lavender flower
i remember, i told you and she was like
every time you feel yourself
like losing your temper or something she
said sniff it
because she says when you sniff lavender
um
she says it releases these um chemicals
inside the brain or something like that
that promote um relaxation.
you know what the joke thing is, when you go
on the camera, you can't even see the
flies on the camera (it's the bees, it’s not even flies)
Nah babe am going in the car, sorry babes. I can’t even do it
Alright guys we're gonna go in the car because the bees are everywhere bees are everywhere
nah sorry guys i had to come back in the
Nah sorry guys, I have to come back in the car brUv
yeah because obviously we're in
a lavender field init
and there’s bees everywhere, like i'm
moving around guys i'm trying to talk on camera
and the bees are just all around me like
i couldn't concentrate and guys you know
with bees init
Bee starts stinging, bee starts stinging
and i'm not looking to get any bumps and
bulges and all of them thing there
yeah it was nice
can you taste the lavender?
a little bit not really but a little bit
i can taste something different like
ain’t usually in a scone but it's nice
yeah it's soft, it's really soft
because some scones really make your jaw work
you know the ones you can get from Asda and all that
mmm should we do cupcake?
yeah well
Is it nice?
standard cupcake
no man cupcake dead
the cupcake dead the um
i can't taste the lavender in this at all
no but the the actual cake in there is rubbish
it's dry, very dry cake, no it's dead, about alright, that's not alright, that’s dead
You want to try the shortbread?
These are nice
There’s a bit of a weird taste to it though
I think they’ve gone too far with the Lavender you know, everything but
I get it,  they’re trying keep to the theme init
but alright guys, i hope you like this
vlog sort of
chat sort of thing, if you like more of
these just let us know
and we're happy to go to different
places to check it out in :ondon
yeah um if you're in london
come and check this out guys there's a
nice family spot, if you've got kids,
if you just got a boyfriend or a
girlfriend come with your partner,
chill walk talk about life. It’s a good vibe guys
be one with nature i'll definitely
recommend it. The cafe meehh but the actual place itself lovely, lovely
Yeah man, this is another video by black and yellow guys
and we're out bye
