**Origins**

New York City.The city that never

sleeps. I had many encounters with

women. Not sexually, but I'll spare you

the details. We're here to learn about the

evolution of a man who has dealt with

women almost all his life. (I am still

living so I can't say all my life). And I

am that man. Ever since I started school

women were my major interest. When I

was 5 years old I knew they were

different from me. And I noticed that.

fascination with the understanding of

women. Some of my girlfriends (My

friends that are girls) told me that I

should write a book or even teach

something to the men of this time period.

I thought it was a crazy idea until now.

Let's go to my first kiss. I always

thought my first kiss was supposedly in

kindergarten.With the light skin girl. I

still remember her. She had gorgeous

eyes. I really don't know why women's

eyes are so important to me. Her eyes

resembled the color of a very luxurious

dark chocolate. Her lips were pink and

glossy. Very easy to see the shine of her

lips with the sunlight beaming towards

the classroom. We sat next to the

window. She had drawn a picture of us.

She told me,"Wait a second". And

quickly removed the paper from my

sight. I knew she was doing something

else to the picture. She then put the

picture back on the table. "Smell it". She told me. And I picked up the drawing.

The aroma of the picture triggered my

nose as I glanced to take a sniff. It was

the smell of her perfume.Unfortunately,

that wasn't the girl I kissed. The first girl

I kissed was my own cousin. Yes.On the

lips. I know because she told me.The

kindergarten girl was sweet though. I

thought it was sweet. I mean, I was 5.

Everything was sweet back then. Playing

tag in the schoolyard, eating and not

giving a fuck about how you looked.

Coming home with no homework to do.

That was the life. I was living the dream.

I know it may not be very masculine to

say this, but I think the actions that a girl

does without having to spend money are

sweet. Like I don't need a $100 watch

for me to know a girl likes me. No . No

way. And back in kindergarten that girl

showed me that. 

## Introduction

At a very young age, I

was hanging out with

girls. When I attended

Elementary school I used

to play with the girls at

recess. I used to sit with

the girls at the cafeteria

table. The tables were

separated and things were

based on gender. So there

were boys on the boys

table and the girls at the

girls table. But you will

normally find me at the

girls table. Every time

someone did something

wrong the whole table

will get punished. No one

will get to play outside at

recess. The coordinator

(Whatever they were

called) will put the kids

standing in a line while

others played if they

behaved inappropriately.

The boys used to do bad

things. They were always

getting in trouble. The

whole table used to get

punished. Since I was

with the girls sitting at the

girls table guess who

didn't get punished ? ME

. Since I wasn't with the

boys it meant that I wasn't

throwing food with them,

or banging on anything

with them or anything of

the sort. Yes, the boys

will get mad and call me

gay or say immature

things to me. But that did

not bother me because I

was with girls. I was

loving the women. So

you call me gay because

I'm focused on girls?

Kind of immature if you

ask me. I think the boys

didn't like me. Someone

said,"Hey that's not fair

he's a boy too! Why didn't

Christian get punished as

well?". And the

coordinator will reply,

"Because Christian was

sitting at the girls table".

And they would continue

arguing and the girls will

always have my back

when those times came.

At recess, I always made

the girls laugh. I

remember I used to hang

out with 4 girls a lot.

Named Justine Wright,

Blanca Cortez, Beatriz

Rojas, and the other one

was called Elizabeth if

I'm not mistaken.

Currently, I don't know

what happened to

Elizabeth. After

elementary school, I

never saw her again. I

have contacted Blanca

recently. Trying to stay in

touch with her. We

honestly don't talk like

before. Justine, on the

other hand, has been

doing a lot of traveling as

far as I've seen. Beatriz, I

don't know what's her

problem with me. She

somehow stopped caring

for me over the years. It's

sad because she used to

make me birthday cards

back in Elementary. Why

have things changed?

Guess I'll have to live

long enough to find out.

As years go by you will

see how old friends

change. You will see how

things are never the same.

Nowadays a few old

friends say I have

changed. To be honest, I

haven't really changed at

all. I'm still the same guy

from years ago. The only

different thing about me

now is that I say what I

feel. I'm more honest and

I like to fix mistakes that

I make. That's all. I

personally think that I

still need to learn more

about women. And I don't

think I can ever perfectly

understand them. But I

always told myself, "If

you can understand them

half of the time, then

you'll actually get

somewhere with them".

Now this book will help

women learn about men.

And it will help men

learn about women. It's

The Human Women

Guide. The title says it

all. The title is tricky too

when you think about it.

Some people might think,

"Wow what a dumb name

for a fucking book".

Well, guess what? The

title does not define the

quality of a book nor does

it define the success of

the book in the upcoming

years. The things in this

## book are all based on my

### experiences and the

experiences of others.

Girls are very open with

me so they tell me things

about their life. And

when they tell me about

their problems I give

them advice. Some of

their problems are even

listed inside this guide.

Sometimes I feel like a

fucking counselor. But

that's not what I am. I'm

just a guy who enjoys

studying and

understanding women.

I've talked about sex with

women, about their

relationships, about how

they are feeling, about the

crazy things they have

done ,etc. I have also

asked them if they ever

cheated and so on. The

responses some gave

were shocking while

others left me with a

straight face. I've talked

and made friends with

different types of girls

from different races.

Welcome to The Human

Women Guide. A guide

that guides women with

men, a guide to guide

men with women, for

humans. Hope you learn

something

**Chapter 1: Dates & **

**First Moves**

A first date should not be

romantic. A date is a date.

It is a day you pick a

girl/guy up and plan a day

of fun. Unique things.

Taking a girl/guy to the

park. Going to the beach

and talking with the

girl/guy and diving into

the water together.

Unique things. Instead of

going to dinner for the

first time. Dates are

transformations from

friends to best friends to

girlfriend/boyfriend.

Don't rush the one thing

that makes your life

incredible and take the

easy street. Take things at

a normal pace and you'll

win the race. So let's start

with some advice. On the

first date please don't do

movies.This fails every

time. You and the person

you want to bond with

won't bond at all. Staring

at a big movie screen

with no type of talking

between you and the

girl/guy is pointless. You

want to make some kind

of chemistry between you

and the other person. I

know some people might

have a comeback to that

and say "Well we can talk

about the movie after we

are done watching it". If

you think that, then you're

wrong. Talking about the

movie doesn't help you

learn important things

from the person. You just

learn one of these things:

He/she either likes the

movie or he/she doesn't.

You may learn if he/she

likes popcorn or hot dogs

or cotton candy. But

come on. Do you really

want to know if he/she

likes these types of foods

or if he/she likes the

movie? No. You want to

know what this person is

about. You want to see if

this person is worth being

around with. You want to

know if this date will be

the last between you and

him/her. That's what you

want to know. That's why

movies are not a good

idea for a first date.You

can do movies later on in

the relationship. (If a

relationship ever occurs) .

But not at your first date.

So now you might be

asking yourself "Where

can I go for my first

date?" Well, the question

from me to you is "What

places are fun and let you

talk without

interruptions?" It

shouldn't be a fancy

dinner. Why not fancy

dinners? Well, let's say

you're a guy. And you

pay for this huge dinner

for this girl. Next thing

you know you find out

she isn't really your type.

Then you also find out

that you have a huge bill

to pay at the end of your

dinner. Sounds pretty bad

doesn't it? It does. Don't

do fancy dinners for first

dates. Especially if you're

the one paying. After the

dinner, your wallet will

be blown off before you

can even run away from

the scene. And for all the

men out there.... the

majority of the time a

woman will pay attention

to how expensive the

dinner is. If the food is

too cheap, some women

will think you're a cheap

guy with a minimum

wage job. And if the food

is expensive they will

assume you have money.

But you will be so broke

after the date you will be

using coupons for the

next time you meet a girl.

Some girls can be

expensive. Some men can

be too. There's actually

guys out there that will

make a woman spend

loads of money on them. I

personally don't take

money from any woman.

Except my mother. But

come on, who doesn't? So

now you want to know a

few places to go for a

date. There aren't a lot of

places. But there are a

few I can list from the top

of my head. So in the

next few lines I will name

a place and the reason

why you should date in

that place. 1st on the list

is a date on the beach.

You and your date can

dive into the water

together. Splashing and

laughing. Get a suntan

together. Talk with each

other while tanning. If

you're a guy you can buy

your lady a drink. And if

you're lucky enough she'll

let you rub sunscreen

lotion all over her body.

If she doesn't let you then

no worries. That doesn't

indicate that she's not

interested in you. It just

means she's not

comfortable with you

touching her body on the

1st date. That's all. Some

girls don't mind, though.

While others do. It all

depends on your date.

2nd on my list is a date in

the park. Go to a park.

Not the park with the

swings and the local kids

playing tag in the water.

Not that park. I'm talking

about an adult park.

(That's what I like to call

it). Over in New York

City central park will be a

good place for a date.

You can go bike riding in

the park with your date.

You can get some fun out

of that. Or go for roller

skating or do anything

else the park gives you

permission to do. Some

parks have a great view

of a lake or a beautiful

streaming fountain. The

things around you can

make the date go special.

Being in the park,

walking and talking.

Enjoying the views is a

very relaxing date. 3rd on

my list will be the arcade.

If your date isn't into

games then you may skip

this place. But remember

that dates are all about

fun. You want to see how

funny or cool your date

can be. You can talk with

him/her and play laser

tag. And of course, see

how much he/she sucks at

dance dance revolution.

4th on my list would be

her house or your house.

Some people really think

that this is the worst thing

to do for a first date. But

if you and your date have

been talking for a long

time and have known

each other for a while

then why is this a bad

thing? This shouldn't

even be bad at all. I have

gone to girls houses a

bunch of times. And we

are only friends and

nothing has ever

happened. And I've never

tried to have sex with

them. I have seen women

in pajamas. I have seen

women in their bras.

Women have even sat

right on my lap. I did not

get horny or hard off of

that. Or anything else I've

seen. Not all guys think

like me. I know that. But

if you're a guy and your

date is at her house

converse with her. If

you're a lady reading this

then converse with him.

You just don't go to a

stranger and say "Let's go

on a date". You actually

get to know the person

1st before going on one.

If the person is cool then

you say "Hey come to my

house for our first date I'll

make us pizza". Simple.

If you see the person isn't

good, then you simply

don't invite them over.

For the simple fact that

he/she might want you

only for sex or have bad

intentions

**Chapter 2: What to do when a woman**

**doesn't text back**

(Some of the content in this chapter may

apply to both men & women. Just switch

the genders around if needed)

This chapter will have:

1- Information that may be useful for a

lesbian/bisexual

2- Things that lead to unreturned texts

and calls

3- How to get women to respond more

4- Reasons a girl doesn't text back

5- How to get out of a crazy and boring

conversation with a girl without

upsetting her (Applies for

men as well)

This Chapter will not have:

1- How to get women to have sex with

you by text

2- How to flirt with women by text

3- How to annoy a woman by text

4-If you were expecting this then you

really need to finish this book. Because

your mind is still in the wrong stage

**Things That Lead to Unreturned**

**Texts and Calls**

_Too much anticipation / nervousness_ : If

a girl really likes you, she might be too

shy to reply to your correspondence. She

might end up putting a great deal of

pressure on herself to do well with you

\-- or be too jittery to type out a reply or

answer your call. She may really, really

want to talk to you, but never end up

doing so.

_Too much of a state-shift_ : This one's a

little tougher to get your mind around at

first, but let's say you met a girl and both

of you were really excited and in high

energy. And you call her back later or

text her when she's in much lower

energy than when you met her. She's

likely to look at that ringing phone or

blinking text message and think to

herself, "I can't talk to him right now; it's

too much work."

_A bad ending_ : "The end is important in all things." Even if you had a perfect

start or opening to the conversations and

the majority of the interaction went

swimmingly, if the ending goes

awkward or stale, the chances you never

hear from a girl again go up dramatically

_She wasn't all that interested_ : This

happens to everyone. Even to me at

times. It's quite often one of the other

three reasons that's to blame. But

sometimes it's really just that she wasn't

as interested as she'd seemed. It happens.

**Spend Less Time with Women and**

**Get Them Responding More**

I have noticed that women respond

faster to your texts when you have spent

less time with them. This doesn't always

happen. But the majority of the time it

does. Usually when you're not around

for a while and you text them to keep up

with them they will usually say

something like, "I haven't heard from

you in so long! How have you been?" or

"What's been going on lately? How is

your love life now?"And they will

immediately open up a strong

conversation. Women that are dull and

boring will say something like "Nothing

much", or "Same old shit". And in

reality there's no such thing as "same old

shit". (Yes I take things very literal at

times). It's impossible to go through the

same thing every day if you want to get

technical. Now don't make this a habit.

Don't spend less time with women just to

get them responding. Like I said in the

beginning. This doesn't always happen.

And you should only do this when you

absolutely get no type of response for a

long time & want to re-engage again.

**When a Girl Doesn't Text Back**

Let's say regardless how your interaction

went when you met the girl for the first

time, you ended up with her number, but

now you've called or texted her and she

hasn't replied. What do you do? When a

girl doesn't text back or when a girl

doesn't call back, the first thing you want

to do is not panic. It's not the end of the

world, and it doesn't mean you've lost

her for good. It just means she hasn't

gotten back to you yet. (That was

actually funny if you really thought I

was going to say something else). But

I'll stop there with the funny business.

Now let's get down to real business. I

once had an interaction with a girl where

I texted her and received no reply. Then

I waited a couple of hours then texted

her again. Still no reply. So I did not

message her for one whole day and then

I got a reply from her saying that she's

sorry and that she just has been busy.

Persistence. It's the difference between

the men who want it -- and get it -- and

the men who don't. I knew a guy who'd

have women disappear and act

completely disinterested, but he'd just

persist relentlessly. (Calmly and in a

savvy way) and eventually women

would reappear, & agree to meet up with

him. Persistence via text or phone can

work wonders...BUT, it's quite important

that you persist in a cool, laid-back,

socially savvy way, because there are all

kinds of wrong ways to persist, and men

for some reason are particularly good at

finding them. Don't fall into the traps

that most men do of getting needy,

whiny,complainy, or pissed off at

women for not replying. That guarantees

you don't get a reply! There have been

various times where I've had to do some

persisting myself. One time a girl told

me she would text me later and she

never did. So one day on her Facebook I

could see that she's in a sad mood. Since

she had a sad status about a particular

thing. I immediately commented on her

status and said "Sweetheart mind texting

me and telling me what's wrong? You

know I'm here if you need someone to

talk to." And guess what? A couple of

minutes later I received a text. This is

the power of persisting. But like I said

earlier, you must persist in a cool

laid-back savvy way because there are

many wrong ways to persist. Wrong

ways that can make a girl call you a jerk

or not even talk to you anymore. Many

girls get offended easily so knowing the

right things to say, matters all the time.

Never say things you don't mean though.

If you don't mean it then don't say it.

Women know when you don't mean

something. (Most of the time they'll

know). So watch what you say. Also

don't say things you normally wouldn't

say or even use words you normally

wouldn't use. Instead, here are some

things to keep in mind so that you're

persisting in an intelligent, attractive

way that'll make a girl far more likely to

want to start talking to you again:

may seem rude that she hasn't replied,

but...she probably sees you as a stranger!

She probably doesn't realize what an

awesome guy you are (If you're

awesome) . Getting mad is 100%

guaranteed to scare her off. So refrain

from anything like, "I don't understand

why you're being so distant" or "Why

aren't you writing back?"

sad: whiney, complainy men are a huge

turn off to every woman on the planet. "I

just want to talk to you -- I'm not trying

to be too pushy, but blah, blah, blah".

No. It isn't appealing for you to get

something like that from a woman, and it

isn't appealing for a woman to get

something like that from a man.

figured I'd drop you a line since we

haven't connected in a few weeks. I just

got back from the big vacation and I'm

starting to delve back into work again. I

hope life's been treating you excellent...

let me know what's new with you! -

Christian". Treat the situation as if no

one is to blame and the two of you are

just reconnecting after a little time being

busy with your own things. If you have

some hurt feelings, stifle them; phone

calls and text messages are not the

places to be airing grievances or bitching

about bad emotions. You want to be a

breath of fresh air; a provider of good

feelings and peace. That's the kind of

thing that will make a woman want to

pick up the phone and start talking to

you because she probably doesn't get it

anywhere else in her life. And I know

this because I've bitched about my

emotions to women before.

entertaining. "I just saw the most

amazing movie today!" or "OMG, I

think my head is going to explode, you'll

never believe what just happened to

me...!!!" Anything like that is no good.

That kind of stuff is okay -- maybe -- in

three or four texts the conversation

would end. But texting that to open a

text conversation is horrible. Worse, in

my experience, it rarely works, and

when it does it gets you attention from

girls who are curious -- rather than girls

who are interested. Stick to normal stuff

and you'll be fine. Here are some rules I

set up that you must follow if you're a

guy writing to a girl

Rule 1: Never start a message with "Hey

sexy" or "Hi you pretty, beautiful thing".

If she's not calling you handsome or

sexy or sending you winky faces with

hearts then don't message none of that to

her either. Plain and simple

Rule 2: Avoid sending too many

messages. I know she might be the only

thing on your mind at the moment, but

let's keep that a secret between us,

otherwise you may freak her out. So text

once and when you get a reply you may

text back. If she doesn't respond to your

text you should generally hold off until

tomorrow before you try to contact her

again.

Rule 3: Use texting that will make her

smile. This is more of a tip but what I'm

about to tell you is really helpful. If

you're next to a girl and you have her

number you can text her something like,

"Who's that hot guy standing next to

you?" or "You have my number, but

you're only allowed to call me once per

day". If after texting her something

funny makes her smile then you did

well. A woman is more likely to answer

a number she recognizes instead of one

she does not. So make sure you give her

something to remember you by. Finally,

don't ever be afraid to give a girl a little

time off if she doesn't reply for a while. I

have a method which is something like

this:

of silence (Meaning don't write to her for

one whole day)

her 2 - 3 days silence.

give her a week of silence.

Then, if she's still not replying, you may

want to try something more bold and

experimental, depending on the

situation. There's no one-shot way to

re-engage a girl who isn't responding. It's

going to vary enormously on why she

isn't responding in the first place. If she's

too shy, a nice, warm voice mail might

do the trick, or toning down your texting

if you're coming across too entertaining

or too "loud". On the other hand, if it

feels like too much of a state-shift for

her, sharing some more normal details of

your life and asking her about hers via

text may turn out to be just the thing

needed to bring re-engagement. If that

doesn't work then move on and don't talk

to her anymore. You can't be wasting

time on girls/men. There're many other

girls/guys out there that won't do the

things one guy/girl does. There are other

girls/guys that will take their time to

reply back that are truly interested in

you. Stressing over one person? DON'T

## Chapter 3: Signs Shine

The eyes to me are probably the most

important thing to me. To me, the eyes

of another human being can tell you if

they like you. Over the years I have

made tremendous eye contact with girls

& the ones I talked with, actually

admitted that they liked me. So if a girl

or guy gives you that look. That stare.

That eye contact that makes you feel

some type of way, that makes you

nervous. Then chances are he/she is

checking you out. But let's say you're

looking at a girl. And as you're looking

at her she looks back at you and says

"What are you looking at?". Then that's

just a bitch with an attitude. Sometimes

you can't even stare for way too long.

Since its creepy. Most girls prefer men

to go up to them and talk with them.

Rather than stare.Guys do too. If a girl is

staring at me, I expect her to come up to

me. Even if she's ugly. I don't care. But

its the effort that counts. Some girls

expect a guy to talk to them, but some

girls can't take their own advice. As you

can see this chapter is about signs. I will

now explain the signs that determine if a

man or woman likes you. So for the men

here's something I want to tell you.The

women who seem very interested in you

on first meeting you aren't time-wasters,

and they're not being insincere. They

really may enjoy the long conversation

they have had with you -- or maybe

they're trying to be polite and sociable

with someone who's taken the time to

come up and get to know them. But, it's

very important to note the difference

between reactions and results. The two

are different things altogether, and

reactions can often times be misleading.

A girl smiling and laughing and chatting

with you are mostly reactions. Her

moving somewhere with you or giving

you her number readily when you ask

for it fast -- those are a few examples of

results. Results are what you ultimately

need, regardless of how promising (or

not) her reactions may be. When you ask

for the number fast, you get a real result.

The girls who like you will happily give

theirs. The ones who aren't will hesitate,

or refuse. Now for the women. Men who

get physical with you like you. Women

tend to do this too, but men do it more

often. For example; instead of waving hi

I would normally hug or get in physical

contact with a woman. If I don't like the

girl then I won't even bother hugging her

or anything. There're some girls in the

past where I have given them fives just

like I do with guys. This puts them in the

NON-Like able zone. Meaning I get

along with them but I don't want to

touch them since I don't want them to

think that I like them. I will now explain

to you the signs of cheating. Women are

beautiful human beings who need

attention and they are getting less of it

women cheat as a result of an inattentive

boyfriend/husband. Whereas men cheat

because we can't control our hormones

and sexual desire. So, the obvious is this:

Most women don't give a shit about

anything a guy does, except his ability to

pay for her, how good he treats her and

how good he fucks her. Yeah, I know it

sounds brutal, but I'm just being honest.

If I don't keep it real out here then who

will? Signs a woman is cheating are

simple. If she's hanging out with her guy

friend too much. He might just be a

"Friend", but if you don't know where

she's at and you have not personally met

the guy then you're in trouble. You must

know a woman's guy friends. (The ones

she hangs out with a lot obviously).

Another sign a woman might be cheating

is if she changes normal things to weird

things. For example; if your girlfriend

usually asks you for sex and one day you

say NO (For whatever reason). Then out

of nowhere she stops asking for sex and

one day she says "I'm going to go out

with some friends". The chances are that

she might be lying and might be visiting

a guy that will give her the dick and

attention. Because that's mainly what

girls are about. They are about attention.

Haven't you noticed that girls compete

with other girls on the low? Even they

don't know. Signs a man is cheating is if

he doesn't want you to meet none of the

girls that are on his phone. Another sign

is the odor of another female. If he goes

out with his guy friends and he comes

back smelling like a female then

something is wrong. And he can't say

"My mother hugged me and I got the

odor" because you can call his mother

and if his mother doesn't confirm it

happened then he's a liar. Plus he said he

was going to be with his guys, not his

damn mother. DOUBLE LIAR. The

reality is that the way women act and the

things they desire are far more different

than what a man wants. Most men see a

woman and their eyes are satisfied and

then they want their penises to be

satisfied with the woman they laid eyes

on. The words love, attention, care,

respect, quickly bounce off their heads.

They just want SEX. But this is

something all men share. And something

that can't be taken away. But a real man's

job is to show a woman that he isn't

trying to rush the sex . He must show her

that he's interested in her as well. So

even if you're a man thinking about sex,

the point is not showing it. I know you

want to have sex with her and do a lot of

things with her. But that can wait.

Normally if you initiate a conversation

about sex with a girl you would most

likely scare her. Then she most likely

will tell her friends "All he wants is sex

nothing else! What a jerk, all guys are

the same! That's all they want". You

don't want a girl speaking about you like

that. You must show respect to a

woman. What's all the rush for sex? Do

you want sex that bad? Go fuck a hoe in

the street. Women who are not hoe's are

not sex objects. I personally don't want

sex with a woman. That's not what I

actually want. I can pretty much get sex

from any girl if I wanted to. I just want

love and care. I want to have an

awesome relationship. So like that when

I'm 80 I can say; "Damn I had a good

fucking time with that girl" . Eventually,

I will fuck her if I do the right things and

treat her right. Sex is earned. Just like

money is earned and how a prize is

earned. If you're really good looking

then sometimes a woman will have sex

with you fast. But it depends. I know

because I had girls that said that they

would fuck me and ride me and blah

blah blah. Once you're with a girl you

must keep her satisfied in whatever.

When a girl is unhappy, or dissatisfied

or there's failed communication between

you & her she's tempted to look

elsewhere. And cheat. And when you

catch her cheating she would probably

say "It just happened". It's all bullshit, though. But can you believe some girls

will actually put up with YOUR bullshit

though and not cheat? There are only a

few girls like that. The majority of girls

in life will aim for your money and

things like that. So watch out for those

things.You can tell if a girl only cares

for your money when she sees your

stack of money and tells you to buy her

things or when she asks you how much

you make at your job. Shit like that is

how a man can tell if a woman is a gold

digger. Now let's get to men now. Time

to tell all my girls reading this about

men. Now men like sex, every girl

knows that. And some men like blow

jobs more than sex. I wonder why. But

men want a girl that's going to be there

with them when things need to get done.

Guys don't like girls that talk a lot. If

you run your mouth too much that's

something men don't like. It gets

annoying. (I've seen lots of bad cases

with girls that open their mouth too

much). For example; Running your

mouth and telling a guys business to

someone else is one of the reasons why

girls get killed by men. Avoid doing that

at all costs. (I'm not saying you're going

to get killed but I'm saying it is not the

right thing to do. Plus it saves you the

trouble/drama). Men like when a woman

does something he likes. So if I play

video games and I'm playing Mortal

Kombat and a girl picks up the controller

and tells me "Can I play with you?"

That's like heaven for us guys. We like

that kind of stuff. So ladies if a guy does

something try it out with him. If a guy

plays soccer, try and play soccer with

him one day. If a guy plays basketball

tell him you want to shoot some hoops

with him. Getting into an activity that a

guy likes is good because who knows?

You might like it or something. An

activity with a partner brings the

relationship together. An activity both

partners like and enjoy. A man likes a

girl who doesn't put his wallet out of

service. If a guy is constantly spending

money on a girl and his wallet keeps

getting thinner then he will most likely

get tired of the same shit and leave you

and find another girl. Ask for less and

give more love. If he's the right guy then

he will give you things without you

asking him for them. Which brings me to

the next thing. Have a job. If you're a

girl that has no job depending on a man

or a girl that doesn't get her own money

then that might bother a guy. I

personally at this age would like a girl to

have a job and her own things. Since it

puts less weight on my shoulders and it

would mean that she would rarely ask

for things. Which means I will save up

money. Which means I can buy her a

really nice anniversary ring one day and

plan out some great stuff for us. It's

common sense. You leave a guy broke

and how do you expect better things

from him? A woman that lies is the

biggest thing a guy hates. Well, lying is

something everyone hates. But when a

girl lies a man feels betrayed.

Communication and honesty are the

keys to a great and strong relationship

with someone. Whether it's a friend

relationship, boyfriend relationship etc.

Now here's something for men and

women. Don't bring up your ex's . If a

guy/girl doesn't ask you about your

ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend then don't

tell him/her. It's kind of rude and

awkward if someone tells you about

their past that you didn't even ask to

hear. I personally ask some girls about

their past since it helps me find out what

she might do in the future. I remember

one girl told me she used to cheat on

guys in the past and guess what she does

now? You got it. Still cheats on guys. By

knowing someone's past whether it's a

guy or girl you can pretty much tell the

kind of person someone is (Even if they

say they've changed). You can also tell

who someone is by knowing who they

hang out with. "Let me see who your

friends are and I will tell you, who you

really are".

**Chapter 4: Facts about men & women**

I've been with women almost my whole

life. I mainly associate with women and

mainly hang out with them too. (I only

talk to men when i have to). I only have

one male best friend and I hang out with

him at times. But women are a major

part of my life . I can't deal with men.

Men just bring too much trouble and are

always talking about nonsense. Women

are more interesting to me and I rather

hang out with a girl than to hang out

with a group of guys heading to a local

night club. Understanding women and

knowing what they are about is a major

part of my life. So I'm always taking my

time in getting to know them. Now

according to my recent studies with

women there's a lot of things to cover so

lets get started.

_Mommy's little boy_ \- I've heard about

this a lot. A grown woman doesn't want

a mommas boy. Some girls don't want to

deal with young boys who need to be

asking their mother to go out. If you're a

man still living with your mother & your

mother basically keeps you on lock

down (Giving you a curfew etc) then

there's a problem with that. A woman

won't want to waste her time with that.

_The information_ \- I tried it , I failed and when I tried it again it worked. A girl

won't give you her contact information if

you're with someone or if people are

around and you're barely talking to her .

She will ignore you or lie and say she

doesn't have any to give. To properly get

the information you need you must

spend some time with her and talk with

her. Life is like the game "Sims" you

must keep that social meter up to keep

the bond up!

_Not around the bush_ \- When a girl asks

you something you need to be straight

up with her (honest) and not go around

the bush (lie)

_Dumb ass don't ask. Give!_ \- A girl

shouldn't ask you for things and you

shouldn't ask her. If you want to give her

something, you just do it! (Except sex,

you just don't come out of nowhere and

do that , because if she doesn't want any

sex with you then there's a problem. So

this doesn't apply to sex). I remember

one time back in high school. One of the

girls wanted a hug from me and i told

her "You never asked for a hug" and she

replied "I never knew I had to ask". In

other words she wanted a hug , and was

expecting a physical interaction between

her and I

_Childness_ \- In life assumptions

sometimes lead to lies. So when you

assume things about a girl, make sure

they're accurate . For example ; if you

think a girl ignores you and then you

confront her and tell her that she ignored

you , stating that you don't like it and

that you will do it back to her is childish

behavior. You don't even know if she

actually ignored you or not. Once you

know the actual reason then you may say

something to her about the situation. But

avoid the childishness . Other examples

of childish behavior are ; "I'm not going

to talk to you because you did not talk to

me the other day" or "I'm going to leave

you. You'll be waiting in the rain since

you left me waiting in the rain the other

time". Those are examples of childish

behaviors. Don't behave like that

_Beauty care_ \- Most girls care about their

beauty and they are always doing things

to maintain it. But some girls care so

much about their beauty that if they had

a simple mark on their face such as a cut,

pimple, etc they will not feel normal and

will be so concerned and uncomfortable

with the situation that they will try and

hide it . Also if a girl does her hair or

things like that , just notice it. If you

notice the little things in a girl she will

like that. Compliment her on the little

things . "Hey you did your nails ! They

look amazing" or "Your hair color is

lighter now, it looks so nice" and she'll

say "Oh wow you noticed! Thank

you!!!"

_Indecisive moments_ \- Many women are

indecisive . They don't make fast

decisions and they're always thinking

about things. I remember one of my girls

was a virgin and she freaked out and

said "Yes" to a guy that wanted to hook

up with her. She went to me and told me

the situation. She was very undecided

and didn't knew how to get out of the

situation. So remember that girls have

their indecisive moments and you should

always wait for a girl to be fully decided

for a decision she makes

_Changes_ \- Women don't like when guys

keep changing. Even if it means to

impress someone. A man should not

change himself all of the time just to

make a woman happy. If a woman likes

a man she likes him for who he is

_Time is everything_ \- I have failed in the

past in making time with some women ,

and I have lost those women for good.

(Still don't know what happened to any

of them currently as I'm writing this

book). P.S They were my friends not

girlfriends . Making time for a woman is

very very important. If you don't make

time for them eventually they will get

tired of it. I remember a girl used to

message me. One day she said "Hey"

then seconds later she wrote "Hey <3 "

and i never responded. And even the

message before those two messages

were not being responded by me either.

Make time for a woman , whether it is a

friend or a girlfriend.

No good guys in my park - Women don't

like nice guys . Some can't stand too

much sweetness coming from a guy.

There was one time a girl complained

about my niceness. She said she had

never dealt with a nice guy before and

that she doesn't like that kind of

treatment. I found it amusing since I was

getting to know her. Like what the fuck

was she expecting? I can't be rude while

I'm getting to know her. I'm not nice

though and I'm not bad either. I just

know when to tell a girl "Hey you need

to chill the fuck out". When a girl is rude

I immediately put her in her place. And

that's what I did with that girl who said I

was supposedly "Too nice" for her. I told her not to text me or look for me. She

was basically a stuck up bitch. I told her

to keep being with guys that treat her

like shit and she got mad. And I

normally don't call a woman a bitch. But

if you're a woman and you say a guy is

too nice for you or that something that

isn't even remotely a problem bothers

you..then you're a bitch. You can't waste

time with the bullshit of one woman.

You just can't. If one doesn't appreciate

you then NEXT! The word "Next" is a

man's most powerful word. When a guy

is too nice to a girl she sees that as a sign

of weakness. If a guy consistently cares

for a girl, then he must place her in

higher esteem than himself. The guy

seems to not value himself, so she

underestimates him. Women are

programmed by evolution to select men

who have high social status, and a

primitive indicator of a social status is

that a man has enough superior qualities.

There are plenty of "Nice guys" who are

jerks too. Like jerks, they just want sex

with a hot girl, and they think the best

way to get in between her legs is by

treating her like a princess. They're just

like the jerks but, besides having bad

motives also have bad execution. Which

is horrible and the real nice guys are the

real victims here. And sometimes I do

feel sorry for them. Since they are

actually good human beings and they

just fall in love with a woman and feel

butterflies inside whenever they see her.

They want sex as part of a romantic

experience, but the sex is very peripheral

to the real desire: Which is to just be

with her and treat her right. They cannot

control their emotions and they naturally

manifest through kind deeds and acts of

compassion. But they cannot avoid the

actions in the mind of a woman, and

they are seen as low-value mates. It is

not really the fault of the woman; since

she cannot control what she feels, much

as the man cannot control his own

feelings. A girl wants a man that can

protect her. She doesn't want to be with a

man in the street that doesn't know how

to defend himself and defend her as

well. A girl doesn't need to be with a

gang banger or a guy with a gun to be

safe and protected. But she wants a man

that will back her up if anything

happens. Or that will say something to

another man if a man ever looked at her

the wrong way or disrespected her while

you were not around. This is what a girl

is looking for. Now let's get to the most

important thing girls look for-

Confidence. A girl looks for a man that

has confidence. If you're not scared to go

up to a girl and talk to her then she

might get attracted to that. Confidence is

a major thing a girl will look for and

what most girls are attracted to. And

what many guys do not have. I

remember back in junior high school

how I met one of my ex-girlfriends. She

was very confident and she came up to

me and said "Hi" and started a

conversation with me. I loved the way

she was flowing with energy. Her

coming up to me proved that she had

some kind of interest in me and that she

was willing to sacrifice some of her own

time to get to know me. I liked that

about her and women like that about

men too. Men having confidence is very

good. If you're a man and you're afraid

of rejection and don't know what to say

to a girl, don't worry. I was in the same

position as you a long time ago. At first I

was very shy and nervous to meet new

women. I was worried that if I went up

to them I would run out of things to say.

Also, the beautiful girls gave me a very

hard time. When you have a gorgeous

girl in front of you, the words just don't

seem to come out. The Nervousness

running through my body reaches its

peak. But...the whole shyness and fear

must go away. The more you talk to

women the better you'll get. Remember

practice makes improvement! In my

world practice doesn't make perfect

since there's no such thing as perfection

in this world. But if you practice you

will get better. When you have a

conversation with a girl start off with her

surroundings. So if shes at the library

you can say "What book are you

reading?" and then she'll respond. And

then you can say "Oh sounds interesting,

do you usually come to this library?" and

then a conversation can start and shift

from there. Sometimes surroundings

won't always help. You might be outside

in the street and spot a cute girl walking

down the sidewalk. So situations get

more difficult depending on the place

that shes in. I've covered women. Now

it's time to cover men. The women I've

talked with over the years have told me

lots of things about men and I have seen

many things men have done. Some men

are savages that don't know how to act.

And that can't use the proper words to

talk to a female. Now according to my

recent studies with men. There's a lot

going on so let's get started.

_Tell their friends the truth_ \- Men at times will tell their homies/friends/pals etc...

the truth about what they are feeling for

a girl. A guy can be chatting with a girl

and then behind her back he tells his

friends "This bitch actually thinks i like

her"

_Same damn routine_ \- I understand

women out there have to deal with the

same shit over and over and over again.

The routine is this with men : It

sometimes starts with "You're cute" then

it turns into "I'm nothing like the other

guys you've been with" then to daily

talks with him and then the talking soon

stops and you find out he's too busy with

other girls . Or .....the talking doesn't

stop and you eventually have a

relationship with him and you find out

he's cheating on you with another

woman. This is something some men do

_What a show!_ \- Some men like to show

off in front of their friends. So if you're

his girlfriend and he's with his buddies

you might get treated like shit or he

might treat you differently . Not all guys

are like this but I'm just putting this out

there

_Put in that work or you're dirt!_ \- A man

likes a woman that puts in work.

Meaning if he puts effort he expects his

girlfriend to do the same. I personally

hate when I'm doing all the work in a

relationship and the girl isn't putting any

effort in anything . It goes for

friendships too. Don't tell a guy "You

don't write to me anymore you've been

acting like a stranger" and then when he

messages or writes to you , you don't

write back or text him at all. Like you

really need to put your part in something

. So remember my quote "In life don't

bitch about anything if you're the reason

for the outcome".

_Cry a river of your own stupidity_ \- Some

women cry over their own stupidity .

And many men hate that. If you give a

guy a bunch of chances in a relationship

and you're always crying and whining

about him breaking your heart and

making you feel sad then don't fucking

tell it to your guy friend. Because guess

what? We get mad when we hear shit

like that. If you're talking to your guy

friend or lady friend about your

boyfriend and you're always crying, then

leave the fucking douchebag and move

on with your life !!! I hate when girls get

sentimental of the actions they make

themselves. No one told you to give the

guy another chance , no one told you to

keep dealing with his bullshit. So do you

have a guy friend or lady friend you tell

your stuff to? Guess what ? He/she

might get mad because you keep giving

chances to the guy that treats you like

shit , and you keep forgiving him and

being with him

_Stressing a guy_ \- Sometimes girls

wonder how they stress a guy out . Well

let me tell you right now. Men don't like

stress. When you stress them out they

eventually get tired and leave. There's a

friend of mines that deals with a girl that

always thinks that he's with other girls

and thinks he's doing things behind her

back when in reality he just goes home ,

sleeps and does his regular things. When

a girl assumes things about a man

without knowing it's fucking stressful.

How would you like it if you're in a

relationship with someone who's always

assuming you're doing things behind

their back? Sounds annoying right? Well

it, is . If you're a woman don't stress a

man out with your assumptions. Take

time off to actually look for the truth,

because most of the time assumptions

lead to lies

_Left hanging_ \- Don't leave a man

hanging. Don't say things and then don't

do them ,basically don't promise things

and then break those promises. I've seen

it happen before. Girls would lie to a

man and not live up to their word. If you

feel some type of way then let it out. Be

honest with a man and he'll probably be

honest with you back. There have been

times where I've heard many men call

girls liars. Men aren't the only ones that

lie, many females have the habit of lying

and thinking they can get away with it.

Well, you can't. Once you lie to a man,

that man will tell his guy friends and

everyone will eventually know that

you're a liar and cannot be trusted

_Mature breakup_ \- Most guys like mature

breakups. Don't break up with a man

over text just out of nowhere. Give him

signs that you are going to break up with

him. Tell him in person (if possible).

That's the best way to do it. Also over

the phone. But doing it by text is plain

immature , childish and so , so

cowardly....

_Loss of contact_ \- Don't disappear. If

you're going to disappear and vanish

from a man's life then tell him.

Sentimental men don't like it when girls

just leave without reason. Leaving

without reason is immature and also so,

so cowardly....

_An excuse burger?_ \- Men don't like

excuses so don't make them. Some girls

have the tendency to make excuses . I

have dealt with women that would

actually make an excuse instead of

actually saying what they feel. Some

girls think that if they make an excuse

they will seem more "Nicer". Well

excuses are annoying . I remember one

time this girl agreed to work on a project

with me. And i had to keep reminding

her about the project. She always made

an excuse. Saying things like "I haven't

been able to start on it because of things

I've been doing". And like everyday she

had a new excuse. It's been literally

many many months. And till this day we

still didn't even do the project. So why

would you say you want to do something

with me and then make excuses? Like be

honest and say "I no longer want to work

on the project with you" and that's it.

Like my feelings won't get hurt. Excuses

don't make you look nicer, they make

you look more like a hypocrite, and a

liar! Also when a guy breaks up with a

girl or when something wrong happens.

One of the excuses I've heard girls say to

guys were "Oh i only dated you because

I felt sorry for you". That's the most

stupid and most immature thing ever.

Why would you say that to a guy? That's

why girls nowadays don't get respected

by men because they are always running

their mouths and saying things that

offend a man. There's no way you dated

a man just because you felt sorry for

him. So just because you feel sorry for

someone you'll date them? That's what

you're trying to say? How about the men

living in the poor areas of Africa? You

feel sorry for them don't you? They are

poor living in tough conditions but does

that mean you'll date any of them? Think

about it and you'll see how stupid some

girls are with their weak comebacks. So

now that I have covered the most

important facts about men and women

you now understand each gender. Have

in mind that men make excuses as well.

I'm not saying women are the only ones.

But women tend to make way more

excuses than men. If you don't believe

me and you're a girl think about all the

times you have made an excuse to a guy.

Didn't you make an excuse to get out of

a particular situation? Or because a guy

was annoying you so much you had no

other choice but to make an excuse?. It

happens. And it's perfectly fine if you're

in a bad situation. Even though women

make excuses, men seem to lie more

than women. Have in mind that excuses

and lies are different things . And do not

necessarily have the same meaning. I

will give you an example of an excuse

and a lie right now , so like that you can

differentiate between the two. An excuse

is when someone uses words to lessen

his/her blame for things. So if a male or

female feels like they are being blamed

for something they will most likely use

an excuse . Here's an example of an

excuse :

Boy: Haven't seen you in a while . Want

to hang out? I can treat you to dinner

Girl : Yes its been such a long time we

can definitely go out

Boy : What day will be good for you?

Girl: Next week Monday we can go out

Boy: Alright sounds great then I'll talk to

you Monday

Monday Arrives:

Boy: What time are we leaving today?

Girl: We won't be able to go to dinner

today so how about next Wednesday?

Boy: Alright talk to you Wednesday

then

Wednesday Arrives:

Boy: Are you ready for today?

Girl: Something came up I have to

babysit so let's do it Saturday

Saturday Arrives :

Girl : Hey just want you to know that we

will have dinner together , i promise!

But i have been dealing with some

family issues , like my mother just gets

on my nerves

Boy : Alright so when are we having

dinner ? because its been like a week

already

Girl : I'll let you know don't worry

Boy : Okay

Many weeks go by:

Boy: You still having family issues?

What's up with us hanging out?

Girl: I didn't forget about us, we will

have dinner together don't worry. I just

have a school project I haven't even

started yet so I need to do it.

Boy: Alright just keep me updated

Girl: I will

One month passes by and the boy says to

himself :

Boy : This girl doesn't even want to have

dinner . Why is she making so many

excuses? If she knew she was going to

be doing all this then why did she even

bothered accepting my invitation to

dinner. ugh...forget this bitch

That was an example of excuses. Now

lying is when someone makes a false

statement. Meaning there's nothing true

about what's being said. Here's an

example of lying:

Girl sees her boyfriend from a far

distance with another female . She

quickly hides and quietly watches her

boyfriend kissing the other female.

When she sees the scene she rushes

home crying . Hours later she's calm and

her boyfriend comes home :

Boyfriend : Hey baby ! How was your

day ? I missed you

Girlfriend: Where were you?

Boyfriend: I was at a baseball game with

some guy friends, why what's wrong?

Girlfriend: Are you lying to me?

Boyfriend: Baby I will never lie to you.

I'm telling you. I was at the baseball

game with my friends

Girlfriend: You're a fucking LIAR !!!!

Boyfriend: What the fuck are you

talking about?

Girlfriend: I saw you kissing that girl

outside, you weren't at a baseball game. I

saw everything!!!

Boyfriend: B-b-ba-baby I can explain.....

Girlfriend: Baby nothing. You cheated

on me and you lied to me! Leave my

sight I don't ever want to talk or see you

ever again. This relationship is over.

Now you see the difference between the

two. Now the next chapter will start in

the next page. I will focus on myself for

a little bit and reveal some things about

me that most people don't know about . I

will also talk about certain things both

men and women need to fix prior to

dating or relationships. As women and

men go through this book things will

become more clearer . I don't consider

myself a player , or a pimp. That's not

what I am and that's not what i want

women and men to view me as. You

should view me as a ladies man or a man

of women experience. Many women

call me a ladies man . They see other

women very comfortable with me and

they agree that I'm a great man with

good intentions. I don't tell girls I'm the

right guy or that I'm different from the

rest . I prove to them that I'm better than

the rest. I believe actions speak louder

than words. The bad thing about some

men nowadays is that they talk and

prove nothing. Women don't like a man

that talks and doesn't back up what he

says. It's kind of like a religious person

telling people a god exists with no type

of evidence to back up that statement.

See how both things are similar? It just

falls in the same category. So if you're a

man just prove things to a woman. Don't

talk. Me personally i hate when people

talk and don't prove anything. If you

love me , prove it. If you say you're

going to hang out with me then prove it

and come and hang out with me. I judge

people by their actions. So if you talk

tough I'll be sure to see how you handle

yourself in a fight , if you say you're

good at sex you better be good at sex

since , I'm not just going to take your

word for it. 

## Chapter 5: What You Should Fix

Would you believe me if I said that

female security guards flirted with me

when I was attending high school?

Well, they did. One of them was decent

looking and the other one was pretty

enough for me to even flirt back. One of

them loved my deep voice. I guess it was

kind of turning her on or something.

The other one always checked me out

whenever I went through the metal

detectors. Complimenting something

about me. These were grown women.

Probably in their 20's or 30's. I am not

really sure. Maybe 40? I don't know.

Nowadays women camouflage their ages

quite well. So it's hard to tell the age of a

person. I've flirted with teachers, with

girls on the street, with mostly anyone

that caught my eye. So what can I say?

I'm a flirt at times. But of course that all

stops when I get into a relationship. Now

flirting with teachers was hard. They

were teachers. So who wants to lose

their jobs? A teacher would usually

laugh something off. I'm a handsome

man. They have said it many times.

Sometimes girls just say it but don't want

anything to do with you. You see me as

a friend. I understand that. But many

girls like me secretly. Expecting me to

make a move on them. How can I make

a move on someone that doesn't tell me

if they like me or not? That's why people

should fix the whole "Shy" thing. If you

like someone then at one point tell them.

How about if they like you back? There's

a date! The problem with people

nowadays is that they are afraid of

rejection. I'm going to be very honest,

I'm afraid of rejection too. I might be

good looking to many women, but that

doesn't mean I'm good looking to all

women. I think I have a big nose and big

ears. Some women don't see that. And I

look at myself in the mirror every day.

I'm just a simple guy doing simple

things. If I die I probably wouldn't make

a difference in anyone's life. That's how

simple I am. But me writing this book I

want to achieve more than that. I want to

be remembered as the women guide. The

man who understands women. I have

asked women before "Hey what do you

even see in me?" And the usual response

I receive is "I don't know. There's just

something about you" . I remember one

girl told me "I don't know it's just

something about you , your swagger and

the way you talk, like you're not like the

rest". And swagger by definition means

behaving confident or being aggressive.

And earlier in this book I had written

about confidence. And confidence is a

major thing when it comes to women

and men. And most people don't have it.

My confidence wasn't always high. I

actually stopped asking girls out once i

got out of Junior High School. I no

longer ask girls out on a date. But I will

talk to a girl and approach a girl if I need

to. It all started with one of my EX

girlfriends. She had told me she liked me

in the beginning and soon I decided to

ask her out (Make her my girlfriend).

But things shifted the way I didn't want

to. When i asked her out she said she

only viewed me as a friend but that i'm a

great guy. So I had to give her time. So

yes she was my girlfriend at one point ,

and i still got her. But ever since that

happened I just decided to stop asking

girls out. Nowadays girls ask me out.

And I tend to talk to a lot of good

looking women. And if one good

looking female asks me out then that's a

definite yes. Plus I have to feel some

kind of feeling for her. And its not

because of rejection but its because of

being put in the friend zone. I don't like

being in that zone. Even if its

temporarily and i get her afterwards. I

just don't like the feeling . If you ask a

man or woman out then continue doing

it. This is just about me and how I am. I

also don't like when girls ask me out and

I don't even know them. It happened in

junior high school. A girl sent another

girl to tell me that she liked me and that

she wanted to go out with me. I didn't

associate with that girl at all. Why would

she think I'd say yes to her? And the

friend she sent me was attractive, I wish

it was her asking me out since I knew

her and talked with her. But this goes to

everyone, don't send somebody to ask

someone out for you. It just shows that

you lack confidence. If you can't do shit

yourself then you don't even deserve a

YES from a man or a woman. That's

another reason I didn't say yes to that

girl. If she couldn't go up to me by

herself then why bother? If she would've

actually gone up to me then I would've

taken the time to hang out with her. (I

wouldn't make her my girlfriend). But I

would just get to know her since I didn't

know her. But since she sent someone

else to do the work for her, that was just

a disappointment. Like just go up to me

yourself. You get respect for trying.

That's why women and men like

confident people. And to be honest, the

girl wasn't even good looking to me. So

by her sending someone it just made her

look even worse than what she already

was. And I don't mean to be mean but

I'm just saying it how it is. Anyways, I'm

a very smooth guy. The way I get

women is smooth. Even other girls told

me that I'm smooth with girls. Girls

telling me that I am smooth with other

girls? What!? You already know that I

am doing something good if I'm getting

that type of feedback. Let me tell you

about an intern woman I knew and a

T-mobile woman I interacted with. The

story isn't boring so keep on reading. I

wouldn't write something to make you

fall asleep. In an old job I was in, there

was this adult chick I liked. And she was

like 23 or 22 I don't exactly remember. I

had a crush on her. I normally don't have

crushes. I know I have a crush on a girl

when I dream about her, think about her,

or if my words barely come out when I

talk to her. I wanted to know if she had a

boyfriend and her age. Well, I found out

her age very smoothly. At that old job, I

used to work in a school. I was the

assistant of the principals assistant. I was

an intern there. But I got paid. So I saw

her walking down the hallway and I was

passing some flyers to the teachers about

an upcoming event. I handed her a flyer

and she said, "No i'm not a teacher" and

then I said "You're not?" She then

smiled and replied "I'm just an intern

here from college but like I don't get

payed". Then I was like "I thought you

were a teacher, so wait a minute what's

your age?" and she told me her age and I

said "Oh I see now... well my bad". And

she laughed and replied "It's okay". So I received her age very smoothly. I didn't

want to go up to her and say "Hey how

old are you!??" because the first thing in

her head will be, "What? Why does this

guy want my age?" So I had to get the

information in a very smooth way. Now

finding out if she had a boyfriend was

the hardest thing to do. But i had made it

easy. I sent one of my girls to check it

out for me. Girls tell girls stuff. I was the

mastermind behind everything. And so

when one of the girls found out she

immediately told me if she had a

boyfriend or not. And unfortunately, she

did. When I heard that , I felt bad. She

was gorgeous , her personality shined

bright and I just loved how she was . Her

personality made her even more

beautiful. Me being an intern at the

school wasn't going to last forever. So I

remember in the end of my internship I

told her how I felt about her. I said

goodbye to everyone in the building

(Well some actually). I sighed as i

knocked the door of the room she was

in. My confidence was high but I was

worried too. When the door opened there

was this young caucasian girl that I

knew. She was an adult and she worked

there. But I didn't know what the fuck

she was. (Duh she was human). But I

didn't know if she was a teacher or an

assistant. I really didn't cared. Since she

wasn't the one I had a crush on. Don't get

me wrong. She was attractive as well.

But physical appearances don't always

drive me close to a woman. So once the

door opened she said "Hey what's up".

Then, I said "I'm leaving". She looked

up and down and replied, "Okay bye".

My face then turned more serious than

what it was. I found that rude and then I

replied "I'm leaving for good". Her

whole face changed and she said

"Awww you're leaving? How come?"

My face went from serious back to

normal and I replied "Because my

internship is over and I don't need to do

it anymore" . Then we kissed on the

cheek and hugged and it felt like she was

really going to miss me. Then I stepped

into the room to say bye to Shailleen.

(That was my crushes name) . And she

was sitting at a desk. I approached her

and told her I was leaving. She got up

really fast and said "You're leaving? Last

time, you said you were leaving, but you

didn't" and then I said "Well there was a situation last time and I couldn't leave.

But now it's official. I'm actually leaving

for good" and then she started telling me

if I was going to college and stuff like

that. I could feel the white girl in the

background hearing our conversation

and staring at me while I was talking. I

remember I gave her a paper and the

paper had my email on it. I remember I

had given my email to many people I

worked with. My boss, the ladies in the

office and certain other people in that

school that I said goodbye to. I regret it.

Email? What the fuck was I thinking? I

should have given her my Facebook or

something else. I didn't have a cellphone

at the time but damn the email was such

a bad idea. And the email no longer

works now since it isn't active anymore.

So yeah I lost her for good. Well, I gave

her that email paper and she said "Thank

you". I noticed I couldn't tell Shailleen I

had a crush on her with some other girl

around. So my plan was to get her alone.

Remember everyone, when you catch

someone you like alone, that's the best

time to talk to them! Always remember

that. So I told her to step outside the

room with me and she did. And once I

saw that the caucasian girl wasn't around

and it was me and Shailleen, I knew it

was time to tell her how I felt about her.

In my head I told myself "Fuck the

shyness, fuck what happens, I've been

having too many thoughts about this girl

and I need all of that to end now". So i

told her I had a big crush on her and she

said "Aww sorry I have a boyfriend". As

soon as her sentence was done I quickly

said "Yeah I know". And I actually knew

since the girls I knew found out for me .

Way before she even told me. So I was

ahead of everything. Then I said "I just

wanted you to know". And then she said,

"Come here , and give me a hug". And

that felt so damn good. Have you ever

been hugged tightly by your crush? If

you haven't then you won't ever know

the feeling. I wish that hug lasted

forever. We then stopped hugging and I

told myself I needed to leave since I had

other things to do. That girl was just

amazing. So I gave her a final good bye

and shaked her hand and she didn't like

the handshake. She said "No i don't want

that. Hug me". And in my head I was

like, "Wow so much love". But yeah I

said bye to her and she told me "Thank

you for coming up to me and telling me

that. No man has ever done that with me.

It takes a lot of balls to do that" and I

replied "Yeah that's how I am. Well take

care". And she replied "Take care".

Once I exited that door I felt such a

relief. After that time I didn't have

dreams about her or even thought about

her like I did before. And as time passed

by the feelings I had for her went away.

Her body, those beautiful eyes she had ,

the guy that was with her was clearly a

lucky guy. And if he doesn't treat her

right he should get beat up. This girl was

aggressive I loved the way she acted and

that's the kind of thing I like in a woman.

I don't think this book will ever get into

her hands but if it does I just wish that

shes happy . Because that's clearly what

I wanted to give her , happiness. I made

the story short and didn't put every

single thing we were talking about since

I can't remember everything exactly.

Now let me talk about the T-mobile girl.

Now this girl was like a sudden

interaction. We connected fast . I felt it. I

had went outside to get something for

my boss and I was accompanied with

one of my friends. (A girl) as usual. My

boss gave me a list of things to buy from

the grocery store. He wanted a sandwich

and one of the ladies in the office

wanted something as well . Now me and

my friend are at the store and we are

ordering. Then as i'm paying for the stuff

that I ordered for the boss (It was his

money in case you were wondering) I

see this light skin girl come into the

grocery store. She had a long coat ,

black hair , and she was attractive. Very

attractive. I think the coat was light

brown. And she was just standing there.

Waiting to order next. And I found

myself looking at her up and down. It

was winter time so it was cold. I could

see her rubbing her hands together.

Trying to create some kind of heat to

keep herself warm. She then turns to me

and says "It's cold" . And I replied, "Yes it is". She suddenly starts walking to the

back of the store to get a drink. And I

had to go back there too since I needed

to get a drink for my boss. So she opens

up the fridge door and gets an orange

gatorade. And I get a vitamin water for

the boss.Then she looks at me and

says,"Can you hold this for me? I'm

cold" And I said "Okay sure thing".

There're other people in the store, but

she's only interacting with me. So clearly

this girl found me interesting or

attractive when she came in. So I'm

holding her drink . I then put it on top of

the counter. I then put my stuff there too.

I quickly notice my friend doing a good

job with the bosses stuff. So once the

guy puts everything in the bag me and

my friend are ready to leave. I just take a

glance at the girl I interacted with and I

said to myself "Am I really just going to

walk out the store not knowing anything

about this girl? She did make the first

move so I should make the last one". So

I look towards my friend and I told her

in a calm voice "The girl I was just

talking to I'm going to help her with the

bags". I handed my friend the bag with

the bosses stuff and replied afterward

"Make sure you give it to the boss and

tell him I'll be back in a couple of

minutes". Then she said, "Okay see you

inside". It felt good that she said that.

She knew I was trying to talk to this girl

and she knew I would've felt bad if I

didn't . So as she left i'm just standing

there. The girl I was interacting with

looks back and gives me the -Oh he's

still here face-. It didn't took any words

for me to figure that one out. So as soon

as I saw that face I said, "I'm going to

help you with your bags. You're cold".

She smiled. Then responded with "Aww

thank you". So when her order was done

and the guy was packing up her salad

and coffee and all that other stuff , some

guy comes inside the store trying to sell

some candy. And the guy tells me "You

want to buy some candy?" and usually I

say "No thanks" since candy isn't my

thing, but the girl was looking at me and

I didn't want to look broke. So I told the

guy "Yeah i'll take two". Yes I was

stupid. I shouldn't have done that. I

know. So I pulled out my own money

and payed for the candy. Then the seller

asked "Is that your girlfriend?". My

annoyed face appeared. Clearly the guy

was trying to start a conversation

because I had bought from him."No,

she's not my girlfriend" I replied. (Even

though I wished she was. I was already

getting attracted to her). He then said

"Oh I thought that was your girlfriend"

and a few moments after that me and the

girl left the store together. And I was

carrying her bags just like I told her.

And she smiled at me and told me, "Do

you have a phone?" and I said "No" and she said "I work right there at T-Mobile

I can help you take a look at some

phones" and i'm like "Okay". Deep

inside I didn't like the fact that she was

inviting me to her job. It made me feel

like she just wanted to sell stuff for her

store . But we got there and I gave her

the bags . And she said "Thank you".

She put the bags on top of the counter.

I'm guessing some of the stuff was for

her and for the people that worked there.

Since it was a lot of stuff. She quickly

said "I'm going to the back to hang up

my coat" and i'm like "okay". And when she came back she was gorgeous. Her

body was good. She showed me some

phones and told me if I wanted to buy

one on the spot. I told her that I had

wasted a lot of money and wasn't going

to buy a phone on the spot. She then

asked for my ID. I saw her as she put my

information into the computer. And told

me to come back once I was ready to

buy a phone. She said in Spanish ,"Me

caistes bien". (That means I like you in

english). How the hell did she know I

knew spanish? She then pulled out a

store card. She then flipped the card and

put a number down along with her name

. When she handed me the card I asked

her "Is this like your personal number or

what?" and shes like "No its the store

number".When she said that my whole

face changed. I had the most confused

face you could imagine. My face had a

mixture of sadness, and bitterness. And

in my head I was like "The fucking front

of the card has the store number why the

fuck did she write the number again in

the back with her name?". I was

disappointed. I saw her name and it said

"Marlyn". In a disappointed voice I said

, "Okay i'll let you know". And I exited

the store. Maybe if I had a phone at the

time things would've been different. I

think about that at times. Days later I

saw her again. We kissed on the cheek .

She was headed somewhere and I was

headed somewhere too. She had all

black on. I remember she had tall black

boots and I think she had a black skirt. It

was a quick interaction. I never saw her

again after that. She was dressed real

nice though. Had leggings on , she had

her boots, she was looking real right.

And she was in her 20's . I never called

her immediately. I called her one time

though. Just to take her out for dinner.

She wasn't at her job when I called . I

then gave up. And never bothered

calling again. And that story pretty much

ends there. It seems that I interact with

women really easy and they get along

with me really easy. Not all women but

most of them. Some women I can't stand.

They just have attitudes even if you treat

them good .Those are the kind of women

I discard from my life. I like aggressive

confident teasing women . There was

one girl who actually made me want her

sexually. No girl in my entire life made

me want them sexually really bad. But

this girl did. Normally I don't want girls

for sex but she teased me. Thats the way

she got me chasing her. Rubbing her ass

on my dick , saying she would kiss me if

she did not have a boyfriend . Like it got

to the point where I wanted to just tell

her "Hey do you want to have sex?" But

I never told her. Her boyfriend was

boring though. She had told me . He

didn't take her out anywhere. And there

was no type of spark in that relationship

. I would've stolen her from her

boyfriend if I was that type of guy, but

I'm not. I don't mess around with girls

that have boyfriends. That would bring

too much drama. And who likes drama?

I would've been a great guy for her,

though. I like experimenting in a

relationship. Taking my girl out to eat ,

to the movies , arcade , beach , give her

massages, cook for her. I like to mix

things up once in a while and spice up

the relationship. I'm a very emotional

guy at times. Not the crying type of

emotion but the emotions I get when

someone offends me. Like things tend to

bother me fast at times. There was a

friend of mine who I texted to make sure

she was okay and she never responded.

So I messaged her on a social network

and she responded . It turns out I was

texting her old number. Now my

question is ...Why didn't she give me her

new number when she got it? So that

means if I would've never sent her a

message in the social network she

wouldn't have ever given it to me? I'm

not that important to her? That's fucked

up. What kind of real friend does that

though? The sad part was that me and

her always had good conversations and

we connected whenever we spoke or

wrote to each other. I don't understand

why she couldn't send me a message or

text and say, "Hey Christian I changed

my number. Just messaging you to make

sure you have my new one". But no that

didn't happen. And i don't think anyone

thinks like me. People always make

excuses in moments like that. She didn't

made excuses but there are people that

do. Probably something like "I was busy

so I forgot to give you my number".

Lame , lame , lame and ill say it again

LAME!! If you make an excuse like that

on a serious situation then you deserve

to get lied to all your life. And you don't

deserve to have an honest person by

your side. I just hate excuses. Another

bad scenario your friend leaving you and

he/she is hanging out without you . Then

he/she uses the excuse "I didn't went

with you since you were sleeping , so I

wanted to be a good friend and let you

sleep". No ,No , No , No and NO!!! A

good friend wakes you up and tells you

"Hey today we are hanging out get

dressed!" Some people nowadays are so

worthless. And don't know how to use

their words right. Words offend . Some

people might not tell you , some people

might not admit to it but they do. And

i'm a man and words do offend me at

times. Men are very good at hiding their

feelings (Some) . Me im kinda good at it

but I can't hold on for way too long. If

something bothers me i'll speak out

about it . I play a major role when it

comes to honesty. I don't care if I hurt

someone's feelings. If you're looking for

honesty then i'm the definition of

honesty. If a girl does something to me

and I feel some type of way then i'm

going to let her know what i'm feeling.

Nowadays you can't hold back on

someone and lie to them to make them

feel good. Those days should end . Why

lie? So you can become the liar of the

century? If you need to lie to someone to

make them feel happy then that's sad.

Where are your morals? I just hate

excuses and lying with a passion. Some

people say "Sometimes lying can save

your life" Well I agree. But it depends

on the situation. Lying is good to do in

some scenarios. Women like to lie when

they are annoyed or when they don't

want to talk to a man anymore.They will

usually give you something like "I'm

doing something i'll talk to you later"

then never get back to you again. They

are very good at saying something nice

and then disappearing . Many women do

it. I see women as indecisive beings.

Women are so indecisive . And even

though many say ,"I know what I

want".They don't. Now i'm not talking

about materialistic things. If you want

something materialistic then you want it.

There's no doubt about that. But i'm

talking about relationships/dating. There

was this female I met. And for our first

date she wanted to go to the movies.

Now have in mind that this book tells

you not to go to the movies on the first

date. We went to the movie theatres

though . We went to see the horror

movie named "Sinister". Which released

on October 12, 2012. Not only was the

movie horrible, everything was just a

waste of time. When we were in the

theatres and the screen started showing

movie trailers I told her about my book.

I told her about that rule in "The Human

Women Guide". At the time, I was still

writing The Human Women Guide. It

was still not done. After the film we

talked and she told me how shes not

really into movies. That she only wanted

to watch a movie because she didn't

know if we would have things to talk

about etc. She told me about things she

did like to do. Such as bowling and

things like that. She picked the movies .

I didn't . I only went with her to satisfy

her. Because that's what I do. I satisfy

women. Basically she was indecisive.

She didn't know what to do for the first

date and she didn't want a awkward

moment with me. At times I do tend to

make things awkward because normally

that's what some things are. Awkward. I

just hate the fact that women don't tell

you what they want. I know women are

not always supposed to tell you , but if I

ask I better receive an answer. That girl I

was with assumed about things as well.

So not only was she indecisive, shes like

most of the girls out there. An assumer. I

thought I was going to find a woman for

once that wouldn't be like other women.

But I guess that's not going to change.

Before the date ever started she had

texted me saying that her mother gave

me permission to come to her house. So

basically I could come to her house and

meet her mother after we watched a

movie. Seems fine. It turns out that

before we went to the movies she had

told her mother that we were only going

to see a movie and nothing else. Then

her mother went to hang out with her

friends once she was informed about

that. And guess what happened? I

couldn't go to her house. Why? Because

of fucking assumptions. Every other guy

probably wanted to have sex with her

when they went to her house. Then I

come along and I fall in the same

category? Bullshit. She didn't even know

me well enough to even assume some

shit like that. I don't want pussy on the

first date. A lot of women know how I

am . It doesn't work that way. Ask

women about me. Have I ever brought

up sex in a conversation? Never. Did I

have sex with any girl when I first saw

them? Never. Don't take time off your

life to assume things. Take time off your

life to actually find the truth, because the

truth does not lead to lies. Assumptions

do. That's something many people need

to understand. Now this girl thought I

was like the rest of the jerks she

encountered. She didn't even gave me a

chance to prove to her that I was

different. Which really isn't a fair thing

to do. That day I was mad. I was

disappointed. I felt horrible. That day I

truly had to hide my feelings. I felt like

the biggest piece of shit on this earth.

The way I was automatically categorized

as other men, had me feeling like I

wasn't worth anything. She made me feel

like I was just another guy she had met. I

never told her how I was really feeling.

Sometimes I have to hide some feelings.

I don't want to seem girly or bitchy. That

night she had apologized for the date. I

never wanted her to feel guilty. I wanted

her to understand. That's what some

women don't realize. Women think men

should understand them more . That's

not how it should be. Both men and

women have to understand each other.

Men have feelings. Women have

feelings. Both genders are not so

different. Both genders burp , fart, look

ugly in the morning etc. And I know all

of that sounds nasty but my point is , that

no one is special. And there isn't any

superior gender. Men go to jail , women

go to jail . Same shit. My job now is to

understand women more. I have been

doing that almost all my life. But who's

going to understand me? I don't think

any woman will ever understand me

fully. The only person that could almost

understand me is my best friend. And if I

ever lost him , there will be no other

person in this world to replace him. Hes

the only guy I hang out with or talk with.

Yes there are other men I hang out with .

But sometimes it's because they're the

ones who ask me if I can hang out with

them. And I just say yes. Since I don't

want to seem rude. Sometimes it's good

for a guy to talk to another guy. Because

sometimes both have the same goal.

Men talk to other men about women.

And women talk to other women about

men. Thats how it is. Thats one of the

reasons on why I would talk to a guy at

times. Some men hang with groups of

men. Then they call their groups of men

"Bros" (Or whatever else they like to

call them). Me I don't hang with groups

of men. I hang with girls or my

bestfriend. I don't feel right being

surrounded by a bunch of males. Like

what am I doing in a scenario like that?

Makes no sense. Heres some issues with

men. Men aren't good with words. And

thats the truth. Men will say something

and then regret it later on. But then it

will be too late because what has been

said cannot be taken back. I personally

had moments where I would say

something to a woman and then regret it

later on. It seems men cannot think

before they speak. Every man has this

problem. And I think this problem can

get fixed slowly if a man tries to fix it.

Women compare men to other men.

Women are always comparing . They

will compare you to another guy shes

met. Or another guy she's kissed. You

will be compared. The objective of a

man is to show a woman how different

he is from every other man. So if you're

a man, say to yourself "What's the

difference between me and the rest of

those other guys?" , or "What do I say

differently?". If you ask yourself those

questions you will see how you can

change yourself to be a better man. I ask

myself those questions all the time. I

don't want to be like other men. I don't

want to wear the same clothes as them. I

don't want to act like them. And I don't

want to say the things that they say. And

sometimes they fail badly at talking with

women. Do I want that? Absolutely not.

Some men think appearance will guide

them to women. Wrong! I have seen

men dressing in expensive clothes and

not getting a single number from a

female. Not even having a full one on

one conversation with them either.

Clothes mean something to a certain

extent. One hundred dollar watch ,three

hundred dollar shoes , expensive pants

and a shirt ....and no girl. Sad isn't?

Same thing with girls. You can have all

the expensive shit that you want. But

men aren't interested in that. I remember

one of my guy friends (Ladies find him

attractive). He wore his hats , his nice

clothes and before me and him started

hanging out I always wondered how he

had a new outfit everyday. Like

everyday he would have a new outfit. So

either he had a lot of money or he didn't.

So one day we hung out and I found out

his secret. (Well it's not a secret since he

never stated that it was). His technique

was , he shopped for very cheap shirts.

And his pants weren't that expensive

either. But his sneakers and hats were.

And he would have a silver chain around

his neck and his touch screen phone and

some money in his pocket and everyone

would assume he had money and a job.

But I knew the truth. People did not.

That's why finding out the truth rather

than assuming is my best thing to do. I

soon found out that this guy was being

liked by girls with his cheap ass shirt ,

and cheap pants . So ask yourself

now...will appearance guide you to

women? Absolutely not. I'm not saying

that you have to dress like a hobo. Or to

do what my friend did . But keep things

simple. Don't go overboard and make

people think things about you that aren't

true. Me i'm clean , well shaved , my

clothes aren't too cheap or too expensive.

And i'm still having nice conversations

with women , making out with them and

having the privilege to hang out with lots

of them. A woman wants a fun guy .

Thats the type of guy she wants to hang

out with.That's why when a woman asks

me "Hey do you want to hang out?" and

I say "Yes" they are happy and excited

to see me. Why? Because I spark things

up. And i'm good at what I do. As a male

or female if you're looking for love just

let things happen. Too many of ya'll

assume things about the next person you

meet that you actually mess things up for

yourself. Thats not cool . It's not fun.

And some women have done it to me

and guess where they are now?.. Not on

my contact list. I don't want a woman

that's going to be thinking about what

other guys did to her and thinking if i'm

going to do that shit too. I don't like that.

All the assuming needs to stop. Men and

women need to stop that. That's why

things don't work out. Thats why people

get offended and thats why awkward

moments emerge. And thats why people

are discarded from peoples lives. A man

or woman hurt you in the past and you

meet this new man or woman and you

start assuming things about him/her.

That shit feels uncomfortable. Especially

if the other person knows that you're

assuming things about them. It's an

uncomfortable situation and I have been

in it. I'm not the type of guy that brags

and says things like "Im different , im

not like other guys..blah blah" I'm the

type of guy that says "You want to know

how I am? Then find out yourself , and

i'm not going to say i'm different i'm just

going to prove it to you". Proof is the

key . With, proof I have gotten so much

respect from women. One time a woman

told me "You haven't texted me all day .

I thought you was interested in me" and

I told her "I did in fact text you. Your

phone maybe has a few problems. I

texted you and I just took a screenshot to

show you that i'm telling you the truth".

I Showed her the screenshot and she

realized I was being honest and realizes

that she needs to get another phone soon.

Women respect you when you're honest.

And if you have proof to back your

words up then you will always win. I

guarantee you. This chapter is called

"What you should fix" for a reason. Men

and women have some things they need

to fix. And so far within the chapter

you've analyzed and read some

important things .Remember when i said

"Men will say something and then regret

it later on?". Well guess how it is with

women? "Women will do something and

then regret it later on". That's right.

Women do things then as they get more

mature they realize that what they did in

the past wasn't so good after all. A

woman can have a great man in front of

her and actually go to the guy that treats

her like shit. Not all women like the bad

guy but it seems like women often go for

those type of guys. The gang banger ,

the drug dealer , the player , etc. And

those are the same women that complain

about how love isn't for them. Of course

love isn't for you. You just dated a damn

gang banger who probably cut like 20

people . Or a drug dealer that has sold

more crack than you can sniff on. Or a

player that has had more sex than you

ever did in your entire life. I'm not

saying women should go for the nerdy

guy or the guy that looks like he can't

fight. But go for someone that isn't

involved in deep shit. To all women out

there stop going for those types of guys.

This doesn't apply to all women. Some

women just end up with jerks who aren't

involved in any deep shit. But majority

of the time women get into relationships

with men who have fucked up lives. You

want a man that has goals or a man that's

being committed to something positive.

If a guy is involved in negative things

then what does that say about him?

Better yet ...what does that say about

you? (Since you're dating him) . Just

think about it. Now let me get into

apartments and houses. Now you're

probably thinking "What is Christian

talking about?". Well i'm going to

answer that question right now. I've

interacted with women who were 22 or

23 years of age with a job , their own

place etc. I want to make it clear that

maturity does not come from those

things. Having your own place , a job

etc. Does not make you mature. You can

call yourself an independent person. But

not a mature person. I have encountered

immature women with all these things at

hand. You have a house , a car , a job

but can't even treat a man or a woman

right. Thats a bad look. Most of the time

the women that have all these things ,

the car , her own place etc..don't really

know what they wanted in their love life.

And being hurt from past relationships

should not be the excuse. Lets face it .

Everyones been hurt at one point. And it

doesn't make you less of a man or

woman to admit it. If men admitted more

and women watched their actions more

everything would be good . Men lie too

much and they feel like that's their

pathway to a better and more

comfortable life. While women don't

watch their actions. They do things and

end up thinking about the mistakes

they've made. And end up getting hurt.

I've seen women get excited for one guy.

And in their mind they're saying "Wow

this is a great guy , he's different . We

share so much in common blah blah

blah" And then next thing you know ,

that guy that was supposedly soooo great

and different hurts her. Women really

need to watch their actions. Don't fall for

the little sweet words that guys give you

, or for the little nice actions they do for

you . (Which normally doesn't last too

long) . Analyze a man for at least a

month before you start dating him.

Analyze him when hes around you with

his friends. And ask yourself "Does he

treat me different while hes with his

friends?". Because normally some guys

do that. Especially if you're in a

relationship. Around his friends he may

just treat you like shit. And make you

feel bad about yourself. It happens.

Analyze him in public areas. Ask

yourself "Does he treat me differently in

public, when we're around a lot of

people?". Analyze him when you're with

his parents. And ask yourself "Does he

treats me differently when he's around

his family?". If he always treats you the

same and always treats you good. And

doesn't treat you differently. Then he's a

good man. Always analyze a man and

ask yourself questions before making

any moves. Once you make a move

without analyzing someone you're

putting your heart in danger. You want

to build a strong relationship. That's why

you need to gather up all the information

you can about a person before you even

think about being with them. If you don't

know what a person likes/dislikes, what

a person does or doesn't do, etc...Then

you're putting yourself in a predicament

where you no longer have a stable love

life because your horrible actions did not

give you the outcome that you wanted.

So there is no one else to blame but

yourself. Met a bad person? , Your fault.

Got hurt? Your fault . Your heart is

broken...guess what? Your fault. You're

the one that chose your partner. You're

the one that probably gave a lot of

chances to your partner. And you're the

one that should've said STOP! or

ENOUGH ! , When your partner did

something really wrong to you. You can

stop your heart from being broken. You

can start by making better choices. I've

seen men and women go back into a

relationship with someone who has

cheated or mistreated them. You don't go

back to anyone that does those things to

you. You have to show people that you

are strong enough to leave them and

discard them from your life. Don't be the

puppet they can play around with. 

## Chapter 6: Starter Tips

You made it to chapter 6. By now you

should have some major knowledge on

men and women. But the knowledge

doesn't end there. Now I will give you

major starter tips when meeting someone

or being with someone. The first tips are

for women. I will talk about men.

Pay attention more to a man's actions

than his words.

The bottom line is that a man will show

you if he's worthy based on his actions.

Be with someone who continually

displays actions rather than words

You will never change a man so don't

try.

The only time a woman really succeeds

in changing a man is when he is a baby.

If you're not okay with a guys behavior,

race, religion, family etc.. Then most

likely he won't change any of that for

you. So my advice to

you- Find another man

Don't introduce every guy you date to

your family

Stop introducing everyone you date to

your family. Sooner or later you will

break up with the guy so what's the

point? Some families get attached to the

guy and ask questions. It gets annoying

hearing your mom or anyone else in

your family say,"Hey what happened to

the old guy? He was cooler than this

new one" . It will make you

uncomfortable. And I'm sure it will

make the new guy uncomfortable too. (If

you invited him to your house and he's

hearing). And you don't want that to

happen (Because it usually does happen)

Follow your heart not your thoughts

Remember that your heart will always be

right. The thoughts you have in your

mind don't help you out in relationships.

If you feel that the guy you're with isn't

right for you. Then your heart is right.

He isn't right for you. And you shouldn't

waste your time on him.

Crossing the limit

No man should make you so upset that

you will have to cry most of the time. If

a man makes you feel like that, don't

bother with him. A man shouldn't make

you feel that way. Unless it's happy

tears. Happy tears do not count

Don't rush into children

Having kids is a huge responsibility. A

responsibility that most men don't stick

around for. Make sure you spend a lot of

time with the man you want to have the

baby with. I'd say 3 years or 4 with him,

that should be enough. Enjoy being with

each other 1st before anything. Once you

see how he really is. Then you can

decide yourself if he's fit for the father

role or not. Don't waste your time having

a baby with a man that doesn't have a job

or has nothing going on with his life

Never tattoo a guy's name on your

body As you know tattoos are

permanent. Don't tattoo a guy's name on

your body. Even if you love him he's not

worth the permanent mark. How about

when you start hating him? Or he

mistreats you. Then what? Don't take the

risk. It doesn't feel good when you get a

new boyfriend and he looks at your old

boyfriends name on your body and says

something about it.

Become great friends first.

Be great friends with a guy before you

ever try dating him. Being his greatest

friend will enable you to find qualities

you like/dislike about him. When the

bond is stronger he will change and get

more comfortable with you. Trust me

when I say this, the way he acts when

you're his best friend will be different

from when you first met him

Fading

Looks will fade, passion will fade, but

always find that one thing that will keep

you and your partner together. Or else

the relationship will fade as well.

**The first tips were for women now**

**these tips are for men. I will talk**

**about women now**

Sex is mental for a female

Women are very mental about sex. You

do anything sexual to them and they will

remember it for the rest of their lives.

Give bad sex and they will remember.

Give good sex and they will remember.

Don't rush a girl into sex. Sex takes time.

You and the girl must feel comfortable

before doing it. Women don't like being

rushed into things at all.

Find the one that likes what you like

Most of the time men end up with

women that hate what they like. Do you

like baseball? You have tickets to go to a

baseball game and the woman you're

with doesn't like baseball at all? She

wants you home every night? Does she

complain when you watch your sports

games all the time and doesn't give you a

break for once? Then there's a problem.

Get with a woman that likes what you

like. It makes things better and way

easier.

Crazy chick? What are you doing?

LEAVE

If you know a crazy girl and it seems

like you can't handle her don't sit there

and think that you can. Because the

reality is...that you can't handle it. Even

if she's beautiful. I've dealt with

beautiful crazy women. It doesn't hurt to

run away from a crazy chick. Trust me.

Don't tell a girl I'll call you if you

won't call

Most guys do the same mistake every

time. When a date is done they'll say "I'll

call you". Just don't say " I'll call you " if in reality you don't even want to call her.

Because you're just wasting your time

and you're wasting hers. She'll probably

be waiting for your call and if you don't

call she'll probably just feel horrible. Just

say something like, "Alright take care!"

or "I had a great time with you" and

keep it moving.

Confidence is key

I've mentioned this earlier in The Human

Women Guide. Confidence is a really

big deal for a woman. If you don't have

it then you're not going anywhere. Make

sure you build up your confidence

before interacting with a female. Talk

about something you're good at or

something you like. That's a shortcut to

confidence since you'll have a lot to talk

about

Money does matter

Some women might say "I don't care

about his money" or "Money doesn't

matter, what matters is the love I have

for him" . Well, that's a whole bunch of

bullshit. Coming from me you know it

isn't a joke when I say money matters.

From the experiences I've faced, it does

matter. How are you going to visit a girl

with no money if she lives a little far

away? How will you take a girl out with

no money? How will you buy a girl

something she really likes with no

money? Money matters. Money matters

so much that sometimes it's the topic for

any major argument. A woman can

complain how a man is too cheap, or

complain about how much the man is

spending on other things etc...Money

matters, so find a partner that will

understand your situation and that will

work things out with you. Never be

afraid to tell a woman you're low on

money. I personally don't like doing it

but if I'm broke I'll usually tell her I'm

leaving things for another time since

now isn't a good time. And that will give

her a sign that I'm either broke or not

fully ready at the moment. Money is an

issue big enough to split some couples

up. So be sure to have your money right

and make sure you're focused.

Religion

This is really, really important. I have

encountered women who believe in

something different than me. Before you

get into a relationship make sure you

know what the person believes in.

Because some people take religion way

too serious and are very committed to

their beliefs. Religion can be the cause

of an argument. It happened to me

before

Jealousy

I didn't include this in the tips for

women since this is a major issue with

men. If you're a man avoid being jealous

at all costs. I know it bothers and hurts

since the girl you like/love is probably

laughing and smiling and chatting with

another man but take it easy.

Don't let stress take over

I've seen it happen. The guy has a bad

day at work. Comes home to his

girlfriend and takes everything out on

her. No, you don't do that. If you have

stress don't let it take over and ruin your

relationship. Put your stress aside and

deal with your girlfriend the right way.

Words offend women a lot

Some women are very sentimental. You

call her fat or say something negative

about her and she will remember it.

Watch what you say to women. Usually,

you can scare them off by saying the

wrong things. Women at times will not

tell you if you have offended them or if

you have said something that they did

not like. At times, they'll probably tell

you at the last minute. Sometimes you

won't even hear from a woman ever

again if you offend her. So just make

sure that doesn't happen and watch your

words. Now that I have went over

separated tips for both men and women I

will now give my top 5 tips for both

women and men non-separated. Which

means no matter the gender, these tips

are for you

Party, clubber? Nope

If you're looking for a serious

relationship don't hit the clubs trying to

see if you'll land with someone that will

last you for years. Because that's not the

way to go. Why choose a party person?

The person will most likely be meeting

new people all the time and will only

focus on getting drunk or probably

getting laid. Let the party people date

other party people and let them drown in

problems. Save yourself the pain

Daddy's little girl/Mommas boy

Don't go for a daddy's little girl or a

mommas boy. Those who expect you to

spoil them just like their parents aren't

meant for you. It's a dangerous situation

for your money.

Meantimes don't shine

Don't be with someone for the

"Meantime" , with a person that's most

likely not ready for a commitment. If

you're lonely it doesn't mean you should

run off to anyone and date them. It is

better to wait for the right person than to

be with the wrong one. The wrong

person might just distract you from the

right one that actually shows up in your

life. Many people invest time in people

that they're not really interested in, just

so they won't feel lonely. Don't do this.

You will regret it

The undecided ones

I think I've dealt with many, many

undecided people. I personally don't like

to deal with them. I don't have time to sit

around waiting for a response from

someone. So if you meet someone that

says things like," I'll let you know ",

"Maybe", or " I will get back to you "

you know what to do. If you continue to

receive undecided messages from a

person just don't even bother with

him/her. Lose his/her number on purpose

if you have to. They are either having a

hard time making decisions because they

are very insecure or he/she is not

interested in you. Whatever the case may

be just save your time and don't even

bother with them. For your own good.

All over -and- gone routine

Don't waste time with a guy/girl that is

all over you at one moment and then the

next moment he/she is irritated at you or

angry at you for no reason. If this is

happening for a while then instead of

trying to figure out what's wrong and

finding out more about this person, just

make sure you find another person that's

more stable. Life is already tough as it is

and you don't need someone making it

tougher or stressing you out

## Chapter 7: The Truth Within Both

### **Genders**

What you will learn in this chapter The

truth within both genders

\- You will learn truths within the female

\- You will learn truths within the male

\- You will learn why you're still thinking

about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend (Only

if you are)

\- You will learn about the things I don't

like about dating

\- Men will learn how to be better men

\- Women will learn how to be better

women

This is nothing like chapter 4. In case,

you were wondering. Now that you're

further into The Human Women Guide I

will go even deeper. Read carefully

because I will be covering both genders.

First let's talk about men. Men need

alone time. I know I do. Some men (Like

me) often need alone time when we are

not feeling well. I hate it when a woman

tries to figure out why I'm upset, or mad.

Sometimes I just don't want to be figured

out. I just want to be left alone.

Completely isolated from the rest of the

people around me. Expectations from

women often scare men off. When a

female expects so much from a man

there's a problem. As a woman, you

shouldn't be expecting so much from

men. Men don't sit down and think about

how gorgeous or rich their dream girl

should be. Most of the time men really

don't expect crap from a girl. Because

they are usually looking at their cleavage

or derriere. If she has none of those then

men will focus on the face because a guy

won't stick around if he doesn't find

anything attractive on a girl. Most men

don't like to see women cry. Not only do

they see it as a weakness but they start to

think "Damn this girl is too fucking

sensitive". Then if a woman constantly

keeps crying he would get tired of it. A

guy doesn't want a whiny, sentimental

girl. It drives them crazy. So try not to

cry too much in front of a man (Show

emotions but don't overdo it). Another

thing about men is the complaining they

get from women. Men hate complaints. I

hate complaints too. I don't like it when I

do something wrong and a girl wants to

come out of nowhere to correct me and

then complains afterward. It gets me

pissed off. And as a man I know my

mistakes and I don't need a damn tape

recorder to repeat what I did wrong.

Which, in this case is a woman. Women

worry too much about what men are

thinking. Sometimes they'll ask "What

are you thinking about?" and as men

we'll say "Nothing". Then women think

its a lie and then they start assuming

things such as "He doesn't want to talk to

me anymore", or "Did I do something

wrong to him?" etc.. You don't need to

ask what we're thinking . Just watch

what we're doing. Save your thoughts

and assumptions to yourself and if you

see a change of behavior in a man then

that's when you ask. We don't like when

women ask us what we're thinking. It

gets annoying. And personally to me, it

makes it seem like the girl is boring and

she has nothing else to talk about. Why

bring such a meaningless question? Now

let's get into women. It seems some

women don't like it when you ask them

about their weight. I remember one time

a woman made a joke about it when I

asked her. And she said, "230 pounds".

And then she laughed when she said it.

But I wasn't laughing. She told me her

real weight afterward, but this comes to

show that women are a little

uncomfortable in telling men how much

they weigh. So don't ask a woman how

much she weighs or ask her what size

pants she wears. Don't even ask her how

many boyfriends she's had either. She

won't like it. Plus it's rude. Who cares

how many guys she had? If she had a lot

I bet most of you guys will get the

wrong impression and if she had a few

you'll probably think,"Wow this girl is a

lame who probably isn't even good with

relationships to begin with. So I'm not

even going to bother with her". So either

way, men will always have something to

say. So don't ask a female that. If she

tells you then that's fine but don't you

dare ask her. Want to know who girls

tell their secrets to? To their best friends.

It doesn't necessarily have to be one of

the girls that she knows. It can be a guy

too. But women always tell things to

their closest friends. I've seen it go

down. A woman will tell things to

someone they feel very comfortable

with. I've had many women tell me

about their situations and problems and

even tell me their secrets. But I hold

secrets so good that I soon forget them.

Another thing about Women is that they

just hate waiting. I hate waiting too. But

a woman will think you're disorganized,

and forgetful if you have her waiting

around. The next thing about women,

they hate when men talk about

themselves. I know there're some girls

out there that might say "No I like when

a guy talks". But the reality is that

women like to do the talking. So you

should just let them talk and be a good

listener.

Why you're probably thinking about

your Ex-boyfriend/Ex-girlfriend

Maybe you feel guilty. Maybe you just

broke up with him/her and feel like

you're the cause that he/she is feeling sad

or horrible. Some people's lives get

messed up over a breakup at times.

Another reason will be because you

regret something. Maybe you didn't do

something you've wanted to do? Maybe

you think the relationship could go

further than before. The next reason will

be a bad ending. Maybe the relationship

between you and your ex ended without

reason. And you're sitting there

wondering what the hell happened. And

the last reason will be the obvious....you

just want your ex back. Maybe you want

to be in the arms of your ex again. And

you can't even help it. Since the feeling

is so strong. Let me give you the truth.

The honest truth. I rarely date women.

Things usually happen. I remember a

girl asked me out on the phone. And it

was official, we were together. And

when we saw each other we just started

bonding and we even had a little make

out session. It didn't always happened

like that with every other woman. But I

just don't remember going on any

hardcore dates. I know the perfect places

to go on a date. And what to say to a

woman. Sometimes in dates people

make things feel awkward. Either the

person barely talks, or you have the

weird long awkward silences. Things

like that creep me out when I do go on a

date. I've learned that being late when

attending a date is a major

disappointment for a male or female. I

remember one time I was late for a date

(Not on purpose) and the girl was really

mad at me. Of course she thought I was

making excuses since I told her it wasn't

my fault. Even when I showed her proof

that I didn't do things on purpose she

was still mad at me. But that's how

women are. I don't like when someone

on a date tells me their life stories.

Dating is a time to get to know one

another. Not to talk about yourself all

damn day. And normally people that talk

too much about themselves don't notice

how annoying it is for the person that's

actually listening to them. When you're

on a date and you have a phone with

you, turn it off. I hate when I'm on a date

and the person I'm dating is talking on

the phone with someone and texting

other people. Like helloooo I'm here

waiting to have a good time with you!

And meanwhile all you're doing is

paying attention to other things. That's

rude and you should not be doing it. A

date is like a test. It kinda resembles a

pop quiz. Since you don't know what to

expect. If you're on a date and you're

having a great time then let it show.

Smile, laugh, etc. Or even let the person

know and tell him/her, "I'm having a

great time". It really bothers me when

I'm on a date with a girl that gives me no

type of signs that she's having a great

time. If I have to ask you "Are you

having a good time/" then there's a

possibility you won't have a 2nd date

with me, or that you'll even hear from

me. I don't like dull dates. I want the

person I'm with to ask questions. This

isn't a job interview but asking questions

opens up new discussions. It seems

people nowadays don't know how to talk

or keep a conversation going. The

longest conversation I've had with a

woman was 6 hours straight. It was by

video chat and I was talking with my

blonde friend Joanis Varela. The

discussions she and I had shifted

between different topics. It was so good

I don't think any of us wanted to stop

talking to each other. I know how to

keep a conversation going but if you're a

boring person then things will not work

out. I can't make conversations with

someone whose boring. Sometimes dates

get too crazy. Maybe you have a little

too much to drink, or your partner has a

bad moment and cannot recover from it.

Which can be a total disaster? Always

remember that your 1st impression is

what everyone will always remember

you as. So the 1st impression counts. For

example if I met a drug addict for the 1st

time and we became friends (I know

what you're thinking. Why the fuck will

I be friends with a drug addict?. Well

keep reading I'm getting there) then i

want to get him out of the drugs and be a

good friend and help him. And soon he

becomes a non-drug addict. And turns

out to be a successful man. Will I always

remember him as a successful man?.

Absolutely not. This guy was a drug,

addict. That was the 1st impression he

gave me. He gave me the impression of

a drug addict. Even though he changed I

will always remember him as that. So

the 1st impression is very important. It

also applies when I was in school. In the

1st day of school, everyone wants to

make a 1st impression on the new

people. So they dress nice, smell nice,

etc. 1st impression counts. If you dress

like a hobo. Guess what people will

remember you as? A hobo. They'll say

things like "Oh I remember that guy! He

was dressing like a hobo in the first day

of school, smelling like a can of tuna".

Even if you don't dress like a hobo now

people will always remember that 1st

impression moment for good. Here's a

list I composed about things I hate about

dates:

\- Person mentioning that they still have

some type of affection for their

EX-partner

\- Person saying "I'm in recovery from a

past relationship" (This is sensitive

information that should not be revealed

in the first date)

\- A person talking about financial

problems (Talking about how broke they

are or how much money they have.

Which really doesn't interest me . It

really kills the moment).

How to become a better man

Many women have told me "Christian I

wish other guys were like you". The

reality is, that there isn't enough of "Me"

to go around. Which is the reason why

I've focused on writing this guide. Since

I want women to have better men and I

want men to actually find some women.

Now I don't have any deep dark secrets.

I have just been around with women. But

there're a few things you can do to

become a better man. And the first thing

is **[Tell a woman how you feel and**

**what you are looking for]**. I'm always

honest with women and I tell them how I

feel and tell them what I'm looking for.

You don't want to waste a girls time and

only want her for "Sex". And then end

up hurting her. If you just want sex you

might as well just tell her. Like I'm being

real honest. And if she doesn't want sex

then leave her alone and keep it moving.

As a man, you need to be very honest.

Since honesty plays a very important

part in life. The second thing is **[Be a**

**listener]**. Women like when men listen.

If she's talking and you're looking

elsewhere and not paying attention,

chances are she's going to get offended

very fast. Remembering things a woman

speaks about helps too. That way she

knows that you're always very fond of

what she says. The third way of

becoming a better man is to **[Be willing]**.

If you're not willing to do things that

your girlfriend/partner likes then there's

no adventure in that. Try new restaurants

with her, see a chick flick, go shopping

with her etc. The point is to mix it up.

You don't want to get caught up doing

the same things with a woman. The

fourth thing is **[Be a helper]** whether

you help financially or physically it does

not matter. A woman wants a man that

will help her and be there for her. She

doesn't want a man that's always

bringing her down and not making her

feel good. The last and final step is to

**[Focus on the little things]**. Now I left

this one for last because this is a very

very important one. This one is so

important that even my own mother

brought it up at one point. Men need to

focus on the little things. When you see

your girlfriend or person you admire, tell

them how much you care. Bring a

woman flowers, a teddy bear, etc. The

little things do count. And you'd be

surprised to see a smile on a girl's face

when she receives something from you.

There are some women that don't like

flowers. I understand. I've met some. But

it's your job as a man to figure that out.

Some men are too plain and have never

given a woman a flower, or a teddy bear

or an anniversary ring, or never even

brought her a pair of panties! That's

boring. Spice things up. That's why dates

and relationships don't last. And if you

buy her panties try Victoria Secrets ;)

How to become a better woman

I love women, I really do. But they have

issues just like men have issues. But the

issues women have don't quite match

with the issues men have. There're a few

things you can do to become a better

woman and the first thing is **[Avoid**

**being negative]**. Complaining about

your past relationships or having a

whole negative attitude just doesn't look

right. Also, avoid being negative

towards yourself. There are women out

there that say things like "I'm a

loser","life sucks " "I don't know why anyone would be interested in me" etc...

I have 4 words for you, shut the fuck up.

(Sorry I'm being too harsh) . But saying

things like that makes it seem like you

want attention or that you're just a lame

girl that doesn't even have a life to begin

with. And technically you do. So quit

talking negatively about yourself. Most

people find it annoying. You want

compliments? Leave the negative

nonsense behind. Or else you'll have

guys saying "See ya later negative

talker!" The second thing will be **[Don't**

**be too shy]**. Some women are just way

too shy. They can't even talk to a boy

without stuttering and saying the wrongs

things. Boys have problems going up to

girls too. So you're not the only one. Be

confident. What's the worse a guy can

do? Just go up and say hi. And start a

conversation based on what he's doing.

Use your surroundings to help you. It

works when you're first interacting with

a man or woman. Life is only once.

Don't waste your time sitting around

being shy and thinking about "What do I

say to this boy?". If you think about that

then you will not do well. The reality is

that you don't plan what you are going to

say. You don't plan. You just say it. Do

you plan a whole conversation in your

head before you talk to your best friend?

Do you plan a conversation in your head

when you talk to any of your family

members? Yeah, probably not. So it's the

same thing with a boy you're trying to

talk to. Be yourself. Be calm. Try to find

out what he likes, his name, etc. The

third thing will be **[Be a leader not a**

**follower]**. Some women tend to follow

what other women do. If a girl is doing

certain types of things with her

boyfriend, don't do the same shit with

your boyfriend. Don't try and copy what

other girls around you do. If another girl

around you smokes, don't try and smoke

to look cool. Make your own decisions.

Do what's right for you. If you're a nerdy

type of girl and you like being that way

then remain that way. Don't be a

follower and follow others just because

you think that they are better than you or

something. The truth is they're not. The

next thing you must follow in order to

become a better woman is **[Don't**

**believe in everything that you hear]**.

Many females Believe in other females

or believe in poor advice other people

give them. No one should be telling you

"I think your man is cheating on you so

you should leave that man". The truth is

that isn't advice. Don't go to close

friends who don't know anything about

relationships for advice. Most of the

time the advice isn't good. The last thing

is **[Don't Expect]**. Many women expect

some kind of thing from a man. Don't

expect anything from a man. Everything

you expect usually does not turn out the

way you expect at all. Most of the time

expectations lead to disappointments. If

you want to talk to a man, talk to him.

Don't expect him to talk to you. If your

boyfriend hasn't called you all day, don't

expect him to call you. Call him and find

out what's going on or something. If he

still avoids you then just don't deal with

him. Once you feel you're avoided by

someone for a while, never disturb them

again. And personally I've learned that

the hard way. There have been times

where I would be talking to a gorgeous

girl and then all of a sudden the talking

between us starts drifting away. She was

obviously avoiding me for some reason,

but it really isn't my job to play detective

and figure out why she's avoiding me.

Maybe her boyfriend doesn't want her

talking to guys.Maybe she lost her

internet? Maybe she likes me a lot but

doesn't want to be too attached to me.

There are many reasons. But I won't

disturb her again. That's how it is. In life,

you move on. You can't focus on one

person that's making your life so

complicated and weird. There're other

people in life. Other options. Other

opportunities. Why should you grasp

into one human being expecting the best

out of them when clearly he/she will not

give it to you?

**Chapter 8 : Conclusion to The Human**

**Women Guide**

So you've reached the last chapter of this

book. Bravo, bravo. I just want to say

thanks to anyone that has taken the time

to read my guide. This guide is all based

on real things that have happened to real

people. It is my job as the women guide

to give everyone advice that goes

straight to the point. There are many

dating/relationship books out there that

cost money and when people pay for

them and read them they are left with a

blank face. Most of the time the books

won't even have good advice. The advice

will just be things you already know. A

lot of stuff in this book comes from

various experiences that people had. All

that stuff you saw that women don't like,

yeah that was from actual women. I

asked people. I also tossed some of my

experiences on here as well since I've

been around with mostly women all of

my life. I gained my knowledge from

experience , and it was free. I didn't pay

anyone to get the knowledge that I

know. That's why people can read The

Human Women Guide for free. I just

want to help people. Some people think

differently about me though. They don't

see me as a helper. Sometimes people

think I'm a rude person . And by rude I

mean "Too honest" and others say "I

correct people too much". But I correct

people because I care. Sometimes I can

be too caring. I tell people, "My

reactions are the results of your actions".

If you're not offending me or

disrespecting me in anyway then there's

no need for me to be rude at all. That's

just how I see it. Well enough about me.

Most of you probably grew tired of

reading about me already. Lets review a

few things from The Human Women

Guide. This is the conclusion to

everything so lets summarize what's

been learned from this book. Okay we

learned about dating and how you need

to pick the right places to date to get

valid results with your partner.

Remember that movies and eating dinner

shouldn't be done at a 1st date. You want

to bond. You want to know the person

more. You don't want to stare at a movie

screen . And you also don't want to be

feeding anyone on the 1st date. This isn't

about feeding the hungry. We also

learned a lot about texting. The reason

why a woman won't text and things like

that. The texting advice may apply to

men as well in some points. So be aware

of that when rechecking chapter 2 . We

also learned the different signs women

and men give . The signs that tell you if

a certain person likes you or not. I also

covered the whole "Cheating" topic.

Many people want to be able to tell

when a female or male is cheating. Facts

about women and men were covered .

Things that bother men and women. And

things men and women should fix about

themselves. I covered basically a whole

bunch of important topics. And I went

into detail. In this chapter I want to

cover new things. And different things.

But first I want to set up a list of

commandments. Rules you should

follow that will guide you in the right

direction. The rules are not too hard to

follow.

**The Human Women Guide 10**

**Commandments**

**1.** (For men) You shall not give a

woman your contact details when first

meeting her or connecting with her. 95%

of women don't contact men first. Most

of the time telling a woman "call me" or

"text me" will not work. And if you

think a woman will call you or text you ,

then think again. So ask her for her

contact details instead. That way as a

man you have control of the outcome

**2.** As a man or woman you shall not

disturb those who avoid you. People

who avoid you or seem like they are

avoiding you , don't deal with them , or

even contact them. When they reach out

to you that's when you resume the

interaction. In life don't feel sorry for no

one if they don't feel sorry for you

**3.** You shall not put the name of your

religion into anyone's life. Believe it or

not religion can destroy a friendship or a

relationship. There's been cases where

one person would be religious while the

other wasn't. And this will cause major

conflict and vexation between both

beings. You can let a person know if

you're religious or not if they ask. But

remember to only talk about religion if

both beings can handle a conversation

about it.

**4.** You shall accept a man or woman's

figure. As you criticize someone's body

just think about how yours look. Maybe

you should stand naked in front of a

mirror and spot all of your

imperfections. Everyone has something

they don't like about themselves. If you

truly love/care for someone. Then accept

them for who they really are

**5.** You shall listen to a man or woman.

Many people get into a relationship.

Whether it is a friendship or a love

relationship. And in those relationships

they don't listen to each other at times.

You need to listen to people. A person

talks and you listen. Don't get distracted

by your surroundings or anything else.

Maintain eye contact. You don't have to

maintain full eye contact if its the same

gender [ For example ; If its a boy

talking to another boy don't maintain eye

contact if you don't want to. Personally i

don't make full eye contact with

someone that is my same gender]

**6.** You shall be honest when honesty is

needed. At times there will be moments

where you need to be honest. Lying

should not be used when honesty is

needed. I was going to write "You shall

not lie" but everyone lies. And there's no

such thing as never lying. That's why the

title of this 6th commandment is not that.

I'm trying to be as honest as possible

when writing this. But my point is to say

the truth when you need to. Don't lie just

to lie. The more honest you are the

better. That's all i have to say

**7.** You shall have a plan B. So you're in a

relationship with someone and you two

break up. Then what? If you have no

plan B (Meaning a second plan) then

you're pretty much stuck being upset all

by yourself. You need to have a plan B .

A plan that will help you be in good

condition in case your relationship with

someone goes downhill. A lot of men

and women don't have a plan B so they

are stuck either crying at home , being

depressed , etc. Your plan B can be

talking with someone that makes you

feel good , eating your favorite meal ,

etc. You're basically doing activities that

will get your mind off the break up or

bad relationship issues. Don't let

someone stress you out. You can stop

stress

**8.** You shall not fall by the trend. Many

people are victims of this. They see

something new and they want it. Just for

the simple fact that it is popular. Don't

go by the trend and don't buy a certain

type of item because other people buy

them too. Get what you like and be

yourself!

**9.** Do not turn your back to those that are

dear to you. There are people that come

with good intentions. Don't categorize

everyone in the same category. Just

because someone treated you bad doesn't

mean everyone else you meet will too.

And just because one person is boring

doesn't make everyone else boring. If

someone is nice to you and actually

wants to talk to you or makes time for

you then appreciate that and be nice

back . Just keep that in mind

**10.** You shall walk away from bad

energy. Always walk away from a

situation that has bad energy. If you're

talking to someone and they come off

rude just walk away from it. Just brush it

off and prepare for the next opportunity

with another person that might treat you

differently. You cannot waste time with

bitchy or rude people. When a woman is

rude to me and we are texting i tell her

to cool off and to not talk to me until

she's calm. And that in the meantime i

don't want to talk to her at all. And it

works . And when i say this to rude

women they tend to be nicer to me the

next day or even apologize. And in

person i just literally walk away from a

girl. And leave her talking to herself. I

don't have time for all of that. This is the

end of the human women guide

commandments. If you abide by the

rules and by this guide I guarantee you

will do better in your love and social

life.

I want to talk a little bit about online

dating. I have seen some people go

towards this and based on my experience

online dating isn't good. You should just

stick to meeting people in person. I tried

online dating a while back and it was a

disaster. There was a girl that didn't even

put her correct location. She let me

know at the last minute that she was

hours away from me. We weren't living

too close to each other. And I don't feel

like visiting a girl that's very very far

away. And other girls I've met on a

dating site they are so plain and boring.

It just feels like they don't want to put no

effort in anything. So why are you on a

dating site if you're not willing to try?

You know what I mean? After that

experience I was like "No more". I rather stick to the usual. Which is meeting

women in person and interacting with

them in person. Normally when you start

to look for a friendship/relationship on a

dating site it just means that you have

given up on the real world. And I felt

like that when I tried a dating site for the

1st time. Nowadays not a lot of people

come up to you in the street and say

"Hey I want to meet you". But the dating

site stuff is not worth it. Some people

might think so but ....the reality is that

it's just a waste of time. "Hey, my name

is Christian I'm from New York, blah,

blah ,blah". It just gets boring.

Especially if you're saying that to a

whole bunch of people you want to be

friends with. I'm not giving up on love

though. I'm just waiting for the right

woman. As I'm writing this, i'm single.

Focusing on me. Aiming for the best.

There're others that are not doing that.

Some people are smoking, dropping out

from school, having no type of meaning

to their life. Which is a sad story. I've

found that the better I am with the

women in my life, the stronger I can be

as a male friend and the more direct I

become. Approaching women cold is the

same clarity I can focus on any situation

in my life. A strong, confident, direct,

unapologetic (but kind) man is the type

of man who succeeds in dating and in

life. So basically I see women as the

guide to other things in my life. Women

are complicated, life is complicated. If I

learn how to deal with women then

dealing with life shouldn't be so hard

..should it? That's my secret. That's why

people don't ever catch me with a group

of guys hanging out. Or taking pictures

with 5 other men drinking liquor. That

isn't me. The only pictures you'll see is

me with a woman or women or by

myself. I'm not encouraging men to stop

hanging out with their guy friends and to

only hang out with women. No, not at

all.Every man needs a few guy friends

here and there. Even I hang out with a

guy friend once in awhile. Very rare, but

I still do. I have one guy best friend. He

and I share a lot in common. We live

close to each other and we often catch

up with each other with anything that's

happening in our lives. No one can

replace him since all other men don't

share anything me and him share. I see

him as an older brother. I learn from

him. Not exactly about women, though.

Since that isn't his field. Hes not a

women expert. Neither am i. Actually no

one can be a women, expert. There's way

too many races and differences in

women that makes it way too hard to

even be one. But let's just say his

experience with women is nowhere near

mines. He's a great guy who goes with

the flow in life. He doesn't smoke or

anything, he doesn't drink,hes not in a

gang, he doesn't hurt anyone for no

reason, he's a hard worker, he's just very

calm. And those are the type of people I

like having in my life. I know some of

you might be wondering. "If he knows

so many girls, why isn't his best friend a

girl?". Well back in the days I had a girl

best friend. The problem is that women

cannot keep the best friend title for long.

Either they change throughout the years

or they simply vanish from my life

without saying a simple word. This may

not occur to other men who have girls as

best friends, but it has occurred to me in

a few cases. And I normally don't

become friends with a girl and then out

of nowhere start calling her "Bestie" or

"Hey best friend". It just doesn't work

like that. She has to share a lot of things

in common with me and we have to hang

out a lot in order for that to happen. I

wish I had a girl best friend, but all the

women I know are just cool women.

None of them are cool enough to

actually be a best friend. And it's not

because I don't want to. It's because I

really don't have too many things in

common with the women I interact with.

Yes, there's a lot of good

communication, for the most part, with

some women but nothing major. Now

let's get into a subject I never got into. A

subject that might be interesting to some

of you. Yes, it's personal and I normally

don't talk about myself. I never liked it. I

always liked being the mysterious man

that women never really knew about. So

with that said, let's start. My mother.

Now some of you might think "Oh he's

good with women so the relationship

with his mother is great". Wrong. The

relationship I have with my mother isn't

even all that great. It's actually really

weird and bipolar-ish if you ask me. One

moment she's arguing for no reason and

another moment shes saying good

morning. It's weird shit. I argue with her

a lot since she doesn't get calm. And I

tell her to calm herself but that doesn't

work at times. So never tell a woman to

calm down. She just gets worse. My

mother will argue for the littlest things. I

remember one time i said in Spanish

"Don't slam the door , stop acting like a

beast" and she got really angry and said

"I'm a beast? eh .. well this beast is the

one who brought you to this world. You

want me to slap you across your fucking

face and leave you with no teeth? Watch

how you talk to me. Watch how you talk

to me". And I would say "What are you

talking about ? I didn't say you are a

beast I said stop slamming doors like if

you were one. I called your actions a

beast I didn't call YOU a beast ma you

are not listening properly" and she got

even more mad. And said, "Oh so what

are you trying to fucking say? Are you

trying to say I'm crazy? That I don't

clean my ears? I know what the fuck

you're talking about . Don't hit me with

that bullshit. I'm not a beast watch how

you talk to me". And i would have to sit

there and swallow my words and not say

shit back. I don't like arguing. I hate it.

My mother is probably the only woman

I'll take shit from. I'm not taking shit

from nobody else though. Some women

say I give up too fast. That's because my

patience is limited. I have a lot of limits.

I will turn down sex, i will turn down a

hot beautiful woman. I don't care. If a

girl passes my limits then that's how i

react . No doubt about it. Okay so I've

talked about my mother. And now i want

to curse out every man that just wants a

girls pussy. (I'm kidding). But some of

you guys just sound so damn desperate.

You men make it so noticeable . You

want sex ? Do you have money? Link up

with some hoes. But please don't be with

a girl just for sex. The sex will come at a

later time. Just focus on making her

happy. I know the world has been cruel

to you and your dick probably has been

dry for a few months now. I understand.

I've been in those dry moments. But

you're not getting your dick wet by

automatically trying to get a girl into

your house. Girls get scared when you

immediately bring up and sex and things

like that. Majority of women don't like

that . Yes women like sex. Some tell me

they enjoy it a lot. Some girls even do it

more than twice a day. But what women

want is love. Not just sex. That's the

point . Now for the ladies . Even though

throughout the book I've been saying

positive things about women . And

barely saying anything negative about

women. I just want you women to know

that you shouldn't take a year to give a

man sex. Some girls take so long. And

the problem with some of you is that you

girls actually think a man will leave you

if you give him sex. So that means you

will never give him sex since you don't

want him to ever leave you? If he

deserves it then why not give him sex? If

he's been working his ass off and being a

real man and sticking by you, why not?

Its crazy how sometimes the good guys

don't get sex. And the real jerks out there

get to have sex with women. Then those

jerks leave those women after they fuck

them and then women say "All men are

the same". No , all men are not the same

. You're just fucking with the wrong

guys. That's all there is to it. The real

nice men out there get treated like crap .

Women in the past have abused them

mentally and have treated them like they

weren't worth anything . And those nice

men eventually turn into assholes since

they got tired of women taking

advantage of them. And what goes

through their mind next? : "Fuck love

i'm just going to fuck women and leave

them". Sometimes jerks are just guys

that used to be nice guys that got treated

like nothing. And it was all the fault of a

woman. So next time you say "This guy

is too nice" and complain. Or say

"There's barely any good men out there".

Remember to just blame the females that

don't treat good men properly. There are

times where jerks are just born jerks.

And normally can't treat a lady right. But

most of the time some men were nice

guys that just turned bad. If you have a

nice man appreciate him. Love him. Tell

him how much he means to you. Don't

let another nice guy turn bad. There's a

couple of things to tell if a man likes

you. I'll list them for you

\- He laughs at your shitty jokes

\- He gives you a nickname

\- He will ask you this question "What do

you like in guys?"

\- He asks people about you

\- He asks for your number

\- He doesn't let text conversations end

easily

\- He's nice to your friends

\- He cares about everything you say

\- He always has time for you

\- He calls you just to talk

\- He sees a girly movie with you

\- He feels comfortable when you touch

him

\- He stops doing his favorite thing just

so he can be with you

And remember don't hug your guy friend

longer than your boyfriend. Follow my

list and see who likes you.

I still have a long road ahead of me. And

on that road i'm by myself. I came to this

earth by myself . I started walking on

this road by myself and i will end the

road by myself. Yes there will be people

on this road that will meet up with me at

times. But when i die that will be the end

of the road. A simple dead end. I admire

those that have been by my side long

enough. I still have much to learn from

women. So for now i will continue

walking on this road. Hopefully i'll meet

a girl. A girl i can love. I want love. I

want to fall in love deeply. I haven't

fallen in love really, really deeply like

others have. I just want something real.

No bullshit , pure honesty. Things like

that. I see myself as a weird man. My

mother once told me you're a man with

the mind of a woman. And i guess she

was right. And if there was such a thing

as a perfect girlfriend and i had her right

now I would grab her hand , look deeply

into her eyes and tell her : live on to the

end with me and when we live on to the

end we will remember the memories.......

P.S. If you enjoyed this guide, feel free

to get in contact with me or spread the

word about my guide to others. Thank

you

Christian .O. Ortiz

11/08/2012

Copyright © 2012 by Christian Omar

Ortiz. All rights reserved.

**Quotations From Author**

"Life isn't about the brand of clothes

you wear, or about who looks the best.

It's about the number of faces which

smile when they hear your name"

"In life don't complain about anything if

you're the reason for the outcome"

"Today I'll fix the mistakes I made

yesterday and tomorrow I'll fix the

mistakes I made today"

"In life don't feel sorry for no one if they

don't feel sorry for you"

"In life do what you want. Because

you'll regret it later on when you can no

longer do it"

_All was said by Christian .O. Ortiz and_

_has been quoted the exact way Christian_

_.O. Ortiz said them_
