- Tips and advice for
going through a divorce.
If you have children,
remember that you're in
each other's lives forever.
Right?
So try to remember that.
Don't just be, you know
what Michelle Obama said,
Right?
Like they go low, we go high,
you've got to be able to see
the forest through the trees.
Okay?
And that means there is a longterm play
and there's a short term.
Short term for me is emergency situations,
temporary protection
orders, temporary orders,
motions to restrict parenting time.
You're hammering right off the bat,
Right?
Long play is let them
look like an asshole,
put everything in writing
and then lay it out as
you go through the process
because if you do it the right way,
you're painting people in a corner.
And if they can come back and say,
Whoa! that's not what I meant.
I said, well, did you did that this time,
this time, this time, this time.
So it's not the most aggressive
and angry like representation.
Even though that's what you feel,
that's what you feel in your heart.
That's why you have to have lawyers
that are not emotionally entrenched
or immeshed in the case.
You want to come out of
this feeling refreshed
and rejuvenated with
a fresh start in life.
Right?
You don't wanna be in a situation
where everything is just escalated.
Right?
There's the old saying about
where you get two lawyers
fighting over in your divorce,
basically what they're
doing is they're pissing
in the marital pool and having you
and your partner or your spouse swim in it
for the rest of your lives.
You don't want that.
What you wanna be doing is, is focusing,
focusing, focusing, focusing.
If you can do that and you
have the right attorney
that is helping you stay focused,
then you're gonna be
in a much better spot.
