Hi everybody, Casey Zander here and in today's
video, I wanted to actually introduce you
to a student success of mine and this man
that you're about to meet is named Aaron.
Okay and I've had the opportunity to watch
Aaron grow and transform himself within his
masculinity, his attraction skills and actually
the ability for him to navigate the dating
game with women. And not only that I watched
him actually take MBT and copy paste that
into almost every single area in his life.
And I felt that his story and his background
and his whole come up throughout this was
just too good not to share. So without further
ado, I want to actually introduce you guys
to Aaron also if you would like to learn MBT
as well. What I want you to do after this
video is over is go down below and book a
call with my team. So that way they can screen
your application to see if you potentially
would be a good fit for this program. What
you're going to get is a full on one on one
console with my team. So that way they can
see if you are potentially ready to have the
opportunity to work one on one with me I everybody
Casey's in Here. And what I wanted to do today
was I wanted to take some time and I wanted
to interview Aaron all the nice. He is a masculinity
blueprint accelerator students. And he's had
a crazy transformation with the program. So
what I wanted to do was I wanted to, to kind
of introduce him and you know, give you guys
his story. And not only can he possibly share
some of the experiences and the growth, he
said, but I think there might be a lot of
aha moments that you're going to be able to
relate to. So as we kind of chip away at this,
I wanted to introduce you to Aaron. So Aaron,
do you want to kind of go ahead and maybe
just give them your story or your background
a little bit?
Yeah, for sure. A nice honor from the Rio
Grande Valley here in South Texas. So think
about San Antonio or Austin, Texas, but actually
a five hour drive down south. Growing up my
parents were married until about the age of
four. When my father started going through
some depression, my mother ended up divorcing
him and after that, It was just me, my mother
and my brother. Long story short, I was pretty
much the man of the household when I was very,
very, very young. And it wasn't until my mother
and my stepfather probably around
when, at the age of 10, or 11, for me,
that's when I really had a male role model
in my household. So even growing up, I still
had that.
What's the best way to save
that missing figure in my life because as
great as my stepfather is, as much as I love
him, life is very crucial, especially as a
man growing up. So long story short, I was
pretty much a overgrown boy. And so the age
of 2122 I didn't necessarily have any rational
thinking to myself. Remember, Conan, Casey
rose all over the place. He's asking these
stupid questions.
And he had all the
good you were in a good growth phase though.
Yeah, man. I was trying my Best Man, I'll
tell you that. And yet long story short, it.
I went through a big battles internally that
we'll speak about later on today. But if it
wasn't for Casey man, I wouldn't be the person
that I am right now. You know, he really instilled
a sense of rationality into me a sense of
real work ethic, a sense of purpose more than
anything else. I know that's a huge buzzword
nowadays. But, you know, it's, it's, I've
always said that the truth is cliche. You
know, if you hear it all the time, more than
likely it's probably what it is. The sky is
blue for reasons so on and so forth. Right.
So well, cool, man. So a
lot of steps there. But it's,
yeah, no, we'll continue on that. So how did
you actually get involved with you know, the
blueprint and MBT overall and how did you
even come in contact with it?
Well, long story short when I was 20 years
old. I got my first job in the fitness center.
So one of my first real professions was when
I first left school, and I had a buddy of
mine that said, Hey, you work out I got a
personal trainer at this gym, we can sell
some memberships. So pretty much he got me
in involved in that power path of a profession.
And I remember when I was living in Austin,
Texas, I was 20 years old, I had about a grand
in my bank and I thought I was balling. You
know, I had no real sense of financial understanding
at all. And long story short, since I was
a 20 year old kid out of school, I was thrown
in with the wolves. I had to learn a lot of
these lessons through trial and error. fell
flat on my face. I was living in my truck
in Austin, Texas for a little bit because
I was trying to figure out, okay, where can
I stay, the rent is so expensive, everything
is double the price of where I'm from, because
I had no idea about inflation, so on and so
forth. So then long story short, I ended up
sleeping at my cousin's house, ended up paying
$500 a month to one of my buddies who let
me sleep in his living room. And once I feel
that once that fell through I just remember
having to move back to my parents house because
I was just so depressed and I was I had no
grip on reality at the time. You know, it
was hard for me to function as a man when
I didn't know what being a man meant to me.
Right You know, there were there were several
instances in my in my past where this is the
one moment that really scarred me when I was
younger, like my junior in high school, maybe
sophomore, where this chicken told me we were
talking about something I think I was the
one pursuing the relationship so super backwards,
right? And then she sub tweeted me at the
time on Twitter. Like I know it sucks that
I have to be the man in mind like holy crap.
Excuse me, but it but long story short man.
When I was at the bottom of the bottom, I
just knew that I had to work on myself as
a man and I was chasing tail I was looking
up all these content creators on YouTube,
like how to get this chick how to get this
chick but I was playing I was playing a loser's
game.
Right? So how did I mean I was how did you
actually find my program? Did you
I found your program through a different content
creators, I believe I was looking up certain
self improvement. Okay subject matters like
retention or how to develop your body even.
Okay, I remember I found you prior to 2020
Okay, so you you joined through the webinar,
correct? Yes. Okay, so what actually what
actually got you to actually make that leap
of faith and actually sign up and get enrolled
and everything? Like
you said, amazing sort, man, honestly. Yeah.
It was just just seeing how you were to build
yourself because a lot of people don't realize
that if you can change after your story, because
I'll tell you what, man like I'm, I've always
been pretty fit but you started your senior
year or graduated on 135 pounds, right? I
was at 155. So it's like you even had a longer
road than myself and then even a lot of people
still already out. So it's like, man, if you
can do it, I can at least go in the same direction.
Right 100% you know, I can at least take that
leap of faith and trust myself. Right. And
that's what I did.
So from from week one of enrollment to you
completing week 12 just recently, what are
some of the biggest changes that you've noticed
within yourself?
First off, I understand self control to the
absolute max. You know, I'm able to control
my temptations whether it be with wasting
time with girls I shouldn't be messing with
whether it should be with foods
putting away the short term get ratification.
So you know, for me right now, I'm really
working on being on the Dean's list in my
local university. Have a few ventures I'm
trying to get figured out, been more social.
And, quite frankly, man, you really helped
me out Get getting out of my own head. You
know, there's been certain phone calls where
you called me out where it's like, oh, man,
you thinking too much? You think it's too
much?
Yeah. Right. And when you're when you're with
when you're with women now and I mean, have
you had a lot of like good experiences on
dates? Yeah. It sounded like from your testimonial
you wrote in our Facebook group. You've been
having some good success with that too, huh?
Yeah, man, I got too much too many options
right now. I'll be honest with you. So like
yesterday at the gym, there was this new chick
that kind of introduced herself to me. It's
to the point where I'm still approaching women.
Don't get me wrong. Like if I see a girl,
I'll just make a small talk statement. When
it's not necessarily I don't have an agenda.
It's just the kind of person that I am. I'm
not just to myself inside of my own head.
Yeah, people are amazing.
Right? Hundred percent. Well, cool. So one
of the things if you don't mind me touching
on remember you said there was there was even
certain like, I think were you on certain
like antidepressant medications that you ate,
you were actually able to like wean yourself
off of just because you felt like more stable
mentally, or how did that process actually
happen?
Now, I'll tell you what, Casey, I know I briefly
mentioned earlier, but my father, he pretty
much he didn't serve as a very good, masculine
role model for myself growing up. And that's
not me putting him down. He tried his best
and, quite frankly, man, looking back at it.
I remember talking with some psychiatrists,
and they were saying I inherited supposedly,
like a major depressive disorder or generalized
anxiety. I was going under some tests actually,
for a DD and ADHD. And what ended up happening
was when I was getting back into school, I
just couldn't function as a man so I was on
the verge of doing some real stupid shit to
myself, man.
I really.
And it gets tough for me to talk about but
it's
Yeah, man, like, what's when you're at that
Crossroads? And you have two options, if you
know what I mean. It's I would rather take
medication and just kind of like, get some
professional help and have someone to speak
with. Right? And it once I understood the
principles of meditation First off, in terms
of not your thoughts or just our things as
much as they matter, they don't at the same
time. Yeah, you choose what matters and what
doesn't. Hmm. Once I learned how to control
my masculine energy, if you know what I mean,
how to channel that into progressive things,
and right, and quite frankly, just just stop
surrounding myself around around common culture.
You know, I got off. I got off Twitter because
I'm a creative guy, man. So you tell me that
I can actually I can see women, millions of
women doing all kinds of things on the internet,
right? It's like, man, let's do it. Yeah,
but that mind starts to gravitate towards
those easy pleasures.
But yeah, man, long story short, just a lot
of your teachings in terms of self. Yeah,
yeah. And so it's kind of retrain yourself
to do the hardest thing instead of the easy
things that, you know, I'm, I'm where I'm
at today because I plan tomorrow today, two
weeks ago, right? And then that builds upon
itself. And then before you know it, you got
all these habits going on. And you don't even
feel like you're working hard, because it's
just, it's what you do.
The funny thing is, I think it's, I think
it's cool how like a lot of men get into this
program for the sheer fact that they want
to improve with women. And then by the time
they come out of it, it's like, they just
come full circle where just everything about
them change, you know what I mean? So do you
think these results that you've been having
like is, do you think this is like a quick
fix? Or do you see this as like sustainable,
lasting, good rock solid results you can keep
for life.
Now, I'll tell you what, now I have way too
many self help books in my library. I got
a whole bunch of my Kindle phone, um,
my Kindle app.
But the biggest thing I learned about you
was that module in your course about identity
And once you once you make that switch in
your head, like okay, this is who I am, my
past doesn't matter and I happen for a reason.
Yeah, you're working hard without even meaning
to you're talking with women just because
that's who you are. Like, if I see a bad chick
in the room, I'm gonna holler. That's just
who I am. That's gone. That's the kind of
dude that I am. Right. And quite frankly,
like, I was a great dude before I met her.
So if I don't talk if things don't go, don't
go well, then I'm still a great dude.
Right? And it's like when she when she has
no clue what your past was. It's like you
almost get a clean slate with every woman
when you actually come at it from that standpoint.
Exactly, man. So what were what were a couple
of like the big aha moments that you had throughout
the program, you know, whether that be with
a woman or within yourself, or was there just
major things that you learned at all through
it that was like, Wow, I can't believe in
the past like I did that.
The biggest thing I learned from you was it's
it's to not withdraw your room. Emotions but
detached from them. Because at the end of
the day, if you look at the word emotions,
the word motion is in there, right? So it's
like that it's going to be moving all around.
So if your job is a man is to be stable structure
and provide protection provisioning, so on
and so forth to a woman and your family, you
know, if that's what you want, man, you got
to you got to be starting, you got to be that
mountain when there's a hurricane going on
all around it. Right, right. Because otherwise,
it's like, what are they going to lean on
when they're going through hard times? And
when they're going through a rough patch?
What's going to happen? Yeah, exactly. That's
it. Yeah, it's a blessing to be a man you
know, and really embracing that because before
I used to just call myself a dude, bro, homie.
Again, that is my homie so on and so forth
on a more casual manner, but nom I'm a man.
Yeah, and I mean it.
Right. You have that solidified
and they were trying to make me subservient.
It's like no bow down to authority. Not even
like on a crazy way, but it's just like, listen
to me. My job is supposed to be. I'm supposed
to be putting my will out there. I'm not supposed
to be standing still, I'm supposed to as a
man, if the only thing that I was using my
masculine energy for is chasing women and
chasing tail and trying to hook up and doing
all these things, right, you're putting, you
can use a hammer to break something, or you
can use it to build the Empire State Building.
Exactly hundred percent. I like that.
You know, you got to learn how to use that
tool that you've been blessed with, to do
amazing things in this world, man, because
we're builders.
Yeah, that's awesome analogy. I like that.
That's great. Yeah. Well, cool, man. Is there
any Is there anything else you wanted to touch
on specifically regarding this? Is there anything
I haven't covered that you that stands out
to you or that you wanted to touch on,
buddy is that I think is guys, sometimes we
try to shortcut the work without meaning to
it's not necessarily that we're lazy. It's
more so we want to be efficient, right? So
if you're telling me that I can add two plus
two to equal four. It's a lot easier than
any one plus one plus one plus one, right?
But the biggest thing that I learned from
you man is that you cannot shortchange that
work. You cannot cheat yourself. You have
to become a man. Because at the end of the
day if women had to choose between four dudes,
a bro a homie, a dude or a man, she's gonna
choose the man every single fucking time.
Excuse me, but you're good. That's just what
it is. Man, you really have to be everything
that the 99% of man are pretending to be right
so when everyone else is wearing this mask,
like Oh, I got my ish together. I got my money.
I got this some wearing Louie this Gucci that.
When you take your mask off? you actually
are what they're pretending to be. Right.
Exactly.
You know, so was that when she's testing you
know, there was this girl was trying to approach
at my gym shorts at the front desk, right?
Very cute. Very whatever, right? Mm hmm. Things
didn't go right. She had a boyfriend. I encountered
the What is it? Not rejection but rebuttal.
I gave her a rebuttal didn't work out. Cool.
I'll be cordial and take it from there. Yeah.
And then even then she's been trying to give
me compliance tests like, Hey, we got the
shake of the month. You want to try it? It's
like, Oh, no, I got my meal plan. I'm good.
Yeah. You know what I mean? So it's kind of
like, Look, the thing is, that was a fish
test and uneven mean a pass. It was just a
literal thing. I have a meal plan. I got my
calories already set for it if I even if it's
10 calories and a little shake thing, right?
Oh, it's the principle behind it. It's not
necessarily that it's gonna make a difference.
It's following what you said you were gonna
do.
Exactly.
But yeah, you just can't shortchange the work
because honestly, like put the work in and
everything else fall into place.
Is because me
and in this world will always get rewarded
little boys. No, they won't. So you can be
at whatever age wisdom will come with them
will come at any age. Yeah, I'll tell you
that much. You don't necessarily have to at
The end of the day if you get it, you get
it. It doesn't matter if you're 35 doesn't
matter if you're 40 doesn't matter if you're
18 you know, once you can become a man, things
will fall into place. And yeah, that's pretty
much it for me, man.
Well, cool, guys. I hope you guys really enjoyed
Aaron's story, obviously, as you can see,
he's had one hell of a transformation. And
Aaron, I want to thank you for participating
in the program, and I hope you keep kicking
ass and crushing it.
Well, man, thank you so much. I appreciate
it. Thank you.
