My dad is my best friend.
We party together.
My dad has always known what's going on with my drug use.
He's my friend.
It's not my dad.
When I was in high school with my dad,
we did drugs together.
My dad and I do drugs together all the time.
The reason I love my dad,
I loved it because I got to do whatever the (beep) I wanted.
My father and I were doing drugs together
the entire time I lived with him.
My father and I have the same drug dealer.
She's wrong.
My dad and I did drugs together
the entire time I lived with him.
We have the same dealer.
No, she's wrong.
I did it twice with her.
I don't know her dealer she had.
Three phones she lost of mine, she has all these--
Can I just say this?
We're here, we came this far, let's just be totally honest.
So it's okay, it's okay.
I'm not perfect, you're not perfect, but be honest.
Just let's be honest right now.
I do drink--
We need to be honest to see why she's doing--
I am clean right now.
Maybe right now, but admit the things--
I've been clean since I moved, November.
You said maybe a few more times than two.
Yeah, all right, sometimes I would drink
and then maybe do something with her,
but not all the time.
Remember I worked two jobs.
I'd get off at 7:00 at night.
Okay listen, guys, are y'all curious
why I'm talking to you when she's the drug addict
and she's not even out here right now?
'Cause maybe we're at fault?
Is it us?
No, no, no.
No, look, this is not a blame game.
I could not care less who's to blame
for her being where she is.
You often start things for one reason
and continue them for another.
Look, I've never met a drug addict
that started doing drugs to get addicted.
People start doing drugs 'cause they're partying
or they you know, whatever,
maybe they had surgery and they got a prescription for pain,
and then they got hooked on it.
People start things for one reason,
and then once they're addicted,
they continue doing them to keep from getting
desperately ill.
That's why they continue to do them,
because they're running from the withdraw sickness.
Look, that's not what I'm about right now.
I'm not trying to blame you,
I'm not trying to blame you.
What I do not wanna do is have her come out here
and start dealing with a solution
and have you two sabotage it by lying your ass off,
covering yourself up, trying to give excuses,
taking her excuses, and sabotaging the whole process
because then there's no point in even talking to her.
If you're making excuses for her--
(applause)
If you're making excuses for her,
if you're sitting there saying,
well, no maybe twice, and I didn't encourage this,
and the money was just bleh bleh bleh bleh.
And you're just here blah blah blah blah blah blah,
and deflecting everything and she gets lost in the shuffle.
You've been enabling her because you are selfish
and you wanted to make yourself feel better
instead of make her better.
And you don't tell me that you've kept her alive.
You've helped her stay on drugs, my friend,
and you've done 'em with her.
And somebody needs to step up and give her a reality check.
She's going to drink herself to death.
