You are a walking talking breathing map. Tips
on reading body language. This is Dr. Paul
author of "Boomer's Girls, a Boomer Woman's
Guide to Men and Dating" and host of "Ask
Dr. Paul". Alright let's go here right now
to tips on reading body language. There are
some basics. When someone folds the arms the
probability is that they are turning you off.
They are defensive and they do not want to
discuss the subject further. That's a basic
one that most people know. If someone shifts
their eyes they are not being particularly
honest with you. A person shifts their body
to one side but looks at you with the other,
they are interested with you and I can see
that. Even more so let's say that they are
talking to someone here and they shift their
body to you so that means they are intensely
committed to listening to what you have to
say so body language is particularly important.
I observed about six months ago a man who
was talking to a woman. She was on the right
side and I observed these things and that
is what I do. This woman was very very sexily
dressed and the man was looking at her like
this and talking. Another woman sat over to
his left, now he noticed this woman and I
am watching this dynamic. He looked at this
woman and this woman looked at him. Now she
was just very plainly dressed and he started
moving like this with his head and the other
woman brought this one into the conversation
and was somewhat demeaning of her. The man
I heard being somewhat defensive toward the
woman this one was demeaning because she was
interested in the man. Then what happened
was profound and this is what you want to
look for. He was sitting on a chair like a
folding chair, he picked the chair up slightly
and moved it over in this direction so that
his focus was on this woman and this woman
knew that was the sign and she got up and
left. Now that's how you read body language
and it's about body movement. This has been
a very good lesson for you and this is Dr.
Paul. May your fantasies of today be your
realities of tomorrow.
