Hey, it's Mark here from Make Him Yours and
today, I'm showing you how to tell if a guy
likes you by his body language. I'm going
to give you three sure signs that a guy likes
you and show you demonstrations of exactly
how it will look. Stay tuned.
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All right, how to tell if a guy likes you
by his body language. Today, I'm giving you
three surefire signs a guy is into you. Now
I'm also going to do a part two to this video,
so make sure you watch that one after this
video or check for the link in the description
when it's released. Number one, let's start
with the obvious. He opens himself up to you,
so if a guy's body language is closed off,
if his arms are crossed, it shows that he's
either not comfortable, not receptive, or
just not into you. Whereas if he starts to
open up his body language, it shows that he's
becoming a lot more comfortable and open in
your presence. Watch this scene. See how the
guy, even though he's facing her, smiling
at her, still has her blocked out. He's got
his phone across his chest and then when he
puts his phone away, his drink replaces it.
He holds that there, takes a drink, still
doesn't look entirely comfortable, and then
blocks her out with arms, puts the drink down,
and now his arms are crossed. He's still not
open and receptive as opposed to now. He's
opened his body language and looks much more
confident and open interacting with her. By
the way, if you want to know whether a man
is cold versus uncomfortable when he crosses
his arms, here's a way to tell. See how when
the guy crosses his arms in this manner, he
still has one hand exposed. That's more of
a defensive flight gesture, shows he's not
entirely comfortable and open there as opposed
to here. He brings his thumbs out. He's still
defensive, but he's trying to show more confidence
in dominance in the conversation, whereas
if he's cold, he moves his hands up. You won't
see much of his fingers and his thumbs because
he's trying to keep his hands warm.
Number two, direction of his feet. In body
language study, most people think that it's
the directions of someone's torso that show
their interest, but in fact it's the direction
of their feet. It's amazing how much our feet
give away in terms of body language. In fact,
if you want to look to spot a liar, nervous,
erratic foot movements are one of the best
ways that are the most subconscious that give
liars away. His feet direction towards you
are a clear sign that he's into you. Look
at this flirting scene. You can see that even
with his open body language, as we pan down
the direction of his feet reveal his true
interest, whether he wants to get to the door
or get to another woman that's caught his
attention, his torso will always end up following
his feet as opposed to here. His feet are
now directed towards her and even if his torso
or his attention turned away you, it's going
to end up back following his feet.
You will notice that only one of his feet
is generally pointing at her. This is simply
to soften the pose and make it less intimidating.
Number three, masculine posture. So this is
a particular type of posture that men will
adopt when they're trying to impress you.
It involves him standing, facing you with
his feet apart, legs apart, and usually his
hands highlighting his genitals. It's particularly
evident in things like football hikers or
stage shows where men want to appear, appear
particularly masculine, but you'll see much
less extreme versions in flirting all the
time. In this scene you can see me in a strong,
comfortable and confident masculine posture.
The only downside of this posture is if I
don't know her so well, it can be intimidating
and full on. So turning it just a little bit
away from her and makes her more comfortable
and makes me more relatable. Well that's it.
Thank you for watching. Let me know your thoughts,
comments, questions, et cetera. I'd love to
hear them. And we're going to do a part two
for this video as well, so make sure you hit
the link and have a watch at that one. I'll
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and I look forward to seeing you in part two
very soon.
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