Hi everyone I'm Adrienne Everheart I
have a feminine energy therapist I am
also a coach for women I teach you how
to get in touch with your feminine
energy and reconnect to the man you love
in your life
fix your relationship or call forth the
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in this video I'm gonna talk about how
to get your soft feminine energy back
I'm gonna teach you how to get it back
in your life I'm going to teach you
where it went and why it probably went
away and talked about how to get it back
into your life
so that the man around you can get
activated in his masculine energy so one
of the reasons a lot of men walk away is
that they actually don't feel like a man
anymore no it's not our job to make a
guy feel like a man alright but if we
are in our masculine energy and the man
isn't getting that you know desire
impulse he's not feeling that feminine
energy from us he actually ends up
competing with us and I talked about how
we can be like two Rams just because
there's only one alpha there's only one
alpha and a lot of times it is the woman
in the relationship who is the alpha she
has the ultimate say in things like that
now I start off the beginning of this
video with a little bit of theory and
then we go into Q&A now make sure you
stick around I've actually saved my
strongest piece for the end Q&A
I always take Q&A right out of the stream
however if you want to contribute to
super chat that's completely up to you
but if you do it does get you bumped up
and Queue I give you priority all right
so let's get started first let's talk
about where did your feminine energy go
and why do you need it is it your job to
make a guy feel like a man you know and
you have to act like this girl and I
just want to clear up some of those
misconceptions or beliefs that you might
have about feminine energy so so at one
point you did feel like a girl you were
in touch with your inner girl it may
have left when you were very very young
usually it happens at the moment we
realize our survival you know our
survival as a woman or as a human on
this planet we have to be tough and
strong and resilient and very smart and
at the same time we want to have a
relationship with a man and we end up
coming home and to that relationship
with the man with the same qualities
we're using to survive so some of your
stifled feminine energy is usually
because you have been wounded by a man
you or your mother were wounded by
masculine energy and for survival your
inner boy took over he had to take over
for you to survive okay
so last I heard you know men are
stronger than us they can sometimes have
a lot more power than us and women all
the time are you know there's a lot of
abuse from men there's a lot of verbal
abuse there's a lot of abandonment by
men today is Father's Day and it is not
the most popular holiday you know I hope
in your world it is but in a lot of
cases it isn't because a lot of men just
skip out on that part because there's
something wrong and something started to
go wrong now don't get me wrong I think
some guys have skipped town for all
sorts of reasons in life throughout
history but I believe when a man stops
feeling like a man he stops and will
walk away from a loving family and go
somewhere else so that he feels like a
man again and we're gonna talk about
that today
so some symptoms of a stifled inner girl
are the following
you feel you can't say what you feel
there's this thing that's like you I
know what I'm really feeling but I'm
gonna say this instead okay so when you
start having to thank your way through
life and you're having to think what to
say you're there that's boy energy
that's thinking all right now another
one is when you do or say what you feel
to a man okay and he gives you negative
reactions he gets angry at you he gets
disappointed to you he gets upset and
you have this this expectation that he's
supposed to respond a certain way that's
your boy taking over that's a big one
and I heart love Academy it is a private
group I have on Facebook and the link
should be below eventually but we get
upset that they're not doing what we
want them to be doing that's controlling
as masculine energy you're the manager
at the job you're the boss you see how
this works okay another one is you'll
feel trapped and sometimes furious
really I notice there's a lot of like
anger you feel bit like a victim and you
end up taking that anger out on others
and yourself because of what men have
done to you so we end up getting mad at
the people we actually love or we end up
being bad to ourselves because this man
is not in our life or that love we want
is not in our life we take it out on
ourselves we take it out on people
around us and it's really something that
happens where your girl goes away boy is
in charge you see boy crushes everything
if you we were playing
rock-paper-scissors like boy would be
the rock I guess I don't know whichever
one's stronger because boy can just drop
all okay think of feminine energy as
creation as creation that's making
things happen if you are exhausted
anxious suffer from anxiety you have
this never-ending list of
what its gonna take to get you happy to
a happy place your dreams are just not
possible things just don't work out for
you
there's a good chance you're just stuck
and boy energy and your your girl is is
stifled okay and then last one is you
might be apathetic you might have a lot
of thoughts of revenge you might be
stuck in kind of this victim mindset or
a mindset of like I need to have justice
to be happy I need justice and that is
absolutely masculine energy and you can
be doing this with the women in your
life your mother or your father a man
your children anyone you could be stuck
in this justice mode so much so that the
relationship you're building won't exist
because you're stuck in this place of
victim and justice mode okay so we
talked a little bit about where did it
go at some point your boy got rewarded
so for me this happened one day I talked
about I was at the zoo and I fell down
and I really scraped my knee bad and I
immediately wanted to break into tears
the pain was horrible but I held onto it
because I didn't want my dad to get mad
at me at the zoo for crying okay because
I knew once my dad got mad the day went
to shit you know and so I really held it
in because I wanted to enjoy the zoo and
we had just gotten there and my mom and
dad said you are so mature you didn't
even cry your knee is really skinned up
and though my mom was like are you okay
and I'm like yeah and I'm just holding
back this tears and I realized I got all
this reward for holding on to my
emotions and so it continued to happen
people would hurt me
people would unfortunately it was a I
was in a horrible part of the country
for the school system
teachers would be very very mean some
educators would not be good and I would
never let them see me cry which made
them want to break me even more and you
know what I did I got even tougher eye
out smarted them I could I was I was
sometimes smarter than my teachers which
really ticked him off you know so things
like these begin to follow me around in
life until I became even in employment
if I was working with a woman who was my
manager I would outshine her it was
ruining my relationships everywhere I
went because I wasn't allowing myself to
be a girl and just feel and then when I
did have men in my life that were
feminine energy man who I adored but
eventually I wanted that masculine
energy guy and girls you know what I'm
talking about okay you know what I'm
talking about okay so let's let's talk
about how either being a victim or just
learning how to make it in this world or
your force in survival how you have lost
your girl now let's get it back let's
get back your feminine energy no matter
who has hurt you no matter how hard
you've had to work in your life whatever
sacrifices you have made whatever your
relationship path says or the men that
you have attracted in the past it does
not matter you are here with me today we
are gonna get your feminine energy back
on track okay so I'm gonna teach you
some techniques to do this now I go
deeper into all of this in my programs I
have an e-book called 500 ways to talk
to a man which is great to have on your
phone it's good to learn how to speak
from your body which is where men
connect I have an ABCs to get in back
program
I have FEMM tools for dating girls if
you're new to dating and you don't know
how to do this and you're used to doing
it the old way
FEMM tools for dating and I have new man
manifesto I have fin tool for a
relationship go check out my website the
link will be below and learn about some
of my programs and self studies okay now
let's get your feminine energy back
let's get that softness back that's what
men crave this is what works in our
relationships it's authentic we're not
lying we don't have to be nervous and
anxious and always up in our head
wondering what to say or do we're gonna
go to this comfortable authentic place
of this is Who I am and it's very
authentic and you'll be surprised how
things in your life and relationships in
your life begin to work out and connect
a compliment I get a lot in my feedback
is that I'm authentic that I'm just this
is who I am I'm not pretending to be
someone else for you and it's feminine
energy it is just a truthfulness I tell
everyone this is the most honest work
you will ever do in your life and the
most rewarding part you get to build it
with a man you get to build this
wonderful relationship with a man fix
your marriage whatever it may be okay so
let's start off with my number one and
this is values and boundaries if if you
do not know what your values are if you
do not know what your boundaries are you
will attract people who are aware that
you don't know what your boundaries are
because they're gonna come right in and
they're gonna push them to the limit if
you don't know what your values are you
are gonna attract men who are like this
woman doesn't know her value or her
values you'll attract those people to
you because you don't even know so so
much of so many women want a high
quality man they want a high value man
or they want to fix their marriage and
fix their relationship and I start with
how you feel and most women don't even
know how they feel they're so busy up
here plotting planning trying to figure
it out we have to get you back in your
body and find out what are your values
what are your boundaries okay so let's
talk a little bit about that how do you
like to be treated how do you want your
children to be treated no lie are you
okay with somebody hitting your kid
hitting your dog hitting you let's start
there
all right are you okay with a guy who's
there for one week and he's gone for two
he calls you one night you don't hear
from him for another two weeks are you
okay with that treatment are you okay
that he looks at other women while he's
with you are you are you good with that
stuff no you got to know your values you
got to know what it is you desire are
you are you okay with a guy who yells
and shouts and screams and whenever he
feels like it so I'm telling you all the
deep dark stuff because you can work
yourself backwards from there all right
um
money are you are you okay well the guy
was dead broke are you okay with a guy
who never wants to pay for dinner or
rarely has ever paid or invested in you
or your children are you okay with that
this doesn't mean one of your values has
to be I want a man who's gonna pay my
way all the time or I want a man who can
walk a tightrope and never get mad
that's not realistic we're gonna talk
about that more life style does he have
a lifestyle that is in alignment with
yours I have a lot of powerful dynamite
women that I coach and a lot of them are
with men who are shark drivers plumbers
I think plumbers a fantastic career or
some other and you know and they're like
doctors and attorneys and high-powered
women so is your lifestyle in alignment
your careers may not be in alignment
your education may not be in alignment
is that really what makes people love
each other I think it has to do a little
bit more with your lifestyle one of the
things that made me crazy about my
husband Jeff was how well he loved and
took care of animals
was top on my list cuz if he could love
and take care of a cat I know he's gonna
love and take care of me you know this
is we're talking about values and your
boundaries can you say no that's a value
that's a boundary do you go around
helping everyone to the point of
exhaustion that you can't help yourself
you don't get to the gym you don't take
care of yourself you don't have quiet
time alone so boundaries can involve a
lot of things and a big one is sex and a
big one is relationship needs but we're
gonna talk more about that because a lot
of people are like I need this all the
time to feel okay we're gonna talk about
that okay we're gonna talk about that
because we want to be realistic we want
to be fair we don't want to have you
know we don't want to have our
expectations get so high that we live in
a place of disappointment because that
would be boy energy where it's like you
haven't done what I needed you to do for
me okay so I hope this is making sense
you all boundaries and values you've got
to know them you got to write them down
if you don't know them I tell everyone I
have an e-book in my VIP library now VIP
library comes with any program of mine
you purchase not 500 ways only with my
programs I have a little ebook in there
called sex sex sex and I go through
every single if-then scenario that can
happen with sex to get you in alignment
with your boundaries and that's really
what you have to do if I go on a date
with a guy first date and he says split
the bill what's your boundary with that
what's your value with that you got to
know you got to be prepared what to say
so that's the good thing about 500 ways
to talk to a man ebook is that I kind of
give you some ideas to get going on how
to start practicing this with men you
don't want to wait until you have
finally the guy your dreams your life
and then practice on him you want
practice on these other men you're five
quantum date 5 I talk about that ok
let's move on to the next one healthy
relationships with unconditional love do
you girls have healthy relationships
with other women with other people in
your life healthy relationships where
you can get unconditional love because
here's the thing unconditional love is
you know kind of rare that means you
know total positive regard you are just
unconditionally loving that person if a
man loves you based on conditions
there's a problem it's not gonna feel
good it's not going to feel good to you
so I want you to just make sure you have
other people in your life who love you
and you have relationships that you if
you don't have them join a church
volunteer somewhere go to I heart love
Academy make some girl friends begin to
have people in your life that you can
lean on one another and have love and
supportive relationships alright the big
thing we don't want to do is be seeking
love from a man out you know outside of
us when inside we don't we don't love
we're not able to feel loved and be
there for ourselves ok so that's a big
problem I see it all the time on my
Facebook group women ask questions where
they are not already in love with
themselves they feel horrible about
themselves they don't like themselves
they're home alone and they're miserable
and they're hoping they're on line
hoping to find a man or hoping some man
will come back in their life so they
will feel good again and feeling good
starts with you feeling good and loving
you if you can't stand to be alone and
by yourself you know like by yourself
quarantine anything like that don't get
me wrong no person as an island we all
need to you know get out and be around
other people but you gotta love you for
you gotta be so in love with yourself
and I'm gonna talk more about that okay
here's the next one
love fuels your life not fear not fear
so I'm afraid of growing old and being
alone therefore I want to get a husband
and get married I'm not gonna lie that
was a big part of why I wanted to be
married I did not want to walk into old
age alone
I was already way down that road knowing
it's gonna happen one day that was one
of the reasons but ultimately I knew
that if God's plan for me was to walk
that road alone I was gonna do it and I
was going to do it with my head held
high and with a lot of loving
relationships in my life if it wasn't
gonna be a man it was gonna be something
else someone else other people as it
should be it should not just be this man
so you want to make sure that love is
fueling everything you're doing in your
life this is how you reconnect to your
feminine energy is that we're not
looking for this person to make us feel
this way we're finding it within you're
finding it within so just side note
every super huge mistake I've made in my
life from losing a pet to an accident to
a dear pet of mine dying under
circumstances that I and I don't have
children so I'm talking about my pets
but he died under circumstances I was
less than happy with I have regrets I
mean I think you're always gonna have
regrets loss of health and loss of money
I can cook I can go back and name each
of those things and tell you where I
stopped listening to myself and I did
what I thought a man would appreciate
and every time I did it turned into a
pumpkin at midnight I either lost money
lost my health I had a pet died you do
things in
order to get someone's approval in love
karma and God is not okay with that
okay karma and God are not okay with it
I would go into what these things are
but I would cry I'll tell you about one
of them though I had a contractor that I
knew was I'm a smart businessperson I
knew he was fos he wanted more money
from me but I was seeking approval and I
went to a man and I said I don't know he
wants like 14 thousand more dollars to
do this the guy told me you are too hard
on people Adrian you don't trust people
why can't you trust people you're just
too hard on them and I said oh my god I
am I am a hard-ass aren't we all this is
part of being a woman
we're very critical we can see flaws
it's part of our DNA it's what makes us
good at things but I wanted to please
that man so I fork that guy over my
money never saw him again
never saw him again I went under the
knife because a man told me to and end
up having a terrible surgery
I lost a pet because I left him at home
because I thought this guy was gonna
break up with me and I had to go be with
him and his dog it's all bs
you see don't make the same mistakes I
did
don't sacrifice what you feel is not in
note is true and loved in you to let
fear make you do things that you don't
want to do I've had women take trips
sell their house do all sorts of crazy
stuff for it to go chase after a man or
make a man happy you are here to be
happy first the man and everybody else
even your children come second if mama
ain't happy nobody's happy being selfish
is not a bad thing now I'm not talking
about neglect your children or neglect
your relationships but you got to put
yourself first ladies you got it reek
playing your feminine energy get back on
top of your pedestal and feel like the
goddess you are
I could keep telling more stories I'm
gonna stop now a lot of us end up
distressing our relationships we end up
distressing them I believe some of us
have an inner saboteur that we actually
want to ruin our relationships because
you know it's about trust it's about
being vulnerable and it's so much easier
to just find something wrong with a guy
and ruin it it is so much easier and a
lot of us are doing it without even
knowing I again I hear it all the time
at my free group I heart love Academy
not a day goes by that a girl doesn't
make a pose where where I'm just like
she's she's killing the relationship
here's the big word I'm disappointed I'm
so disappointed
disappointment is your own belief that
an outcome should turn out a certain way
also known as control right I want this
to be this way I'm disappointed and you
tell the person I'm disappointed that's
what parents say to children it's a very
parental word right so what you begin to
notice where you're disappointed or
where your beliefs beliefs can be good
or bad
where your fears and where your
judgments about a situation are actually
making you do and say things that
otherwise your inner girl you know she
is a feeling creature she can think
don't get me wrong you're going to
always be able to think but you feel you
feel you see and you experiment with
this feeling so at the end of the day
and this I know I'm making a big leap
right here at the end of the day you
choose your thoughts when you choose
your thoughts you have a
yelling you get a feeling so if you're
like I know he's gonna leave me I know
this is shady I know he asked for this
you know some story some judgment some
belief okay and maybe it's even true
maybe it's even right but you can choose
what you're thinking about it now
I'm not saying go go choose some you
know off-the-wall feeling you know it
can't be all rainbows and sunshine and
unicorns but I want you to begin to as
you step into your feminine energy I
want you to begin to experiment with
what if this could feel what if I wanted
to feel you know excited about this what
if I wanted to feel curious about this
or what is this here to teach me how can
I learn from this before I just shut it
down and next move on red-flag those are
actually not even allowed on my group
when girls say that we mute them for 24
hours because we do not want you to have
the mentality of amputation you are here
to learn you're not here to just keep
amputating and going next you don't
learn anything if you do I want you to
be curious know your boundaries know
your values that's the first thing I
went over but be curious what am I here
to learn how can I do this differently
alright you have power over the thoughts
you choose you really really do and if
you change what you're thinking you will
change how you feel it's that simple
take some habit though the last one is
getting attention a lot of women are
trying really hard to get attention in
ways that you know devalue you or you're
gonna get the wrong type of attention
but I want you to be okay with getting
attention the right way with your
feminine energy now a couple of
exercises that I teach everyone to do I
you do them with me right now if you can
is we get you back into your feminine
energy body and a lot of us are kind of
numbed up including myself there there
are parts of my body that even even
today I touch them I can't really feel
them because there's two parts of
neither still healing
no so one of the things I like you how
to do is just maybe touch touch your
face tap it lightly and tap around your
your mouth your face your forehead your
head and just say this is my head but
this is my face like I can feel my
muscles smiling right right I can feel
my chest expanding with breath just take
a moment get into your body I can feel
my tummy filling up with air good good
we're getting you back inside raise your
shoulders up drop them down ah good I
want you to go a little deeper a little
lower I want you to think about your
birth canal I want you to see if you
can't relax to the point of allowing it
till widely so you're creating space for
a man to fill with his energy you're
creating space there and just go ahead
and allow yourself to relax there allow
your whole bottom your bowl butt cheeks
to spread out be wide be wide go ahead
let that energy open up down there and
create space that's where you receive
from a man in your body energetically
you've got to create space for him to
fill that place up now how do you all
feel just tell me in the comments
section how are you feeling right now I
would love to hear
yeah someone said they actually like to
sit with their legs uncrossed right you
feel relaxed and calm congratulations
you're in your body and when you just do
this exercise and you might start to
feel a little tingly you might start to
feel a little turned on perfectly
feminine feeling to feel alright perfect
way to feel what if you could walk
around feeling kind of sexy and turned
on and vulnerable and guys are just
everywhere you look they're looking at
you and sending you arrows how amazing
would that feel and be alright right
live your life there live your life in
this place calm no aunt anxiety isn't it
wonderful now this is where I want you
to begin to practice like before you to
the supermarket before you go out with
your friends practice this get into your
body and receive arrows from men
now the first guys that are gonna look
your way are gonna be the guys that are
the closest in your energy that you
would think is acceptable to talk to you
okay I don't know why it works that way
but they're gonna shoot you an arrow I
actually had a guy I was walking towards
him and he was what he was walking
towards me and he was nice ass and I was
like how does he know if my ass is nice
it's back there but whatever I was like
you just accept it then you get more and
more men sending you arrows and just
accept them you don't have to go to the
hotel with them just accept them
alright so we're gonna take Q&A now ah
attention
give yourself attention give yourself as
much attention as you can give yourself
attention alright
alright give your
attention good let's take some Q&A girls
you did great
yeah yes yes stay with me Brittany he
probably has QA all lined up and I'll
take your questions
here we go okay Thank You Brittany
all right thank you Alex love says how
my man of five years told me he would
marry me if I did everything he said
what does that mean and should I take
him seriously so my first question for
you is how does that feel if a man says
I will love you I will marry you if
that's conditional right and how does
something conditional feel now it
doesn't mean this guy's a bad guy in his
world this is probably what is how his
parents were with him right she says I
feel horrible go deeper with me Alex
love
what does horrible feel like so for
example if a man said that to me I would
say oh I feel I feel like I'm in jail
I feel constrained I feel like I'm on a
tightrope that I have to walk a
tightrope to get love and marriage and I
don't want I don't feel like that's the
way I want to have a marriage I don't I
don't like that I don't want that I want
a man don't say I want you I want a man
who loves me and wants to claim me and
hold me in his arms and walk into the
sunset together you see that's how I
feel huh
right you're not so sure about him
anymore have that and your energy have
that in your vibe yeah I feel like I'm
walking on eggshells exactly who I feel
like I'm walking on eggshells I I want a
relationship that feels loving and warm
okay that's how you feel good job
let's see here libertarian said I'm a
single mom who is with a wonderful guy
who tells me he'd marry me tomorrow if
it weren't for my daughter's father
he's afraid her dad will interfere with
her life with our lives her dad never
called how do I handle this well my gut
tells me if it's he's kind of creating
this he's creating this argument okay
and to you I would say Oh marrying you
tomorrow sounds amazing yet you know I
really want a husband that okay you
agree I want a husband that or I want a
marriage that I don't know if if my
husband did come around that we'd handle
it
I want to marriage that whatever is
gonna come our way whether it's exes
cancer covet whatever it is we are gonna
handle it and we know we're gonna handle
it baby that's the love in marriage I
want but it feels so good to be with you
and it feels so good if we could fix
this and just leave it there very warm
very inviting and see what he does just
begin to see what he does I hope that
helped you libertarian uh Julie said how
do you stay in feminine energy in an
argument oh boy that's a tough one when
you're an argument with a guy you're
getting triggered like crazy so one of
the one of the best things you can do
and and I have to tell you I'm studying
so much John Gottman right now and I
really recommend him you know if before
the argument even happens there's this
thing called the startup and if the
startup starts negative like within the
first three minutes the conversation is
doomed so one of the best advice I can
give you is
attention to how it starts up that harsh
start up he talks about and if it starts
up harsh I want you to already be aware
that statistically this conversation is
dude we're gonna argue and I want you to
take a few minutes and just tell your
guys say you know I'm just already
feeling real flustered and triggered and
and I I want to I want to I want to hear
you and I want to listen I want you to
go take a few moments if you can just
say I just need a minute to myself if
you can go remind yourself of ten things
write them down if you need to ten
things you really value about your
partner I value that my partner is clean
I value that my partner has a great
worth at work ethic I value that my
partner is always on time whatever it is
come up with ten of them and keep them
go over them in your mind and you're
gonna get yourself adjusted back to this
place of I value you I value this
relationship and you're gonna go into it
with a whole new heart space instead of
headspace heart space and you'll be able
to listen and take your time go slow
feminine energy is slow you know it's
not like this it's slow okay take your
time I hope that helps okay
Sinead says how do I get past general
chat on online dating and make some
dates is it okay to message first on an
online date um so I have an entire
program called thin tools for dating I
cannot recommend it enough it comes with
a VIP library it comes with you know
it's several I think it's like a day or
something of class but it's a long class
and I go over everything a twosie how to
do this so okay is it okay to message I
think it's okay to send a like if you're
in bumble you have to message first but
then when they write you back get a
this like kind of one-two-three thing
where you let the guy know hi you know
it feels so great to talk to you oh I
noticed that in your profile you really
loved you know waterskiing
or you something where you've read about
his profile and it would just feel
wonderful to connect more what do you
think you're putting the ball in his
court from that place onward all right
so next you move on to you chat a little
bit Oh a phone call would feel lovely
what do you think if he does not call
you chat one more round with him on a
different day
if he does not call you then you then
say you know chatting with he was
spelled amazing I really enjoyed it
yet I'm really looking for a regular
dating relationship and it seems all
we're doing is chatting and it's
important to connect on the phone to
really get to know someone so I'm gonna
be moving on and the guy goes wait wait
and that's when if he does not call you
or if he tried to guilt you or torture
you or harm you in some way via chat you
know what type of guy you got on your
hand block him immediately move on I've
learned I learned from this man
you see Thank You Stephanie she's saying
she really likes FEMM tools and it helped
her with dating thank you okay we're
moving on to a lean she said my ex and I
got back together 1.5 years his idea
five days later he broke up with me oh
my gosh I'm so sorry we had an intense
fight when it happened ever since I've
been doing everything not to pursue what
can I do
hmm it's such a strange thing don't you
think so my first thing to you is I'm so
sorry this is devastating
aleem I want you to tell me here in chat
how does it feel how does it feel that
get back together and then five days
later you have a big argument how does
it feel because this is something that
happens sometimes I have a popular
program called the ABCs to get him back
I have a long list of women that it has
helped go to my Instagram page I've got
testimonial on top of testimonial it
works the problem is I get people back
together but that something ends up
happening sometimes that I have no
control over sometimes the person didn't
really you know do all her tools and she
went right back into her old way of
doing things but sometimes the guy shows
you again what he's about so it's almost
like you get this do-over and the same
type of crap happens again then you have
to ask yourself huh
this happened again with him this keeps
happening again what is the universe
telling me I always tell everyone the
universe talks to you like little
butterfly wings on your face you get a
little hint right or you get a baseball
bat to the face or hitting a brick wall
this is how the universe communicates so
you need to ask yourself have I just
gotten the butterfly tickle from the
universe saying don't pursue this or am
I getting hitting the brick wall right
now
okay so I'll tell you girls a big one
for me and it's happened several times
before everything is really starting to
go to pot I have giant wave tsunami
dreams and I talked earlier in this
livestream about how I lost a dear pet
of mine
because I was trying to fix things with
the sky and I rushed out of the house I
left him home alone and he got tangled
up in some laundry and choked to death
it's a very sad story and one of the
things that I you know I really failed
to do in that moment sorry it's still
really hard one of the things I failed
to do was do what was right for me in
that moment interestingly enough about
two weeks before this happened I had a
tsunami dream where a giant wave was
coming and I was walking my little dog
and before the wave hit I picked him up
and I put him under the jacket I was
wearing to protect him and keep him
close with me during the wave crash and
I really think that was the universe's
Way of telling me watch out it's coming
so I want you to just begin to look at
the things that are happening in your
life and how you're feeling and really
find out what is important to you to
have in this relationship with this man
and can he really do it all right can he
really do this okay
sorry to get dark on you guys some of
these stories but a lot of you write me
and say that you learned the most from
my stories and again I just don't want
you to go through what I'm going what
I've gone through to get here I want you
to be able to listen to the universe
another one I'll tell you
sidenote a lot of you know I had to have
a corrective surgery for Graves
eye disease
and you know it wasn't life-or-death
they get this surgery and the night
before the surgery
okay first time I went to go have the
surgery the doctors kept coming in the
Nurse Anesthesia kept coming in and he
kept going which eye is the eye with
this and I was like that's it I'm out I
felt they were incompetent that's why I
left okay Jeff got mad at me it was a
whole big deal second time I went to get
this surgery done it was scheduled out
of nowhere we got a massive snowstorm
and and ever at the hospital nobody I
couldn't drive to get the surgery you
see how the universe was talking to me
and I wasn't listening
and I wanted to you know do it I thought
that I you know my partner would be
proud of me whatever I did a huge mass
I've had something like eleven
corrective surgery since then it has
been a nightmare girls listen to me do
not do things to make a man proud of you
or to be fond of you you end up
sacrificing yourself in the process
okay all right let's see here Senay it
says hi today I have talked to you
before how do I get past the general oh
no no we talked about that the general
online um let's see here
okay just getting caught up oh it's eyes
to see that's right sorry how do I deal
with a guy who mainly talks about
himself all right it's time for Adrian
ever heard School of Acting school of
authentic acting also known as um just
had just lost it in my mind method
method acting so I studied method acting
it was one of the best things I've ever
heard out of my life I recommend all of
you is if you can take a method acting
class online or if you can study I
studied with a guy who actually was
taught by Jeff Goldblum
he was he's been a lot of television
shows and movies and stuff like that
fantastic teacher named Burgess Jenkins
and boy will you learn so much when you
take method acting because something
that I otherwise never allowed myself to
do with a man was that bored and if a
guy is talking about himself all the
time I'm gonna get bored yeah and he's
gonna go what what am i boring you and
you're gonna go I am a little bored I
really am
right that's how I feel he'll go okay if
I'm boring you yeah I mean it still is
wonderful to be on a date and it it
feels good to sit down and connect and
talk to each other but I feel like
mostly I just hear about your life and
your life is interesting and I enjoy
getting to know you yet
I'm just feeling I'm just feeling it's
just too much so yeah I'm a little bored
you own it and you just own it and he
might go fine you know I don't want to
be with you and go okay right what's
your what is your alternative if you
don't let this man know you're bored
it's how I really feel I'm not gonna be
rude about it like shut up you're boring
me you're gonna choose your words
carefully but she said this is over text
stop texting first of all what are you
doing texting this much you need to get
on the phone you need to make it real do
not have texting relationships with
people girls I cannot recommend it
enough I know it's there I know it's so
easy I know you get a dopamine rush
every time your phone chimes and it's
that guy texting you it is not real
it is not real it it will feel real it
will feel like letter-writing but you
have to be face to face with a person
you have to breathe the same air okay
you have to breathe the same air
okay someone's name I can't pronounce
says what if he's been laid back and I'm
pushy you get a little sip a drink care
so he's laid back in your pussy why do I
have a feeling that has something to do
with sex message me if that's if you're
really talking about something sexually
or like making dates and plans like that
so ultimately with a guy like that you
just have to hold out you have to hold
out
you have to just see what he does and
don't do anything okay just don't do
anything all right
give him the time and the space and the
boredom because he's actually thinking
you're gonna do something okay all right
eyes to see so this is the last I've got
one more coming up here and then that no
more you guys eyes to see says how do I
do okay we did that one have a deal
where the guy talks mainly about himself
or mm-hmm oh okay hold on I think I can
see it Lisa we can't see your question
we cannot see your question hey girls
thank you so much for tuning into this
live stream with me I love doing QA I
love teaching how to get into your soft
feminine body please stop for a moment
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right now and I've got about a hundred
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wondering can we make it happen oh Lisa
fabulous question how do I get my guy to
be open with physical touch and by open
you mean I want come touch me more come
cuddle me more come give me more of that
stuff I want right okay
and and okay she says heart hurt heart
so I'm on I'm on the same page with you
so um physical touch is a big one
for me too and I you know it makes us
feel good it kind of calms us down that
makes me feel connected I am so blessed
to have a man who likes to give me a
foot massage it's he's so wonderful and
and and and we'll just call me down will
get me centered again I can calm myself
down I think it myself Sarah down but
boy do I love it that he just wants to
do that and touch me so how did that
happen you know how did I you know it
didn't happen on the first date so you
got to reward him anytime he touches you
and it feels good when I first met Jeff
I actually complained to him he hugged
too much he did I swear to God the guy
had to hug me we're passing and how he
wanted to hug in the kitchen you went
hooked can you believe you're hearing
this from me I actually criticized him
because he wanted to hug too much so
whenever he does touch you just just
melt just melt like hot chocolate just
melt you know put a piece of chocolate
on your tongue let it sit there and just
let it melt and so whenever he touches
you you just mmm
make a sound oh it feels so good and she
says I want to moan and do it just go
hmm
his ears will hear this and he'll start
to react so I have a video on my YouTube
page and if you just go to my youtube
channel it's it's right up there and I'm
wearing sunglasses I'm out on my porch
and I give you all these sexy tips to
drive your guy crazy or something like
that
and I talked about noises you can make
with your mouth and so then you begin to
incorporate those same noises until like
everyday life with him and just before
he knows it he's just feeling this
around you all the time so noises also
the beginning of this we did an exercise
where you open your body you open your
inner
gee that's what you want to do all right
and somebody says one of our favorite
videos please post in the comments if
you know what video it is I love it when
you girls help me out alright so I think
that's it I think I saw one sneak in she
said I have pelvic floor disorder and it
makes sex uncomfortable it's difficult
on us emotionally and she's been in
physical therapy so um I've actually
helped women with this in my coaching
because one of the things that I teach
you to do is relax the vagina muscles
and you probably have a dilator you
probably have something that's helping
you with physical therapy with that I'm
assuming but until then I want you to
begin to learn to feel pleasure however
you can in other ways you see yes she
uses dilators excellent begin to
practice that energy of opening and
concentrating dropping down into your
body I like to start with the top of my
head
tap the top of your head feel your head
talk to it fill your forehead your face
your neck your bosom your stomach keep
tapping and talk to it saying this is my
arm this is what my arm feels like to me
pinch it give it a little rabbil stroke
feel it okay and get into your body and
begin to relax that place breathe into
it send air into it and allow it to
widen and of course this is a slow
process for the fur girls who have any
sort of pelvic floor disorder I mean
it's tough a lot of you want to be
mothers one day and and there's the you
got to make it happen somehow even
doctor's appointments are incredibly
painful so be slow with yourself love
yourself right where you are
if it's discouraging for you guys
it's not gonna help you you got to go
what this will love okay you got to go
it this would love and say baby this is
how my body is this is just where I'm at
and love it I love every little tight
part of myself I love every little part
that won't let go a lot of us are you
know a lot of women can't even have
orgasms you know with their partner
because we're so tensed up and tight and
you know it's a very similar thing okay
yeah I'm really glad to help you and I
do understand that condition and don't
worry start where you're at love where
you're at trust your body trust your
body knows what it's doing
girls I can't take any more questions I
gotta go
I've been with you for over an hour
alright Nalin I'm going to answer your
question in the chat below and if for
any of you I didn't get to your question
just ask below in the comments okay and
I'll answer it I'm so happy and honored
to be part of your life ladies please
give me a thumbs up I'm almost at 200
likes for this video I would love to get
more likes
I would love to hit 200 I would be the
most I've ever had in one video please
say you're welcome girls in over my head
eyes to see aleem Sinead Julie
libertarian and Alex thank you so much
for being vulnerable thank you all you
girls for chatting I've been seeing all
your chats pop up thank you thank you so
much for being with me during this video
livestream please take a moment oh we
have 200 likes you girls are amazing and
thank you so much for being part of my
life and giving me a place to share my
story and help you heal as well and in
the comments talk about how you're
getting in touch with your feminine
energy that soft feminine energy men are
drawn
to it men desire it because they feel
like a man when they're in that energy
alright they feel good you know what
it's how good it feels when you feel
like a woman
and you feel comfortable and soft and
like a girl and a man also feels amazing
when he's in his masculine energy okay
and the relationship gets balanced all
right everybody much love Brittany thank
you thank you thank you for staying with
me during this chat and thanks for
everybody coming back around much love to
you  see you soon bye-bye
