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Hey every one, I'm
Adrienne Everheart,
your dating and
relationship coach.
I am a feminine energy expert.
One of the things I help women do
is realign their feminine energy
so you can attract a high
quality masculine energy man.
And in this video, I'm going to teach
you how to drive your guy wild,
why men go wild, and how
you can tap into the
soft, warm, feminine
energy. So, stick around.
Thanks so much for joining me today.
Again, I am a certified dating
and relationship coach.
I specialize in feminine energy.
Something I have studied for
a good long while.
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So often I hear from women
on my Facebook group
Everheart Love Academy
and on my YouTube channel
in the comment section,
Adrienne, I don't want to have to
think to get in to my feminine energy,
I want it to be natural.
I don't want to have to
change for any man.
And this really isn't
our true selves.
If we're having to
change ourselves.
So, I actually thought a lot of
the same things you're thinking,
which is, how do I
become soft and warm?
I am soft and warm
you know, what is this thing
called feminine energy
and myself and my good
friend Helena Hart,
we were both kind of learning about it
and going deeper into feminine energy.
And I was really committed
to not wanting to have to change
who I am as a person.
I wanted if a man was
going to love me,
he needed to just love
me just the way I was,
but I kept having
failed relationships
and I would seem
to really turn off
or drive away what were
pretty good guys in my life.
Another thing I
experienced is that,
masculine energy men
kind of scared me.
They were off-putting to me
and I know so often my mum or my
cousins or my sister would ask me
you know, why don't you
like these type of men
and I would always say
ooh, they're too manly,
they're too brutish or whatever.
And what was really
happening is that
my masculine energy
was challenged
or being challenged
by their masculine energy.
So, just real quick,
think for a second about
feminine and masculine energy
and how even in a homo
sexual couple, one of
the people in that relationship
is usually more feminine energy
or one is more masculine energy.
And so you have this nice
balance of energies,
where the man, the masculine
energy is pursuing
the woman, which is
the feminine energy.
So just real quick think about
something like your
sex life for example.
What if you are the one that is
having to pursue your husband
for intimacy and sex. It
really wouldn't feel right.
Most women would not want
to have that sort of
situation in their
relationships.
So, part of being soft
and warm is being
so available and open,
in a very easy energy that
men feel good around.
That they actually identify
whether they feel good
when they're with you and they're going
to want to spend more time with you.
Feminine energy isn't
about being a door mat.
It isn't about being so
much up in your head,
you have to think and everything
before you say it to the man.
And it definitely isn't about
holding back who you are.
It's just a way that
we are going to tap
into what's really
happening with you?
And instead of jumping
up to your mind,
which is masculine energy
and figuring the man out.
You're going to learn how to be soft
and warm, really pull him to you,
drive him wild for you.
Now, this is a lot of information
to learn in just a video
or even on my channels.
So, I have lots of self-study
programs on my website
that you can really learn more
about your feminine energy,
learn how to have a man hanging
on to every word you say.
And just learn how to have
men coming out of everywhere
pursuing you especially
your guy at home
by being soft and warm.
So, check this out
especially my e-book,
500 Ways to Talk to a Man.
That is a great book to get started
with, dropping into your body
and finding your feelings.
So, if you identify yourself
as a woman, as a female,
I'm going to encourage you to get
more into your feminine energy.
Now, at work you may be
in your masculine energy,
which is action, it's making
things happen, you're doing things.
You can still be soft and
warm and here is how,
you will be in your body
so, even though you're having to do
a million and one things at work
and you're having to
sometimes manage people and delegate,
and tell people what to do.
You can still be
in your body
and practice and
find what you feel.
You can still speak to
people in a very warm way.
So let's say you like
someone at your job,
you like a man that he is maybe
your boss or a co-worker
and you're in your
masculine energy all day.
So he can't really see you
as this feminine being.
So, one of the first
things you can do
and ladies you can do
this in any situation.
You can do it with
your husband at home
while you're on a date or
anything like that.
Is just make sure you're stopping
to slow down and breath.
I know everybody is
telling you to breath,
your yoga teacher is
telling you to breath,
your physician tells you to take,
breath when he takes your heartbeat.
Look, breathing is a
great way to slow down
your mind. Remember your
mind is masculine energy.
So, just take a couple
of slow deep breaths
in through your nose and
out through your mouth
and just start to slow down
your body a little bit.
Good, the next thing
I want you to do is
your head might be
spinning up here thinking
ooh, my goodness how do I
figure out the stuff out?
What do I say to him,
what do I talk about,
how do I get his attention?
So, notice you're
in action mode,
you're trying to think of
ways to get into action.
That's a good sign you're
in your masculine energy
so instead, you just
drop into your body
and say well, what do I feel right
now, what am I feeling? Well,
I feel a little nervous,
I feel a little shy,
I feel curious.
I don't know how all of this is
going to turn out with him.
So, what do you really feel?
And you just sit there and
own those emotions.
We actually don't have to do
or say anything to get a man
crazy about you and feel
really wild about you.
Just be in your body, you will
have a soft warm confidence
emanating from you.
And the man will feel it and
he will find it irresistible.
Men love a soft warm feminine
energy woman because
they don't feel
challenged by you,
they don't feel under a
microscope or micromanaged.
So, think about their
world all day long.
They're maybe working with men
on a mostly masculine
energy environment all day.
They're either giving the orders
or they're having to take them
or they're having
to work in a group.
Now, men work like this,
there's one alpha.
There's one alpha
in every group.
There may be little
subgroups at his work
where he might be the alpha with his
guys that he's hanging out with,
but there is one alpha,
there is one boss
and men play by this rule
very easily.
They go right along with it
they totally get it.
This is why men can get into
a scuffle or a fistfight and
one man wins and the other
doesn't, they shake hands after.
Do you think that
can really happen
with two women, after two
women get into a fight?
I don’t think so,
we don't work like that.
We don't have this hierarchy
that we're having in our lives.
So, when a man's in your life and he
comes home at the end of the day,
and he's in his
masculine energy,
he's had to take
orders all day,
he's maybe had to
give orders all day.
We don't know, he's
been struggling with all this
you know, masculine energy
and some feminine energy.
He's having to tone down
his masculine energy
to be nice to any other
woman he's working around.
Men really do think this way,
they really do.
So, when he comes home to you,
he doesn't want to
talk about business,
he doesn't want to hear
about work or task
or what I call
maintenance conversation.
Your date, your boyfriend,
your husband, he wants a soft
warm energy.
This is his solace,
this is what he's
been craving all day.
Ladies if you've ever found
a man looking at women,
found him, pictures of a woman
on his phone or his computer,
this is because men feel good.
They feel like a man
when they look at women
and when they
interact with women.
And heaven forbid, your man
ever leave you for another woman
or talk to other women.
In a lot of cases, he's doing
it because that woman
is making him feel like a man
or helping him fell like a man.
Now, I am totally
against all of that,
but before you lose your
relationship or feel insecure,
why not become the woman that
helps him balance his energies?
So, this is a lot of ways
a woman can heal the man
through her, which I absolutely
believe can happen
once you balance your energy.
Once you get into your
feminine energy and stay there,
and don't wobble too much,
the man will more and more get
into his masculine energy.
Men are really just drawn to
women in their feminine energy
because we're confident.
We're not up in our heads
and challenging the man
with action or trying to outdo him
or compete with him in any way.
Men can finally with us relax
and just give us that
masculine attention we want
while we receive.
Now, I personally
have found that
I am more in touch with
my feminine energy now.
I used to be the biggest baddest
ball-buster you have ever met
and now I'm so much
more calm and relaxed
at being a woman.
It feels so much
more natural to me.
Now a lot of you might be thinking well,
how did I lose my feminine energy,
where did it go?
Many women, I call us
powerful dynamite women.
We were brought up in
household whereas,
a dad or a father figure
or maybe even your mother,
that was really strong, confident,
had more of that alpha energy.
And there's a part of you
for survival purposes
you relate to that
energy the most
and so you think for survival,
I need to relate more
to this tougher energy.
It doesn't happen to
everybody because some
women are brought up in households
where the energies are balanced
and they see their mom you
know, being treated fairly
having a good career and things like this
and being soft and warm and receiving.
So, they don't ever make that
correlation that I need to be tough.
So, if home life
doesn't do it to you,
when you get out
in the real world,
everyone tells you, you
have to be tough,
don't cry, you have to be this
way at work or that way at work.
And we want to make it we're in this
Western society where if we want something
we go out and we get it. It
doesn't work that way with men.
You will repel a man by
chasing him and pursuing him.
At the same time, you can be
in your feminine energy.
You can be warm and
you can be receiving
and a man that you
really, really want
will pass on you, it happens.
Sometimes even though your
energy is in the right place,
he's just not ready,
or he's not attracted
or the energies just aren't
feeling good to him.
There's so much that
goes into attraction.
However, that's the man that's
in front of you right now,
even if it's not your dream guy,
even if it is your dream guy,
he's who you want to practice
on right now and all other men.
Learning how to
be soft and warm
is something you can
practice on a daily basis
even if you're text messaging or
speaking to a man on the phone.
So, it's just this simple.
When a man feels really
good and he's around you
and he's feeling really good,
he's feeling like a man,
he's not going to be able
to get enough of you,
he's not going to be able to get
enough of the softness and warmth.
That's why men gravitate
to feminine energy women.
So, I hope this video has
been helpful for you.
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500 Ways to Talk to a Man.
It will get you started
in this wonderful process
of tapping into your
feminine energy,
rediscovering who
you are as a woman.
All right, everyone
thanks for tuning in
and I look forward to hearing from
you in the comment section.
If you start to feel your
feminine energy and get
wonderful positive responses or you're
curious or whatever it may be,
please comment below. I would
love to hear from you.
