what is up everybody this is Chris from
the rewired soul where we talk about the
problem but focus on the solution and if
you're new to my channel what I like to
do is take different topics going on in
the YouTube community or pop culture and
try to see what lessons we can learn
from them to improve our own mental and
emotional well-being so if you're into
that stuff make sure you subscribe and
ring that notification bell and yeah if
you're new here I'm not here to just
gossip and spill the tea on what's going
on there are valuable lessons for all of
us to learn and we're looking at this
Zayn malik from one direction and Jake Paul situation we're gonna
be talking about some important subjects
such as not playing the victim getting
self-awareness and taking some
responsibility all right so anyways
hashtag Zane ended jake paul party is
trending on twitter
it started with jake paul sending out
this tweet this morning almost had to
clap up Zayn malik from one direction because
he is a little guy and has an attitude
and basically told me to fuck off for no
reason when I was trying to be nice to
him
Zayn I know you're reading this stop
being angry because you came home alone
to your big-ass hotel room hahahahaha
and as I was reading that I was like
this sounds like a Donald Trump tweet
anyways one of the replies was Gigi
Hadid she said lol because he doesn't
care to hang out with you or you're
embarrassing crew of YouTube groupies
home alone with his best friends like a
respectful King because he has me
sweetie unbothered by your irrelevant
ugly ass go to bed and then Jake Pauly
sent out one last Sweden who knows if
you'll keep tweeting when he says bro he
literally started yelling and freaking
the fuck out you want to test me made
lol I feel bad for childhood stars and
that's also a lack of self-awareness
because Jake Paul's kind of he's kind of
a childhood star alright
but yeah for those of you who aren't in
the loop of all the bullshit Jake Paul
does last week he got a lot of flack for
sending out a really uh kind of
hmm ignorant tweet about anxiety right
and he got a ton of shit he was trending
last week and he got a ton of shit for
it all right and yeah if you missed it I
covered a little bit of that and we
talked about mental health awareness
mental health education he ended up
going on the Logan Paul impaulsive
podcast with Logan Paul and Mike majlak
where he talked about the whole
situation I kind of broke it down with a
few clips I watched that entire long
episode so all of you don't have to so
if you want to go check that out I'll be
linked up in the info card somewhere all
right but one thing that I mentioned in
that video was that there's this
complete kind of lack of self awareness
because here's the thing we all need
people in our lives to call us out on
our bullshit all right
and that hour-long episode of impulsive
Mike was enabling Jake Paul's bullshit
the entire time it seemed like the only
person calling Jake Paul out was his
brother Logan but anyways that whole
episode if you want to go check it all
on YouTube it starts out with this clip
it's it's and it goes back to like
people just like attacking Jake Paul and
like wanting to see me fail so that's
from a segment later in the podcast
where to give you full contacts Jake
Paul's like in the middle of a few
lawsuits right now but like throughout
the episode he talks about how people
are just coming and attacking him and
hating him all right so now let's get
down to it all right let's talk about me
and you okay because we're taking this
situation and seeing what we can learn
from it all right and like like I feel
bad for the dude because I can relate I
used to be a professional fucking victim
all right I used to wake up every day I
thought the entire world was out to get
me and I know some of you can relate to
this right I thought every morning
people just got out of bed and they're
like oh yeah oh my gonna home I got a
screw over Chris today right like it's
such this self-centered point of view
like we're so important that we think
everybody is plotting
you just be out there to get us you know
what I mean and that's the mindset that
Jake Paul is in like there's this
complete disconnect where he doesn't
understand like just one week ago
just one week less than a week ago he
had this whole thing blow up about
anxiety and he was solving to his
friends about how everybody's out to get
him and then this happens all right like
we need to start understanding like hmm
maybe people are out to get me
one because I'm not that important but
to maybe I'm causing a lot of my own
shit
all right like when I first got sober
just like none of it like none of it
went away aside from like my drinking
and using I still had my same like
fucked up mind right and I kept whining
and bitching you complain like why can't
people just treat me right like I'm
trying to be good why are people just
treating me right and thank God I got a
sponsor like he he didn't tell me what I
wanted to hear he told me what I needed
to hear
all right every time I would call him
every time I would call him bitching and
complaining he would ask me he's like
did you do anything to put yourself in
this situation right like for example I
was in the sober living when I first got
sober all right and I hated it I hated
sober living so much I was in there with
like 18 newly sober drug addicts and
alcoholics right and people were like
stealing my food or like you know there
was like one TV in the house and they'd
sit there and watch Pawn Stars all day
there were people who like smoked meth
in the garage like all sorts of shit I
would call him and I'd be complaining
and he'd just listen to me rant you
would just listen to me rant and he
would say this it's actually a quote
from the a a big book but he was beat
this shit into my head he said Chris did
you make any decisions that put you in
the situation that you're currently in
and I'm like you motherfucker right
because I want I want when I'm crying to
somebody I want them to have my back I
want them to be on my side I want them
to coddle me and just hold me and be
like Oh Chris you poor poor little baby
why did they treat you so bad but he
didn't deal with that bullsh
for me you know what I mean he asked me
like why was that hearing that
sober-living well it was because I was a
drug addict and alcoholic and I
destroyed all the relationships with my
friends and family so I didn't have a
place to say aside from that sober
living
why couldn't I afford my own place
because I lost my job and all my money
based on my drug it out of the whole
addiction so I had to be in a sober
living because my mom was paying for it
all right
months later I ended up moving out I
moved in with my mom and I would call
him and bitching and complaining I was
like I'm a 27 year old grown-ass man and
she's treating me like a little kid blah
blah blah and he listened to me vent and
then you'd say Chris did you make any
decisions based on self that put you in
the situation that you're currently in
I'm like this son of a bitch right
because why was i living with my mom
because of all the same shit my drug
addiction right because I didn't have
anywhere else to go because I spent all
my money on drugs and alcohol you know
what I mean so every time I bitched and
moaned about everything else out there I
was like huh how did how did I get in
this situation oh oh yeah me me I'm the
reason I'm in that situation right and
we all need to look at this like with
Jake Paul like going on right here I'm
like fuck dude I mean this dude still
thinks that the whole world is out to
get him
right but he's publicly how many how
many followers is this full have 3.7
million followers he's out here tweeting
some bullshit right trying to act like
big tough Jake Paul man going after Zane
over some trivial fucking middle-school
stupid stuff right and in his mind he's
still thinking why is the world out to
get him all right and just to play you
know doubles advocate real quick like
like listen like I said last week I I
think I think Jake Paul was coming from
a good place when he tweeted out about
anxiety and all that kind of stuff you
know whatever and if I try to empathize
with Jake Paul he's still probably going
through some shit mentally you know what
I mean obviously I don't know him but
he's still probably a little fucked up
from that and he's probably still got
some anger and resentment
and that's why he tweeted this out but
hopefully Jake Paul get some people in
his corner who will say Jake look at
your recent behaviors look at these
behaviors and tell me do you really
think that the world's out to get you or
do you think that you're you're playing
at least a small part in it and like
that's what we all need to do for one
another right when you did like like
check in with ourselves to say did I
cause anything and if we're not seeing
it we need to ask somebody else all
right like like last year I went through
so much bullshit but trust me trust me
like although some of it was unfair I
know for a fact I know for a fact I
caused it it all started with me this
guy right here all right I forgot a lot
of my roots and everything I forgot that
my behaviors were you know spiraling to
cause a bunch of problems later on but
anyways like if you have a friend out
there who really lacks self-awareness
and how to need somebody to call them
out on their shit
like just be careful with it be careful
wielding that power you know what I mean
because some people just don't want to
hear it and personally like the final
thing I'll end on is if you have
somebody like this who's causing all of
their own problems like my my own rule
of thumb is I I tell them what they need
to hear not what they want to hear a few
times and if they keep doing it I start
to love them from a distance
right I like to keep my own sanity in
check like I can't constantly be be
there for someone who keeps causing all
their own problems like I can't do that
like I will lose my shit you know what I
mean and real quick pro tip a great way
to do this is to ask them be like do you
want my opinion right 90% of the time
they'll say yes I've had people say no
sometimes but 90% of the time when
someone comes crying to you and you say
do you want my opinion and they say yes
that opens up the doors because I can't
really get too mad at you because I
asked for your opinion you know what I
mean so test that out a little bit all
right anyways that's all I got for this
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Bell and if you want to check out the
video I did breaking out down Jake paul
on the logan paul impulsive podcast
it'll be right down there alright thanks
again for watching I'll see you next
time
