It's been a weird month for all of us
and unfortunately there's one thing that
we all have in common right now – which is growing uncertainty. So here are a few
tips from psychology to help us all cope.
I'm Vanessa, you're watching BrainCraft
and I am self isolating in a one-bedroom
apartment for an indefinite period of time.
Uncertainty it has been defined as
a lack of information about a situation.
And it's totally normal to feel
uncomfortable about it –
in studies that people have actually
paid to reduce their levels of
uncertainty. But unfortunately we don't
have that option in real life...
First, it's importance know that we all respond to uncertainty differently. This is called
your 'tolerance of uncertainty' – and
when you think about it we all have
different tolerance to caffeine and
coffee or alcohol in wine so uncertainty
is no different. And this level of
tolerance can affect you in different
ways. So people with a lower tolerance to
uncertainty are more vulnerable to
experiencing anxiety. We can see this in
a study that was done at during the 2009
swine flu pandemic. Researchers found
that people who had a harder time
accepting the uncertainty of the
situation that were more likely to
experience elevated anxiety. But even
though it feels like the world is
falling apart it is good to remember
that our actions have the potential to
change our thoughts and feelings. And
there are ways that we can build our
tolerance to uncertainty. Experts
recommend thinking of tolerance of
uncertainty as a muscle – the more we
exercise that the stronger it gets. And
the way we can exercise it is by
introducing small amounts of uncertainty
into our everyday lives. I made a list of
examples for you, which in in reality is
quite visually unappealing but bear with
me. So try going on a walk outside
without checking the weather, without
knowing anything about what it's gonna be
like once you're out there. Another thing
you can try is emailing or messaging a
colleague or a family member and then
putting your phone away – put it in a
drawer turn it off don't look at it for
one hour, two hours, know that there is
probably a message there for you and
you're okay not
knowing what it says. You could also
order food from a new place without
looking at the menu, without looking it
up online and just not knowing what to
expect. Another thing you can do that is
honestly important is reducing at the
time that you're exposed to COVID-19
media. Obviously news is essential but
studies of past global tragedies have
found that unnecessary exposure to news
about that tragedy can increase anxiety
and your body's stress response. So get
notifications, set yourself a time
to check in or give yourself a certain
amount of time to read media every day.
Don't overdose on content! Of course some
of this could lead to you annoying a
colleague or reading two fewer news
articles or getting a bad pizza – but
that's the whole point! Of you becoming
comfortable in this process, of
experiencing uncertainty and knowing
that in the end – everything's gonna be
okay. Another way to cope is by doing
small things that you can control and
you can do this at the same time as
you're building up your tolerance of
uncertainty muscle. So I've been making a
list every morning of super easy things
that I can do every day, given the
circumstances, so getting up having a
shower and walking the dog and having
lunch are all on there. And then when I
tick them off, it helps me feel grounded
and feel like I'm actually doing
something. Even if you have reached this
place in the video and you're doing
brilliantly and none of these tips are
needed – please remember that everybody
experiences anxiety differently! If
people are coming to you don't tell them
they're overreacting because they might
just be seeking reassurance. We are all
dealing with a lot right now and I'm
gonna be in this room for an indefinite
period of time... but still I'm trying to
build at my uncertainty muscle, I'm
making this and I'm just trying to stay
sane. And I hope this video can help you
do the same. Please stay safe and more than anything, stay home! Please stay home.
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