Hey guys, my name is Shallon and I am here
to help you with all the questions you might
have about love, lust, romance, and everything
in between.
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or be sure to check out my website shallononline.com.
Boys, you guys are always saying to me, how
do I know what a woman wants?
how do I know what she is thinking?
I can't understand or she is so confusing.
Here are a few tricks to figure out what a
girl's body language is really trying to communicate.
There are few really good signs that you want
your romantic encounter to have.
#1 you want her to be facing you.
You want her legs to be crossed towards you,
not away from you, that is a bad sign.
You want her hands to be free.
If she is seeing like this, not a good sign
either, that means she is closed off.
If you are having a confrontation about something
or you are asking her a question and she has
to give an answer.
If she is touching her face at all or putting
her hand in front of her face she could be
lying, subconsciously that is a way to physically
stop the words from coming out of your mouth.
Hmm, interesting right?.
Some other good signs, she is playing with
her hair a little bit, not like a maniac,
crazy, cocker spaniel way, but just a little
bit of touching here and there, very good.
If she is touching her neck or shoulders,
also very good, same for if she is blushing.
I am a huge blusher, I can't even help myself,
so for girls blushing it doesn't mean you
are making her uncomfortable necessarily,
it means you are ruffling her feathers in
a good way, but here is a little tip that
not a lot of people know.
You could actually change a girl's thought
pattern if you change her body language.
So say a girl is sitting like this, this means
she is not receiving your message whatever
it is you are saying, but if you can get her
to uncross her arms, either ask her to hold
something or play with something or touch
something, by opening up her body language
you can change what's happening in her mind.
People have done studies and when they change
their body language their thoughts about the
situation unconsciously follow suit and become
more positive, I know, wait, genius.
How easy is that.
