 
No, you hang up!
 
No, you!
 
Okay, no. You, please.
Okay, on the count of three!
Ready?
 
One...
 
Two...
 
Three.
 
No, you hang up!
Oh! Were you not
talking to me?
 
Sorry.
 
All right. Arun...
 
I’m gonna say something.
And I hope
you’re not offended.
 
Okay.
 
Your penis is amazing.
 
What?
 
It’s kind of like an “S”.
No... What are you
talking about?
Oh, don’t tell me
you haven’t noticed!
 
It looks like a water slide.
 
That’s not true.
Of course it is!
And you should be really proud.
Okay, you’re making me
very uncomfortable.
 
Sorry. Here...
- Does this help?
- No, no, no.
 
No, it does not.
Well it should,
because we’re all unique.
See?
Look at mine!
 
No. I don’t want to.
 
It’s okay. I don’t mind.
 
Yeah, but I do.
I don’t want to look
at my best friend’s penis.
Fine.
I’ll describe it to you.
 
No. Please don’t do that.
It’s kinda like a corn dog
wrapped in some kind of meat.
 
I wanna say... ham?
 
Oh, that’s terrible.
- It’s disturbing.
- Thank you!
Disturbing that men
still aren’t comfortable
talking about
their own penises!
 
Exactly!
We gotta be happy
with what we have!
 
Yeah!
Enough with the:
“Mine is bigger than yours!”
Or: “Mine is straighter
than yours!”
Or: “Mine smells
better than yours!”
 
Wait. Smells better?
 
Couldn’t agree more.
There’s all kinds
of penises out there.
 
Time to own who we are.
 
Amen, brother!
 
Amen!
 
Smells good.
 
I know, right?
 
You... you... didn’t...
The penis is the external
male sex organ.
Its growth is gradual
during childhood
but accelerates around
the age of 10 to 12
when testosterone
secreted by the body
makes it lengthen
and thicken.
When a male is
around 20 years old,
the penis usually
reaches full maturity.
Contrary to what
some people think,
the penis isn’t
a muscle or a bone.
It’s composed of spongy
and cavernous tissues
that fill with blood
to create the erection.
While erections are often
caused by being caressed
 
or having sexual thoughts,
they can also
happen spontaneously
and are sometimes
impossible to control. 
These so-called
“random” erections
serve to oxygenate
penile tissues
 
to ensure elasticity
and prepare them
for future sexual experiences.
 
Erections during adolescence
are more frequent...
and unpredictable.
It’s a reflex that can occur
even without feeling aroused.
Growth, erections,
and ejaculation
can be a source
of enthusiasm,
 
but also of anxiety.
It’s normal to wonder
if a penis is “normal”.
Truth is, there’s
a great variety of them. 
 
Curved,
 
or straight.
 
Long,
 
or short.
 
Thick,
 
or thin.
 
Dark,
 
or pale.
 
With
 
or without hair.
 
Circumsised,
 
or not.
 
Veiny,
 
or not.
And sometimes with
more or less apparent 
 
small ridges and bumps.
Regardless of
the shape or length,
penises can equally
give or receive pleasure.
 
In fact, research shows 
that two of the most
influential factors
on pleasure
and sexual satisfaction
 
are listening to our partner
and being comfortable
with our bodies.
 
All penises are unique,
and learning to accept
our own body comes gradually.
I don’t have a nickname
for my penis!
 
Maybe Frederick?
I don’t have a nickname
for my penis.
 
Maybe Kyle?
 
No! Just...
 
Penis.
 
Yeah. He’s just my man.
 
I like my penis.
 
I think I have a...
I have a good relationship
with my penis now.
We’ve grown to like
each other a lot more.
My relationship with my penis
is complicated.
I don’t think that...
Like, you disliking...
I think you should be comfortable
with your own body.
I’m circumcised
and I wish I wasn’t.
I think we have
a great relationship.
 
We understand each other.
 
Often, just a little slap...
 
Hey! Good job.
My penis is one
of my best friends!
Some people have...
They’re born with...
 
Different penises.
Sometimes it curves,
sometimes it’s like...
It’s straight, sometimes
it flops downwards...
Or straight up...
It varies a lot.
Am I satisfied
with my penis?
 
Yes.
 
Do I wish it were bigger?
 
Yes, too!
I think a lot of guys
are worried about their penis.
Their penises in general,
but their penis size, too.
Not being up to
someone’s standards,
not being able to please
them, even though...
Size has nothing to do with
being able to please somebody.
 
You don’t hear a lot about:
 
“Oh! It’s so big that it’s bad!”
Generally speaking,
bigger is better.
Some girls are like...
Oh, wow!
I only want to sleep with guys
who have like...
Really large or
really long penises.
 
And other girls are like...
If you’re above average,
you’re not touching me even close.
 
Cause that’s not gonna fit
and I don’t want that
anywhere near my vagina.
 
You know?
I think a lot of guys
don’t realize
that it’s nor really
much about size,
 
it’s more about technique.
But that’s not really
what’s talked about.
 
Yeah, it’s stereotypical,
but it’s definitely about
knowing how to use it.
Not knowing how to use
whatever you’ve got going on
can be really
unfortunate, but...
 
We often talk about how
women are reduced
to only their bodies.
 
Yeah.
But I think that
very much happens to guys.
Especially in relation
to their penis.
Like you said,
if it’s “too small”...
 
Then it’s like...
 
He becomes undesirable.
And the opposite
is also true.
The penis is something
that is...
Something you have
to definitely connect with,
in a physical way,
but also in a spiritual way.
You have to
understand its use,
and its power,
if I could say that.
