Teen Help Phone,
how can I help you?
 
Hi! I mean... Hello.
 
My name is... Bavin.
Yes, Bavin. And, uh...
I have a question.
 
Hi there... Bavin!
 
What’s your question?
 
Yeah! I was wondering...
Do you know what...
time it is?
You’ve called the Teen Help Phone
to ask what time it is?
 
Yes!
 
It’s 6:30.
 
Great! Thank you.
 
Very helpful. Okay. Bye!
 
No wait! Wait.
I actually have
another question.
 
It’s, uh...
 
How do I put this?
 
It’s about... sex!
About what?
Sorry, I can’t hear you.
 
Sex! It’s about sex.
 
Sex, got it!
We’re here to help, Bavin.
Shoot!
Uh... well, yeah.
Actually, that’s the thing.
 
It’s about my... penis.
- Your what?
- Penis!
 
Penis.
Your penis! Great.
What about it?
 
Okay! Uh...
 
Let’s say there’s this...
 
Hot dog. And it...
 
What kind of hot dog?
 
I don’t know! Beef?
What if I’m dipping
a cookie in milk. And...
 
What kind of cookie?
 
Chocolate chip?
What if I have
some juice, and...
 
What kind of juice?
 
Mango?
 
Delicious!
What if that juice
comes out of the straw
before anyone
even takes a drink?
That’s normal.
It’s pre-ejaculatory fluid.
Right! Great.
Okay, well... thank you.
I’m actually
kind of thirsty now.
Can I help you
with anything else?
Yeah, can you tell Gavin
to stop talking on the phone
when we’re trying
to have sex?
 
It’s kind of a turn-off.
 
Who’s Gavin?
 
I have no idea!
Orgasm is an intense
moment of sexual pleasure.
The body reacts
in several ways.
Muscles at the base
of the penis contract, 
some people make
audible noises,
 
and ejaculation occurs.
 
The first part is arousal.
 
Imagining erotic things,
thinking about someone special,
or being touched
can cause an erection,
rising of the testicles,
and accelerate breathing
and heart rate.
This means the body
is in preparation mode.
A pleasurable stimulation
of the penis
can lead some people
to produce a few drops
 
of a liquid called “pre-cum”.
If the pleasure is maintained
or becomes more intense,
orgasm and ejaculation
can follow.
 
Whether it’s an electric shock,
a chill that runs
through the body
 or a moment
of loss of control,
sensations and ways
to describe orgasms
vary from one person
to another.
Orgasms are also influenced
by psychological factors
such as level of connection
or discomfort and stress. 
Ejaculation is linked
with orgasm
because it usually occurs
at the same time.
But it’s also possible to achieve
an orgasm without ejaculating.
 
And vice versa!
In adolescence, ejaculation
is quite difficult to control.
It can happen
faster than expected
 
and be a source of stress. 
That’s why it’s useful to be
attentive to your bodily sensations,
 
to slow down the pace,
and to vary the speed
and intensity of touch.
With time, learning
to know yourself better 
helps ejaculation to occur more
and more at the desired moment.
Also keep in mind
that after orgasm,
the body needs a period of rest,
known as the refractory period. 
Sexual pleasure 
is not limited to orgasm 
 
when you savor every moment!
 
The male orgasm is...
 
When you experience it,
it’s kind of like going
down a roller coaster.
You kind of feel
a sudden rush.
How would I describe
an orgasm?
 
Uh...
 
Quite difficult to... say.
 
The male orgasm is...
- I mean...
- It’s fast.
 
Liberating.
If I could describe my orgasm
in one word, it would be...
 
Huh!
It’s like a feeling
of euphoria?
Yeah, and it’s also followed
by a moment of clarity.
 
Yeah.
I’ve had some
very weak ones,
and I’ve had some
pretty strong orgasms.
It’s all on a spectrum,
I’d say.
 
I really associate it with...
 
As simple as taking a pee.
Something is
coming out, and...
Peeing feels good.
And so does an orgasm.
I think orgasms
are different
depending on the situation
that you are in.
Depending on who you’re with,
if you’re alone...
If you’re with someone
to start out with!
When you masturbate,
the orgasm, it doesn’t...
It’s not the same as when
you have sexual intercourse.
When I masturbate,
I tend to just,
kind of stop
when I get closer,
because it gets
really intense for me.
And when I’m with
someone else,
I get to live
that experience fully.
I’d say the end product
is not very different.
It’s mostly the fun you have
during the action.
I think the male orgasm
is a little bit more physical,
 
but it can also be emotional.
 
It’s definitely physical,
but the emotional part
will come in
and amplify
that physical feeling.
A lot of energy
is released, and so...
That often is the same
when you orgasm,
 
it feels like a release.
On the mental side,
an orgasm is kind of...
an overwhelming
feeling of emotion.
If someone is not
feeling very safe,
or feeling a little
scared or concerned,
I don’t think they can get to
that elevation or that ascension
that you’re wanting
to reach with your mind.
I feel like a lot of guys are worried
about premature ejaculation.
They want to last long
to be able to please...
Uh... probably whoever
they’re sleeping with.
Just to avoid it,
they masturbate
before every
session of sex,
just so that they don’t really
disappoint their partners.
In a generalization,
coming too early, for men,
 
is definitely a worry,
just because our society
has deemed it,
you have to perform,
you have to last long,
you have to
please the girl.
I feel like a lot of guys
are also understanding
that there’s a lot
of circumstances
that can lead to stuff
like that happening, so...
It really depends
on where the person is
 
on their maturity level.
Sometimes it feels so good
it’s hard to make it last.
 
But you do your best.
