hello beautiful people on the internet
and my loyal minions my name is Fred Lee
and this is a totally different video
from what you're used to or what you may
expect now for those of you if this is
the first video you've ever watched on
my channel congratulations
I'll explain why in a bit but a majority
of you I know have been exposed to my
youtube channel by watching me going out
and hypnotizing beautiful women and also
during the off season I engage some of
your comments and go into details and
you kinda have a heart-to-heart moment
throw a couple memes here and there we
all have fun but during that I found
that some of you reached out to me and
really wanted some advice and some
things to get you at least moving
towards the right path in regards to
becoming a more successful individual
now I understand that not everyone can
afford my consultation and having a
therapy but with this open platform that
YouTube is and the amount of people that
it reaches out to and personally want it
to at least give people like yourselves
and perhaps those that you share it to
some video that is worth your time as
well as has some value and these are a
little series of videos that I'll be
doing OH
whenever I see fit depending on my
schedule to give you some tips and
advice to make your way towards becoming
a more successful person so let's get
right to it as the title of this video
suggests this is the first in the series
and there's always a beginning towards
any journey really and the first step is
as follows
and it starts off with this little quote
that many people take credit for and
that is you cannot help others if you
cannot help yourself because the key to
success it's a team effort
and you can be a pillar of society with
a bunch of people inspired by you and
they're willing to work with you and as
such you create a group or religion or a
cult whatever you want to call it and
becoming a group of that sort allows you
to make a larger impact whether it be
your community your city and perhaps
certain parts of the world this is what
success is success is not look at me
look at me look at me it's more of hey
here's what I got to bring and here's
what I got to offer let's work together
to bring this vision to the world or
wherever you want to bring your vision
to so if that makes sense
slap that like button yeah but becoming
a pillar of society requires you to be a
solid individual so how do you go about
doing that well let's get right to it
three questions that you can ask
yourself the first question you should
ask yourself is what's my goal you want
to be the next Mark Zuckerberg do you
want to be the next zero if you're into
video gaming you want to be the next
politician there's a myriad of different
routes that anyone can go but you got to
have a set goal otherwise you're gonna
be like everyone else
sheeple slowly rotting away in society
it's depressing when you really think
about it obviously you don't want to be
a part of that so that's why you're
watching this video second question that
you should ask yourself a lot of things
that I'm currently doing really
essential to my goal let's say I'm not
bashing on anybody but we're using these
as examples do keep that in mind let's
say playing for tonight pretty much 24/7
is that really gonna help you become the
next
after birth we only think about it you
know stuff like that minor things
working out is working out crucial to
becoming a successful person and in a
future video I'll talk about working out
and why it is again anything that I
share is gonna be from personal
experience you know as you can tell from
by slowly accumulating success here on
YouTube but for now this is all about
you all right it's all about you so for
the second question really dig through
and just see what you're currently doing
this allows you to be more self-aware
if you're not self-aware already being
an introvert it's really easy to be
self-aware because you're constantly
worried about all kinds of things but if
you are not self-aware this is a wake up
call for you and it's definitely
something to look into
so ask yourself a lot of things am i
doing right now for the past 2010 six
years really relevant to my goal third
third step is am I happy with my current
situation am I happy with my current
situation are you really happy are you
really happy with being that
construction worker that gets overworked
are you happy we're just hopelessly
going to school in a desperate desperate
attempt to get a piece of paper and find
out that you can't get a job with that
piece of paper and you have a millions
of dollars of debt are you happy with
that situation are you really happy
doesn't matter where you are on the
social economic scale are you happy
those are the crucial things that you
need to ask yourself and the third
question constantly ask yourself that
are you happy let's say as you move
towards your goal and as you make
adjustments to your life based on your
second question you find that you're not
quite happy with one particular thing
and nothing is more important than your
personal happiness the reason why
successful people are successful and
they live long happy lives
because well they do things that make
them feel good it's common sense but
it's a very important thing mental
health physical health are important
factors in regards to one success I'll
go into that in the future video as I
mentioned prior but your happiness is
contagious hence why asking yourself the
third question constantly throughout
your journey is a very important thing
and then whenever I make these videos I
hate sounding preachy and if I do sound
preachy in this video please comment
down below I want you guys to be sincere
about this because I want to make sure
each video is better and better and
better so do your part like share
subscribe you get the idea
the usual YouTube stuff and I like to
keep these videos nice and brief so
quick summary ask yourself three
questions do I have a goal are the
things in my life relevant towards that
goal am I happy there you go just the
first step to becoming a more successful
person requires you to ask yourself
these three questions and in the future
video I'm gonna tell you exactly what to
do or the next step to becoming a better
version of yourself and eventually
becoming that ideal person that you want
to be thank you guys so much for
watching and also for liking sharing
commenting and subscribing as well as
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questions comment down below or hit me
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always happy to help out whenever I can
and I'll see you guys in the next one
