The eyes have it. How does body language effect
a first date? This is Dr. Paul author of "Boomer
Girls, a Boomer Woman's Guide to Men and Dating"
and host of "Ask Dr. Paul". Often times when
I have callers they ask about their date,
the body language and I often tell them it's
all in the eyes. And when people hear that
they say you're right it's all about the eyes,
it's what that person is looking at all the
time because we hear the saying the eyes are
the mirror of the soul. This person wants
to read you and when they stop reading you
they are not interested and you can take that
to the bank because when that person is interested
you can test them and here is how to test
them. They will continue looking at you. You
can watch the pupil of the eye. If you are
wise on a first date get to the point where
maybe you are sitting at the table not next
to each other but across from each other and
then watch the eyes. If the pupils of the
eyes are narrow they are not turned on and
if they widen they are interested. Another
thing that you can do to the test the other
person is look at the person and look away
and then look back. If that woman or man happens
to still be looking at you they are interested.
You can do it again. If you want to be really
rude take a look at your watch and if the
person is still looking at you they're interested.
Now that's how to reach body language on a
first date. It's all about the eyes. This
is Dr. Paul. May your fantasies of today be
your realities of tomorrow.
