Tara emailed me claiming that she has been
manipulated by a man that she calls
a sociopath narcissistic monster.
She's talking about her husband, Mike.
And she claims that she has 20 years of evidence
including this DVD copy of the film, Killing Me Softly.
Now, for the first time in 18 years,
a guest has actually presented me with a movie
as evidence of alleged abuse.
She also claims her husband has filmed her
over 400 times trying to make her look mentally ill.
Here's an example.
Little brat!
Get the (beep) out of here.
You're gonna (beep) treat me the way you do?
Screw you!
Because you're back in your crazy mode.
No, I'm not crazy.
You're back in the crazy mode. Yes, absolutely.
No!
Yes.
You're still the same piece of (beep)
I saw the wine over there.
You were totally drinking so yeah.
Congratulations.
I've got video.
I've was taught to be paranoid.
I was taught to never have trust.
Gotta look what she's doing.
Oh no, paranoia.
Oh, mental illness must suck.
Ah, ah, wow.
(rambling tongue)
Well Mike admits there's tension and drama in the house
but he claims it all comes from Tara
and the only reason he has filmed her
is to show her what she looks like
when he says she's manic.
You're a socio that I'm trying to open you up!
Tara likes to call me a narcissistic sociopath.
She likes to say degrading things to me
around the children.
You have no idea what the (beep) you have.
She left him!
For the past 20 years,
I've been living with a true sociopath narcissist.
Can you stop?
These are children.
You shouldn't even be talking around children like this.
I'm asking (beep).
This is why I (beep) wanted you (beep) committed.
That's a fact!
My husband is a master manipulator.
He has no loyalty and trust.
When I come home form work,
Tara will be yelling and screaming
and I'll try to find a resolution to stop the behavior.
Michael would be extremely jealous of me
if I'm going out with my friends at night.
He would block his car so I couldn't even leave.
He will immediately grab the children
and tell them, "Look at your mother.
"She's going to get drunk."
Their spouses would never just run out
and not tell them where they're going.
Oh, really?
Yes.
It's a rollercoaster.
Some days I walk in and things are normal
and other times, things can go manic.
It took massive tears and numerous years
for me to understand that Michael is mentally ill.
When Tara's having manic behaviors, I don't engage.
Sometimes that will backfire.
In order to fix you, you must stop the autopilot
impulsive behavior!
Michael as stalked me from the day we met.
Just recently I had found out I was driving around
with a GPS tracking device.
My temperament, as usual, is a four
but I can get to a nine.
Keep talking about adult conversation around children.
If she's not at grandma's.
That's not what a mother does!
Stop!
Michael and I had an abusive relationship
eight years before we were married
with him ripping my hair out.
Not normal to stalk me the day you met me.
It's not normal to rip all my hair out!
The police have probably been to the house
at least 35 times.
Michael is a toxic disaster.
I am an artist, I am a mother, I am a teacher.
I love you and I'm trying to fix you!
I have suspicions that she may have symptoms
of a mental illness.
I am drama 'cause I had to live with you!
Well,
Hi.
good to meet you.
You seem to be agitated a lot.
Correct.
Why?
After seeing my son go from
a beautiful young growing child into a terror,
after watching my children in the classroom
going from beautiful loving little amazing creatures to
"You can't talk back to me that way,"
it's violently everywhere and it was in my own home.
