Hi there this is Clay and over the past couple
of days we've been talking about the biggest
break mistakes that people make when trying
to get back together with their ex.
And today is going to be the last video in
this series and we're going to be talking
about, the breakup mistake of trying to use
like a gimmick or reverse psychology or something
like that to try and, you know, influence
or persuade or convince your ex to give you
another chance.
And you know, this can take a lot of different
forms.
Sometimes it's like, oh, well, maybe I just
won't talk to my ex for a month and that will
make them miss me and want to pick up the
phone and call me.
Or maybe it's like, you know, Oh, if I just
play hard to get, or if I pretend to be the
Alpha male you know, I can get my ex to, to
think that I'm super high status and that
they should bend over backwards to be with
me.
And they were dumb for leaving me or something
like that.
But that doesn't work either or maybe it's
doing something like reverse psychology, like,
yeah, you know, you're right, we should have
broken up.
I was thinking of breaking up anyway, you
know, screw you.
I'm Outta here is this is my, this is my freedom.
You know, that that's a mistake too and, and
you know, there's so many of these, like whether
it's, whether it's something as simple and
innocuous as something that maybe I just described,
whether it's something that's really underhanded
and elaborate like going out to a nightclub
and approaching attractive people of the opposite
sex and bribing them with money to oppose
in photographs with you so you can post them
up on facebook about, you know, you're crazy
night out about all the women or guys or whatever
you met and, and in order to make your ex
jealous, but you know, this doesn't work.
This doesn't work.
It may influence your ex's emotions, but it's
not going to make them want to get back into
a relationship with you.
You know, making your ex jealous by posting
pictures of you up with a billion women isn't
gonna.
Make them suddenly think, you know what, that
guy was really great.
He who would have been a great husband and
an amazing father.
I should get back into a relationship with
him so that, you know, more women can throw
themselves at him and he can go philandering
all over town or they're not gonna think that
what you have to do in order to get back together
with your ex is not making them think you're
high status, not making them think you're
attractive, not make them miss you, not make
them do what you have to do is you have to
make being around you, feel good.
You have to make interacting with you.
Feel good.
You have to make it be a positive and uplifting
experience by understanding some of the advanced
relational skills that we teach you inside
of the ex solution program.
You, you know, you're not going to be able
to hack your ex's mind.
You're not gonna.
Be able to just like pull away and pretend
like you're dating someone else.
They're going to be like, oh, fine, you're
dating someone else.
That's cool.
I'm glad this breakup didn't hurt you as bad
as I thought it was a, I'm just going to go
ahead and date someone else too.
We'll just go on our merry ways then and it's
not going to have the effect that you want
and what you really need to do.
Ultimately, you have to stop playing the mind
games.
You have to stop doing the things that don't
work.
You have to stop screwing around and just
do what it really takes to have a great relationship.
I'm sorry to be a little bit blunt there,
but you have to really stop acting like you're
in middle school.
Start acting like you're a grown adults and
actually understand what it takes to make
a real relationship.
You have to understand the relational skills.
Understand what it takes to to make someone
else want to be around you, to make it feel
good, to have an interaction with you so that
they actually want to be in a relationship
with you and you don't have to sit there trying
to game the system and reverse psychology
them all the time because that's not what
you want is it.
You don't want to, you know, reverse psychology
your way back together and then you have to
constantly stay like three steps ahead of
them for the rest of your relationship so
that when you're old and gray and in your
seventies you're, you're still like, hmm,
who am I going to bribe at the grocery store
this week?
Who am I going to bribe an old folks home
this week with some pictures I can post up
on facebook of, of us getting all flirty with
one or you know, you don't want to do that.
I imagine you don't want to do that.
You know, the kind of relationship I want
is one where I can just wake up.
Know that someone is 100 percent in love with
me for who I am and not because I did some
kind of trick on them, not because, you know,
I hacked their brain or because I, you know,
stopped contacting them to make them miss
me or because I bribed people or because you
know, I flex my nuts and pretended to be an
Alpha male or anything like that.
I want, I want Mika, my wife to love me because
of who I am.
I want to be able to relax knowing that I
can just be myself around her and she's going
to love me because of that.
And I imagine that's what you want for yourself.
I don't want to game the system.
I don't want to constantly tie my, my mind
did not playing all this mental chess and
I don't think that's what you want either
a. and it's much easier really.
It is to learn the relational skills that
we teach you inside of the ex solution program
so that you can make your ex naturally want
to be around you and make them naturally want
to be in a relationship with you.
So that because being with you will just feel
so good that the act of getting back together
will become a mere triviality.
You know, any obstacles that are in the way
will suddenly vanish and the two of you will
almost automatically get back together even
in spite of all of those obstacles that may
you may think are holding you back like distance,
like someone dating someone else, like you
know, they won't talk to you.
Those will all just vanish when you, when
you know these relational skills.
And what I want you to do now is I want you
to click on the button down below and that'll
take you to a page.
It'll tell you more about the ex solution
program and more about these relational skills.
And I want you to, if that's something that
would be a good fit for you and your situation,
if it is, what I want you to do is I want
you to go ahead and sign up for the ex solution
program today.
And you can start learning these relational
skills today so that you can start having
that bigger impact on your ex.
You know, go ahead and click the link down
below, check it out, see if it's a good fit
for you and your situation if you think it
is, go ahead and sign up again.
There's a full 60 day money back guarantee.
You have 60 days to try out everything in
the course, put it to the test, use it, abuse
it.
You know, go into our community forum talk
to us, talk to our staff, talk to the other
people there or get help from your situation.
And if at the end of the day, if you are in
the small minority of people who do not think
that that helped you, that did not move you
back together towards getting back together
with your ex that did not put your ex back
into your arms and into your life again, then
you are more than welcome to request a refund
of your money.
So again, if you want to learn more about
that, if you want to sign up for that, just
go down below and check out ex solution program.com
and sign up if you think that's a good fit
for you, but above everything else, please
don't rely on these gimmicks, these mind games,
these little stupid dicking around tactics
like bribing people or whatever, to try and
get your ex back, it's not going to work.
We're not 12 years old.
We're not in middle school anymore.
Let's act like adults.
Let's do.
It's actually going to get us a longterm relationship
with great people who love us for who we are.
And if you want to do that, the best way is
to join the ex solution program down below.
Thanks.
