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What is the purpose of life?
What is the meaning of life?
The reason no one seems to be able to answer
these questions is that they’re asking the
wrong questions.
And the problem with these question is the
word “the.”
“The” meaning of life?
As if there’s only one.
As if, in spite of the multitude of differences
setting you apart from 7 billion other humans,
you all share just one purpose, and don’t
you dare think to draw outside the lines.
And with one fell swoop, you’re fooled into
surrendering your autonomy.
What a shame.
After marinating in a thousand sermons for
the first two decades of my life, the echoes
of religious platitudes still resonate in
my ear canals.
You can’t have purpose without God.
Money, Sex, Drugs, Fame, and Alcohol never
satisfy.
Yes, but neither does religion.
Religion leaves you feeling worse off than
when you started by telling you that you’re
broken, messed up, sinful, and a slave.
It re-defines even the best of life’s heroes
as inherently sinful.
Gifting us with the inescapable bollocks of
original sin.
But I refused to be tea-bagged by religious
flimflam.
Money, Sex, Fame, Alcohol, if they become
the end game in themselves, are life’s narcotics
for those who lack a purpose.
These simple vices are heavily underrated
by the religious, but do they bring purpose?
Money by itself isn’t fulfilling, but try
living a life in fear of starvation.
Stressing over the source of your next meal
will make you appreciate a steady source of
income.
And studies have found that as a person’s
salary increases, so does their happiness
up to about $70,000 a year or so in the US,
at which point you experience diminishing
happiness returns.
Sex can be extremely rewarding when done in
the right way and with the right people.
When there’s jealousy, guilt, shame, and
dishonesty, then or course it leaves you empty.
But if two consenting adults are honest about
their hopes and objectives and respect each
other’s freedom, autonomy, and wishes, then
even a short term sexual encounter can be
one of the most fun & beautiful human interaction
anyone can have.
And the depth and closeness of a sexual relationship
can be fostered and increased over time, with
or without marriage, as you learn each other’s
emotional and physical needs, and develop
a stronger trust and emotional connection.
But it’s always religion that takes this
amazing, natural action and makes it shameful.
Teaching you to feel guilty.
Fame in itself, while it shouldn’t be the
end game, can be rewarding as a measure of
your success, knowing that all your hard work
is now tangible and publicly recognizable.
Alcohol like anything, can be abused, but
sitting beside a fireplace with a glass of
wine and loved one in your arms, or enjoying
a book and a fine scotch at the end of a long
day is immensely satisfying.
Religion too, can offer temporary satisfaction.
But it offers a false sense of momentary clarity,
based on ancient guesses (most of which are
wrong), and then it hands you guilt, manufactures
a problem, instills in you the fear of hell,
and traumatizes you with it to no end while
demanding subservience, self-hatred, and never-ending
worship.
We’re supposed to believe it because some
wise old ancients offered it as life’s antidote,
to explain suffering?
Religion itself is the source of even worse
suffering than that which it attempts to alleviate
without even fixing the initial problems,
but merely distracting from them.
There’s no reason to believe that the early
wanderers on this planet actually figured
out the meaning of life.
They were mere babies on humanities time scale.
We stand the beneficiaries of thousands of
years of human learning, growth, and advancement
that they never had.
And yet people still parrot the old trope
“without god, what is the purpose of life?”
to quote Dan Barker, this is like asking,
“If there is no master, whose slave will
I be?”
Let’s take the most extreme example of religious
devotion: Becoming a celibate nun or monk.
This social isolation doesn’t reveal life’s
meaning, it robs you of a life for which to
have meaning in.
These people have no lives.
After all, if you have no life, then you don't
have to worry about finding meaning or purpose
in one!
Is the prospect of freely deriving our own
meaning in life really so terrifying?
Religions con their constituents into a hopeless
and intoxicated stupor before leaving them
with the hangover of artificially concocted
shame.
A disease for which they claim their snake
oil is the only cure.
And when you’ve been convinced that you’re
damaged goods, you’ll sell yourself to the
first beguiling swindler who comes along.
Happiness is like a long term investment.
The reason that drugs and alcohol only bring
temporary happiness is because the high they
bring is temporary and wares off.
And money can’t buy happiness - only rent
it.
Because it’s purchases lose their gleam.
You know what really does bring lasting happiness.
Deep, meaningful friendships that age like
a fine wine.
Helping others, building a family, leaving
a positive legacy, creating something of value
- whether that’s art (a heart-wrenching
song; a brilliant poem; a novel) or whether
it’s a technological breakthrough (curing
a disease, building a tool or app to solve
a problem and push humanity forward).
Expand your knowledge of the world, read a
book, take a hike and enjoy nature, travel
and stop taking the things you have for granted.
At the end of the day, it’s these things
that leave your life enriched and full.
It’s these things you can observe as you
age with the heart-warming realization that
you’re responsible for that.
You did that.
You made the world a little bit better.
Not because it was dictated to you as some
type of top-down, cookie cutter construct
crapped on you from the aging bowels of a
religious codger.
You derive your meaning.
No one else.
Because you are free!
And for that you can and should be proud.
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