What's going on?  Scotty here. Do you
ever wait to be confident before you do
something?
So you kind of like I just want to
feel right about i need to wish i was
more confident so i could go and do
this so it could be socially right i'm
going to go talk to that person when i
feel more confident
it could be in a career situation i'm
going to go
go for that job when i feel more
confident i'm going to go for that
interview when i feel more confident
i'm going to any action i'm going to do
that when i feel
more confident when i feel better about
it
all right uh we've all been there and
the problem is that
this is a trap right because
you don't you don't wait that's not how
confidence works
right and people can go their whole life
if you don't overcome this people can go
their whole life
and really they're a subpar version of
what their potential is
because they're waiting to feel
confident all the time
and unfortunately that confidence
will not happen unless you take action
so the way confidence works confidence
is having trust
in your abilities in yourself
to be able to achieve something
so it is having trust in yourself to be
able to achieve something in your
abilities
so what we need to do is we need to
actually take action
and when we take action the more action
we take this develops us
as a person this will we will acquire
skills we will acquire
knowledge and even if we fail
right the word fail
we can see that as a progression we can
see that as a step forward we can learn
from that and we can evolve
we can level up we can get better and as
we do this and the more action we take
then because we're getting better at it
more efficient faster whatever it is
we then start getting confidence okay so
it comes on the back of that as we get
more confidence in it
then we start doing a better job and
then we start getting the results that
we want in our life so we can
precisely target the key areas uh in our
life
where we want to get results okay
and rather than oh yeah when i'm
confident i'm going to do that say right
what are the actions i need to take
towards that and even if it is baby
steps it doesn't have to be a giant
leap right it doesn't have to be a
massive leap
you can just take a small step in that
direction into the result that you want
in your life
and you can be precise about where
you're targeting
so you can have the key results that you
want to achieve and you can target those
with baby steps
and then you get the confidence to be
under in your ability to be able to get
that result
so it's kind of like if you're kicking a
soccer ball right when you the first
time you kick a soccer ball or a
football
into the back of the net you're not
going to be confident that you're going
to be able to score
okay but uh the more times you do it and
you can see that it's going in and it's
working you might miss some
that's failure but you're going to get
some and the more times you do it
the more you're going to go in and then
you're going to have more confidence in
your ability
to kick the ball on the back of the net
right so then all of a sudden you
yeah you can be confident in the process
of achieving
a result so you get confidence in the
process of
achieving it because you know you
understand the process is i take action
then i know i'm going to learn i might
fail i'm going to build confidence
but i know i have confidence i'll be
able to get the result because i know
how the process works
so hopefully you found this helpful take
the action first even if it's a micro
baby step
your confidence will follow and so with
the results
over now take care
