 
Yo, Arun!
 
You ready to get served?
 
What are you doing?
 
Getting ready to bring it!
I’ve been practicing my backhand
and it’s pretty epic.
Just get changed, man.
It’s almost our court time.
 
Yeah! I’m coming.
 
All right!
Why don’t you
put the racket down?
I don’t like being naked
in front of people.
What are you so
embarrassed about?
 
Uh... my boobs.
- Your boobs?
- Shhh!
 
Okay...
Yes, my boobs!
I have boobs, okay?
What’s wrong
with having boobs?
 
Boobs are amazing.
 
I love boobs.
- They are?
- Yes!
Who doesn’t love boobs?
Everybody loves boobs!
 
I guess...
 
You’re really missing out,
because being naked
is fantastic.
 
Okay!
See? You’ve got
great boobs!
 
You’ve got... great boobs!
 
Thanks!
 
Okay, let’s go.
Hope you didn’t
forget your balls!
 
I got them right here!
Some people feel
embarrassed or ashamed
 in situations or discussions
considered to be intimate.
Others may refrain from engaging
in these situations or conversations
due to a desire for cultural
or religious modesty.
The first feelings of shyness
appear in childhood
but reach a particularly
high level
during the physical changes
and sexual discovery
that is common
during adolescence.
 
Becoming sexually mature
and getting used
to a changing body
 
often sparks these feelings.
You may want to
hide your body
or feel uncomfortable
at the thought of others seeing it.
Modesty or embarrassment
can also be felt
at the mere sight
of naked bodies,
as in a biology book,
artwork,
or facing a woman
who is breastfeeding.
Even if the context
isn’t sexual,
undressing in gym showers,
locker rooms
or for a medical exam
can also cause discomfort.
In addition to discomfort
related to the body and nudity, 
some people
feel uncomfortable 
with thoughts of sex
and sexuality in general.
 For example, some people
feel uncomfortable 
hearing about sex in school
or from parents,
or even by seeing
people kissing.
In the context
of a sexual relationship,
 
these feelings can manifest
at the thought of ​​being naked
in front of your partner 
or having to talk
about contraception,
showing feelings
or expressing pleasure.
 In itself, modesty or embarrassment
aren’t negative things.
Being attentive to the precise
moments when you feel it
allows you to better know
your limits and your fears.
For example, it can indicate
discomfort with your partner
 
or with certain gestures,
or simply mean that things
are going too fast.
Having these feelings is normal
and when it happens,
it’s important to listen
and respect each other.
 
Experiencing things gradually
and taking the time
to get to know each other
will help you feel
more comfortable.
I don’t think it’s embarrassing
being naked with other people.
I do it often
with my friends,
just going skinny-dipping
and everything.
It just feels so good
being naked in water.
Is it embarrassing
to be naked with someone?
I don’t think it is.
If it’s with the right person,
it’s never going
to be embarrassing.
 
No, not at all.
It’s not embarrassing
to be naked with my partner.
I spent years being
uncomfortable with my body.
I mean, my body isn’t great,
but it’s mine.
There’s nothing big
wrong with it, so...
It might be a little awkward
if it’s like the first time, but...
Yeah, I think if you trust
 the person, you should be fine.
With a partner,
it should not be awkward,
because you should
be fully into it, into the moment.
Not thinking about:
“Oh, that stretch mark!”
“Oh, that little fat
I have there!”
You should just
feel okay
because that person
is right now with you,
and finds you attractive,
if you’re at that point.
I think it’s okay
to be shy, honestly.
I understand it’s a very
vulnerable position.
And you don’t have
to be confident
or appear confident,
you know...
You should just feel
and be the way you are.
 
It should be okay!
Of course you have to be
in a comfortable environment
 
to be naked.
And there are plenty
of environments
where I would not
feel comfortable.
I would say that
at a certain age,
you start worrying
about how you look,
what you wear and
in the locker room, well...
It’s like your most
vulnerable state.
You don’t have anything
protecting yourself
 
and covering you up.
It’s really like you have
to be all out there, and...
And there’s this whole taboo
around how our bodies look
 
compared to others.
And there’s
this whole, like...
We always compare
ourselves to other people.
I had girls at my high school
that would wear G-strings,
and I wasn’t
at that stage yet.
And I wasn’t comfortable
wearing that.
And seeing them be
so comfortable in their bodies,
 
and I wasn’t, it’s...
For sure it’s something
I was very scared about,
undressing in
the locker room.
It is awkward, because
you just don’t know
 
what reaction to anticipate.
I’ve never been in the situation
where I’ve had to undress
in front of my friends
at school, or whatever.
I can understand why
some people might feel
a bit shier towards
that situation.
There’s so much put on society
to attain that perfect body,
 
that perfect ratio.
I feel like we’re embarrassed
about our naked bodies
because we don’t look like
people that we see in porn,
 
or in music videos.
We don’t look like that,
so we’re like... damn!
I don’t fit that image,
so I’m not attractive.
But anybody
can be attractive.
I think the human body
is beautiful.
 
I think every body is great.
I think people should love
and respect their bodies.
 
So when I get changed...
You know, it’s a body,
at the end of the day.
I’m not embarrassed
about what I’m hiding
 
under my clothes!
 
It’s really about self-esteem.
 
And, like... body positivity.
We shouldn’t think
of it as a problem,
but think of it more
as a phase, or like a...
 
As steps in life.
