
How to be a Lion:...and get all the hot females in the entire jungle

Kent Lamarc

Published by 22 Lions, 2015.
How to be a Lion: ...and get all the hot females in the entire jungle

By Kent Lamarc

Copyright (C) Kent Lamarc, 2011 (1st Ed.) All Rights Reserved.

Copyright (C) Kent Lamarc, 2014 (2nd Ed., All Rights Reserved.

Copyright (C) Kent Lamarc, 2015 (3rd Ed., All Rights Reserved.

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Published by 22 Lions

Draft 2 Digital Edition

# Table of Contents

Title Page

Copyright Page

Introduction

What did the first alphas knew

Why do women play games

The main secret of the alpha male

The worst enemy to manhood

Why only weak men compete

Why an alpha man is also a natural

How alphas confront their fears

Why is appearance important

How to make women approach you

How to learn from women

Why women love musicians

Why you should be positive

What women fantasize about

Why ancient tribes had manhood rituals

How to deal with territorial disputes

Using martial arts to train the mind

How to create an emotional connection

How to talk to negative women

How to deal with difficult women

How to escalate a relationship

How to touch a woman

How to kiss a woman

How to deal with rejection

Why women stay in abusive relationships

Why you should respect women

How to make a woman want to sleep with you

How to overcome a woman resistance

How to make a woman think dirty

How not to be manipulated by a woman

How to make a woman pay attention to you

How to avoid answering personal questions

Why you should avoid women with bad temper

How to make a woman love you

How to seduce an introverted woman

How to answer dating questions

Where to meet women

How can your friends help you meet women

How to prepare your room for women

How to use the law of attraction to attract women

The relation between you and your experiences

# Introduction

The knowledge presented in this book has been requested several times but only now shown due to the implications that it may have.

The techniques described here were developed through years of study on the basic instincts of the human mind and shouldn't be used by anyone that isn't mature enough to deal with the consequences that they may bring to his life.

They also shouldn't be used indiscriminately in any given situation, because they serve the purpose of helping the reader become more true to himself and not necessarily guide anyone in the same path.

The amount of success that can be obtained by following them, comes foremost from the responsibility, wisdom and experience in applying this knowledge while avoiding the temptation of manipulating anyone with it.

This said, this book is also meant for the vast majority of the men that, as I've seen many times, ignore many of the principles here described and lose women that they like, while contributing to a very negative reputation attributed to their gender.

Few men are ready to accept that women don't require this knowledge as much as they do. But there are many reasons explaining the wisdom and effective instincts that women have in the field of seduction.

They're mostly related to the fact that, until the age in which men were usually worried about competition and rivalry among their peers, women were focused in understanding themselves and the opposite gender, often through movies and novels.

There's a basic assumption in the field of psychology that women have a predominant interest for communication, and that's why they tend to dominate this game far better than men. Eventually, also to their own disadvantage, which is why many women stay in abusive relationships.

Most men are frequently judged as unsuitable for a relationship, due to their poor set of communicative skills, while a very small minority can choose how many women they want and for how long they want to keep them.

Unfortunately, this leaves many others, with great potential to become good boyfriends and husbands, depending on luck and casualty in order to meet their dream woman. But this book intends to change such situation, by providing them with the insights that can change their life in a positive direction, while leaving them with much more control and responsibility over the outcome.

The 40 chapters that this book covers, include the most important topics that define the alpha male and characterize his powerful influence.

# What did the first alphas knew

There's a basic principle that alpha males, since the beginning of times, understood. It says that, in the end, it's not so much about applying whatsoever as it is about learning how to play by the rules that lead both partners to a win-win situation.

In other words, in every single culture around the world, since the most primitive to the most modern, it was always about a man getting what he wants from the woman that allows it. Anything beyond that is called a rape.

There's a sense of perceived value in both genders, which leads them to be together. And if we still have so many ugly and fat people in the world, either the values have been changing or beauty isn't the most important of them.

When we look at other animal species, this principle can be easily comprehended, as when an animal is hunting for a pray it isn't as much about the hunter as it is about the pray.

If we're talking about lions and buffaloes, surely the easiest pray will be the oldest, youngest and weakest. But the same applies in the human world. Older and inexperienced or younger women actually tend to be easier to get.

The same could be said about women that show weaknesses, such as not having their friends around or those traveling alone in a foreign country.

As a matter of fact, for most women, not having a boyfriend for many years is a weakness, which makes them easier to be approached.

The difference between the human and animal world, is that human females allow themselves to be caught by the ones that they believe to be the best lions around. The opposite, such as being caught by a immature and inexperienced or weak lion, is quite offensive to their pride.

It's this perception of strength that varies between cultures and nations, differentiating the men inside them. And that's why a man seen as inferior in one country can be identified as a stallion in another.

As an example, chivalry is a must among beautiful east European women, while intelligence is the most significant attribute in Asian cultures. But you can hardly conquer a Spanish woman without humor or an American woman without a good body shape.

Surely, these values can all be important, or even differentiated in levels of importance among women, and that's why people aren't always the same in these countries, even though tendencies do exist.

On another hand, when contrasts meet their match new tendencies appear, such as the growing number of mixed couples of American men with Asian women.

Apart from this, not much has evolved in the behaviors of the human race. Like skinny gazelles, the best females still jump around and bounce their ass gladly to the one they perceive as the most valuable, to see how much he can run and prove himself worthy of them.

The games that women play aren't as important as the one they choose to play it with and why. Women with high self-esteem still expect to be caught only by the best Alpha males in their area. This is why the importance of self-improvement isn't as meaningful as knowing what kind of woman we want.

It isn't worth wasting time becoming someone we're not in order to attract someone we can't respect. This type of relationships are usually very toxic and negative, and can't end well.

If the type of women we want can't easily be found inside our own culture, we should spend time trying to find it in another. Our happiness depends on it.

Hunting for food wasn't the only reason that made men become nomads and travel around the world in ancient times and for millions of years. Searching for good women was probably the second most important reason. And, both the descendants of the roman empire and the vikings can give thanks to their ancestors for that. Today, Spain, France, Italy, Portugal, Romania, Denmark, Norway and Sweden have the most beautiful women in the world.

# Why do women play games

Before we can understand why women play games, we must notice that they can only play something that they've learned to control.

In fact, a man that is perfectly conscious of the knowledge presented in this book can also play his own games.

Nevertheless, all games come to an end when we have a winner, and in a relationship there must be two winners.

Many women that end up alone forget this fact, while those that can get any men they want understand it perfectly.

In order to play this game properly, you need to understand that you must always be one of the winners. In other words, you can't chase only one woman, because there's a huge probability of losing such game.

It's when you chase many women at the same time that your chances of winning increase. In fact, this is a a basic principle of statistics that many pick-up artists don't tell you or don't know.

If you approach 30 women in a day, you have far more chances of ending in a date with one than if you only approach one.

The chances of having a rate of 100% success is almost impossible, because women play games, and they do it for a huge variety of reasons.

There's no such thing as a woman that isn't available for a new relationship, and that's why the divorce rate in The United States and many other countries is higher than 50%.

This said, women play games because they want to test a man, not refuse him, and they do it based on their own insights, greatly influenced by cultural values and the media.

For many years of their life, when they're not talking about their own relationship or the relationships of others, they're watching movies about it, reading about it and searching about it in magazines. The topic of relationships is the most important in any female conversation, even among women that have just met.

It then becomes obvious that there's a clear disadvantage between men and women regarding the ability to understand each other.

Such disadvantage puts men is a position in which they can easily be manipulated by the opposite sex and make mistakes due to their confusion about it or the communicative traps to where women may lead them into. Reason why it's so important to know what women appreciate and admire in order to understand them.

This skill can be gained by learning to listen to what a woman says, which is the habit that they complain the most that men often lack.

It can also be developed by doing something that most men tend to avoid, which is to watch a romantic movie with a woman they like, spend time with her friends and talk with her mother.

In fact, a man that doesn't know how to make friends with women can't make any woman he likes become interested in him.

Making friends with the opposite gender should be a priority for a man that wants to learn how to avoid losing any game with a woman. And, ironically, this is also the first step to become the man that women desire the most.

# The main secret of the alpha male

The most hidden secret of the alpha males is related to attitude, not knowledge.

They know that it's more important to seem someone desirable than to actually be that person, which leads us to the notion that to be cool and look cool is in fact and foremost a state of mind.

In other words, you should never try to be someone you're not because other people can sense it and, even if they don't, you'll eventually find yourself trapped in a personality that doesn't represent the best in you, but you should show pride in yourself from the very beginning, even if you need to fake it until you can believe in it and feel comfortable with your new persona, which should match your superego, the ideal self within.

There's nothing wrong in having role-models that you admire and every single alpha male has them, but you shouldn't have the constant pressure of representing a character as most men do, due to the wrong influences they pick from movies.

Your role-models should be real-life people, and there are plenty everywhere, that are willing or unwilling to provide you with the right attitude towards women.

Simply putting it, you can read more books like this one and make the best compilation you can from all of them, but you can also go to a bar, observe the, very likely, only man surrounded by beautiful women, and compare what he has that others in that place don't.

Some men may claim that some methods are better than others, or that some books and pick-up artists are more effective than the rest, but such idea is delusional.

In the first place, you must only take techniques from others that match your personality and values, because only those will come naturally to you. And, secondly, most of the techniques that pick-up artists can describe you about match the culture in which they've developed them. And this means that, the more you try to understand different cultures, the less techniques you can apply.

One of the most difficult lessons that I had to make men, constantly asking me for insights about how to attract women, accept, is related to the principle of relativity. There are so many exceptions to a technique, that you either learn about them from experience, and the necessary trials leading to a flexibility in behaviors acquired from self-correction, or you'll have to discard the whole assimilated technique.

Those that have blindly copied other pick-up artists, know that there's a path of acquiring insight, applying them, correcting the process, personalize attitudes and finally forget everything to become a new person, that won't match their ideal, who they were or who they thought they would be, but represents a new stage in their maturity as a man, and it feels much more natural than they ever thought to be possible.

# The worst enemy to manhood

Within the, somehow, spiritual path, to manhood, men discover that they've been lied by the media, their social networks, their closest friends, and even women, about what a real man must be. In a few words, when you discard every single fear within you, you find who you truly are.

There's nothing worse for masculinity than the fear of fear. Bullies bully others because they fear feeling fear and want to escape this sensation within them, and the bullied are in this situation because they accept it.

As an instructor of martial arts, I've met many tall and strong men that are bullied at home by their own wife. And they enter these classes to beat smaller men, not knowing that, by doing this, they can only avoid for a moment the fear that they have within them.

I never had to beat any of my students to prove a point, but I've seen many instructors that were once my disciples for years doing this to their own students.

They may have become masters of a martial art under my teachings, but they have not yet defeated themselves. And, as a master of masters, I know that, as much as I can try to make them learn this lesson, they'll always avoid it if not ready to accept it.

The truth is that the best training against fear consists in learning to confront it as an energy, not a state of mind or opponents in our life. And I've learned this lesson the hardest way, by being many times in fights that I didn't choose and was often avoiding, against much stronger opponents, or by facing bullies in a daily basis, including my own parents, since a very early age.

I'm not promoting violence and I never did, but it was only when I said, fully convinced of it, to my abusive father, that I would kill him if he ever put his hands on me again, or to a robber, pointing a butcher knife at me, that I would cut his throat before he had a chance to cut me even once, that my fears vanished. And, interestingly, this was also the first time that I ever saw my own father and a robber shaking in fear.

In what concerns abusive coworkers and girlfriends, you prove your manhood when you're capable of arranging your things in one minute and leave in the next, without thinking twice and never looking back.

The fear of being alone, not having sex, losing a beautiful girlfriend, divorcing, losing a job, losing male friends, losing female friends, losing in a verbal of physical confrontation, or merely being reject by women, are among the most damaging to manhood. These fears operate as a poison, rotting every single aspect of your personality and identity as a man.

As a traveler in many countries, I've met men from different nations clearly exhibiting this duality. Those that are haunted by fears in a daily basis, of being cheated by their wife, humiliated by their boss, not having enough money at the end of the month or simply not being able to get a girlfriend, become bitter with others, negative in their words, rude in their attitude, aggressive with their friends and frustrated about themselves. And, along the way, their posture becomes bended, as if they were shrinking in size, their eyes become empty, as if they were mentally retarded, and they start dressing as they feel, complete losers.

On the other hand, the very few that I've met in the opposite spectrum of this scenario, don't allow themselves to be defeated by anything, any situation or anyone, even when losing a challenge. And they're never afraid to change their life and search for a better one. Their pride in themselves is obvious and they magnetize a positive vibration that attracts many people to them, women included.

I can clearly say that the best friends I ever had were these alphas. They are fearless, optimistic, uplifting in their conversations, and always have weird stories to share about women approaching them and kissing them out of nowhere, even without any words being exchanged beforehand. I have these stories in my background as well, because I got this positive vibration from them.

# Why only weak men compete

Most men, constantly wanting to compete with other men, are very far from understanding that manhood is about not having to compete with anyone except yourself.

The need for competition is a symptom of fear, and that's why most men are actually cowards in disguise. And they may not know it, but most women, much more intuitive than they ever will be, sense it in seconds after meeting one.

Very few man are willing to enter a competition in which they're likely to lose, such as developing their own business, confronting a stronger man, challenging authority or approaching a beautiful woman.

In fact, sexy women seem to be much more unapproachable and bitchy because they want to discard such type of man before they even think about talking to them.

Men that can be categorized as alpha are usually humble and friendly, because they laugh at the face of fear. And that's why most men can't even notice them until they're surrounded by a bunch of beautiful women.

This minority gets the women they want and the ones they didn't ask for as well, and spends most of their time trying to escape beautiful but crazy women.

Their main challenge is in another level, and it's called finding love, a woman they can truly respect.

Many women have met at least one of these alphas, but couldn't keep them, because they weren't lovable and mature enough. Those that are end any game by marrying one.

Mature men are as desirable and scarce as mature women.

Those that have tried to copy me in bars and clubs, never understood why they failed and I didn't, because they didn't had the humility to ask me why. But, basically speaking, once you define your profile as an alpha male, there are clearly places that you should avoid and others lacking men like you. And, in the same line of thought, there are also women that will fall in your lap easily, while others will want to kill you at the mere sight of your presence.

Once you develop your profile as an alpha male, you can unexpectedly be slapped by a hot women in one night and have three wanting to sleep with you in the next day. And, because most men feel in disadvantage towards your presence, they'll mock the slapping and not understand why women keep going to your apartment.

These men, which are the vast majority, are unaware of the fact that, when you try to please every single woman, you come out as a coward, which is the opposite of what most women want.

Most women want to feel safe and a coward gives them a very bad vibe, reason why most men end up in the friend zone with most women they meet, and sleep only with the most desperate, which are precisely the ones you should be avoiding.

# Why an alpha man is also a natural

Being in the constant pressure of representing a character is like working 24/7 as an actor and it will eventually break you apart or make you insane.

Many professional actors have committed suicide because even to them this pressure is unsustainable and unbearable. Besides, if this fake attitude towards life doesn't lead you to such dead ends, smart women that see you doing it will, and then tare you to bits like a mad bulldog on raw meat.

I've learned the hard way that women won't have any consideration for a man's weakness, even when he's sick, tired or burned out from a full night clubbing, and including in situations in which he was the DJ of that club.

Women that approached me at 6am inside clubs in which I was Djing, when all I wanted was to sleep immediately, couldn't care less about it and wouldn't even leave their mobile number to meet me the next day if I didn't took them home in that same instant.

Unfortunately, due to a strong sense of insecurity and fear of rejection, women judge too fast and ruthlessly, specially if they have too many men chasing them. Therefore, being a good dancer is more important than memorizing every single answer to any possible question.

In other words, who you are and knowing yourself, is far more important than pretending to be someone you're not and putting yourself in situations that are unfavorable to your self-esteem.

This principle also applies to those that feel as not being the attractive type.

The solution consists in finding the lion within, the power of feeling pride in being yourself.

As a man, you're not less man than any other man. So, if you're not being manly enough, you simply have to somehow pull it out from inside yourself.

Due to many years of misleading conditioning and mass programming regarding wrong social ideas about manhood, you may have to exercise it, like any other muscle of your body, but it will eventually feel as something natural to you.

The only barrier stopping you from developing your manhood is fear. And, among the possible fears, the most important at this point are the fear of rejection, the fear of ridicule, specially among women, and the fear of not being good enough at kissing or sex, due to lack of sufficient experience.

Nonetheless, you would be surprised to know that, the most sexual and experienced women that I've met, actually don't understand anything about sex or kissing, and told me that the vast majority of men are very bad in these two subjects as well.

They actually told me that I'm by far the best that they've ever met, but this is not the point. What I'm trying to say here is that being natural gives me a huge advantage over men that can't be.

To be a natural consists in learning how to talk about what you want and doing it when time comes. A natural isn't afraid to talk about sex or relationships, hold hands with a woman that isn't his girlfriend yet and ask her for a kiss. But, above everything, he won't be afraid to be rejected and wouldn't admit being disrespected for being who he is.

In sex, this attitude makes you unforgettable to women, because you're the one showing them new positions and ways to have fun, that they'll then ask the next men to replicate without getting the same feeling they previously had with you ever again. And this is why every single woman that left me tried to come back, including the ones that cheated.

# How alphas confront their fears

Everyone has fears, but how you deal with them is more important than the fear itself.

The solution consists in behaving like you don't have the fear, even though you can feel it. It may seem difficult at the beginning, but as with a public speech or presentation, you'll get over it with the experience of dealing with shame and mistakes.

If, for example, you don't know how to kiss a girl, behave like you do know. It's better to try to improve than to think that you're good enough while only deceiving yourself. That's the main reason why men are dumped when they can't explain why.

I've had many girls approaching me to kiss me, including hookers in clubs and, the vast majority of them kissed very badly. But that didn't stop them from kissing me.

The fact is that, if you kiss badly, or even don't behave properly during sex, you can always learn with experience. And, if a woman tells you that you're a bad kisser, you must learn to turn the chess table around and answer something like "really?! So all the other girls that I've kissed before lied to me?".

This answer will make you look confident while not refusing such outcome, but also honest, which will make her hooked in trying to understand what other women saw in you that she doesn't. And, while she wonders about what's wrong with her, she gives you more chances to improve yourself.

The same can obviously be applied to your sex life as well. You must always try your best while learning with every mistake, because in due time you can always become better. And, therefore, you should never allow a woman to assume that you can't be a man in any given situation.

If learning didn't included mistakes we wouldn't need to learn anything in the first place. But we're born with instincts, not knowledge, which comes from experience, and that's why life has a meaning.

Even in the eventuality of, during sex, not lasting long enough, you can always say that you don't understand how it happened, that it's the first time this happens to you and that you feel frustrated about it.

Usually, women understand and tell you that they're ok about it, even if they aren't. However, they'll not want you to solve this problem with someone else and may even feel guilty about it. So, most of the times, they'll help you solve it mostly for their own self-esteem.

This may lead you to have more sex and have it more often, but know that your time is limited, as at a certain point she may want to replace you for someone more capable of giving her the orgasm she needs.

# Why is appearance important

I'm sure that you don't like to look stupid and silly, as nobody does, and I'm also sure that you don't like to appear unattractive, because wanting to seduce women with these traits is a contradiction to your efforts.

Men and women that can't attract the opposite gender tend to learn to hate themselves, and they show it in everything they do, including the way they present themselves, which makes their situation worse than it already is.

Before you even consider to improve your social image, you must learn to love yourself, as you can't choose clothes properly and appear confident if you don't know what makes you feel good about who you are. There's no real pride in someone that hasn't understood yet the source of his own happiness.

This mindset includes shopping for the clothes that improve your image, making you look taller and more masculine, while not forgetting to be mature in your choices. And, if you think that a certain jacket or shoes make you feel uncomfortable with yourself, because they're too masculine for you, then they may be exactly what you need in order to change your opinion regarding who you can be.

Know that most people judge you by what you wear, not who you are, how you walk or talk.

I can dress a suit with a hidden pocket knife and enter in every single embassy I want, or a hoody while wearing sneakers, and be stopped in every airport around the world for no particular reason. But I've also felt the same distinction in the exact same coffee shops I enter in a weekly basis as, depending on what I wear and the haircut I have, I may me starred at by the unfriendly faces of all the costumers, as if I didn't belong there, or be welcomed with a smile and presented with a table by more than one waiter.

In most cases, if the waiter is young and attractive, it's also common for her to start flirting, but only and if I'm dressed properly.

Appearance is very meaningful to women and doesn't depend necessarily on their age, but on how you want to be seen and perceived.

This said, avoid shirts with written messages or sneakers. Instead, buy the nicest shoes you can find and keep them clean, because women will start their judgments by looking at them. If shoes weren't so important for women, they wouldn't spend so much time buying them and being so excited about it.

On top of this, remember to change your style while being yourself at the same time, which means choosing the right size for you and the colors that match your face. Basically speaking, some people look better with darker colors while others with brighter ones, and, among those colors, you may find that only two or three will match you perfectly.

At this point, you should avoid strange combinations, like orange and green, but don't be afraid to wear pink or red if you look good with those colors.

# How to make women approach you

Your style should be kept simple, but not boring. Women are more attracted to men wearing something peculiar, like a fashionable and interesting bracelet, necklace, ring, watch, tattoo, piercing or, more simply, a very good perfume or aftershave.

These objects can give them a reason to approach you and ask questions, while getting to know you better without seeming awkward for doing it.

Have you ever noticed how easy it is for street performers to attract women? They would get more than coins if they were dressed as stylish musicians and knew how to communicate with their audience.

Women are drawn to talented and interesting men that can increase their social value, just like men feel attracted to beautiful women that increase theirs. But there's a difference between real value and perceived value.

In most situations, women are merely playing with and manipulating perceived value, but, just like men can't see the difference, they can't either.

When you dress properly and wear something interesting on your neck, wrist or fingers, you increase your perceived value, and that's far more important than your real value.

As an example, if I say to a woman that I was born in Switzerland, she may not ask any more questions about my life, but just wait for an opportunity to jump into my bed. And the same applies when you wear a wedding ring in a bar while standing alone, because, for most women looking for an adventure, this implies easy sex without commitments.

Their favorite novels, from the oldest to the most modern, keep repeating the same dilemma of the woman that falls in love for a married man after a night of sex that, supposedly, shouldn't happen but she couldn't resist.

On the other hand, because women love mysteries and adventures, make sure to provide one attached to your preferable object of use.

If you choose to wear a wedding ring, don't say that your wife is at home waiting for you, for example. You should say that she lives in another country and you love her very much, but you can only go back after finishing your job.

Women feel much more comfortable with committed men that don't have their wives or girlfriends around, especially the youngest. They are the most seduced, because women see this situation as a challenge to their femininity.

Apart from this example, there's no limit to your creativity and any excuse to help them approach you is reasonable, namely, if you can show a talent. And this is why gym classes can be the ideal places to meet beautiful women.

Nonetheless, never try to approach a woman while being drunk, because it immediately decreases your value. I've been ditched by women for being drunk, but these same women have looked for me in the next days when I was sober. And that's why I don't date and drink at the same time anymore, and neither should you.

It's worth mentioning as well that, perceived value isn't only in what is seen but also heard. If you have a good reputation among your female friends, they'll present you much more women than what you could meet on your own.

Know also that most men only focus their attention on good looking women, but by making not so good looking friends in coffee shops and clubs, I was able to attract other women, often very beautiful, that were listening to our conversation.

Sometimes it happened after they heard me saying that I was a musician and other times a writer, and many of them ended up becoming girlfriends.

More adventurous women, have made me approach them after giving me their business card, and I've seen men doing the same to start a conversation but, if you do it, make sure that your business card says something interesting about what you do.

If you're a Spanish teacher, or you know any foreign language, this could be a good presentation card. But don't make yourself cheap and easy, and charge for their classes, even if only with a symbolic price.

These language classes may never start and I've met many beautiful women wanting to learn languages with me that didn't seem to be upset about it.

Most women barely pay any attention to the lack of congruence between what you say and do, because how they see you is more important than anything else. That's why they're often so addicted to the wrong men, even when such relationships become toxic and violent.

# How to learn from women

If you're not sure about your choices regarding what to wear and do to seduce women, there's nothing wrong in asking the opinion of a female friend.

However, you should be careful when choosing one, because she may secretly be in love with you, while leading you to the wrong paths. I've lost many beautiful women because I assumed that my female friends were helping me and they were actually jealous.

A cousin or someone else in your family, including your mother, is usually a better choice when going for shopping or choosing a gift for a woman, for example. Nevertheless, my advice is to go directly to the point, and ask for the opinion of the woman that you wish to attract, as she can give you the most suitable suggestions to attract her, while not realizing that she's falling in love during the process.

This is a great excuse to come closer to the hot neighbor or coworker that you never knew how to invite out. Besides, if she thinks that she's helping you attract another woman, it will also increase your value in her eyes.

The best insights about fashion that I ever got came precisely from the women that were in love with me, even though each one of them suggested what could make me more similar to their ideal type of man.

Nonetheless, there's nothing wrong with approaching the hottest woman you wish to seduce and tell her something like "I'm an idiot for saying this, but I wish I could be as good as the men that you're attracted to, in order to seduce a woman that is as half as beautiful as you are. Can you please let me go with you next time you go shopping for clothes, so that I may know how to change my appearance?".

If you don't want to seem so needy, you may end the sentence by saying something funny, such as "maybe you can make me look more deserving of living a life like a common mortal, as I fear that without your help I may end up as a monk in some kind on monastery, in the middle of nowhere, writing copies of religious texts with one hand while playing on my own with the other".

She will laugh at you but also admire your courage for being so straightforward in talking such a thing about yourself. And, as women love shopping and, like any little girl, enjoy putting new dresses on themselves, as if they were dressing dolls, they'll also feel excited about transforming you into a sex-appealing machine.

In the end, they may even be pleased to receive the benefits of their work with a great one night stand. But, in any given situation, they'll surely be jealous of the girl that will collect the benefits of their work.

# Why women love musicians

A study published in Letters on Evolutionary Behavioral Science, showed that women are more receptive to a Facebook profile picture that shows a man with a musical instrument, and another, published in Psychology of Music, said that a woman is more likely to give her phone number to a guy carrying a guitar case.

I must say as well that, among all the meaningful things that I've done in my life, like winning competitions as a music producer, being a lecturer in famous universities, becoming a bestseller of dozens of books, or teaching martial arts, the only single thing that women talk about when referring to me, is that I was once a DJ.

The reason why women tend to be more attracted to musicians than men with any other talent, is that music represents a constant positive vibration.

Actually, most of the times they were completely unaware and uninterested in the fact that I was a famous hardcore-techno DJ, often playing sounds that tend to be above the 300bpm, which are the fastest and more aggressive you can get.

I've noticed the same lack of consideration among male friends that have a guitar and attract women easily because of it, even though they can't actually play more than one or two songs.

What this means is that women are not attracted to the musical part of the talent, but what it represents to them. A musician is, to them, a man that can pass uplifting energies. And they know that this skill is very rare to find, reason why dating a DJ is something that makes them feel more pride than dating the one that created the songs that the DJ plays, the producer.

While the producer plays only to himself, the DJ is providing entertainment and positive vibrations to a crowd of people, and that's what makes him more valuable to the female gender.

The same applies to a man that can make a group of women like him, as it's easier to seduce ten women at the same time than one in a group of ten.

It's also easier to attract a beautiful woman by talking to her less attractive friends than by trying to talk to her directly.

I've had men approaching me in order to get to the women next to me, and that's smart. However, they are a minority. The vast majority approaches the women around me directly, and loses them as soon as I leave the table.

If you want to attract beautiful women to you, don't compete with other men and don't try to get them directly. Invest on your social skills instead, and make yourself desirable.

You don't need to be a DJ or play guitar to attract women, but it's far easier to invite women out and get them to accept it when you're putting them inside a group of friends, both male and female, that you're going clubbing with. And it's even easier to bring them to your bed if such party is in your house.

# Why you should be positive

Whatever you do, never behave in a negative way with women, but don't be afraid to be negative as well.

The correct attitude to have towards life is to develop yourself while living it. So, you may do mistakes when dealing with women, but you must learn from them as quick as possible. In other words, you should make efforts to permanently transform the negative into positive while focusing merely in what is positive.

As an example, if you're not proud of your cultural origins, learn to be. Never answer poorly about your background or job.

There's a huge difference between saying something like, "yes, I'm a mix of Arabs and Africans, and my ancestors where always very poor", and creating an interesting story about yourself, such as "my heritage is Arab, where women are so hot that they have to be covered not to be raped all the time, but also from Africa, where our rhythms and dances are so cool that some of the best DJs and Hiphop singers in the world had to be from there".

Just like men, women also have their own prejudices and can be racist as well. But you should always keep you pride intact, and not be ashamed of who you are or your roots.

In fact, I've noticed that the only thing that makes women differentiate men is related to their attitude towards themselves, and not who they really are.

Women don't like to say that their boyfriend robs people for a living, but they're proud to describe him as a badass gangster. And they won't talk about the color of his skin to their friends, but what he does for a living.

The problems for men only begin when they assume that they can keep or attract a woman while sitting in their couch, watching TV, eating biscuits and drinking beer or playing videogames.

If you have a boring life or job, learn to search for the fun in it and make it more interesting. And, if you can't do it, talk about your idiot boss and the funny things he does, talk about how your job is so boring that you keep watching porn while working, and other things that can make a woman laugh.

The most alpha males I ever met can make fun of absolutely anything, even the most dramatic situations. Plus, this is a skill that women admire a lot, as they know that these men can make them feel safe during any tribulation in their life. To them, this skill is a sign representing strength of character.

You should practice your ability to pick any difficult moment in your life and describe it as something funny that anyone can laugh about. What really matters is how you see life as a whole and not your life in particular, so the less you talk about yourself even better.

# What women fantasize about

If you look at superman, for example, you can see that he wears what seems to be his grandma red underwear outside his trousers, and red boots that make him look like a transsexual in a cheap Thai club. But he's still superman and everyone thinks that he's a cool superhero.

The same applies to spiderman. No muscles, no manly voice, no proper conversation, and wearing red pijamas. On top of that, he walks on walls, like the possessed bodies in movies about exorcism, and lives with his grandmother.

In real life, women should see him as a loser, but instead they think that this superhero is hot.

Actually, a better example of this contradiction could only be seen with Harry Potter.

You wouldn't get the same results by wearing such Halloween costumes, but rather the opposite. But, on the other hand, you can get a lot of attention by making your own identity seem amazing. That's why women have fantasies with firefighters, sailors, policemen and doctors.

A survey applied by the website Match.com, found that most women are attracted to men with jobs that can provide a sense of security, namely and more specifically, in which men wear uniforms. They see it as a representation of competence, confidence and courage.

Women only end up with big bad wolves by deliberate choice and because they're waiting to be rescued by a courageous hunter. And they close themselves in their homes, like a princess in her castle, because they hope to be found by a competent knight in a shining armor.

There's a reason why some fairytales are still popular in modern times, while others don't attract so much interest, and it's related to the female subconscious.

These special attributes are the same found in skinny superheroes, fat businessmen and ugly rock stars, and they work like a magnet. All the rest is secondary to them.

You can develop these traits of character by finding what you love inside your life. The joy you can get from it, can boost your self-confidence and develop the eyes of tiger that women love so much.

# Why ancient tribes had manhood rituals

In ancient tribes, although also nowadays in some remote areas, it was common to find communities with manhood rituals.

These rituals come from the understanding that a man needs to learn to overcome pain and isolation before being ready to deal with a woman and have his own family.

Women know this as well, and instinctively make men suffer to evaluate their manhood. And, even though they don't necessarily do it on purpose, many believe that this is what they must do, and some even feel pleasure in seeing men suffer.

On the other hand, if you make yourself suffer first, women have nothing more to do to you than just behave as themselves. That's why they feel more attracted to the man that isn't afraid to suffer.

In most cases, when a relationship is going well and a woman breaks up, it may very well be a test. And men lose it when chasing them like a puppy dog.

In most women eyes, the nice guy is a disgrace for the human race that needs to become extinct, and they feel humiliated when near one.

Humans are genetically programmed to survive, and that's why women are sexually attracted to alpha males. They make them feel fulfilled and complete.

I'm not saying with this that you have to go to a bar and fight random guys, take bottles against your head and break your leg in a street fight, or that you have to spit in the face of a gang leader and face the consequences of it. And, I'm also not saying that you need to grab a woman by the hair and drag her to the nearest cave to prove your masculinity.

What I'm saying is that you must know your limitations by dealing with emotional suffering, namely, when women dump you and reject you. And, then, you need to learn to overcome these issues, by becoming wiser in your decisions and choices of women.

However, you don't need to wait for this to happen to learn your lessons. You can test and practice your endurance in many other ways.

I found the most interesting example of how to do this in China, but you may find it elsewhere as well, and even build one yourself. It consists in a path of little rounded stones to massage your feet, and it's extremely painful to walk on them if your internal organs aren't in good shape, but a great way to become healthier.

The habit of walking on these stones is so painful that can make you immediately forget all your fears and thoughts. And it's also safer than walking on fire.

You can learn to deal with this challenge by accepting the pain as a massage for your feet and walking slowly.

Other ways chosen by men to challenge themselves and improve their confidence in dealing with challenges include doing pushups every morning till pain in the muscles is felt, and then do ten or twenty more to practice the overcoming of pain.

Jogging can also follow the same principle, as you can increase five minutes more to your routine when feeling like quitting.

Such exercises will operate as a therapy, building your self-confidence and capability to persist, affecting your attitude towards life and your behaviors, making you more positive about common daily issues and proactive towards difficulties encountered.

Other people, in particularly women, will sense it by the way you walk and talk.

# How to deal with territorial disputes

There are basically two things happening when you develop your confidence. One is that most men will think twice before challenging you to a fight or threatening you, and the other is that women won't even think before feeling excited in your presence.

This strong presence can be used in your favor or against you, depending on the situation presented.

For example, most men don't like to go out with me, because I magnetize too much attention to myself, even when I don't speak a single word. And I'm actually always the most quiet in any group I go out with.

On the other hand, you may sometimes feel the frustration of other men around you.

I remember one night to be outside a club watching a friend almost entering a fight with a big guy. He was so confident that he could beat my friend and me, that he looked at me and said "you too, come on".

At this point, his very tall friend came to join him, to prove that it would be a dirty fight.

Unfortunately, most people assume that, when others don't want to fight, they're weaker, but that's not always the case. I was hoping not to start a fight because I don't like to fight, and I don't even believe that I can fight. I know how to break an arm and make the head of someone drop so hard on the floor that he can die, but punches and kicks like schoolboys do isn't really my style. But maybe I have become more civilized and conscious than most people.

This childish situation was occurring due to territorial disputes. In other words, they were about to fight over a very ugly and dumb girl that only looked cute because it was too dark and she had too much makeup for them to realize it.

I eventually found a way for my friend to go out with her the next day and, after seeing how she really looks like, lose interest on her.

Anyway, before this stupid fight started, I positioned myself in the middle and said to one, in a complete awareness of my potential, "I don't think you want to fight me".

My tone of voice was sincere enough for him to realize what could happen and who was the real alpha in the group. So, he stopped immediately with his macho attitude, my friend took the chance and slapped his face twice, and we moved on with our life.

Nothing serious happened and I'm glad it didn't. But I do believe that wise men don't need to use their fists to prove a point, although unreasonable people can only learn the hard way, even if it may cost their life.

I've heard about many silly disputes, in which the cause was often forgotten but someone ended up murdered or in jail.

A true alpha doesn't need to use strength to win any fight and he doesn't enter territorial disputes as well, because there are many ways to reach a woman. Besides, it's not worth fighting for one, especially if she promotes it, as in the previous description, because only selfish and immature women do this.

In this scenario, I was the smallest wolf with the most powerful expression, but it was not the first time that I stopped a dangerous situation with determination. I have faced groups of taxi drivers wanting to kill me more than once and extremely fat women wanting to take me to the ground, and I stopped these situations without having to punch or kick. Although, I must say that this is possible because cowards can always be stopped by fear.

I always feel bad when having to prove a point with my fists, and winning doesn't make me feel better, but, when it comes to this, then it's all about how much pain the other can feel until he realizes what he's doing is wrong.

You won't be proving your masculinity by beating a smaller and weaker person, or someone unconscious, as many men tend to believe, but by learning not to be affected by what happens, in particular, because there are many fights in life in which you can't possibly win but only lose. Besides, there will come a time in which you're too old and weak to beat anyone, and at this point you'll wish you had a more convincing voice.

# Using martial arts to train the mind

I usually enjoy inviting friends that are bigger, faster and stronger than me, to practice kickboxing in a gym. We put the boxing gloves and fight until one of us quits.

I also had my fun one day in China, after interrupting a group of Kung Fu students practicing in a stadium and inviting them to fight me in public.

I wasn't thinking about winning or losing, but they seemed very nervous about it and only four accepted the challenge.

To me, was foremost about challenging myself through them, to test my limits and push them further.

They fought very hard and with determination, one after the other, and they managed to hurt me badly in one leg, and even throw me on the floor often. But I kept laughing at the fact that they kept quitting rather quickly.

I had exhausted their energy and defeated their spirit, even though I was still fresh and confident after so many fights. The pain, humiliation and falls didn't stop me. I kept coming back without fears. And, even though my body was hurt, my spirit was undefeated.

They had to quit, because there was no way they could find to defeat me. They were more concerned about trying to defeat me and didn't know that an alpha male is undefeated. And, basically, that's how I defeated them.

More surprising than seeing their faces, was seeing the expressions in the women watching, because they don't really care about who wins or loses. For them, the meaning of what they were watching, is that I was the one that could last longer in bed. And, this was indeed a fact, as I later found.

Women also admire men that, after being hurt emotionally, don't quit. They are sexually aroused by courage and determination.

This lesson brings us to another point, which is that an alpha man is built in his spirit, not his muscles or through the damages he can inflict on others.

During those four fights, I was never trying to win, but merely have fun, and that's how I actually won. Because, while others were fighting me, I was fighting myself before them, so I was able to defeat myself before they did.

When you're fighting against yourself, you must focus on your energy, ego, pain, limitations, potentials, self-control, etc. And, interestingly, every top fighter knows this, just like they know that nobody is physically undefeated. There's always someone stronger, faster and wiser.

This awareness must also be present when dealing with women. You must know how far can you go, but also your strengths and weaknesses. And, above all, you must be able to persist, one after the other.

When time comes, and a woman challenges you, your confidence can be felt in the vibration of your voice, when you say something like "we can have sex tonight but, if you're too afraid of following your heart and live according to your own instincts, you can just go on with your life, as there're plenty of women out there willing to take your place".

Said with an alpha tone of voice, she'll want to sleep with you, even though you may not be sure if you can get laid in the next six months if she doesn't.

Like in a war, the alpha man moves forward, not knowing if he'll return alive. But, compared to death, lack of sex is really nothing to fear when you need to prove yourself an alpha and see how far you can go with the woman you want.

# How to create an emotional connection

One of the most powerful techniques to create empathy with someone consists in mirroring that person, in both words and gestures, but not simultaneously, and gradually increasing the quantity of impressions providing a sense of security.

This technique must be applied with simplicity, naivety and originality, which can be achieved when you focus on your best attributes to make someone laugh and feel comfortable near you.

I would suggest that you talk to a woman you're attracted to as if you were talking to your best friend, while adjusting the sentences and behaviors to her feedback and gender. In other words, be physical but gentle when communicating with a woman, and guide her to interesting topics that can hook her attention on you, which may depend on her personality and interests.

The next step consists in progressively transforming the conversation in something more sexual. But you must know when to do this by observing the level of resistance of the other person.

If she likes you, she won't modify her gestures when you mirror them, and may even start mirroring yours. If, for example, you keep touching her and she's physically attracted to you, she won't avoid it and will eventually touch you back as well.

At this point, you should take her words and sentences, and modify them to include something sexual or related to love, depending on your intention. If she says something like "I love to feel the fresh air in the morning", "I love to smell the roses in the park", "I love to run with the wind against my body", you can answer back with "It's amazing to see people doing what they love", "makes me feel great when people do with me what they love", "I always try to follow my heart and do what I love".

Apart from this, if you wish to make the conversation more sexual, you can answer "do you feel the same about sex?" or "how would you differentiate that description and sex?. And, if you wish to tease her, you can say something like "are you really describing the wind and the fresh air or talking about sex?" or "it sounds like you're a very sexual person".

Another thing that you must remember when applying this technique, is that only positive gestures and conversations should be mirrored. You should never give feedback on negative topics, specially if they imply you.

When this occurs, try changing the topic into something more positive and humorous.

# How to talk to negative women

Insecure women tend to make quick judgments about men approaching them, seem very arrogant and respond harshly at the beginning, but if you dodge the first and most absurd questions and comments, like "what do you do for a living?", "where did you cut your hair?" or "are you a gigolo?", then they can actually become much easier to get than other women and chase you back.

The way to do this well, depending on the situation, may consist in providing comfort, not answering or changing the topic. For example, when a woman talks about a broken relationship, you should provide comfort, when she makes negative comments about your appearance, you shouldn't answer back or react in any way, and when she asks about your job, or other boring topics, you should change the conversation.

Most of the times, not answering her questions makes her even more interested in you. Women don't like men that talk too much, because they make them lose any sense of adventure or mystery, although the definition they use among themselves is boring.

Nevertheless, negative women may not be easily detected if you don't pay attention to how she talks about herself and her life.

Before she starts criticizing you, she may use sentences related to herself, such as "I hate my job", "I hate such people", "I dislike this food", "I hate my ex-boyfriend", etc. And, because she may start hating what you say about it as well, you must see the process as a flow of energy that you must reverse, by shifting her thoughts to something else.

As an example, you can follow up what she says with something like "...and that's why I believe that sex without commitment is the best cure to forget problems and be happy about life".

Anything that she might answer at this point is already in the field of sexuality, which you must explore to arouse her and make her feel good about you.

If she's shy, you can slightly modify her feelings by saying that you believe that the best way to deal with hate is by smiling at the things we hate, and then make her talk about what she loves the most in her life.

Some women may even answer that they don't like anything in their life, which means, in other words, that they lack love and attention. In this case, you can answer "maybe you would like to have a boyfriend delivering you a delicious breakfast in bed".

She'll then focus on the boyfriend issue while asking if you can cook, which is the same as putting all the cards in your table.

Take this line to talk about the pleasure of eating your food more than food itself, and suggest cooking for her in that same night or next day.

# How to deal with difficult women

The definition of difficult woman applies to those that no man can communicate with and, despite their sexuality and charm, seem to make every male feel awful about himself.

These women are actually very sexual, so they behave in such way to select only the best, and, to do it, they play mind games.

Many nymphomaniacs can be found in this category. And the best way to deal with them consists in not fighting back, because they're looking for persistent men, those that can have sex more than twenty times a day without complaining or ever refusing it.

Transform the situation and her into a causality that has nothing unique to it, by telling her, for example, "I'm sure you're with me because you hate me, and I can promise you that I'll try to make you hate me even more, so that we can hang out more often, as it's kind of fun to see you mad".

When saying this, you're not only using her thoughts and words to nullify her aggressive attitude, but also making her feel better about herself.

This skill is so rare and important for them, that they'll always chase you back if you try to leave them. And, you'll make her smile and admire you by doing it, because she actually wants to feel good and accepted by someone, and she usually can't even accept herself.

Try to always talk about what she feels without rejecting it and avoid disagreeing verbally about her believes, because her behavior comes from the need to have power over men, due to insecurities related to their past traumas.

This dynamic could be compared to the taming of a wild worse. You can't control by force, but merely lead to your purposes, while allowing her to express herself as she wants. And, as she keeps talking, she'll eventually feel more connected to you, because her anger becomes a shortcut to her heart and other emotions.

Here are a few examples of how to do this:

Example nr.1: Her: "My job now is good and I have time to do everything I want. Besides, I don't arrive home tired. But I still don't have patience for cooking."

You: "I don't have any patience for cooking as well, and I think that it's understandable how you feel. But there are some simple things that you can do when arriving home. I can show you right now. Where do you live?"

Example nr.2: Her: "I don't really do anything special during my time. Sometimes I don't even eat."

You: "That's not healthy. I'll call you next weekend and we can go together to do some shopping and make some salads and other simple dishes together."

In these two examples, you can see how a conversation can be turned from negative to positive, but also transformed into a date opportunity at the same time, and with a high probability of ending in sex.

Most men think about sex when talking to a woman, and there's nothing wrong with that, on the contrary, except that they forget to close the emotional gap in between, and that's why they get stuck in the friend zone, just like those that refuse to be sexual with a woman for whatever untruthful reason, such as respect, love and compassion.

The truth is that, if you can't be sexual with a woman, far before even having sex with her, she won't respect you, love you or even feel any compassion for you when exchanging those dates for wild afternoons of sex with a stranger that she has just met.

# How to escalate a relationship

During a conversation with a woman, you must escalate the communication, in all its possible forms, such as physical, gestural, verbal and emotional, in order to reach the deepest level of intimacy possible.

It's certainly easier to become a boyfriend after she allows you to hold her hands as if you already were, and it's also easier to have sex after she allows you to touch her most intimate and erogenous parts, for whatever reason or excuse that you may present, such as her bottom, neck, scalp, earlobe, waist, lower back or inner thigh, and especially if you can make her sit on your lap for a while.

Every approach depends on the context in which you find yourself and every escalation on the feedback of the other person.

Generally speaking, women allow to be touched in the lower back if given a proper excuse for that, but you need more positive signs before reaching for the hair or bottom without facing a major and permanent rejection.

What women define as pervert or sexy is foremost differentiated by perspective and attitude, not actions. And there's always an environment that increases the potential of success of each man, so you only need to find yours.

When the environment doesn't fit my requirements, I simply create a new one, by finding the people and location that can help me with it, even if it has to be done outside a club. Very often, this is the best place to get numbers and emails.

Another thing that you must pay attention to is the posture of the women you intend to approach before even thinking about doing. There are clearly women that predispose themselves much more than others, and you shouldn't make your life difficult by choosing them randomly, as if seduction was only about luck and statistics.

A seducer must be smart and, before approaching a woman, he must learn to tell, just by the way she looks back at him, in which level of interest she is.

If you can dress, walk, stand, behave and smile, in a way that catches most of the females attention, then your job will be much easier. In fact, when you're able to do this well, you may not need to search for anyone, because they'll come to you much more often.

I've had women constantly approaching me in some clubs, and even kissing me before any words were exchanged, and this happens when your appearance and attitude creates the kind of stimulation in their brain that makes them want to immediately be intimate with you.

The secret behind it is hard to put into words, but if you can look at a woman straight in the eyes for long enough, with an expression that she should be the one making a move, then you're halfway there. The rest is about knowing how to build some tension in between, and it always depends on the woman in front of you. But you can tell a lot by the way she dresses and the friends she's with.

The only embarrassing moments that I had by doing this was with women in their 40s that looked at me like a vampire ready to devour me until the last drop of blood.

Some women are so eager for sex that they can actually surprise and intimidate a man in his own game. So, I must say that nobody is immune to having his game reversed by someone with more experience and hunger.

The surprise comes mostly from not expecting it, therefore, it's important to keep a zen state of mind, and allow things around you to happen naturally, instead of forcing them to occur according to your expectations.

When I learned to do this, I started meeting many beautiful and interesting women that I never thought I would, such as when one night I decided to dance African music with a bunch of fat African ladies, and one gorgeous blond French girl was so surprised that she approached me to dance with me, ending up ditching her friends to spend that same night at my place.

Ironically, when women see that you can be intimate with any of them, they want to be more intimate with you as well, and that's why, when you touch one in a group, the rest may come closer to be touched as well. For them, it's a sign of confidence, positivity and charisma in a man, which they're very attracted to.

# How to touch a woman

To touch a woman in the right moment, it's necessary to express in the proper form that allows a justification to do it.

Level 1 - the opener: "Sorry to interrupt you, but I was looking at you by far and admiring your t-shirt. I really love it and I was wondering where did you bought it, because I wanted to offer one like this to one of my friends. It's her birthday next week".

Level 2 - mirroring her thoughts: Mirroring is like a dance, which means that you must search for what she enjoys talking about and then follow this energy. And, if you don't know what to say, you can always make her talk more by asking questions.

Try to find something in what she says that you could learn with to make the conversation more interesting for both. Then, during the talk, try saying some jokes or funny and related things to make her feel more comfortable with you.

Level 3 - touching her body: Once she starts smiling more often at you, one of the most important parts of this escalation was accomplished. And after this point you can move to intimacy. To do this, while talking to her, touch the arm gently as if you were trying to catch her attention: "If you could only see what I saw yesterday (touch)... (pause)... it was amazing!, but wait (second touch, preferably in another part of her body), let me tell you something else first. People are saying something different from what you think, I can guarantee you (third touch, in another area of her body)".

Level 4 - dealing with rejection: If she refuses your touch and leans backwards, go back to the previous level.

This reaction means that you're going too fast for her and haven't yet passed the previous stage.

Every woman is different, so each one has her own timing. Usually, women that are more sexual may allow and even expect you to be very physical immediately, while others aren't comfortable with it for many different reasons, related mostly with their own background and expectations.

You must see this as a game, therefore, if you lose in one level, you must go back to the previous. It doesn't and never means that the game is over. Every single woman, even the ones that have boyfriends or are married, have their own timing, but eventually find their reasons to accept the advances of a better man.

Level 5 - dealing with yourself: If you get bored with a woman, don't feel frustrated about it. Simply change the game by searching for someone else, and don't waste any time fighting back your own negativity about the situation.

# How to kiss a woman

If a woman doesn't refuse your touch and doesn't lean back when you touch her, continue the escalation to reach for a kiss.

In this case, you move to another level of intimacy, by touching, more often and for a longer time, all the erogenous parts you can opportunistically reach. You can start by touching the hands, which subconsciously triggers the signs of commitment, making her more willing to accept your next advances.

Example nr.1: "I can guarantee you that it's not what I saw last week" (and touch her hands or one hand while speaking this).

Example nr.2: "Wow, your hair is really amazing" (and touch it gradually while reaching for her scalp).

Example nr.3: "Your fingers are really thin" (and grab her hand while speaking).

If she doesn't refuse these approaches, and seems comfortable near you, you can then move further to another type of interaction, which is the sexual arousal and kiss.

If she wants to be kissed, she'll have more than one of the following behaviors demonstrated in a frenetic and uncontrollable way:

looking to your lips;

curling her hair around the fingers;

leaning towards you to close any distance and make the kiss easier to happen;

biting or licking her lower lip;

touching your chest;

hugging you;

hitting or pinching you.

There are less visual but equally obvious signs that have the same meaning, such as when she's trying to constantly delay the conversation to spend more time with you.

Once the situation presents itself favorably for the kissing, you can simply do it yourself by putting your hand behind her neck and slowly pulling her towards you, by leaning slowly towards her mouth while she talks, or by getting into an intimate distance and lowering your voice at the same time, until both of your chests are in contact.

If you don't like or don't want to do anything like this, you can simply ask her "would you like to kiss me?". Her response will very likely be an honest one, specially if the signs of wanting it are already there.

You can also tease her before going for the kiss to see how she responds, by saying something like...

"I wonder if your lips are so smooth as your arms";

"I can't resist you anymore";

"Are you trying to make me kiss you?";

"Let me tell you a secret";

"Can I guess your drink by kissing you?".

# How to deal with rejection

If a woman refuses to be kissed by you, don't act as if you're angry about it and don't try to get any revenge or offend her in anyway. Instead, have fun with the situation, by smiling and saying something such as...

"It's ok, you've just lost the opportunity of a lifetime, but I'll give your prize to whoever comes in second";

"I was going to tell you something personal and I thought that you wanted to kiss me. Sorry for the misunderstanding";

"You made me think that you wanted to kiss me and now you refuse it. I don't understand your point, but it's ok";

"Are you playing hard to get? No problem, I don't really care".

She may feel confused or irritated by these answers but, if she refuses to kiss you, she should feel bad about it. So, make sure that she feels like she's the one loosing something, not you.

If you can do this, while not showing any resentment about it, she'll chase you during the following days, to give you a second chance of making her want to kiss you, especially if she sees you spending time with other women.

Most of the times, the reason why a woman doesn't want to kiss you has nothing to do with you but what you do and how she feels. In other words, you've either went too fast or too slow and she's not ready to be kissed, but she can be, if you learn from your mistakes and adjust your behavior to the personality of the woman in front of you, not the one that you imagine that she is.

Whatever you do, don't allow her to feel in control of the situation, and remember that an alpha man only loses today to win tomorrow. When you're persistent, only quitting can be seen as a loss.

In fact, with these principles properly applied, you can change the game in much less than two days, and sometimes in just seconds.

I once had a girl that started kissing me in my bed but stopped my advances to have sex, and she did it nine times. But, every single time she did this, I would answer "no problem, we don't have to do it" and lean backwards while taking my arms away from her body. And every time I did it, she would pull me back.

In the end, we had sex that same night and the following nights a well, every single one of them, until she had to travel back to her hometown.

Once she was gone, I didn't contact her again, but two days later she called me to have me back. And she kept trying to get me back ever since, even though this happened years ago, we moved to different countries and she has probably met many other men after me.

This story illustrates well the meaning and importance of the female answer to a man. When a woman says "no", she means "no". But, if you agree with her "no", and understand it, you may end up with a "yes".

# Why women stay in abusive relationships

Women don't use reason to analyze situations but emotions. And then they'll use reason to justify something they did by following their emotions.

Their favorite movies and novels describe this paradigm, and even fairytales do the same:

Red Riding Hood is about a girl that refused to follow reason, and instead decided to have fun in the forest;

Beauty and the Beast is about a girl that decided to follow her heart with a man that looked like a beast;

Snow White is about a girl that thought that living with seven single men was a great idea.

It's very easy to blame the big bad wolf, but Red Riding Hood wouldn't have find him if she hadn't behave as a bad girl. And, even though the Bible blames a serpent for seducing Eve, the fact remains that Eve knew exactly what she was doing when being seduced.

A nice guy, that tries to conquer a woman's attention with consideration, flowers and candies, never gets anything in return, except maybe humiliation.

You can try to build love with a woman through commitment, but they only trust the love they feel, not the one they perceive with logic. And this is why married men with children are still cheated and dumped by their wives.

In any stage of a relationship, rejection means merely that you can't trigger a woman's instinctual response towards you, because you're not sexually stimulative enough. And they can judge this by how you walk, talk and behave.

On the other hand, being sexually attractive, will magnetize so many women to you that you'll be forced to manage your time and wallet very well, and reject many of them at the same time as well.

# Why you should respect women

There are five reasons why you should always respect a woman's decision about having or not a relationship with you.

Reason nr.1: An Alpha male can stop himself anytime and has a remarkable self-control. Besides, you don't want to rape someone and end up in jail, or worse. Losing your own pride, by forcing a woman into sex, blackmailing or drugging her with alcohol into doing it, is the lowest level attitude that a man can have as a man.

Reason nr.2: Alpha males know that sex doesn't have to be the goal of an interaction, and there's no need to move so fast in this game of seduction.

If you keep physically interacting with a woman, eventually things will end up well, as by feeling closer to you she'll also increase her need to have you in her life. When this stage is reached, she may be the one doing the final move, like asking you out and seducing into having sex.

Reason nr.3: Sometimes you may think that you're winning, and in the end you don't. You may make her feel so horny that the path to get her into bed becomes easier for another guy approaching her with a more effective game.

However, life is made of risks, and you must take chances to see what surprises you may get. Besides, losing one girl only means that you have more time to meet another, so you must see the brightest side of every situation.

It was when I stopped thinking about the women I lost that I started getting better women, which eventually helped me forget about the previous ones.

Reason nr.4: Every woman has something unique in her, so it's actually a fun challenge to our personality, and a great way to mature ourselves, to meet new and attractive women all the time.

You must not fear losing a woman, because there are plenty of opportunities to meet new ones, and you never know what you lose until you find better luck.

Reason nr.5: The addiction you develop towards a woman comes mostly from the fact that you don't know enough women in your life that could give you a chance to improve your manhood and even change to a new relationship.

Women tend to respect men much more when they know that these men have value to other women, and this principle applies to girlfriends and wives as well.

# How to make a woman want to sleep with you

Another important thing about approaching a woman regards not being afraid to be sexual. In other words, you shouldn't be afraid to show that you want sex and find the woman in front of you to be sexually attractive. It's actually what she expects and the best way to flatter her efforts to look good before leaving the house.

To feel sexually aroused is to fit a woman's expectation from a man, because that's the whole purpose of wearing high heels, cleavage, miniskirt and tight dresses.

There are many ways to show your interest in her body, but if you want to make her feel comfortable with the way you do it, talk about sex and porn with her while touching your neck, arms and hair as if you were massaging it, just like a person having sex with you would do.

Use your body as well to make physical descriptions of what you're explaining to her, as this will stimulate her mind into thinking about sex with you.

It's very hard for her to stop herself from imagining sex if you keep playing with her memory of having sex with someone.

Here's what you can say to escalate the conversation into her emotional mind. "Wow, you have great legs,... I didn't notice that before. That skirt suits you well".

This sentence implies a sexual behavior and a compliment to her body, and she'll love it, because every woman enjoys feeling desired. This kind of compliment is the whole purpose to why they spend hours in shopping malls trying to find the sexier dresses and gyms in order to get fit.

If it seems that she didn't like it, it's because she's playing hard to get, which is common among beautiful women used to compliments since a very early age. You should keep interacting with her physically while describing the best attributes she has in her body to make her feel that you desire her.

If she's uncomfortable with her body, she may try to put you down, which you shouldn't allow. If she answers something like "shut up", "you're disgusting", "it's like you just want sex", know that it's simply to test your intentions towards her.

In this case, you can answer something like "I'm sure that you think about sex all the time and much more than me, but we don't have to talk about it. I'll pretend that you're a fat and disgusting old woman if it makes you feel better with yourself".

The more she feels comfortable with the whole idea of having sex with you, the more she'll want it, simply putting it, because this type of conversation implies that she matures as a woman by doing it and gains more self-confidence at the same time.

The main reason why a woman will have sex with a man is because that man makes her feel valuable and pretty, not cheap and disgusting. They'll never have sex with someone that decreases their self-worth, unless they already feel undeserving of someone better, and that's not common. Almost every woman wants a man that increases her social value, because it's in their nature to behave in such way.

# How to overcome a woman resistance

The most common resistance that women present tends to come in the form of an affirmation, such as "you're so horny and dirty and all you think about is just sex".

Most men, upon hearing this, instinctively feel that they should explain themselves and apologize from showing that intention. However, there's no right answer to this accusation, because it's not a complain but a test. Women want to know if you only see them as sex objects or that and much more, but definitely not less than that.

Therefore, you can answer something like "I think about much more things, but at the moment we're not playing chess and I felt like expressing myself. At least I'm not afraid to say what I think instead of looking at you by far like a geek".

With this answer, you just prove yourself an alpha, because you're showing her that you don't fear expressing your own thoughts and admitting your sexuality as a men.

Another way to answer them can come in the form of a reversed question, such as "why do you pretend not to like it?".

In every situation experienced, in which either the first or second option was chosen, their response was always positive.

As their comment is merely a test, both answers represent the correct way to pass it. The first will give her the freedom to change topic, if she feels like it, while maintaining your potential as a sex partner, and the second will disarm her, making her talk about how she feels about it and what you need to reach the last stage of taking her to bed.

Men that are afraid of such comments or quickly excuse themselves are the ones always ending up in the friend zone. And this happens because, basically, if she can't have sex with you, then you're just seen as a friend. Unless she feels that you're not attracted to her, a situation in which she won't even want to be your friend.

Most women like to collect admirers, another word for the friend zoned, but a sex partner isn't an admirer but a hunter. He either gets what he wants or he doesn't.

If you're not ok with being the friend of a hot woman, then don't, because imagining that you can reverse the game while being in disadvantage towards other men that she knows will just hurt your manhood and lower your chances with other women.

Women always give you a limited time to prove yourself worthy and you must do the same, for your own good. Once you start imagining a clock over your head when dealing with a woman you like, your game will be much more effective, because you'll be doing the right thing in the right moment, instead of wasting time trying to recover from mistakes or guessing what she'll say and do next.

# How to make a woman think dirty

If, for any reason, a woman doesn't follow your lead during a conversation, make her think what you want and persuade her in this direction.

You can do this by making her look to your lips and think about kissing you, by moving them, biting them or moving your tongue through them. And, you can also touch them with your finger, as if you were thinking about something, or do any other kind of movement that makes her look at them.

You can also make her sit closer to you by saying "sorry, but I can't listen well to some things that you say, so please sit here" or, more simply, "don't be so far. Sit here".

If you're in a club, use your hands to touch her waist while talking, and her neck as well, and pull her close to your body every single time you can. A club is the ideal place to be as sexual as possible, because the noise and crowd give you an excuse to rub your body in hers.

Women also love men that can dance, because it's a great sign of ability to have good sex. But, if you can't, allow her to guide you. Just compliment her and say "you're so great when you dance. Teach me those moves".

At this point, you should come as closer to her as possible, as if you were both going to have sex in the dance floor, because this is a great moment to test sexual compatibility.

This said, if she doesn't go home with you that night or the following one, something is definitely wrong with her.

The reason why you must see things in this way, is related to a fact that most men don't seem to understand about seduction. There's no such thing as step one, two and three. And, if authors write in such way is merely to give you a certain guidance from which you can experience the best results possible, not a formula that works in the same way with every single woman. As a matter of fact, the more experience you gain, the less you need to worry about what you do or the tactics involved.

I was once at home feeling tired, after all my friends decided to go out to party, when a female friend decided to invite me to her party in another club. I barely new her and I certainly didn't knew any of her friends, but I decided to go just to catch some fresh air in-between the chapters of the book that I was writing that night.

When I arrived, I talked for a few seconds with her, but I didn't like her friends, the party or the music. Besides, I could see that she was the main target of every man in her group and nearly all the rest in that party. So, I behaved as a complete asshole, spending time in a corner with my own drink and not dancing, talking or smiling to anyone.

I know that those men will never know why, just half an hour later, she decided to leave them, call a taxi and, in front of everyone, ask me to go with her to my place.

The secret formula to do this is a combination of everything that this book describes with a proper arrangement of elements applied to a specific situation. In other words, I took the chance to print an idea in her mind upon my arrival that built in her imagination while she was dancing with other men in her group and on stage. Then, every time she came to criticize my negative behavior, I would simply reinforce that idea with a very physical approach. And, the rest, is merely tension building up until she felt sexually attracted to the point of wanting to give herself that night.

One of the most important things to remember here is that women need to trust and feel respect in the man they choose to be with, and these attributes must be part of the process of sexual attraction and what you do. Most men, are either only sexual or just respectful and not trustful and sexual in their behaviors.

These characteristics may seem contradictory, but the more you think about it and try to apply them altogether, the more clear and simple it becomes when looking for obvious results. All techniques are relative to the subject, context, object and intention. Once you can see this, you can make a woman think what you want.

# How not to be manipulated by a woman

In order to analyze you, a woman will talk in a way that can make you reveal more about yourself. And her tone of voice shows the intention, as it can manifest surprise, disgust, hate, ridicule or curiosity.

The emotions promoted exist to guide you into a certain direction, therefore, self-control is very important to avoid saying things about yourself that can then be used to make the manipulative process easier for her.

Typically, women want to know about your friends, relatives and job, because these are the indicators that can reveal the higher amount of emotional buttons in you.

On the other hand, there's no such thing as a good or bad manipulation, but only good and bad controller. And, unfortunately, most women tend to control conversations towards their stereotypes and assumptions, which aren't almost never positive. Reason why, the less you reveal, the more positive is their image about you, even though at the beginning such outcome may not seem logic.

Nevertheless, you can't make a conversation based on games of avoidance, so you must understand what a woman does to transform whatever topics she chooses into a pleasant dialogue.

You know that you're losing control of the situation when you start feeling bad about yourself during the conversation or the initial chemical attraction gradually fades away. And it's very hard to recover after this point of no return is reached. So, the less you invest all your hopes in only one girl in the path to find the ideal, the better it is for you.

Remember that your life contains memories with emotions attached to them and, the more you talk about yourself, the easier it is to lose control of a conversation with a woman, because you end up talking about things that you love or hate and lose focus on the main purpose that brought you there.

Even though she may be the one leading the conversation, and especially if she is, the outcome is always negative. And you can see this in her, because she'll express all the signs of being bored with you.

As a writer, it's very common for me to fall into this trap. A woman asks me about my books and, soon after I start speaking, I notice her rolling the eyes and yawning while forcing a smile. In other words, as much as it is difficult for a man to understand this, women don't really care about what we say, and most of us only realize this after getting married.

Even if I can get such woman to keep meeting me and eventually fix her first impressions, she'll never forget the first encounter as the most boring ever. And, when time comes and she's between sheets with me, she'll deliberately confess it.

What we feel about what we do can easily trap us inside ourselves, not allowing seeing the obvious signs on the person in front of us. And, if a woman fakes it, which is also very common in order to maintain her attractiveness, then it can be nearly impossible to realize what we're actually doing.

# How to make a woman pay attention to you

Unless a woman is truly paying attention to what you say, which becomes obvious when she incessantly interrupts before you can finish a sentence, you're wasting time inside your own illusions about how the date is going. And you shouldn't be surprised if she doesn't pick your calls or replies emails ever again after that.

You should make sure that you can lead her own reality into a more uplifting expression of herself, in which she can have joy, love and sexual feelings.

The world she imagines is far more important than the one in which you believe or any facts about it. So, you must make efforts in exploring subjects that awake positive emotions and memories in her.

Example nr.1: If she asks you "so, do you come here often?", you reply must include an answer that goes back to her and makes her feel something about it, such as "yes, but it's not often that I meet someone like you, so damn crazy that makes me confused about what to answer. You remind me of an ex-girlfriend I had and was always doing the same to me, and then one day I was so confused that I ended up in her bed without ever realizing what she did to me".

This is a funny story that will make her wonder about several important issues at the same time. One is related to the possibility of having sex with you, the other about the curiosity she'll have in knowing what that woman knew that she doesn't, and the third concerns your definition of crazy.

Whatever she chooses first, every single topic allows you to continue your answers towards the arousal of more curiosity and sexual tension in her. And, basically speaking, these are the two main ingredients that make a woman pay attention to you, or even read a novel without interruptions.

Example nr.2: If you want to start a topic that pulls her attention to you, say something like "the way you move is unbelievable. I thought it was a myth when my friends told me about it but now I know that women like you do exist. You have the power to make men want to have sex with you. How many men have tried before?".

This question gives her a chance to describe funny stories about men hitting on her, which will grant her a moment of fun with you, while providing you with a bunch of information related to what you should and shouldn't do with her.

It's so easy to make a woman talk about herself and her love life, that by doing this you're already making yourself look different from other men.

Nonetheless, when the time is right, you should make her climb the emotional ladder into the topic of boyfriend.

Example nr.3: Ask her "what made you choose the boyfriends you ended up having? How was your relationship with them?".

At this point, she'll remember her previous relationships and the feelings that come with them, subconsciously placing you as a potential candidate to the next boyfriend category.

If she starts showing nostalgic reactions and emotions towards those memories it's a very good sign, because it means that she's feeling incomplete in her life and opening a chance for you to fulfill the task of making her feel like a woman again.

It's very easy to take a woman with these traits to bed, although it's very difficult to get rid of her after that. Women that tend to be needy also clinch on a man and may be melodramatic, creating constant fights with no apparent reason. And it's no surprise to find that they may also have an history of mental therapies that didn't succeed on them.

I've always been very careful in understanding what makes a woman easy and you should too. As many men know, most of the reasons aren't good, because women are mentally programmed by society to be difficult to reach.

# How to avoid answering personal questions

In order to maintain the attention of a woman, you must always avoid answering a question directly, and instead make her want to make more questions.

Her anxiety towards you should grow to the pointing of wishing you. And this is possible when you provide the elements that women crave the most, which are danger, adventure and fun. That's why romantic movies have them from beginning to end.

Apart from this, you must know that an unfinished story creates tension and tension can lead to sexual feelings, as it increases the interest of a person in a certain emotional outcome.

It's far much easier to make a woman that is traveling fall in love or have sex with a stranger than to see it happening in her own hometown, because only a new environment can provide more of the previously described three elements.

The following examples will show you how not to answer a question while increasing her interest.

Example nr.1: Her: "What do you do for a living?"

You: "If I tell you, I may end up being killed. But one of my jobs that I can talk to you about is related to working in an office while pretending to be smart about papers that people give me."

Example nr.2: Her: "Do you come here often?"

You: "Just when I need to do something important in public?"

Her: "Like what?"

Him: "If you're the chosen one you'll know."

Her: "Know what? What is it?"

Him: "All I can say is that it's good."

Surely, you may always find exceptions, as not every woman will appreciate this type of approach but, if she doesn't, it also means that she's not into you or even finding anyone else for the moment. Maybe she broke up recently with her boyfriend or is going through a divorce.

On the other hand, you must know what kind of woman is more willing to play these games with you, namely, if they smile when you look at them, if they look peaceful and soft.

# Why you should avoid women with bad temper

You shouldn't try to approach women with bad temper, unless you want to get burned. There's never anything to gain from them.

You can see how beaten you can get when approaching one, just for the fun of it, but don't expect to get her number.

I've done this myself several times. I would approach bitchy women just to test my skills in dealing with them and see if I can change the game around.

What I've learned from such experiences is that this type of woman is good to help you develop your alpha attitude, as they'll disrespect you so much that you either learn to impose respect, even for only instants, or they'll crush your self-esteem, which is in fact their ultimate goal to feel better with themselves.

These women are sadistic, almost always due to how much they've suffered in previous relationships. So, most of the problems that they create have very obvious reminiscences of those memories, and that's why you may hear them judge you in a form that makes no sense.

Example nr.1: She borrows you money that you don't actually need or asked for, and later tells you that you're only with her because of her money.

Example nr.2: She lets you cook dinner for both, and when arriving home tells you that she already had dinner with another man. When you wonder why, she makes a big drama about how jealous you are.

Example nr.3: She insists in taking you to a bar that she knows you'll hate, and then creates a fight about how inconsiderate you are about her needs.

The main point that experience shows with all these cases is that these women will never give up trying to destroy a man, because they've already given up on themselves a long time ago. They're not suitable for any decent man.

Every time you win an argument with them, they'll see it as a defeat of their pride from which they must take revenge. So, later in time, they'll make you suffer even more for it. And they have so many strategies to accomplish this goal that it never stops amazing me.

The worse woman I met with these characteristics was always complaining and putting me down, but I won her first and before any other man that was hitting on her, even though she was ten years older than me.

After we had sex, she seemed different, but was actually gaining time, as she couldn't manipulate me as easily as what she did in her previous relationships. Nevertheless, she found a different path, by sneaking into my personal things, namely, the files in my external disk and Skype conversations every time I went to the bathroom.

She would often say "you can trust me" or "you don't need to suspect me", or even "I don't care about your things", so that I wouldn't notice what she was doing behind my back. And, as I learned later with other similar women, these sentences mean that you should be doing exactly the opposite.

Over time, she got enough information about my personal life and gradually learned how to destroy me. First, by making me quit my hobbies, then by diminishing my self-esteem in the best way possible, and then by manipulating conversations towards issues that she knew to be mostly related to my background or emotional connection to certain people.

While doing all this, she also manipulated the opinions of others around me, and was always afraid to see me near those that wouldn't agree with her. She always had strategies to make me avoid seeing such people and, knowing that I wanted to spend time with them, was always a motive for fights.

Ironically, every time I abandoned her, she would do her best to seduce me back, and even chased me between cities.

This was like a horror movie, that only finished when I was strong enough to stop it in my head, because she made her problem become my psychological problem, by using a bunch of weaknesses related to my past.

As much as any man can consider himself to be strong, the scientific fact is that you can never make a psychopath become sane, but she can make you insane, if having that chance. And, even though not all women with bad temper are psychopaths, chronic depression is a very good indicator of mental instability leading to something much worse, and that's why it's called a disease.

# How to make a woman love you

The whole purpose during a conversation with a woman must be to create a mind movie in her head, which will then lead her to imagine a relationship and sex with you, instead of focusing in her own conclusions and judgments about you.

Some could argue that this is mind manipulation, but you're never manipulating a woman that is fully conscious of what she's doing. In other words, this technique implies merely building a sequential story with what already exists in her mind, and nothing else than that, except that it could be naturally built with any other man and you're building it with you.

To create a mind movie for her, you must be abstract enough to reach the realm of what she considers to be possible, emotionally specific enough to trigger a physical response, and creative enough to start a story that may become a reality.

With these three elements in mind, it's possible to make her think about you all the time, which will inevitably make her fall in love, whatever it means for her.

Every woman has her own definition of love, which they often can't put into words, but even a nymphomaniac can easily fall in love, and I've made it happen every single time I encountered one to become sure enough about it.

Example Nr.1: Tell her something like "most women tell me that I'm great in bed but I think that they lie to me. How can I know the truth?"

She may or not believe you, but the curiosity will keep her hooked in trying to find the truth, even if she has to sleep with you to know it.

Example Nr.2: If you don't feel comfortable enough to include yourself in the story, start it indirectly with "a friend of mine is always horny and ready to have sex. I wonder how this kind of people live their life, because I don't think women are like this. Do you think it's easy to find women to have sex with, apart from prostitutes? I mean, just women that are horny?".

Whether she wants or not to follow this line of thought, you can always make her talk about what she believes to be more important in her life, sex or love.

Example Nr.3: If you're confident enough when talking to beautiful women, instead of focusing in the conversation, pay attention to the impact that a story can have in their mind, using descriptions that can trigger physical reactions, such as "I feel pain in my mouth. I was so hungry that I couldn't stop myself from eating an apple on the way. But this apple was very hard, so I kept biting it deeper and deeper, and it was really tasty, hard but very tasty".

She knows that you're making a description of oral sex, but she can't accuse you of that and she can't be sure of your intention of doing it, if your expression is naive enough, and, therefore, she can't protect herself from imagining it with you when hearing such descriptions.

Example Nr.4: As in the previous example, this story represents another indirect sexual description. "Today I had a very difficult day of work, moving up and down without stopping, until I sweated and started to get very wet. But even wet and sweating I had to finish that job, so I kept going up and down, up and down, all day long."

Example Nr.5: This example represents another form of applying the previous technique. "Yesterday everyone decided to call me. It was like I was doing exercise, always moving my arm back and forward to pick up the mobile. They called, I moved in, then I putted it down, and then I did the same, again and again. Finally, because I was fed up of the calls, I putted it on vibration mode, but I forgot to leave it in the table, so when I felt it vibrating in my pocket it felt weird, as if my body was getting excited and out of control".

These last techniques can work so well that the woman in front of you won't even realize that you're doing it on purpose, but she'll surely think about sex without realizing the reason why or being able to stop it. But, you must remember that women have different predispositions when falling in love, which makes some of the examples referred better than others.

# How to seduce an introverted woman

There are beautiful women particularly difficult to seduce due to their introverted nature. But everything that was previously mentioned applies to them as well, even though it needs to be creatively adjusted.

The way to handle an interaction with them consists in promoting conversations that stimulate sexual emotions and actions in their daily life, and mixing them altogether.

Example Nr.1: During the conversation, try asking questions that you can answer yourself, in order to keep the flow of vibes on your side if she resists cooperating. If, for example, she's wearing a pink blouse, compliment her by saying "you look good in pink. Is it your favorite color?".

If she doesn't even answer, continue with "my favorite color is blue, because...", and add something sexual to the answer.

Example Nr.2: If she appears to be lazy and bored, ask "I'm thinking about going to see a movie. Do you have any suggestion?", and close this topic by inviting her to go with you.

Basically, your purpose is to try to analyze her profile and then create a conversation with questions that lead into who she is as a woman.

The female side of her may be asleep, and there are many hot women that seem to be in this situation, which can be detected in the way they dress and the lack of interest they have in arranging their hair. But this doesn't change the fact that she has interests in her life and a sexual desire waiting to be fulfilled like any other woman.

Example Nr.3: She may transform the conversation into a very boring experience, which you should avoid by not answering her questions as she expects but as you must. You can save yourself from those awkward moments by replying "do you know what is said about people that make questions like that?", and ending it with something sexual but hilarious, such as "psychologists say that they're addicted to chocolate sex".

She'll then ask you what is that, which you can follow up with a long description about liquid chocolate melted in her body being licked by you.

Example Nr.4: Make her feel more comfortable about the encounter with you by saying something like "I can't believe that you've just asked me that. Are you trying to make me angry so that I get crazy about you and then want to have sex with you? You may do this with other guys but it doesn't work for me".

Example Nr.5: Stimulate her imagination when answering any question, by replying in ways like "are you sure you want to know? I'm not sure you're ready for that".

Example Nr.6:  If she has the tendency to put you down, turn the game around and don't allow her to take the leading part in the dynamic. If she says something such as "so, you don't really do anything in your life that is interesting", you may answer "is that a tricky question? Who do you work for, the FBI? Why do you really ask that?".

You may scare her with such replies but also create a necessary tension, as you regain back her interest by making yourself seem more mysterious than she thinks you are. Either way, you end her game, because then she cannot be sure anymore about what she said about you.

Example Nr.7: Shy women can also be rude without knowing it, but it doesn't mean that they're not interested in you. This behavior is usually a test to your honesty towards them. Therefore, if she says "you look stupid in those clothes. Where did you buy them?", answer "you really don't know anything about fashion, do you? I'm sure fashion for you is what the North American magazines tell you and you have no idea about what the French and Spanish are wearing nowadays. You should go learn something before saying that again. Besides, how fashionable are you? Can you prove it by showing me your underwear?".

Example Nr.8: Apart from the techniques previously mentioned, there's another that is probably the most direct to overcome any kind of barrier imposed by an introverted woman.

Introverted people have difficulties to say no, because it represents an expression of their individuality which they lack. So, you can lead her to accept the pleasure you provide in forms that don't seem sexual. This can be done by offering her a lollipop, hot chocolate or anything else that is sweet or both sweet and hot.

In time, she'll feel more comfortable to your advances, and that's when you can start being more physical in your communication without facing rejection.

Although it may be uncommon to find beautiful shy women in western countries, they're extremely common in Asian nations, such as China, Japan and Korea. And, if you encounter a beautiful but virgin Asian woman, which is more likely to happen than what you would like to believe, this is the most suitable technique to apply to make her become interested in you.

# How to answer dating questions

During the moments you hangout with girls, you should never be afraid to reveal your own natural and instinctive thoughts in mind. You want to have sex with them and you mustn't forget that, otherwise they'll transform you into something very bad, their best friend.

Your attitude towards women can be sensed as a kind of telepathy, as they can feel the vibrations you emanate as being sexual or not.

To transmit a positive alpha vibe, when dating a woman, keep sexual thoughts in mind, namely, by imagining her naked or in your bed.

Your body usually follows what you think, so it always transmits the feeling you have inside yourself, and that's how women know what men think.

Some women may even try to explore the fears of a man, to which you must respond by telling her that she can be easily replaceable, even if she doesn't believe in it. The sentence "if you don't want, someone else will take the chance you've just lost", can be a good tool to deal with such behavior.

Remember as well that the most common questions you'll be asked about, when first meeting someone, will definitely determine future events between you and that person, and are related to interests, favorite activities, food and hobbies. Therefore, make sure that you know yourself well enough and that you're prepared to answer everything related to these topics. You don't need to have specific answers for each topic, but you do need to know how to answer.

Example Nr.1: Her: "What do you do in your spare time?"

You: "Does sex counts as an activity?"

Example Nr.2: You: "I enjoy doing lots of things. Nowadays, my favorite is to meet horny girls, but I'm not sure you're one of them."

Example Nr.3: You: "I enjoy what makes me feel good but, if the food I cook isn't good enough, you can compensate with your good company."

Example Nr.4: You: "The outcome of what I do always depends on the company, so, if you're nice enough, the food I cook can taste amazingly."

In what regards your interests and favorite activities, make sure that they make you appear as if you have an entertaining and exciting life in which she may want to participate.

Example Nr.5: "I enjoy getting lost in cities that I don't know, and then experience meeting crazy people and weirdos that I didn't expect to find."

Example Nr.6: "I like to check trends in fashion and then see if I can come up with new ideas about how to dress myself."

Example Nr.7: "I like to invite friends to my house and then play different weird songs to see how they behave."

Finally, if you have difficulties in applying your alpha masculinity when talking to a woman, you may use pictures of hot girls to practice before meeting them in real life. You can simply choose pictures of hot girls from the internet, put them in your computer screen and then talk to them with these techniques.

The funny thing about this exercise is that you may feel the same difficulties in applying these strategies to the pictures as you would in the real world.

Imagine them also talking back to you, and practice the possible answers until you feel comfortable enough to apply them in real women.

More important than memorizing ways of talking to women, is to develop the confidence needed to express yourself. The rest will come from your own instincts and experience.

There's no such thing as one secret formula to meet women and be successful with them, so you must experience everything by yourself, feel it in your body and absorb as much wisdom as you can along the way.

# Where to meet women

You can meet beautiful women anytime and anywhere, namely, a bus station, coffee shops, clubs, colleges and even your own bank. But there are environments that increase your chances and others that decrease it. Therefore, you should search for areas in which people actually expect to meet strangers and make new friends, and tend to be more receptive to that, such as a garden, the beach, gyms, conferences, seminars, language courses and organizations, including religious ones. And, although you can subscribe as a member of something, being a teacher increases your chances of meeting many beautiful women by 10x more.

I don't particularly like to teach, but teaching a language to adults assumes a completely different dynamic. And it was when I decided to accept an invitation to do it, in a city in which I used to live, as a part-time job, that I got more hot women dropping on my lap, and faster, than during the previous two years that I was trying to find them. Besides, the most adventurous had a great opportunity to ask for my number in front of a bunch of people without seeming like they were flirting.

Even though I must admit that this situation can create a normal confusion, and some teachers are even fired for writing to their students things that they shouldn't, my doubts about the hottest in class vanished when she sent me a message to my mobile inviting me to see her striptease show.

It's relatively easy to crate your own language corner and teach a language to adults but, if it's not in your best interest to do it, you can always use another of your skills to do the same. Just remember that some activities attract more women than others.

If you have no idea where to go, search the internet for seminars and clubs, go to universities to find information about events, and try to match your personal interests with your choices, as it's much easier to find women when you are motivated in what you do.

From personal experience, I can tell you that business seminars tend to attract the hottest, richest and brightest women.

In what regards gyms, you can check them first to see the members they have, do some classes to know the kind of girls that are doing specific sports, and, if after a few months you feel that you're not getting what you want, you can always change place.

The key strategy consists in being as much social as possible. Besides, even a group of men will eventually take you to meet hot women and encourage you to flirt with them, because that's what men like to do.

I've only had two friends that didn't know any single woman, and even they were in such situation by deliberate choice. One would close himself in his room every time his roommates made parties and invited girls to come. The other refused all the invitations that his only roommate, a teacher, made to have dinner with him and his female colleagues.

# How can your friends help you meet women

Organizing dinners for friends in your house is a good way to meet more people, and it doesn't really matter if your friends don't bring new girls for you. You souldn't even expect that.

Every time that a friend tells me that he wants to present me a woman, I know that she's far from being attractive, and, very likely, he's just doing it because he either wants to get me married or see how I seduce her.

Women, on the other hand, will only do this if they're happy with their relationship.

The reason why you would want to expand your social circle is exactly that. In other words, more opportunities to visit new and interesting places, meet new people, etc. It's much easier to meet new people if you're not alone, because it gives you what's called perceived value. If you approach a woman coming from a big group of friends, which includes both men and women, she'll definitely pay attention to what you say and show interest in being with you, because you're offering her a social experience, and women love that. It's the easiest way to meet beautiful women with the least resistance possible.

It's also advisable that you hangout with friends that are either married or in long term relationships, so that they don't scare your targets away.

Use your group as an excuse to invite women into an environment that doesn't have any pressure over them. It's the best way to invite any woman out, including the ones you find online, and get them to accept it almost every single time. You can even write to her "I'm organizing a small party at my place with some close friends. Do you want to come?".

Your house is definitely the best place for something to happen without much effort. Therefore, your focus should be in bringing women inside in any way you can.

Many women even told me that they only go to a man's apartment when expecting to have sex with him, so there's no better way to do it than by giving her a very good excuse for that.

On the other hand, you must make sure that your house is ready to receive women and you're ready to have sex with them. When decorating it, remember not to use too many colors or objects that can scare them away, and make it look comfortable, clean and simple.

Women are also very sensitive to smell, so you should use some incense before they arrive, to make the environment seem more relaxing and having a comfortable smell.

# How to prepare your room for women

As for what concerns your room, it should provide a path to where everything leads. It must have your laptop, cds, movies, books, etc. And, during any conversation regarding your interests and daily life, should help you lead women there.

Remember to also leave condoms nearby, so that you don't screw up things by looking too much and for a long time trying to find them. Besides, don't be afraid to even leave them at clear sight. In most cases, it may be even better.

If she seems shocked when seeing condoms, you can always say "oh, sorry for this" and put them inside a draw.

One way or another, by allowing her to see condoms, her brain starts processing immediately the possibility of having sex with you.

Nevertheless, there's a difference between this and sex tapes or toys. Because, for a woman, if your sexuality doesn't come from your social activity, but a private interest, you're just a pervert and she'll devalue you.

To be more specific, it's ok to leave pictures of ex-girlfriends pinned on a wall, condoms on the desk and a collection of dildos to use on her as decorative objects around the bed. But it's never ok to let her see your collection of porn, a sex doll or the poster of a naked woman that wasn't photographed in your own room.

Women are always intrigued by symbols, so it's fine to leave them in the room, but never leave anything spooky or childish at sight, even as decorative items. The most weird objects that I've seen in women houses and can tell you about, as examples of what to avoid, include skulls, even if unreal or not human, mummified birds inside cages, naked plastic models of human bodies hanging on walls, guns and pictures of drug addicted.

Apart from this, make sure that you can have relaxing music ready to be played once a woman enters the room. Your own compilation would be even better, because you may have to soften her before anything happens. Besides, I once forgot this, and ended up having the same song repeating for the two hours of sex that followed, not being able to take it out of my head during the next days.

# How to use the law of attraction to attract women

What you dream about can change the dynamic in your mind and the energy that your body emanates.

As one of my friends once noticed to his surprise, simply by changing his belief system, he could have, for the first time ever, women in the street looking at him with sexual desire.

This belief system is the primordial step before you even think about creating a new attitude to life and become an alpha male. It may be difficult to believe in something that you don't identify with and that's why you need specific strategies to help you achieve this purpose.

However, there's one strategy that resumes the best you can do in this path to obtain significant results and it's very simple to apply. Basically, make sure that everyday, before going to bed and when waking up, you can dream about having hot women in your bed.

Several scientific studies have shown that the brain can't distinguish between reality and imagination, but it's hard to imagine something that we can't consider to be possible. Therefore, to help yourself achieve this goal, do it step by step, by visualizing the whole process of meeting someone, receiving a positive feedback from her and then having sex with her. And, while doing it, imagine her saying how great you are and how much she wants you.

If you find this strategy difficult to follow or apply, create your own set of POV images to watch daily and help you build the visualization process.

Over time, these images and dreams will change the way you see yourself and help you build confidence. You may even start getting ideas about where to go, who to approach and how to meet women.

In other words, the more visualization exercises you do, the more your brain will help you when you least expect, to guide you towards what was previously visualized.

As the brain can't differentiate reality and imagination, there's a constant magnetism being created around you, that pulls to your reality everything that you consider to be possible.

You shouldn't feel frustrated if nothing happens quickly enough, no matter how much you try, because there's a proper time and moment for everything and everyone. Life can be very unpredictable, and this isn't a bad thing, if you transform such moments in great experiences.

I was once regularly dating hot girls for months without being able to have sex with any of them, so I had to give up. But, one day, less than a week after I decided to stop dating anyone in that city, and just one night before I had to catch a plane to another country, a very cute girl that I never even dated or talked to before, approached me to come to a small goodbye party that I was organizing for some friends.

That same night, after the party was over, she arrived drunk and at midnight, so I had to tell her "I'm sorry but everyone have went home already. However, if you still want to come, I still have cheese and beer for you". She accepted and the conversation ended up in sex in less than one hour.

The next day I lost the plane and she tried to be with me again. And, from one night stand, we ended up having a lot of sex for the following days, and developing a more serious relationship after that.

This story describes how unpredictable life can be. You can control your dreams but you shouldn't try to control your life. So, you should follow your instincts and never give up believing in yourself.

In fact, if I hadn't refuse a last minute invitation to work as a DJ during my vacations in that city, we could still be together.

# The relation between you and your experiences

Life is made of unpredictable experiences, but all these experiences match what we have inside ourselves, our inner believes and, ultimately, the way we conduct our life.

Many people have lots of things to say about attraction or love, but nobody has one single secret about how it works every time. In fact, most gurus in the seduction field would tell you to "try as much as possible, increase your probabilities of having more women, and, although you may be refused many times, you'll have more opportunities to have sex as well".

It seems quite logic to say this, but it also means that they know nothing more than plain theories about statistic.

You shouldn't just want to increase your probabilities, but also be ultimately powerful in your approach and be able to increase the probability of having women in your life every time you approach them and learn something new from such experience.

This book was intended to show you how to do it, how to develop your alpha masculinity and behave in a way that you can learn from each time you approach women. So, I hope that you can have as much fun in applying what was written here as I had writing it for you.

Meeting women is, above everything, a game, and games exist to bring us fun. And, if you don't see the joy in it, you'll always lose, because, for women, to play this game is something natural.

Apart from this fact, it's worth noticing that most women read books intended for men to learn how to seduce, but rarely a man will do the same about books written for women.

In knowing how to play this game, you gain the power to control it, and then play it towards the achievement of positive results, which in current times is very important in order for men to learn how to find fulfilling relationships with women. That's the whole meaning of developing an alpha power.

With this in mind, you should have the motivation to hunt the best female you can find and make her feel happy for being hunted by you.

The only way your love life will ever have a meaning is if you create one.
