Cheating Wives And Crazy Girlfriends
- [Narrator] Guys, I really
need some help right now.
I just found out my girlfriend
of two years had been
cheating on me with a guy she told me
not to worry about from work.
I really believed her.
Please help me.
I am crying so damn much and
I have nobody to talk to.
She was the only person in
my life who I really loved.
- [Narrator] You will find better.
It's not hard to do better
than a cheater and a liar.
It might not seem like it right now,
but you will be happier than
you have ever been in your life
previously, I promise you that.
Does she live with you?
Do you share a lease?
Start cutting her out of your life?
Two years is a long time for sure,
but better that than two
decades or girlfriend
instead of wife.
Dump her and planning on
getting ripped and successful.
It's the sweetest revenge.
- [Narrator] No, we don't
share anything thankfully.
She was pregnant before with my baby,
but we had an abortion because
we felt we weren't in the
right setting to care for a child.
- [Narrator] I think that
was the single smartest thing
you could have done.
No children tying you down.
Leave her and just stop texting
her and answering her calls.
Don't go back, don't reply at all.
Get ripped and try and do
better with life in general.
You were at a dead end job?
Hey Mr. or Mrs. Manager.
how can I move up or talk to
people that come up to your job
for networking connections?
I'm sorry, man.
It's the worst feeling in the world.
It's completely normal to feel torn.
It's okay to cry.
It will take time to get over
it, I wish you all the best.
- [Narrator] Hey fam,
first of all, sorry man.
Really sorry to hear.
Man, women do stuff like that.
They'll hurt you, lie
and do things that you'd
never think they'll do.
I know the pain is unbearable
and you think it's the end,
but just know there's
other women out there
that won't hurt you or lie.
My wife of 20 plus years
cheated on me with her ex,
then left him and lied to me about it.
I caught her on of all days,
Valentine's Day, texting this knucklehead.
Tore me up.
I'm still hurting from
it, but I focused on me.
I worked out and pursued my goals.
I cried too, for months because I'm more
in the end of the relationship.
But listen, she's not the only one.
There's millions out there that won't
pull that crap with you.
She did you a favor.
You don't need a CheaterX in your life.
Again, I know it hurts but move forward.
I know your heart feels ripped out,
stomped on, pissed on and
set on fire because of the
distress and disloyalty.
Yeah, it's messed up.
But like I said,
there's more out there
that won't lie to you.
This is your red pill moment.
Take it and understand
the dynamics of a woman
and how they function.
Sorry, bro.
It hurts, but you can pull through.
- [Narrator] It just hurts so damn much
and I have literally no
one to talk about it with,
I really loved her so much.
She was my everything and
she did this crap to me.
- [Narrator] Sorry to hear
that, happened to me too.
She cheated on me two
times then broke up with me
after we were engaged
and to top it all off,
she then started dating my best friend
who is also my cousin.
I got over it and I'm actually
happy it happened in the end.
It was really tough to get through.
I couldn't sleep for a month,
but here is what I did, hope it helps.
One, cry and grieve, it's totally normal.
Two, eat right and hit the gym.
Three, occupy your time, get a hobby,
hang out with friends,
If you are bored, your brain
will go back to the pain.
Four, don't contact her again.
I made that mistake and got back together.
That was the worst mistake I've made ever.
Don't be mean to her
or anything like that,
just cut off communication.
Five, search for "The 3% Man" audio book,
you can find a free version online.
Hit me up if you've got some questions,
if I can get through this, so can you.
Turn this energy into something positive.
Good luck.
- [Narrator] Sorry to hear that.
Quote, "she was the only person in my life
who I really loved," end quote.
The best advice I can give at this moment
is to start loving yourself more.
- [Narrator] Cry it out, man.
Will be hard to feel better.
Don't force yourself out of
these feelings as with time
they will inevitably subside.
Focus on yourself and your own wellbeing.
You can do this, bro.
Hey man, I'm so sorry.
It's a really terrible
thing to happen to you
and good people don't deserve that crap.
This isn't going to be
easy to hear right now
but the best advice I can give
you is don't take her back.
I don't know whether she's
wanting forgiveness or whatever,
but a cheater is a cheater
and if she's done it once,
it'll happen again.
Do not, under any circumstances,
let her talk you round and round.
Don't even see her if you can avoid it.
Take your time, it really is heartbreaking
when something like this comes to an end.
You might feel sick, empty
and like there's no point,
but I promise you, it goes away.
There are people out there worth your time
who will love you and respect you.
And it might seem impossible
but you will love someone again,
as much as you did her, maybe more.
Realizing you were wrong about someone you
thought the world of is
hard and it might make you
feel stupid, but you're not.
Some people are deceitful by nature
and being a trusting person is a virtue
so don't let this ruin your
outlook for the future.
I really am so sorry for you
and the next few days and
weeks are going to be hard,
but you'll get through them
and you'll be all right.
Hit me up if you need to talk.
- [Narrator] You deserve
better and you will get better.
Cheaters and liars don't go far in life.
You will find someone who
you can trust and love
more than you did your cheating ex
and who will love and trust you as well.
Stay strong and stay safe, bro.
Well, just leave her and block her
out of your life completely.
No reason to keep in touch with her.
The sooner you did it, the
faster you can move on.
And if she tries to
make excuses, ignore it.
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
She did it once and chances
are she'll do it again.
I'm really sorry this
happened to you, brother.
You deserve better.
Don't know if it's good advice
but just let it all out.
Spend an evening by yourself
and accept that you're allowed
to feel bad and cry.
Staying strong is important
but allowing yourself to be
weak once in a while is crucial.
If you need anyone to talk to,
who's had the same experience,
feel free to message me.
We got your back.
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