Hi guys my name is Shallon and I'm here to
help you with all the questions you might
have about love, lust and romance and everything
in between.
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Girls I know that sometimes boys seem kind
of mysterious.
They don't really say what they mean.
They don't communicate very well.
But if you know what to look for you can read
a boy like a book without him ever having
to open his mouth.
Here's a few tips when it comes to boys body
language.
There are a few good signs you definitely
want to look for that shows a guy is in to
you.
Number 1, he's looking at you in the eye.
Seems obvious right?
Although you might want to cut a guy some
slack if he's not directly making sustained
eye contact, it could be he's just nervous.
Another good sign is if he's mirroring your
body language.
If you put your hand on your head and he does
the same thing this is a good sign.
People who are truly in sync often match up
their body language and when people are really
connected they will match up their breathing.
Interesting right?
Another good sign is he's got his hands in
his back pocket.
A lot of guys get fidgety when it comes to
their hands so cut them some slack on this
one too.
If his hands are in his back pocket then he's
opening up his chest like a man, like a tarzan
man, and pointing it towards you the chick
he likes.
Also, in the same vein, you want his knees
to be facing towards you.
Basically his whole body should be turned
to face towards you.
A lot of guys sit with their legs splayed
wide open, I mean come on ladies I think we
all know what that means, so even though it's
not the most well mannered thing a man can
do, it is a good sign when it comes to flirting.
Some sign not so good.
If a guy is rubbing the back of his neck,
going like that, that means he's feeling pressure.
He probably does not like the conversation
your having he kind of wants to get out of
it.
If your confronting a guy about something,
maybe your asking him if he's cheating and
he touches his face when he's answering, that's
also a bad sign.
That means he's lying.
Like he's unconsciously trying to stop the
words from coming out of his mouth.
Bad.
And just like I said before if a guys posture
is mostly turned away from you that's not
great either.
I see so many girls out on dates who are turned
like this to their date and just hanging on
them and the guy literally has his arms crossed
and is facing away.
Not a good sign.
So with a little practice you will be able
to pick up on these things quicker and quicker
and get a very good idea of where your romance
is heading.
