to radio talk show host that run a
self-help talk show called the pursuit
of happiness were found dead in their
shared in new york
home on monday
their names are lindros and and john
leading apparently they had committed
suicide an entire week prior
by pingbacks over their heads and
breathing feeling and until they were
dead and authorities in financial week
after the suicide so
these are two people
regular call and shouting
about the pursuit of happiness
one of them's the psychiatrist or a
psychologist i think uh... yes i got
their past
frequently encouraging her callers said
accept changes in their lives
transplanting its activities and um...
they took their own lives
is so obviously suppossed but obviously
has often like
unless it is a bit of irony here great
there an irony here but maybe we'll look
at the f
in a reasonable way
earliest people trying to support arafat
like many people are with this kind of
cults
of of
false positivity and an american culture
that is great but by proper barber
aaronawright called and breaks i did
haven't had are positive thinking
movement is destroying america and i
think in a portent
point that she makes in this book is
that
falsely trying to force happiness in
places where does it belong
doesn't allow you to get at the root of
some of your issues and ultimately i
think
singing
like we're always in a great place
and not actually dealing with the things
that are bothering us
can lead to tragic consequences so
there's a whole wide world movement of
something we're talking about earlier
today uh... elected to the story about
legal you put something positive on the
board only a dream board little press
yeah yeah yeah i have a
and so it's i'm conflicted about that
sutherland side i really think that if
you
state your goals are when you tell
people on this one that i do
you what's more likely to really believe
whether king is terrace pointed
they don't like i'd be happy
and and also you want school
something that's not just the anyone
really hot
word immediately collect one day
and in the foot of the good to know what
or go back to sleep better category
but i'm not going to be false happen
have to be reasonable for a u_-two
accomplish because if they're
unreasonable and you put so much
pressure on yourself
and yourself open about it and tell
everybody in your life
you you struggle for and then you don't
think she vagal you can actually having
the opposite yugoslavia's two things
first thing is don't set reasonable
goals that's don't do it
because uh...
you only constrained by the by the size
of your brain wants to bring expected
never regains former shape
so think big to somebody else's doing
big things grow steady impact call for
almost a contact comments and relieving
centers like most she thinks that you
cannot hector studied when jen start as
soon as i can publish or not we love the
watching that some of the what what what
what given reasonable gaultier's scarlet
letter
either talented individual who's
interested in these stories and if i
make a show on the internet hopefully
people will watch it so be on a cellular
now i'm going to be the end of the
scissors in person here with his many
but
and it is definitely unreasonable to say
i will do a show or do people my
opinions that everybody will watch yes
like we're not saying i don't want to
know that for everybody does not watch
this show ok lots of people watch the
show but everybody does not and right
now
it reasonable isis of course do good
hazel st show great unfunded federal
delightful as legal together unit
it was almost resolving about what to
say that and so but it doesn't mean that
you said i would get a billion in taken
application that i would say
which that also was it like it when you
first set out to have the so-called
ready to to say
you might have said i hope that it has
been that distant future i'd get to a
place where i can get a billion views
but for right now michael is going to be
to hire some producers to get a set to
do all the sick you you actually set
achievable goal of yourself and military
decision decision disastrous potent
and so i had that
the micro goal okay look bad to them
together in terms of use forgive the
sins to showed up and out this is very
talented debbie but he headed up the
board and you can make things work lucia
heads of my goal to validate so that we
get to show their right but
anytime anybody asks especially in
interviews i said
our goal was to dominate me
death not anywhere near state that it is
but
dot body org so serious when i get that
really
and so is it makes it so they think it
will lead to the macro you don't do the
micro you're a loser
innovative and it'll be one of your here
right at your bureau and you already
it's coming from a place where you
actually were successful in that you are
one of the few
one of the c_e_o_
who is able to achieve something like
that he thought big no
and it's a bit anybody who thinks
biggest of knowing that american
exceptional ism
bolstered new
that causes so many people
to take their own lives
i think that there's a really good
example of this
i and idea back when i was at huffington
post i did a story about the power of
positive thinking and i talk to you
and an oncology physician
and he talked about how much pressure
people have
with terminal cancer have on them to
constantly say pops a positive and to
say i'm gonna make this i'm gonna beat
the cancer even though the artwork
grossly not in their favor and how
megadeth that actually had an impact on
them to always was deposit for their
families joyce would pretend like they
were in a good mood and he found that
the measures of satisfaction of their
lives in those last few months and years
when they could just keep honest with
themselves and to fight with cancer
today socks that i want to talk about it
so much better for that at least looks
like i have a good points about the case
of the number one is
but you can't be unrealistic you can't
say like
okay i was in the sense of things you
cannot do it cannot be done and he
writes i have never became hard action
right he's an heiress like that so i see
it or or paris hilton head right
applications area so i thought it was
like are really positively i think
that's why i think it'll fly in
millions would grant you that it up to
the wwww dot don't do that
so the cancelling that my guess is that
i got something someone about it now do
my best
but the size society sprite if i get
what you mean the doctors who work this
thing out of our and if i don't have to
keep a positive lemony enjoy everyday
have god but it is one of his now about
an american excesses of pine i'm a huge
patriotic door
and i believe in friday and i don't
believe in the inner exception was among
the new york consulate overt sexual so
we don't have to have more output half
of all the landlord several because god
made us cry and i said yes
but i believe it you know that
that weekend habit a society where we
give equality opportunity not results
for the opportunity people
and then people get shot
and then they can have a chance of have
their own
whiteboard and then work their way up to
every single day go to the senate it's
not an accident that we have a very good
flight in the aftermath i think i think
we could have that society but i don't
believe we do have that society that's
the unfortunate thing i don't believe
in the rags to riches story
i think that the very few with the one
percent to tell that story
are not represented at
of the millions and millions of kids in
this country who are born into
impoverished neighborhoods
who don't have the same chances
as those who are more well off
connected yeah alright
pockets of those animals so and i think
here d
what you're saying is also correct you
have to send it a noble goals will also
have to have a huge gulf you have to
have what they called a definite this
purpose so what does your overarching
goal in your life whatever that is and
then you have the seventy two mobile
seek their and it doesn't matter what
plans you have to get there 'cause if
you find out the rom can change them
and the reason i say that you have to
think big because i knew i came from
work everybody thought small jacket from
a very blue collar neighborhood very
everybody work with their hands
where they were criminals
and when i said that i was going to move
to los angeles
and get a comedy central special on the
big time comedian like george carlin
everybody said i was immediate including
by comedian friends
sulfide isn't all that and i think
people like c six cd by the people who
thought they could
and it's that old saying the god thinks
he can in the guy who thinks he can
provoke right darryl it's it's up what
you have like the masses said attainable
you can't say how could it be a
millionaire tomorrow yeah you have to go
by goal in life is to do this and that i
would start working towards it
and then things will manifest but
there's a lot more thing you talk about
yet to tell people you're gonna do it
they did a study and they found out that
that's not always the best thing to tell
people to do it because they find out
the people who tell people what they're
gonna do often more often than not don't
follow through with that new reason they
they say is because you get certain
satisfaction
i'm just telling somebody what you're
going to do so kinda columns you're
urgency to do it don't tell somebody
you're going to do it and she said but i
mean you when you actually do it and
also you feel worse when you've failed
that's of any when you fall off the
wagon and everyone notice and on and get
them
much farther fall yeah i i feel slightly
different ideally i'd tell people what
to do
and when i finally do it
especially if they didn't believe me it
was a great moment of moving due regard
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