16 Body Language Signals He's Attracted To
You
Although some signs of a man’s romantic
interest are obvious, there are others that
are much more subtle.
From his head to his toes, here are sixteen
body language signals he’s attracted to
you:
16.
Smile -
This is one of the more obvious body language
signals that a guy is into you.
If you see him look at you and frown, well,
that’s never good.
However, if he flashes you a big bright smile,
you’re in luck!
This means that he probably finds you attractive.
You’ll be able to tell whether or not his
grin is forced.
One way is to look at his eyes; if they’re
creased upward along with the corners of his
mouth, it’s definitely a genuine smile.
But, if his teeth are showing and his eyes
are glaring, you might want to shuffle away
quickly; either he’s not into you or he’s
getting ready to attack, and you shouldn’t
stick around to find out.
15.
Walks With You -
This sign will most likely occur after you’ve
already met your crush; you two have had a
conversation or you’ve been friends for
awhile.
Whatever the case, it’s a signal you’ll
want to pay attention to.
When you are walking together, does he tend
to stay in front of you, behind you, or by
your side?
If he’s in front of you he might care more
about himself than he does about you, and
nobody wants an egotistical brute.
If he’s behind you, there’s a chance he’s
interested in you… or if you don’t know
him, he might be stalking you.
But, if he is walking next to you and maintaining
the same pace you are, it’s a sure-fire
sign that he’s attracted to you.
He cares enough to slow down and stay by your
side, so he probably wants to be close to
you and maybe initiate a conversation.
14.
Tiptoe -
Although a man’s feet are probably not the
first things you notice when you’re talking
to him, you should start looking down because
they can be a sign of his attraction… or
lack thereof.
If he points his toes your way, it’s a signal
that he likes you.
If you look at a guy’s feet before he begins
talking to you, they can even be a foreshadowing
of his intentions.
Is he busy conversing with somebody else?
Maybe he’s looking at them, but are his
feet facing you?
If so, this could mean that he plans on leaving
that conversation and approaching you next.
This is also a great way to tell if he is
not interested.
If he’s talking to you but his toes are
pointing to the side, and he’s not giving
you his full attention, he’s probably getting
ready to take off.
So, glance at his toes every once in a while
to see if they’re facing toward you.
13.
Pupils -
This is a body language signal that can be
backed up by pure science.
There was an experiment done in 1965 to test
the response of individuals’ pupils when
shown revealing photographs of people they
found attractive.
When a heterosexual man was shown pictures
of a naked woman, his eyes dilated.
This suggests that the pupils react according
to whether or not someone finds who they’re
looking at attractive.
The research demonstrated that the pupils
dilate when seeing somebody attractive and
that people find others with dilated pupils
more visually appealing as well.
So, not only can you tell that he’s attracted
to you if his pupils look huge but you’ll
look more pleasing to him if you think he’s
cute.
It’s a win-win situation for both parties
involved!
12.
Eye Contact -
Another way to tell if a guy is attracted
to you is by where he’s looking.
It’s normal for a man to look you up and
down to check you out, of course, which is
a sign that he’s attracted to you; but,
another place he should be looking is directly
into your eyes.
If he makes eye contact with you, it’s a
strong signal that he thinks you’re good-looking.
If the two of you are having a pleasant conversation
and he keeps eye contact throughout it, then
he’s into you.
You can also tell if he thinks you’re attractive
if he catches your eye from across the room.
Let’s say you are on separate sides of a
club, you lock eyes, and he continues gazing
at you; this means that he’s probably getting
ready to come and say “hi.”
However, if a guy is looking everywhere but
at you, then it’s safe to say he’s not
interested.
11.
Begins Talking -
Another way to tell if a man finds you attractive
is if he places himself in your vicinity;
this is probably to be close to you and to
begin a conversation.
If he starts talking to you or tries to initiate
a discussion, it means that he’s attracted
to you.
He wants to get to know you better and be
close to you physically.
If he’s shy, he might not introduce himself
first.
So, it’s more important to note that he
has intentionally put himself next to you,
most likely with the intention of catching
your eye and sparking your interest.
Don’t be afraid to introduce yourself in
a situation like this… if the attraction
is mutual anyway.
10.
Legs Apart -
This one might seem a little strange… and
suggestive.
To be honest, it is a little suggestive, but
a man usually isn’t doing this deliberately.
Another signal to pay attention to concerns
how a guy is sitting.
If he is sitting with his legs crossed while
he’s around you, he might not be interested
in you; however, if he is sitting with his
legs open, it is a strong signal of his physical
attraction to you.
First of all, it means he is making himself
vulnerable.
If his legs are open, he isn’t concerned
about protecting his sensitive areas from
you, and he’s letting you know that he trusts
you.
Secondly, this posture is implicative of his
feelings; if he sits with his legs spread,
it not only implies his physical interest
in you but also means he wants to know you
on an emotional level.
However, if things are getting a little too
risque, go ahead and let him know.
9.
Happy -
One more signal to keep an eye out for is
a man’s overall attitude when you step into
the room.
Does he smile?
Do his eyes light up?
Is he genuinely happy to see you?
This is one of the biggest telltale signs
that a guy is attracted to you.
It should be easy to tell whether or not he’s
delighted you’re there; he’ll be upbeat
and positive if he is.
However, if he’s grimacing, frowning, and
looking the other way… you should probably
move on to the next one because he isn’t
interested.
Of course, there’s always the chance that
he’s nervous and uncomfortable showing his
enthusiasm, or he’s trying to play it cool;
if that’s the case, then pay even closer
attention to the other signals mentioned in
this countdown.
8.
Hands on Hips -
Even though a man might do this at other times
as well, it’s still a strong sign that he’s
into you.
If he’s facing toward you with his hands
on his hips, he probably finds you attractive.
Just like when he sits with his legs apart,
this posture leaves him vulnerable.
The torso contains a lot of sensitive areas
that human nature drives us to protect, so
he is placing his trust in you if he’s leaving
them open.
But, if he has his arms crossed, then he has
placed a barrier between you; whether or not
it was intentional, it’s a sign that he
isn’t interested in getting to know you
better.
Having his arms at his sides also makes him
appear more approachable and draws you in;
so, if he’s doing the opposite, then you
might want to stay away.
7.
Leaning Toward You -
Another sign you’ll want to give your attention
to is a man’s posture while the two of you
are talking.
Does he lean in closer to you every chance
he gets?
Maybe he’s a bit closer to you than anyone
else would be in the same situation.
If you notice that he is leaning his body
toward you, it’s a big signal that he finds
you attractive; this is an attempt to get
to know you on a more personal level mentally
and physically.
Leaning closer to you allows him to give you
more of his attention, and he gets to see
you in more detail as well, which he’d only
want to do if he finds you physically appealing.
However, if you notice him leaning away from
you or facing the other direction, then it
means he’s not into you… or you’re in
serious need of a breath mint.
6.
Restless -
An additional signal to look out for is if
a guy is acting restless or can’t stop fidgeting.
Women do this all the time too around guys
that they find attractive; they’ll often
play with their hair or their glass.
Although a guy won’t usually twirl his hair
around his finger, he will fidget in other
ways.
His restlessness will be visible; he might
start tapping his fingers, moving his leg
up and down, touching his neck or face, or
swirling his drink around.
Whatever the case, this means that he’s
probably nervous around you, which, generally
speaking, means he’s interested.
Although in some cases nervousness can mean
the opposite, you should be able to tell the
difference.
If he appears impatient, he might not be into
you; but, making these cute gestures is a
glaring sign that he thinks you’re attractive.
5.
Raising Eyebrows -
This body language signal is very subtle,
but if you’re looking out for it, you’ll
start to notice when a guy is attracted to
you by how he moves his eyebrows.
Although too much eyebrow movement can result
in a creepy, Johnny Bravo-esque vibe, the
right amount will let you in on whether or
not a man is interested in you.
You’ll want to look for raised eyebrows;
if a man lifts his eyebrows up when he glances
at you, it is a positive sign.
This can apply to one or both eyebrows.
However, if he pulls his eyebrows down into
a stern glare, then you might want to get
out of dodge because he’s probably not interested.
Plus, doing this means he probably doesn’t
want you to approach him, whereas lifted eyebrows
make him appear friendlier and ready for conversation.
4.
Watching You -
If you notice a guy paying close attention
to you and watching you from across the room,
then it means he’s attracted to you.
If he’s watching you from the shadows, however,
he might be a stalker… so, it’s important
to know the difference.
If you’re at a club or bar and see a handsome
man consistently looking at you throughout
the night, there’s a good chance that he’s
interested in getting to know you, and he
might even approach you later on.
But, don’t be afraid to make the first move.
This signal also applies to a guy you’ve
already been talking to.
When you get up to do something, does he keep
his eyes pointed in your direction?
He won’t want to look away from you if he
finds you attractive.
If you turn around quickly while walking away,
you might even catch him in the midst of a
longing gaze.
3.
Gentleman -
Another simple way to tell if a guy likes
you is by paying attention to his small gestures.
If he is chivalrous and acts as if you’re
a princess, he most likely finds you attractive.
This can show itself in several different
forms; he might open doors for you, hold your
coat, or take your hand to lead you through
a crowd.
No matter which of these things he does, it’s
a sure sign that he’s interested.
However, if he closes doors in your face or
displays no signs of doting on you, it most
likely means that he’s just not that into
you.
2.
Protective -
Another signal to look out for is if a guy
appears protective of you.
This sign can also come across in several
different situations.
If you’re talking to another man and he
makes it a point to butt into the conversation,
then he’s probably attracted to you; he
doesn’t want you to flirt with someone else.
Even though this can be annoying if you aren’t
interested in him, it’s an obvious sign
of his affection.
This also applies to coming to your defense.
If he notices that someone is being rude to
you or continues trying to talk to you after
you’ve turned them away and he comes to
your side to back you up, then he probably
finds you really attractive and wants to be
there for you.
He might even keep you company for the remainder
of the night.
1.
Touching -
This is perhaps the most recognizable sign
that he’s attracted to you.
If he finds you physically appealing and is
interested in pursuing a romantic relationship,
he will make every attempt he can to touch
you.
This doesn’t mean inappropriately, but he
might graze your arm, touch your leg, or even
try to hold your hand.
It means that he wants to be close to you
physically and emotionally.
Plus, he’ll be able to tell if you like
him back by your reaction.
