Hi There! Christina here and welcome to the
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Tell me this: Have you ever tried so hard
to forget something or someone? Maybe you
felt this thing is against your values or
beliefs. It could be as simple as a song-
a nice reggae, dancehall or hip-pop if you’re
a firm Christian or it could be a guy that
broke your heart and it’s like the more
you try to get it out of your mind, the stronger
the thoughts get; every smell, taste, sound,
dream or image remind you of it or him. That’s
because, as Carl Jung says, “what you resist,
persists”.
See, the Unconscious wants to be heard and
recognized. There are parts of you that, if
you allow to be, has such valuable lessons
and gifts to give. These parts can be integrated
into your life and bring about balance. Sometimes
you may see things as unbecoming or selfish
but you’ll find that they have their place.
Maybe you do need that aggression to surface
so that you can finally channel it into saying
‘no’ to those energy drainers in your
life so that they can stop walking over you
or you may use it to stop bullshitting yourself
and get a new drive of motivation and momentum.
Maybe if the pride surfaces, you can start
taking credit for the work you’ve done instead
of hiding in the shadows or you can accept
a sincere compliment, just saying thank you
instead of forcing it off onto another.
But all this pent up force, you either project
it unto others or you feed it through denial.
You see, when these inner friends don’t
get recognized, they may become destructive
and present in different forms: physical illnesses
or diseases, distress, difficulties, anxiety,
depression, feelings of rage and more. So,
acknowledge them and slowly get to know them.
Observe yourself and when you recognize some
little things that you don’t feel are “you”,
pause and acknowledge them. It may be a negative
thought, an insulting outburst or maybe it’s
someone else who calls you out on something.
On the other hand, it can even be more positive;
you break out in a dance, creative spurt when
you’re usually so introverted. Don’t shy
away from it; these are little soul messages.
And that’s why you keep singing out in the
shower, or dance when no one is watching and
all the little things only you know about,
it’s like you have an urge to feed whatever
it is in the dark.
So, make it a priority to learn more about
yourself. Surrender to the journey for whatever
you will discover so that you can have a more
balanced, meaningful and fulfilling experience.
Friend I hope that you found this little reminder
and tips helpful. You remember to subscribe
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me hear from you in the comments if you can
identify some of your little soul messengers.
Bye for now
