Did you see how different the handshake is now? He gets into a much more natural position.
His hand is still a little higher up than it probably should be but now he's just giving this part of the hand.
He's just giving this front part of the hand
because then if you give this
front part of the hand, there's not so
much you can do really.
Whereas if you have this, then you can go into this kind
of almost twisting somebody's arm type
of movement, an armlock.
But with this, there's less you can do.
What are you gonna do about this? You just have the fingers. So he's
just careful to just present the fingers.
And I think there's a very important
lesson we can learn from this. Because if
you do these dominant moves, that's what happens.
People will start to not trust you that much.
The level of trust goes down. You may feel strong in the situation at first but
people remember this and
because it is a memory that's in the
body, even if they don't know consciously
why they don't trust you
subconscious they feel "I gotta be
careful with this guy. I'm not gonna give
him my hand the way I used before. So I'm not gonna go like fully in. I'm just
gonna give you a little bit." So that's
what happens. These dominance moves
that Trump does, they do have an effect
and the effect is negative on the long run.
He feels strong at the moment because he needs it. it's his thing.
It's his personality thing. But
it doesn't have the effect that it
creates trust or a stronger relationship.
Now the Prime Minister's more careful he
just dips his fingers in so to speak rather than giving the whole hand or a full handshake.
Now he ends up with a thumb up again
because he knows he's not committed too much.
He still wants to give some
positive feedback at the end.
So the whole interaction was perceived as a positive one.
Now Trump is asked an uncomfortable question. It's so uncomfortable that he goes
totally into internal mode and he withdraws himself and presents some kind of
automatic response. He doesn't really
react he never looks at the reporters.
He's just talking on. You can still see his whole attention
is away from the Prime Minister which given that
there's a different question now kind of
makes sense but he's still like in his own mode.
Now he's facing the reporters for a brief moment because
he's noticed he's not really interacting
with them so he says something
that is in his mind at least
positive that is like acknowledging the
situation so he faces to them. But he
immediately withdraws his gaze into some
empty space and is with himself.
But looking at them again.
So he's kind of gathering his thoughts
and then he's looking to them, gathering
his thoughts, looking to them again.
That's the kind of moves he does.
And he guess this not because he says "Agree with me! Agree with me! and always kind of "Hmm I've got it!"
So he makes this face as if he's eaten something really bitter.
So there's this feeling of sadness. He's
sad about the way the interaction went.
He is not really comfortable with it and he wants this to end right now.
He uses his shoulder movement to shake off the
weight that would be on his shoulders,
the responsibilities. It goes like it was
a very fault, so he shakes it off. That's
what this shoulder movement kind of implies.
I'm shaking off the weight.
Now he turns to them and he kind of goes like Mike Pompeo is
going to be an incredible Secretary of
State. He looks at them for a
short moment to impress that message but then he withdrawy back into himself.
He's got some wonderful ideas and this head
movements... How wonderful would they be? Wow for the most part they're probably his ideas.
So I don't know and he talks
about a lot of people that he's getting with.
Let's see how that goes.
"So there always be change." "So there always be change."
There will be change but I shake off the responsibility for it.
They will be change but I'm not
responsible. It's it comes off my shoulders.
But he says they will be
change, so it's not gonna be that stable.
There's a very exaggerated and false story so get away with this.
He's not agreeing with himself in a way.
They'll always be change so he always
evades this kind of statement about
change.
"And you want to see change. He wants to
see the change. He's nodding.
He's gonna be outstanding. He talks
in a monotone way about somebody who's
gonna be outstanding. By the way
outstanding is the word he uses a lot
it's that's interesting. But he doesn't
use it with a physical backup to it.
"I'll talk to you about it later."
Thank you very much. The conversation is
over. He's not looking at them.
It's not "Thank you very much!" "Thank you very much." "Thank you very much. The conversation is over."
And then at the end there's a short
confrontation. He looks at everybody and
goes like "Thank you. Thank you. Thank you." And back to himself with this defensive move again.
And he's still shaking a little bit.
He feels like "What am I gonna do is
this? What am I gonna do?"
How am I gonna open up like now I'm happy. No, I need to stay protected.
They're still coming with questions.
And now it's getting more aggressive "Thank you very much! I don't want to answer any questions.
So again the question about a next trip. It could happen. It can happen. He was being asked
about coming back and he said that's
possible. That could happen.
It could happen doesn't mean it will
happen. He's just kind of being evasive about it.
Let's see what happens 
next because it's gonna be very interesting.
So they asked maybe before the next
election. It could help.
And now he's smiling to himself. He's happy about himself.
It could help. His presence of course
will help but the body language of the
Prime Minister of Ireland is very
different he looks himself. He smiles.
He's not gonna say anything. But he
doesn't think it's gonna help and you
And while he replies he shakes his head.
No, it's not gonna help. But he tries to be friendly.
You can see he smiles but his smile isn't really very congruent.
He kind of smiles with his face but he doesn't smile with his eyes.
His eyes are like down there.
I think that was very very interesting.
There were a lot of situations where you
could see how the interactions between
those two people went. We can see the
interaction of Trump and how where and
where he did not feel comfortable. This
kind of thing. We also saw how his body
language and his actions and his
statements affected the Prime Minister
of Ireland. And that's very very
important to understand in any form of
business negotiations or in a therapy
setting or in a coaching setting or in
any private situation, we just want to
talk with friends, how what you do and
what you say and your body language
affect them and how they are feeling
inside so you can have the best possible
reaction and the best possible
interaction and the most positive effect
and influence on them and on the
situation in general. It's very important
to be we're aware of this minute and
sometimes quite obvious influences. We're planning to do quite a series of
videos on body languages so it is like a
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