in this video I'm going to give you
seven body language tricks that will
make you look confident even if you're
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into the topic seven body language
tricks I'm promising you that will help
you to look confident even if you're not
and you know what we've all been there
we all have situations when we don't
feel confident and what you need
sometimes is just literally a few tricks
to help you look confident for a while
and then interestingly enough the way
that our body and our mind and our
feelings interact very often when we
start to look confident we start to feel
that we look confident and then we start
to feel confident and that's all you
want being in the long term now at the
end of this video I'm gonna give you
something even better okay so make sure
you watch till the end so the first
trick I don't know why this works but it
does work so when we don't feel
confident we often like to put our hands
in our pockets and I don't think there's
anything wrong with that sometimes
people say you should never put your
hands in your pocket but I don't agree
with that to be honest if you always
just hold your hands next to each other
next to you you can also look a bit
stiff so sometimes it just feels right
to put your hands in your pockets right
bit like this here's a trick when you
just get your thumbs out of your pockets
but you keep the rest of your hands in
your pockets somehow that looks more
confident look at this in-out in-out
it does instantly already feel more
confident it's very strange
I don't understand why I wish I could
cite some study from Harvard or
something but I don't know I don't have
it my suspicion is it might be because
we've seen lots of westerns but guys
have their genes the Cowboys you know
they've got their hands in the pockets
like this and then the thumbs are out I
don't know maybe that's why it is and if
you know the reason why this looks more
confident and cooler somehow then do let
us know in the comments okay now the
second thing that you can do with your
body language to look more confident
pretty much even though
you're not confident inside is to just
open up your chest and just do whatever
you can to open your chest look this is
the area where people feel the most
insecurity where you're the most
vulnerable so when you open this up you
show that you're confident because
you're not afraid and when you can show
that you're not afraid you come across
as confident this is a big takeaway
actually so write that down or something
that's all you have to do not be afraid
and you come across as confident the
third body language trick that you can
use even though you're not feeling
confident inside but you know it will
probably make you feel more confident as
well is actually it's you just take your
legs a little bit further apart if
you're standing with your legs next to
each other just just edge them a little
bit further apart he would just feel I
guess a little bit more like John Wayne
again a bit more like cowboy it will
just make you feel a little bit more
stable and just a little bit more on top
of things a little bit more like the man
now if you go too far of course you're
gonna look a little bit silly okay so
just a little bit you just do enough so
that you can feel it and that it still
looks natural okay but you'll just be
able to take up a little bit more space
and that can give you a great feeling of
more confidence the fourth trick is the
following okay it's also got to do with
your stance no sometimes when we feel
unconfident we kind of stand very stiff
right so whatever you can do to find the
most comfortable position that you feel
like sinking into is always great so we
think least amount of effort that will
make you look more confident but here's
the thing I really like a position like
this so I have one leg behind and the
other one sort of up slightly off to the
side and if I'm talking to somebody I
would talk to somebody over there and
that's actually a really natural way of
communicating with somebody but this
position with a weight on the behind leg
is really comfortable and confident and
then if you combine that with the hands
in a pocket with a thumbs out this is
good this feels good this looks good and
you know you look like you're in charge
of the situation
and quite relaxed with it the fifth
trick is actually I just snuck that in
there because it's so important it's not
a body language thing but they
basically find somebody to communicate
with when you are in action when you
started get interested in somebody out
there when you're starting to focus on
somebody else you get less
self-conscious and it always makes you
look far more confident so if there's
anybody around if there's somebody in a
club or in a bar just you know talk to
the bar man or the bar girl or anybody
just make sure that you communicate with
somebody and that will instantly make
you look and feel and just come across
more confident okay rather than standing
there by yourself trying to look
confident the six body language trick I
wanted to give you is something that has
a lot to do with psychology again it's
about showing that you're not afraid
that you're not scared of people so what
can you do well when you communicate
with somebody if you want to look more
confident just do this open your arms
show the palms of your hands it shows
that you trust them and when you show
that you trust other people it shows
that you're not afraid of them and
whenever you're not afraid of people and
you can show them that they can see you
as a confident man because after all as
I said earlier being confident really is
showing people that you're not afraid of
them and if you think that that makes
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seventh tip when you see a guy's smiling
at something or just having a slight
smile on his face do you think he's
lacking confidence no right in most
cases when you have a natural small
smile on your face because you're amused
about something like you look like you
own the world right so that's the
seventh tip that I have for you find a
way of having something to smile about
my favorite way of doing that is to ask
yourself what's funny about this or
what's the musing about this those are
amazing questions find something to
smile about you look more confident so
now you have seven body language tricks
that will help you to look confident
even if you're not how would you like to
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