So I don't typically do a whole lot of videos
like this.
I mean, this is a teaser text, I would call
this like basically this is in my paid content.
I'm creating a course called masculinity blueprint.
And I teach men how to actually handle their
dating game like men.
Now the thing is, is I made this module This
is the first one of the course.
This is like a teaser.
Essentially, what it is, is I find the content
so valuable, so good.
I think it can help you.
I just want to post it on YouTube too.
Okay, so this is a freebie.
Yes.
45 minutes.
Use this as a podcast.
Use this as an audiobook.
Take everything you can get away from this
because I lay out some pretty crucial things
that men need to start to understand.
So enjoy.
Everybody, Casey
Zander here, and welcome to the very first
official training module.
So if you made it into this fall already good
thing your committed, you know, because most
people would stop after those first couple
of introductory models, and realize, hey,
this isn't for me, or I don't know, if I'm
cut out for this, if you're ready to jump
into number one, this is the very first training
section.
So I titled this one today, what it truly
takes to win.
And we're going to be covering everything
on this slide, mixed with some couple notes
that I'm going to give you guys throughout
this entire training.
So there's some misconceptions we have to
address first and foremost.
Now, here's the deal, fellas.
the dividing line between poor, unsustainable
results has nothing to do with tactics.
There's so many men out there that they think
if I could just learn this one cold approach
tactic with dating or if I could just learn,
you know, some unipi, elation tactics or some
pullback tactics, or I could just figure out
how to say the right thing with the right
tone of voice in the right time.
All of a sudden, that's going to Make her
attracted to me.
And the men that think this are very naive.
And the men that think this have also kind
of been maybe into a few too many books or
YouTube videos or other men straying them
from what true attraction is felt as attraction
cannot be
negotiated.
You have to realize this in order to be an
attractive man and maintain attraction with
that certain someone, you have to carry yourself
as if a masculine attractive man would.
Now I'm going to kind of be hopping into this
entire slide because you're going to be learning
a lot of things throughout this before we
get into tactics or how to actually deal with
women.
Fellas, you know me, we have to fix the man
first.
So realize this, this is the most important
shit and no other dating coach is going to
tell you this.
There is no other coach out there that's going
to sit you down and tell you to get yourself
in check first, before trying to teach you
how to handle women.
Better why is that it's because that doesn't
mean what I'm doing doesn't sell this does
not sell but the traditional approach of you
know three bullet points sleep with XYZ women
in XYZ days in guaranteed or money back saying
XYZ pickup tactics that sells
okay the truth hurts
but this is specifically why I kind of want
to help you guys is because I think that people
need a little dose of the truth when it comes
to attraction and how to you know find that
special someone or actually find a counterpart
in general.
now realize this fellas, we must fix the man
first.
now realize this fellas, we must actually
fix the man first.
Now what I would like you to imagine is I
would like you to imagine Tom Brady running
plays versus you Okay, so what I mean by this
is over here we have TV right we got Tom Brady
now we got your dumb ass or my dumb ass or,
you know we could put you here we can put
Cz here for Casey Zander,
whatever the hell right?
It's all the same.
Now, what you must realize is Tom Brady running
plays versus you running plays in theory,
right in theory there should be no difference.
Tom knows.
Tom knows all of the plays and NP or Kp knows
plays you Kp you know the players.
Right?
He studied.
You've studied, you know, the whole or he
knows the whole offensive line, you know,
the whole offensive line.
But guess what?
He's better.
He's more disciplined even though you know
what to do what's going to happen?
Is that when he performs you are not going
to have what he has.
And obviously this sounds like a very clear
cut obvious thing.
But see, this is what everybody applies to
dating.
Everybody applies this to dating they think
if we could learn this thing right here, and
we could learn this thing right here, and
we could learn this thing right here people
are like, walled off well now I cracked the
code and now I should be Tom Brady.
It doesn't work like that.
Okay, it does
not work like that you cannot just learn a
few tactics and be ready to enter the field
fellas what we have to do is we have to put
in the work the sacrifice the discipline to
make ourselves Tom Brady first.
So that way when we learn the tactics we learn
the approach we learn how to keep a seductive
frame we learn masculine energy will all of
that fits into the bill.
But fellas, you got to make yourself a superstar
first you got to make yourself cut out for
this so here's what you got to know about
me this is not a self help program.
This is not some whoo whoo law of attraction
bullshit.
This is not some emotional support emotional
tampon Facebook group or we're going to get
together as men and bitch and complain about
women in bitch and complain about how hard
it is to find a counterpart or anything like
that.
This is for a group of men who are ready to
work.
This is for a group of men who are okay with
the current situation and are willing to sit
in the fire for a little bit.
And just because they're willing to sit in
the fire, does that mean they're not going
to get results, it just means that they when
they do get results, they're going to actually
be able to sustain it.
So this is this is what most people subscribe
to.
Okay, over here, we have self help.
Over here we have
MP for masculinity blueprint, okay?
Self Help, it's going to tell you that
you have to rely on the law of attraction
that sometimes it's just meant to be Or that
there is the one for you.
Okay?
You just haven't found it yet.
Self Help is going to get you to believe a
bunch of emotional things to try to give you
some emotional support to lead you down an
emotional path with women.
When all of these things right here the exact
things that women do not want in a man women
do not want emotional men, they might tell
you they do.
But guess what happens when that man starts
cracking feelings, fellas, she is the emotional
one.
Your job is to remain strong dominant and
masculine 24 seven.
Now masculinity blueprint.
Here's what we're searching for.
We're searching for the truth.
Okay, we just want the CTX This is called
the cold truth.
So I'm going to tell you exactly what keeps
women attracted how to create attraction and
how to make sure she says seduced.
Because at the end of the day, what you're
really wanting is you're wanting to find a
female counterpart for intimacy.
So self help is going to give you That shoulder
to cry on, Casey is going to tell you to do
the fucking work.
And I'm going to help you with this.
Because the fucking work is baby steps, the
fucking work is over time.
But not only that, we're also going to teach
the tactics that come with this.
That's the thing.
I'm not against learning female nature and
learning how to, you know, seduce women the
right way and learning how to become more
confident.
But the problem is, is if I just give you
emotional fluff and filler, it might sound
good on paper, but when it comes to real life
application over here, you're going to crack
and it is not going to work.
So we have to actually just start, you know,
beating around the bush and we have to actually
think about what confidence and what masculinity
is.
So here's the thing, I'm looking at you like
a car.
Okay, I'm looking at you as output versus
efficiency.
Meaning I don't necessarily care about your
emotional State.
I've already said this.
But if you're, if I'm looking at you through
output and efficiency, guess what's going
to happen?
Here's you, you're the car right?
Couple wheels on this thing.
If we look at this thing as performance, right,
we might, we might want a bigger engine.
We might want
more horsepower.
We want better transmission.
Okay, these are measurable things.
measurable amounts of success.
Okay, now how most people try to get women
is over
here.
They look at they look at the things that
you can't see.
They look at emotional support.
They look at being a nice guy.
They look at being caring and being passionate.
They look at, you know, doing what everybody
in Hollywood tells you what just so you're
going to find the one in the white picket
fence.
And all of a sudden settle down and women
will just love you for you.
And if you're in this program you kind of
realize this is all bullshit over here.
Because just like this car is designed for
output and efficiency you as a man, like ma
n, OK, not little emotional girl upset because
she didn't text you back.
Like man, men have strength.
Okay men have discipline.
Men need to work if men do not put in the
work, whether that be with themselves financially,
spiritually, whether what they're they're
driven and passionate about like fellas, you
don't if you don't have the grit right here,
you don't have any of the engine any of the
horsepower, any of the key things that is
actually going to keep a woman attracted because
as you're attracted to her for being a soft,
sweet, feminine, intimate woman, she's going
to be attracted to you for everything opposite.
Okay, she wants polarity in the relationship,
not the same.
She can get a nice little cupcake anywhere
on Tinder.
But deep down she wants a man.
So thanks, rapist and the number one crippler.
Okay, this is what I hear a lot with men is
they just think this deep down they think
how can I be amazing with women without doing
anything hard or without sacrificing anything.
And the reason why this is the number one
crippler is because men have subscribed to
the narrative that something is wrong with
them, and that they can just fix it by learning
things and understanding the words and the
verbiage behind it.
But when it comes down to the nitty gritty,
they will not do it.
For example, if you have a person who's severely
out of shape, they have a fixed identity about
themselves.
They just are going to go I am fat.
Okay, I'll never be able to get fit.
I'm fat, and they think they can't get out
of it.
Well, men think I am how I am.
And I just can't find any female counterpart.
You know, maybe I should learn something superficial.
Maybe I should just try to drink dress better
maybe I should try to learn pickup tactics.
Maybe I should do any of this bullshit that
won't get me success.
But nobody actually thinks about, hey, what
if I actually worked a little harder than
most men?
What if instead of worrying about the entire
playing field and all of the other potential
men that she might meet?
What if I just go ahead and I make myself
the very best possible option for her so I
don't have to worry about these things.
Because fellas masculine drive is going to
keep you grounded throughout this entire game.
And as we push along through this as well
make much more sense now realize this, okay?
Most avoid the truth.
Most just avoid the cold, hard truth.
And these are the biggest male misconceptions
that I hear all the time on the phone when
I'm talking to clients.
They will say things like she will, I wish
she would just love me for me.
Or they think, you know, if they'd be very
nice, they'd be very caring.
They're very sweet to women.
That it will equal respect And sex from them
that it will equal her feminine intimacy to
him as a man.
Or they think if I just do one more fucking
honey do list.
If I send her one more Good morning text one
more good night text, if I'm just that one
nice guy in her life, she'll just reward me
with her intimacy.
It doesn't work like that.
You know, or another big misconception is
men will be like, well, she's the one.
And the reason for that is because they think
she's the one because they can't get anybody
else.
They think she's the one.
But let's like let's take a second and look
at this.
There was the one you lost your virginity
to.
Right there was the one you got a first kiss
from.
There was the one who was a freakin bed.
There was the one who didn't let you hit it
until the second month you matter.
Like you get what I'm saying these women will
put up blocks and he'll play games with you
if you don't understand why they're coming.
If you don't know why they're arising, you
are going to be in for pain.
Because what you must know is this being a
soft, sweet Gentlemen, like the movies will
show, that will not work.
But men think that it will.
There's a big misconception.
They just think if they do what Hollywood
tells you and subscribe to those narratives,
they're going to have success.
Another huge misconception is men often say,
Well, once I get the girl, I will be happy.
And you see, this is all broken because men
are using women to try to fill this emotional
void for them.
And when a man tries to use a woman to fill
that emotional void, the problem is that he's
broken as a man, and he just doesn't know
how to put himself back together.
So what's the result?
Well, the result is going to be emotional,
heartbroken men that are acting in a feminine
emotional state like women.
And these men nowadays are so desperate for
love desperate for intimacy, desperate for
affection, which is why all of these men never
receive it.
Now, you might think Casey's a dick.
You might think of me like Casey, your total
dick.
Like I can't believe you're saying I'm too
soft.
I'm too sweet.
But think about it for a second.
I've coached over 350 men, every single man
I've ever heard telling me that they're looking
for love or looking for intimacy or looking
for a relationship.
I've never found one that has actually found
it.
Not one.
And many of the answers and my solutions,
you guys are going to involve removing, stopping
and making ugly decisions that you probably
do not want to make.
But you must realize this working hard.
Sasha tactics are not the problems like those
are easy.
It's easy for me to give you a pickup tactic
and say, Hey, push pull with this girl and
tease her a little bit.
Say, Hey, you know, like, I kind of liked
your eyes, but like you're kind of giving
me this weird vibe because you haven't laughed
at one of my joke and it's making me uneasy,
right?
Like I can give you a pickup line.
I can get you to say something to give her
an emotional result but like that's not going
to work.
Because those are the easy things.
You got to realize that the sacrifice and
the truth is hard.
If you're constantly getting turned down by
women, the fact is that you're probably just
not attractive.
You're not an attractive man.
And that's okay.
Nobody is born attractive.
You know, there's a few men who naturally
are great with women and know how to come
off from an attractive masculine frame.
But for the most part, fellows, 95% of men,
we're going to have to do the work, we're
going to have to sacrifice and I'll get to
this work later on.
Now,
you must look at hard truths and address these
problems, because as a coach, here's what
I see going on.
I see a lot of men at 22 making the exact
same mistakes at 25.
And then a lot of these men at 25 are making
the exact same mistakes at 35.
And then these men are making the exact same
mistakes in the mid 40s.
And then by now they're divorced.
And then in the 50s, they're going What the
fuck?
Like, where is this all going backwards?
Where am I messing up at Because they're not
addressing these problems.
Now listen learning pickup.
And the attraction tactics are the easy part.
I've already said that, like, those are the
easy things I can give you lines, I can give
you all that stuff.
But if the man behind these tactics is a flawed
man, if he's a broken man, if he's a man that
doesn't have these pillars of excellence aligned
in his life,
we're actually screwed,
that you will not get women you're actually
screwed.
And if you do get women, you're going to be
relying on cheap shallow bar hookups the rest
of your life and reliant on alcohol without
false confidence.
That is not what I want as a coach.
Now, this is the paradox of success, okay.
We're gonna have to talk our way through this
one.
It's a little bit longer of a topic, but Kobe
Bryant's going to come into this.
Okay, I'm going to use basketball as an example.
So get this Imagine you're a basketball player
rising through the ranks, okay?
And you're really, really good.
And you're going to get into college basketball,
you're going to be a deep athlete, and you
got into college ball how well you did it
simply by just being better than high schoolers.
And how did you do that?
Well, you did that because you were physically
and mentally better.
Like, against all the high schoolers in that
field, you were just better.
This is why you see some guys in their younger
years, they're great with women as they get
older.
They are shit because it's a bigger pool now.
So get this now you want to go pro.
But here's the problem.
The problem is that everyone is really good.
And being really good is really, really hard.
Which means even though you were really good
in your younger years, the thing is, is to
get to that next level of success.
You realize all men want it.
All men want that cute girl all men want that
good sex.
All men want that woman to give him her intimacy.
But if you want to get to the point 1% you
must be able to actually beat the winners
head to head by the end.
You must be better than the rest of the men
do you get this.
You have to to put in the work to be better
or you're going to keep getting the exact
same result.
realize this is once again this might sound
harsh I don't give a fuck start realizing
that the dating game and the sexual playing
field is a fucking competition.
It is you versus me.
It is me versus you it is me versus every
other man.
When it comes down to it, we're all animalistic
to some sense and it is a competition for
who can actually succeed and procreate you
don't have you don't have the God given right
to procreate you have to make yourself a man
that is actually able and strong and she views
as a sexual viable option.
Not a nice guy.
She can get a nice guy anywhere walking down
the street.
Now this is the Louie Vee method.
If you watch my youtube I might have mentioned
this on YouTube once or twice but I'm a huge
believer in this Okay, so this is the Louie
v method.
You're going to love me
as Louis Vuitton.
This is every other mall kiosk clerk.
Okay, so we got
this hot girl She's 27 years old, beautiful
and she has an idea of what Louis Vuitton
is going to do for her so she saved up 20
$500 she's going down to her local Nordstrom
and she wants to purchase a brand new Louie
bag.
She has every idea of what this is going to
do for her.
She thinks this is going to give her confidence.
She thinks this Louie Vega is going to give
her status.
She thinks it's Louie Vega is going to give
her emotional support and she thinks that
this Louie bag is going to make her look rich.
Okay now notice there's no salesman that had
to sell her Louis okay there's no salesman
that had to sell her Louis she she has this
this conception in her head of what Louis
Vuitton will do for Louis is a premium product.
Louise fucking premium.
Right Louise like the baddest for the baddest
bitches they save up.
They want it right.
Now let's look at everybody else.
When she walks down the mall to get to Nordstrom
or to get to Louis Vuitton she's going to
get hit with four different clerks.
She's gonna get hit with this first cork selling
her michael kors.
She's gonna get hit with a second clerk
selling her Kate Spade.
She's gonna get hit with a third clerk on
her Chinese off brand.
She's going to get hit with a fourth clerk
selling her
and think of anything, what's a purse brand?
Let's just say JC Penney's, even though it's
probably not a purse brand, but you get what
I'm saying.
Okay, so here's the thing, all four of these
clerks have to use game.
These guys have to use game
and pick up.
what they're trying to do is they're trying
to use words over here to seduce her to purchase
Sing one of these even though she wants Louie
Bhutan.
Okay?
But in her head she still wants to be Bhutan
and by you practicing game and you chasing
all these women on Snapchat and Tinder and
thinking that your words can do it for you,
you're fucking up because it's a hell of a
lot easier just to go and make yourself Louis
baton.
Okay, does Does that make sense?
Like if you were a better option, if you were
like a better viable option, she would respect
you.
And the Lu v method is when you actually take
the time to make yourself better because this
is the this is the dividing line.
Okay, you versus the other men look at look,
and let's start at the bottom for a second.
There needs to be more like dude seriously
like this is what men have became up here
everybody's the exact same you got the same
basic beliefs.
Other men have the exact same basic beliefs
these men drink fucking beer these men drink
fucking beer.
This guy plays video games all day.
This guy plays video games all day.
This guy just goes to sports bars waste his
time.
This guy goes to sports bars and waste your
time they both hate their job, have no purpose,
nothing, nothing to do financially with their
job.
They just do it to get by.
They're both just trying to get a date hitting
on every single girl they can.
But here's the difference.
Oh, you you think you have game?
This guy has game right here.
And this guy doesn't.
If the only thing
that is a difference between you versus them
if the only thing in this dividing line is
fucking game, do you realize how flawed this
is?
This will never work in real life.
This woman after a while when you talk like
if you talk to this woman for more than an
hour, she's eventually going to know that
you're full of shit, and are not confident.
And this is what men have became and this
is what men are subscribed to.
It's a broken system.
Now here's the problem.
Your competition is not only as smart or smarter
than you, the ones winning are optimized.
Do you get that if you look at me for an example
Okay, I'm optimize Not only do I know these
techniques and these tactics and these talents
to help get women but I've also really taken
a hard look at myself as a man and tried to
perfect my body perfect my charisma perfect
my career, perfect my finances to the fucking
brim because I actually understand that there
has to be some sort of excellence behind my
words.
If there's no excellence behind my words,
everything that I'm saying is full of shit.
And you're not going to be confident just
through saying the right things because guess
what, fellas?
Your body your brain does not have a reason
to be confident.
Because now if we get back to the Colby situation,
if we get back to the professionals, you're
no longer trying to beat high school kids.
You're trying to be Kobe Bryant and Kobe Bryant's
going to do everything to outwork your ass.
Now,
optimizing and disciplining yourself comes
down to beating other men so you're a better
option.
Like I said, the sexual market market field
is A competition.
And yes, this is needed to make game right
here game and pick up.
This up here is needed to make this work.
If you don't have this, this is flawed and
you're going to be pissed off that you even
bought this program.
But like I say Have no fear because uncle
C is going to show you how the hell it's done.
I'm going to help you kind of get focused
here.
Now realize this.
This is life or death to your happiness.
Because your girl that you want will eventually
find the man that just does it for her makes
her wet seduces her makes her fall in love.
But like Why the hell Shouldn't that be you?
Why shouldn't that be you actually?
Shouldn't that be you?
Like what do you have this any different than
me?
What do I have this any different than you?
The only difference is about putting the work.
I've actually understood this stuff, but this
can be you.
That's what I want you to realize it's just
it's crucial to your own happiness.
Now let's go back to Kobe Bryant for a second.
The reason why he is The best is because he
takes every single advantage beyond his talents
and tactics.
Notice I put this on quotations because this
is the only shiny object everybody's focused
on that no other NBA player has.
And when I say every advantage we mean like
every single advantage.
Colby takes the ice the ice baths twice a
day he's in the gym lifting weights twice
a day he's doing the speed work the footwork
the agility three times a day if you if you
think you can go pro with just the talents
and tactics alone without taking all these
advantages it just will not work and that's
the reason he's Kobe Bryant and here not are
all the other people in the NBA or not.
Now here's what I need you guys to realize
throughout this program is that this is not
about being a nice well liked guy.
It is about being attractive.
And there are two very different things and
nice well like guy she's gonna go at the end
of the day or at the end of the night go Yeah,
he's so sweet.
Gina text is aspect.
It's about being attractive.
This over here is the guy that gets her wet.
This is the guy Who was between her legs just
gets turned the fuck on for us because this
guy just has it figured out.
I'm trying to get you to be that guy.
Now the internal traits of men need to be
built.
Okay?
If they're not built,
you're going to be screwed.
Because daddy never taught you that you have
to do the work.
And that's why you're lacking the confidence
is because you live in this sugar coated state
and society.
Everything soft, everything's just okay.
It's okay to do anything.
It's like no, you need to start doing things
differently.
Because you got to realize this, every guy
will give her love and affection.
But why is it that you specifically
deserve her intimacy?
Okay, why is it that you deserve it?
Here's what you got to remember.
When it comes to attraction
and go 1% mind
versus 99
percent line.
Okay, now get this if you do, this guy over
here does what this guy does.
If you do what the mass majority of men do,
you're just going to get the mass majority
of results.
What is the mass majority results going to
be HP for heartbreak?
It's going to be no path.
No focus,
no discipline.
And because of that, we have no men.
No men
and women are searching for this strength,
which is why you have to be a one percenter.
The thing is, is that they just can't find
it.
They can't find it at the bars.
They can't find it at the clubs.
They can't find it at the fucking parties.
It's because men were doing what 99% of men
do do not have with the 1% of men have These
men over here a strong, dominant, rational,
disciplined, have great work ethic, kick ass
in life are fucking winners.
By the way, it's seducing women is like the
least of the one percenters worries because
this down here just naturally comes because
they kick ass and all these other areas in
life.
This is a cold hard fact to a lot of you guys
you're either a winner you're not.
Now if you're timid if you're shy or you're
not confident, you need more than just attraction
and confidence tips.
And I'm not going to draw this one out, because
I think I've already described it.
Like, you need more than this, because I can
give you tips but tips are nothing.
tips are nothing when it comes to dating because
tips just fill your head with a quick amount
of information and when you go to provide
them in real life application, you're fucked.
Now if you look at me 18 to 22 First I'm going
to explain to you this transformation that
went on the reason why I'm even making this
content is because right here, I know exactly
what it's like to not only be shy and timid
and hate what you see in the mirror.
But I know what emotional path comes with
this and I know what it's like to put in the
work.
Now over here, I was shy, I was timid, I had
no balls to actually go out and take take
on the business ventures that I desired or
anything like that.
I sure as hell couldn't talk to women and
you know why?
It's because my head deep down right here
knew that I was not good enough.
I knew I was not a viable option.
I knew that there was nothing about this kid
that was sexy or attractive or and make women
turned on.
So what did I do?
I turn a blind eye to women for a little bit
and I put in the work.
Until one summer I realized I was one of the
best options.
The reason for this is because I was the only
one putting in the work.
I was the only one actually tackling these
things.
Because you got to realize this fellow's Body,
Mind work ethic finances, all your shit together
and all aspects of Life.
I mean, that's what makes you masculine.
That's what makes you confident.
And let me ask you, what does it look like
here to make this transformation actually
happen?
Does it look like I was drinking beer?
And bitching about love like everybody else?
These four years in between?
No.
Because I'm going to give you the confidence
breakdown right here.
This is the confidence breakdown.
Well, the CB confidence breakdown.
So you have to realize that, number one, you
have no reason
to be confident.
The reason why you're lacking confidence is
because you have not done shit with your life
yet.
If you've done shit with your life, you'd
be confident.
If you got that job that you've been trying
to get for the past 18 months, you'd have
something that you're confident about if you
you know, if you built your body from the
ground up, you would have something to be
confident about.
Let's say you are Good looking even GL good
looking, you've had prior success with women,
PS prior success.
Guess what your actions are repeatable.
So since you've had prior success in your
mind, you're probably thinking now I'm confident
enough to get the girl because I've already
been there before.
The problem is, is that none of you have been
there yet.
And the reason why these women keep flaking
and keep pulling back on you is because you
are not putting in the work your brain is
telling you, hey, do not
approach
do not approach.
I'll just put a PP here for time reasons do
not approach because your brain knows you're
not good enough.
When your brain sees or your brain thinks,
hey, she's out of your league don't even look
her way.
Don't even smile.
The reason for that is because you have nothing
to be confident about because you're not doing
the things that you have to actually be the
1% the 1% of men that are doing things differently.
Now, these trades
allow you to optimize yourself better with
women.
Okay, even compared to guys who are naturals
with women.
Let's take that back for a second.
These traits allow you to optimize yourself
better with women.
What does this mean?
This means if you're doing everything Kobe
Bryant did, you're taking the ice baths.
You're working out three times a day you're
doing the hill sprints, you're doing the agility
work, you're doing the coordination work,
guess what, you're going to be a hell of a
lot better than the guys who are just naturals
and good with game and good at talking to
women, you're going to beat the shit out of
them.
Because once again, you just made yourself
Louis Vuitton.
You made yourself the guy
in her eyes
that she wants to get with and you will absolutely
kill them when it comes time for selection.
Because this is a competition.
start realizing that you will win.
Now discipline and focus Let me ask you How
many times have you checked your Facebook
as I talk or your Instagram or your cell phone
because this is going to
tell you something?
This is going to tell you something about
yourself as a man can you Focus Do you have
drive can you learn I'm telling you ask yourself
how many times have you checked your phone
since I've been on camera with you Now the
difference between tactics working and not
working is this
was bullshit
so here's what we're gonna have tactics okay.
This is this number one tactic is going to
be game
number two is going to be something like cold
approach.
Three is going to be affirmations.
For is going to be attraction laws.
Okay.
Now, if you have one guy who's putting in
the work You have a second guy who's putting
in none of the work.
And they both do these things.
Who do you think will get success?
There's I'm trying to get you to realize if
this guy's doing all the work this guy's bettering
himself.
Getting to below 10% body fat, making sure
his passion, career money, everything.
Like maybe this guy's banked three years of
income where he could just fly off to Italy
for a week if he had to.
Yeah, a lot of you guys go that's not possible.
Why the fuck isn't it?
Why isn't it possible?
Why can't you be that guy that can stack up
and save?
Because guess what, if you're embarrassed
about your finances over here, if you're embarrassed
about your living situation, if you're embarrassed
about how your house looks, if you're embarrassed
about the car you drive, guess what?
You don't belong, using tactics to women,
you belong getting your shit together.
You get that if you're if you're in this course
and you got a grand in your bank right now
like Dude, why don't you just focus on being
number one?
Why don't you just remove yourself?
From the field a little bit like get it together
first get your body in check man, get your
get your life in order.
If you're drinking beer and
pizza on weekends, dude, like do something
that the one percenters would do.
Do something that the 1% of mine would do.
And that's how you're going to succeed.
Now listen, mastering masculine energy.
Men need to be aware of how they spend their
time where they put their energy, how they
work, where their focus is headed, and only
then will you actually give the body a reason.
To feel more masculine.
You have to give the body a reason to feel
masculine.
Okay, the body is not going to feel masculine.
for the hell of it.
This is what you need to realize, here's men,
here's women.
Now, men are made.
Women are born.
If she's born cute, if she's born flirty,
if she's born curvy.
She will get male attention for her whole
life.
But men you see, we have to do the work because
if we're born just good looking.
It's typically not enough.
Because women do not fall in love like men
do.
Women are going to fall in love through all
of the disciplinary traits that she sees in
you.
Your work ethic,
your drive, your dedication.
This is why women like men with money because
men who have money typically have these because
it's not like a fairy just popped out of thin
air and fucking gave the guy some money.
You get this the reason why money is attractive
is because the man behind this money typically
has some shit going for him.
Now stop hating how the game is like you got
to realize women want the quarterback they
want the superstar if you're a high school
athlete, and you're you're on the you're on
the varsity team like Yeah, she wants you
because you've made yourself a man in a way
Why do you think she wants a low status low
value man, she doesn't realize this I'm looking
at you as a race car member.
I'm not looking at you as an emotional man.
I'm looking at you as a race car.
But here's what you got to realize a Lamborghini
with bad gas in it is slower than an 85 civic.
It's just facts.
I want you to optimize like a fucking machine.
Like you have to cut out the beer.
You have to cut all the pizza, you have to
cut out the video games, you have to cut out
the porn you have to cut out all of this shit
that is holding you back from just becoming
Tom Brady of your own life.
Does that make sense?
Now
this is going to be my last drawing board
method right here.
Because this video I don't want this video
to take too much of your guys's time.
Now, here's what you got to realize.
I say that I'm looking at you as a car and
a car his whole purpose is to get to a to
be in a race.
If you're looking at NASCAR or something like
that you're trying to get to a to b as fast
as you possibly can.
Okay, so where we start right here, what's
going to dictate how fast we get over here
is going to be everything that goes in to
your body.
What's going to be in your health, it's going
to be in your IQ, it's going to be in your
body fat levels.
Does that make sense?
So we can't have bad gas in the car.
Because if you think you're going to operate
at perfect mental clarity, and you're going
to operate as a high performing individual
to get to be as a man that is doing all of
these low level behaviors, you're essentially
screwed.
now realize this, this helps with approaching
women.
This is going to help with depression.
This is going to help with anxiety.
Like Close your eyes right now and imagine
if you got ripped, if you had your shit together
financially if you felt strong, able and secure
in yourself, and if you actually started putting
in the work because fellas, you got to remember
just putting in the work a little bit
will feel a hell of a lot better because it's
the journey not the destination.
Because if I just gave you all these things
if I just gave you steroids to get ripped
and I gave you a million dollars and I gave
you a perfect house with a perfect job well
guess what, since you didn't make yourself
a man to earn it, you're not going to feel
any different.
You got to get the feeling I'm trying to get
you the masculine energy and the discipline
by being better than you used to be.
Okay, so this is going to come from everything
your spirit has to be on point your focus
has to be on point you know, and this is just
things that bad game you know, you can't you
can outperform the head game.
That's the thing.
Everybody's so focused right here on tactics.
Everyone wants to juice, the bread, the butter,
they think tactics Give me the steroids to
talking to women.
And it doesn't work like that.
Because if you're a guy, if your guy with
all of these things going for him up here,
remember, like if you're way up here and you
you you put in the work you put in the work
Like, the least of your worries is going to
be the women.
So if you have all of these, you must realize
this, you will kill it.
And you see most men approach women and make
a total fucking fool of themselves due to
the fact that they haven't put in the work
yet.
So let's be real, most guys, the reason why
women are repulsed or they don't text you
back is like they're, they're repulsed.
Because chances are, you're looking like shit,
or these men.
These men dress like shit.
These men smell like shit.
And then these men are pissed that she didn't
text you back.
Now you want the cold truth of dating.
I'm just going to give it to you.
throughout this whole course.
We must remove all of the nonsense out of
our lives versus men and focus on us being
men first.
Focus on what will actually make us happy.
Okay, that's going to be finding love and
being masculine, being masculine.
So she has a reason to give you feminine energy,
not just short term pleasure.
Because you see men all have the same exact
desires yet nobody is talking about them.
Men all want to feel strong, secure, confident
in themselves able, manly masculine.
We all want to be respected and have status
but no one's to no one saying that.
Everyone's just selling the $67 package, 30
day pickup tutorial and boot camps, it's bullshit.
Now with my upcoming tactics, you will never
guess where you're at with women again, you
will never be left in the dust and she will
actually want to be with you no notice I say
with my upcoming tactics, which means I'm
going to teach you all of this throughout
the later weeks.
But
guess what?
It's a hell of a lot easier
when you try to make yourself the Lambo and
not the fucking civic
