I am about to share with you one technique
which will absolutely revolutionise the way
that you connect with other people. 
I am about
to share a body language secret with you which
will absolutely change the way that people
connect with you especially if they are meeting
you for the first time. You see we have special
neurons in our brain and they are called mirror
neurons and they activate when we see people
doing specific things, specific actions or
gestures or if we see things happening to
other people, it activates our mirror neurons
as a mechanism to create empathy with other
people, so for example if a man sees another
man, experiencing this Oooooh he will
automatically grab his own crotch as a mechanism
of empathy.
How many times have you seen someone get a
paper cut and gout ouch, everyone just
wiggles in pain because we know how sore it
is. We are built to want to feel empathy with
other people and our mirror neurons help us
to do this. Another really great experience
that we have all had when it comes to motor
neurons is when we see someone yawn
often people think that yawning is just to
oxygenate the body, but research has shown
that yawning activates mirror neurons in other
people and others start to yawn as a way to
create empathy. In fact I am sure that many
of you wanted to yawn right now. So here is
how we use this knowledge the next time you
meet someone, especially if it is for the
first time start to mirror them that means
that you can use the same pose that they use
when they start speaking to you, start to
use the same gestures the same expressions,
you can even mirror the way that somebody
speaks, their tonality, their rate of speech,
their volume.
We have kinaesthetic mirroring, peoples energy
levels, so that you can start mirroring someones
breathing levels to get the same kind of energy
and pacing as them and before long as that
person is sitting their talking to you or
standing next to you and speaking to you,
they are just going to subconsciously feel
good vibes, they just going to think to themselves,
there is something about this person. And
the reason that they will be feeling that
is because subconsciously they are seeing
a reflection of themselves in you. So start
to go out there and mirror people even if
you start in small ways by mirroring peoples
gestures and building up from there you will
find that you will be able to connect and
build a repport with people, build a connection
which is stronger and quicker than you have
ever been able to build with people before.
Its time now for the test run I was on a mission
to activate peoples mirror neurons starting
with my friends first. 
And then I moved on
to target others.
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