Hi everyone!
My name is Rita Gehman, and this video is
for Intuitive Woods.
And this is about the weaknesses of Thinker
personality types.
Now, this video already assumes that you know
what your personality type is and what that
means.
That you know about brain based traits and
about Thinker traits.
This video already assumes that.
If you don't know that, then go ahead and
check out my other videos, and find out those
things.
Okay, weaknesses of Thinker personality types
tends to be our lack of emotional intelligence.....
no, no, no, that's not correct.
The emotional intelligence has to do with
your ability to handle life.
Lack of emotionality, that's what I'm trying
to say...
Your lack of emotionality.
When you don't express and use your emotions
very often, when you don't tell people about
how you really feel about something.
When you don't express your emotions as you're
feeling them, when you try to keep things
pretty calm and suppressed a little bit, when
you do that, that's very typical of Thinker
personality types, when you do that, you're
denying other people from knowing your true
feelings and you are not exercising your emotional
muscle.
Your internal emotional muscle is your internal
strength of being able to use your emotionality,
your emotional capabilities.
So, the weaknesses of Thinker personality
types is the whole spectrum of not using your
emotions correctly and often enough.
The way to use them correctly is to use them
often enough that you start to understand
what is correct and what isn't.
Thinker personality types have just a few
settings of emotionality, High, Medium, Low,
and Off.
We're like the settings of a fan when it comes
to emotions.
So it's very important that you understand
that the more you express and use your emotions,
the more you're actually able to have more
than those three settings, and start to have
a spectrum of things.
As a Thinker personality type, you already
have all the pattern reading and brain based
traits that are very, very strong in you.
You already have a spectrum of those that
you can pick out.
Feeler personality types, they are strong
in emotions, and they have a spectrum of emotions.
But, the weaknesses of Thinker personality
types is that we don't use those emotions
that we are capable of using, because they
feel uncomfortable to us.
And I'm a Thinker, so I know what I'm talking
about here.
So, go ahead and start to express your emotions
more.
Now, you may start expressing them way high
and then way too low again and then way high
and then way too low again.
However awkwardly you start out, no matter
how long it takes you to do it, get there.
Start expressing your emotions more and more.
Practice, practice, practice.
There's nothing you can't get good at in life
if you don't practice.
You can practice anything in life and get
extremely fucking good at it.
So guys, practice your emotions.
Everybody with Thinker personality types,
brain based traits, logical, rational thinking,
pattern reading people, all of you people
need to get out there and practice your emotions,
because, as a fellow Thinker, as somebody
who knows where you're coming from, for many
years, I did not understand that Feeler personality
types were fifty percent of the population.
I thought that most of the population were
like me!
And so I never expressed my emotion, I thought
that Feelers were way too emotional, and way
too "much of a mess" and it took me a lot
of time to get to where I was able to even
express myself remotely close to reasonable
when it came to emotionality and expressing
my emotions.
So, guys, get out there, do the work, don't
flinch from it, just keep practicing.
You may do it way awkwardly.
You may do it way too much and then way too
little and then way too much and then way
too little again.
It may be too negative and then too positive
and then too negative and then too positive
again.
It doesn't matter.
It does NOT matter at all.
Get off the couch and PRACTICE, PRACTICE,
PRACTIOE!
I don't care how awkward you start, and I
don't care how long the awkwardness is maintained,
still practice.
Okay, guys, I'm Rita Gehman, with Intuitive
Woods.
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