hey everybody I am so happy to be with
you live today I was so inspired to make
a video because right now in this moment
and this is when I know I really need to
make a video because I'm about to say
something that or I'm feeling something
or thinking something that's really
important that I need to share with you
all! and I have been running errands all
day long I'm so exhausted I've got a
glass of water I've got my book I'm
gonna sit and do nothing for a couple of
hours just to like regroup and I
realized that so many women have
messaged me that say they have problems
receiving arrows okay someone says they
can't hear me
sorry I hope thumbs up if you can hear
me so we can let the other person get
help anyway so people can't receive
arrows they have a great problem
receiving arrows women we feel guilty
receiving arrows we feel like we are
cheating on our partner if we receive
arrows we feel too shy to receive arrows
so what am I talking about receiving
arrows and what does this have to do
with getting a man to flirt with you
getting high quality men to flirt with
you so we have a couple of different
things thank you everyone
thank you everyone can hear me it's just
you okay so with feminine energy a big
thing that I want you to understand is
what you feel in your body is projected
to the man but men will go along with
whatever you tell them otherwise in
other words you can lie to a man about
how you feel and he will go along with
it and he'll be like okay that's cool
you're fine okay that's good and they'll
just go along with it when in fact what
you feel
you're not telling him because there's a
belief system going on in your head that
says I can't be honest I can't really
tell someone how I feel I have to do
this other thing I have to pretend this
other thing and that's where we get the
you know I'm fine I'm fine it's okay I'm
fine no you're not
and the guy knows it and when he knows
you're not fine but you're saying you're
fine he can't trust you
because he can sense you're lying to him
men are so so super sensitive and we
really don't talk about it enough how
sensitive men are but they're very very
sensitive creatures and they can tell
when a woman isn't really opening up her
heart to a man so while we go through
this quick video and we're gonna talk
about receiving arrows when a man flirts
with you he's sending you little arrows
it could be like just a glance it could
be a head nod it could be he's opening a
door for you it could be he's just how's
your day and hello there it's a flirt
it's an arrow now let's say a man is
perfectly happily married why would he
dare send a woman in arrow number one it
is his freedom to send any woman and
arrow he wants to it doesn't mean he's
going to go to motel six with her it
doesn't mean he's going to cheat on you
it means he wants to feel good so when
men's and women and aro
even if they kind of like half accept it
because we've all been there we've all
had that guy go hey how's it going and
we're like oh it's really good and we're
half accepting that arrow the guy still
feels good he still gets this little
boost of testosterone and when men get
that boost of testosterone they feel
good okay so do not be worried if
your husband or your boyfriend wants to
open doors for women I am always telling
Jeff I'm like get that door get that
door for that lady and he'll do it and
she'll kind of look at me and look at
him because she's in the mindset of your
husband's not supposed to be doing
anything nice for any other woman but
you and that is not true all right now
I'll get some of you with some really
reactive comments to that who have said
I've tried this and I got cheated on
you're with a toxic man that's not the
problem the problem is he's got
something going on not not that
anybody's supposed to be in a cage or on
a leash to be in a relationship so men
like to send arrows because they feel
good even if they get like tiny little
bit of feminine energy back so I was the
queen of when a guy was send me an arrow
and he's not my type I'd be like you are
crazy you are tripping if you think I'm
even gonna begin to pay you attention
and um and I always felt icky when these
guys would you know try to holler at me
I will never forget one day I was at kmw
cafeteria which is already not like the
best place in the world to eat but
everybody from work wanted to go there
this is years ago and this guy that was
working the line was trying to holler at
me and you know trying to flirt with me
and I'm just like it's this what my life
has become that a worker at K&W
cafeteria it's gonna flirt with me like
is this how bad it is for me right now
and the truth is no but that is where my
energy was that's where my energy was
right there I wasn't getting high
quality men you know flirting with me
and talking to me I was getting men
whose energy were down in the dumps with
mine alright so we're gonna talk about
flirting and accepting arrows
getting this from high-quality men and
how this works with feminine energy okay
so I'm totally exhausted today I've been
running errands all day and everywhere I
went I have had so many men throwing
themself at me it's been like crazy and
somebody just said how superficial no it
is not superficial it's what you want
it's either what you want or don't you
what you don't want that is your right
don't let someone else judge you or
label you for what type of man you do
wear do not want okay all day long I've
been letting men open doors for me help
me talk to me
send me arrows assist me explain things
to me and it's been wonderful I haven't
had to do anything it's been awesome
I've been getting sent so many arrows
and I've had so much small chat but
meaningful small chat because I've
allowed it to be meaningful so when you
accept arrows from men you to get a
boost you get a feminine energy boost
all right so the more and more you move
up the tears and this is what I call
moving up the tears every man that comes
in front of you even if he's the
gentleman that's just making your coffee
at Starbucks
he's an opportunity for you to practice
receiving arrows okay so he might just
talk to you because it's his job or he
may talk to you and kind of look a
little deeper into your eyes when he
talks to you it doesn't it really kind
of doesn't matter it's that you can
receive and when we have a wall around
us I'm only gonna receive from the type
of man I want to receive from and I'm
gonna exclude all others finally when
that man comes along and mr. GQ or
or whoever he is he walks in the door
and you're like oh
the guy hi hi there yeah it's a really
great day and it's you know and you're
all you know you're manic and you're all
over the place and your energy is like
boom coming at him and he feels it and
he goes whoa that lady looked nice but
her energy creeped me out so hopefully
you see what I'm saying you got to start
where you're at because that's where
your Energy's at so let's say I always
say it starts with like the homeless guy
outside outside your building first
thing in the morning he's gonna say to
you hey good morning beautiful and
you're gonna want to ignore him
and I want you to just get oh thank you
accept it
that's your first arrow of the day keep
moving keep accepting and just see what
type of man is sending you arrows by the
end of the day this is a great
experiment because a lot of women again
we're shy about receiving arrows we
don't think we should receive arrows
what if a guy goes hey you've just been
nice to me that must mean you want to
sleep with me no no your boundaries and
speak them when you need to so a lot of
women wear their boundaries on the
outside of their bodies instead of
having them on the inside and knowing
them inside your body so I want you to
be soft and receiving and feminine
energy on the outside of your body and
on the inside of your body you
absolutely know your boundaries you have
no problem speaking them in fact just
today with a client of mine we were
talking about how I say know your
boundaries I'm gonna change it to
rehearse your boundaries rehearse them
if a man goes up to you hey baby can I
get your phone number that's so sweet
I'm so flattered but no why not why
can't I have your phone number
oh I said no that's why and you walk
away
it's a boundary you've still been soft
you've still been warm and of course if
anybody is cuckoo crazy always get
yourself out of a situation don't
stick around and keep practicing
feminine energy tools on a man okay now
the other thing I want to talk about is
that some men feel guilty or weird
sending women arrows now I get a lot of
arrows from all types of men
I am always just so so flattered when
guys who appear to be gay to me they are
maybe with a partner and they have a
vibe or an energy I'm picking up on it
but they're more feminine energy men
even in homosexual couples one person is
more feminine energy than another in
most couples situations there's a
masculine and feminine energy so
whenever a guy does something for me and
he's more feminine energy man I am
always just so so flattered by it and so
wanting to receive that energy it's a
really wonderful feeling and they can
see that feminine energy in me and they
can feel it and they want some and they
want to absorb it and it feels good to
them alright and then you have some men
who are like if I look at another woman
if I talk to another woman it must mean
I'm going to cheat on my wife I can't do
that so I was in the park walking my
dogs a guy ran past me I'm like here
comes another arrow and he's running
past me he's like right head right to
the ground and I thought that poor guy
he feels like he can't look at me and
just go well there's a pretty lady and
hello anything going on around here
anybody I need to protect you from
anything happening you know that's their
energy mm-hmm and you receive it but I
think some men and also we're in a
situation currently where men can't even
give women a compliment because it might
be directed the wrong way or it might be
accepted the wrong way I love for men to
help me with load things in my car open
doors for me because I feel good when
they do it and they feel good boom you
move up a tier and the more tiers you
move up the more comfortable you get in
this wonderful thing that you have is
feminine energy the more quality men you
attract but you got to start with where
you're at guys start with where you're
at okay start with the guy at K&W he's
trying to holler at you don't feel bad
about yourself except to zero be warm oh
you're very sweet thank you for the
extra gams and then keep practicing on
other men that come your way all right
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have a question I'm looking oh you found
my glasses that might help right
so some people were just discussing
arrows like tuck it's a form of energy
and it's it's positive you can kind of
read a mind a guy's mind for a split
second sometimes when he send you an
arrow at least I can and it sometimes it
used to scare me because the first thing
that most men do is yes or no which is
what I sleep with her would I not sleep
with her and that's all men I think it's
just something in them it's it's
hardwired it doesn't mean they want to
sleep with you or they will ask to sleep
with you or they're planning on cheating
it's just this decision thing going on
in a man's head and in most cases it'll
be I'll sleep with you
and so translate that into I'm a
attractive woman that a man sees me as
you know potential reproductive partner
it's it's animal it's very animal but it
still has power it still activates
chemicals in our bodies it still does
good things for us okay Leah says my ex
who ended things with me on the 13th has
reached out to me by text on his own
accord this past week should I move on
not sure if I'm in the friend zone or
what so I have a program called the ABCs
to get him back that stands for absolute
best chances I give you the absolute
best chances to get your partner back
one of the things I teach you in that
program is that there is no instant
relationship when you're getting back
together you have to start somewhere and
it'll kind of look like friendship but
it's probably really a lot more like a
date or checking in on you and testing
the temperature testing the water and
that's what this man is doing he's
texting you he's kind of saying well
where where where we at you know you're
gonna be mean to me gonna be nice
and I was encouraged if you want the man
back be warm be receptive meet him for a
coffee
that's a day meet him for a sandwich
that's a day and have a couple of those
with him and then say you know where do
you see it's going this is spelled
amazing the past few days where do you
see us going and if he's like I'm not
sure you know but I like seeing you too
but I don't want to jump back into
anything we had a lot of problems okay
all right well that's fine with me so
now your quantum dating your dating this
guy you're seeing him once a week and
hopefully you're dating a lot to other
men until someone wants to put on an
offer and claim you okay Oh Michelle
says I usually practice receiving arrows
by smiling anymore tips on how I could
practice receiving arrows whilst out and
about I think that's a good one smiling
I have a video out there that I recently
I think within the past month or two
where I teach you to smile do the head
tilt do the nod with your chin this head
Bob thing the head tilts a big one also
just you know have your energy open if
you're up in your head and you're just
really focusing on actions or you're
thinking try to just drop down your body
you know even if you're getting out of
your car and you're gonna go grocery
shop like what am I feeling in my body
right now you know put down your phone
what am I feeling in my body stay in
your body all right
namaste if you are somewhere in a
location where you feel there is no one
to date you that could be true it might
mostly be true but what you think is way
more pop way more causing problems than
reality look I found my husband moved
here from Iowa in North Carolina how did
that happen it's the same thing there
are men moving to your town right now
that are ready to date you you got to
get your energy right get your head out
of what's wrong and focus on what it is
you do want to feel ladies before you
open your dating app before you read a
man's profile what are you thinking what
are you thinking in that moment pay
attention to your thoughts and switch
them around try to get to something more
positive and just be open what if there
was no wrong and everything happening in
your life was right and even when
something was wrong it was just a
temporary detour that's what it's like
to be guided by faith and you can live
your life that way all the time
comfortable secure guided by faith
guided by what you know is right and
true in your heart you just have to stop
and drop into your body and find out
what you're feeling I hope that helps
Joanne says if the hot gold got hot and
cold guy reaches back out after a month
should you go on a date if they asked um
yeah totally I would go on one more date
with him and feel like well this is a
great date I had a wonderful time and
this really felt wonderful and then if
he reaches out three months later three
weeks later say oh you know it would
feel wonderful to go out with you I had
so much from the last time but I'm
looking for a regular dating
relationship and I only hear from you
every month or so that's not what I want
to do it I think we're just not on the
same
Paige what do you think and then give
him a chance to talk about it you can
learn more about that in FEMM tools for
dating that's
femm it stands for feminine energy
mindset method! (Link below) someone asked about
dropping down in your body wow that's a
really complicated thing because it
sounds complicated because it just takes
practice but I have several programs out
there from FEMM tools to ABCs to get him
back to new man manifesto even my ebook,
"500 ways to talk to a man" I have so many
resources out there ladies for
self-study at home that you got to just
kind of keep going over this stuff over
and over again because most of us stop
being in our bodies when we were
probably anywhere from ages three to
eight and we got up in our masculine
mind what are some signs that a man
wants you to be his girlfriend well
personally I'm not too keen on being
your girlfriend because you can get
locked down do you know how many times a
week I get emails and people tell me
we've been dating we've been in a
relationship I've been his girlfriend
for 10 years so girlfriend is a very
temporary situation I mean unless you're
like 19... if you want to be a wife it's
important that you..... girlfriend is
committed relationship and it's a
temporary thing to make sure that
relationships moving into marriage or
some sort of civil ceremony if that is
what you want and again ABCs to get him
is a great program for that so is femme
alright someone asked me about their
long-distance relationship here's what I
feel about long-distance relationships
don't do it
it's the biggest way to cheat yourself
out of your years of your life on just a
time wasting okay you got to go live
near each other I just had a client not
too long ago get married and when I
first told her that she was gonna have
to move from her country to go live near
with this man she said Adrian everyone's
gonna think I'm crazy
I'm like well you got to do it you got
to live near each other and date so
anyway he said he's not available so
soon so I stopped contacting him he was
the most amazing man I've ever met
you're gonna meet other amazing men if a
man is so amazing
he will want to move mountains to be
with you he'll be willing to change his
zip code to be with you it's likely
you've just been triggered by the
distance and the crumbs and it's feeling
so amazing because you're love-starved
and when you're love-starved and you
finally get love it feels so good but
really it's it's gonna feel so much
better when you have a guy who's local
coming by your house taking you out on
dates fixing things in your house
helping you spending the weekend with
you that's gonna feel really good
so Pam said I care about a man that
treats me like a goddess but my feelings
aren't all there yet and he's moving
faster then I can what can I do to open
myself up more to a relationship
so keep quantum dating I talked about
having 5 min that your conten dating
this guy sounds like he's the number
three guy so number one guy is the guy
that you're totally into but it just
doesn't come around so much guy number
two is a close second but like there's
some there's some kind of hang-up with
him and then guy number three is like
always there wants to be there what's a
totally date you read commit and you're
still kind of hung up on other guys or
just not sure about him and that's why
you want to have five the other two guys
are just like coffee dates they're just
other men your quantum dating with they
come in they come out they come in they
come out you know and it just sounds
like it's just maybe keep quantum dating
because you know with my husband he
really just kept coming around and
coming around Jeff kept just coming over
and making plans with me he'd call me up
to make a date with me and he would also
make another date with me on that phone
he'd show up at my house you know with
Thai food he'd take me in my puppies to
the park and he just kept spending time
with me and Jen I just realized one day
like I can't live without this person
and I never thought it would be him I've
never thought it would be him someone
had said just now I saw that it said
you've mentioned not to cook or clean
well that's not true
you can cook and clean you don't want to
do things to make someone love you you
don't want to cook for them so they will
love you you don't want to clean for
them so they will think you're amazing
and love you if you want to clean you
clean cuz you want to clean if you want
to cook you cook because you want to
cook you come first you're the goddess
on the pedestal all right everybody I'm
gonna enjoy my glass of water and read
my book I hope this video on accepting
arrows and getting quality men to flirt
with you as hell
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