So attraction, attraction's interesting.
If we were to venn diagram attraction so if
we were to put all the different nonverbals
of attraction, all the different nonverbals
of interest, and all the nonverbals of anxiety,
you are going to tend to see some sort of
overlap.
So attraction and anxiety in terms of nonverbals
have constant overlap.
Theory being that when you're really attracted
to somebody you're anxious because the person
across from you you perceive to have value,
you perceive them to be interesting and they
intimidate you or you like them in some way.
So anxiety on a first date, if you see anxiety
in the person it tends to be good.
Think about it, if you're not attracted to
somebody you don't care about them, do you
actually get nervous or anxious?
Usually no.
It's usually the people that make a good impression
on you that make you anxious.
So you're going to see nonverbal indications
of anxiety slowly in there.
You'll seem them, you'll seem them in there
and essentially what you're looking for is
they'll tend to go away but in the beginning
they'll be there.
In the beginning you'll see some sort of anxious
behaviors.
