- How do you think your
parents would react
if you brought me home as your partner?
(laughter)
- [Darriel] My god!
Wow!
That, I was not expecting that.
(cards shuffling)
(clicking sound)
(clicking sound)
- [Hex] Recently,
when have you been
the most worried for me and why?
- I know exactly when.
Aw, I feel like crying.
(laughter)
It was when,
you had that really massive bleed.
And they took you to A&E,
and no one could go with you.
Obviously because of COVID, and,
you just sent me that picture
of you with the mask on.
(laughter)
You looked so cute.
(laughter)
And it's like the first time you've been
rushed to hospital and
I've not been there.
I've not been able to be there,
like usually, it doesn't
matter where I am,
what I'm doing, I can, you know,
I can go from work, I can
just get a taxi or whatever.
But, I couldn't, even if I wanted to.
You had to deal with
that on your own, and,
they said that you'd lost like,
three pints of blood, or
something, didn't they?
And said if you had left it another day...
It was probably then, because,
I think if it took you,
like when I can't even remember
the last time I saw you.
Well, I can, actually.
On the seventh of March, but,
I mean like, I can't, like,
I think a lot of people would
feel the same when I say,
if I could go back to the
last time that we hugged.
I would've made it longer.
- When you had this
depression thing in Chile,
I had to go there.
Before that, I never knew
that you had this problem,
we never talked about this.
And I had no, I had the
impression that you are strong
and do your own thing,
but I never knew that
you had this problem.
So when this thing came,
and, well I went to
Chile also, to meet you.
That time I felt really vulnerable,
I felt that I am totally helpless in this.
I could not even think of what to do.
I was totally vulnerable,
and then they found out that,
I used to think that I can handle things.
I can find a way, I can
solve problems, I had,
(laughter)
I know, through life I have
learned so many tricks.
By meeting people, helping others.
But in this case, I was totally clueless.
- So, there was one time
in my life where I thought,
this was the happiest I could ever be.
But, having opportunities
with you like this,
have really surpassed that.
This, right here,
is a symbol of what I used to think
was the happiest we could ever be.
But you have really showed me
that there is so much more.
- The biggest worry that sits
on my shoulders is where,
given the current legal implications
of immigration right now,
and possible talks of a ban,
and whether it will
continue after that, and
just establishing, like
all the legal routes
where some people are like, hey,
you should get an immigration lawyer,
and some people are like,
no, you can do it yourself,
just be smart and diligent.
And there's just so much
conflicting information
coming from every side.
Where some people are like, yeah,
it's gonna be like, nine months.
And some people are gonna be,
yeah, it's gonna be two years.
- Yeah.
- And it's so overwhelming that
I just don't know where to start.
I know the common age old adage of,
you start by taking one
little step at a time.
But we're talking about you or mine
uprooting an entire life.
Your belongings, your connections,
everything social, psychological.
My car, like everything.
And moving it into another country,
I know people have done it before,
but this is the first time
for me and it's terrifying.
- You value everything a bit more
during these weird times.
I would say, yeah, valuing
your relationship at this
time is, like with everything.
Like, you kinda reevaluate everything
and you take, you realize
what you do take for granted,
or, things like that.
What about you?
- No, probably the same.
We had, obviously we saw
each other in February,
had really good fun, and then it's like
(moaning)
and it's like, oh no, but
we'll see each other in March,
and then we'll see each other in May,
and then we'll see each other
in July, so you're like,
really excited about all these things.
So yeah, it makes you realize that
although it's fine doing online,
you kinda do need the face to face meetups
- So yeah, there are
things to look forward to
- I know.
- Like, the UK is so
close to the Netherlands,
that you kinda just never
think about it, but then,
now it's like fuck, it feels far away.
- What do you think is one thing
that we surprisingly have in common?
I have one.
(laughter)
- What do you think?
- Oh, I was gonna say our
relationships with our dads,
like how we want them to be better,
and how like, that was a worry for us
to come back home and be with our dads.
- Yeah.
- The Skin Deep knows--
- Pardon me?
- The Skin Deep knows, like,
how to match people, and--
- They do!
- Like really, yeah, good job.
(laughter)
- Thank you.
(laughter)
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