So, what’s the best way to impress your
date? Especially you girlfriend.. compliments….
Compliments… compliments and more compliments.
Hi I am Rima, welcome to today’s lesson
and today’s lesson is about compliments
that you can use to impress your date, especially
your girlfriend. I have some really nice words,
which you can use and make sure that your
date fall for you and how? Old compliments
like pretty, beautiful have become old school
and boring, I have some interesting and amazing
words that you can use and actually earn a
lot of points. So, the first one on my list
is ‘Enticing’, now this word is particularly
enticing which means attractive. So, Imagine
you are going to pick up your date and you
are at her door step and she comes out looking
very very beautiful and you can actually say
something like – “ Wow! You look enticing
tonight”. She’s gonna feel so special,
trust me there’s gonna be a smile on her
face and she’s gonna really enjoy you compliment.
So, make sure you remember this word – ‘Enticing’
which means particularly attractive. So, make
sure your use this word the next time you
see your loved one. Well! Moving on after
enticing, I have ‘Wondrous’ Hmm now what
does ‘Wondrous’ really mean? What do you
think ‘Wondrous mean? Well! ‘Wondrous’
actually is a form of the word wonderful,
so ‘Wondrous’ means wonderful. It’s
just that ‘Wondrous’ sounds more poetic,
it sounds better, it sounds more exotic, so
imagine if you tell your date – You know,
when I look at your eyes, I get this wondrous
feeling. Which means basically you think – she
has wonderful eyes, but when you put it that
way and say things like – firstly look deep
into her eyes and say – You know when I
look at your eyes, I get this wondrous feeling.
She’s gonna think you are like poetic, sophisticated
and so much more… I hope you are….but,
she could think you are way more than you
really are and that could really work for
you. So, make sure you remember ‘Wondrous’
which actually means wonderful, it just sounds
better, more exotic and definitely poetic.
Well! Moving on the next one on my list is
‘Stunning’, Now this is something you
must have heard many many times, this word
has been used everywhere… you know… magazines
talk of stunning actresses, stunning dresses,
stunning pair of shoes, stunning jewellery,
so anything that can stun you…. As in…..imagine
your date walks in and your reaction is like
WOW!!!.. you know… that’s the time you
can use the word ‘Stunning’. So, ‘Stunning’
means somebody that brings about a reaction
of WOW!!! So, someone who is so beautiful,
so attractive, that somebody who stuns you
in that one particular instance and makes
you go WOW!! I just love this. So, you could
use the word stunning, if you are taking your
date on a evening date… you know … it’s
like the evening time, probably wearing evening
wear and you could say something like –“ You
look stunning” and you know what she’s
gonna think? she’s gonna think, WOW!! All
the effort I put in to get ready, to really
really dress up, now that’s paid off for
that one compliment, so make sure you actually
remember ‘Stunning’ and use it well. Now,
moving on I have the next one on my list and
this one is ‘Elegant’ I think this word
just sounds really good, don’t you think?
You look very elegant. Oh! My God, you’re
so elegant. Wow! those are really elegant
shoes. I love your bag, It’s so elegant.
Just the sound of this word is so elegant,
you know… and you know what it means? It
means, graceful or ladylike. Now, this one
is a huge compliment to any woman. So, Imagine
a girl who is been called ladylike or graceful
, so it sounds really really good to her ears
and I’m sure she’s going to enjoy this
compliment. So, make sure you really memorize
this one, it’s simple and it’s elegant,
the word for you ‘Elegant’ which means
graceful and ladylike. Well that’s four
words for you – Enticing which means attractive.
Wondrous meaning wonderful. Stunning, one
that makes you go WOW!!!. And Elegant which
means graceful and ladylike. Moving on I have
four more interesting words, which will definitely
win you some awesome points with your date
especially your girlfriend. So, the first one
being 'Breath-taking', now has it ever happened
to you especially on the first date, imagine
you are going for a blind date, you see this
lovely lady walking past and you think…
Is she the one? No, she’s not the one. Then
you see this slightly drab looking lady..
you know… coming towards you, and you are
like … okay…. I hope she’s not the one
and she passes you by and the third one comes
in and she is beautiful, she’s gorgeous,
and she comes up to you and says “ Hi, I’m
the one for tonight” and you are like, Oh!
My God- I just lucked out, could I get any
luck here tonight and imagine for one instance
your breath just goes in and you are like
UHH, so you inhale, but you sort of forget
to exhale because she’s so beautiful in
front of your eyes, now that is called ‘Breath-taking’
– somebody you find very very beautiful.
So, Imagine you’ve already gotten lucky
for the night, you’ve a date with this beautiful
woman and she has the most amazing smile.
So, when she flashes her smile or maybe each
time she flashes her smile, you feel like
… Oh! My God my breath is stuck in my chest,
she is so breath-taking, now that is the word
you wanna use. You could say something like
– You know what, every time you smile it’s
just breath-taking and trust me even the strongest
and the most confident of women will blush when you
call them ‘Breath-taking’. So, this one’s
definitely a star one and definitely make
sure you remember this one – it’s called
‘Breath-taking’ I think it’s very romantic
to use this word. Well! Moving on there’s
‘Ravishing’. Now, ‘Ravishing’ means
delightful. You know somebody who’s appearance
, somebody who’s talks, somebody who’s
mannerism and personality you find particularly
delightful, you could tell that lady – You’re
just a ravishing woman, aren’t you? and
she’s gonna feel like she’s on the top
of the world, she’s gonna feel like a princess,
like a queen even. So make sure you use ‘Ravishing’
with great care, now this is one word you
just don’t use on anyone. You save this
one for that special someone. So, that’s
breath-taking and ravishing for you. Moving
on there’s ‘Striking’, you know this
one is particularly special, because this
word can be used for a man and also a woman,
you could use it on a co-worker or on your
date, on a man or a woman and it will be just
fine, it works both ways, and it is very interesting
how you use the word ‘Striking’. So, you
could walk up to a co-worker early morning
especially a Monday morning when someone’s
feeling really down and out, blue and lazy
and say something like – You know what?
You look particularly striking today, and
that would work just fine. So, ‘Striking’
is a word that you can use to compliment somebody
in a business setting or a personal setting
and it would work both ways. So, ‘Striking’
actually means impressive. Someone who’s
appearance or manner of talking is very very
impressive or someone who’s dressed impressive
could be called ‘Striking’. So, you could
say something like – “ That young man
there, in his early twenties… now he has
a striking appearance” or … you know “ That
wonderful blonde lady sitting there at that
desk, she has such a striking appearance”
or “ She has such striking features” and
both would work just fine. So, ‘Striking’
is a word you need not reserve just for your
loved one, you can go out and hand it over
to anybody as a compliment and it will work
just fine. Now, moving on the last one on
my list for today ‘Lovely’, now this one
is being used in so many places, it’s been
over used, under used, used for centuries
and you know what it still sounds lovely.
So, ‘Lovely’ means somebody who brings
out the love in you. So although you can use
it as a general compliment like between girlfriends
it’s very normal to tell your girl friend,
especially if you are a woman, you look lovely
and that’s just fine, but if you are a man,
you must reserve ‘Lovely’ for somebody
who’s really captured your heart. So, you
could actually speak to your fiancé or you
spouse, your wife , your girlfriend and tell
her something like “ Yes, my lovely”,
“Whatever you want my lovely” and trust
me that would be just like music to her ears.
So, yes ‘Lovely’ means someone who brings
out the love and affection within you and
that’s the word that you use for your loved
one, especially. So, I am gonna go over the
words one more time, there’s ‘Enticing’
which means attractive. ‘Wondrous’ meaning
wonderful. ‘Stunning’ which means somebody
who brings out the reaction like WOW! And
of course ‘Elegant’ which means graceful
or ladylike. ‘Breath-taking’ someone who’s
so beautiful, that you probably find it difficult
to breathe in their presence. And of course
there’s ‘Ravishing’ somebody who you
find absolutely delightful. ‘Striking’
which means impressive, now this one can be
used on a man or a woman, a colleague, a co-worker
or your loved one and it would work both ways.
And of course there’s ‘Lovely’ someone
who brings out a lot of love, care and affection
from within you. So, that’s my list of words
that you can use to impress your date or girlfriend.
Make sure you make a note of these and use
these well, trust me you will appear like
you really really know your art of romance.
Now, this is me Rima signing out for now,
make sure you use these words and use them
well and don’t forget any of them and if
you have something to add, something to say,
if you have more words to share with me, make
sure you write in the comment box below, Thank you..
