 
What’s up?
 
Hey!
 
What are you doing?
 
Uh...
 
I’m just watching the news.
 
You’re watching the news...
Yeah! 'Cause it’s important
to stay informed, Ryan.
Oh yeah!
That does sound informative. 
 
Okay!
So I was doing some research,
I googled “blowjob”,
 
and this is what came up.
Ha! Came up.
Pun intended, am I right?
- What?
- Okay...
Yeah, you should
do your research.
 
No, actually, I don’t.
Because I’ve been
watching lots of porn
and I’m basically
a sexpert.
 
A sexpert? You?
I know exactly what
guys want and girls want.
 
Hang on.
Did you know that cheerleaders
are always having sex?
Like, all the time.
Ready?
2 - 4 - 6 - 8!
Sex with me will sure be great!
 
Wow! That is a turn-on.
 
Yeah, I know!
And did you know
that you can’t have any hair
if you want to have sex.
Like none!
With guys, it won’t
even go in.
 
I’m pretty sure it will.
Do you think I can
leave my eyebrows?
 
You should.
And you have to be
really flexible to have sex.
 
Like really, really flexible.
 
Whoa!
 
Camille! Are you okay?
 
Okay!
That was option #1,
I’ve been practicing my moan.
What do you think
about option #2?
 
Ah!
 
Ah! Hah!
 
Yes, that’s great!
 
That’s good. Uh...
You know, watching porn
sometimes is fine,
but it’s not like
instructional or anything.
- No.
- Yeah.
I mean, it’s real,
but it’s not like...
 
Really real.
Like not every guy in real life
has a ginormous penis.
 
Right! Yeah.
Just like not all ginormous
boobs in porn are natural.
 
Wait, what?
 
Oh!
 
That’s a good moan!
Pornography refers
to all explicit depictions
of sexual organs and sexual acts
intended to arouse. 
For many reasons, it’s different
from real life sexual experiences.
Here’s a list of reasons
why pornography isn’t real life.
In porn, partners often
become aroused in a few seconds
 
and have sex very quickly.
They don’t communicate
or even take the time
 
to gradually touch each other.
Not to mention,
condoms are seldom used.
Very often, the actors’ bodies
all look the same,
giving the false impression
that we should all look like them.
In porn videos, what they do,
with whom and in what order
 
is planned in advance.
When filming starts,
everyone follows the script,
and may not consult
or listen to each other’s feelings. 
In traditional porn, relationships
often aren’t egalitarian.
As if the desires
and needs of men
were more important
than those of women.
Sometimes the
sexual acts depicted
even show one person
controlling
or being violent
with their partner. 
In traditional porn, there are often
no emotions or feelings.
Forget about soft words, simple kisses,
or even eye contact!
And in porn, no one
refuses to do anything. 
There’s often no consent
negotiated.
These shock images
are intended
to quickly arouse
those who consume porn,
and earn billions of dollars
for those who produce it. 
In real life,
there is no editing. 
 
Sex isn’t perfect.
It requires adjustments,
communication,
 
connection and respect.
Keep in mind that it is
by being attentive 
to your desires and needs,
and those of your partner,
that you can have a healthy
and realistic sex life.
Real sex is real.
It’s happening to you.
You’re feeling it.
You’re experiencing it.
I feel that porn is more of an urge
that you kind of get out.
Or you’re seeking something
that you can’t have.
Porn is just
very impersonal.
What is the difference
between porn and reality?
 
Literally everything!
So the expectations
set on women and men...
In real life, there is
a lot less staging,
 
a lot less moaning.
 
There’s a lot of fakery.
Porn is extremely
toxic, in my opinion.
I really think that depends on what
kind of porn you’re watching.
There’s so much that they don’t
show in mainstream porn.
For example, how you get
to the sexual act.
Asking consent.
They don’t show that!
 
Porn is dangerous.
Porn can affect you
subconsciously in your psyche,
in the way that
you approach sex.
I myself had
a period of time
where I said that
I have to idealize,
or I have to strive toward being
like one of these porn stars,
being like one of these
porn stars, just physically.
In porn, it’s all just perfect people
doing perfect sex.
So, the bodies, the boobs,
the butt, the curves,
 
the hairless bodies...
I feel like there’s a lack
of foreplay in it, sometimes.
I don’t understand the connections
between the characters.
You don’t see when
they put the condom on,
you don’t see when
they take it off...
 
Everything is fake,
because you just see
the penetration,
 
you just see oral sex,
and you don’t see
the in-betweens.
It’s like a gamified version
of sex when I watch porn.
If nothing about it
was exaggerated,
and it was just
like real life,
 
probably people wouldn’t
take the time out of
their day to watch it.
It’s not realistic at all,
because...
You’re not going
to bang the pizza guy
because you wanted
extra pepperoni!
Real-life sex is not going to be
like what you see in porn.
 
It’s not gonna be like...
Like, some foreplay...
It’s not just, poof!
Weird things are shoved
into their pussies, like...
It just doesn’t feel natural
and it doesn’t feel like...
It’s something
that’s enjoyable.
In porn, immediately, right off
the bat, you’re like, boom!
Here’s all of me,
doggy style!
Which is really
not how it is.
It all looks so clean,
but in real life...
 
Sex is messy, it’s...
Nobody smells good
during sex.
When you’re having sex in real life,
you shouldn’t be acting.
 
You should be enjoying,
you should be
in the moment.
It should be something
that you’re grateful for.
It shouldn’t be something
that you’re acting about.
